Mac DeMarco meeting his father outside gig at The Constellation Room at the Observatory in Santa Ana. Mac played there April 6, 2013. (Thanks to darthdj31)
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@brokendreams45627 жыл бұрын
Side note: I should prob mentioned to the ones wondering that this clip. Is few years old. I don´t know the exact year? Maybe someone else does. But im guessing 2013-2014? It´s taken from the "MAC DEMARCO BRGRTV SPOTLIGHT" interview. The place being Constellation Room at the Observatory in Santa Ana ( Thanks to darthdj31)
@brokendreams45627 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the year! Also I tried reading most comments here.Love to all the ones going through the same thing. And please remember to be kind to one another.
@darthdj317 жыл бұрын
Hey the ending of the video made me realize that's the Constellation Room at the Observatory in Santa Ana. Mac played there April 6, 2013. Definitely in SoCal because his dad talks about going to the Redwoods the next day, and Mac is going to San Diego. He played in San Diego at the Hideout April 7th, 2013, as he said he would in the video.
@keyboardwarrior33457 жыл бұрын
Bushmastr Ashton
@auteereign13327 жыл бұрын
Okay good I was gonna get hella mad if I missed Mac coming to SD
@Lil_ched366 жыл бұрын
Who's darthdj31?????
@jasonmcneil63577 жыл бұрын
this feels like a scene from a movie
@heitorphoddah135717 жыл бұрын
you never think the shitty dads shown in movies/tv shows actually exist until you either see one or accept your dad is one of them
@jasonmcneil63577 жыл бұрын
Heitor Martins preach
@zacxvx7 жыл бұрын
It's like Get Him To The Greek
@charliekelly82257 жыл бұрын
yeah, it's definitely shot like some mumblecore flick i'd watch on Netflix when i'm really baked at 4 am.
@anzulem37525 жыл бұрын
Jason McNeil it does, like one of those super realistic super sad indie movies
@Cesspool1277 жыл бұрын
"come on in" "no, but i'll be back" damn dog this remind me of that fresh prince episode :'(
@ryanmcdaniel92066 жыл бұрын
To hell with him !!!!’ Lol
@randyortonsdickbulge5 жыл бұрын
Yeah...
@davidhyrman1445 жыл бұрын
@@randyortonsdickbulge what a username...
@flexpac51505 жыл бұрын
Cool your jets
@ryanpatrick19845 жыл бұрын
Don’t even mention that episode. :(
@vitropereira7 жыл бұрын
he didn't even get out of the car
@boppob13437 жыл бұрын
:(
@MrLarryhoover4256 жыл бұрын
Vitor Pereira I'm dead.....
@miscellaneousmedia37536 жыл бұрын
Shit dude, that was the first sign that a stranger could have walked by and seen that something was wrong...
@magneto446 жыл бұрын
damn :(
@Jesse-fk3xc6 жыл бұрын
well they did roll up on him with a camera
@Dom-pg3sf7 жыл бұрын
*'i gotta go. i'll be back'*
@Leah-cu6pr7 жыл бұрын
gwako 😭
@clintonleonard51877 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart.
@ledzeppelinfan10017 жыл бұрын
Opulence Manifest pansy
@clintonleonard51877 жыл бұрын
You never had anyone abandon you, I bet, ledzeppelinfan1001.
@ledzeppelinfan10017 жыл бұрын
Clinton Leonard my dad. Its all reletive to how people deal with it, hence why im so cold about all of this. My older brother is the one who too all the brunt of sadness. the way I see it is dealing with it in 2 ways, one is turning into an alcoholic and drug addict, which is what my brother did (thankfully hes turning around) or what I did. be cold about it and move on.
@jazzupthattriad12577 жыл бұрын
I see a man who's carrying a lot of guilt and repressed memories. Father-son relationships are brutal to a lot of men.
@martinet19856 жыл бұрын
believe me, they are...
@olas5916 жыл бұрын
I know
@ImRefraction5 жыл бұрын
@xSteamPunk lol you dont get it
@ImRefraction5 жыл бұрын
@xSteamPunk sorry i shouldnt have added that lol its not funny my bad couldnt figure out how to edit my comment
@hippiecheezburger54575 жыл бұрын
Marcin Ratajczyk how did Mac ever get through it? Actually blows my fucking mind, not that I’m soo close with my old man but at least he was here and was here to love my mother :(
@BlueChaosEmerald7 жыл бұрын
Watching him fade away
@RandomRabbit0076 жыл бұрын
Fuck. What a song. Amazingly vulnerable for him to do
@kitty-rf9zu3 жыл бұрын
🥺
@VictorLugosi3 жыл бұрын
@@RandomRabbit007 if vulnerable means cheesy and gay then yes
@RandomRabbit0073 жыл бұрын
@@VictorLugosi wow youre so edgy!
