I agree

Breanna R. Paez agree

I agree too

Yes, ironically. The "borrowed" ones usually are a flop.

I agree with you

BORROWED, not burrowed...it didn't dig itself a hole in the ground.

@@jb6712 Mr English Professor

I agree

@@jb6712 It must be nice to be perfect.

It’s the same dress, only restructured!!!!

UltraCalibur she wouldn’t LOOK like her mum or even be alive if it wasn’t for her dad.

UltraCalibur This is exactly the same thing everyone says about my mom and I 😂😂 honestly I can’t wait til I have this experience with her too

Ikr!!

My sister and I had the same parents but people didn’t even realize that we were sisters. Neither of us looked like our mother so we never knew who we really looked like. I had my father’s nose and sister got our dad’s blonde hair, but we both got his dimples. My son got the same nose and dimples.

Right? I thought the same thing. The borrowed one was indeed more J.Lo cuz it had big dramatic style

Totally butchered the borrowed dress... something much similar could have been done to alter it ... awful same old shuffle fishtail...)

Tbh I’ve only seen twice where the borrowed dresses actually looked halfway decent & not totally like a middle schooler made it in home economics & even the two times they looked half decent they still had some weird skewed looking pieces like a tiny tutu sized skirt that had 3 layers.

Charlie Parker 😂😂😂💔

That's a classic Latino mom for you 😁😁😁😁

Lol. That comment was funny because I really thought the Mum was about to tell her she'd be okay with whatever she decided. 😂

Absolutely

Idk. I used to think the same but after speaking with a lot of couples, I have changed my mind. Some of them that had really unhappy marriages but chose to stay were able to work through those issues. They now tell me how happy they are and glad they didn't give up. Even after divorce, a lot of people are not happy plus the chances of making a subsequent marriage work is much lower.

@@gracemakinde Some of them. That's the important part. And if you think your relationship is worth fighting for, I support you completely. After ten years, my partner and I had some of those moments, do we keep fighting to make this right, or is this something toxic. We kept fighting. It was the right decision for us, but being faced with that very real question, I can't conceive of a blanket answer. If things were just a little bit different, I don't know if staying together would have been the right thing. I think letting a relationship end, even a marriage, when it needs to, is often the right thing. But fighting to make it work can also be the right thing. Guess I'm just saying, no shade on divorce. You CAN say "I love you, and appreciate you, but this just doesn't work anymore." And that's ok.

Agreed, I thought the same thing. I wonder if the seamstress could've bleached it a little, maybe in water with bleach so it doesn't harm the material. it was an applique, so it should 've been possible. It did stick out like a sore thumb and made the back tacky in a sense. Would've been better to bleach it and add it to the bodice in small amounts

lola cruz unfortunately people don't know that bleaching can turn some Fabrics yellow and a lot of times especially like what the applique was on probably a synthetic knit material it would have turned yellow. The best thing we ever found that whitens things that had turned yellow or become dirty from use when it came to formal white gowns was the wall light you soaked it in the Woolite original product and you just kept watching it and once it turned white you rinsed it out very well and it would not harm the material that's about the best thing we ever found bleach decays the material of anything it touches and you have to use professional bleach stopper there is a product out there but it's very difficult to get a hold of that stops the bleaching process when they make all these jeans that look like they're old and bleached out and stuff they use that chemically bleach but the minute they put them in for that rinse they put that product in with it to stop the bleaching process or the jeans would fall apart,

Pink Heart agreed the vintage dress looked awful in the back that appliqué ruined the back of the dress.

Prophetess Buchanan, seems like the obvious solution.

That would've been a really great idea

She chose the borrowed one.

ohh glad to hear that. I think the borrow dress suit her better

That sucks, because the new dress was definitely more flattering on her. Plus the borrowed one just looked like a cheap DIY project tbh (which technically it is lol).

Ayman Junaid i

Rosemarie Collins Compared to the borrowed one, which looked like someone wrapped up a plastic bag and some tissue paper, the new one was better. The way it hugs her body was flattering, even though it looks like my tulle curtains lol.

Lisa Martinez most people dont have the money to buy 2 wedding dresses 😂

Samantha Derksen me too!

Please don't destroy it though like they did. Using the fabric and making a whole new dress with it is NOT wearing your mothers dress. Little changes are okay, but you have to see the old dress in it at first sight.

I don't think of "filth" when I think of J-Lo....

@@surlygale1082 Ok then how about a narcissist who’s never been able to have a successful relationship?

What a very stupid comment.

Vicki Lynne yes unfortunately a lot of people after cutting the old one

Yeah a lot of times it has to do with greed or sexy I've seen quite a few of these and the remade dress has been better than the one they got from the bridal shop I am not kidding you. I'm beginning to wonder if some of the girls do this as a way to get a free dress, and they don't care if their mothers dress gets cut up, they never wanted to wear it anyway, and this way they can say sorry me, ma, other guess was just so good, how could it compete against that dress and I have an excuse. But what's sad is the one from the bridal shop is copied all over the world. So some other girl unless you had it custom made, and they're not getting you a custom made dress, you're getting the one exactly that is there. and all they did was get it in your size and I bet that you had to pick one from a bridal shop that what was there was what you got if it fit you then, that you could walk out the door that day with it and it was under their budget that they give you. Most of those dresses just looked like bleak on the girls, and they are not as good as the remade dress. There was one I could have kicked that girl, I would have been so angry with her, the dress was remade beautifully, and what was worse is that they really took into consideration all of the history, and she still went for the new one did not look half as good.

@@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 I think I saw that one. Well there was an episode like it was the grandma's dress or something and she rejected it , the dress was like from the 1940s (I could be mis-remembering) but I saw one where the older gown was gorgeous and the girl still didn't like it, my heart sank!

lola cruz yeah I think I remember that one too and you know what I think sometimes these girls do it just so they can get the dress they want and they don't have to really tell Mom know cuz the rework might not be that great but this one was awesome it was beautiful it was nicer than the dress she bought hey Beyond I mean that $850 that lady quoted that's a $2,000 dress in the UK

Voleta Chapman borrowed i think

She did

a true friend would have her in the borrowed dress, it showed off all her curves perfectly.

Her moms.

ashersakasha she picked her mom's dress really I loved the other one way better it looked way better than her mom's dress I'm sorry but her mom's dress looks crappy

So glad she chose the borrowed dress. She look movie star gorgeous in it. She probably found a replica of the new dress on Amazon and ordered it for the reception. It looked like a dime a dozen type of dress. Nothing too special about the new dress.

she would need more money for that

Ohhhh makes senses. I mean it IS their property afterall 🤔

Colleen Raymond Agreed... it especially flattered her cleavage. The borrowed one made her cleavage look messy

noorah nn yeah bcause who needs money right

Nienke Pfa lol

noorah nn - I said the same thing in my comment

Prophetess Buchanan You realise she would have to pay for 2 dresses because they wouldn't give her the altered dress for free. It's obviously to expensive to buy 2 dresses. It's not reasonable to expect someone to pay for 2 dresses when they are obviously on a budget.

Nienke Pfa Ikr. It's like people don't realise that there are other costs involved in weddings. Buying 2 dresses isn't going to work for people who don't have the money and don't want to go into debt just to keep family happy.