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My WORST Break Up Story (Animated)

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Mitch Manly

Mitch Manly

Күн бұрын

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@MasculineMan
@MasculineMan 6 жыл бұрын
My goal with this channel is to serve you guys, and create videos that add value to your lives. So if you enjoyed this video, subscribe and hit the bell icon :) Many more stories to come in the future!
@GreenOx-yo6nk
@GreenOx-yo6nk 6 жыл бұрын
Masculine man, I am trying to be like Jeff I am trying to better myself every day, I want to be the best me that I can be so I can eventually keep a relationship, would it be too much trouble to ask for some advice from you?
@saifulanswer
@saifulanswer 6 жыл бұрын
Jeff story is kinda cool, but it's too good to be true. Noone would be that Jeff when they're down. That's what I know 🤐
@thelonecyborg3555
@thelonecyborg3555 6 жыл бұрын
Masculine Man I love you're animations but if you want to attract new viewers you have to make more content, you keep putting your channel on hold to focus on you're animations but you need to give us different content while you're at it, like mastar Media, I don't even like him but what he's doing is smart, he's letting his fans know I'll take a long time to make anime war animations but until then he'll post anime review videos to keep them busy, I'm not trying to tell you what to do I'm just saying these days if you keep doing the same old thing eventually people are going to get tired of it and you're gonna keep losing viewers if you have nothing to fall back on and I don't want to see that happened to a channel like yours
@fastjack2792
@fastjack2792 6 жыл бұрын
Never got cheated on. But when the shit goes down you gotta - whatever it be - you have to make the best of it. Actually a very Stoic notion:)
@berdt4870
@berdt4870 6 жыл бұрын
I dreamed if working in an art related job or animation. This video restored a little passion in me :)
@mulani5992
@mulani5992 5 жыл бұрын
no matter what anyone says, there's *no* excuse for cheating. it's a disgusting, heartless, and scummy thing to do. it messes with a person's heart and soul on such a deep level.
@79mikeotto
@79mikeotto 5 жыл бұрын
No, according to this video, its ok if you weren't working out and eating well.
@bigrozo
@bigrozo 5 жыл бұрын
@@79mikeotto This video is trying to simp and white knight by blaming female moral failure on males
@Bragglord
@Bragglord 5 жыл бұрын
@@bigrozo agreed, it certainly comes across that way. Not nearly enough blame for the female.
@Bragglord
@Bragglord 5 жыл бұрын
@@azaquihelify delightfully platitudinous.
@User83177
@User83177 5 жыл бұрын
Beeby exactly
@jeffmarron3887
@jeffmarron3887 4 жыл бұрын
No matter how many flaws someone might have, nobody deserves being cheated on.
@yourheinness9275
@yourheinness9275 4 жыл бұрын
MMmmmmm I wonder where I've read about this before.....???? O yeah in the bible! It says not to commit adultery and fornicate or to lust after someone else's stuff. Now it makes sense! Funny how that old book still have all the answers hey?? Don't wonder why!
@jeffmarron3887
@jeffmarron3887 4 жыл бұрын
My friend. I absolutely respect christians and beloved and great prophet Jesus Christ pbuh. But i am a shi'a muslim and i have never read the holy bible. But i agree with you.
@sbj6781
@sbj6781 4 жыл бұрын
The real "girlfriend" will fix that flaws.
@koniJnr
@koniJnr 4 жыл бұрын
Mike Driggs Instead of bashing a whole religion, maybe you should read the bible more, stop watching Fox News and being brainwashed. I’m Sunni Muslim, I believe heaven will be inhabited by humans of all faiths, who are honest, just and god fearing/loving.
@TheRalphrochie
@TheRalphrochie 4 жыл бұрын
@@koniJnr haha. I think that guy is a troll. He just wanted to stir up some hate. Good thing Jeff ignored
@AP3x6917
@AP3x6917 3 жыл бұрын
Acceptance is the hardest part. Accepting that the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with doesn't want the same thing, after years of commitment, is extremely difficult.
@sagargrajput5582
@sagargrajput5582 3 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now. My 6 years of relationship just ended. I'm dead inside
@aparmaya4yew
@aparmaya4yew 3 жыл бұрын
@@sagargrajput5582 same bro...this is so heartbreaking..
@timothygibney159
@timothygibney159 3 жыл бұрын
Totally Bro. The key for getting over someone is acceptance like you said. It won't happen overnight but until you tell your brain SHE AIN'T coming back. Only then you heal with time
@blacklightrr
@blacklightrr 3 жыл бұрын
20 years here...
@Dan-sm3ov
@Dan-sm3ov 3 жыл бұрын
7 fucking years and she is my first love. I was planning to marry her this year but she broke up with me, and moving on with someone new. It's been 6 months but it feels like yesterday 💔
@brandonholtz5309
@brandonholtz5309 4 жыл бұрын
I dated a girl for over 3 years. When that relationship ended it nearly broke me. Worst breakup ever (it was my first). I can’t even begin to imagine a 10 year relationship ending. Whole ass decade of your life.
@laelahazel6732
@laelahazel6732 3 жыл бұрын
This year is unreal. I had a boyfriend 5 years he ended up my heart broke into million pieces.. From this heart brk I experiencing alots to let go.. I feel it not easier but while I'm letting go I cry this tears ll bring me joy oneday.. So heartbreak is a monsters
@kidneyenvy4379
@kidneyenvy4379 3 жыл бұрын
I can. My wife divorced me. We had been together for 13 years. She started dating someone before she even moved out. The last four months or so have been hell for me.
@myaqoobi3551
@myaqoobi3551 3 жыл бұрын
exact same thing happened... broke up with my first gf.. after 3 years of relationship... in aug 2020... worst year ever.
@YanaPetruk
@YanaPetruk 3 жыл бұрын
My bf broke up with me after 6 years together. A year since the breakup and it still hurts like hell. But I moved on and accepted the facts. Nevertheless, it’s still painful.
@chiaramarchese8354
@chiaramarchese8354 3 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry, that's really sad
@itstatter5585
@itstatter5585 5 жыл бұрын
As soon as I heard the “coming home early” scenario I already knew...
@MasculineMan
@MasculineMan 5 жыл бұрын
lol yep
@InfamousLuigi
@InfamousLuigi 5 жыл бұрын
MTD Fishing that’s exactly my thought too. It’s sad how true and commonly it happens that you can predict it so far out
@princejlverzo7276
@princejlverzo7276 5 жыл бұрын
same
@audreypayal
@audreypayal 5 жыл бұрын
@@InfamousLuigi ikr why can't lovers just be loyal to each other? This makes me wanna be single throughout my life
@rogerbuschmann8161
@rogerbuschmann8161 5 жыл бұрын
It´s always the gardener !
@djdirewolfe6079
@djdirewolfe6079 5 жыл бұрын
Basically dont let another person be your only source of happiness. You'll just be hurt and disappointed, I promise
@flufftronable
@flufftronable 5 жыл бұрын
dj direwolfe realise your the only one responsible for your happiness
@kub_us
@kub_us 5 жыл бұрын
I'm in a situation where my girlfriend is the only thing that brings me happiness, and if she ever leaves me or something bad happens to her, I'm going to commit suicide.
@jenny-vh3eh
@jenny-vh3eh 5 жыл бұрын
Karolis van Houten Never make another person who isn't infinite and is just as flawed as everyone else dictate such impactful and important things in your life such as happiness and very ESPECIALLY your own life itself. It is too valuable and precious and treasurous to be determined by external, temporary things and things that dont level with the great value of you life and your soul
@lelekos9103
@lelekos9103 5 жыл бұрын
Great advise
@SuperRavensfan101
@SuperRavensfan101 5 жыл бұрын
dj direwolfe everyone should live selfishly in a certain aspect. That is do what you love in life, don’t do things for other people but rather for self enjoyment or help yourself be happy before you can help others.
@raygacy
@raygacy 4 жыл бұрын
My ex gf of 5 years have left me 6 days ago without any closure. I find this really useful for me. Thank you 😇👍
@Roadglide86
@Roadglide86 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that it's brutal, I got dumped month and half ago it's torture shit
@ican3900
@ican3900 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for this Is that u with Gary? ??!
@raygacy
@raygacy 4 жыл бұрын
@@Roadglide86 i feel you bro. Once you get to mix with more friends and join certain groups on dating and self improvement, you can get over it sooner than ever.