@moonageproductions19997 жыл бұрын
just shows how much of a sweetheart Mac really is
@BLADE200143 жыл бұрын
Damn three years and no comments
@leonardoleon123453 жыл бұрын
one month and no new comments
@alexcollas91483 жыл бұрын
@@leonardoleon12345 here I am the new comment
@zechariyahgodschild72583 жыл бұрын
@Pine Trees Bwaha ha You're old news buddy
@Radical_edweird3 жыл бұрын
Needed a new comment
@nicktosti74877 жыл бұрын
Tracklist 1:50 Another One 2:08 My Old Man
@iancarter29477 жыл бұрын
best joke
@evan83737 жыл бұрын
I'm crying actual tears
@c1arit47 жыл бұрын
Nick Toss i've realized that too 😢
@iancarter29477 жыл бұрын
Project Man salty ass mang
@truthpurpose7 жыл бұрын
+Project Man ????????
@SDC_BIGTIME7 жыл бұрын
"Ha, another one." ... damn, man.
@batabatonica5 жыл бұрын
what
@justinnep5 жыл бұрын
batabatonica it’s the name of one of his songs
@meinkopf38555 жыл бұрын
@@justinnep this footage is previous to the song... doesn't it make you wonder?
@justinnep5 жыл бұрын
Mein Kopf lol actually yeah, i feel like another one is just a random love song though. A lot of his songs from This Old Dog are about his dad though.
@Bladee_Runner5 жыл бұрын
BOOM
@blindjoe83007 жыл бұрын
man it's hard bein a human dude
@batabatonica5 жыл бұрын
.
@MyloXyloto945 жыл бұрын
It’s not hard to love something you brought into the world.
@egg25205 жыл бұрын
@@batabatonica .
@Adrhodes4425 жыл бұрын
Trying acknowledging that in the public sphere and see what happens to you...
@billys60275 жыл бұрын
@@MyloXyloto94 but what if you dont
@RollingRollies7 жыл бұрын
this hits hard
@ledzeppelinfan10017 жыл бұрын
OlI Horne nah.
@RollingRollies7 жыл бұрын
o k
@jamesdoctor80794 жыл бұрын
ledzeppelinfan1001 lol dude you’re a psychopath
@Jonbombs7 жыл бұрын
Handled that like a gent
@petermarfleet1087 жыл бұрын
Hello
@MrLarryhoover4256 жыл бұрын
Jonbombs - yeah, Mac was the bigger man
@jazzvazquez19285 жыл бұрын
Well with a parent like tht that disappears and is always in and out of your life thats how you tend to treat em. Just kind of not taking their promises or what they say in general seriously. Just be nice cuz theres no point in being a dick, it wont erase the memories. Its better to just be cool and take it in stride instead of continuing to get hurt
@Yo_Jon3 жыл бұрын
@@jazzvazquez1928 this right here. Know it hurts. Just keep playing along for everyone’s sake
@ronantrelstad38442 жыл бұрын
@@petermarfleet108 hello
@domgreen18597 жыл бұрын
1:09 "oh no, I've got to go, I'll be back" they way he said it so fast really just made me shake my head. I don't know if he did actually come back but I feel like he didn't... love you Mac
@swamplife31484 жыл бұрын
Of course he didnt come back mab
@dawngentry50744 жыл бұрын
That's right 👍
@dawngentry50744 жыл бұрын
Ice cream Macs
@tomislavhorvat14194 жыл бұрын
he even touches his nose while saying that, an obvious sign someone is lying
@ss11111ss3 жыл бұрын
@@tomislavhorvat1419 the idea that nose touching and face hiding shows lying has been debunked as bs.
@jahsh10625 жыл бұрын
I don't think people who have their dads in their lives understand how hard this hits
@fatherfigurefuneral8 ай бұрын
no way? really?
@pierrelemagnifique2058 ай бұрын
Only fatherless people can relate 😂
@mikevick10728 ай бұрын
💀💀💀
@stealthbastard88378 ай бұрын
@@mikevick1072the skull emoji, so 2023
@mikevick10728 ай бұрын
@@stealthbastard8837 what?
@heinguy85607 жыл бұрын
Lol I love Pierce. "Hey, I'm Pierce. I play the bass"
@sratus7 жыл бұрын
What's weird or lovable about that? He is Pierece and he was playing bass.
@GarageLessons7 жыл бұрын
Ur mom^
@Veraknis6 жыл бұрын
muskoka days The poor dude is just trying to break the tension for his pal haha, shout out bass players.
@egg25205 жыл бұрын
That's all the introduction a man needs
@turq18245 жыл бұрын
As a bass player it is in your essence the moment you pick up that instrument. You actually need to legally add on "I play the bass" to your maiden name.
@conorclohessy71497 жыл бұрын
That fake laugh Mac does when his dad makes a bad joke is so sad after listening to the newest album ...
@Mclemonade7 жыл бұрын
Conor Clohessy why is it sad
@conorclohessy71497 жыл бұрын
Lennon Juice Just the fact he feels the need to humour his dads jokes when the man has done very little for him all his life
@ledzeppelinfan10017 жыл бұрын
Conor Clohessy not really.
@conorclohessy71497 жыл бұрын
ledzeppelinfan1001 Well, that's just your opinion. Please, let me have mine too.
