Marriage After Baby | Emilia Bechrakis Serhant

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Marriage After Baby | Emilia Bechrakis Serhant

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4 жыл бұрын

Earlier this month, Ryan and I took our first trip away from Zena. In this vlog, I talk about how having a baby affected our relationship and what we do to reconnect with each other.

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@ginafidel4420 4 жыл бұрын

As simple as you talking in front of the camera, I still find it interesting just listening to you. I am a fan of Ryan ever since he started Million Dollar Listing NY, and not a single season had I missed. That's where I also saw you entering his life. You're both admirable and your baby is adorable.

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

💛

@milvache 4 жыл бұрын

Emilia makes Ryan better everyday. She is the best love and life partner in his life.

@HybridProDotNet 4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love the vlog. Seeing how you and Ryan manage everything with him working as much as he does is incredibly helpful to me personally. Keep making these amazing videos ! We love them

@jlwisner3857 4 жыл бұрын

I love your idea of doing something like one did when dating. There is a frankness in your vlog that is so real and honest.

@bonjouranne1722 4 жыл бұрын

Love how real you get😊 Do a video about how to deal with arguments/Disagreements. Your perspective and Ryan’s 🙏🏻

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

We'll definitely do one!

@scottishroad_pinoy9084 4 жыл бұрын

Been with my husband for 23 years, have 2 children. He gave me a Valentine’s card and in the card he said. “I wish we could get back to what we used to be to one another, I miss us,” you’re absolutely right when spending time, but I have 2 kids, I am the accountant, cook, bus driver, dog sitter, hskp, his reminder or assistant etc. it’s hard you know. I do wish we had some time to spend but we are always working. Sad

@misskatzlife5892 4 жыл бұрын

Scottishroad35 Pinoy hello, I've been married for 20 years. We have two boys Who are 19 and 20. We were given some advice we have use the our whole marriage. Make each other a priority. The minister told us. Your children will one day grow up and move on and start their own lives. And it was just be the two of you. So make sure why you're nurturing your family to nurture your relationship. And so that's what we've always done. We have always tried to make time play ,to argue ,to make love ,to share ideas to have new experiences. We love enjoying our children together even though parenting can be hard sometimes. It feels better when you're doing it with a partner. Everyone in the family has A role to play. However I feel as we become parents we put being parents as the leading role. And everything else comes after. Think about it your relationship is the foundation of your family. If you don't have a strong foundation your whole family will fall apart. My advice would be to start out small. Text throughout the day, be sure to greet each other coming and going. If folding laundry fold your laundry in the same room as your partner when they're home. Touch often in some kind of way. Spent time talking about anything other than the children. And yes find time to slowly nurture your partner and have him nurture you. Because we as moms we need attention and time spent on us too. You'll be a better mom he'll be a better husband the family unit is just better when your relationship works. So in my final thoughts I'll leave you with this advice I was given. Marriage is what you make of it and with whom you make it. So Have fun God Bless🙏🏾

@scottishroad_pinoy9084 4 жыл бұрын

Miss Katz Life thank you this is nice

@jenniferstead9773 4 жыл бұрын

You are definitely coming into your own as a vlogger! I was truly moved by what you shared, it was genuine and heartfelt and I look forward to the next one.

@soonsims 4 жыл бұрын

I don't think so, it's more like an interview, it's heavily produced and who knows how many people worked on this video. Definitely not a vlogger at this current stage. And I don't think ever. Why would she, they are so rich and have a ton of people helping them with everything. There's no need for her to be a vlogger and so on.

@nhipham5987 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Emilia for being so raw and sharing your life with us

@raquelcolon5785 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Emilia, I’m loving your vlog thus far. I know your a new mom but I wish your vlogs were longer. Support this channel 100%!!! As a mom of two the best gift I have given them and myself Is showing them how I take care of myself. What I know for sure is that, if mom is not happy, the family is not happy either. I didn’t stop being a women when I had kids. My kids appreciate when I’m not around too. They get to be spoiled by their family without a worrying mom around. Enjoy not only, being a mom, but everything else that you are too😘

@karmenrusso2833 4 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Spending time together as husband and wife, and not just mom and dad, is soooo important. Showing your daughter that your marriage is important is a great gift to her. ❤️

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

This trip helped us so much and made us stronger for Zena!

