Mastering Your Unique Style with Rita {style thoughts by Rita}

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Ай бұрын

A very special episode of the Style POV podcast! Style chat with Rita from the Style Key system and Style Thoughts by Rita.
We dig into what is authentic personal style, how to use style systems and group communities to your benefit, and hone into our philosophies on what style can do for you. Plus we answer some listener questions and talk about our own journeys with personal style.
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Style Cycles Video by Rita: • How to improve your st...
Full Show Notes ep 14 (with transcript): gabriellearruda.com/style-cha...
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@v.d.1724 Ай бұрын

✨THE ✨KZfaq ✨ COLLAB ✨ OF ✨ DREAMS ✨

@louiseisobel Ай бұрын

Totally 💯 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊❤😊😊❤❤❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

YAY! I'm so glad to hear this!

@EmL-kg5gn Ай бұрын

Omg are you serious!!!! I’m so happy to see a collab from you both 😍😍😍

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Rita is amazing! It was so fun talking to her

@EmL-kg5gn Ай бұрын

@@GabriellearrudadesignI’m so happy you had fun talking to her!! I feel like you have different ways of thinking but a lot of shared values when it comes to style, it made this so interesting 😊 And really affirming too. Hearing you both talk about how low stakes style is is such a relief after growing up in a controlling religious group. Now that I’ve mostly left it doesn’t have many consequences for me anymore! It really is mainly about me because it’s my body, it’s so nice!!!!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Yes I totally see that. We have different techniques but I think we both truly value a connection in personal style. And that it should be serving the wearer, giving them something beautiful and joyful. That's a really powerful transition you underwent, and I think it's so cool to hear how your style has evolved and how you reclaimed it

@ellepukalo3434 Ай бұрын

Yes. My 2 favorites

@alieninhumanoidform Ай бұрын

The best crossover ever 🥰 You are both glowing with your beautiful, unique energies. I'm so excited!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Thank you! I hope you love the episode because I had so much fun speaking with her

@VKCouture Ай бұрын

2 of my favourite stylists together 😀

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

yay! Rita is amazing, I so excited to talk to her

@MarcustheWu Ай бұрын

I loved the part about talking about outside opinions and feedback on your style or energy. I loved her system because her system was the only system that did not rely on how you are perceived. Her's focused on what you are trying to project or communicate.

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Yes, her system is so unique, it's fantastic

@2morepages Ай бұрын

The most ambitious crossover ever

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Ha, I know! I feel like we barely scratched the surface, we could have talked all day

@dennidarling Ай бұрын

I looove the tip for beginners about taking just ONE thing you like about yourself and using that to experiment with your style! I love the way I decorate my house with textures, vintage finds and natural elements and colours, so I think I might lean into this and just experiment with ‘dressing like my home’!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

That sounds like a great strategy to explore!

@PuroAstrology Ай бұрын

MY DREAM COME TRUEEEE. Ahhh!!! Loved to see these faces together. 💗💗💗💗

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

I was so honored she would do this with me, it was a blast! I plan to have more guests so if you have any future guest requests, let me know!

@liannahecht9330 Ай бұрын

omg!!!!!! Best Crossover ever ever ever !🌞 makes me so happy to see you two collaborating!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

It was so fun! Let me know if you want anyone else to be a guest on the podcast because it was such a fun process to make this with her

@persikosaft Ай бұрын

Are you kiddingggg me??! I love Rita! ❤ So happy for this collab! 🥳

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Me too! She’s great!

@morro8785 Ай бұрын

Yes, please do it again! There's so much joy in listening to the both of you 🙂

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Thank you! We will try 🤗

@eleanorbrowne7025 Ай бұрын

Just want to say thank you both sooo much for the graceful input. It was so encouraging and enjoyable to hear you both sharing. I find both your channels really helpful and affirming. Thank you both. Much love

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

I’m so glad to hear this! It was so fun to collaborate

@StyleThoughtsbyRita Ай бұрын

thank you 🌻

@robertascazzari4016 Ай бұрын

Oh my my my, what a time to be alive: my favorite stylist in a single vid ❤❤❤❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

🤗🤗 hope you love it

@Kari_L12 Ай бұрын

I couldn't believe my email so I just rushed to see if it was true and it is! I can't see it right now but I already pressed the “like” button because I know I will love it! Can't wait to come back and sit with a cup of tea and enjoy this. Thank you, thank you! 🙌

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Hope you love it! 🤗🤗

@shoshanafox727 Ай бұрын

What a great combo! You two are brilliant apart, together it's like a fireworks display. I think, oh, great point, then another idea comes along, oh, this one is even more brilliant! 🎆😄💖

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

This is so amazing to hear! Thank you 🤗 it was amazing to have her join

@aoifecalderon383 Ай бұрын

Clicked on this collab so fast!! Also, I was able to reevaluate my color season as spring from autumn thanks to your recent discovery and it has transformed my style and how I see myself for the better ❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

That’s so amazing!! 🤩

@cvonsutphen Ай бұрын

*Awesome meeting of the Minds* . I've been subscribed to Rita and find her fascinating. Great collab!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

She's so wonderful! It was an honor to get to speak with her

@Nicole-wd8yg Ай бұрын

Ahhh my favorite people :)

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

hope you enjoy it!