@ledzeppelinfan10017 жыл бұрын
I say not really because it just isnt. Mac looks absolutely fine and dandy, and hes gotten this far without a father. (Granted we dont know how he is behind closed doors, but still) He has 2 ways of being, a huge piece of trash and no better then his father, (Like my own brother) or he can push forward and be better then his father. (Like I'm trying to).
@yost112ty7 жыл бұрын
daddy's in the basement, cooking up something fine.
@makenziechisholm85457 жыл бұрын
mixing up the medicine
@dinomyte08997 жыл бұрын
i'm on the pavement thinkin bout the government
@ALEKSALEKSALEKSALEKSALEKS7 жыл бұрын
the man in the trench coat badge out laid off
@ggoat58837 жыл бұрын
says hes got a bad cough wants to get it paid off
@woofwoof13457 жыл бұрын
look out kid, its something you did
@abeln11675 жыл бұрын
i literally thought it was a stranger talking to mac and he was gonna see his dad later.....
@Aaron-fb6mb4 жыл бұрын
Same I was waiting for him to go see his dad then I noticed how much time wasnt left in the video
@ricardoribadeneira7 жыл бұрын
"And even though we barely know each other It still hurts watching him fade away, watching him fade away Watching him fade away, watching him fade away" Lyrics from This Old Dog's last song :(
@sophiaanderson8107 жыл бұрын
i can only imagine how weird that must be. kind of sucky to have it filmed
@rowanrockwell80307 жыл бұрын
Facts. Not really respectful
@boppob13437 жыл бұрын
I mean he hasn't seen his dad in that long and he didnt even get out of the car to see him
@dASDFGism7 жыл бұрын
Rowan Rockwell I mean, he filmed it with his friends, not some rabid fan prying on his privacy
@omnicul6 жыл бұрын
Mad sucky
@batabatonica5 жыл бұрын
.
@keanujpeg13887 жыл бұрын
Mac makes a album about his father and then this pops up, fuck man
@1944FilmProductions7 жыл бұрын
This vid is ancient, this was during the Salad Days tour if i'm not mistaken.
@patrickgosling3757 жыл бұрын
it was during the 2 period but still an old vid
@Momo-ek1xy7 жыл бұрын
All the upvotes for this comment smh
@keanujpeg13887 жыл бұрын
i meant to say it popped up in my recommended
@emiliamotolinia9848 Жыл бұрын
I love how Mac stays so down to earth even though this man kept refusing to be there for him, watching him fade away.
@llawliet1528 Жыл бұрын
real shit
@Kurups10110 ай бұрын
i have to assume the shit is complicated as fuck man
@horusgaming879710 ай бұрын
Oh god is that what the songs about?💔
@shodema9 ай бұрын
pun intended?
@edgcmb19239 ай бұрын
@@horusgaming8797it’s what the whole album is about
@warmandscratchy7 жыл бұрын
I really wish he had gotten out of the car...
@Professionalyoutubeviewer6 жыл бұрын
Chelsea Baker yeah, this whole scenario felt pretty cold. I know Mac had told people not to demonize his father, that he still loves him, but still. Give your son a hug dude...
@fieldchief5 жыл бұрын
Fuck off with ur hugs
@Yonverpage4 жыл бұрын
Cus he's a coward
@kevind24094 жыл бұрын
Hes the kinda guy that just won't no matter how bad you need him to.
@4Morfius4 жыл бұрын
Noe'sNoseKnows you missed those hugs eh buddy
@youngtaco18927 жыл бұрын
Canady
@papayer5 жыл бұрын
Alberta
@JesusFriedChrist5 жыл бұрын
Round here we say _’Lberta_ eh.
@maxmonas71313 жыл бұрын
His smile after the guy said that was priceless.
@Skrenja3 жыл бұрын
@@JesusFriedChrist Berta, bud.
@AnthonyRecenello5 жыл бұрын
The most heartbreaking video on KZfaq.
@noobmaster69vstheworld533 жыл бұрын
I know, he was not able to use the card from Canady, so heartbreaking
@HokkiPokki11303 жыл бұрын
😒
@user-wr3zb9zr3d3 жыл бұрын
yeah sucked he couldn’t get cigs
@Geoooooooooo3 жыл бұрын
@@user-wr3zb9zr3d OH MY GOD I THOUGHT NO ONE ELSE HAD THIS PFP I LOVE YOU
@dadasha3 жыл бұрын
FOH!
@seblo57697 жыл бұрын
i had a similar moment outside of a grocery store, i was with my girlfriend at the time and i told her, i think that guy loading bags in his truck is my dad...she was all excited and said lets go up to him i was like no its been over 7yrs last time we spoke, she convinced me and we went over and my dad looked like he saw a ghost and didnt know where to hide, he said hi and said how are you son i said ok, i helped him with the rest of his groceries i introduced him to my girlfriend and wow was that awkward, he got into his truck i said goodbye but when when he was driving away he said "you have a beautiful girlfriend and you look great son, im sorry" and drove away...i walked away, but when i looked over to my girlfriend she was crying like a baby, i told her its ok an she said no its not...
