Marriage Problems & Relationship Advice | Life Talk | Episode 1 FULL
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Күн бұрынJoin Satpal Singh and his wife Harmeet Kaur as they explore real-life problems that we can all relate to. Hear from extraordinary people on how spirituality has helped transform their lives.
Our first episode of Life talk covers:
- Spirituality and marriage
- Challenges in marriage and how to overcome them
- How do you know if you're with the right person
- Parenting and marriage
- Marriage and fulfilment
00:00 - Intro
02:06 - Expectations of what marriage is
06:10 - Biggest challenges of marriage
10:46 - Spiritual realisations from marriage
17:49 - Parenting and marriage
23:22 - How spirituality helps in marriage?
31:55 - Honesty and marriage
36:45 - Q&A
37:03 - How do you know if you’re with the right person?
39:28 - How do you remain faithful in marriage?
41:38 - Long term relationships and marriage
We believe everyone should know and experience spiritual bliss for themselves. Here at Nanak Naam charity we're on a mission to transform lives worldwide through Mantra-Mindfulness. Satpal Singh is a Sikh spiritual vlogger from the UK creating videos on meditation, mantra, mindfulness and spirituality based on non-duality.
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@senorasenora6949 4 жыл бұрын
She totally accepts herself without and criticism. Just lovely 😘🌹
@ld4407 3 жыл бұрын
Not married. Don't care!
@TheRealAlexSpitzer 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing these difficult conversations and realizations.
@Anjalinj 4 жыл бұрын
Wow 😲 for real couple, young couples should watch this and learn how to make their marriage successful. I love 💕 Harmeet Kaur for honesty talking. God bless your marriage.❤️💐🙏🏽👏
@Scb584 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so frank and also stating that the first marriage is with Waheguru, after which an earthly relationship with another human being is a bonus second. I appreciate that you admit there have been rough patches and that not everything is perfect.
@satinderjitkaur3884 5 жыл бұрын
Just watched this with my partner... we were mindblown with how much your story matches our own. We are so happy to hear the same experience - inner void when looking too outwards, help of Gurmat to put relationships, family into perspective yet commitment to each other also. We can openly tell each other when are becoming attached to the body vs loving the timeless essence- which in turn is a mirror for our own inner discovery. Awesome raw content!
@shankarprasad1977 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you bhai Satpal Ji for this new series "Life Talk" - full of wisdom. Wahe Guruji Ki Khalsa. Wahe Guruji Ki Fateh.
@AmrinderSingh-ef1wt 5 жыл бұрын
You have chosen very good topic, which I immensely liked it, hope the others too. I urge you please put more videos like this so that we can broaden our horizons. Wjkk wjkf
@PumpkinRoseTango 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely LOVE this! The conversation with you and your wife at the beginning is SO profound and as a Sikh hearing you discuss spirituality was so beautiful! I hope there are so so many more Life Talks like this. Truly amazing! Who knows, maybe one day I can join in on a conversation, too! Sending positive vibes. Waheguru.
@anneware9123 Жыл бұрын
The most Transparent and truthful and wise conversation by a beautiful , loving and spiritual married couple. This can only be massively transforming for all who listen. May you be abundantly blessed.
@anitagraf4865 4 жыл бұрын
I’m loving all your videos. This is a lovely one. I have been married for 23 years and have three kids. I relate to this so much. (I’m neither Indian nor Sikh, but I agree and resonate with all you say.)
@victoriafinney732 5 жыл бұрын
Im coming to the faith and your lessons are incredibly helpful to me. Thankyou x
@TheTurbanatore 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about taboo subjects that other people don't want to talk about
@roxannesmith4519 5 жыл бұрын
This series is amazing- thank you for being as honest to your viewers as you are with each other. It is r fleshing to hear people talk about the reality of life and how spirituality deals with these issues.
@kirpalsingh3462 5 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video very much. it is full of realistic lessons to review & repair our relationship.
