Marrying My Secondary School Crush | ZULA Perspectives

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Marrying My Secondary School Crush | ZULA Perspectives | EP 7

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We invited 3 couples who have been dating since secondary school to share how their relationships have developed over the last 10+ years. Watch the video to find out more!
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Alfee - / mdalfee
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Zheng Xiang
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Joie Tan - / joiessi
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@ZULAsg 4 жыл бұрын

Are you dating someone you met in school? Share with us how long you've been together!

@missonglai 4 жыл бұрын

ZULA 9 years, since we were 14 and 16!

@p1wonsupremacy 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not dating now but someone confessed to me I'm in sec 3 btw

@Gillda2002 4 жыл бұрын

I am its been 2 years only. My parents made me feel awful about it. Apparently, I am too young no matter what. How I wish I could have accepting parents

@natashar5832 4 жыл бұрын

we've been together since we were 14 years old so coming 7 years now :') thank you for this video, it means a lot

@Asobu369 4 жыл бұрын

17 years! Since sec 1.

@jja08 4 жыл бұрын

Me: nothing can really hurt me. Zula: yo how bout you watch this video while being single?

@benjohn6197 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah lol, it hurts to feel single.

@hi-kp7jg 4 жыл бұрын

@@benjohn6197 It hurts, but one thing that keeps me going, is to realize that there are worse things out there to feel hurt about. JY bro, its all singles club up in here no shame really

@neoyikhao 4 жыл бұрын

Oof

@tmisu4005 4 жыл бұрын

Shetland Gold or watch this video after a break up :)

@DionLYA 4 жыл бұрын

Remember, better to be with someone who loves you then with someone who doesn't.

@Gwendonlyn 4 жыл бұрын

wow rs goals tbh, seldom see couples in sec sch survive so long nowadays.-.

@DionLYA 4 жыл бұрын

It rarely lasted so long back in my day as well (10 years ago).

@macrick 4 жыл бұрын

@@DionLYA 30++ years ago as well. This video is misleading. These are exceptions. $ talks in Singapore.

@moochimichimoo 4 жыл бұрын

i'm 23 and I know some school mates who have been with their bf/gf since sec sch times! Even survived long distance during Uni - i really admired that

@macrick 4 жыл бұрын

@@moochimichimoo Exceptions does not apply to the rule of thumb (majority)

@DionLYA 4 жыл бұрын

@@moochimichimoo Then that's great! What a lot of couples fail to realize, even during marriage, is that no one is perfect. There will be times when there will be disagreements / arguments, and in any kind of relationships, learning to put aside your pride is what makes a difference.

@jumpofftheclive 4 жыл бұрын

My man made a WHOLE DAMN FLASH MOB bro spoil market bro

@Orhneeyou 4 жыл бұрын

Jovina is such a pretty lady! I think she and his fiance have matured mindsets, and the proposal, wow, so well planned.

@onigiripuff2434 4 жыл бұрын

legit thought it was malay-chinese relationship until they brought up that she was malay omg

@cerealkiller7282 4 жыл бұрын

she probably mix

@seeitoh1345 4 жыл бұрын

The way she enunciated several words was quite obvious that she was malay though 🤔

@onigiripuff2434 4 жыл бұрын

seeitoh i didn’t pay attention to her pronunciations HAHAHA i was reading the subtitles

@appl2597 4 жыл бұрын

A lot of Malays in Singapore are mixed. It's very common.

@piguu7226 4 жыл бұрын

19 and have never dated. Standard is set too high (kdramas+parents) yet I have nothing to offer.

@rachelmaharaj9229 4 жыл бұрын

Im also 19 and I wonder where the romance is in my life. I haven't dated and there's no love prospects. But I became satisfied with that. Enjoying my single life. Finding what makes me happy. Also don't stress about what you have to offer. You're (we are) only 19. If your goal is to be financially stable and what not, work towards that goal. In this video these people weren't accepted by their parents in the beginning but because they wanted to be together it all worked out. I love kdramas. My fav one is "The Heirs". I hope you find love.💕💕💕💕

@comaneci_nadia 4 жыл бұрын

19 yrs is nothing & there's no need to worry bout'. I found my 1st love when I was 28 y-o tbh & some ppl found their love when they're in the 30s, 40s & sometimes in the 60s, so cheer up ok. Don't b so sad :)

@wa6342 4 жыл бұрын

Same I wanna cry I feel like love will never come to me .

@TigerAlert 4 жыл бұрын

Have you tried to lower your standards?