@karmenrusso2833 4 жыл бұрын

Emilia Bechrakis Serhant So happy I stumbled upon your channel, you seem so real. Looks like you’re doing a wonderful job as a new mother.

@bindiya_ganatra 4 жыл бұрын

Ryan and Emilia - I know that it is personal, showing your personal vulnerability to the public eye. I have been reading a lot of Brene Brown to improve my life. Ryan, you are living the life that she teaches - showing your vulnerability. You do not have a perfect family. You are human just like the rest of us. The only difference is you worked hard to get to where you are today. And that has made you a role model for the rest of us. Thank you for sharing your story. I honestly wouldn't have the balls to share intimate details of my partner out on KZfaq. Thanks for being an example to the rest of us.

@anastasiakokkorogianni2024 4 жыл бұрын

Καλησπέρα Αιμιλία!!!!!!!Σου στέλνω χαιρετισμούς από την Αθήνα!Θα παρακολουθώ το vlog σου.Καλή αρχή και καλή συνέχεια!

@conniegrayson2919 4 жыл бұрын

Love your KZfaq channel. The most down to earth person without all the fluff. Great Job! Keep it up and don't change a thing!

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

Initially, I was very nervous to show more of my personal life but I'm glad to hear your support, thank you!

@marinak2941 10 ай бұрын

The realness & rawness of this shows the humility you two have - very inspiring.... Greek mama of an 8mo girl & 25mo girl ... thank you for sharing the season you & your husband are in with each other ... this is real Life with children no matter what walk of life people are in

@nayiritankarian1554 4 жыл бұрын

It was such a relief hearing you describe how you make a relationship with a workaholic work! It’s the same situation I’m in with my husband. So thank you for giving me hope.

@mattvickery15 4 жыл бұрын

Emilia I love your vlogs. It’s so great to see other parents & what they’re doing. My wife & I need reminders like this to take time for each other because we focus so much on the little one. With my wife working & I’m in school we often forget to take any time for ourselves

@leblurchick 10 күн бұрын

I love how real you are … u have such an ease about u …I am also v close to my mum which helps me a lot that she is around especially after I have my first baby , it helps me get back more to myself and it took me about 2 years to feel like back to me post pregnancy. It can be tough to feel back to yourself during dating days .

@mediokritet 4 жыл бұрын

Living on the other side of the world I only recently found out about you and your husband and you seem like such an honest, smart and beautiful woman. Thank you for being so open, as a woman about to embark the similar journey it means a lot. All the best to you, little cutie Zena and the rest of your family xx💞

@aprilbrockman1 4 жыл бұрын

My husband and I have a baby boy, he turns 1 next week and we have yet to take a night away from him. It's tough but great advice. Your family is so sweet - Thanks for sharing!

@agarildtoft7993 4 жыл бұрын

Hello from Denmark. Very interesting listening to your story. Being married, with an 8 month old baby, finding balance is tricky sometimes. Thank you for your honesty! Best of luck to you both, your daughter is beautiful.

@kategolding4264 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Emelia, I started watching Mulluon Dollar Listing during lockdown last year & followed Ryan through his very first issue with the flooding in New York - he was so real & it was so sad seeing his loneliness during that time so when you came along this lovely , vibrant & clearly dedicated young man met his soul mate. You were incredible & compliment him so much & sharing your journey has been like watching a beautiful romantic movie. Thank you both for sharing it all - I can’t imagine how hard that must have been especially your IVF journey. You now have your dear little girl & you make the loveliest family - congratulations! You are a lovely, warm, kind young woman & by sharing have given so much hope to others. Wishing you, Ryan & little Xena all the very best !

