JEALOUSY - My Husband Got a 2nd WIFE (How I Dealt With It)

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@tahsinislammahi7346 Ай бұрын

The best way to deal with it is to divorce him and walk out of this marriage. Those days are gone when women tolerated their cowives.

@kendallkendall825 Жыл бұрын

This really opened my eyes how one can be so strong and resilient to this situation and resolve the feelings so maturely and not have bitterness and hatred towards eachother. I love this all working together. No matter what at the very least still brothers and sisters.

@Anon-uv9mj Жыл бұрын

They seem like best friends, that seems so much fun honestly

@sumenabegum8568 3 ай бұрын

Allahuma barik, I love these 2 sisters! So wholesome and it’s absolutely beautiful to watch them both together supporting their husband SubhanAllah

@AG-wb3db Жыл бұрын

I am my husband's first and only wife. I love him very much. But I would never accept him, having a second wife. I would divorce him.

@femcel101 Жыл бұрын

Good he doesn't need sammich maker like you lol

@prettygirlclub.7719 Жыл бұрын

@@femcel101 it’s her preference why attack her?

@femcel101 Жыл бұрын

@@prettygirlclub.7719 And I said it's good for her husband. Why are you pressed lol

@prettygirlclub.7719 Жыл бұрын

@@femcel101 you forgot the rest of your sentence lol, what’s with the name calling? she stated her preference and then you weakly insulted her, how pathetic

@femcel101 Жыл бұрын

@@prettygirlclub.7719 Yeah about that🤔 go make sammich for me dishwasher 👉 pronto😝 you see it has nothing to do with her comment. I just like to call sammich makers by their designation ☝️🤣

@bellah09 Жыл бұрын

Much respect for the first wife, she's an exceptional woman...MashaAllah tabarakaAllah!

@bellah09 Жыл бұрын

@King Sultan Yh they are like best friends ...

@coolerthetyrant7923 Жыл бұрын

@@bellah09 Abu Idrees is a lucky guy then I guess

@bellah09 Жыл бұрын

@@coolerthetyrant7923 Yh ..they are under his spell lol

@coolerthetyrant7923 Жыл бұрын

@@bellah09 spell

@ghurabaa114xx Жыл бұрын

@@coolerthetyrant7923 u mean Abu luqmaan😹😹 Abu Idrees is ....someone else!! Lollll

@keifer7813 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a business. Are there performance reviews too?

@topgirl8533 Жыл бұрын

LMFSAPOOO MUST BE

@dominiquebrown869 2 ай бұрын

This manipulation from the religion when it comes for polegemy. They took on second wives because of the war. You feel jealous because its not right. God is not the author of confusion. Why would God want you to suffer in marriage? The man only car about himself. What if women did this to men? They would not stay nor take it. There is nothing wrong with the way you think. No woman wants to share her husband with another woman. The second wife is because of lust.

@bottom0043 Жыл бұрын

Subhanallah good conversation but sister don’t stress about goals in dunya help him to achieve goals in akira pls

@agnieszkakos5268 Жыл бұрын

They talk like kids being put in place by father: "you have to be quiet, not a single word, she will get in trouble" Grown women... I find it pathetic, kinda daddy issues

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

I'm getting the same vibes

@zamzamp2757 7 ай бұрын

I feel like each of them are simple women. I don’t mean any disrespect. For a strong, independent and intelligent woman to be made one of many wives is demeaning. It’s unnatural for co-wives to be accepting of each other, example: the wives of the Prophet (pbuh).

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

@@zamzamp2757yet prophet married more than one so we Muslim men can do same Quran permits it

@halimomoremoney1292 Жыл бұрын

THIS IS WERID! It’s like they are getting off it the men . Watching you suffer or hear how you had it. When it’s normal to be jealous. Allah SWT show us how normal it is

@priyasaraff4978 3 ай бұрын

Mashallah. I admire these two women so much.

@enacausmembrane 5 ай бұрын

This is too wholesome

@ummehassaan2107 5 ай бұрын

السلام علیکم brother.. JazakAllah for uploading this video.. I am going to be in same situation in sha Allah.. This really encouraged me.. Please pray for me.. As a wife at first, it's really difficult to accept and share 2nd wife in your life... But if we really focus on our akhirah.. And think our husband is amanah.. We don't own him.. It becomes much easier

@samirboukari2648 Жыл бұрын

Woww . Beautiful

@sarahosman9030 Жыл бұрын

Mahdi is such a contradiction. He went from oh marry them young and dumb and education ruins women. Now he is agreeing with the concept of marrying a woman with knowledge and skills which are normally gained from education and work, so she brings an asset to the marriage.