@-whackd 5 жыл бұрын
This is timely because I've been thinking of commiting to someone. Thank you so much for the discussion, you two are both incredibly intelligent and thoughtful.
@vanianop5728 5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful couple with so much of love and compassion two souls that are match made in heaven
@akaushal881 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for being open and sharing your experiences and advice. It is easy to relate to your perspectives.
@officiallypaul3826 5 жыл бұрын
I really loved the part you said about the plate portions. I've been married for 8 years, we've had our ups and we've had our downs but no matter what, she always gets a better portion neatly arranged and served with gratitude.
@cestmoijeet9288 4 жыл бұрын
I remember taking decisions instantly in relationships where I thought oh I found love which was completely insane when I looked back. I really liked this answer where bhaji answered about how you know this is the right person talking about if that person fit in your world, not just your imagination but in actual world fits in your family agree on that totally 😀
@Tejvir 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, after having our little one we can definitely relate to the changes. Dhanvaad 🙏🏼
@Anu-dg6kv 5 жыл бұрын
Omg!! Such an amazing example that u served the better one for ur partner 🙏 well that is tru !! N thats how we shows respect n care for our loved ones!! Like a mother who always try to serve better to her children !! A purest 💕 love
@navjotsingh0006 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your lifes experiences and how Guru sahibs teachings played important role in keeping things moving forward and helping you guys.
@user-sz7pg2ym5k 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks to both of you for putting forward a very beautiful concept about marriage
@Xaforn 4 жыл бұрын
Very well stated! So often people never want to admit there’s a void even in a happy marriage; they feel there must be something wrong with them to feel that void. But I agree, God must come first, He alone can fill the void and all else that we have is a blessings but only He can sustain us.
@shabinas8676 4 жыл бұрын
You’ve made me understand in an easier way that we don’t fail but people just evolve in a relationship
@meowismeify 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this. I appreciate both of your honestly. This will definitely help me in my relationship.
@tamiamyourfavoritedragon8890 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful message from a beautiful couple. Thank you!
@navkeerat1 4 жыл бұрын
So glad to see an effort to relate Gurbani in solving our day to day issues and making Guru the real guide.Super awesome and real
@GrowWithSupreet 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation! Thank you so much 🙏❤️
@vjagpal 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you bhaji, this is helpful.
@Mlakhan7767 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us!! ❤️
@sundeepbains7916 5 жыл бұрын
Waheguru ji Ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh 🙏🏽. I must say that this is truly truly wonderful. I am glad that you guys made this video and I feel we need many more videos like this. Open dialogue is the best key to a successful marriage. It takes a mind set of loads of understanding and patience to know that person in your life. I feel it is easy to say I quit and walk away looking for that greener grass. But like you've stated it will not last. I think that whatever situation or status your relationship Is in we can all relate to this in some way. My personal experience is much the same but only I want to walk that spiritual path and my wife is hesitant to an extent. I feel if we were both on that same path we can fall in love again and have more understanding of what it all means on a whole another level through spirituality. It's very hard to want to be spiritual all alone and dedicated to making sense of this life we have. I feel truly that gurbani is the key to unlocking it all and living in bliss. I feel that it could help my frustrations and expectations that I set forth as husband. Gurbani is could be the very thing we need in our lives. You guys are very blessedly to have that tie of the love for the Guru to keep you linked. I applaud you for this video and all the videos you put out because they truly truly make sense. 🙏🏽
@MRMiSS-uy4ec 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video🙏 It gives me whole another perspective to a relationship!
@louisetrepanier5626 3 ай бұрын
The truthfulness of the relationship you were so generous to share is amazing. It will probably save a lot of people from making serious mistakes toward themselves and others. Bless your hearts for blessing others. 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
@blinddatereject 5 жыл бұрын
I've heard someone else's teaching that says we WANT to reincarnate and want to be a part of the "worldly stuff" and that we choose to be here, because that's where all the action is... they said that every being who's ever been into music, joins in the joy when people are enjoying music, same with any other aspect/subject in life.
@JapjeetKaurOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
How beautiful!! Thanks for being so real...hats off !!
@marcmanngen1422 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Wahe guru ji khalsa, Wahe guru ji ki fateh.
@QuestforaMeaningfulLife 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful conversation. Thank you.
@divyanshuchauhan1245 5 жыл бұрын
I was craving for this kind of perspective! I am SO grateful 🙏🙏🙏 Thanks 😄
@manpreetsidhu8673 5 жыл бұрын
excellent Episode!
@satpreetbrar1067 4 жыл бұрын
vahiguru - brilliant veechaar, bringing it out in the open.
@suchitrajitchandpuri2139 3 жыл бұрын
wonderful true and eye opening conversation.
@kokilabrahmbhatt3392 4 жыл бұрын
Best relationship video I have seen.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️🌸❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸🌺🌺🌺🌺
@pagster3127 5 жыл бұрын
Love this so much. It’s so real 💕
@hanscour7822 5 жыл бұрын
Doing wonderful job 🌹🙏🌹to u both. Looking forward to see more videos on mental as well as emotional heath. Please.
@smonaful 2 жыл бұрын
Committment does not need marriage as it is defined today. Love, trust, loyalty, respect, honesty, authenticity, connection, and truth should be our committment and whether that makes for a marriage or not is wholly insignificant. True marriage is in the committment to these virtues as is boldly and brightly described in the laavan 🙏🏽
@trendysingh1221 5 жыл бұрын
Thank-you for sharing!
@omarpreetsinghbali4128 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!
@varindergakhal3149 2 жыл бұрын
It's so true when your in love u can really feel that when your lover not around u can feel them...Even if u see them after a week or months and years....it's a spiritual love...u can feel there touch 🥰😊
@JeetSingh-fn8wc 4 жыл бұрын
Everybody passes through the hard times & it's in our hands how to tackle it.
@IndySingh333 2 жыл бұрын
Love is always here. May you be blessed with love like never before for the well-being of all 💚
@senorasenora6949 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing couple. Hopeful his treasures his lady 😊🙏
@jussmeet9179 3 жыл бұрын
love this! ❤
@simrittsingh17 3 жыл бұрын
Found this video very helpful.
@inderjitsandhu8737 7 ай бұрын
Beautiful talk...very raw..
@mycuongnguyen7226 Жыл бұрын
I'm so amazed at how well you both communicate with each other!. I was going through the exact same thing by unfortunately my ex husband never wanted to talk about anything so the marriage ended. It's so hard to stay in a marriage when you're feelings thoughts and concerns are overlooked and you're made to feel unvalued, unheard and you feel so alone. Unfortunately my 3 boys are still very young 8,6 and 2 and it's them that I worry about.
@surindabassan 9 ай бұрын
I absolutely understand this
@rosysingh7001 Жыл бұрын
Such a lovely couple.❤️❤️God bless both of you.
@sarveshdubey5270 Жыл бұрын
You both are amazing & your thoughts are matching exactly.
@simsimran3538 2 жыл бұрын
So educational soo helpful just like all this channels other videos
@skaur12338 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honesty and transparency ❤
@NanakNaam 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@rajwantkaur1568 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@SK-tj1rk 5 жыл бұрын
Wjkk wjkk Love that you guys opened up about your personal life for the benefit of others🙏
@sukikaur1634 Жыл бұрын
Dear brother ,very good video ,thanks
@ankushbharti2882 2 жыл бұрын
love from himachal.. i am actually happily single but you both made me think to get married
@JayaKGH 2 жыл бұрын
Just got married last month! Really helpful points! Obsessed with this channel lately!
@ridhimabedi5773 2 жыл бұрын
Pppp
@SeamParleFly 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a valuable video /\
@niranjangupta8399 5 жыл бұрын
Arrange marriage back up system lol.. great video paaji
@tarunkaur702 2 жыл бұрын
amazing talk 👍
@sukhpreetkaur8219 5 жыл бұрын
ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ।। ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ ਜੀ।।
@gurvinderkaur3607 2 жыл бұрын
Opening up about your feelings to each other is honestly, is equality, is efforts as you are doing masakat (hard work) this is Gurbani in practice already.