@thehighscry84096 жыл бұрын
Seb Lo Man, this brings a tear to my eye..
@fleshyspeakers6 жыл бұрын
fuck
@jasminelopez84506 жыл бұрын
y'all made me cry fucc
@Joeezyy97_6 жыл бұрын
:,(
@_solange6 жыл бұрын
Been there too
@m47kr3nt0n4 жыл бұрын
"Hi I'm Pierce" You can feel he's breaking the tension there
@jacksonmorris94347 жыл бұрын
you ever seen the scene in the fresh prince of bel-air where will is about to go on a trip with his father and his father just leaves? this is essentially it
@BarfyMan_3627 жыл бұрын
Jackson Morris that episode will still make me cry I'm sure of it
@Ryanbrio7 жыл бұрын
s4 ep24
@canogaparque8185 жыл бұрын
Damn
@forcedentry20104 жыл бұрын
Best episode of that entire series and probably one of Will Smith's best scenes.
@popolbruh82634 жыл бұрын
@@forcedentry2010 easily the best scene in his entire career
@SRNF5 жыл бұрын
Mac's dads lack of interest with Mac's desperation to spend time is such a powerful clash of emotions. Truly was a terrible father ... RIP.
@manuelmateo33924 жыл бұрын
As far as any of us know.
@terryprofitt69023 жыл бұрын
@@manuelmateo3392 yeah we don't know shit
@sunkintree Жыл бұрын
@@terryprofitt6902 It's obvious
@Ronam0451 Жыл бұрын
@@sunkintree okay psychiatrist
@CantTellYou Жыл бұрын
He even gave him the “I’ll be right back, just going to the store for some milk and cigs” 😞
@shaurya66016 жыл бұрын
Didn't even get out to hug his boy. Sigh.
@fbskier206 жыл бұрын
Doc Roid what a pos
@manuelmateo33924 жыл бұрын
There's a lot behind this we just don't know.
@jeffprice43765 жыл бұрын
I'm 36 and had never even seen a photo of my father. My grandfather died a few months ago (my father's step father who raised him). I went to the funeral and of course my father was there. He approached me after eyeballing me from afar for about half an hour. All he said was "I haven't seen you since you were about this big" holding his band down by his knee even though I wasn't even walking the last time he'd seen me. He then said "it's good to see you" and then went back to his seat. After the service was over, I walked out into the hallway, he saw me, turned and ran full speed to the parking lot. He had a long history of abusing women and children and i'd always built him up in my mind to be some tall, handsome player type since I've heard so many stories about him sleeping around and running off between women and manipulating them. But really he was a short, sad looking old dude who clearly doesn't have anything going for him in life. It was an awkward experience but I was glad to see him for what he really is instead of the picture I'd painted in my mind.
@jernie93844 жыл бұрын
I felt this my dude
@dragonx13x4 жыл бұрын
ty for sharing that story man.
@theuberman71704 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry.
@dudercud444 жыл бұрын
this was powerful man. giving that i have a son now i never want to be a father like that. i hope you don’t either, we take these things that happen to us and use that experience for our future. Have a good day man
@maxmallett4 жыл бұрын
@@dudercud44 It's our job to learn from our fathers so we can become better ones, and then our kids will do the same, and so on and so forth.
@guxxi97463 жыл бұрын
His dad sounds like an alcoholic implying why mac mentioned the beers. He really wanted his pops to stay
@willgrowdon97753 жыл бұрын
Damn
@Analoguebubblebath893 жыл бұрын
My life is shit. I'm a mess. But my dad is always there when I need him. I'm lucky. I wouldn't give that up for all the success and cash. Love you mac. You deserve better
@nyko963110 ай бұрын
hey man I hope you are doin well
@IndigoMassey10 ай бұрын
that's good that you're grateful for your dad, mine died a while ago
@nyko963110 ай бұрын
@@IndigoMasseymay he rest well
@Analoguebubblebath8910 ай бұрын
@@nyko9631 Thank you man! I completely forgot about this comment. I’m now 17 months sober from drugs and alcohol and my life is a lot better. Thank you x
@Analoguebubblebath8910 ай бұрын
@@IndigoMassey sorry to hear that
@TwoTwoFourSix4 жыл бұрын
“Why he don’t want me man”
@lois16774 жыл бұрын
I tried holding back my tears until I read this and now I cry like a baby needing love.
@Moon-littt4 жыл бұрын
Ok Willard
@kelvinrods68885 жыл бұрын
“And I’d say see you later, if I thought I’d see you later” mac’s own lyrics to his father.
@BrotheriZz7 жыл бұрын
"When you gunna come back...how long you gunna be..." Damn...all he wants is to be with his father...
@washedinsilver17 жыл бұрын
I can´t imagine for my life the strength it must have taken Mac to handle this, as well as he did. He seems to yearn for some sort of acknowledgement from his father. And I don´t know what happened after this. But im not so sure his father really DID come back.. Given his past behaviour/problems in life. Just feeling I had upon watching this. In fairness im sure it was hard on both of them..Sad and heartbreaking. So much love and respect for Mac. he really got that "man of the people"vibe going on.