@burakcoskun1865 Жыл бұрын

Ever heard of mind change?

@burakcoskun1865 Жыл бұрын

@Azul Amigo u'll have it hard

@burakcoskun1865 Жыл бұрын

@Azul Amigo and ive seen many who have and they made life hell for their husbands because they earned their own money and could provide for themselves they refused to obey their husband and did whatever they pleased without respecting the husband's wishes besides its not right in Islam for the woman to earn more than her husband the husbans should work and provide for the family and not the wife

@burakcoskun1865 Жыл бұрын

@King Sultan he obviously did if this dude says he says the opposite bow and idk wym with nisa

@themercifulguard3971 Жыл бұрын

Difference between a college educated women and an intelligent one

@rainbowthegod Жыл бұрын

What will the 3rd provide ?

@Ballref Жыл бұрын

How old was the brother when he got married to the second wife?

@ummyusufmona Жыл бұрын

30. They’re all three of them 30

@lightening791 Жыл бұрын

I was cringing listening to this. I feel sorry for the sister in the dark blue, she’s clearly unhappy. This is an example of being a ‘pick me’.

@Suhrab10 Жыл бұрын

Bro just stop

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

I can sence it too

@isaiah67ish 3 ай бұрын

Hater

@Victorylooms 3 ай бұрын

@aishanassali627 3 ай бұрын

Let me hope it's all real and not fake. The jealousy will always be there

@altamashsameer9418 Жыл бұрын

4:50 first investors, Hahaha...May Allah bless u and ur family

@digiocha896 Жыл бұрын

Mahdi, unless you are a true learned scholar of Islam with pure intentions. Do not misrepresent the message of Islam in Any way. Whether unintentionally or not. It is on your shoulders to vet everything you say even the way you send across the message. WHY of all examples do you quote cam girls business and Tate twisted notions? Are you secretly an incel? Nabi Muhammad Saw himself frequently counseled Muslim men to treat their wives and daughters well. "You have rights over your women," he is reported to have said, "and your women have rights over you."

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

And it’s our Muslim men’s right to marry 4 wives

@ghurabaa114xx Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful representation of polygamy 💕 Sheikh Fawzaan said "a woman who gets married to a man who takes care of her, maintains her, protects her, and she gives birth to righteous children from him, even if she is the fourth wife, is better than her remaining a widow or a spinster and therefore prevented from the benefits of marriage―and is exposed to temptation. This is from the greatest of the wisdoms for the legislation of polygyny in the Sharī’ah. And in this, there is a greater benefit for the woman than there is for the man" ....& thats so true if u look at it from the perspective of the the divorcees & widows (not so much for the first wife, maybe) but we have to step back & look at it objectively....without a doubt it's better for society as a whole. Obviously as a woman I'm going to dislike the idea, but we have to take out emotions away & remember that it was harmful & the harm outweighed the benefit then Allah would have never made it permissible. Allah does not wish for us to be harmed & He only wants good for us💕

@coolerthetyrant7923 Жыл бұрын

The reason you dislike it bcoz you been condition to dislike it specially for the last 30 Years and modern voumen are hypocrite they want all their Islamic rights as well as the rights proposed by Koffars but wants to limit the Rights of Men and walk allover them

@sarahosman9030 Жыл бұрын

Would you consider being a second wife sis? It would increase your marriage prospects from just single men?

@ghurabaa114xx Жыл бұрын

@@sarahosman9030 hmm, idk...say if my husband died & I had kids & noone else would marry me..then definitely 😹😹 or if I was 45 & still unmarried & then a married man wanted to marry me...then yes as well. Anything is better than being single I think 😪

@sarahosman9030 Жыл бұрын

@@ghurabaa114xx okay so more like a last resort option for you. That’s understandable young women in their 20s mostly don’t want to be second wives. Would you be okay with your husband taking another wife?

@sarahosman9030 Жыл бұрын

@King Sultan I would never remarry. Also I don’t think any man that’s not their father could live with my sons. They would terrorise him

@RiseRealmRR 18 күн бұрын

Mashalah

@ArmorofValor 10 ай бұрын

To have to compare your beneficial and less beneficial traits with another woman if just wrong. You should have a committed marriage where you are the only person in their intimate life so you dont need to feel insecure or unloved in any way. Polygamy is disgusting and is just men giving into their own flesh-it is sinful and evil.