@raygacy
@raygacy 4 жыл бұрын
@@ican3900 yes it is. No worries. I just feel sorry for her that she can't and will never enjoy true happiness. Her perception about love and relationship have been fucked cos of her and her parents. 😇
@frankotradez
@frankotradez 3 жыл бұрын
i got cheated on, we talked about it gave her one more chance only to realize she was talking to someone again that she talked to before when she was cheating on me, it’s hard to break off but with me having a bright future with entrepreneurship and investing i’ll get over it pretty soon. I see that you took a pic with Gary you’re lucky!
@The.Doctor2
@The.Doctor2 4 жыл бұрын
Morale of the story: Keep moving forward, until the very end.
@aslphoenix0014
@aslphoenix0014 2 жыл бұрын
Brat
@johnathanbredenkamp9875
@johnathanbredenkamp9875 5 жыл бұрын
"He learned that he can actually come home early" Oh boy
@mandla_on_retro
@mandla_on_retro 5 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't have learned that 😂
@darkcrisisgaming298
@darkcrisisgaming298 5 жыл бұрын
We all knew what was up after that sentence, lol
@Kcvee777
@Kcvee777 5 жыл бұрын
@@mandla_on_retro bahahahahahahahaha
@LegalShield3000
@LegalShield3000 5 жыл бұрын
I'm probably not the only one who knew where that was headed.
@soyusmaximus7176
@soyusmaximus7176 5 жыл бұрын
I knew what was coming then lmao
@chesster423
@chesster423 5 жыл бұрын
Lesson of the story: Dont make your girl the center of your life.
@masyaf897
@masyaf897 5 жыл бұрын
True
@milos6348
@milos6348 5 жыл бұрын
Lesson is don't give your girl reason to cheat.
@Kuro-hq6el
@Kuro-hq6el 5 жыл бұрын
Not really, just learn how to accept things and move on.
@kaisatoridraws3437
@kaisatoridraws3437 5 жыл бұрын
So that she feels like you don’t love her so she decides to feel better with someone else!
@chesster423
@chesster423 5 жыл бұрын
@@kaisatoridraws3437 lol... *Guy doing everything* Girl: You are being so clingy, needy, pushy. *Finds another guy* *Guy not making you the center of his life* Girl: You don't love me enough. *Finds another guy*
@The_Platinum_Realist
@The_Platinum_Realist 2 жыл бұрын
“Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” That’s a very flawed and dangerous way to advise people think.
@The_Platinum_Realist
@The_Platinum_Realist 2 жыл бұрын
@@beckyanna7287 Don’t need to. It only takes a handful of people to see the flaws in a straw man argument such as the argument of advising people to develop the destructive submissive mindset that it’s their fault they got cheated on like “Did I do anything to make her cheat on me?” and call it a bad idea. Bottom line there is never really a reason for a cheater to cheat. Cheaters cheat because they wanted to and because they could.
@yoo562
@yoo562 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I was waiting for a comment like this.
@slimskinny
@slimskinny 2 жыл бұрын
When they give you the “I need space, we need a break, or we are different people right.” They have already found someone else. Wish them the worst in their life and move on.
@Ureyeuh
@Ureyeuh 5 жыл бұрын
27 year old guy here. Just got left by my gf of 6 years. Had proposal plans and all. It can and will happen to you if you aren't careful, and even the careful ones will still get left somehow. It's life.
@Theodore_VII
@Theodore_VII 5 жыл бұрын
Uriah Graves Oh man... 27? Still very young, my guy. Keep your chin up and stay strong, champ. Keep going!!
@Ureyeuh
@Ureyeuh 5 жыл бұрын
@@Theodore_VII thanks.
@optimusman88
@optimusman88 5 жыл бұрын
Hopefully this video gives you something to learn from in finding happiness within yourself.. all the best
@KARTIKEYA007
@KARTIKEYA007 5 жыл бұрын
MGTOW is the answer my man
@ikemadi6265
@ikemadi6265 5 жыл бұрын
Hey buddy, I was also left by my 6 year girlfriend when I was 27 (four years ago). I'm also a psychologist and I have some tips from my experience. Would you be willing to talk? I'd love to share them and show you how you can grow stronger and become a better version of yourself from it :)
@arunb3273
@arunb3273 5 жыл бұрын
Moral : If you're single, nobody can break you 😁
@deafconmediaZA
@deafconmediaZA 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah bro. Ive realized that too
@wonderland4515
@wonderland4515 5 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t work like that. People disappoint me each more every day
@kleozane2781
@kleozane2781 5 жыл бұрын
I was about to say what about if you don't see any people at all, you're invincible 😂
@wonderland4515
@wonderland4515 5 жыл бұрын
Kleo Zane I’ll find a way to break myself 😂
@arunb3273
@arunb3273 5 жыл бұрын
The problem is we(as humans) except lot of things from the other person.. Be it your gf or a friend or family! We expect lot from them and that's the reason why we break easily. Soo stop expecting, live your life up-to the mark. I have been through the wrost breakup and also a after a year got rejected by a girl(who was actually my best friend). What I learnt from this , life doesn't go as of our wish. We just have to move with the flow. Stop expecting!
@nahomagize6075
@nahomagize6075 4 жыл бұрын
This video actually changed my life. I cried uncontrollably after watching this video knowing that I reacted like Ben. But later, I continued to work on myself (although I still have a long way to go) and with that momentum eventually ended up going abroad to San Francisco (which feels like Jeff travelling to Italy). Thank you!!!
@imooyeohiolebo5047
@imooyeohiolebo5047 4 жыл бұрын
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@NarcisTheDictator
@NarcisTheDictator 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are better now 🙏
@mastermitser5693
@mastermitser5693 4 жыл бұрын
Never trust anyone...Being in a "serious" relationship is like giving someone a gun and telling them not to fire it. They will though. Just have fun and never get attached.
@KJ-sy7jy
@KJ-sy7jy 3 жыл бұрын
No strings attached..
@jonathanramirez7154
@jonathanramirez7154 3 жыл бұрын
You should look into Stan Tatkin.
@sallylemon5835
@sallylemon5835 3 жыл бұрын
"never get attached" are why guys became assholes and play around women. You could "just have fun" until one person you fall in love with, and you just couldn't fight it off, the heart is already there. that's where your karma takes place. Moral of the story, never create your karma because the pain is far worst than those who were afflicted the same but never did wrong to anyone.
@mastermitser5693
@mastermitser5693 3 жыл бұрын
@@sallylemon5835 can you elaborate more on the karma part? This was certainly an interesting response
@no1wrench
@no1wrench 5 жыл бұрын
My wife of 4 years cheated on me last thursday. I found out today... from the man's wife. This helped. Thankyou.
@pleasestop8651
@pleasestop8651 5 жыл бұрын
Hey man its ok! You’re a cool guy and you deserve so much better! Work on yourself and you’ll meet someone worth your time!
@DhirarEmir
@DhirarEmir 5 жыл бұрын
Wow that must be very hurtful. Just focus on your life goals and move on from the past. #YOLO
@jaleahsmakeup1542
@jaleahsmakeup1542 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 💔
@deangelowilliams6957
@deangelowilliams6957 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry bro
@starvinmarvin9489
@starvinmarvin9489 5 жыл бұрын
well in that case you can do the good ol switcharo and fuck the mans wife and get even boom.
@sasakiumiquema9608
@sasakiumiquema9608 5 жыл бұрын
The best revenge is to be a better version of yourself
@MasculineMan
@MasculineMan 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@DUANEYAISER
@DUANEYAISER 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, but throwing a bit of arson their way every now and then couldn’t hurt.
@navp8017
@navp8017 5 жыл бұрын
you are absolutely right. I saw my ex about 4 months after broke up because she ran off with someone else and rather than be cold with me, she saw the new me who lost weight and changed up my personal appearance which she had never seen before, and gave me a smile and she was at a loss for words because we both bumped into each other at the store. And its also important to better yourself for YOU not the other person. Another lesson I learned.
@johnnyd5537
@johnnyd5537 5 жыл бұрын
Yup i was going to say that
@rhemshue2450
@rhemshue2450 5 жыл бұрын
truth!!!
