she's done it again y'all

As a man, I can relate to these lyrics. After 12 years and several children, I walked away from a woman I love and still do. Her love of alcohol exceeded that of me and our children. Loving her has made it difficult to seriously move on but as Mary says, “love will return”, some day. For now it’s me and my babies.

When you had me you should have NEVER QUESTIONED❤❤❤❤❤😂😢

I was in a bad relationship I was never happy I found myself crying over a man that did not love me the way I loved him I heard this song by Mary and it gave me the strength to pick myself up and walk away thank you Mary you saved my life in more ways than one thank you again and God bless this song is a women's anthem.

Her best music has been when she has gone through a storm cause it is so relatable. #SheIsWinningRegardless

OH DAMN!!!! I heard this the first time while I was driving home, I had to bypass my house! this shit had me going! I wasn't ready for it!!! I love this Mary J. repeat! sunroof open and mind clear!!!

This song helped me thru an end to an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship with a narcissist. When we ended I felt dead inside. But this song made me realize why I went thru that trauma. ❤❤❤

I behaved stupidly mistaking a long term relationship for real love and 6 years ago while driving in the car with my then 2 year old, his child, I heard this song. He hid the birth of his other child from me for a year. Once I learned of the baby, I could do nothing but shed tears. Praise God for healing through the grace of time gives. I'm better for it. Definitely a love lesson.

Her voice sounds really clear.

To her husband..Bitch you had it all..But you lost it..now somebody else gone have that good thing...You crazy man....All she wanted was love and lil shit and you couldn't even give her that..Hold your head up Mary..You have this..We behind you 1000

Getting over a narcissist this song here speaks to me in more ways than one. And just relationships that was always one sided and me always getting the short end of the stick. Thank you MJB

Everything she say. I really. Been through it. I choose wrong men's in relationships. I had married wrong man. Getting a divorce. In spite all pain & hurt. I been through. God brings me. Through it. In spite. My loneliness. God only understand me.

This April, "Share My World" Turns 20, In July, "What's the 411?" Turns 25 and At the End of the Year, "Growing Pains" Turns 10. 25 Years In the Game and She STILL Putting Out Albums and Bangers. Been a Fan Since '96. Can't WAIT For This New Album to Come. #THEQUEENOFHIPHOPSOUL 😍👑💯

This album should've been My Life PT. 2 who else agrees

This CD got me through the heartache! She never lied

Who's still bumping this in 2020💜

I get chills when I hear this melody. Mary out did herself on this song. Every person that have been in a relationship have felt like U + ME Love Lesson. I know I have felt like this... Go Mary....

Such a freaking beautifully written song. The lyrics are so relatable, vulnerable, and honest. I love the entire song, but I am obsessed with the ending (4:43-5:00). Like, WOW!!!!! "Think of about how valuable you are. Don't let what he put you through cause you to close your heart."

This song deserves a music video! Whew! One of my favorites from Mary!

I live for the “woahhhhhhhh ooooaaaahhhhh” 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

None of Mary's songs get old

Dammit Mary, I wasn't ready.... Another track is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

"You plus Me was a Love Lesson", how much deeper of a sentiment do you need? Damn Mary!

2022 still bumping. Mary knows all the feels! And puts it perfectly for everyone to relate to!

Jesus Christ S/O to whoever mixed and engineered this 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Damn I heard this ONCE and I fell in LOVE!! yas mjb

Must've been crazy to think that you loved me I saw all the signs but I just couldn't say nothing I did the time across the line for you 'Cause I can't see myself with nobody else but you Tell me what you're thinking 'cause this is what you wanted Should've been the one to hold me when I got lonely 'Cause every time I think of the lies you told to me Make it easy for me to leave You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me You plus me You plus me Oh, I was ridin' wherever you going At times, I wanted to leave, but didn't wanna be lonely Can't deny the fact you were my one and only Love that I would do, only love I knew And now I gotta turn my back 'cause you didn't realize that, boy This was a real thing And I just can't deny the fact we don't belong together Guess it ain't the real thing You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me You plus me You plus me Gotta keep on pushing and love myself through the hard times Gotta keep my patience, still a long way to go now There's so much to learn When we trust the love that's deep in us, then love will return Boy this thing was a love lesson You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me You plus me You plus me You plus me You plus me You plus me

2021 still here. These lessons never get old

The Queen has returned...long live The Queen.

I knew she was gone come hard. She's telling all now. Been a fan since day ☝️ . This album gone be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.

The bridge🔥🔥🔥 Lord I love Mary's music!!

Timeless! Epic material!❤

All real Mary fans are bobbing they head right now and remembering when real R&B like this used to exist🎵🎵🔥🔥

" you had me should have never questioned"-best line in the song

This beautiful sister has NEVER dropped a bad album. #IBelieveInNever She will always Hold the title of Queen of Hip Hop Soul & R&B. The alternative music has never missed a beat! You got this Mary! #Always #CapricornSister♑️

This song really helped me to make the decision to leave a relationship that I was in,they were always telling other people about what going on in our relationship making me feel like fool and I was always the bad one in the relationship,always putting the blame on me always telling me to get out especially after the rent was paid it was the most toxic relationship that I’ve ever gone through but it’s finally over now and now I am free to move on there were times that I never knew when the angry would have gotten physical but I wasn’t going to stick around to see it so I have often heard that some women aren’t so lucky but I am definitely glad I started to see the signs this song truly is amazing thank you Ms.Blige for giving me the courage through your song and words

Diz Shit need 100 million fuckn views I mean Dam Ain't no other artist dat can take u there like Mary 25 year z strong #RespectDaQueen

Who scrolling while listening?💋

Even if you’re not going through it she has this way of making you feel it. ❤

Must be crazy to think you love me that's a deep feeling 💪

seems like we always going thru shit at the same time😍😍😍💯

2 thousand people need there ears checked.. This is some true shit!! I am forever a Mary J Blige fan..😍😍😍😍😍💕💕

2021 STILL HERE!!!!!!

"GOD is LOVE...abide in LOVE" (1 John 4:16)! Man cannot love until he first love JESUS, & man cannot befriend another until he first befriend JESUS!

damn I was wondering how she was going top " thick of it" and she did, those low tones notes took me back to the old Mary, we got to support R& B music again y'all.