@KDevilgal Ай бұрын

I’ve been waiting for this one! I guessed Gaby was a Ruby.

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Ooh, interesting! What made you guess that? Or is it so obvious haha

@KDevilgal Ай бұрын

@@Gabriellearrudadesign I think the “Free Beauty” style statement is very Ruby. There is a sense of ease and “cool without trying” (even if you are trying) in your fits.

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

@@KDevilgal fun to see where our concepts intersect 🤗

@KibbeSiren Ай бұрын

This amazing collab made me go into a really good self-therapy session with questions about my self image and insecures and how I want to my style to evolve, and now I feel a lot better! Really greatful for you guys, without you my journey of self acceptance would not happen!

@lapetitepoire5 Ай бұрын

Two of my favourite style gurus in one video? Yes please!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Hope you like it! Rita was amazing to chat with

@daniellaastor Ай бұрын

Soooo wonderful to see these two ladies chatting! Love you both!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

🤗🤗

@Linda-ht1ys Ай бұрын

My two favourites together talking about style was so refreshing and was great to hear your opinions. Thankyou for the collaborationxxxx

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Yay! So glad you enjoyed it

@MarcustheWu Ай бұрын

Yeah! I love both of your channels!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

I hope you like the episode!

@caterinadc5567 29 күн бұрын

Gabby, you look so gorgeous in this video! Relaxed glamour, your shining smile (and somehow looking so cozy while also fresh and dance-y)... what a happy share from you and Rita! (Who also looks lovely. You two are such beautiful paintings side by side here!) I have to head out shortly but am definitely looking forward to coming back and watching this video. Yay!

@Gabriellearrudadesign 29 күн бұрын

This is so nice of you to say! I love that description and it fits what I was trying to convey 🤗 I hope you love the episode, Rita is amazing!

@caterinadc5567 28 күн бұрын

@@Gabriellearrudadesign Watched the episode now, and loved it! 😊 Took copious notes and especially appreciated the emphasis on intentionality (finding a "problem to solve"), and finding the flip side of things we're embarrassed about; learning to honour the things we liked "before other people told us they were unlikeable." Thanks again for your content -- and being so engaged with your audience!

@Gabriellearrudadesign 28 күн бұрын

Yes, I loved Rita's advice to focus on what kind of makes you weird or interesting, it's truly the flavor of your style!

@verity4013 Ай бұрын

😂 Yes absolutely, I got such a giggle from this. I had an absolute NOOOOO response even though I can see they work.. liking it more 2 years down the track and now developing my style from the inside out. I live in the tropics and bright colours are the general uniform here - so I initially felt I would be aesthetically split from my tribe. Truth is fashion, colour and experimenting is so much fun. Loved your conversation! Thank you 🙂

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

It sounds like you're having fun with your style and that's amazing! Glad you enjoyed the convo!

@mel818 Ай бұрын

This is amazing 😍 my two favorite style people ❤

@louiseisobel Ай бұрын

😂 this!! ❤❤😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊

@laysadelaparra9758 Ай бұрын

Been waiting for the two of you to come together! ❤❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

It was long overdue!

@eileenternullo8077 Ай бұрын

Great combination of thoughts!

@scoopmaloop3203 Ай бұрын

Hell yeah, two of my favorite channels!

@cambria93 Ай бұрын

Two of my fave Kibbe loving FNs 🥰

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

🤗

@Julia-301 Ай бұрын

This was great!! I loved where this conversation went, the questions were fantastic and I feel inspired.

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

So glad to hear this 🤗

@straore4lifeable Ай бұрын

Ugh, I was just watching Rita's video 😂❤!

@Aqualyra Ай бұрын

This is awesome! Thank you both. ❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@travellingfemme Ай бұрын

I can’t tell u how excited I was for this!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

I hope you love it!!

@Hikerphillips Ай бұрын

Someone shared on Gabrielle’s FB page they asked Chat GPT to describe their appearance. Although the results can sometimes be questionable, it occurred to me that it can help to see if you are projecting what you want to with an outfit. The poster said Chat GPT said they looked elegant. When I tried it, it said friendly and approachable. Well that is something I’m trying to project and is important to me. So, I thought it can be encouraging if you are going for a certain look.

@hanabila__ Ай бұрын

Wow wow wow wow wow

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

I know, she's awesome!!