@ugopisquano
@ugopisquano 4 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone, I dont know if someone will ever watch this video and this comment, but I’d like to share my little story: I’m 18 and, about a year ago, me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after 1,5 beautiful years together. Now we dont talk anymore, even if we are in the same group of friends, and it still hurts to see her laughing with someone else while I’m everyday asking to myself what did I do wrong in our relationship. Also I dont anymore feel part of my historical group I’ve been hanging out with for 10+ years. I feel alone, anyway I’m trying to work hard and to study in order to enter university and to work as a personal trainer in the meantime (meanwhile I see other people having fun at the sea in Instagram stories), and I’m confident about my future, I’m sure I will meet other people and friends and re-build my life. Sorry for my bad english, have a good day
@Goa_
@Goa_ 4 жыл бұрын
Hope you feel better bro. Even though I’m only 14 life’s hard here and I wish you best of luck on getting in the university
@marshallmathers6975
@marshallmathers6975 4 жыл бұрын
Good:)
@luc6284
@luc6284 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, I think we're in the same boat. Quite a coincidence, but I am also 18, just entered university and also lost my ex girlfriend of 1,5 years about four months ago. It has been a rough time lately, although I learned many lessons from the relationship along the way. Try to learn from all that happened and see what could've caused the breakup. Don't blame yourself, just try to understand what happened. After that, you can decide which of these things you want to work on. My biggest issue was probably that I barely talked about my feelings because I didn't want to upset her. This turned out to be a big mistake because in the end she didn't understand me, and made assumptions about me as a result. Nowadays I try to talk more to my family and friends, and I'm also becoming more decisive and organised. I see you are heading in the same direction. Keep in mind that it will get better soon. Just keep focusing on whatever makes you happy, that didn't involve your ex. I hope you can share your experience with some of your friends, maybe you can hang out without your ex sometime? I can imagine that would be painful.
@spawner2865
@spawner2865 3 жыл бұрын
Why are you not part of your historical group anymore?
@spawner2865
@spawner2865 3 жыл бұрын
Why your friends do not talk to you anymore?
@JustMoneyish
@JustMoneyish 10 ай бұрын
I watched this video like 4-5 years ago almost every other day because I was so hurt and couldn’t believe this happened to me. She started acting funny towards the end of the relationship and slowly found someone else while we still lived together and boom left me. I was hurt at the time being and thought I would never get over it. It took some years and I’m finally completely over it now but those first few months and 2 years we’re tough. I worked on my self and got fit, got into real estate and even started my KZfaq channel which has been growing and having a lot of success and is also a dream job so I have to thank her for what she did to me. My story is like Jeff…I found a mentor started working on a side business then the side business got bigger and eventually became a full time thing which gives me freedom to do what I want when I want…then even moved to another country (Colombia) and been living here since and it’s been beautiful. If I would’ve stayed with my ex I wouldn’t have done none of these amazing things. I cried almost everyday the first and maybe second year but looking back it was the best thing that could’ve happened to me…you don’t see it though at the time being. Hopefully this story inspires someone!
@WigWavv
@WigWavv 5 жыл бұрын
Apparently KZfaq decided we are all watching this today
@madisonalexis
@madisonalexis 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr😂
@User83177
@User83177 5 жыл бұрын
the mazzter fr bruh lmao
@xNukedApplez
@xNukedApplez 5 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@edgara7141
@edgara7141 5 жыл бұрын
Fr😂😂
@mutazhijazi8512
@mutazhijazi8512 5 жыл бұрын
Right!?
@ymmar732
@ymmar732 4 жыл бұрын
We were both happy for 6 years until she talked about her future plans and I realized... I wasnt even part of it.
@muthoniwanjohi1842
@muthoniwanjohi1842 4 жыл бұрын
Ouch
@4cidtoxn80
@4cidtoxn80 4 жыл бұрын
fk hurts
@blindguymcsqueezy50
@blindguymcsqueezy50 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. I certainly know how that feels
@ThatOneWeirdCapricorn
@ThatOneWeirdCapricorn 4 жыл бұрын
Ramses Angus Diel I'm sorry to hear that dude :/
@eswaramoorthy782
@eswaramoorthy782 4 жыл бұрын
oh shit.!!
@blueflame3531
@blueflame3531 3 жыл бұрын
"I wanted to give her everything" see, that's what happens when you value others over yourself. Be ruthless, remind them they live of you.
@pedroclar5672
@pedroclar5672 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a powerful man who can help you get your love back to you.... He also helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation....
@pedroclar5672
@pedroclar5672 3 жыл бұрын
Whatxapp him....
@pedroclar5672
@pedroclar5672 3 жыл бұрын
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@blueflame3531
@blueflame3531 3 жыл бұрын
@@pedroclar5672 gtfo
@pedroclar5672
@pedroclar5672 3 жыл бұрын
@@blueflame3531 message him for urgent help
@villagechillershorror228
@villagechillershorror228 3 жыл бұрын
13 years of what I thought was perfect marriage. Just found out she had been living a double life with another man the entire time. It's an unreal kind of pain
@priyathammanoharkoka4300
@priyathammanoharkoka4300 Жыл бұрын
how are you today sir
@FlyingBeast009
@FlyingBeast009 5 жыл бұрын
Just broke up with my girlfriend Time to get rich.
@roroguapo3
@roroguapo3 5 жыл бұрын
Just remember, Mark Zuckerberg once had the exact same thought!
@nozdrik5221
@nozdrik5221 5 жыл бұрын
Lelouch Lom Perouge same here lol
@thepowerofthegodhand7003
@thepowerofthegodhand7003 5 жыл бұрын
Hella yeah no point in crying over spilled milk.
@saltypsychosis4093
@saltypsychosis4093 5 жыл бұрын
Nice
@jcross1215
@jcross1215 5 жыл бұрын
@@roroguapo3 Holy shit, you're right. He might be highly intelligent, possibly an alien, but who caaares. LET'S GET THIS BREAD.
@alienantal
@alienantal 5 жыл бұрын
People... just don't cheat on your partner, have respect for them and above all for yourself. If you feel like you're losing attraction to your partner just leave, end the relationship with a respectful conversation between you two.
@smigus212
@smigus212 5 жыл бұрын
This is most sensible comment in this comment section
@alienantal
@alienantal 5 жыл бұрын
@@smigus212 thank you! ^^
@zroh_in
@zroh_in 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like there’s not a lot of people that are willing to be adults and do what you said ... they end up cheating or they do something that just isn’t ok .
@alienantal
@alienantal 5 жыл бұрын
@@zroh_in unfortunately that's true :/
@GXprogamer
@GXprogamer 5 жыл бұрын
Celtic Revival / Adfywiad Celtaidd especially when its a long term relationship
@trackez09
@trackez09 3 жыл бұрын
I saw this video almost exactly 2 years ago after a "break up"......now after another "break up"....here we go again.... we are animals of habit....
@patriciawarigia717
@patriciawarigia717 3 жыл бұрын
Me too..n my exs name is Ben
@user-bh8hm6hd7z
@user-bh8hm6hd7z Жыл бұрын
Hhhh you have ressistance
@adnanl7952
@adnanl7952 2 жыл бұрын
I watched this video when it came out 3 years ago and thought this would never happen to me. Guess what? It did and I am happy to say that 4 months since the breakup I have done things that Jeff in the video did and it gives me hope that I will come out of this on the other side as a better man!
@buharibmansurkt17
@buharibmansurkt17 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@buharibmansurkt17
@buharibmansurkt17 2 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp
@buharibmansurkt17
@buharibmansurkt17 2 жыл бұрын
✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!!!
@rohan925
@rohan925 Жыл бұрын
God bless you
@onlyole
@onlyole 5 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend leaving me for another guy was the best thing that ever happened to me. Got in shape, healthier, happier and have a job i love. When you hit rock bottom its only one way to go.
@maddywisteria3242
@maddywisteria3242 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr when you hit rock bottom there is only one way to go.... ...dig deeper
@jayvonwebb4864
@jayvonwebb4864 5 жыл бұрын
How I'm tryin to be
@squidwardssinclarinet8203
@squidwardssinclarinet8203 5 жыл бұрын
ItzEmS he means it’s a motivation to prove her wrong for leaving him. i know what he means
@emsj86
@emsj86 5 жыл бұрын
squidwards sinclarinet I know what he means but that shouldn’t be why you do good for yourself. You will just end up in another relationship getting pushed over.
@Blackie315
@Blackie315 5 жыл бұрын
Ole Moy that’s a fact
@encikpanda3169
@encikpanda3169 5 жыл бұрын
PLOT TWIST : Jeff is the man whos on the bed with Ben's girlfriend.
@MasculineMan
@MasculineMan 5 жыл бұрын
LOL
@kamikaze6387
@kamikaze6387 5 жыл бұрын
hahaha yeah
@Zarudon000
@Zarudon000 5 жыл бұрын
I was thinking that, lol. Jeff and the gf remain fwb. She then asks if they could be more and he's like "lol, so you can cheat on me too? nah," and then he ignores her and keeps going his way like a boss. 👍
@basealchemist4396
@basealchemist4396 5 жыл бұрын
Karma
@lukamodric1609
@lukamodric1609 5 жыл бұрын
Jeez that was epic!
@martin97264
@martin97264 3 жыл бұрын
“It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” "Decision is the ultimate power".