I don't mean anything bad by this, but is it just me or does Mary make AMAZING music when her heart is broken......

This song makes me cry!! Wasted 9 years of my life🥲🥲

This song resonates very loud for me as going through it with someone who has poignant addiction struggles. it has impacted my personal and professional lives in a plethora of ways. I hear Mary's saga as well as her trials and tribulations as moments in time. I told ppl years ago if we are not growing then time to get going! Not an easy piece of advice to adhere to however when you keep second guessing movements it is imperative to remove self from the damage done. It is so real out here in these streets. This is my favorite song by MJB after her 30+yrs on the block.🤔📣

Smh Mary been controlling my emotions for 25 years she sing it I feel it

the reason Mary has been in the game so long she just always different from the rest of the r&b artists, my opinion!

come on Mary!!!! still a bop in 2021

I can't get enough of this song it's like she saying what I want to say just love 💕 it.

I saw all the signs but just wouldn't say nothing....that part is so deep.

Mary J came back strong, I've listened to this song about 1000 today at work, kept it on repeat. I thought "thick of it" blowed my mind but this one right here tho..........💯

This should've been the lead single from this album.

You had me, should of never questioned

This dat type of joint when you're in your car, volume up, windows down, head nodding... Mary, you got another one, sis!

Man this song is the truth....12 years and 3 kids later. Trust me with every disappointment in life there is a lesson for you to learn. I'm going to focus on the lesson and not the disappointment.

This my girl she puts her heart and soul in her music. MJB missing her at Essence Festival. 2022 comeback girl my fellow Capricorn!

She dropped SO MANY JEWELS IN THIS SONG. I LOVE YOU MARY

Damn why didn't she make a video to this

I can't find this on my local radio station in Georgia so i hooked my TV to speakers so my whole neighborhood knows mary got a new album coming. Mary's biggest fan

You ever have one of those songs that just wakes you up no matter what time it is? This is one of those songs. Love you, Mary. Thank you for your music. 💙🎶

Tell me why I just discovered this song because I called the pharmacy at Walgreens and they put me on hold and I was like “oh ok they jamming” lol and then I went to find the song on KZfaq and I did ❤

Me+Mary album= I'm buying!

I'm feeling it more and more every time I listen to it 😭

SOMEWTIMES ❤CONQUERS ALL AND IT ALSO COMES WITH LESSONS💯

I can't believe 5 years flew by. These songs just came out and I was blasting the whole album. Mary always delivers

Background vocals in this song was mind blowing. Gave me goose bumps to listen to it.

The song for the victim of a #narcissist ....Good one Mary!

Mary will have you viben to her music all day

QUEEN

Mary J NEVER DISAPPOINTS!!!

I can listen to this all day I'm in love with it already u+me

Going through it right now, for what?

This just hit a spot……..

Over 25 years in the game and Mary still putting out bangers. People can say what they want to about her vocals but very few females in rnb can fuck with her discography. Facts.

THIS SONG NEEDS A VIDEO STILL........ 2018

I'm a young man I'm 18 and I love this song I been through some experience in life already

Don’t no body make hurt, pain and must move forward music like Mary🤦🏽‍♀️💯

Mary was writing this Album through all that pain of her divorce . Where in for a treat come April 28th..cant wait.

I'm not always good but I stay on my feet👉FACTS.

"When you are in love, you see what you want to see." End quote Mary J Blige. 😮

“Gotta keep on pushin, gotta love myself through the hard times” 💯🙌🏽

Know your worth walk away if ur partner is playing games. Your happiness is your responsibility

M.J.B is undeniably the most consistent artist since the 90s. always giving her fans that something special feel good life lesson vibe.

First time ever hearing her use her whistle notes back to back

This song ain't break ups, it's about failed friendships

This song got me through a horrible heartbreak 💖

This groove is cool. The bass line is right in the pocket. I like the background vocals.

Man, let me tell you... I’m HAPPILY married but I’ve had this song on repeat since this morning, it’s now 6:00 in Kansas City, Mo and I’m still Jammin to this bishhhhhhhhhh #u+me

🎉🎉🎉Big fan of MARY. J.BLIGE...she got me Thur some time of LOVE lessons... R.&B... QUEEN of HIPE HOP

You know I watched her breakfast club interview where she said he used to say things like her fans didn't love her anymore. like how mean was that. We will always love Mary. and this song just proves how amazing she is and always will be. This song is everything 🔥🔥😙😙😙😙

3 kids no ring 12 years off my life and now am done he had me ....

This is a hit song for ever. Love Mary you are a real woman and you have motivated a lot of woman’s.

2020 ANYONE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

She still has it, 25 years later. It's about time she starts getting tributes this year... Billboard and BET definitely better do something for her. Mary is one of the most charted women on the Billboard charts and has sold over 65 million records WW and won dozens upon dozens of awards and accolades so some type of tribute is deserving at this point in her career

HOW THE HELL 87 PEOPLE DISLIKE THIS TRACK ?!?!?! THIS IS FIRE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Not always good but I stayed in my FEET 🥺😔

Took a bad situation and turned it into a hit😅 rolling heavy and hard