It's obvious she laughs about it because she's hurting inside These people humiliated her and called her obese on a very popular show , imagine what she's thinking I honestly feel really bad for her

She laughs at people's comments and looks nonchalant about it but we have no clue what is actually going through her head. They're publicly humiliating her and that's not okay nor guarantees any weight loss. This is mere peer pressure. In the other hand, I do agree that it's important to keep your partner happy, especially if it's someone you promised you'd dedicate yourself to but you ALSO have to love each other unconditionally...

What annoyed me most is her friend who butted in saying "she doesn't feel hurt, she just laughs." Jeez, someone can be 'happy' on the outside and miserable on the inside. Just like the guy at the end said at 12:01 he understood that she may be showing a different feeling as to what she actually feels like. It is as if in Korea they are behind in knowledge of human emotion and even eating disorders (like the past guests who don't eat and just say it's a bad habit). It might be due to difference in culture but I just do not understand how many guests have clear symptoms of things and they sometimes turn it into a joking matter.

I'm actually really impressed by her metabolism, given the amount that she eats. If I ate as much as she does, I'd probably be two or three times her size.

KBS FOR GODSAKE GET A PROFESSIONAL ON THE SHOW

I feel like the woman is surrounded by people that are toxic to her... her husband doesn't really give her affection, her friend don't even care about what she REALLY feels, I want her to be happy the way she wants to be happy because what I see is just a woman who smiles only because thats the only thing she can do to not cry

She needs to get new friends. Friends that will support her.

"She doesn't get hurt..." I don't know, lady. She looks like she's holding back tears behind a smile. The way that he looks at her, though...

she's literally the sweetest 😭 how tf could people humiliate her 😭

what i've come to understand now is that a relationship is a two way fight. it's wrong to call the wife pig and scolds her for being obese without actually helping her, if you want to maintain your marriage, you should always keep her company, understand the root problems (e.g. stress, etc), and fight alongside her. besides, it was your own decision to marry her, and you already have 2 kids, make up your mind.

If my husband said to me " [you pig] I will only be affectionate to you only if you lose weight" I would be so disappointed and devastated. If anything he should be speak out of concern about her health not her looks and let her know that he wants her to be healthy. The way her friends and the husband speak to her would surely hurt her emotionally. Perhaps eating is the only thing that makes her feel better from all these judgemental people. Too bad those on the stage only seemed supportive to the husband.

Its a defense that she laughs She's laughing cause she doesn't want to cry like they are hurting her and they don't even realize it. I would laugh it off every time someone would talk Shit to me. Like she probably has no one to talk to she can't even talk to her husband and friends that's why she's eating so much

That lady is adorable. Just because she laughs dose not mean it does not hurt her, she could be laughing to not show how hurt she is. If she wants to be fat let her and if he loves her he would want to be seen with her. If you love a person it wouldnt matter what they look like, but I can agree that she shouldn't spend lots of money on food.

I wouldn't want a husband like that but I dont agree with the wife either. She was actually torturing herself. She even said, her feet hurt, her back hurt, her body feels weak. Why did she torture herself like that?

He could care less about her health, I bet he just wants her to be skinny again 😩 So he can "love" her again. What a bunch of bullshit. This man doesn't deserve his wife.

He got into a sticky situation cause he married her for the wrong reason

what a friend that woman was. I can't believe she had the guts to be so narrow minded and say that her friend never felt hurt. if anything, friends are the ones who know you best, and from what it seems, this woman didn't seem like that at all. Not only that but her husband and that guy too, "i wouldn't even walk next to her" "I pass by her like we're strangers" really?? for all we know, this woman could be depressed and the only way to cope with that is by food since no one she knows seems to be comforting at all. but all in all, I wish her the best with her goals of losing weight and I really hope she can be happy with her husband again.

this episode disgusted m to no end they were all mistreating her and thinking it was normal to do

A relationship based this much on appearance is unhealthy.

I feel bad for his wife.