@brokendreams45627 жыл бұрын
I agree,. I mean he might not have had the best background himself, but he turned that around and made something out of himself His mum should obviously have alot of credit, she raised him damn well :). So many ppl use that as an excuse instead for NOT doing anything. A bit like the underdog going topdog. Gotta respect that indeed :)
@MrJjsonpw7 жыл бұрын
What happened in his past? Im not too sure Im aware.
@mykeehed50967 жыл бұрын
His dad left
@MrSofuskroghlarsen7 жыл бұрын
washedinsilver1 I think a lot of boys (including myself) yearns some acknowledgement, safety and love from our fathers, and It can be shattering If we do not get it. This movie is hardbreaking..
@adili36047 жыл бұрын
Sofus krogh so true
@sethwatson987 жыл бұрын
I don't know anything about Mac Demarco's personal life, but something tells me his relationship with his father is an atypical one. Having lived my whole life without a father I have just gained a lot more respect for Mac. It's a hard thing to do, and anyone who handles it as well as he does has earned my respect
@joelewis91783 жыл бұрын
yeah his dad was never really there for him, which is something that affects him a lot. its super sad
@aarondelacruz53253 жыл бұрын
I’m on the same situation, my father can’t reply a friend request from Facebook.
@xaviersoto51554 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my dad. I used to ask him to come by my moms house and spend time with my sister and I and he would refuse because his wife may get crazy jealous. I get that, but when I bought my own house and asked him if he would come by and spend time now that's my house and there's no reason for his wife to be jealous he gave me some bullshit answer and refused. That shit broke my heart.
@mexozul4 жыл бұрын
That's heartbreaking, man. You just gotta move on, I'd say. If he doesn't wanna be in your life, then let him be. You know you tried your best and now you know that he's the reason you guys didn't have a healthy relationship
@whalebone12066 жыл бұрын
Mac don't deserve this. He's a self made man, and his dad doesn't even bother to get out of the car.
@marcusdurrell10877 жыл бұрын
This is the Fresh Prince scene all over again.
@dumptuckk7 жыл бұрын
I feel bad that they had a camera in his face this entire time. This is kindof a personal moment
@olas5916 жыл бұрын
it was all acting, it was a hidden camera
@Mandeee6 жыл бұрын
olas591 No it's not..
@batabatonica5 жыл бұрын
.
@thatniggagreg65084 жыл бұрын
Mandee it definitely is
@morganfreeman21024 жыл бұрын
that nigga greg you’re an idiot
@emilioortiz5767 жыл бұрын
i see where Mac got his voice from
@mmcc02037 жыл бұрын
Nah, they both got it from old man Viceroy.
@ydduhC6 жыл бұрын
Emilio ortiz Jonathon Richmon bro
@B_SIDES7 жыл бұрын
Ouch. Knowing now how this type of stuff affects mac makes this so much more heart breaking.
@CurvyAries5 жыл бұрын
I love Mac, love his music, sense of humor and personality. He seems like such a sweetheart, like such a chill dude that anyone would be happy to hang with. Watching this clip and reading the comments made me sad though. Reminds me of that song Cat's In The Cradle. Some fathers just have no clue how much their absence/presence makes a difference in their kid's life.
@alexsantos90215 жыл бұрын
Give love to your kids, dudes. That's it.
@oldchicken27 жыл бұрын
Wonder if he actually came back. Something tells me he didn't...
@seancasey95577 жыл бұрын
I am not in anyway knowing of what the scene is really like around Mac, or whatever, but I read somewhere that has happened before.
@TheWaldocrazy7 жыл бұрын
Running on Empty it must've been really hard see him go knowing that he wasn't going to come back to the gig
@TheWaldocrazy7 жыл бұрын
Guy Fieri ok , so if I tell you that your dad is going to the store to buy some cigs Do you think he is going to comeback? Of course it doesn't make sense that he don't comeback
@SwedoBeats7 жыл бұрын
Guy Fieri Dads like that tend to promise things alot and never follow through with them. I would know, unfortunately
@ninjaboy1917 жыл бұрын
My cousin's got a dad like that. sadly. But, hey, my dad has never even reached out to me, so at least you've got something to work your idealizations of your relationship off of/
@sportalcohol7 жыл бұрын
surreal
@Trahopat7 жыл бұрын
he didn't even get out of the car, seriously?
@SamA-oe7ft2 жыл бұрын
This makes me grateful for my dad we don’t always see eye to eye on everything but the support has always been there
@lilired42657 жыл бұрын
Mac: it's canadian the guy: this is from Canady? mac:... 😂😂
@capitainecouillard58893 жыл бұрын
gotta love America
@rickjamesfleet34487 жыл бұрын
I wanna chill with mac play some guitar crack a few cold ones. Just a chill down to earth human being
@byrne85097 жыл бұрын
Cringe
@byrne85097 жыл бұрын
Cringe
@byrne85097 жыл бұрын
+2am Summernite I thought you were gonna go "crack a few cold ones" with Mac? You're fucking pathetic
@HandyDandy67 жыл бұрын
TheStorm People who overuse the word cringe make me cringe.
