Lady in black has great maturity n the best thing is, she's really cute !!!!!

That black beautiful lady behind has mature reasoning

The lady in black has a mature reasoning capacity I love the way she reasons

We men we need to be flexible, helping your partner with house work doesn't mean disrespecting

That lady in black has a well balanced mind. There are always two sides to the coin.

Helping your wife with house work doesn’t mean she’s disrespecting him. That’s how it’s supposed to be. She’s not a maid. Me I am a man and helping a woman I love is a must.

Lady in black has balanced maid bambi God bless you.pastor Herbert

I really love Claire Santa's comments the lady in black at the backseat big up

I like that Lady in black 🖤🖤🖤. Thank you

I do everything at home, cleaning, paying rent and buying groceries /foods, i have nothing i can't do at home but i have found it that ladies take you for granted once you open up to help these ladies

Both partners need to be open to each other , help yo partner share everything that brings peace in your relationship

The lady in back is on point her reasoning is very good

The lady in black is the best with smart minds 👏

Claire (lady in black at the back) very well said I like the fact that your impartial unlike your other friends... nandi kuwereza ka xmas present wabula.. electronic gift card oba👏👏🤙🤙

I also agree with Claire

Gals lots of love so happy 100% with all yo points respect comes both ways

This is really good to educate Ugandan couples.they don’t know that they have to be on the same page like invensting for themselves and their generation.women have a say (akasente kekyikyala) which makes men helpless and hopeless in marriage.ending up to everyone doing on her or his own.

Wamma nze bwemba silina manyi gafumba my hubby can cook ,he can do everything ngasazeewo naye tebamulagira,,,i just thank the lady who raised hım 🙏🙏

I have enjoyed and learn something thanks to you all

Nalina omukazi e Uganda 🇺🇬 yali akola,nganange jiya nganfuna olusifuna kinene lumunangenda nenfumva emere ,nejoza ebintu nengenda okuyiya, olwadako nalina okugenda, okuyiya,safumba nesuwani sazoza,ngabwomanyi nezinja nakafera, netise yangamba kimukamwake owaye ebintu wabireke ani?okuva olwo sadayo kumuyamba, bweyafulumanga tugendafena, netwukanira kupaka,nengenda kubyange,natandika okubyeyoleza,kati abana abo kyebogera ebimubitufu,nsinga nafuna omukazi omukwabo obufumbo bwanditerede,mbakonedemu!!!!!!!I love you ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆☆☆☆☆♧

The way am enjoying the show😘😘🔥🔥 OMG It's a matter of understanding each, banange nze omusaja eyosobola I don't have problem with him, but if we are sharing bills my dia don't even think of okusajalata .tweyambe yambe ekyo kigwe .

I’m enjoying the conversation with these Beautiful Souls..Have seen Brains here 👌👌 Even Next time Madam #Flavia we need these ladies bateseza bulungi 😊👌 Naye waliwo ankubye patange ☺️

I really love the way these ladies analyze their issues concerning relationship. Thank you so much guys. I love you all.

These ladies are so understanding..bt as a man personally helping ma woman is something i would love to do

Flavia Okoze ekibozibozi mu motoka. Naye Women in diaspora are not easio. These ladies are tough

baano bankolede,i wish my fiance can listen to this.

Have these two beautiful ladies ❤

First here, am watching, I think it's all about want to be equal

Those men love slay queens nebatamanya nti slay queen anonya way out to her destination.

Thanks for the show Flavia, am joying the show soo funny 😄 😆

Indians are the richest and the most educated in every country they go to. This is because of their family unit.

Omukazi yanjoogela e Chicago😢 Irene wanjooga!

I love this program.. much love from home Uganda.. I hope am the first to comment

This woman behind in black is very wise

Claire and Santa, surely you've nailed it. He and she got to work jointly and totally complement each other in this capitalism era. Naffe abasajja tusilika naye ebimu bitumenya nnyoooo

It's true some men, don't want to work and women work, earn and pay all bills but still respect eachother and husband and wife.

Thx for the show flavia❤️

bambi ka Fanta Claire kalabika bulungi, koogela bulungi and she is humane. she sounds compassionate.

good conversation but it makes more sense when one person speaks at a time.

The ladies are balanced in their reasoning. i think the behavior of men and women in marriage is hell bent on the culture shocks that each of them faces in America as opposed to Uganda.

loved these ladies when they were giving their views by the way start bringing such topics, thanks so much there was something to learn out of it but those men who like women to hell with them.

