Disable women is million times better than useless feminist

In my pre-Muslim life, I dated a man who lost his leg in a motorcycle accident before we met. It wasn’t meant to be between us, but his disability wasn’t a problem for me. If something happened to my husband, I would stand by him and help him until my dying breath. This life is too short. When I look at all that’s happened so far, I truly feel that life is Allah’s test of our faith.

I honestly thought about it. I as a woman would accept someone who is disabled but if everythingelse fits well. So when his character, Aqeedah, religion etc. is on point and we are attracted to each other, then why not? I mean I think it is hardly to find someone who almost has everything you like and at some point marrying someone disabled can turn out into a blessing which could grant someone even Jannah.

I would marry a disabled woman, divorced woman, woman with whatever number of childrens That is If, I lived in a society where polygyny is normal and not stigmatized I love that you talk about polygyny but most man only has one shot at marriage

I would marry disabled women, I don't mind as long as she is feminine and kind.

As a woman I would not marry a disabled man. For the exact reasons you mentioned. But who knows what Allah has planned for me.

I have a severe disability and my wife been amazing, over last 20 years.... Biggest problem has been family.... Disappointing little support from my side... but these are the tests

I know two disabled men. One does our taxes, very intelligent, the other man is intellectually disabled. Both are married and their wives are born in the west. The man who is mentally disabled, his wife's family wanted her to leave him. There are still good people around. We have the biggest weapon and thats our rahma and religion.

May Allah reward you Br Gabriel, for bringing these topics to light I know these topics are not 'attention-grabbers' -- but for the people you're mentioning (those with disabilities), it means everything to them

It’s easier to say something than actually doing it.

Alhumdulilah I have the pleasure of being married to a disabled man, this has been the best thing that has happened to me by Allahs mercy. My husband survived a stroke at a young age (26) and deserved to continue his life by Allahs plan and so for me this meant that I too believed that I wanted to be a part of that journey. I married him with the knowledge that the limited mobility in his hand, arm and leg would be a lifelong disability, nonetheless we have been beyond blessed in our union. Ultimately Allah knows best.

I would marry a disabled women

If the man has the right aqeedah, is religious, is protective, kind and caring and we generally get along, yes I would marry him.

My grandfather was disabled in a wheelchair when he met my grandmother and two weeks after meeting they married and had 3 children but this was in 1960 when people weren’t as shameful in their behavior. Today many people will die alone due the search for what is bad instead of the good in the opposite sex.

Whether disabled or not disabled person and you love them so much, it shouldn't matter or even be necessary. You love them for who they are. It is not about attractiveness, beauty, or whatsoever, but what is in the heart.

SubhanahAllah. A step beyond physical disabilities What about types of autism's & Certain types of Mental health / illnesses

Great and important topic.

I think it really depends on what kind of disability we're talking about. Especially people with mental disability (maybe far below average IQ) or people with SEVERE physical disabilities, like missing all limbs would be a bit more difficult. If we are talking about some less severe disabilities like missing one hand, one leg or something like that, where the person is still able to do most of their every day activities and only require help occasionally or where the 'only' problem is physical attraction, then I guess this would be a different topic.

I have always been attracted to disabled people (not sexually) or people that i know that has been through a lot of challenges in life. It gave me a natural sense of closeness with them, its hard to explain but the feeling is similar to when you meet with someone you respect or someone that went through hardship similar to your own. Though i am not disabled and alhamdullilah perfectly healthy.

As-salāmu ʿalaykum wa-raḥmatu -llāhi wa-barakātuhū,

I have 2 psychiatric conditions, Autism and Bipolar. I can be brutally honest, at times. I require someone who also has a high IQ, like myself. I would marry someone with mild psychological disabilities, like myself, so long as it does not affect fertility. Many Autistic men are high earners, due to a high IQ level. I also require a high IQ male, as my IQ level is high and women prefer men with similar or higher IQ levels. I'm more attracted to a male's IQ, even when his appearance is below average.

I'm already an epileptic man, I don't think i'd have an issue with a disabled woman, if I can find a muslim woman, that's already more than I can hope for.

It happened in Nigeria, though both are from rich background, the girl married a guy in a wheelchair and another couple they were dating, and the girl became disabled but the guy decided to marry her anyway

wallah yes because love is sacrifice .

being autistic is the worst thing. You can't talk to people or have friends or going out in public i feel really weird . Most of muslimah i talked with never get along with me because im not able to communicate or control my temper when i feel emotions . . Even if a muslimah want to marry me , i cant get married in front of people or visit her family out of panic , and that's big red flag for the sisters so they stop responding to me . Every ramadan is worst because my temper and emotions takes over when im not eating , i become very bad so i stopped fasting after the first 3 days . I don't whats the plan of Allah there but whatever man. I would prefer to become a disbeliever with a normal life than this. Im leaving hell on earth and I know im going to hell in judgement too.