@md.asifimam842 Жыл бұрын

He is very kind and ambitious, wait sisters for him to bring two more.

@Victorylooms 3 ай бұрын

This is a rarity, ma shaa Allāhu tabāraka Allāh. With a little bit of learning, these sisters will go places. May Allāh bless their family and protect them from Shaytan.

@AkiimboGaming1 Жыл бұрын

Wait , what’s a type 2 enneagram . If this is a star sign sister please stay away . Scholars say that it falls under fortune telling which is kufri in nature . بارك الله فيك .

@spacecookiez5045 Жыл бұрын

Chill bro it's just those personality tests. Always assume the best.

@AkiimboGaming1 Жыл бұрын

Alhamdullilah I did assume the best. I even looked it up but couldn’t find anything . Hence I said if . Just in case I left a caution as I wasn’t sure . بارك الله فيك for clarification tho . Ws

@aaliyah3037 Жыл бұрын

@@spacecookiez5045 Star signs are haram

@omarfuaad9644 Жыл бұрын

I take my hat of to all men who can carry their responsibility in maintaining 4 women. Being genuinly loved and cherished by multiple wives is alluring to us men in general. But just the idea of having no private time what so ever for one self and constantly having to rotate between 4 homes. And that's just the begining is already making me checking out haha. 2 wives tops at the same time. I'm not against polygyny i think it's very beautiful. But us brothers shouldn't belive in fary tales and think all woman are submissive and that. Choose who you marry carefully. Don't be like some few retarded brothers who keep changing wives like they are socks. Those people are damaged beyond help. Be the man whom your wive/wives will make loving dua for, and thanking Allah to be blessed with you. Be high value in character and moral my respected brothers

@58jennypenny Жыл бұрын

just seems a way of having 3 'bit's on the side' but make it official and it's ok.

@omarfuaad9644 Жыл бұрын

Yeah i'm into this having secret wives thing. Most of the time it's either because the brother is afraid of first wife or not serious

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

@@omarfuaad9644being afraid is cucked. So it’s better to tell and marry second wife which proves you are masculine and not afraid of your wife

@sal6783 Жыл бұрын

❤

@dreadrobertscanady1285 Жыл бұрын

It seems like both of them are talking about me.

@lillyypondsxz8027 Жыл бұрын

How i dealt with it? I minded my own business🤧😂 men we aren’t tripping over yall anymore. The streets can have u.

@abdaalahmad5483 Жыл бұрын

A man doing something made permissible by God is an act belonging to the streets?

@lillyypondsxz8027 Жыл бұрын

@@abdaalahmad5483 he belongs to the streets simply because all he cares about is his animal urges. If men wanna be monkeys then theres no point forming any emotional attachment. Yall can have as many loveless marriages as u want whilst we get the bag

@cherylcosey628 Жыл бұрын

This was a wartime allowance when the gender balance was extremely skewed due to war and a lot of the men out of the potential mate pool. It is a 7th century, primitive imbalanced and potentially abusive subjugation of women. Plain and simple

@Therebelliousprince001 Жыл бұрын

Right? Y'all are tripping over yourselves because you'll have been socially conditioned to be Les'b'ians by the white man. And don't worry, no rightous man is going to trip over the likes of y'all either.

@N___AtifBinNasir Жыл бұрын

Actually, if you are not into it, good for you. Mind your business and let other women, if they want, to get in a polygamous marriage... And, the statement of 'streets' I feel very detestable if you are muslim, if not, may Allah(SWT) guide you!!!

@mehribmomen Жыл бұрын

Am I the only one who thinks that Mahdi is the muslim version of michele morone.

@Saideas_ART Жыл бұрын

What happens when the husband outgrows their skillsets? Does he replace these wives with those who can advance him further?

@Ya39oub_G Жыл бұрын

They are not just like employees he is married to them and that means building bonds and growing a family with children

@Saideas_ART Жыл бұрын

@@Ya39oub_G I know that they are married. Didn't he marry the second wife because she knew more than the first and can teach him what the first wife doesn't know to further his success in dunya.. I suppose he can add to his qualified haram and make it 4.