@piguu7226 4 жыл бұрын

@@TigerAlert Nah i'm good being alone rn anw

@SodiumHydroxie 4 жыл бұрын

I don't know how he got 100 people for the flash mob, I don't even have 50 friends. 😂

@christophersinambela 4 жыл бұрын

bruh

@vintan5934 4 жыл бұрын

It's easy to have many friends, But you realise it's hard to have many trusted friends. Best to have a true friend than many friends as I grew older

@juniorbee1564 4 жыл бұрын

I only have 3 friends... me, myself, and I.

@str791 4 жыл бұрын

I don't even know 50 people

@Anonymous-lh7hg 3 жыл бұрын

@@vintan5934 this is so true fam... When I was like 13/14/15...I used to be friends with every single one....we used to have 3/4 sections per class and most of them were my friends...but as I grew older , my friend circle become smaller ...

@RainZ3dit0r 4 жыл бұрын

I met my current girlfriend when we were 7 years old, she was performing in front of the school. That moment i thought “wow who is this girl, she’s amazing” but then we were just kids and had no interest in a relationship. But then we got into the same secondary school and when we’re both 17 we started to become closer and closer eventually very close friends. When we finished school we went our separate ways to eventually cross paths now 4 years later. I confessed my love for her face to face( it was the most terrifying moment i’ve have ever faced in my life) and she said yes! Now we’re living our lives with the happiest person that we’ve couldn’t asked for better

@user-eq2tp1gz1r 3 жыл бұрын

aww congrats

@KIARALOVES 3 жыл бұрын

Awwww wish you both many years to come 🥺

@shinhyerim4408 4 жыл бұрын

wHY PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE A SUPER CUTE LOVE STORY MEANWHILE MY LOVE STORY IS A CATASTROPHE

@charcolatier 4 жыл бұрын

I dont even have one lol (｡・//ε//・｡)

@legionmaniac-9202 4 жыл бұрын

Still better than twilight

@umar7151 4 жыл бұрын

maybe because theyre not try to publish their problem with everyone and focused to solve it without everyone knowing it

@Akira1G 4 жыл бұрын

whats your story lol

@utpaladas9243 4 жыл бұрын

Same duh !!! After my last break up I stop dating and I don't think so that I can put anymore effort in a relationship

@nurulaina6943 4 жыл бұрын

Jovina seems like that mature friend of yours who have her life together and a family who supports her.

@jchen8902 4 жыл бұрын

She probably reads all the terms and conditions and makes intelligent financial decisions.

@ArcticFroggies 4 жыл бұрын

the malay couple is the cutest i can't even with the MSN nudge HAHAHA dde dde dunggggg

@FAHAWAY 4 жыл бұрын

What i got from this video : SEC 3 IS THE YEAR!!!

@berniceshinee915 4 жыл бұрын

u realised how the ladies put their hands on the guys thigh? so cute 🥺

@tssnmm 3 жыл бұрын

I envy such couples. They met as kids and grow up together, stronger than ever. I've seen "secondary school couples" enter adulthood then breaking up. It's the saddest thing, ever

@mirmured 4 жыл бұрын

Been with my boyfriend for 4 years +, next month will be our 5 year anniversary! We were from the same secondary school, I had a crush on him back in 2008 (I was 14, he was 15) but I tio rejected LOL. We only reconnected back in Dec 2014, the tables have turned and he was the one who developed feelings first, dated for a while before we got together in April 2015 and we've been together ever since. 😂

@lovefoodsomuch4642 4 жыл бұрын

Couple goals

@unbimfactbap6494 4 жыл бұрын

you're so lucky. i just got rejected from my coworker and things have been awkward between us and we rarely spoke to each other so yeah i wish the tables have turned for me too

@jchen8902 4 жыл бұрын

I came for the relationship goals and left with a motivation to study harder.

@tomj2064 4 жыл бұрын

What I’ve learnt SEC 3 IS F*CKING IMPORTANT

@atinycarat_1407 4 жыл бұрын

Tom Jerry HAHA OMG FR THO LOLL

@azurem7947 4 жыл бұрын

I’m in Sec 3 and nothing has happened yet

@muhammadirshaad7632 4 жыл бұрын

@@azurem7947 gang gang

@jchen8902 4 жыл бұрын

Dun dun dun!