This topic has made rounds on different channels lately, I like how the ladies balanced the discussion,,, not talking for one side.. My view: when you relocate to a new environment, HAVE AN OPEN MIND AND BE READY/WILLING TO ADAPT TO THE NEW ENVIRONMENT. That way you will have less challenges in the new place. For instance:if in Uganda men don't participate in domestic chores coz that's how culture is, when you go to a new place where you as a man are required to participate in domestic chores don't be rigid, adjust... Unless you are going to provide for the family (the biggest part/pay all bills) but if the woman has to take care of the bills approximately same as you or even more, then things are not going to go well.

Nice to see Claire.

i passed through the worst wen the man brought me to the US, i was not supposed to work,he paid his bills but remember i have a family at home that i used to care for,abakazi ssi babbi naye nabasajja sibangu,i started working by force,is that nkujogga, men here are bad

Lady in black ure no.1

My agreement with my partner is that whoever is at home does every errands including dropping and picking.

The presenter's thinking and mentality is so myopic . The lady guests are upright and with good intent

Flavia, greetings and much love to you and all that you do. Back to topic. The answers to your questions are 2 basic things:: 1. Bwogenda ebulya mbwa, …. 2. Self understanding and self appreciation 3. Man and wife MUST create their own culture in their home. Ebya “Supposed, supposed, supposed.” Bisudde amaka manji. What works in one home does not necessarily work in another.

Point clear cic claire

Ate for all your safety bambi mwandituziiza this meeting nga temuli mu kuvvuga motoka. Katonda abakuume. bano abakyala abattelemu obwangu.

Great episode. Keep up the great work.

Thank you Flavia and your girls

We help out women,but I was married to a Jamaican. These women have trauma from their childhood. They never got help to heal their trauma, now they destroy men's lives due to this. It's beyond men's control. I took care of my house, took care of my kids. I wanted a family more than anything but she wanted to have her cake and eat it. Am single and take care of my kids in a healthier environment. Until I find a woman who is on the same page. I would rather be single till the right person comes along.

Respecting each other!

I have fallen in love with these two claires cos they intelligent and objective. Though nze sileta ndibotta from Uganda 😏Thanks for the show guys!

BANANGE BAKAZI BANANGE OBUFUMBO MUKISA ABANTU BELONDALONDANYO BWOLIBERA OMUKAZI OMUKOZI ENYO ABASAJJA BAKUTYA BWOBA OMUNAFU NAKYO KIBAMENYA NAYE OMUNTU BWABA ALINA KYAYAGALA ALINA OKUFIRILILA POINT EBERE AMERIKA OBA AFRICA TWO PEOPLE MET ON THE WAY ITS GODS MERCY TO MAKE IT

Thank for the show 😂😂😂😂😂FLAVIA

I like the way these ladies express their views. BUT Claire your dialect humbles any man

Good show Flavia! Please invite African women and men on MS Teams or Zoom for a deep discussion or debate. Things are far more different abroad than in Uganda.

Flavor I wish am a friend to Klear, Bambi she is so understanding

Thank for bringing Suzan eyali omutunzi wange kutumideko

am in love with the conversation for sure## thanxs to u flavior

Mwebalenyo mbakonedemu, nze Moses Bukenya Kazungu UK 🇬🇧

@claire #Keep winning gal. Looking great 👍

Women earn alot of money abroad and become so excited it's their nature

Nice jazz Flaviana✌.

thank you guys for the discussion

__ Mujja ku kaddiyira eyo, era mifiire mu bwa nnakyeyombekedde !!! 😁kitalo.

Marriage will always be analog mujakwerimba but u will never change anything okujako okudiba

Fravia oyagala kusasuza bawo buli kimu naye oswadde bakunyonyodde ebyo byoyogera bikoma mukyalo Kampala.

Flavia, please come back to Uganda.....we miss you bambi...you're a class apart .

Respecting each other

Abakyala bank mbagadde. Bogera mazima bambi

Flavia, please organize a debate between men and women of African origin to that we can exchange ideas.

Woow so beautiful ladies ❤

Honestly some men not all of them have that ego “am the man” but not every man l think it’s all about communication and uu balance working shifts

Hi dear Flavia greeting u, 4m I hated love coz women if they get money oh they changed their behaviors so I don't know that love is still there in the world this day byakutemesa nosiikamu maso I mean just get lady for one day and move on obuffumbo bwebulaya tebusoboka 4me I made trusted ladies but kyebatusizako I don't think nti love ekyaliyo in this world I love you, dear thanks

The concept of perceiving a working ambitious woman as man is ignorant in itself. Thanks Claire.