@rickjamesfleet34487 жыл бұрын
Bonker I'm so sorry that bothers you somehow. Seems like you're the pathetic one that just can't keep scrolling through the comments
@Cutsman5624 жыл бұрын
It’s weird running into your dad when you’re with your friends and you’re not close. I’ve been in this situation a few times. What else but play it cool and be honest? Not everyone gets a good father but everyone must do the best they can with what is handed to them.
@brothajack19934 жыл бұрын
2:09 "thats my old man my pops" I can see in that moment the sadness Mac carries. Why can I see it? Because so many of us have had a moment like this.....Im proud Demarco is happy/successful and has good relationships. Usually people with bad dads carry a wound that never heals.....oh man. Big fan and This Old Dog swan song to his dad.
@Bigbrotherthunder7 жыл бұрын
God damn this is heartbreaking. and to think me and my father never get along but he has always been there for me, regardless of his emotional distance. Makes me feel like a piece of shit, which I am.
@thecrapehanger247 жыл бұрын
You're a human being like the rest of us, not a piece of shit
@thirdeyebell6 жыл бұрын
this is so heartbreaking. i listened to watching him fade away for the first time and cried my eyes out, then came here and cried even more. mac's so strong.
@XxStonedKillerxX6 жыл бұрын
as someone who grew up without a parent, its not that heartbreaking, they have never been there for you, the heartbreak has existed before, your whole life. now thats heartbreaking.
@Nxt.damian9999 ай бұрын
Not everything is about you
@jamesresendiz50185 жыл бұрын
"Make an old man proud of you, who's there left to blame..?" Mac Demarco
@notryan15026 жыл бұрын
I can really relate to that lack of interest, I'm a musician and my parents have never seen me perform. Either they cant be bothered or 11:00pm is just "too late" for them. Feeling like your family has interest in what you do with your life is an under-rated thing. It can mean alot
@BRNardy6 ай бұрын
I understand how infinitely fortunate and lucky I am just to think of how my dad would never just talk to me from inside the car like that, especially if we spent some time apart. He's a trucker, so he's often away from home, doing what he can to provide for us. Whenever he's around, tho, we gather with my mom and brother and go out to get beer, burgers and goodies with whatever cash we all managed to save from our jobs throughout the month. My dad is everything I try to be every day. Everything I do is an attempt to be more and more like him, as much as I possibly can.
@meatwoodflac45265 жыл бұрын
This hurts man, constantly burying feeling and emotion with laughs and see you laters, always keeping up the charade that everything's all good. I love Macs music it helped me during a time when I was becoming a man all on my own, I never realized how much I relate to him.
@InstallaFriend7 жыл бұрын
I didn't even look at the comments and didn't know the context and my first thoughts were 'what a cool supportive dad,' then I scrolled down. I guess I need to take a look at my own relationship with my dad, cause I thought this was normal
@veldt70387 жыл бұрын
It's the fact his dad left him at 5, and couldn't even get out of the car and hug and talk to his own son.
@InstallaFriend7 жыл бұрын
Ahh I didn't know that
@hghalo6 жыл бұрын
Yeah this isn't supportive at all. All his dad's comments here are so surface level. Seems like the bare minimum of what you should say to your own son. *Also don't read my message as targeted towards you, just frustrated toward dads like this
@gwynjustice66646 жыл бұрын
Install a Friend bro dont worry his dad left him at a young age that's why every one is saying this.
@bronyatheistfedora6 жыл бұрын
Install a Friend the meaning of an interaction changes with context.
@dvrds7 жыл бұрын
- We're going to San Diego tomorrow. - Are ya? - Yeah. - What you doing down there? - Playing a show. - *Another one?* (laughs)
@tosinagbi83786 жыл бұрын
i was reading this as it was playing
@FruityGames14 жыл бұрын
Tosin Agbi SAME
@stanley33895 жыл бұрын
i feel like i shouldn’t be watching this
@DngrDan3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my dad. All peace and love. He's there in spirit. Just doesn't like to be in person. And when you do talk to him on those very rare occasions, all he likes to talk about his himself.
@TOTO-vr9hh3 жыл бұрын
its so sad to watch mac watching him fade away
@a7c7773 жыл бұрын
My dad was my best friend and a huge part of my life. He recently passed, but man, the level of importance a father-son relationship on a child is huge. Im really sorry Mac, this is really heavy. You really deserve better than this, but im glad you made it big time regardless. Truly, God bless you mate
@isaacsmith-walker33318 ай бұрын
Couldn't even get out the car.
@GingerKraus5 жыл бұрын
one of my favorite videos on the internet, i come back to this one a lot
@jiggyy7 жыл бұрын
I dunno if this is weird to say considering Mac is a couple months older than me, but I'd be really proud to call him my son.
@user-zg4lp4ep4t7 жыл бұрын
Derek Dumele yes it is weird
@jiggyy7 жыл бұрын
Underdogz. Understandable.
@chiefsmurph7 жыл бұрын
Well i would be awfully proud if Mac Demarco was my cousin's friend's brother.