@keerthigummadi 3 жыл бұрын

When I was in sec 3 I had my serious first crush...although it has been many years since I had seen him coz he changed school the next year I didn't forget about him! And after 7 years he sent me a request in Ig 🥺 however he's my crush again

@sandaraparkkpoplover 4 жыл бұрын

I'm dating my secondary school classmate of 4 years and we have only been together for 5 months ( we're both 17 this year). Apparently he has had his eyes set on my ever since secondary 1 but decided to wait until the moment he feels he would be ready hehe. Seeing couples like this make me so happy and that it gives me faith that me and my bf would actually make it that far. Also seeing how we got over O levels together and made it to poly together gives me faith that we could overcome any obstacles together! :)

@lim4856 3 жыл бұрын

" She is very important to me, cause i cant imagine going through life not having her to share everything with" Awwww

@KIARALOVES 3 жыл бұрын

I know right 🥺

@MercyMburuNyakio Жыл бұрын

I'm not crying you're crying!!! 😂

@sonesunny7632 4 жыл бұрын

Me: Single and lonely Also me: Hears about MSN Messenger and starts to feel old

@aerojetrocketdyners-2538 4 жыл бұрын

And here i am still using IRC in 2020

@epiphadipity 4 жыл бұрын

Aiyoooooo all the couples so cute!! For me it was poly, been tgt for 7 years and now engaged. Okay lah almost the same HUEHUEHUE

@gargoylebargo 4 жыл бұрын

that’s good too!! congrats on your engagement!!!

@beenaskitchen8051 4 жыл бұрын

U r tamil?

@JasmineTilman 4 жыл бұрын

“You changed me, thank you”😭❤️

@bumelodyk 4 жыл бұрын

Wow never felt more alone in my life :")

@weiminong302 4 жыл бұрын

met my husband when we were 11 back in primary school! got together, broke up, and got together again, and now we've been married for 3 years with a son 🙂 it's been very difficult at times, but i still count my blessings for all the good that happens.

@joemamaano7372 3 жыл бұрын

i come back to watch this video because seeing someone from my school get in a relationship this long gives me hope

@xcoffeesh 3 жыл бұрын

THIS IS SO SWEETTT. THE WAY THE GUYS PROPOSED THEIR PARTNERS---

@christineseejiahui9150 4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful words 💓 I’m in my 9th year relationship with my secondary boyfriend as of today!! 😇🥰

@feliciachin2301 4 жыл бұрын

omg no wonder the ncc couple seeemed so familiar. I saw their proposal video on ig, one of my favs so far KDJSJKS so happy that they are so cute and happy!

@edithlol7920 4 жыл бұрын

my heart went BABAM BABAM BABAM when all the sweet things happened VSKSNDXNX

@HAYA-TA 4 жыл бұрын

When you found this on your recommendations, you know KZfaq trying to remind you how single you are.

@trix4000 4 жыл бұрын

And there's me secondary 3 being single

@legionmaniac-9202 4 жыл бұрын

Haha

@RayMak 4 жыл бұрын

They are both so sweet

@aashesprod.34 3 жыл бұрын

I'm the first to reply to Ray's comment thats weird

@jstnio 3 жыл бұрын

Ray Mak stop trying to revive your dead KZfaq channel

@ariayang2980 3 жыл бұрын

Now whenever I watch any KZfaq videos, I'm going to search for this guy's comment

@yunz4608 4 жыл бұрын

hey, can you guys make a video on married couple who have been through ldr or anyone w ldr, would love to watch more couple talk. thankyou for the great video.

@Sbwn_ 4 жыл бұрын

The secondary school ver. of jovina looks like my best friend AHHA istg they look almost identical

@stillalive7403 4 жыл бұрын

looking at this i realise that ill never be in a relationship

@terebiomimasu 3 жыл бұрын

What he said at 12:31 followed by her response at 12:40. So sweet!

@jlawrence0181 4 жыл бұрын

It would be very interesting to bring these couples together in FIVE years to see where their relationship is at.

@steffinteo5445 4 жыл бұрын

crescentian here! too bad i didnt meet anyone during my crescent days lol

@wanying8657 4 жыл бұрын

Steffin Teo STEFFIN TEO

@steffinteo5445 4 жыл бұрын

wan ying WHAT LA

@freshvibez9338 4 жыл бұрын

@@steffinteo5445 STEFFIN TEO STEFFIN TEO

@slaiyfershin 4 жыл бұрын

This is a fairytale love story that very rarely happens for most of us. :(

@davhooper1710 4 жыл бұрын

After watching relationship videos on TSL for the longest time, I'm still single...