@porksoda2342
@porksoda2342 4 жыл бұрын
I love this and I think it's really important. Uplifting yourself when you are alone after a breakup is THE MOST important thing ever!
@kworkshop
@kworkshop 5 жыл бұрын
This just popped up in everybody’s recommendations
@alithebettafish7890
@alithebettafish7890 5 жыл бұрын
The most breakups happen around the Christmas period
@kworkshop
@kworkshop 5 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm...
@mas7rreaper126
@mas7rreaper126 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr! It was so annoying
@RinTheHonored1
@RinTheHonored1 5 жыл бұрын
Yep lol
@theofficialalmightygob1050
@theofficialalmightygob1050 5 жыл бұрын
If your a celebrity you date loads of people and break up with them and the people you date don’t love you and you don’t love them your just doing it for the miedia
@lemmonsinmyeyes
@lemmonsinmyeyes 5 жыл бұрын
No excuse for infidelity. Not happy? Leave. Never cheat. Very simple.
@kiddtaak
@kiddtaak 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly this video shows victim-blaming like it's their fault they got cheated on
@mervaa7467
@mervaa7467 5 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s simple but people are selfish AF so expect the infidelity anyway because some people think they can have the best of both worlds.
@TothBen8
@TothBen8 5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you. It is hard to accept that the girl/boy you love, no longer loves you.. but accepting that she/he is cheated on you is on another level imo.. Clearly it is you who have to fight against your demons but mostly other people responsible for the size of these demons..
@HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH
@HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH 5 жыл бұрын
@@kiddtaak Yup! Been through this myself. You are perfectly correct.
@HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH
@HECKAKYH-ADEKBATEH 5 жыл бұрын
@@TothBen8 Better to decide which way to take then move. Hate=feelings, no feeling=indifference. So "moving past", "accepting", "cooling down" is actually = burring love. But if there is much hate in both, it can be repaired on condition that destructive aggressiveness is suspended by strong will (no emotions) and not giving up. If partner is indifferent, its impossible. But no hard feelings for moving past either, "good place is never free".
@9_drip179
@9_drip179 Жыл бұрын
My eyes, my soul, my beyond, I have seen this video before, I can’t believe it. It was so beautiful
@Berialgames
@Berialgames 3 жыл бұрын
Relationship advice: act like a sociopath, just please yourself. Have fun.
@MonochromaticBlues
@MonochromaticBlues 3 жыл бұрын
Gee great advice
@inlandempress4587
@inlandempress4587 3 жыл бұрын
basically. I have seen too much, rather be single than claw my own eyes all the way out🤮😬🤦🏽‍♀️
@mariag2846
@mariag2846 5 жыл бұрын
Bruh if you lose interest in someone then the least you can do is tell them... not cheat on them...tf. And you don't need to change yourself for anyone.
@trashtrash7556
@trashtrash7556 5 жыл бұрын
If you're talking about Jeff, I don't think he was changing himself for anyone. He was only trying to find ways to improve his life style and efficiently spend his time by doing productive things.
@JustAalon
@JustAalon 5 жыл бұрын
Preach
@job106
@job106 5 жыл бұрын
TOTALY AGREE
@gabe6625
@gabe6625 5 жыл бұрын
@@trashtrash7556 yep exactly he wasn't changing himself for that cheating sack of shit
@mrpandapresident9770
@mrpandapresident9770 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr?! People these days...
@daisyisawesome8339
@daisyisawesome8339 5 жыл бұрын
Cheating is never justified. If you lost attraction to someone, you leave them.
@Nukey717
@Nukey717 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, every relationship should have that standard.
@beetleything1864
@beetleything1864 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Cheaters dont take responsibility- blame the other person but stay with them 🤷‍♂️
@handsomejack2892
@handsomejack2892 5 жыл бұрын
True. But they rather destroy the other's emotions and trust than actually leave. People like this is straight up garbage.
@asianfemale5999
@asianfemale5999 5 жыл бұрын
True, because if you hurt the innocant real bad then karma will come to you
@lilstrats944
@lilstrats944 3 жыл бұрын
Ben: You need to leave. Jeff: *My name is Jeff*
@bootyluva6991
@bootyluva6991 4 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail hurts because of how relatable and real it is.
@Gabriel-df1ex
@Gabriel-df1ex 4 жыл бұрын
"what did I do to cause this?" That's a very very dangerous question. It justifies toxic behavior. It shifts the blame into the victim for the other person's decisions.
@NoCreativeNameGirl
@NoCreativeNameGirl 3 жыл бұрын
Ahemmm....but it is a good question. Just hating the girl or guy does not improve your life. Many times, especially men, think the relationship is going great even though his gf/fiance has screamed at him about things not right in their relationship and they just ignore it or don't think it's a big deal until one day the girl breaks up with them and they complain on youtube that "she left me all of a sudden 😭". 🙄🙄🙄🙄 What if the guy learns what he did wrong in the relationship and improves himself for his next relationship?
@blessedsoul949
@blessedsoul949 2 жыл бұрын
But if you look at the positive side,you can learn from it and better yourself for the next best partner ever.
@traceyke
@traceyke 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree and this almost made me stop watching and dislike the vid. Please start holding women accountable for their bullshit
@Gabriel-df1ex
@Gabriel-df1ex 2 жыл бұрын
@@NoCreativeNameGirl I get what you mean and you're right, we should always move forward and always evaluate our actions and words in a relationship, but apparently you missed my point: There's nothing in a relationship that softens or justifies cheating and what he said implies that the man (victim) led his girlfriend (cheater) to cheat on him and that's pathetic.
@Gabriel-df1ex
@Gabriel-df1ex 2 жыл бұрын
@@blessedsoul949 What are you talking about ? What positive side is there in being cheated ?
@christopherserino2569
@christopherserino2569 4 жыл бұрын
I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate. Always remember that friends 😁
@andrewdodds3007
@andrewdodds3007 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you!!!!
@lydia7177
@lydia7177 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this loll
@angie8848ah
@angie8848ah 4 жыл бұрын
Ha “used toys”
@JohnAndAnime
@JohnAndAnime 4 жыл бұрын
thick assasination THIS MADE MY WHOLE DAY 😂😂😂 THANK THE LORD FOR YOU
@munirahzahar9803
@munirahzahar9803 4 жыл бұрын
Holy crap. Hah! Lol
@user-vz1uj4ty6q
@user-vz1uj4ty6q 4 жыл бұрын
I think most people would act like Ben. Jeff is the one we want to be.
@unknowndesi_07
@unknowndesi_07 2 жыл бұрын
Definition of the saying ‘everything happens for a good reason’
@ukkovuorela4196
@ukkovuorela4196 5 жыл бұрын
Are you happy now youtube? I watched it
@Yo-bx4bj
@Yo-bx4bj 5 жыл бұрын
Recommendation huh? I feel you
@shenelll985
@shenelll985 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@hibak8196
@hibak8196 5 жыл бұрын
I kinda have the same feeling lol It was a pretty noce reminder though
@willvsgaming4575
@willvsgaming4575 5 жыл бұрын
yeah I felt like i was watching this video for hour, turns out i just had 0.75 speed on.
@wdmeister
@wdmeister 5 жыл бұрын
Same. And i lost 10min. This video is so dumb. Yaaaay someone cheated on me so now i can go to the gym, eat healthily and have an online business in italy. What a mercy. And i should talk and ask what went wrong to a thot that instead of break up with me she preferred to bang random dudes in my own bedroom.
@Tuf_frijoles
@Tuf_frijoles 5 жыл бұрын
Jeff started smoking weed
@xXbussydestroyerXx
@xXbussydestroyerXx 5 жыл бұрын
I literally just died
@adoskacz7281
@adoskacz7281 5 жыл бұрын
OMEGALUL
@Itsyourmandavedavis
@Itsyourmandavedavis 5 жыл бұрын
😆😂😆😂😆😂😆
@macinissachaib716
@macinissachaib716 5 жыл бұрын
He actually became gay
@miningsimulatorgaming3267
@miningsimulatorgaming3267 5 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@jehad6224
@jehad6224 3 жыл бұрын
Guys just an advice from me and sorry for having a broken language, first don’t over spoil your girl never, don’t make promises, be mysterious, don’t say “i love you” too much just one a week it will make ur word heavier and has a strong fiction, if ur in a breakup don’t think abt her and if u r in a very miserable situation sometimes u have to rebound i know it is not the best moral way but u have to do it, another advice for u lovely young men, don’t u ever put anything above ur work and job ur girl is a totally different deal don’t let her affect ur job situation, love u all❤️
@faiznordin8157
@faiznordin8157 4 жыл бұрын
This is actually true. After i broke up with my girlfriend, i was devastated. So i started working on my side hustle to make more money so i can distract myself. It was heartbreaking, but i know it’s a blessing in disguise
@joshuakrusiewicz2447
@joshuakrusiewicz2447 5 жыл бұрын
You can trust no one...in the end you will always be disappointed if you put your sense of self worth and esteem in the hands of others.