On one hand i feel bad that her husband wants to abandon her because of her weight gain, on the other hand she seems indifferent to his complaints. The truth is that sexual attraction to your partner is essential and if you take them for granted then that's not ideal either

i understand that the husband is worried of her health but to leave your wife just because she is obese is quite sad. i think maybe he should motivate her more & also the wife should slowly try to lose weight in order to be healthy. main point is, communication. but let's face it, south korea's beauty standard is ridiculous.

tbh I'm kinda mad at her husband . although she's severely overweight but that doesn't give him the rights to mistreat her . he talks to her rudely and kept pressuring her to lose weight and obviously that's not gonna work . he should talk to her gently and motivate her to exercise . its also rude of him to call her ' pig ' just cause he wanted her to lose weight . i hope he loves her for who she is and not becus of her appearance . she seems like a real sweetheart so please cherish her ! i also hope that she'll reach her weight target (-:

I think he should worry more about her health and eating habits instead of her visuals

Her friends are problematic. Her husband is problematic. Really wanted to hear what her son had to say though.

Her laughter is a defence mechanism. She needs a supportive husband and better friends.

First the husband shouldn't embarrassed by his wife despite of the changes of his wife appearance. Second, if the wife lazy then be motivator by invite and encourage the wife to clean the house, do exercises together and cook together. Thirdly, a man that put blames on his wife without taking any actions and only said "lose your weight" by mouth should ashamed of himself as he did not even try to help his wife. Sometimes when the one you love become suddenly lazy of being different than before, you as his or her other half should take up the roles as helper, motivator and leader.

It's so cute, he left the divorce court and went home to eat😂

Lot of the comments attack the husband but I wonder if the commenters would have the same attitude had the story been about a woman who is complaining about a husband that eats excessively and doesn't move around the house...

This is unhealthy. I hate seeing her husband's reaction and his opinion about his wife. But I also think his wife have to change for her own good, become more healthy.

I feel like I can relate to the wife somewhat.... she looks cheerful and everyone says she doesn't get affected when the husband insults her, but I think that's just her pretending to be ok. When the husband said he was embarrassed by her, I saw how her face fell. She's just hiding her hurt underneath all her smiles. Her friend is also wrong; I get upset when people tell me I'm fat, but rather than having the motivation to lose weight, I either think "it's none of their business, this is my life. I'm not obese so it's fine as long as I maintain this weight" or I get so mad that I find comfort in food, thinking "who says being fat will dictate anything? I'll show you that I can be just as successful in life". They don't understand because they're not in her shoes; everyone has different personalities. Some people get motivated by harsh words, while others just feel hurt or would rather rebel (that's my case, because I hate being told what to do) And it's not like she put 0 effort in. Yeah she probably should have tried harder but she did try detox juices and whatnot. Although these are not the best methods, they should at least sympathise with her. The husband should have comforted her. How do you think she feels knowing that all those money spent went to waste because it didn't work? That despite trying so many methods, it was just so difficult to lose weight? I really hate this guy's method of "encouraging" her. I call this outright emotional abuse. At this point he would be so used to calling her names that I wouldn't be surprised if he kept this up for the rest of their lives until he's satisfied with his weight. TLDR: the husband is horrible and this is a toxic relationship. I wish the woman well, and I hope she can make decisions for herself. It's her life, she can live however she wants as long as it doesn't affect other people.

I know this is bit of a generalization but Koreans seem to be obsessed with looks and weight. It's strange to me because I was born in to a culture that prefers women to be curvier

everyone in the comments saying that the husband is an ass, i think you guys need to understand that 1. they established that she does nothing at home except cook. 2. she weighs 105kg, that is A LOT, even 80kg is overweight. 3. 50% of her body is just fat. 4. she even said herself that her body has become slower due to the weight gain. from one overweight person, to another, i would sincerely encourage her to get to a healthier weight for her own good. not for others. it's sad to see that after losing 20kg, she suddenly gained back a lot of weight. i know how that feels, but i also know how good it feels to finally see your body looking better and your mind/body feeling better as well...

Honestly if my husbabd started being verbally abusive if I gained weight I would be depressed. I wonder how she is coping.

I love Korea culture, kdramas are my passion and i live and love for kpop! But if one thing i know is that koreans and korean society are one of the most sexist, misogynic and prejudiced in the world they care more about the appearence in the outside then the inside. So many actors and kidols have suffered from this because they aren't accepted as the social model koreans wants them to be: slim figure, super thin bodies, almost anorexic. That's whats acceptable to them. Women are often viewd as objects and not humans to them, they're always trophies to be exibited to society in korea "hey look at my woman, she's so skinny, she looks like an idol" That's how much koreans can be disgusting. I know that the lady should lose weight for own health, but not to please a man. She looks miserable being bashed by him and her "friends" and thats horrible to watch. I felt sorry for her, its just like the other guy said, she just laughs it off but inside she's stressed out and in pain.. Her husband doesn't love her for whom she is, but for what she was... Its really sad that koreans are still so prejudiced in so many aspects. I can say this because i'm fat. I know the struggles to lose weight, i know because i've tried and i'm trying to lose weight. Its not ease, its painful and you have to make so many sacrifices, its ease to look and judge when you are not overweight and never have been, and just say "go lose weight you pig" like its so damn ease as going in the dentist to fix a pain tooth when you come out you're all new and shiny. I feel her pain cause i'm the same as her.