@MsCherryBlossomLuck 4 жыл бұрын

omg i watched the third couple’s proposal video on ig and cried lol :,) super sweet, didn’t know they were tgt since sec sch

@imblanc6763 4 жыл бұрын

Watching this & I'm still single 😂

@artxigram 3 жыл бұрын

Ma single life can't relate but this channel has so many heartwarming videos so Imma just keep on watching *cries in single*

@gisellelley8100 4 жыл бұрын

Love this kind of couple perspectives videos!!!! jc and pri sch edition pls 😬😬

@stars6100 4 жыл бұрын

They all so handsome/pretty. Watched each other grow up to the people they are today. Such goals.

@aikatsujimoto4306 4 жыл бұрын

Well... Fell in love with a guy from secondary school... He and I were 13... He had feelings for me too. I had plans to marry him. We study-dated before o levels... Then I got dumped during graduation day. Life sucks. 15 years later, I tracked him down, whatsapp him... We talked... And then argued.... Now he's engaged/ married to someone else. Life more sucks.

@dinosaur7115 4 жыл бұрын

Aika Tsujimoto don’t worry there will be better guys than him 😤 U deserve better, forget about him 😅

@aikatsujimoto4306 4 жыл бұрын

@@dinosaur7115 already am.... Well... Technically trying to. He managed to crawl into my dream and made it more difficult to forget. Anyways, I needed to good distraction. Time to volunteer myself and return to Healthcare services to fight off Covid-19. Wish me luck.

@adelchannel842 4 жыл бұрын

girls are choosy too

@aikatsujimoto4306 4 жыл бұрын

@@adelchannel842 men... Women... We are all picky. We cling onto that idealistic type of partner we want. Only a few manage to understand what love or marriage is. I have no regrets actually. I already know that he has already achieved the things that he want... He's a logistic business owner, and must have hit the millionaire mark. But no point being proud of him when he has abandoned religion and blamed God for his father's death. Deep down, I know I have chipped his defense wall.... But his ego got the best of him. If a man or a woman prioritize other things than yourself for many years, you're not supporting him... You're like an extra baggage to him. Took me 15 years to find him and realized he has changed. Took me 15 years to understand the truth that I meant nothing to him. And it took me 15 years to get over him because he is not worth of my love.

@TheTracieMS 4 жыл бұрын

When you single 🙃 but nice to see r/s that last for so longgg

@slimyshady 4 жыл бұрын

"Although I care for him a lot, because we're working towards our future, so money plays quite an important role".

@maressaz 4 жыл бұрын

Aww congratulations! I've been with my husband for 17 years, since I was in sec 3! I can totally relate hahaha!

@Zohnho 4 жыл бұрын

OMFG SO THATS WHY I FOUND THAT COUPLE RECOGNISABLE HAHAHAHA the whooooole video i was like 'where have i seen this couple before' then until they played the flashmob, everything made sense Woot woot GRATS TO THESE THREE COUPLES WOOHOO

@davinhong427 4 жыл бұрын

Amirah is such a queen!!

@HulkVahkiin 4 жыл бұрын

Secondary school BF/GF to marriage is rare AF

@stephaniechen614 4 жыл бұрын

So pure love relationships it is very hard to find after work. Great sharing .

@combat2064 4 жыл бұрын

Me : **watches this video** Also me : **cries in university**

@shir-reefong4399 4 жыл бұрын

i have a crush on this boy in school but i don't know how to confess to him. all my friends will tease me and will start shipping me and its just complicated. me and my friends are good friends and we love to ship each other with random people which is why im scared to confess to him

@jqywwoo2798 4 жыл бұрын

maybe you can just confess to him without letting your friends know about it ! actually it is a lot more fun to be in a SECRET relationship !!!

@binlygoh3723 4 жыл бұрын

well april fools is coming up, just confess and if he says no, then just say 'happy april fools'! 😂

@CcCc-nq9mv 4 жыл бұрын

Try to always chat him, if he reply well. I think he likes you too

@lwr7751 4 жыл бұрын

@@binlygoh3723 smart idea 🤣🤣

@bruhifysson9005 3 жыл бұрын

@@binlygoh3723 youre brilliant

@cchongchannel8943 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing. These are considered "long marathon" journey of love relationship (爱情长跑). Truly glad to see that they were able to hold on to their relationships and their love for each other. Not many could achieve such accomplishments like them. It could be easy to start a relationship, yet it is definitely not easy to keep it up and going well for years. Wishing all lovers the very best in their relationships(愿天下有情人终成眷属). Take good care and may God bless you all.

@pranavi3923 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I am.. :) been with the loveliest guy since last year! It's been a little over a year, and I'm grateful for him everyday.

@kk-xp2fj 4 жыл бұрын

Way to make me feel lonelier haha.

