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How to Share Your Thoughts and Feelings | MarriageToday | Jimmy & Karen Evans

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MarriageToday is committed to reaching as many couples as possible to offer the help and hope needed to succeed. You can be an agent of restoration by supporting the mission of MarriageToday. Your gift propels us to help marriages like yours receive the training, encouragement, and care they need. Consider Giving Today. marriagetoday....

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@nanaaddae8623 3 жыл бұрын

Value. Energy. Sacrifice n trust. Value eachothers emotions. Be a sade place for your spouse to trust you enough to open up to you!

@janetbarlin7805 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks to you Jimmy and to your beautiful wife Karen for your valuable teachings. God bless you both abundantly and your family.

@Sweet2kiss1 3 жыл бұрын

To God be the glory!!! Thank you lord for always being on time!

@alicelivesfree Жыл бұрын

This INVEST acronym is amazing! It could change everything for my marriage. I have a long way to go with respecting, honouring and submitting to my husband, I trust God will help me want to and get better at this. But I feel so weak and so so hard to make progress when I have been shamed and not valued since the early days of marriage. This is exactly what I mean when I’ve told my husband i don’t feel a “safe” space with him.

@escottn Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for communicating theses principles here. You're ministry has shown me so many of my pitfalls in my marriage. The ideas here are needed and desired to be executed by me. I have been a terrible husband who has asked God for forgiveness and repented.

@caseymeek2044 3 жыл бұрын

Thank You so very much for taking the time to loads these videos & to open up Christians/peoples eyes to the Godly views put into communication to help couples that struggle. Thank you & God Bless.

@ingridsmyrl9933 3 жыл бұрын

Those videos have been helping me to be a better wife. And also have helped a lot in our marriage. Blessings!

@slimfbaby20081 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this I needed this.

@goodnesschidimma326 Жыл бұрын

Am really really enjoying this program May Almighty God bless you and your wife in Jesus name

@SnookOnTheFly 3 жыл бұрын

If it has to do with priorities, boundaries, responsibilities or limits; I can’t express them in any way, shape or form without major problems.

@michelemorris2366 3 жыл бұрын

Married 16 yrs, that's exactly what happens. He shames me or just will not validate my feelings/emotions. Tells me I just want to live in a fairy tale life.. It's hurtful and frustrating!

@adriamackenzie1191 3 жыл бұрын

You do what's right... no matter how it turns out.

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you really need to mature and grow up.

@tina-ec7ce Жыл бұрын

I deal with the Very Same thing!! I don’t feel like ANYTHING about me emotionally is valid or important to him… he thinks I’m an over emotional trouble maker Saddens me to my Core! I will NOT give up tho and the enemy will NOT Win this war!!!! In Jesus’s Name… Amen 🙏🏼

@gorgeouswales9635 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you both. God Bless

@kiplingtturner 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I'm not where I'm going but I know I am going to be there soon thanks to people like you.

@cynthiasolomonimie6239 2 жыл бұрын

Many thanks for sharing your experience . It is so rich and deep. Will spread the word. May the Lord bless you indeed and continue to cause your marriage to blossom.

@denisephil7967 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for all the videos, just found you in the best moment posible. I will try to translate to german for my husband of 7 years, because we are in a bad place at the moment, but I know we can save the marriage if he hears you and we applies your knowlegde. Thanks you so much.

@jessefoster2832 Жыл бұрын

I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME PHIL 4:13

@vidaflores5532 2 жыл бұрын

Love, understand, protect, care, support, sex and most especially make him super rich! Sacrifice! Intelligent people always ignore the bad side and focus the good side! Positive! Give chance as much as you can but if it's too much it's time to go.... Just be honest!!! No ego pride please!

@tanmarketingchannel3436 Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful marriage video!

@pharmclare 2 жыл бұрын

Great enlightening message. Thanks

@emmahamilton2484 2 жыл бұрын

Message reasonable and address real marital problems. Evans provides great suggestions. Unfortunately my spouse sees no reason to change behavior and remains mummified, mute.

@mariaa892 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful teaching.. Thank you 🙌

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

👎🏽

@judydyck4707 3 жыл бұрын

Just love this , my husband , still to this day , as soon as the kids are around he lashes out at me !

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

You're probably a crappy wife. So he lashes out at you because he's jealous of the kids that get your best, while he gets your endless honey-do list.