@simpsbelongtothegulags3702
@simpsbelongtothegulags3702 5 жыл бұрын
You can actually trust someone Dont let the evil majority blind you from seeing that there are still some people that can be trusted And they will trust you too
@Rose_.820
@Rose_.820 5 жыл бұрын
Mostly true
@blindtherapper2470
@blindtherapper2470 5 жыл бұрын
@@simpsbelongtothegulags3702 "some people left" Yeah, that sounds like a bad bargain...
@simpilothr6653
@simpilothr6653 5 жыл бұрын
True. Even if you're in a relationship that is 2 decades old, you still don't know what will happen to your relationship tomorrow, or after a month. A true relationship is a relationship without bull💩 and lies (lies are referred to cheating and so on, BTW) No relationship can be perfect because a perfect relationship is always one of the worst ones, if you know what I mean.
@screwmuckduck8905
@screwmuckduck8905 5 жыл бұрын
Especially if it’s someone who is different in personality
@MrDrProfessor4
@MrDrProfessor4 5 жыл бұрын
Knew where this was going the moment I heard "He learned he can actually come home early".
@MattKittredge2112
@MattKittredge2112 5 жыл бұрын
Yep. I've seen "Old School"...I knew what was up...lol
@beevi5029
@beevi5029 5 жыл бұрын
MrDrProfessor4 same☹️
@thehumblechannel3441
@thehumblechannel3441 4 жыл бұрын
I am watching this video on day 1 of my breakup. This story relates to me so much because of the three ultimate words: “I’m sorry”. She said that her feeling has changed and she doesn’t want to do this anymore, which is equivalent to her not attracted to me anymore. I am still in deep pain and that’s why I’m taking a sick leave today to go out with my family, who has always been super supportive to me. But I will not blame her about how she ruined my life. She can break up with me and that’s what she can do, but how I respond to that is what I can control, and I will control it so that instead of letting this ruin my life, I will use this as an opportunity to finally get out of my comfort zone and be who I really want to be - a motivated young man who will live a better and brighter life with a more beautiful and positive woman
@rumanmk7806
@rumanmk7806 3 жыл бұрын
10 years is a long time to wait I have been through horrible relationships finally I'm getting married with someone I love the best healer in life is to accept and move on
@biancadelarosa7986
@biancadelarosa7986 3 жыл бұрын
hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or to restore someone you love
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@biancadelarosa7986 3 жыл бұрын
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@biancadelarosa7986 3 жыл бұрын
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@xjq98
@xjq98 5 жыл бұрын
you shouldn't blame yourself for someone cheating on you when you only did the best for your partner.
@soyusmaximus7176
@soyusmaximus7176 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly. If you're not in love with someone anymore, just leave them. Don't go fucking someone else behind their back.
@tormendor8585
@tormendor8585 5 жыл бұрын
he didn't do the "best" for his partner, he thought he did but, what is best for your female partner, is to concentrate on yourself, not on her. You can read how relationships work in depth from books or internet.
@xabashdog
@xabashdog 5 жыл бұрын
Torm Endor Yeah though still there’s a thing such as discussion or a break-up, you don’t have to cheat just because your partner doesn’t behave how you expect them to.
@tormendor8585
@tormendor8585 5 жыл бұрын
@@xabashdog now where did that come from. i didn't talk about how you should behave when you lost interest.
@dawahdeutschland5375
@dawahdeutschland5375 5 жыл бұрын
It doesnt matter how awfull your partner is. You should first leave before starting new relationships!!!
@botcrack
@botcrack 5 жыл бұрын
...and Jeff died alone never trusting another woman ever again
@MinimalLovin
@MinimalLovin 5 жыл бұрын
Stop searching another mom. Your have to dominate a women calmy. Why trust your whoooooole life to someone else than God anyways? Wimp
@dvd9578
@dvd9578 5 жыл бұрын
He is a gay now
@layerp
@layerp 5 жыл бұрын
Jack ascended and learned the truth *If she breathes...*
@dremid4456
@dremid4456 5 жыл бұрын
... from a heroin overdose
@Lightning_Ace
@Lightning_Ace 5 жыл бұрын
...or anything else...
@jaden2014
@jaden2014 4 жыл бұрын
This is my worst fear in a relationship
@icecoldleone3988
@icecoldleone3988 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao notice how she just moves on to another man and has someone else easy while the guy spends his life single and “trying” to trick his mind into thinking he’s more happy
@emilyra6491
@emilyra6491 5 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but there is never a reason to cheat. The “what did I do to make them cheat” thing is honestly a damaging mindset. Yes, better yourself, find yourself after a break up, but don’t question what you did wrong because you did nothing wrong. You loved them, they cheated. If they didn’t want to be with you anymore then they should have left. That’s like someone asking “why did they abuse me?” Instead of seeing the abuse and growing from it and knowing how to protect themselves for it. No one is perfect and you have to work at relationships to keep it going. Being depressed and grieving are things everyone does differently. You need to know what coping mechanisms work for you. Personally, taking time for myself and realizing who I was as a person again. No person has any reason to cheat. If they are unhappy, they should have the respect for the other person and just break it off.
@ultraozy4085
@ultraozy4085 5 жыл бұрын
wise words Emily Abraham
@Regene2383
@Regene2383 5 жыл бұрын
So true
@businessdulevv8062
@businessdulevv8062 5 жыл бұрын
Emily Abraham 99% you cheated at some point
@vyndicate8456
@vyndicate8456 5 жыл бұрын
Good advice. I believe you should just split if you're unhappy. But sometimes they stay until they find something better. Then they leave.
@wiseguy240Winston
@wiseguy240Winston 5 жыл бұрын
@@businessdulevv8062 99% that's extreme.
@ykoqe7023
@ykoqe7023 5 жыл бұрын
This video taught me to never come home early
@idonthaveaname3924
@idonthaveaname3924 5 жыл бұрын
SourPatchKid 69 Hahahahahaha 😂
@randomshitpost8477
@randomshitpost8477 5 жыл бұрын
No it taught u to never come home
@bencrosbie
@bencrosbie 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@puga4202
@puga4202 5 жыл бұрын
You'll be surprised if you try to give surprises.
@JessicaLiviaID
@JessicaLiviaID 5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Faint7903
@Faint7903 3 жыл бұрын
My best friend betrayed me recently... I cried 12 times in 5 days and I’m on medication that prevents me from crying.
@SL2797
@SL2797 3 жыл бұрын
Here's what you can learn from this story: There will ALWAYS be a man more attractive than you. And as soon as he starts trying to win over whatever woman you are with at the moment, she WILL leave you for him. If you are going to pursue self-improvement, do it for YOURSELF, and NOT for women. Because no matter how atractive you become, she will eventually leave it you for someone more attractive than you. You don't need a girlfriend to be a happy and fulfilled man 👍
@metalheaddd97
@metalheaddd97 2 жыл бұрын
I say women who cheat and leave someone for a more “attractive” should die and get stranded on an island.
@playboykam
@playboykam 5 жыл бұрын
"If someone can cheat on Beyonce, no one is safe."
@zaimahbegum-diamond1660
@zaimahbegum-diamond1660 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@feraligatrsupremacy7699
@feraligatrsupremacy7699 5 жыл бұрын
Faxx like you gotta be FOOLISH to cheat on Beyonce😗😗
@debiedebsielein3264
@debiedebsielein3264 5 жыл бұрын
Lol made my day 😂😂
@agts1231
@agts1231 5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha always thought the same thing about Eva Longoria
@everydaydre1185
@everydaydre1185 5 жыл бұрын
XxKing KamxX perhaps you should get to know her.
@daboi6664
@daboi6664 5 жыл бұрын
Basically what he wants to say is success is the best revenge
@chuckmcmicheal4999
@chuckmcmicheal4999 5 жыл бұрын
Ir jus being happy w urself
@callmealpha7548
@callmealpha7548 5 жыл бұрын
So right. Make that bitch regret
@TG-M-gu3lk
@TG-M-gu3lk 5 жыл бұрын
@@callmealpha7548 Then you just devulge into spite and hatred. You become focused on this person and therefore all your progress is fragile and faulty.