@coconutgirl8664 4 жыл бұрын

It’s funny how the people in those day they would start dating when they are secondary and my parents are like until you finish ur studies... Even so I admire them cuz imma be a single Pringle

@moonsunismarried 4 жыл бұрын

pringles are yummy

@shikuarimikulee145 4 жыл бұрын

Disheartened reminiscing my school relationship, how it fell apart Well it's all in past now but still has a special spot in my heart Buy I'm happy for them.

@tteo_creating_my_own_story Жыл бұрын

They are so sweet. Wish I could have a love like that❤️❤️

@Auggie246 4 жыл бұрын

wtf the dancer guy proposal make me re-evaluate my plan

@kelly14wong 4 жыл бұрын

OMG! ITS JOVINA AND ZHENG XIANG!! THE PROPOSAL WAS SO CUTE 😍😍😍

@brandonjukimin766 4 жыл бұрын

I have a crush since I was a child, but when I confessed my feeling when I was 17, I was rejected. Seeing this kind of videos make me sad.

@macrick 4 жыл бұрын

Ignore bitches, make the dough. You will be surprised how attractive you will turn out to be by age of 30.

@deannad8554 4 жыл бұрын

I love this video, it's so wholesome and heartwarmimg! I wish all of them the best. Ps thank you for sharing their stories!!

@niimahrabiu5815 4 жыл бұрын

I cried really 😢 i didn't expect to cry

@bak3456 4 жыл бұрын

For someone that has never been in a long relationship is so weird to think people date for that long

@yingghit97 4 жыл бұрын

*We are engaged and getting married this year. Coronavirus 2020: Hold my beer!

@gracelim5064 4 жыл бұрын

he said i love u 10 days after they hung out omg what

@hydrazine799 4 жыл бұрын

Love is unpredictable.

@celiaannetta 4 жыл бұрын

aww all the stories are super sweet 🥰

@ohic3034 4 жыл бұрын

this is my favourite zula video sia omg

@trapbois4573 Жыл бұрын

That nokia ring seals too many memories back in India

@ifann88 4 жыл бұрын

Gawddddd, this gives me unbelievable expectations of Singaporean bois,esp. Jovina’s man. Sigh...

@Gunbardo 4 жыл бұрын

Love is just dumb luck people, just acknowledge that and move on. There’s so much more to life~

@madxp9668 3 жыл бұрын

Just saw my schoolmates got engaged We study in the same class , same year And been 11 years , finally getting married

@boombutton3452 4 жыл бұрын

literally everyone has seen that paris in the rain proposal ♡♡ love it yall cute ♡♡

@iMattCi89 4 жыл бұрын

9:02 Is really painful stats - the majority of relationships end when the guy enlists into NS. Most girls can't take the separation well.

@toomuchbuttah 2 жыл бұрын

amirah and alfee's wedding photos were so pretty 😭😭 if my wedding isn't like that, then i don't want it 😩💔

@brendapxh 9 ай бұрын

so cute 😭🫶🏼

@dubbie89ify 3 жыл бұрын

Oh wow. Relationship goals x3 right here!

@cikgucakapapa8906 2 жыл бұрын

You guys can do on arrange marriages too

@adelisefoo4459 4 жыл бұрын

the starting was so cutee

@happyhopie3278 3 жыл бұрын

WAIT IS ONE OF THE COUPLE IS FROM NORTHBROOK SECONDARY SCHOOL!!??? CUZ THEN THEY WERE MY SENIORS THEN!!!

@lizzfarrabbit3126 4 жыл бұрын

am I the only one that crys everytime I see proposals / love...

@rafifah.a 4 жыл бұрын

Still dating with a guy i met during sec 4. This year is our 5th year. Hoping for the happy ending for both of us, however our main big obstacle is the religion difference :)

@qkai7796 4 жыл бұрын

This was posted on my birthday wow. I’m 17 this year and I hope to find someone in poly 😂

@derpybubbles6588 4 жыл бұрын

So pure and wholesome

@nurainiain7761 4 жыл бұрын

So nice, so sweet and so touching.

@r.achell 4 жыл бұрын

I am from crescent girls too

@bobbyfirmino9292 4 жыл бұрын

12:13 my heart🥺👉🏼👈🏼

@seasonalstress1248 4 жыл бұрын

meanwhile i jc1 still single,,haiz so envious

@genevieve4770 3 жыл бұрын

damn their gen is like slowly from friends to couples ig thats how they last but gen z be like omg u cute ur cute too okay let's date then it never last