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Marriage is not a life-support system - Singleness is not life-threatening | Benjamin Zulu

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@SwitchTVKenya
@SwitchTVKenya 3 жыл бұрын
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@Miss_Greatness
@Miss_Greatness 3 жыл бұрын
I see Benjamin Zulu I click😀he should write a book. We learn a lot from him🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
@drfaithkilonzo
@drfaithkilonzo 3 жыл бұрын
Gotcha 😁 Click away 😂
@pm1647
@pm1647 3 жыл бұрын
AyiloBaba he must vist South Africa honestly
@collinsregeru8951
@collinsregeru8951 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is the King Solomon of our generation in terms of wisdom.
@gladysmwangi5531
@gladysmwangi5531 3 жыл бұрын
The man is just exposed, he reads alot!
@adeolaadekanye2438
@adeolaadekanye2438 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 3 жыл бұрын
Surely
@ZahraExplorer
@ZahraExplorer 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree
@ikeibe452
@ikeibe452 3 жыл бұрын
...in terms of concubines nko? Lol
@reubenbokea5459
@reubenbokea5459 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin. Fix the society. A fixed man is a fixed society.
@perryovercommer1562
@perryovercommer1562 3 жыл бұрын
Finnaly... A man that speaks the truth and the reality life.
@joycemiracle1588
@joycemiracle1588 3 жыл бұрын
Don't marry with a compromise on serious things; marriage is not a life support system and singleness is not life threatening
@jenipherachieng9837
@jenipherachieng9837 3 жыл бұрын
I am a lady and I have this lazy syndrome,caused by prolonged struggles and a series of bad luck,any thing i try to do it never tuns out well .My parents n family have supported me but even them they feel theyve reached a dead end,Outside i always have this smiley face but within am fed up with this life.It has even gotten to an extent of me fearing to be in a relationship cause I feel i'll never be enough for any guy out there, and has even made me push away even the ones who have good intentions.But after listening to this i wont give up just yet.Let me keep the faith.
@chilyn5
@chilyn5 3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t give up. Keep on pushing on, challenges will come, don’t beat yourself up if things don’t go according to plan. Just persevere and keep on 🙏🏽
@jenipherachieng9837
@jenipherachieng9837 3 жыл бұрын
@@chilyn5 thanks for the encouraging words.
@Tinx.
@Tinx. 3 жыл бұрын
@ The bigger The Better, you are brave for sharing your struggle. Keep your head up & prosper. Best regards!
@dorothyanyango2197
@dorothyanyango2197 3 жыл бұрын
It is good that you know what the problem is. It is the first step to change. Just keep on fighting
@masharyah6897
@masharyah6897 3 жыл бұрын
First step to healing is the acknowledgement of the suffering. Be encouraged my sister
@keziahmwangi9920
@keziahmwangi9920 3 жыл бұрын
Aki Benjamin Zulu should come more than once a week..Tuanze petition if need be. #IfikieSwitchtv
@BlessedBridget9
@BlessedBridget9 3 жыл бұрын
Thats right
@otienojush6415
@otienojush6415 3 жыл бұрын
Who is this guy... How come I have never tuned him to his shows... I just read about him on a face book group and Ooooh my Gawd.... I will never miss his interviews
@asakhecuntsulana8033
@asakhecuntsulana8033 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu is God sent to unveil the misconception in relationships. The nation of Benjamin in the Bible exists and I believe he is a descendant of them.
@josephineakumu878
@josephineakumu878 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to wisdom corner my brother. You're not so late. Just search for his videos both on his KZfaq channel and switch TV. Benjamin has GREATLY Impacted my life and I can't wait for the upload always.
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed Benjamin is great & we r lucky that his sharing his wide wisdom with us. God bless u Benjamin & may God continue using u & taking u to greater heights 🙌🏾
@shiishiro9574
@shiishiro9574 3 жыл бұрын
He is the light sent to this generation..a gem💎
@dorcuskencey6816
@dorcuskencey6816 3 жыл бұрын
Betterer late than ever....most of us I've sunk deep in this channel. I've learnt alot about r/ships coz of him
@faithombeva7801
@faithombeva7801 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Mr Benjamin if u kill us with the truth ,plz come for burial too🤣🤣🤣,am I alone dying for this truth??
@twoten2547
@twoten2547 3 жыл бұрын
We are many dying😂😂😂😂how can one even realign to the right path?