@aaryanpatel5948
@aaryanpatel5948 5 жыл бұрын
Success is not better then revenge. SUCCESS IS BIGGEST REVENGE
@TG-M-gu3lk
@TG-M-gu3lk 5 жыл бұрын
@@aaryanpatel5948 Again. You let that person concume you even years later then you have failed to get over it. I'd rather see no "success" and be happy then to have all the wealth only over pent up aggression and hatred. That's no way to live
@COOLDILEEP29
@COOLDILEEP29 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you , for guidence. I really needs this type of motivational contents
@jason_v12345
@jason_v12345 2 жыл бұрын
Inspiring lesson for people whose heart was broken early in life and before personal success. Not so much for those for whom it happened late and after.
@alexdavid9335
@alexdavid9335 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you and also get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second Chance through the help of Dr BEN, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship also Dr BEN always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks
@alexdavid9335
@alexdavid9335 2 жыл бұрын
message him on whatsapp
@alexdavid9335
@alexdavid9335 2 жыл бұрын
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@chrissaunders20
@chrissaunders20 5 жыл бұрын
1 Thing learned... being single is amazing
@spookyquinnie3293
@spookyquinnie3293 5 жыл бұрын
But having sex is more amazing
@rin6960
@rin6960 5 жыл бұрын
@@spookyquinnie3293 you can be single and having sex bro 👌🏼
@skali-vg9du
@skali-vg9du 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, bruh
@priestgoober5160
@priestgoober5160 5 жыл бұрын
No
@Daniel-ez9rl
@Daniel-ez9rl 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe is better😂
@jessehol2721
@jessehol2721 5 жыл бұрын
A person: 'Your girlfriend cheated on you?' Jeff: 'Yes, it was one of the best things that could've happened to me.'
@jackma77
@jackma77 5 жыл бұрын
Jesse Hol *BRUH*
@alisamramail
@alisamramail 5 жыл бұрын
A person: Your girl cheated on you? Jeff: Yes i deserved it but i’m improving
@W07F.mp4
@W07F.mp4 5 жыл бұрын
@@alisamramail no one deserved to be cheated.
@nikolaslavov3947
@nikolaslavov3947 5 жыл бұрын
True, you can not feel good with anyone if you can't on your own.
@snowflakes90
@snowflakes90 5 жыл бұрын
You got me 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻
@elisendadomenjo3223
@elisendadomenjo3223 4 жыл бұрын
Then their relationship was toxic, partners are supposed to be there for each other with their own independence while they grow and create an empire.
@chaseb4395
@chaseb4395 4 жыл бұрын
Very true
@jonathanramirez7154
@jonathanramirez7154 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! You should check out Stan Tatkin.
@jazzstarish4186
@jazzstarish4186 3 жыл бұрын
Its all kissy kissy I love you at first. Once you start living together true self blossoms.You become to comfortable with each other.Bad habits fights no need to put up a front or that first impression. Long distance and planning to meet again in a 3rd world country. Through time and talking by Skype you get a sense of something is wrong and you see a post of her and a guy close together with heat emoji. Now you can get broads and the Hedonistic route to the max.
@antilaw9911
@antilaw9911 3 жыл бұрын
We both 56. Both put on weight. Saw that she used to be much larger prior to me. I still loved her and never thought one second of ever leaving her.
@titanzcanchat386
@titanzcanchat386 5 жыл бұрын
The Most Hurt Things Is Being Forgotten By Someone You Can't Forget
@laurajean605
@laurajean605 5 жыл бұрын
Truth
@k.trapero5496
@k.trapero5496 5 жыл бұрын
You guys have wrong grammar just saying i dont expect any hate replies
@jinkang2126
@jinkang2126 5 жыл бұрын
100th like ayee
@dariuskool1998
@dariuskool1998 5 жыл бұрын
Truthfully True
@siyandwandwa1471
@siyandwandwa1471 5 жыл бұрын
amen
@criplog2888
@criplog2888 5 жыл бұрын
so basically, if someone cheats on you, its not their fault, its yours because you werent attaractive or good enough and you should become better. thanks. really fucking helped me out
@NovaVortex
@NovaVortex 5 жыл бұрын
crip log ikr wtf
@MauricioRamirez11
@MauricioRamirez11 5 жыл бұрын
I think you miss something. I will tell you a little about myself I’m a 22 year old man. I’m a student and I have only had 2 girlfriends in my life and they both broke my heart. When I was 19 I had my first girlfriend she ended with me after 1.4 year I wanted to fix thins she did not. I later learned through introspection that she did not love me completely for who I was and she gave me warning signs during the relationship, I did not feel loved by her at all the times there was periods when I asked myself: is this how it's supposed to be, I feel hurt by her It's like she does not love me for real. I did find her attractive tough and I loved her greatly but my gut told me, my inner quiet voice subtly made me feel that something was not right. Yet I, I chose to be with her , I chose not to listen to my quiet voice, I stayed when I knew she was not right for me. In the second relationship It was the opposite, we had a deep connection beyond words, It felt as if I had known her my whole life with just talking to her a few times, the reason for that was partly because she had suffered in the same way as I had , we had similar experiences. I was extremely comfortable around her, I could be myself and talk to her like I never could with someone else, she made me tear down my walls so fast and into the most inner pars of my personality which I had never had done for someone else. She was beautiful too and I felt loved for who I was, she made me realize that I could be loved. I loved her back but I did not love her the way she loved me, I did not love her the way she was supposed to be loved , I did not love her completely for the way she was, with imperfections and all. As with my ex, from the the start of the relationship I had a feeling, a quiet inner voice that me feel as if something was not right, I was afraid though, what if she was the love of my life what if I'm making my biggest mistake of my life. I told myself that the voice would go away and that we said that we could test the relationship. During our relationship I hurted her at least 3 times at separate ooccasions, because I told her upfront of this feeling I had that that I at times felt something uncomfortable with her, I told her that something was not feeling right, I suspected that it was my attraction for her that was lacking and that it was the problem (I did not use those words untill the last days of our relationship) but I did say that I thought she was beautiful but I would like her to take mora care of herself, by caring about how her hair looks, not having dirty hair, dress more nicely , this upset her and caused her great pain those times we had this discussion, so much that at one time she hurt me greatly and told me that she wished that she never had met me. I told myself that I would learn to love her completely for who se was, that the voice would go away. 7 month passed with her and it did not happen, the reason I stayed was because there was so much that was just right with her I felt this incredible bond with her, a bond beyond words . I decided to end with her yesterday and it was extremely painful for both of us, I told her moments before she left for good that If I had not had this feeling, I would have stayed with her my whole life, I told her that i’ts better that we suffer a lot now than suffering later when we live together and we have kids together. But before she left we sat down on a madrass we hugged each other for a long time as we were crying together, holding each other in our arms, trying to accept the new reality. It was very sad, it really felt as if it was the last time and it was breaking my heart apart as it was happening. Before she would step out of my door I said wait, I felt that I just wanted to hold her hand one last time, and so I hold her hand in mine. I could really feel it you know, she was and still is really special, very precious to me and so I began to cry, we were both crying. ( Honestly, I’m crying now that i’m writing this part). As I was holding her hand I asked her, are we making a mistake? She told me quietly with tears in her eyes, no... no we are not... We hugged one last time and then we said farewell and she left. I spent most of my yesterday without appetite for food and I spent my day mostly just crying alone in my student apartment and feeling miserable and sad. I called my mom, my dad, my sister about what had happened and how I felt. Im still very sad, but the point I want to make to you, the one you are missing, the reason I ultimately suffered in both relationships was because I was not truly honest with myself. I did not trust that inner quiet voice that made me feel as if something was wrong not only that I also made mistakes in the relationship. I will work on not repeating those mistakes and I will work on myself too but for now I will focus on allowing myself being sad for awhile and then I will become the best version of myself and I have finally learned, I will not love a women again untill my gut tells me that she is the right one. I hope my story helped you. Best regards.
@alyciaduenow3664
@alyciaduenow3664 5 жыл бұрын
3 years ago I developed a relationship with my roommate. We did everything together going out nearly everyday. I was happy, but there was a part of me that wasn't. I wanted to be home sometimes having social anxiety I didn't like being out in public all of the time. I like cooking too, but we always went out as well. I knew a part of me was not happy and knew this wasn't made to last. We were together for a little over a year when suddenly she said her grandfather was dying and left. I begged her to stay, because I felt something else was wrong. She admitted her grandfather wasn't even that bad. Even so she just left and stayed with her ex boyfriend. Both lived out of state. I felt so completely destroyed. She broke up with me a month later. I honestly blamed myself for not loving her enough. I attempted to pick myself up but I wasn't fully there. Finally a year later we started talking and I unleashed everything. She apologized and admitted that she was the one at fault. I felt a huge relief off my shoulders. We tried again but what we had was gone. Since then I've been bettering myself. Eating healthier, and doing things I wanted to do. My life is still far from perfect and I'm still working on it and myself but I'm happier now than I ever was with her. In the end you are all you've got do things you want, live out the life you want.