@glamorousdivaa 3 жыл бұрын
Please do more of these veerji.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sweettoothmarie7304 3 жыл бұрын
Couple goals!! 👏👏👌💞
@Geetaji38460 5 жыл бұрын
You are great sir
@raghavgupta1246 4 жыл бұрын
Satnam 🙏
@englishtalks8395 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing tips 👍
@emilymacabhiocair 3 жыл бұрын
💚🙏🏻 "the underlying promise to tell the truth."
@pagster3127 4 жыл бұрын
Love you both. ❤️
@gurasiskaur809 4 жыл бұрын
Damn.this is beautiful
@livelyliving1535 4 ай бұрын
Gratitude
@blinddatereject 5 жыл бұрын
I do feel like love and spirituality/enlightenment are one in the same, it's the same frequency... I just got tired of always being the one to feel the other person but they never felt me... it's been this weird kind of torture... I think I've actually just given up on relationships.
@yamini8633 4 жыл бұрын
Things tend to happen/(fall in place) just when you have given up on them. It's fine to love and understand others even if they don't reciprocate. Doesn't mean you have to stay in toxic relationships though. What I mean to say is that we tend to see the world in terms of good and bad. When in fact the truth is it's neither of the two. Life is just life. It's extremely subjective to label our experience as good , bad , etc. All our actions help us learn something about life. And on actions alone we have control not on their outcomes ( as quoted in the Bhagwat Gita) It may seem unfair but actually it's extremely liberating to know that we can't determine the outcome of our actions. That's where lies the beauty , uncertainty and magic of life. Otherwise everything would be predictable and boring. Also we would never do anything just for the sake of doing it. We would be always tied to the end goal and forget to live in the moment. Our now is our reality. And our reality is our God.
@jas-e6y 3 жыл бұрын
Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh waheguru ji 🙏😍
@maryanderson6208 3 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful couple ❤❤
@gurumyumbrella1981 5 жыл бұрын
Waheguru u👍🙏😁
@sandeep15658 5 жыл бұрын
You both look so beautiful
@mklove8 Ай бұрын
When that first child is born, it would have made me fall in love with my husband all over again if he just knew I needed him to bring the love of our guru, our God into our family through prayers and meditation. Especially during moments of breastfeeding. The sensations of profound Godly unconditional love are ever so present during breastfeeding. New mom’s need their partners to share truthful Guru guidance. Without this relationship love fades. Being new parents we were not knowledgeable of this. ❤
@pitchblack3205 5 жыл бұрын
Bhai Satpal Singh looks cool.
@palwinderchahal9067 4 жыл бұрын
Great video certainly helps. How would you deal with an arranged marriage with someone who had lots of baggage with her. And because of her life with one parent no mother only a step mom mistreating her, she became insecure, fragile , stubborn and hard to forgive and forget especially her past? How does one help here? Any suggestions 🙏
@balvinderkaur-powell6391 5 жыл бұрын
Well said lahhh. Beautiful
@HarmeetKaur-gl3yk 5 жыл бұрын
xx
@malmalhi007 5 жыл бұрын
@@HarmeetKaur-gl3yk ok lah!!!
@chhharsha 2 жыл бұрын
Could you please let us know how to deal emotionally from separation? This separation has shattered me from inside completely. i have lost myself
@surindabassan 9 ай бұрын
I’ve been married for over 41 years, I have been nothing but loyal to my spouse. They have in his mind his own demons, because he has trusting issues. I have concluded that I have to leave this marriage because a an alcoholic…. I Hope waheguru will understand that I have to love myself and my own life. We never had any discussions like you both have- stay blessed
@NanakNaam 9 ай бұрын
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@gurtek08 3 жыл бұрын
Ur wife is a great person.