@kittieb111 4 жыл бұрын

Loved the video, coming from a Greek family, that support system is key! I’m very blessed to have my mom watch my 21 month old baby boy during the day while I’m working til he turns 3 and going to preschool. She allows us to go once a week on date nights and spending alone time without feeling worried or guilt. Yiayias are such blessing!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I told my husband once my kids have their own kids, I’m going to quit my job and pay it forward

@karennevins2898 4 жыл бұрын

I really really enjoyed your video!! You seem honest inside and outside. I love the way you and Ryan stayed together even though you had it tough because of his success. But he’d be nothing without you and your daughter. Please keep your videos coming. I love how genuine you are you make us comfortable thank you so much. So I guess my question is we should make some alone time with our husbands ! Thanks for your tips on successful marriage. I’m married 35 years and believe me I still have to work on it. Thank you. Sincerely KAREN Long Beach NY

@chrislynfernandes Жыл бұрын

More videos please Emilia! Your page has quality life content 👌🏼❤

@zeezeetvfuneducationalvide7809 4 жыл бұрын

I’m a 7 months pregnant medical student Your vlogs give me life 💜

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

Congrats 💛

@Be1smaht 4 жыл бұрын

Wow

@Be1smaht 4 жыл бұрын

In the states ?

@Be1smaht 4 жыл бұрын

Im a med student also. Your vids are amazing

@adinalopez2050 4 жыл бұрын

So nice! Spending time alone in a relationship is very healthy and you too a so adorable

@Be1smaht 4 жыл бұрын

I love how candid you are. Great video!

@ssaandyyss 4 жыл бұрын

Finally!! 🥰 Missed your videos! Kouklara Emilia! You really are a role model!❣️ Yitses agapoula mou!! Zena is adorable! 💖

@thaisrodz 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to have subscribed to your channel. I am a fan of Ryan's show and of course saw all the episodes that included you and the wedding. Your baby is beautiful, and worth every bit of your struggle. Congratulations, I wish you and Ryan every success.

@kerriem1348 4 жыл бұрын

Love ur videos ❤i can really relate as a wife and mother myself who also struggled with infertility. Lots of love from kerrie in Ireland 🇮🇪 xx

@QueenNanaEva 4 жыл бұрын

Seeing you and Ryan is such a great thing. You are such a great match.

@MsAimTube 4 жыл бұрын

This is great, thank you! We all just need a live-in mom, then, to raise our children. I shoulda thought of that way back. ;-). Congrats to you being happy.

@meloudee5932 4 жыл бұрын

I love how real u are in this video .. Thanks for choosing to share ❤️❤️❤️

@latintravelchica5012 4 жыл бұрын

Video ideas...Did you worry about baby’s milestones??? Day in the life of you and baby..balancing motherhood and career...fitness as a new mom..How will you tackle IVF for second baby??

@glendarodriguez1700 4 жыл бұрын

Dear Emilia, it’s great to see you back to your natural beauty. No more lip inyections or lip fillers, please.

@__snehal__ 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely amazing video! Thank you for sharing slice of your life!

@dr.emilyacevedo812 4 жыл бұрын

It’s been 4 years! Wow how time does fly 💕

@HeidiRobinson-uz8mz Жыл бұрын

Ryan Serhant is originally from Houston Tx like I am. He's younger than I am though. Ya'll seem like a great couple and lovely Christian family together. 🎉

@peggykt7541 4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful advice!! It’s so easy to lose yourself in new parenthood- but soooo important to nurture your relationship

@millie_willcox__ 4 жыл бұрын

Another great vlog. Loved it. Watching from Australia!

@Dahliawoman 4 жыл бұрын

Love your honesty! Keep em coming!

@gzwerpjgbf 4 жыл бұрын

Love this channel! How do you and Ryan deal with arguments? Do you ever "fight"?

@jerriudelson3390 4 жыл бұрын

You are such a calming force. Lucky for Ryan.

@karenv949 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your raw honesty. I had 3 children I completely understand the challenges and sacrifices of being a new Mom. Are you interested in having another child?