@gabrielle4246
@gabrielle4246 5 жыл бұрын
I think that was the perspective of the girl who cheated on him. But the point is, how do you respond to the situation.
@donut_seed9813
@donut_seed9813 5 жыл бұрын
@@MauricioRamirez11 thank you for this
@hardeepsinghdeol9692
@hardeepsinghdeol9692 3 жыл бұрын
it is painful but not impossible to start over. thank you for this short and informative story.... just broke up with my gf.. 6 years relationship..lets see how it goes from here.
@treasurelee4223
@treasurelee4223 3 жыл бұрын
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@Saveara.
@Saveara. 4 жыл бұрын
Guys just love urself. Focus and nourish yourself. if your partner is loyal, he/she ll stay. if not, u got u.. Stay strong.
@EpsteinKilla69
@EpsteinKilla69 5 жыл бұрын
I liked the story but just FYI. If someone cheats on you, it's always going to be their fault, don't ever make anyone tell you otherwise. There's no excuse for such disgusting behaviour.
@viknie4216
@viknie4216 5 жыл бұрын
Bradley Venn not really
@brandondaly5291
@brandondaly5291 5 жыл бұрын
@@viknie4216 yes really, there is no excuse for cheating.
@potatohead5708
@potatohead5708 5 жыл бұрын
its definitely their fault to cheat but that doesnt make the one who got cheated innocence. im not justifying them but for those that happened in your life; you are actively involved in it.
@paperp9316
@paperp9316 5 жыл бұрын
I Basically think no one deserves to have a cheating spouse last week I suspected my husband cheating on me a friend recommended an hacker to me on instagram patrick_allen777 I contacted him and he helped me get cheating proves by helping me hack his phone giving me full access to everything he does on his phone if you suspect your spouse cheating on you text/whatsapp him +15182900093 he would help you
@ayingchanda
@ayingchanda 5 жыл бұрын
It could be your fault too. If your abusive, or show no interest toward the person youre having a relationship or as your partner in life; then she or he can cheat to find a better and more suitable partner
@BloodyFish13
@BloodyFish13 5 жыл бұрын
You guys gotta realize that walking the same path as Jeff can cause you to become emotionally numb. After breakup I wiped it all out of my mind and considered myself strong minded, up until I began to realize that my actions really doesn't have purpose/goal. Just straight, flat lined days of performing, not being able to sense a single thing in my life. You *need* time to grief and feel. Feelings are such things that you shouldn't consider bad; after 9 months of not crying or laughing you begin to miss the feeling of being sad along with being happy again, let me tell you that much.
@cortisol_induced_coma
@cortisol_induced_coma 5 жыл бұрын
It was specifically stated that he DID cry and was angry at his ex for a few months; the only difference is that after a while, he realized that continuing to do this was not beneficial and started working on himself.
@RedEnergySounds
@RedEnergySounds 5 жыл бұрын
I came to this world, under unknown circumstances, in order to experience. My eyes see millions of different nice colors, my brain can understand several intriguing and interesting stuff. Why turn my eyes black and my brain dull for someone who would never understand the depth of this gift. That girl obviously had fuckin as her top value. We are moving towards something more humane. I'm not saying we should forget our instincts, but certainly, we can clarify the FUCK that we lost our interest for a person and do this in a graceful way: -Sorry, I've lost my interest, I was faithful to you, but now I can't be with you. -Ok bye, have a nice life :) THAT IS HUMANE. (and also don't fuck my best friend xDDD)
@QuantumParticle
@QuantumParticle 5 жыл бұрын
Over the past decade I've started to become more and more numb to my emotions...
@SRPC21
@SRPC21 5 жыл бұрын
BloodyFish13 Jeff was also upset for months though, he wasn’t a robot.
@arenspicer1322
@arenspicer1322 5 жыл бұрын
Jeff is a man
@genocidecreep6662
@genocidecreep6662 4 жыл бұрын
this is why I don't trust anyone even if they are my friends because even people who are closest to you can ruin your life
@andrewcarter9637
@andrewcarter9637 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you enough for this. It’s such a great lesson to learn. Going through what those two are going through but I want to be like the latter guy and view this as something that happened for me and not to me. You have a new subscriber!
@law.1159
@law.1159 5 жыл бұрын
Who also had this in their recommendations?
@zapdos8441
@zapdos8441 5 жыл бұрын
ya
@RinTheHonored1
@RinTheHonored1 5 жыл бұрын
Me 😂
@theofficialalmightygob1050
@theofficialalmightygob1050 5 жыл бұрын
I had this in my recemendationt
@MilesSpearman
@MilesSpearman 5 жыл бұрын
I've never heard of this channel until it went into my recommendation😂
@shotgun64x
@shotgun64x 5 жыл бұрын
About 4 weeks tops. Seems like everyone has this shit in their recommendations recently.
@j1m310
@j1m310 5 жыл бұрын
Okay KZfaq I've watched it..
@edisonsun21c
@edisonsun21c 5 жыл бұрын
Vikendi lol
@Mitters
@Mitters 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao I'm here for the same reason 😂
@r.i.t.i.k.a
@r.i.t.i.k.a 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah actually..it was everywhere as recommended
@Check0Point
@Check0Point 3 жыл бұрын
I'm buying a planner and going to start planning my day and work on my business and maintain a healthy diet and exercise routine.
@diegocardona6503
@diegocardona6503 3 жыл бұрын
This teaches the lesson that when life brings you down.. you always get stronger and stronger
@newjerseycitizen3423
@newjerseycitizen3423 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours.... He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.
@newjerseycitizen3423
@newjerseycitizen3423 3 жыл бұрын
What''sapp him
@newjerseycitizen3423
@newjerseycitizen3423 3 жыл бұрын
+ 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7
@rodgwr
@rodgwr 5 жыл бұрын
The lesson of this video is... ...choose money over girlfriends
@gandalfwiz20007
@gandalfwiz20007 5 жыл бұрын
Money, 78 activities, be a narcissist, love everything that loves and travel for 150 years around the world with only 1 $ a day
@luis7215
@luis7215 5 жыл бұрын
Hoes are the key
@arnthoratli1437
@arnthoratli1437 5 жыл бұрын
Big fact
@j.u.a.n_v8653
@j.u.a.n_v8653 5 жыл бұрын
MaxxyM _poggers_
@Jamjar-iu3ji
@Jamjar-iu3ji 5 жыл бұрын
MaxxyM and money over boyfriends 😂
@VictorNoelCoryPaz
@VictorNoelCoryPaz 5 жыл бұрын
what happened to the dog?
@LaaidiSafia
@LaaidiSafia 5 жыл бұрын
loool asking real questions
@VictorNoelCoryPaz
@VictorNoelCoryPaz 5 жыл бұрын
@@LaaidiSafia 😅🐾
@jayvonwebb4864
@jayvonwebb4864 5 жыл бұрын
@@MICKSHRED change the dog to his cheating girlfriend and I'll be fine with what you just said
@VictorNoelCoryPaz
@VictorNoelCoryPaz 5 жыл бұрын
@@jayvonwebb4864 Don't worry. I reported him.
@Sincerelyzey
@Sincerelyzey 5 жыл бұрын
Fonzo Hernandez LMFAO
@ipsitmalviya7222
@ipsitmalviya7222 4 ай бұрын
For the third time in my life, I find myself engulfed in the anguish of heartbreak, and as I sit here watching this unfold once again, I fervently pray that there will be no fourth time.
@fizza9452
@fizza9452 2 жыл бұрын
This really deserves a thumbs up!👍
@ambushell5778
@ambushell5778 5 жыл бұрын
You cannot lay the blame on the person who didn't cheat. That's ridiculous. Cheating is inexcusable, if she lost attraction then she should have broken up with him first. I agree that you should move on and improve yourself but you cannot absolve the cheater of responsibility.
@rvc123able
@rvc123able 5 жыл бұрын
L
@Misslotusification
@Misslotusification 5 жыл бұрын
Check out Esther Perel
@MrDrProfessor4
@MrDrProfessor4 5 жыл бұрын
If she cheats on you once, what makes you think she won't cheat on you again? It's a question of character.
@DieHardjagged
@DieHardjagged 5 жыл бұрын
@@MrDrProfessor4 If my girl would cheat on me and say she wouldnt do it again , i would had tossed her out of the window. You cant trust any women.