@CASHXRAT6 жыл бұрын
I'd be proud to have this dude as a great grandfather.
@kane000004 жыл бұрын
I would be grateful if grateful grateful grateful great grateful.
@lisah99926 жыл бұрын
Man my pops and I can’t seem to see eye to eye on about everything. He an old style Mexican dad and he thinks about think in a old fashioned way and I’m the opposite and we end up arguing all the time. I’ve tried to get along and man it sucks. He has good intentions but the world changes and that’s something he doesn’t want to see. I probably shouldn’t be complaining cuz there are others who have had it worse but having him so close but not being able to interact comfortably really hurts.
@amysifuentes555 жыл бұрын
Lisa H immigrant parents be like that dude :-/ it sucks Love them but I don’t love that stubborn mindset they carry when it comes to that
@egg25205 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't call myself old style, but me and my dad are the inverse of that situation. We butt heads on a lot of stuff, some stuff that I feel guilty of afterwards, but I'm glad he's around
@chinoscars56554 жыл бұрын
Thats normal mexican parents don't know how to show affection. Especially in mexico they grow so fast mentally while they're so young. So the parents don't show love or affection.
@popolbruh82634 жыл бұрын
Me and my dad have a pretty weird relationship too. There are some days where we hang out and spend lots of time and talk and stuff. Then there are other days where we basically don't look at each other. I particularly don't like being around him when he's had a few too many shots. I wish our relationship could be more stable and normal but after a reading a lot of the comments on this video, I'm just proud to have a dad at all and that he's still with me. Best of wishes to all.
@Chris-cf2kp6 жыл бұрын
God bless ya Mac, and thank you for your music.
@waltwhitman75452 жыл бұрын
damn. that guy doesn't talk like a father. he talks like that "friend" who always deflects and avoids
@wheatthiccs82735 жыл бұрын
So happy my dad was there for me, despite my grandpa not being there for him. He showed me what sacrifice is and what being a father takes. Now I have a beautiful daughter, I can take that lesson of eternal love and pass it on to her. Thanks dad..
@shadowtime9110 ай бұрын
The fact he still made time for spending quality time with you, teaching you those lessons, giving you those memories, all while committing (and, for such a long time, getting away with!) so many, many, MANY murders...it genuinely almost negates the murders. He may not have shown those women his face (thanks to him wearing that nylon stocking, dyed in blood, over his face) and he may not have shown them even a SHRED of mercy when they weeped and weeped, pleading for him to take off the welded device ( a metal, oily, dripping, torturous fusion of a hypodermic needle and searing hot branding iron) that he'd have strapped to his member (his lil' trademark) and simply "take them" normally, but what he DID show was more important. He showed you a Dad's eternal love and now you can show it to your daughter. He found you worthy of a father's love, unlike the loser in this video and the multitude of pathetically vulnerable comments on here sharing their stories of having troubled relationships with their fathers (if any at all!). This wasn't just a fitting place, but also the PERFECT place to, for no real reason but love, and without consideration for these other bastards, share a little brag. You deserve it. Your father may have turned out to be the "Inject and Burn Rapist" of Montauk, but you still had a Dad. Unlike these fucks.
@haroldbaker5559 ай бұрын
@@shadowtime91 what the god damn hell boy
@Spoojje7 жыл бұрын
i love him man, he's just so lovely.
@kyotodreamz8717 жыл бұрын
Mac seems like a real genuine guy. He just has this old soul about him :D
@themisfitjit20494 жыл бұрын
It’s sad knowing some of us dudes never build a good friendship with our fathers and all we really want is for them to be proud of us one day
@JorgeRamirez-dv5nn6 жыл бұрын
"Not until you see, as the heart grows stronger sometimes love is pushed away" This is odd because this showed up on my YT feed a day after I saw my dad after 3 months of having bailed out on me. He acted as if nothing happened and as if I hadn't struggled with money in the past three months (hilariously, he even got mad at me because I didn't call him). And I actually handled it pretty much like Mac did. And for some reason this is kind of reconforting because I realize that I grew a lot in those months and that there's nothing wrong with the fact that I don't hold hard feelings towards him. Maybe Mac has coped with something I am starting to cope with. Three months are nothing compared to years but my dad has been absent most of my life and so far has managed to make me become very distant despite all my attempts at having a healthy relation with him. And that's realizing that they may not ever change their minds and you have to go on without them. But, I dunno. I'm just some dude who likes Mac's music.
@annaboye13415 жыл бұрын
wtff I was listening to "My Old Man" and read the line "Not until you see, as the heart grows stronger sometimes love is pushed away" in the exact time Mac sung it. creepy af lol
@Gray-rl7yg5 жыл бұрын
Keep growing brother. You will blossom and be in full bloom in this life, continue on and god spee.
@hectorjaimes71955 жыл бұрын
Dammm I recognize that gas station and cashier in the beginning I go there all the time, t’s in Fountain Valley corner of Mile Sqaure on Warner and Brookhurst, crazy
@joserilo85814 жыл бұрын
I live around
@TmanT3214 жыл бұрын
I hope Mac and his dad work through their past. Love you Mac.