Truthfully I do not feel even a drop of empathy for him at all. 80-90% of the reason why he married her was because of her body and that's really shallow. For doing something so shallow he should've expected this. Also I feel like the comments do affect her but she hides it by laughing it off.

They should get a divorce. I couldn't live with a person who didn't respect me as a human being that has emotions. She was up there like a lamb for the slaughter and she just took it 😡 While she is divorcing her husband she should loose that friend of hers. Cut them both off.✂

I’m glad that dongyeop led the conversation. He’s the best counsellor out of all of them because he’s always respectful and relaxes the situation when it requires.

I would want to leave him myself. She is wonderful, cooks and enjoys friends. That's good. And no one deserves to be this mistreated and disrespected.

I would've loved to understand the husbands concern towards his wife. But everyone in here is completely humiliating her. Her husband is being a complete jerk. Who marries someone just because of a figure? Go and buy yourself a mannequin. SO MUCH HATE. THIS CONCERN ANGERS ME SO MUCH!!! The girl doesn't deserve this.

The people who say "why should she lose weight, she's happy and *LOOKS* fine, ugh beauty standards" You are the one who is assuming she would only lose weight for other people and her looks You can't be happy when you are hurting yourself and damaging your own body. The health at every size is bullshit Wake up.

I would understand if he wanted her to lose weight solely for her health but he says the reason he married her is 80% for her body. She seems to like being affecionate and probably would lose weight if he gave her encouragement and compliments and tried to be kinder. When someone insults you and curses at you, you dont want to do what the other person wants. Also just because you look happy on the outside doesnt mean you arent depressed on the inside. She should help out with chores and probably try to lose some weight for her health only not because thats the only reason her husband will love her or be affecionate with her. She is so bright and bubbly and her husband clearly takes her for granted.

외국분들 댓글 보니 속이 편해지는.... ㅠ 남편이야 그럴순 있지만 주변 지인들은 얻어먹을거 다 얻어먹어 놓고 저런데서 고나리질이면 진짜....👀 비용의 문제에선 고민될만하지만 그 외의 문제는 그냥 무례함

He married her for her body type. She was a trophy wife...and when she lost her nice figure, his true colors came out. He isn't worried about her health, doesn't even say he loves her. I hope she leaves him and finds someone that truly loves her and appreciates her for who she is.

The husband is eating good living with her, why is he complaining?? 😂😂😂

People have got to stop associating weight with looks ITS ABOUT YOUR HEALTH. YOU ARE LITERALLY WEIGHING YOURSELF DOWN INTO YOUR OWN EARLY GRAVE.

As a person that went trough a similar case, I can say that she does feel hurt by others comments but doesn’t show it on the outside, I hope she’s doing alright

They aren’t even trying to help her get back to the life she once had they are just attacking her. She may be smiling but you never know what she’s feeling on the inside💔

WTF they said she should eat one meal throughout the day WTF!!

That woman should stave her husband. Every time he comes home just say "I didn't cook because I'm watching my weight and good food is tempting." Then she should proceed to make him a bread sandwich (three slices of empty bread).

that lady probably feels suicidal after a grand scale of humiliation.

Does he really think bringing her on a show like this will help her? maybe take her to a doctor, not like this. Also like someone commented, care more about her eating habits and buying healthier foods rather than how she looks? and saying he's embarrassed of her ? wow, even calling her a pig ? maybe look in the mirror first, change yourself while helping her, inconsiderate or what

I feel like he should decorce her so the lady has a motivation to lose weight... And then she gets hot af and finds a hunk who will love her even if she gained weight again, and this dude will rot in hell for wanting her back muahahahahaha... No? Ok. A girl can only wish

They’re mad crazy in South Korea with the fat shaming and beauty in general. I would understand that you want your significant other to take good care of themselves but publicly shaming them is certainly not the way.