@faithombeva7801
@faithombeva7801 3 жыл бұрын
@@twoten2547 if u follow this man advice ,we can save many lives
@nyaucimuoria2787
@nyaucimuoria2787 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂humuorus hard truth.
@judith7964
@judith7964 3 жыл бұрын
His truth can send someone to ICU, He dissects everything we overlook
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 3 жыл бұрын
You are also doing same 😅😅😅
@alwaysbullish2024
@alwaysbullish2024 3 жыл бұрын
I keep saying this. This man is wise beyond his years.
@claireg388
@claireg388 3 жыл бұрын
Hi gal. Claire here from UNHCR :-)
@alwaysbullish2024
@alwaysbullish2024 3 жыл бұрын
@@claireg388 omgosh such a small world lol. Hop u gud. I love Benja
@janetnairuba442
@janetnairuba442 3 жыл бұрын
I have see and continuing seeing that thing through my dad to make even worse my brothers are also just as like him. The efforts that my mum has to put it's sad and sickening at the same time
@tiffanycampbell9562
@tiffanycampbell9562 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Jamaica!!!! I love your show and I absolutely LOVE Benjamin Zulu! Please hail him up for me and I love the work that you guys are doing! Nuff love! :)
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 3 жыл бұрын
Always representing UGANDA 🇺🇬💓💓💓
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 3 жыл бұрын
Tulibanji mkn
@phionahnakasinga7606
@phionahnakasinga7606 3 жыл бұрын
We are two..lol
@serahm8207
@serahm8207 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin has really helped to move out of love drama n the idea of love n relationship being a life supporting machine which is absolutely not!thank you @fullcircle for this
@winnienalwimba6202
@winnienalwimba6202 3 жыл бұрын
The truth in this mmmmm...I always enjoy how you address issues realistically, calling a spade a spade... Listening from Zambia
@isaaclenzi2353
@isaaclenzi2353 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu your really a blessing in africa. Kenya may God bless you ,you and Joice
@dorcuskencey6816
@dorcuskencey6816 3 жыл бұрын
Talking about people working abroad and sending money home....🤔 I get you loud and clear..... My first contract in middle East was awesome I saved money and bought plot for myself but this 2nd round....mm..... *wachatu!* It's been like every month I've to send money till I regret coming over here but *last month* was the end of me sending them MONEY I just want to cater for my kids needs and school fees and focus on how to development on that plot that I bought. My brother is also among the men you are talking about... *he is just there,confused like ever,he doesn't know which way to go,the worst part he has kids and wife and he can't handle his responsibilities until my mum has to step in. Our parents divorced and my dad remarried... Since then life changed. I learnt I need to be a strong woman and work until things work my way and not to stop at anything.
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite show now! Thank u Benjamin & Joyce. Benjamin u should surely get your own show, u totally deserve it!👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍 May God continue using u & taking u to greater heights...🙌🏾
@zamashezi8497
@zamashezi8497 3 жыл бұрын
"Never say u are bored u need to check in and engage" 💯 thanks Benji
@sofi1672
@sofi1672 3 жыл бұрын
Anytime I come on this channel, I look for Mr.Zulu. He’s amazing, great mentor and very transparent. 🙂
@tecklersmith2304
@tecklersmith2304 3 жыл бұрын
I truly treasure my Grandpa n grandma..the most hard-working people I know
@ebbykerubo95
@ebbykerubo95 3 жыл бұрын
Salute to you guy's Joyce our host and our great guest Hon.Benjamin.nice topic
@patriciaarach9374
@patriciaarach9374 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joyce And Bejamin. I can see u are mostly using English for those of us who can't understand Swahili. We appreciate.
@anne-mariekosh5010
@anne-mariekosh5010 3 жыл бұрын
This Benjamin dude is brilliant and wise. I like the things he says.
@Ndaps1
@Ndaps1 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu telling it like it is, his conversations are always authentic 👌🏾
@bamidiamond
@bamidiamond 3 жыл бұрын
So much sense spoken here! Much admiration!
@Bee-wd4mh
@Bee-wd4mh 3 жыл бұрын
Clicked on it immediately I saw Zulu’s name😊
@itsneshonly
@itsneshonly 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Benjamin, I come from that kind of family and I see sense in what you're saying. I'm a lady in my 30s and that has affected my life in alot of ways. I've tried to shape my life but I end up in conflict with myself. I've reached a point where I feel I may need help
@julietmahlangu8775
@julietmahlangu8775 3 жыл бұрын
My heart always sobs for father and son relationship, I hope one day things will turn. I'm raising two boys without a father figure I'm always asking God to intervene in raising them.
