How do we co regulate?

Co-regulation can look like modeling emotion regulation to your child/doing emotion regulation with them! So using grounding techniques (i.e. tight hugs, progressive muscle relaxation, holding something cold and laying down), coping skills, or breathing methods (i.e. rainbow breathing) with your child. It can look like “i know you are feeling *name emotion*, when we feel *emotion* we can calm our bodies by *coping skill* (i.e. hugs, walking away, laying down, or taking time for ourselves).

Agree. And we should explain, WHY it makes sense, not to watch TV all day long. Otherwise the kid won't understand the decision and will only take it as an order.

Kind of interested in what you think about her filming these vulnerable moments and sharing them without consent? Kind of cancels the good out, imo. She is making money by filming and sharing this so she can sell to parents. Pretty gross really.

Hopefully you're more ethical and don't plaster children all over KZfaq...professional ethical standards shape how psychologists work, but not exploitative parental behaviour. I feel you shouldn't be endorsing this video.

I know no one exists yet but us three our kid knows this I know u need to take it easy baby it's fine ur talking to me I know this fo u hunny? Ok then make sure u watch these vids husband hunnyok I will lead u , u will be fine don't be nervous it's not for a long time u will be a natural don't worry we have practice with our kid and everything ok great job hunny 😂🎉❤😘😘

No it's not. This is basic parenting that the vast majority of parents do and have done forever. Most don't need a you tuber to tell them

@@pagejames8754 Thanks for watching.

Most people beat their kids if they have a tantrum. This isn’t what most parents do.

@@pagejames8754. But so many more do! Look where society is today with all the non self regulated teens out stealing vandalizing and shooting each other and innocent bystanders as well!

No it's not those aren't gods words 😂😂😂 nothing is an emotional rollercoaster just lessons I did mine who are these fake videos for a husband u watch them then if u neef to children don't exist yet but u know this don't u are u relearning bc I do not have to i know this already 😂😂😂😂

Uh... what? ☝

It's not it's all lies everything I'm done Jesus nothing exists yet fake vids for programming me I'm god not a computer

I do everything right I don't appreciate u using me anymore lying I'm finished ok I want my life back with or without u u do it then I don't want a biblical life style either it doesn't feel right bc it's not my truth I'm god im sorry leave us alone and give me my life back then we will talk in person about everything like we agreed thx god the real.god a woman Mary this is taking to long I'm done or no nothing period sorry but I don't want to pretend to wait im bored everything is lies I don't want anything thank u im always good thx it's not about u kids all the time thx I don't want children it's a program anyway one is enough this one here in Jesus name amen accept my truth thx my choice in jesus name amen work isn't life u know u lied about everything to us still not pretending to know nothing.not doing a movie book anything in person maybe a Bible bc I'm.busy not giving my time sweat fake tears blood i take everything i dud back its done in Jesus name amen Hi makle Jesus, I have to say this I know u turned off the fake sanctification fire suffering pain switch on me with ur clicker, it's not about u the children who don't exist yet it's about me to and I don't want to pretend to go through fake pain fire fake birth for children who don't exist yet u lied to me for 46 yrs , stall and four years about everything u cheat daily using fake prayers and a Bible that's not proper and ur not father god yet, I'm god I have to be included not later a fake Bible I want my life back I waited long enough living in a fake world fake dad idiot u played abuser, u play a theatre play whatever title excuse u use to get off the hook with me when it's all lies acting I waited long enough not pretending to be a savior sacrifice anymore nothing exists yet u always take too long I don't want to bc of it and break otof characters I'm sorry I said no consent from the beginning it's not just about u and children who don't exist yet I lied about everything I do

@@ellevictory1339Any chance you could rewrite that in English?

No parent is perfect and that’s ok, as long as you’re truly doing your best, like continuing to learn, like you are here, then your child will feel that. Being raised by a single parent, I adored my mother. She was so empathetic and talked to me with respect and patience. It was wonderful and really helped me when I needed her guidance.

Your love for your child is what's most important. I pray that GOD would strengthen you and help you in every area of your life and bless and protect your child from every evil, in JESUS Name, Amen. 😊

You are doing great dad ❤❤❤❤

You're doing well! Keep it up God bless ❤

@@cari8282 thank you so much. You are very kind (:

Yes, a 3 year old should be able to act like an adult 😂 funny though, these kids grow up to live with their parents and play on Facebook all day

@@user-ly1bi3qi3pbraindead

Exactly !!😮😮👏🏼👏🏼😲😃

Or easier... by a child seeing their parents emotion being managed..😼👍✅️ = them staying calm.. with theirs..