A woman will never be a man and his respect period

To me I think , some men naturally bajozi , just like how they enjoy there life home with multiple women, here we share the bills we save the money together and the man goes around to sleep with different girls and giving out our savings which is very disrespective, on top of that men are very rigid because if we all go and work the same hours omusajja kimujjako ki to come back and help you with house cores and kids , we all come back home very tired and he sits at the table to wait for food , shower and sleep and he leaves all the work with kids to the wife

When a man and woman live together as a couple and both are working, it's fine to support each other financially. Forget about the treatment back home. Please organize a zoom meeting for men and women.

I want to give more clarification on this topic flavia.There are three types of relationship.(1)is where a man and a woman peacefully agrees to share responsilities 50/50 i mean, if awoman breastfed in the morning a man bottle-fed in the night, if a woman washes dishes, the man has to do the same.they have to pay rent together and the list goes on...the duration of this marriage me and you i don't know.... (2) is when a man takes responsibilities of everything to his family which has everything what that man desires from his family without complaining and living together peacefully.....this allows a woman to have time for her family and respect to her husband and even if this woman is working she will not strain to hard to provide for her family but only to give a helping hand to her husband.... (3)is when a woman works too hard to provide for the family. In hear the man is the helping hand to this woman so this turns out that a woman is the head of the family and i assure you this man will never gain any respect as a man.Men suck to take care of, they are like babies so with this working woman will never fulfil both or if she trys so hard her soul will bleed filled with anger,sadness and so on and that's where the war begins so,these are men putting blame to women mbu they are bad, don't respect men and more.So,my advise goes to both Men and women know yourself and what you want before any relationship to avoid these unnecessary complains and harming each other.And my last word to men, please, stop being so lazy, work so hard to retain your respect in a relationship or before embarking on that journey.you are mean't to look for money.You have all the chances, time, energy than a woman to look for money.Money and respect is everything to a man..

I cook better than my wife, funny thing she's from Africa and got her from Africa but even her she was surprised that I could almost by myself and that I was self sufficient. Her parents came to visit and were very surprised how self sufficient I was but it's tiring sometimes and wish I had an African lifestyle where everything is done for me especially breakfast and all I have is to go out to work and provide for the family but here in diaspora it's hard to have such a life because we don't have maids and time. Men in diaspora need to be patient and understanding but also proactive otherwise your marriage won't survive. Another thing most women taken from diaspora have financial commitments to their own family back home and men need to accept that I guess

The lady in black gave a better and balanced debate thank u.

Now I agree with caleir

Hello dia Nze jangala kufumira muchala❤ Siri na mukazi

Caire u are right.

Flavia okyalimu ekyalo kya Bukedde

Gals u look so amazing

Cleya nze Ndi ku side yo I have to sport my husband in everything ✍️✍️✍️✍️

Kyemuva temuggya kukulakulana ngamudda mu "it's his responsibility". Bakyala mukole nyo muyambagane muvve mukwewussa, I am with you Claire and Santa, a household should be joint, muvve mu byokulinda mbu omusajja yasasula bills, get your funds together and work jointly, you will have a peaceful marriage. Stop overburdening men bakyaala and being lazy. Wano kubulaaya you need to work hand in hand in order to not overstress one party. You don't lose your womanhood if you help, stop it Flavia. And women mulekeraawo okwesiba mu unhappy marriages please move on and hassle for yourself and your kids.

With this mentality in marriage, mujja kufa bwavu mu America!! Flavia has a natural problem, she’s ever confusing Ugandan community women in her interviews! She has even annoyed these girls! Ever on side of luring women to be mean! Wama Claire you are right!!

Claire onkoledde nyo 💋💋💋

Lots of love Mirembe Suzie my fashionist. All I can say about the topic is ; men should know women are born of the same womb as them. They grow same so I wonder why men think they are above women yet we are all the same. A part from the sex. They are energetic compared to women. Meaning they would be the ones doing a lot.

I hv loved Suzan she is smart look for me suzan

Very true, there men who are women, omusajja akuzalamu a banna nga tasobola kubalabilira, tayagalo kola, talina mukwano yadde nga amagezige gonna gagwera mu bigere. And those are the one that complain inti abakazi babajoga. There few men these days Flavia.

Banange Flavia noonyako nange nina emboozi neene

Bwoba tolina ssente on either side bajja kukujooga.

Our Mothers ..Grands.. the work ..the responsibility..the fetching of water in villages..collecting firewood..digging and management of farms..etc..means even in Uganda a woman plays around 60 to 70%.contribution for the wellbeing of the family...Namulindwa ...The Topic is..""Why Women runaway"..??...its very bad for either a man or a woman to ran away ??

Love you ❤Flavi