@huldahgideon7250
@huldahgideon7250 3 жыл бұрын
Invite your brothers (their uncles) to occasionally visit and straighten things out
@isabelomolo8853
@isabelomolo8853 3 жыл бұрын
Please find positive male figures to mentor them
@minkrasi3318
@minkrasi3318 3 жыл бұрын
Modelling value of hard work is so crucial...
@philipwaita5946
@philipwaita5946 3 жыл бұрын
True everything changed when my dad passed on....still healing
@sarahsmrdal7094
@sarahsmrdal7094 3 жыл бұрын
Poverty mentality. Say it again. One day I also went to a group of disabled street beggers to help them by lending them soft loans to do business. They all had excuses of how they are unable to work. But they were busy producing children left & right. I was puzzled. But now I know its the poverty mindset.
@gideonalechebichy4732
@gideonalechebichy4732 3 жыл бұрын
That business loan I could use that.
@DianahKepha
@DianahKepha 3 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse I couldn't miss this,,my all time show
@dianahvuyanzi1600
@dianahvuyanzi1600 3 жыл бұрын
Waw that's true benjamin I have seen my dad ,he is there all efforts comes from my mum since I was born until now am almost 22yrs I respect my mum totally bt that's sad i hope I will not meet guy with that habbity🙏🙏🙏
@martinmusomba7220
@martinmusomba7220 3 жыл бұрын
welcome to the cub
@MJ-uj4dr
@MJ-uj4dr 3 жыл бұрын
Joyce, what was wrong today? You seemed down and particilarly critical of Benjamin this episode. Benjamin, always the star of the show! You had some real gems on submission going both ways...conditioning for survival, not success....and singleness not being life threatening!
@khangelwakhathi508
@khangelwakhathi508 3 жыл бұрын
She is allowed to have a bad day you know, when she is not always bubbly and laughing!!!
@nakirembekabrenda4977
@nakirembekabrenda4977 3 жыл бұрын
She's not well today.
@prosperlilian1371
@prosperlilian1371 3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom on double lanes. Please Joyce let him address poverty mentality next time please
@kinamogaka
@kinamogaka 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice, that's why we keep it real on our channel.
@MKoo_malo
@MKoo_malo 3 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful - thank you SwitchTV
@yvetteebot302
@yvetteebot302 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Zulu for your wisdom. I have experience what you said about trusting our parents blindly. Am in Dubai . I did send money home to my mother for a business because I wanted to have a business running back home. Four months later there wasn't any business and there wasn't any money. And alot of people go through this because we want to honour our parents.
@franciscakanini1859
@franciscakanini1859 3 жыл бұрын
Wow what a rich conversation, I love it there are people who don't care about Tomorrow, they want to feel good today tomorrow will take care of itself, others it's because of copy pasting other peoples life
@charitypawandiwa8429
@charitypawandiwa8429 3 жыл бұрын
Retraining my mind to abundance - its a mindset. Thanks
@catherinenjoroge703
@catherinenjoroge703 3 жыл бұрын
Oh i truly love this!!!!! thanks Benjamin and Joyce
@mercymimi4022
@mercymimi4022 3 жыл бұрын
I totally relate with this topic. I wish Full Circle could last longer. The conversations gets interesting only to realize that you have 2 min
@margaretmuguru9651
@margaretmuguru9651 3 жыл бұрын
I like this. No hiding our heads in the sand!
@MrZim263
@MrZim263 3 жыл бұрын
A real man should rise to the occasion, to be a role model to his son.... Thank you Benjamin. Joyce you are great too!
@reubenbokea5459
@reubenbokea5459 3 жыл бұрын
The modern man is actively pursuing Passivity. The slow but sure road to destruction
@judykiondo
@judykiondo 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Zulu and joy learning alot
@Zaharawakasa-cz6vy
@Zaharawakasa-cz6vy 3 ай бұрын
Thank you benji i think this is what i needed to hear
@anastaciambelete4048
@anastaciambelete4048 3 жыл бұрын
It happens actually very common in most homes men when they are dissapointed quickly and give up
@harrietacquah2545
@harrietacquah2545 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman who is very driven. A go getter and constantly improving myself. Life is an adventure for me so there's no way I can be with a man who lacks life. That will dampen my energy...in other words putting my life in coma and I will not allow it. If you are not a man who is not committed to your growth, don't come knocking on my door.