Thank God, for old world sanity. Do you realize, that most "experts" don't have kids!

Amem

That's why he was crying, he adored her....

Oh yes, plastering it all over the internet is the pinnacle of being a good parent.

She is not just a a great mother but an AMAZING one too!!! 😊❤

What is perceived now and what the factual outcome is he wasn't factory reset and taught its not appropriate behavior and a grown man playing out his tantrum on others because he was coddled can and will be dangerous for society.

@@missmorla1339 And for himself as he will be rejected by his behavior, not accepted or welcome by society…😐

A great mother won’t sell child’s privacy online .

@@missmorla1339braindead

If you can't keep your cool with a baby, you need help.

Here is how you do it.....baby is watching TV, it's time to stop, baby says he wants to watch TV, you say, "let's go outside!" Baby is happy.....it's not hard to think....you don't need a video!

@@Pufflelover2684 😂thank you for your prematurely "wise" opinion....babies don't understand lectures, they live in the moment. You reroute a child to the new activity by making it sound fun or more fun. You don't make a big deal about behavior day to day. Your reasoning is not merited. I can talk any kid into moving on in a few seconds, you plan to waste fifteen minutes to pretend you're somehow wise, explaining nonsense to a baby. Someone who believes in the tooth fairy, has no idea what point you're trying to make. Practice this activity on your dog, he won't understand it either. Thank you for the levity this post presented😅

@@Pufflelover2684 you can pretend you are smart...but you can't demonstrate it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

BTW... it's "peace"🤔🤔😂

@@user-ly1bi3qi3plol you clearly don’t have kids. Many kids will have tantrums for 30+ minutes over something and distraction does not work. Kids are not stupid. My 1 and a half year old knows exactly what I’m doing if I try to placate him with a toy or something fun or food (food is literally is love language lmao). He gets more angry if I treat him like a baby and don’t acknowledge or give his feelings the time of day. Though, I never do it while he’s having a tantrum. He hates it when I talk over his crying. I’d also hate it if someone was trying to shut me up while I cried.

Shes a very good mother 👩

Yes, a toddler often functions well into adulthood, it's so hard to keep up.....

Yes, so many losers up till now 😂

​​L​OL. Some of the most incredible people I will ever know are from past generations. They had courage and perseverance can't even hold a candle to..@@user-ly1bi3qi3p

What do u mean

This is a baby! At that age, you just steer them in the right direction. You don't make them feel guilty and cry. That's emotional abuse!

Kids depend on you. If you don't direct and help them that is your fault and not the kids. It's never the kids fault.

Hardly. Actually gentle and respectful parents don't film everything their kids do, all of their vulnerable moments included, and share it online for all to see. She also has a video where she put him in time out because he can't be "happy and nice," and he was only allowed out once he felt "happy and nice" again. She's a terrible parent.

Yes, please don't let your kids stay on their phones too long. Smartphones are VERY addictive and not good for them!

Thank you for thank kind words and your support! I know daycare work can be tough, maybe even harder than parenting 🤣 so good luck! You're doing good work 😊

Yes, it sounds like your parents were the worst.... Better you had them explain everything rather than just redirect your interest. It's so important to make kids cry, so helpful.

​@@user-ly1bi3qi3pi was primarily raised by a single mother w 3 kids who struggled after our excuse of a father left. she did amazing for what she could. she just didn't have the right tools or help at the time to teach us the proper regulation skills growing up so we've each had our struggles, but she's been an amazing mother and grandmother who's doing better now n that's what matters. and it's not important to make kids cry, but rather to sit with the feeling and use grounding and regulation techniques to overcome it to get through it the next time.

@@febrieze you don't need these idiot techniques to raise a child. Be a person, love your kids, stop regulating them, like a bowel movement! Whatever issues you have now, is YOUR fault, stop blaming your mother. Unless she abused you, you have complete control of your life!

@@user-ly1bi3qi3p everything has gone over your head completely. it sounds like you're just projecting, my dude.

@@febrieze I literally hate the sheep people who pretend some you tube video is your savior. If you don't want to just spend time with your children, don't have them! They aren't robots.