To the wife at *3:41* SWEETIE I’M SO SORRY THAT YOU HAVE TO MARRY A GUY LIKE HIM

She should divorce him instead, of course losing weight might be good for her but none of the people around her have to be that harsh

I always think about how many experineces people miss out on because of how they perceive people's appreance. Regardless if it's a man or woman I feel like you never know just how much you could love them or get along.

as a person who has gone through shit like this, i can say that no matter what people tell you, especially in public with so many people hearing, you have no choice but to smile and act like you're not affected. but deep down it hurts like crap. she deserves someone who loves her for her bright and happy personality, she does not need to impress others in life because if she is happy like this, then let her be. she's adorable. her friends aren't even aware of her feelings and they say stuff like this publicly? what kind of friends are they lol

I really hope they make it both work. It's very hard to lose weight so I know it'll be a struggle to change her diet and lifestyle completely but gradually and surely, it'll become easier. She's very beautiful and has an amazing personality so I'm rooting for her! Fighting, both of you!

When she is smiling. Her eyes look like they want to cry

UPDATE: Because I'm tired of getting people that continue to infer a different statement from mine because I didn't explicitly say it: I'm not saying she's healthy. She's clearly not; however, there's often the assumption or widespread belief that you have to be skinny or thin to be healthy. Just because I said I'm tired of the idea that you have to be skinny to be healthy doesn't mean I was saying she was healthy. I don't like how the episode or situation was handled in regards to her situation and her friend and husband are irritating in their regard towards her and her weight and how that was the reason he decided he would just try and divorce her and get tons of support for it to say that it was okay. That is all. Turning off my notifications now. Peace. This is really pissing me off. I'm so sick of this idea that you have to be skinny to be healthy. That's absolutely not true. There are so many factors that play a role and if that's his reason for wanting a divorce, then he's not a true husband. If he wants a divorce so he can find a skinnier wife, give it to him. He doesn't love you. Her friend said they didn't hurt her feelings, but what if she's laughing to hide her pain? The only person she should ever lose weight for is herself and for her health. Leave that sweet lady alone. Seriously, I understand Hello Counselor, but lately is just seems like a platform for people to judge others on and make them feel bad.

fat shaming wont work

I feel for this lady honestly. If I had a shitty husband like that I wouldn't be trying to lose weight for his favor anyway. Who gives a fuck what he thinks

poor woman .. "obese" ?? really ?

Have they ever asked how she feels?

i feel like this is the husbands fault. he is pushing her to lose wait and along with that its making their relationship fall apart. the fact that he doesnt even want to be near her because of her weight is disgusting. she should divorce him cause theyre obviously both unhappy

Watching this show was really heart breaking, all the people there don't seem to know how to be polite or talk wisely, even the people in the audience seemed to have more compassion than the hosts, this makes no sense at all. Even the so called witnesses they brought are so rude and annoying

Is it only me who can see the pain in her eyes when she laugh?

I wouldn't say she's severely obese . She is fat or chubby

When trying to lose weight, you should always do it for yourself because if you have a lot of pressure on you, you could also gain weight do to stress. The first thing that is the most IMPORTANT thing in weight loss is self love. You have to love yourself the way you are and gradually make changes. It's not so much as losing weight but changing your life style. ANYBODY can lose weight but they can also gain all that weight back in a short amount of time. Never do it because of vanity but to be more happy and healthy.

Behind her beautiful smile is pain... im a woman, i felt her pain. Body wieght can change, age will get older, faces may get wrinkles, but one thing is for sure, a good woman remains good woman forever.

You don't marry someone's body,you marry her soul.

친구들 개별론데? 친구가 상처 받은티 안낸다고 정말 상처 안받는거 같냐? 그리고 도와줄꺼면 환경을 만들어라 파티 같은거 하면 고칼로리 많이 먹는거 모르냐?

:( she really is living in an empty life.. i hope she find true happiness and love someday. Her husband, her friends and his friends are so mean to her. Im sad

Do they do "Where are they now" follow up episodes? I'd like to know if any of the topics they talked about on this show actually improved after being off the show.