@grandmacoraima17564 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to this. My father has been out of my life for years now and sometimes it's better that way. He has such a negative way of thinking and his absence used to make me cry at times. I feel like I've definetly outgrown those feelings because 1. communication goes both ways and I was the one always reaching out 2. He has a very pessimist mentality and isn't supportive at all with my life decisions 3. I don't understand how someone could bring life into this world and ignore that kid for years. Sucks, but cutting off family is a MUST if they don't bring any sense of joy into your life.
@saladdays48837 жыл бұрын
Despite this, Mac has done himself very proud. His charm and music is like no other in this day and age.
@joshuatalbott88403 жыл бұрын
I remember being 17 hadn't seen my dad since I was 4. I ran into my sister in the store who I also hadn't seen in that long. We talked and she told me that my father was wanting to talk to me. He was suffering from alcoholism and that he wanted to just see how I was doing. She gave me his number and I didn't call him. I threw it away.... 2 weeks later he committed suicide. I never got the chance to hear him out or tell him I forgive him for leaving. Even if shit makes you uncomfortable just do it. You'll be better off.
@delusionaldilly3 жыл бұрын
bro, that is so heartbreaking. i hope you're doing better now... i cant imagine. :(
@peepomilk92783 жыл бұрын
:( hope you’re doing good man
@13gta3 жыл бұрын
I'm in a some what same situation. My dad has been trying to leave me since I was little my mom pushed him to give in to us, i idolized him even if he didn't want us. until the day he put hands on my little brother and I beat the shit outta him. Ever since that day I did i hate him and he has been trying to contact me for the past 2 years. Every one tells me to talk to him before I regret it but im not sure I will. I just don't wanna be old and then regret it lol. Sorry to hear that man life has its ups and downs and that must've been a big down for you. Hope you doing better.
@kyleinwood2843 жыл бұрын
❤️
@lepotatoes6 жыл бұрын
He put his father on the guest list.... That makes my heart ache. I can be ur father. I'm only a 19 year old girl, but I swear I'd be a better father. lol.
@ichemosabe4 жыл бұрын
this is some r/nicegirls shit. holy fuck.
@secret_salamanders3 жыл бұрын
@@ichemosabe redditor 😐
@amishtek3 жыл бұрын
as nice as that sounds, it'll never be the same
@brown96713 жыл бұрын
Cringe dude
@leonardoleon123453 жыл бұрын
@@ichemosabe 8 months and you're still getting shit for being a redditor lol
@MALTHEDEMXN4 жыл бұрын
I never knew my father and let me tell you something that empty feeling never goes away. Having no one to give a Father’s Day present to or even having someone to teach how to be a man or shave, to play ball with. That empty feeling.
@abe86733 жыл бұрын
My dad randomly left after years of marriage with my mom. I see him sometimes, but every time I look into his eyes ... I realized my dad died that day, and never came back.
@TheMinimalSociety9 ай бұрын
Mac is a good soul. God bless.
@Moondancin7 жыл бұрын
Such a personal moment... I hope his father came back.
@tsuriranpu6 жыл бұрын
It's like the "colleague" conversation I always have with my dad. It just feels akward and forced and I always feel like he just does it cuz he is my dad but not because he wants to. Seeing this just confirmed the feeling I already had towards songs on his albums and know I know it's almost the same. Love how perfect mac describes it..
@vigilantslacker60395 жыл бұрын
Uh oh, looks like, I’m seeing more of my old man in me.
@talldudejoe12763 жыл бұрын
Just like hearing my old man speak to me. I feel you Mac. I'd give you a hug.
@mag420810 ай бұрын
Poor macky, he doesn’t deserve that… What a great son he turned out to be 🤗
@DHU118 ай бұрын
Imagine having thousands of strangers paying to see you, some of them travelling hours just to be in your presence - many who would pay top dollar just to spend 5 minutes with you afterwards… and then your own Father is in the parking lot acting like he’s more or less indifferent to you. Ouch!!
@woodpecker91483 жыл бұрын
ah yes, the classic. Wish I didn't know exactly how this feels.
@zaalrottunda28048 ай бұрын
So grateful for my dad.
@sinkrada4195 ай бұрын
I think Mac seeing the car slowly fade away in the distance made him so hurt inside, with a slight hope that his dad would come back. He even did a song for him, to honor his memory. He is a good son
@brittanysmurphy10976 жыл бұрын
Its so sad that a lot of us would do anything to hang in a green room setting with Mac Demarco and his own father could care less....so sad.
@Djentlemanthall5 жыл бұрын
Cynth Pop Alexa play despacito
@warlockdruid7 жыл бұрын
I wonder what would've actually happened if this wasn't on camera.
@sweetbunnybun4 жыл бұрын
nah nothing, his father left him long time ago and didn't care at all
@theuberman71704 жыл бұрын
Maybe Mac would have asked him why.
@that1kidjr3 жыл бұрын
Santa Ana, CA baby!
@LastNightsGrime5 жыл бұрын
I've watched this clip a couple of times and each time it gets me thinking...