@NJOKIYULEMMOJA
@NJOKIYULEMMOJA 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin 💝
@famelitech
@famelitech 3 жыл бұрын
Being born in the coastal region can also make one very lazy; I'm just thinking loud.
@Herhealingtouch6683
@Herhealingtouch6683 3 жыл бұрын
Joyce you not your jolly self today ....pray all is well with you
@wambuijage7693
@wambuijage7693 3 жыл бұрын
I see most people who have commented are ladies.....how I wish this somehow got to the man. We really need to mentor the man in society!!!! The women hear this and run with it, but my worry is??......how many men watch this? Are we reaching the man??
@melmel7011
@melmel7011 3 жыл бұрын
The lazy man won't care much about gathering information to better their livelihoods. You won't find them in such channels. They only watch stuff for entertainment.
@sylviawangila9438
@sylviawangila9438 3 жыл бұрын
The problem with they don't usually watch such talk they will get to youtube and go watch footable while they are the one to fix the society bcz they carrying the generation
@MrMosesomondi
@MrMosesomondi 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I love this. Thank you Benjamin
@africanloveletter1988
@africanloveletter1988 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Zulu... Good one my brother.. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@justusmwesiga6723
@justusmwesiga6723 3 жыл бұрын
I will always apologise whenever I miss out to be live on ur programs.
@tandiesthandy7528
@tandiesthandy7528 3 жыл бұрын
Morning team..Grace Wololo!!😂💞 I like it
@AbaitheyBeauty
@AbaitheyBeauty 3 жыл бұрын
First time hearing him and I’m already a fan
@rentspaceke5309
@rentspaceke5309 3 жыл бұрын
Wow impressive topic
@elizabethwangui8592
@elizabethwangui8592 3 жыл бұрын
Loving the show
@sharonnasambu6753
@sharonnasambu6753 3 жыл бұрын
You always hit it zulu
@MrZim263
@MrZim263 3 жыл бұрын
I will never be bored again!
@liliankamara4208
@liliankamara4208 3 жыл бұрын
You're such a wise man please write a book
@magdalenewanjala6957
@magdalenewanjala6957 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome show.
@susanwangui4181
@susanwangui4181 3 жыл бұрын
That's the worst man to be lack of ambition and self drive
@lillzlillz7132
@lillzlillz7132 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you what an eye opener.....
@esthermumbi3598
@esthermumbi3598 3 жыл бұрын
This man is so wise..
@rachealkibaiya7593
@rachealkibaiya7593 3 жыл бұрын
Yes,submission is both ways
@rachelwanjiru4106
@rachelwanjiru4106 3 жыл бұрын
This is great wisdom.
@phillsnafuna5962
@phillsnafuna5962 3 жыл бұрын
l love this show good job Benja and joyce.
@leelashammy
@leelashammy 3 жыл бұрын
Heeh for once Joyce amesongwa 😁😁 still look stunning 🤗🤗❤️
@SylviahandRichard
@SylviahandRichard 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree
@emilyadhiambo5707
@emilyadhiambo5707 3 жыл бұрын
I cant miss any episode
@sharonkathini9419
@sharonkathini9419 3 жыл бұрын
Sure some men's are harmless and useless .I agree
@Candydelight1
@Candydelight1 3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting and with less publicity it would be better.
@numbernon6779
@numbernon6779 3 жыл бұрын
Very true Benjamin, some men are lazy
@alicemueni3745
@alicemueni3745 3 жыл бұрын
Truth truth, and it has become a trend nowadays, lazy lazy men , comfortably depending on a woman, how now?? What's the solution to this pandemic?
@charitypawandiwa8429
@charitypawandiwa8429 3 жыл бұрын
Conditioned to survival and not to success.
@bemoheltraveller
@bemoheltraveller 3 жыл бұрын
Lesson learned sir .