@Ya39oub_G Жыл бұрын

@@Saideas_ART Good for him and may Allah bless their family and increase them to be 4 wives and many righteous children

@af98 Жыл бұрын

@@Saideas_ART that's so sad that he thinks like that and they both accept it

@madinaanathalee4936 3 ай бұрын

It up the women if she like or not you cannot force your wife to except

@rahman-zu1gv01 Жыл бұрын

i have four wives

@shaikthahurahamed7517 Жыл бұрын

I wish to get such open minded womens as my wives.

@Birdsplant Ай бұрын

People say that the man does not have to tell his wife. This is FALSE. He doesn't need her permission, however the Prophet pbuh said that MARRIAGES MUST BE PUBLICIZED FOR MANY LOGICAL AND PRACTICAL AND SOCIAL REASONS. So, if marriages must be publicized then OBVIOUSLY THE WIFE WOULD KNOW AND SHOULD KNOW. if the community knows! Also, a secret marriage entails lying all the time, hidden children (which is haram because kids could grow up and mistakenly marry their siblings not knowing that they even have those siblings). All of these sheikhs that hide this obvious knowledge for the sake of men's secret pleasures will be accountable to Allah. They are ruining lives and families by enabling lying.

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

They talking over each other

@laandhere2717 Жыл бұрын

This is so unconventional. Mahdi the clout chaser!

@iftakerahmmed5810 Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah

@rahman-zu1gv01 Жыл бұрын

polygamy is the best law in shariah

@mohammed96011 Жыл бұрын

These are old vids from his streams. Still interesting though

@FannyMolestor Жыл бұрын

Ms.Andrist: ssshhhhhh you aren't allowed to make sounds, just get used to getting 🅱️🅰️🅿️ed, it's your job and thats what you're made for 😝☝️😂☝️😂

@uterusviolator Жыл бұрын

Ms.Andrist; Only purpose of dishwasher and sammich maker is to serve Rajul and getting their behinds tattered whenever he demands👈😝☝️😜.

@mohammed96011 Жыл бұрын

@@FannyMolestor have some manners

@mohammed96011 Жыл бұрын

@@uterusviolator you are the perfect example of the idiots Mahdi has nurtured. Zero shyness and modesty.

@uterusviolator Жыл бұрын

@@mohammed96011 no one is talking to you just Move on. I'm making sure rajula knows who owns their leash ☝️😜😆🤣

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

Why does he try to sound gangster

@satrisumandahir6654 7 ай бұрын

Allah has allowed divorce too

@SativaSeanLasVegas Жыл бұрын

This is NOT an issue..its the Mans right ✅, like his right to pay all the bills, question that first b4 u question this. I wouldn't even discuss with any of my wives, my money, my choice.

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

I wouldn’t discuss either

@TheThompson425 6 ай бұрын

These ladies husband could be the luckiest guy I have ever met. These woman seem awesome.

@rahman-zu1gv01 Жыл бұрын

l have four wives

@satrisumandahir6654 7 ай бұрын

Proud of breaking hearts 😂

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

Masha Allah that’s a huge achievement

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

@@satrisumandahir6654cry harder

@nazammushtaq8103 10 ай бұрын

Remain single - dont accept polygamy- get a career and become independent-- enjoy your life

@zamzamp2757 7 ай бұрын

You can’t have children like this, and they are a big blessing. Most women I know are strong and independent but they marry to have children.

@isaiah67ish 3 ай бұрын

Sounds like misery

@tabassumfatimaahmad1251 9 ай бұрын

Why is he looking so depressed like he is in a mental trauma. Look at his eyes look like someone hit him and abiuse him

@Rogue_Five 8 ай бұрын

Cuz he is, life isn't a disneyland. Bud brother is strong,💪he's not giving up, inshallah.

@neacienation Жыл бұрын

Marriage is between a man and a woman. Not one man and multiple women. I'm so sorry women have to be subjected to this and then they're criticized for having a broken heart. God be with you. Remember if somebody loves you the last thing they want to do is hurt you especially for lust. God be with you

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

I kind of agree

@danielaramburo7648 11 ай бұрын

According to the Bible it’s ok. Abraham, Moses, Jacob (PBU them all) has multiple wives.

@ericpowell4350 8 ай бұрын

Where in the Bible does it explicitly prohibit polygyny? Once you find that compare it to all the biblical prophets that had multiple wives. Please do your homework.

@neacienation 8 ай бұрын

@ericpowell4350 This is repeatedly condemned in Scripture as sinful behavior (Exodus 20:14, Luke 18:20, Romans 2:22, James 2:11, etc.). When the marriage bond is not broken (as God defines it), to marry another is adultery. Explicitly, multiple partners at the same time is forbidden.