@AndreaGraye 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honesty and genuineness always. ❤️

@aprilbrockman1 4 жыл бұрын

Aww I love the way you talk about how you felt about your hubby earlier on .. you're so real

@carolinecoates8778 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. Lovely family.

@sidneywhitmore9573 3 жыл бұрын

Love you guys! Wish you all the best things!❤❤❤❤

@brittneyschool9602 3 жыл бұрын

Please do a makeup tutorial...your makeup is so classy and flawless!!

@josefineoijer 4 жыл бұрын

I love that your sharing this with us ❤️

@shecawgo 4 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your honesty and openness!

@FionaEm 4 жыл бұрын

I'm a big fan of Million Dollar Listing NY but it's nice to see you away from the show & talking about your life as it really is.

@giannis9370 3 жыл бұрын

2:16 saying "bless you" in Greek! Filia apo Ellada!!

@AmyGreen1982 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not a Mother but I love watching you. You're so relatable and down to earth. I feel as if I could hang out with you in real life (sorry, massively creepy!) Love the vlogs, keep them up! ❤️❤️❤️

@maximilianyip4403 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! How do you balance your career ambition taking into account your life stage(i.e. young family)

@jacquelineoshea4397 4 жыл бұрын

loved how real it was!

@ashpiredliving 4 жыл бұрын

I love your honesty.. thank u

@zestrus11 4 жыл бұрын

I love this! Thanks for being so vulnerable and open

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching 💛

@KandeShack 4 жыл бұрын

Love your honesty...it’s rare now days🌸 Is your Mom in NYC?

@lrob4444 4 жыл бұрын

What an amazing therapist you must have. 😉

@laraishtayeh 4 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait to watch! Notification Squad🔥

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

💛💛

@nataliyacenteno8521 4 жыл бұрын

Your voice is so soothing.

@annemarieleopaldi3975 4 жыл бұрын

I love you Emilia your so good and kind

@89Hir 4 жыл бұрын

Great vlog 👍👍loved it😍😍♥️♥️

@naseem373 4 жыл бұрын

Please show us some of the charity works you do. Am sure that also helps you a lot in doing something for the community

@MISSRED1981 4 жыл бұрын

I love your vlogs! :)

@donnadesanctis9620 4 жыл бұрын

Does your mon live with you full time ? What about your Dad?

@angelanix9339 4 жыл бұрын

You are so genuine ❤️

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

💛

@sedalemccall 4 жыл бұрын

Did you commit to anything beforehand to prepare for married life with a kid? Or did this come after?

@the2ndmercedes346 4 жыл бұрын

Great video!!!!!!

@nanaa2017 4 жыл бұрын

Me and my partner love you and your family so much & this vlog was beyond awesome 🤩 Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness ♥️

@emiliabechrakisserhant1894 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😘

@michelewetmore8257 4 жыл бұрын

Your baby is beautiful.

@deeptikashid3990 4 жыл бұрын

Any plans for Z's 1st b'day????

@aprilbrockman1 4 жыл бұрын

OMG I just died.. My hubby says Kaliméra in the exact same terrible way lol

@Be1smaht 3 жыл бұрын

I like her soooooooooo much

@prestontucker1687 4 жыл бұрын

Good morning, Calamari?

@qsusaandromeda7168 3 жыл бұрын

I ❤ them

@IReapZz95 4 жыл бұрын

so you don't work?

@jelenapopic2298 4 жыл бұрын

❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

@preljubazna 4 жыл бұрын

Kalimera 😂😂😂 KALAMARI

@aminazed759 4 жыл бұрын

Emilai fantastik biybi

@nevinkilic1235 2 жыл бұрын

🧿👸🤴👶🏡🌈💖💙 I LOVED TO BE YOUR NANNY, IS IT POSSIBLE🌍🌎🌏🧿🧿🧿🧿.

@earlaweese Жыл бұрын

*Such amazing CGI!!! You know the theatrical act is AMAZING when it manages to piss you off because if it was literally real, it would be fucking illegal.*