Can tell me the nasheed you use in the last your video please🤲🏻💚

I dont think i can marry a disabled man for the reasons that u mentioned..

Alhumdulilah I m gonna keep praying that Allah azza wa jalla opens up my parents heart and mind and softens their heart and mind and opens path for my parents to understand and accept marriage for me may allah make Muhammad my naseeb may Allah make it easy for my family and for Muhammad and I may Allah make me Muhammad naseeb Aameen suma meen

I think I would marry a woman who was disabled. perhaps as a 2nd. or even maybe a first!

I have 3 children with severe special needs...my daughter is in a wheelchair possibly lifelong wheelchair user...my other 2 children with autism...i dont think my children will ever be married. 😢 but Alhamdulilaah for everything...please keep my family and the whole ummah in your duas

As a disabled muslim man going through comments i hate myself more now people are just greedy i wish if i was a normal person other religions are far better they don't have greed😢

My older sister said he's bad guy he's lying to you he's teaching you bad stuff which is not the case at all instead he's teaching me hanafi pdf chapters how to pray properly which surah to read in salah wudu ghusl quran verses 30 chapters 30 days he had given me test on 1st of June I m nervous

I would totally marry a man in a weelchair, if he's pious, of good character and intelligent! I like educated men! 😍 He must not have a degree, life experience can educate a person, too! A man, who can teach me more about the deen for example. A man, that I can have interesting conversions with, who I can look up to, and who is able to lead his family with his clear intellect. Looks are very low on my "preference list".

This is a mental barrier as I’m born disabled with cerebral pulsy. People look at me funny and abuse my kindness so I am hesitant to mention the topic as I’m a new convert to Islam (praise Allah ) and find it difficult as I’m 54 and in a wheelchair. Great topic.

Good question, it’s not something I really thought about in all honesty as a young unmarried man. Like, I myself have autism - it was pretty bad as a kid but in present day, currently in my early 20s, you wouldn’t know I have it unless I told you or if you’ve lived with me for a couple of years. Although that’s not to say I’m cured from it - I still retain quirks from it, it’s just that I can better manage them on my own now alhumdulillah - there is of course the very rare occasion where my family does need to step in for my own sake. Now that I think about it, that is something I would need to tell someone who’s interested in marrying me - while I do and can get along with different people alhumdulillah, this trait of mine is something that could be passed down to my children, and whether they have it mildly like I do or have it worse off, Allahuaalam. Anyway - I would like to think that growing up with autism (hence always being an odd one out one way or another - it’s less depressing than it sounds dw) that I could sympathize with someone who has a mental or physical disability, perhaps even come to love them. I think so long as we can have a healthy relationship in terms of Deen, romance, and sexually then it’ll be fine insha’allah.

But my family when I told them about him my baji meaning older sister she said marriage is not written for you how you gonna give birth ? Your disabled your on bed you can't get married I cried for 2 days my baba got angry my amma she said same thing as baji my older sister

Capability is one of the key factors women and their families look into when selecting a husband. There is absolutely nothing blameworthy about that. As such, as you mentioned, it's only natural that a disability will be a major impediment to accepting a man as a husband. For men, as long as the disability is not unsightly - meaning something that detracts from her physical beauty - a disabled woman still has good chances in the marriage market. Men will be much more likely to overlook such things, especially if she brings other things to the table (deen, looks, family, money).

I m muslimah I m 22 I have a disability I can't walk so I m mostly on bed I m studying Islam InshaAllah in near future whenever Allah wills it to happen InshaAllah I want to get married but my parents have forbidden me to not get married due to me being disabled and my amma has been the one taking care of me all my life and she and my baba my baji three of them.say one thing all my life as teenager to adulthood no man is good they will chuck you on road you can't get pregnant who will take care of you ? How will he clean you before going work ?

I wouldn't mind marrying someone with disabilities but heard that your kids can inherit this disabilities

I don't think I could. I'd feel sympathy for the person and I don't think I'd be able to see them in another way.

yeah sheikh, as a men, bismillah

It would depend on the nature of the disability and how much it would affect life. For example if somebody wanted to have children, they would be concerned about any genetic disabilities being inherited. If somebody was completely dependent on you to do anything this would be difficult. For example you might need to work and can't be there for them 24/7. Maybe it costs alot of money to cater to and treat their disability. Maybe they can't have intimacy with each other due do the disability. If the person was able to function mostly independently I don't think most people would mind. Like maybe they are blind from one eye or deaf in one ear. Lost a hand/finger, has a prosthetic leg/foot. You can still function at 90% independence levels. At least from a male perspective, I don't think most would mind taking a disabled woman as a 2nd wife if he had the resources. But sometimes disabled persons may have a perspective on life that one may deem attractive.

no hesitation. no.