@RAJRANI50359 3 жыл бұрын
Sir can u make in Hindi language also. Waheguru
@blinddatereject 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like western society makes it too tough to have a job, spouse, and family. I'm only working 9-5 now and it's tough. As a sikh woman, I've openly told my family and relatives that I have no intention on ever getting married because there are too many variables I don't want to deal with (as the woman in this video was aware) and I don't even have energy for the basics so why complicate life even further. My relatives have accepted it's not my time but they doubt I'll be alone forever. Although life begs to differ. It's been a weird journey for me thus far. I wasn't from india, but I moved to america and while there are a lot of Sikhs in my area, we really don't connect on the same level. There seems to be a HUGE difference in mindset. I've considered going outside of my race, but that doesn't work either... It seems I'm an outsider everywhere I go, and this issue extends past intimate relationships into platonic ones (such as friendship) as well. I honestly don't know how people can get into relationships because I've never even had someone look at me more than once and I'm almost 30 (but I've been in love twice), but I think if you can get into one, you're really lucky to even get to experience that aspect of yourself.
@kamaljeetsingh8123 4 жыл бұрын
I completely understand how you feel. It's very common for some of our generation. I feel the same way. I got married at 23, but had problems in my marriage after few months. I moved to Australia after less than a year of marriage. I stayed apart from my wife and new born daughter for around five years. As I wasn't happy with my marriage, I wanted to desperately meet someone so I did but it wasn't really a right one and I still had to figure out what I wanted to do with my wife. I was honest whoever I met about my situation. Then I told my in laws about our marriage issues. They blackmailed me to put me into false dowry case. Then I brought them to Australia so that things may get better if not she has a chance to start a new life. But she hasn't learn enough English so hasn't found a proper job in 6 years . It's really frustrating. And I have already seen the western world, I don't think I really fit well in there either. I think it's the price of living in two cultures. But am grateful I had some good experiences in life. Eventually life will have some direction for me I hope. Good luck you too
@kamaljeetsingh8123 4 жыл бұрын
Saroj satyal i don't do blame games trust me. And dont look down upon anyone either but i do expect fair bit of equality and having enough common way of direction in life to work with each other as a team. But thankfully things are better and i committed to my family more and more everyday.
@kamaljeetsingh8123 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Saroj satyal ji. Good night brother 🙏
@Sona77. 2 жыл бұрын
@blind -I feel the same way…btw, did you ever find anyone?
@vikramkhalsa8869 5 жыл бұрын
Veer ji, could u make a vid on mix marriages pls
@tanveerdhillon9022 4 жыл бұрын
Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh.. bhai ji I m in lot of pain, I have developed religious ocd , and the reason of this is that I was in contact with a person , who claimed himself to be a Hindu spiritual person, he put lots of veham in my mind regarding meditation like “a person shouldn’t think bad about meditation and shouldn’t let bad thoughts comes to one’s mind while worshipping otherwise a person will be punished” I do understand that it’s not a good thing to think such thoughts, but the more I try to control my mind, and not to think particular thoughts, it comes more, due to all this, I m not able to do path, I really want to do path, but whenever I try to do path, of negative thought comes in my mind and get really terrified and become anxious, can u suggest me something so I can do path without getting anxiety, I will be grateful to u👏🏻
@sarbjeetkhosaUcan 3 жыл бұрын
We can't control our thoughts... Just do Ardaas and you will see the difference
@jitveer1 Жыл бұрын
Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh bhai satpal singh ji... Bhai sahib ji I have a problem in my married life.. I really want to tell you my problem and need solution... Plz tell me how can I share my problems with you..
@Madijo70 4 жыл бұрын
💜
@karanjeet4497 Жыл бұрын
❤️
@anubhuti1825 2 жыл бұрын
It's uncanny how similar they look!
@surindercheema3 5 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@diljeetkr5079 2 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to have one on one chat with you Satpaal Sir? Someone extremly struggling with some issue in his life. If you can please help out understanding with the wisdom of guru?