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

But hey...idk nothing...just taking a guess

@Star-dj1kw 2 жыл бұрын

@@zerubbabelsbridgeOuch. sounds like someone is jealous of his own children. That makes you a REAL MANLY MAN. Wow

@shoniagriffin2357 2 жыл бұрын

My advice to you sister is to go on a fast against the spirits of anger,abuse , unforgivenss and bitterness.We are in a spiritual battle and your fight is against the demonic spirits that are operating in your husband's life.Seek God he knows your husband,because he created him.SI would like to recommend a book called Fasting For Breakthrough and Deliverance by John Eckhart.I like to recommend that you check out Minister Kevin LA Ewing on KZfaq.I pray that God would reveal to you the root cause of your husband's behavior.Blessings

@cyndlouwho7962 3 жыл бұрын

I made a walk hanging of the “INVEST” return to intimacy teaching about 10 years ago - curious if you still have it -

@borneyraybergantine2124 3 жыл бұрын

4 Levels of Love aka intimacy. 1.) Sex 2.) ? 3.) ? 4..) Value Energy Sacrifice Trust

@miriammarcial3047 2 жыл бұрын

Oh how I wish my husband understood the words the pastor says... I have tried in a loving way to bring up hurtful topics.. and My husband is Dismissive, he is quick to answer but he also does it in a attacking way. N this turns into arguing.

@bradwilliams4921 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jimmy. I enjoy listening to you. Does sex always come before friendship or should friendship come before sex?

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

Lol this question right here demonstrates where we're at. In the Bible, the word wife and Virgin are the same thing. Can't marry a person that's already given their heart in the bed to someone else buddy. You can try, but it's not going to go so well for you.

@bumblebee7982 2 жыл бұрын

Marriage should come before sex & yes you need to work on developing a friendship. Lots of prayer should go into waiting on God for a spouse, so you can recognize them when you meet them, that they were sent by God. Developing a relationship with God the father helps us grow the character we need to maintain lifetime relationships. 💙🕯️🙏🌹

@bumblebee7982 2 жыл бұрын

@@savageriverandthepoet6309 Sex itself fixes nothing in my honest opinion outside of a release of hormones. If sex itself TRULY were a relationship fix, the world would be fixed. Sex is hormone ruled. A woman can sex a man daily & it be just an appetizer. Unless people have some maturity & character a happy, long-term relationship cannot be had. Just my thoughts .....

@michelemorris2366 3 жыл бұрын

I don't feel safe telling him anything 😪 I try, but just doesn't care!!!!

@SaroohAngel 3 жыл бұрын

im sorry to hear that. Maybe both of you can watch these sermons together and read more books about marriage together. while youre reading/watching together, take a moment to pause and express your self politely and lovingly with a calm voice. God loves you. Im praying for your marriage.

@jojocluddy2534 3 жыл бұрын

I felt the same before getting married and almost called off the wedding but seeing counseling changed our lives. I no longer feel like he doesn't care and vice versa. If he doesn't want counseling that's gonna be harder and you'll need to buckle up. Your knees is what will change things either way: pray, fast!! I am sure you can also always seek marital counseling alone and explain your situation. There are a lot of help in church and around us. Humility is KEY though, God had to break us down and it wasn't easy but I am glad He did because He Lsays wants the best for us

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

Probably because you're always changing him but never you.

@cyndlouwho7962 3 жыл бұрын

I’m afraid to communicate - it almost always end in a fight or him just yelling at me 🙏😔

@debbiemock3785 3 жыл бұрын

You are not alone.prauers for you.

@jessefoster2832 Жыл бұрын

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

@workingken4268 2 жыл бұрын

NEVER INSULT OR DEGRADE YOUR SPOUSE IN ANYFORM OF NAME CALLING NO MATTER WHAT. IT SHOULD BE IN A LOVING MANOR ALWAYS WITH A LOVING NAME. EXAMPLE: BABE, BABY, SWEETHEART, DARLING ETC. ETC.

@supplantermusic9413 3 жыл бұрын

Jesus is Lord

@bumblebee7982 2 жыл бұрын

LOL

@zerubbabelsbridge 3 жыл бұрын

Wives if you're husbands aren't following after the things of The Lord, it could be because you keep following after wet noodles of men in these fake preachers.

@janetbarlin7805 2 жыл бұрын

Why are you listening to so called 'fake preachers' then!!!!