It depends on the disability and how the woman still takes care of herself. Their mindset as well. If it is a brain tumor or something with how they function mentally, I would not. If she had no legs and was born like that, I would think about it if the rest of her was fine and she was good in the dean. Also, if she is still able to be functional to a degree. Like if she can move around, if she can lift things still, if she can cook somewhat with assistance then it wouldn't be as much of an issue. Bless the people who can be patient with it. Its definitely not easy.

Alhumdulilah I do have someone he's 19 he's doing aalima course in his 3rd year his name Muhammad he's around Leicester he lives with his family he's willing to learn course before marriage of my medical stuff and be trained by doctors like my amma was trained by doctors to take care of me Alhumdulilah hes willing to do that for sake of Allah

A lot of comments are saying "Oh yeah, I can marry someone who is disabled". Are you sure? Don’t you think that will affect sex life? Oh, so it’s about sex? So sex does not matter? Aren’t bedroom problems some of the major problems today? Like, if a man is paralyzed and cannot perform? How is that going to work in the long run? It’s easy to say "Oh yeah, I would marry a disabled person". But have you really imagined the challanges? Talk is cheap. I’m just keeping it real here. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Aslm I have met a wonderful person who is disabled or 'differently abled' but I wouldn't marry him if asked, as he is a friend. However I prefer someone who is strong and able to help me and support me as that is what I need in a practical manner. Alhamdulillaa shukran to the Sheikh for the clear explanation. I understand and appreciate this video

منذ وقت طويل كنت صغيرة في قناة فرنسية شاب في ابهى جماله وقده تنجذب اليه اي امراة ولكن تزوج من امرأة معاقة وعلى كرسي متحرك وكانت بتقريب اعاقتها تبلغ ثمانين بالمئة من جسدها والمعجزة الكبرى انها انجبت طفلة وهذا استبعده الاطباء، وكانت علاقتهم جيدة تقول انها هي من تختار ملابس ابنتها، في تلك الحصة رجال على قدر من الجمال ومستوى إجتماعي جيد تزوجوا من امرأة قزم معاقة اعاقة طبيعية او حادث وحتى من هم مصابون بأمراض تتسبب في النهاية اعاقة للأشخاص كمرض التصلب اللويحي المتعدد، تقول سيدة انها فقدت الامل في أن تجد من يقبلها بهذا المرض ولكن وجدت شخص لم يكترث لذلك وانجبت 3 اولاد وكثير من الحالات من نساء او رجال بالرغم من اعاقة كيفما كانت حركية بصرية ولكن يعيشون حياة زوجية سعيدة ويخلفون، الاعاقة الحقيقية هي ان تكون مع شخص سليم ولكنه معاق في ذهنه وبصيرته هذا الامر ليس متاحف لكل الناس ،فقط لكن لديهم رقي روحي يقبلون بهؤلاء الأشخاص وليس له علاقة بالديانة، مثلا في مجتمع اوربي تجد الرجل يفعل ذلك يتزوج من معاقة والعكس ،يتزوج من مطلقة وليس لديه مشكلة في اعالة اولادها او ارملة ...، بينما في المجتمعات الاسلامية حتى وإن كانت صحيحة وليس لها قدر من الجمال لا يتقدمون لخطبتها معايير عالية يجب ان تكون صغيرة جميلة ، بعد الثلاثين تصبح غير مرغوبة ،ما بالك بالمعاقة ربما موضوع لا يلتفت اليه احد في هذه المجتمعات

If anyone can suggest anything it would mean a lot should I give my parents time ? Please let me know

I believe us Muslim men have the responsibility to marry our disabled sisters and not leave them to commit zina or struggle in life. And that will most likely be under a polygamous relationship so the man feels fulfilled and wouldn’t look somewhere else and the disabled woman gets her marriage life, love, protection, and provision.

Way not

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Brother, do you lead a polyginy, since you talk about polyginy as an easy solution in such a case of disability?

It’s interesting to me that you would think a woman is LESS likely to accept a disabled partner. I’d assume women would be MORE likely, given the idea of them being more emotionally empathetic and nurturing.

I knoe a man who lost almost his whole leg. But fot married and has 7 Kids. 6 of them got married and have kids.

I think woman can stay if they were already married where the man wouldn't stay but could marry a disabled woman wallhu alam

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you only talk about women how about men

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