@reshw0ztxt
@reshw0ztxt 5 жыл бұрын
i see, u make sense but my thing is, why would she pick me if she didn't find me attractive
@not4984
@not4984 5 жыл бұрын
This video on a nutshell: 1.Get a girl 2. Breakup with her 3. Your life gets better or worse
@sc-ek6qz
@sc-ek6qz 5 жыл бұрын
True.
@sc-ek6qz
@sc-ek6qz 5 жыл бұрын
Having this experience now.
@nilenninju4709
@nilenninju4709 5 жыл бұрын
That depends on you my maan you're the master of your destiny
@paperp9316
@paperp9316 5 жыл бұрын
I Basically think no one deserves to have a cheating spouse last week I suspected my husband cheating on me a friend recommended an hacker to me on instagram patrick_allen777 I contacted him and he helped me get cheating proves by helping me hack his phone giving me full access to everything he does on his phone if you suspect your spouse cheating on you text/whatsapp him +15182900093 he would help you
@cyan411n
@cyan411n 5 жыл бұрын
Your pfp fits this perfectly
@awesomelywe
@awesomelywe 4 жыл бұрын
My ex of 2 years cheated with her guitarist, her new bandmate from her school while i was serving the army. Found she’s been building chemistry for 3 months prior to breakup. Called her on the night she overnight at his place. Broke my heart to hear what i heard and her denial to her whereabouts and her shenanigans. Save to say from this video, I’m motivated to turn the event around into a blessing in disguise.
@fitnesssingh5265
@fitnesssingh5265 4 жыл бұрын
Don't let anybody ruien your productive life merely because somebody betrayal you. Take this betrayal as a constant source of motivation and see the significant changes.being heartbroken for a longer period of time is absolutely lethal for mindset, instead of wasting time on cursing somebody we should rather become moe dedicated towards our ambitions & goals
@YouNoub1
@YouNoub1 5 жыл бұрын
and then there is a third guy who moves back into parents basement and plays fortnite all day
@MasculineMan
@MasculineMan 5 жыл бұрын
lol
@hello_watsup9212
@hello_watsup9212 5 жыл бұрын
press f to pay respects to that guy
@kfji2501
@kfji2501 5 жыл бұрын
Sadly that was me a few years ago. In contrast to the first guy, I didnt pull myself together. I lost my girlfriend after i caught her cheating on me. I lost my job cuz I fell into self-pity depression and as a consequence I also lost my appartement cuz I couldnt pay for it AND I broke off my studies. Then I went back into my parents basement and played CSGO for around 3000 hours. This all happened a few years ago ... It took me around 1 year until I started acting like Jeff. Nowadays, Im a pretty happy person and everything is fine again ... but reading your comment to me felt like "daaaamn bro, you got me right there" haha
@KitsCloud
@KitsCloud 5 жыл бұрын
@@kfji2501 Woah, be proud! It's not always as simple as videos like these make it sound. Awesome to hear you're doing better. :D
@richirr5603
@richirr5603 5 жыл бұрын
Victory royale
@paraaapara
@paraaapara 5 жыл бұрын
Guys, it's never your fault if someone cheats on you. It's always their own personal decision.
@TheBigjim1992
@TheBigjim1992 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@Alex-PSG-2003
@Alex-PSG-2003 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@olgac.h.1278
@olgac.h.1278 5 жыл бұрын
Of course. The girl was superwrong. But this Ben was a procrastinator and didn't show real love for her girlfriend. 10 years dating her, a good job, a house and still hasn't married her? I would have left him!
@callmesad568
@callmesad568 5 жыл бұрын
Paralee Williams shut up they are ...
@brandonw6139
@brandonw6139 5 жыл бұрын
It's usually both doing something wrong but yes the one who cheats is definitely in the wrong
@corruptgunslinger
@corruptgunslinger 2 жыл бұрын
Always a choice. After the breakup, wallow in sadness or hope for something better. If only the latter was as easy as the former. My gf and I just broke up. I thought maybe we could fix it, she wanted to, but her parents showed up and forced me to leave. Homeless. I imagine they bullied her into this, but she didn't stick up for me, after being her rock for two years. Each breakup feels like the end of the world, but I always get over them. Women I thought were my soulmates mean nothing to me now. The lessons don't lessen the pain, but I have some hope for myself now because of them. Currently waiting for her to text me when I can come get my stuff, stuff what I can into my tiny car, and drive across country back home to my family. Retreating in disgrace and failure. But life goes on only if you make it
@eunicedang1247
@eunicedang1247 2 жыл бұрын
Hello dear, I recommend you Dr Ezekiel, He was the one who help me bring back my 6years broken 💔 relationship,so I promise that he will help you too,And also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise I which you seek his help,thanks
@eunicedang1247
@eunicedang1247 2 жыл бұрын
Message him on whatsapp
@eunicedang1247
@eunicedang1247 2 жыл бұрын
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@iyamuaudu2388
@iyamuaudu2388 2 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days.....
@iyamuaudu2388
@iyamuaudu2388 2 жыл бұрын
He helped me restore back my ex three days ago he does a perfect work text him, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify ❤️❤️❤️
@medamir4595
@medamir4595 2 жыл бұрын
Finally, work hard and focus on your self and you will get the best girl that you deserve.
@beckyanna7287
@beckyanna7287 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks...
@beckyanna7287
@beckyanna7287 2 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp.
@zox5832
@zox5832 5 жыл бұрын
"this is jeff" "jeff moves on" "be like jeff"
@kmahes8169
@kmahes8169 6 жыл бұрын
Thank god. caught cheaters saves so many years in our rest of life.Never accept cheaters back in your life.
@MasculineMan
@MasculineMan 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@FramedShots
@FramedShots 5 жыл бұрын
Eh idk if she cheated but she’d never give me her phone and would delete things, I left her cuz of it.
@sayaboss586
@sayaboss586 5 жыл бұрын
@@FramedShots honestly you did the right thing.
@FramedShots
@FramedShots 5 жыл бұрын
Joe T. Thanks buddy I hope so. 🙏
@sayaboss586
@sayaboss586 5 жыл бұрын
@@FramedShots I can relateto that, something like that happended to me too.
@mikeymorrison272
@mikeymorrison272 4 жыл бұрын
I just turned 20 early this month. Back in late April my girlfriend broke up with me because a lot of past trauma I haven't dealt with was too much for her. Really hurt because I loved her, we talked about our future in detail, and I felt I could talk to her about anything. And it has hurt but honestly no as much anymore. I go off to college in about a month. I have worked out for a few years and slowly getting the physique I always wanted. I plan to major in psychology to help people with mental health. I am so fucking excited to start the next chapter in my life.
@rika86100
@rika86100 2 жыл бұрын
It was meant for me to watch this video!! It’s time to work on myself & work on self love. My ex left me for someone else even though he denies it.. today I’m finally excepting we’re done and I won’t be letting him back in this time… it’s time to heal & focus on myself❤️
@judithugoh6017
@judithugoh6017 2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
@judithugoh6017
@judithugoh6017 2 жыл бұрын
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
@judithugoh6017
@judithugoh6017 2 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him"**
@judithugoh6017
@judithugoh6017 2 жыл бұрын
±2348140799323⏭⏭💕💕
@judithugoh6017
@judithugoh6017 2 жыл бұрын
✚2348140799323
@IzzoWingChun
@IzzoWingChun 4 жыл бұрын
44 year old man here. Free advice to all you youngsters, “I love you” has as much weight in a woman’s words as a helium balloon on a perfect summer day.
@_AlteredTech
@_AlteredTech 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mansioncapital3358
@mansioncapital3358 4 жыл бұрын
thanks
@Martini---
@Martini--- 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that you're hurting
@aliciakoh3920
@aliciakoh3920 3 жыл бұрын
Same could be said about my ex bf
@13rajivdas51
@13rajivdas51 3 жыл бұрын
@@aliciakoh3920 lol
@AnuragWhoLifts
@AnuragWhoLifts 5 жыл бұрын
and now jeff is Ceo of Amazon😆
@prasenjitgautam
@prasenjitgautam 5 жыл бұрын
And bald
@jayendrakurukulasekara6610
@jayendrakurukulasekara6610 5 жыл бұрын
And ended up cheating himself
@samuelochie1284
@samuelochie1284 5 жыл бұрын
And make his wife the richest woman in the world
@SkyFTW
@SkyFTW 5 жыл бұрын
Lol this made my day 😂
@kbs1212
@kbs1212 5 жыл бұрын
Jeff who?
@q8a5
@q8a5 3 жыл бұрын
Im just getting to understand that "love" in its traditional meaning doesn't really mean much, having it is absolutely great but it alone is not enough to build a life around 🖐🏿
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