@hanabila__ Ай бұрын

@@Gabriellearrudadesign you are BOTH awesome 😍

@johannac5653 Ай бұрын

Wow, what a treat! 🍬 I've been following both of you for some time! Thanks so much for doing this collab 💗

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

It was such a fun experience! Let me know if you'd like any future guests on the show :)

@johannac5653 Ай бұрын

@Gabriellearrudadesign Oh absolutely! the ladies from 'Sustain this podcast' comes to mind; Alyssa Beltempo (focuses a lot on shop my closet), also Christina Mychas and Signe Hansen (Use Less) and another youtuber I'd like to see a collab with would be Liz from beepworld 😎

@rorolilred Ай бұрын

Omg yesss I'm so excited for this!!!!! ❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

🤗 hope you enjoyed it!

@LeticiaPalazzo-yg2uq Ай бұрын

Ooooh, lovely ♡♡♡♡ my two favorite style youtubers! Gaby, I'd love to see you explaing how you reached the conclusion of being in the Ruby quadrant (and your other reflections on Rita's system). Maybe in a next video?

@olivia7872 Ай бұрын

This was a very interesting conversation to listen to. I really liked that you both referenced your systems and the tools you use, but you didn't let that restrict the conversation, which in turn makes this convo relevant for a lot of different people with varying approaches to developing their style. I would love a follow-up conversation or even a mini-series from you two 😍

@louiseisobel Ай бұрын

My two favourite beauties ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼✨💐💐

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

She's amazing, it was such an energizing conversation!

@itsdsk 4 күн бұрын

I have this idea of people having layers. I’m happy for whatever my child hood was I still own it in me as if I took it with me and it boiled into this

@Hikerphillips Ай бұрын

This is my first time seeing Rita. Super excited to check out more about her. Didn’t realize someone else could find that balance of both fun and depth in style like my fav Gabby. ❤

@itsdsk 4 күн бұрын

A very wise man once said “you can’t actually capture the totality of the person in one picture it’s impossible”- David Lynchburg meaning what makes you you is all th experiences and how you react in them with your corps it’s also how you see yourself and wants people to receive you I’ve found that we all have different types of beauties in us or just specifics and even not having anything (if that’s possible) is also something to show. But everyone has an attitude towards life and periods of time all this is our soul. And clothes can’t truly express it all, but who said it’s just about the clothes that’s what I feel we get wrong. I could show you people wear the same garments but none of them looked the same. It’s lifestyle tone body type expression of philosophy mixtures and intellect. Growth comes with time your evolution was so fast you lived a lifetime.

@magicalspacegiraffe Ай бұрын

My two favourite creators 😍😍😍 This will be awesome!

@wanjiruthoithi5047 Ай бұрын

My faves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

hope you love it!

@serriak2221 Ай бұрын

You both sync well. You are both spot on. Exactly what an individual's feeling should be regarding clothes in the priority. yes trying yes improving yes moving up yes the wins nail it. Thank you❤

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

Thank you! It was so fun to get to talk to her!

@nataleenriosgonzalez6687 Ай бұрын

duro 🔥🔥

@rosereddened Ай бұрын

omg avengers assemble!!!

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

🤗😂

@Rarldd Ай бұрын

Anyone else here is into mbti and cognitive functions theory think that both of them are entp type? Or at least a high Ne users. Almsot sure gabrielle is an entp😅❤ and rita enxp.

@PuroAstrology Ай бұрын

I’m into MBTI, and I had a consult with Rita one time, and I asked her 😅! She’s an INFJ, I believe.

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

I’m actually INFJ 😂 I know I seem extroverted on KZfaq but in person I am often quiet and shy.

@Gabriellearrudadesign Ай бұрын

@@PuroAstrology that’s what I identify as well 😂

@Rarldd Ай бұрын

ohh wow, yes you are right being a content creator and doing it while you are alone will show a part that no one usually sees when you are around others. i failed with my guess as I dont know how infjs alone and at their most comfortable. But that makes sense now that you too have Ni and Ti as they the most analytical functions as it shows in your videos☕️✨️

@StyleThoughtsbyRita Ай бұрын

okay so I actually did a bunch of research into it this spring and based on the "functions" I am a ENFJ however tbh the MBTI is not a system I am into using, I just had the compulsion to learn my type because many people ask about it

@itsdsk 4 күн бұрын

Like I had fashion moments in my life. I remember been at king dominion and wanting this band tee and as I’m heading for it my mentor says “do you even listen to them? Name one song” idk it shook me he was right right all I loved about that tee was the font colors and the fact that it was black. there and then I knew not to be part of something that wasn’t authentic to me. Now I found a tee with the same font and everything to make that decision to get it Bc it says Africa is like a character design motif almost