I don't think she has the right people around her

Seriously, I understand the comments against the husband( I don't like him either) But no one is innocent here. The problem is that not only is she deteriorating her own health she is also causing trouble to him and is not even willing to TRY to change her ways especially when he is actually trying to help her. See both the sides will you. (PS that guy who said he won't even walk near a fat wife is shit) (PPS If she is hiding her feelings behind a smile, she is taking the burden on herself without relying on anyone, stop blaming the friend for that, I mean she tried to talk to her didn't she? You have to talk about your problems to others if you can't solve them yourself ) (PPPS although the husband married her for her body at least he is not hiding like some people I know, so take a second and think about his problems too)

I'm obese myself, but I'm currently living on my own and losing weight. Weight loss is 80% diet, 20% exercise. And of that diet, it's not just how much you eat but also what you eat. It takes mindfulness and discipline to stop eating whatever you feel like and to stop eating constantly. She needs someone who is constantly checking on her, but in an encouraging way - not to scold or humiliate her into weight loss. I think she was finding it difficult to lose the weight she gained after pregnancy (it happens to many women). So she feels stressed from that, and maybe stress from her life in general (her marriage? who knows?) both of that drive her to eat constantly. I agree with Son Ho Yong that scolding her will only make her more stressed, and drive her to eat more in secret. What she needs is probably someone sympathetic who can help her figure out and understand the reason behind her overeating, and constantly encourage and cajole her to eat healthily, and maybe even exercise with her. The person has to be patient and even if she falls off the wagon, encourage her to get back on track to losing weight again.

She doesn’t move, all she does is eat…. She’s depressed guys.

People should care about the inner beauty rather than being obsessed with outer appearance.....outer beauty will fade away and leave you one day but inner beauty will stay with you forever and make you a good person..I think that's the most important for being a good human being ❤️

While I agree that she doesn't have to be skinny to be happy or attractive, he doesn't have to stay with her. Idk why he stayed if it mattered so much to him. They're both so unwilling to compromise.

Her so-called friend is not a good person at all. The wife laughs to insults to retain some shred of dignity. A real friend would dig deeper.

Son Hoyoung seemed to be the only one who really understood her and saw that she was being like this because she's probably stressed or upset on the inside. He's a much more understanding friend than her actually friends!!

It's possible she's depressed especially after having a child. Her hormones could be out of whack. Her husband is disrespectful of her and treats her terribly. He acts like a child calling her names

i feel like hitting the husband!!! no woman deserved to be called a pig!!! when he said he marry her because of her body i'm like wtf cause i know that when she gains weight he will treat her unhuman. I understand you're disappointed when she gains BUT SHE IS STILL YOUR WIFE

Then He doesn't really love her!😡

why is the wife so sweet :((( i feel so bad for her, especially when she says that she will try lose weight for her husband D:

Bless this poor woman's soul

He should have checked mirror omg freaking annoying

no but her mentality is crazy amazing. its rare to find people so immune to such nasty insults, especially from the one you love move. while i do think that he truly cares for her health and well being, there is also a part of him that is horribly superficial. and so while she tries to shed off weight for the better of her health, i feel like he should have a more open mindset and maybe back off from her diet.

“she does not get hurt” Is she a stone?wtf are you even a friend? My ex boyfriend called me fat and laughed at me when I gained weight because of my medication for my SSHL(I went from 40 to 52) on the journey of losing weight I suffer from BED,ednos and BDD.. I hope people stop commenting on one’s figure it’s not fun please!!

Have they ever thought abt why she's eating like that? He's doesn't show affection that much. He obviously loves her because she was slim not for her actual self. Her so called "friend" is not a friend.

Wow HE (husband) is disgusting.

I want a life update on them! I want to see how this story turns out!

Laughing on the outside does not guarantee laughing on the inside. I hope they realize that they're hurting her feelings

Just because she laughs doesn’t mean she isn’t hurt.

wow the husband is so rude

To be honest I'm actually tearing up as I watch this. I'm trying my best not to cry. Her husband and friends are so terrible. Yes she should get to a healthy weight but that doesn't mean he should be mean about it. Your partner is supposed to love your regardless. And even if you aren't attractive looks shouldn't matter. Saying you pass her by because it's your trait. It's still terrible. And the not crying I failed that as I finished typing this sentence. Because I'm 14 and I'm overweight myself. I've gotten very depressed about it. I even starved myself. And tried vomiting my food. If he doesn't want her to get to that point he should stop. This actually made me cry. This is so terrible. I'm disgusted because he isn't even that good looking himself. And as someone had mentioned of course it only matters if the woman looks bad. Women can't be comfortable because they're pressured to look perfect. And I know guys are pressured as well sometimes but that's going to far.

Is there anywhere an update on this Story and others? If yes where Can I watch it? Thanks in advance

"Please speak gently to me" it's your right to be treated gently !