@neacienation 8 ай бұрын

@danielaramburo7648 these men were prophets

@1CrazyDudeYo 10 ай бұрын

Any sisters looking for a husband?

@satrisumandahir6654 7 ай бұрын

Not here polygamy is heart attack

@yourfamilydoctor172 Жыл бұрын

Brothers, consider getting married to sisters from south east Asia e.g. Indonesia, Philippines etc since they are more open to polygamy and more feminine unlike the western feminist sisters

@fv3798 Жыл бұрын

Theyre uglier too lol

@lanaw7304 Жыл бұрын

Women consider marrying polygamist are feminine, are u sure all the children of the wives willbe his ??😂😂😂hahaha

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

How many did you marry from the poor countries... I think it's like they put up with things because they are poor

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

Indeed

@td2222 Жыл бұрын

In sharia law your husband can't get a second wife if you don't consent. So don't spread bs.

@sh-tz2xs Жыл бұрын

No he can get a secret wife without telling her , Muslim men alongside with rulers and scholars of the Muslim community who r alsp Muslim men lol are in favour of that , they can use islam and interpret it yo oppress Muslim women , and that's why i can't trust islam neither the Muslim community and esp Muslim men , it's disgusting cause i was interested in learning islam but oh well

@tmmmohseni2560 Жыл бұрын

That’s false and Completely baseless information.

@td2222 Жыл бұрын

@@tmmmohseni2560 My reference is sharia law. What's your reference? Islamophobia?

@miaa.4068 Жыл бұрын

@@td2222 Give your actual reference, there is none. The first wife has no authority in the next marriages. It has nothing to do with her.

@fv3798 Жыл бұрын

@@miaa.4068 actually in islam polygamy was only to help orphans and widows so even you are completely wrong but its okay you guys will pay in jahannam

@td2222 Жыл бұрын

You don't come across as muslim tbh.

@abrandpluckedoutofthefire8043 Жыл бұрын

JEALOUSY - My Wife Got a 2nd HUSBAND(How I Dealt With It)

@hindalamrani547 Жыл бұрын

Takes us back 500 years. What a pity

@Ya39oub_G Жыл бұрын

Do you mean to the time when muslims ruled the world instead of our time when we are weak ?

@therealdoctory-roblox3844 Жыл бұрын

Actually modernity has made everybody mentally, psychologically and spiritually sick. Traditional values and lifestyle is the only thing that can keep you happy, healthy and spiritual. 500 years ago Islam ruled the world and muslims were much happier and accomplished much more. Advancement in technology has not made humans happier, on the contrary it has introduced a whole host of negative complications.

@richietitus2470 Жыл бұрын

500 years ago there were frequent war, more conflicts, more famine, more diseases and death. Lots of inequality and women were considered as second class citizens. We are living in a much better period of time compared to the past.

@carljohnson2194 5 ай бұрын

@@richietitus2470fuck modern day society

@Ani_0922 7 ай бұрын

I’d never accept this.

@alqubrusia Жыл бұрын

There needs to be more videos about sisters sharing their experiences with polygyny, especially for our youth. However, there is no need for Sisters to show themselves and joke and laugh in this manner online for 1000s of men to see. Allahul musta'an.

@ericpowell4350 8 ай бұрын

Bruv ... you're contradicting yourself. You want them to share their human experience while not being ... human?

@alqubrusia 8 ай бұрын

@@ericpowell4350 A woman doesn't need to show herself - she can use text etc to share her experience. Not even necessarily in video format. I'm a woman who has been active on other social media platforms. It's not hard to do it seriously.

@doyoumind.atall.stopspying5572 Жыл бұрын

It's the women with the attuide

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

Obedience.sounds like master and slave

@ikr2377 Жыл бұрын

There is something of going on.its like the ladies are attracted to eachbother. I wouldnt be surprised they may end up sleeping together

@zamzamp2757 7 ай бұрын

I think what looks wrong is that they are unnaturally comfortable with each other. They lack confidence in their own abilities as a wife who can bring everything to the table. It’s not normal for co-wives to be living so closely together. I wonder if they have children and how it impacts them if one of their children gets more attention than the others’. Men can have up to 4 wives, but men are humans… The more responsibilities they take up, the more they will have to answer for in front of Allah swt if they mess up.