@charleswachira7386
@charleswachira7386 8 ай бұрын
Hapa kumeharibika ❤😢😮
@bridgetkerubo622
@bridgetkerubo622 3 жыл бұрын
I love the show and it's my favorite
@margretwangari2066
@margretwangari2066 3 жыл бұрын
He's talking the truth,my husband was that sleeping human ,am seeing them stupid behaviors to my son GOD forbid
@winnersneeddiscipline4926
@winnersneeddiscipline4926 3 жыл бұрын
Leave boredom to the children, ❤
@assmanhadi3907
@assmanhadi3907 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Benjamin and Joyce for the wonderful message. Be blessed always 😘😘😘😘😘✍️✍️✍️✍️👌👌👌👌
@lizzyshayo209
@lizzyshayo209 3 жыл бұрын
Lets watch pastor Chris Oyakhilome too...for revealing of christ Jesus!!
@pepsdvj24
@pepsdvj24 3 жыл бұрын
This is true. But these things are happening in the church also and no one is addressing it. 80% of divorce is in the church. God speaks through different vessels not just pastor Chris.
@harrietacquah2545
@harrietacquah2545 3 жыл бұрын
But this site is not for Pastor Chris. If you want to listen to him, why not go to his videos?
@sarahsmrdal7094
@sarahsmrdal7094 3 жыл бұрын
The problem alot of these lazy men , can be passive aggressive. Its heavy for a woman to tolerate. Its better if they can support the woman.
@jacklineokiya9030
@jacklineokiya9030 3 жыл бұрын
Lazy men is real. We had them as our fathers, brothers and maybe unfortunately our spouses.
@balancedviewpoint7418
@balancedviewpoint7418 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you are a great mentor no doubt. You stir and impact many hearts positively. You also need superior mentorship from those coaches that have experience in marriage front. I like you so much as a coach but fear that at later stages of life you may be caught up in the usual challenges of marriage. Coaching and reality especially in marriage are not always the same. In marriage you must experience it to understand it. Even the most acclaimed pastors, Archbishops or priests have failed. Be taking time to seek guidance and counselling from superior experienced men like us. Remember, a traffic police officer knows all the laws and traffic acts but many never own cars. The best teachers in school often have the academic failures in their children;The rich also cry; To be born in riches doesn't translate to riches in their journey. A great man like you should live your talk and practice what you speak. Its known that many teach water and drink wine. Benjamin, that gift and wisdom of knowledge you have, nurture it and always listen to wise counsel like what I have told you above. I care about you sir and wish you the very best in your life a head. You touch many hearts daily. Kudos man.
@nothandovilakazi5496
@nothandovilakazi5496 3 жыл бұрын
First few sentences and negative energy>>red flags.. No to negativity ⛔️🚩🚩 Him being a coach has nothing to do with his marriage.. You need to heal!
@twoten2547
@twoten2547 3 жыл бұрын
What do you think he has dealt with the wrong way??
@khangelwakhathi508
@khangelwakhathi508 3 жыл бұрын
What makes you think he isnt living what he is preaching? You obviously havent watched most of his videos otherwise you would know better than to speak that way!
@nothandovilakazi5496
@nothandovilakazi5496 3 жыл бұрын
@@khangelwakhathi508 exactly bbe, this marriage is sweet person has unresolved issues with themselves... we don’t need such negativity here, Benjamin is great at what he’s doing.
@tommylove7
@tommylove7 3 жыл бұрын
I think you're a low key pessimist and using assumptions to justify your thoughts. BZ always provides the Psychological perspective of situations which very few people are able to do.
@evawamuyu2149
@evawamuyu2149 3 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@jostinajuma6036
@jostinajuma6036 3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin am looking for connection in counseling psychology
@zoe1870
@zoe1870 3 жыл бұрын
Drive slowly in fog but don’t stop or else you stay in the fog forever😳
@wanyanateddy2090
@wanyanateddy2090 3 жыл бұрын
That's why we separated with my ex
@alphyzqrw7222
@alphyzqrw7222 3 жыл бұрын
Vijana wa kupaka cutex muache tabia mbaya kuangalia mapaja ya wanawake
@janenyambura966
@janenyambura966 3 жыл бұрын
benjamin, please school these men...
@princesskinuthia8788
@princesskinuthia8788 3 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@user-hn7mq1zp7b
@user-hn7mq1zp7b 6 ай бұрын
Dear Joyce, you interrupted Zulu when he was addressing a very important issue...addition to remaining married.... addiction to staying in dysfunctional relationship. You should have left him to address the issue. You are still young and an advocate of status quo.
@jemimadiananjenga.1076
@jemimadiananjenga.1076 3 жыл бұрын
The adverts...
@hellenwanjiku167
@hellenwanjiku167 3 жыл бұрын
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