Matt Walsh SHREDS Just Pearly Things & RED PILL NONSENSE

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10 ай бұрын

Matt Walsh SHREDS Just Pearly Things & RED PILL NONSENSE
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@BlessGodStudios 10 ай бұрын

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@judywetterman1314 10 ай бұрын

What about the men that gain weight in marriage!! It's always just about the wife's weight gain as they age. ?????

@mvj1153 9 ай бұрын

1 Timothy 4:1-3 "Now the Holy Spirit tells us clearly that in the last times some will turn away from the true faith; they will follow deceptive spirits and teachings that come from demons. These people are hypocrites and liars, and their consciences are dead. They will say it is wrong to be married and wrong to eat certain foods. But God created those foods to be eaten with thanks by faithful people who know the truth."

@75daddygonzo 9 ай бұрын

@@judywetterman1314personally I think we should all be concerned about our health, men as well as women. But the point being made there is that historically women have always had to work at keeping their man as a means of survival and that forced them to maintain a good appearance and remain feminine.

@75daddygonzo 9 ай бұрын

@@mvj1153the redpill community doesn’t say that men should not marry. It says that the current state of marriage in western nations makes it a bad deal for men. They do say that marriage is ideal for both men, women and especially children. The word forbid in the kjv can also mean hinder which I think has been done more by western society and even modern Christianity by discouraging marriage in order to pursue education. Those are the years that people become more promiscuous and destroy their chances of having healthy relationships later in life

@jazzimilz 10 ай бұрын

I’ve only been married 6.5 years, but I absolutely love it. It’s been hard, of course, but I always find myself coming to a place of gratitude for being married to my husband. His love, support & companionship has been irreplaceable! So grateful God brought us together.

@getachew. 10 ай бұрын

How old were you guys when you got married? just wondering and hope the best for yall❤

@jazzimilz 10 ай бұрын

@@getachew. I was 25, my husband was 21 😆

@shakiraS311 9 ай бұрын

Love your comment. So beautiful

@MM-bi8nm 9 ай бұрын

What was your family life like growing up?

@jazzimilz 9 ай бұрын

@@MM-bi8nm very complicated. short answer, was raised by a single mom w a lot of siblings, low income, in a city & was raised in church.

@bluegrass4840 9 ай бұрын

Met my wife at 15 we got married at 22, 19 years later still going strong.

@beccf.s.8012 9 ай бұрын

Sure….

@bluegrass4840 9 ай бұрын

@@beccf.s.8012 🤣 never thought that would be hard to believe. I’ll take that as a compliment.

@jaykiser4103 9 ай бұрын

That’s incredible bro, honestly. Sounds like my parents

@jameseverett9037 9 ай бұрын

Many of the divorces that those men use as examples are 40+ year marriages. Everything is wonderful until out of the blue the wife says she's not happy anymore and wants out. It happens to the best of them. To get a more accurate perspective on the problem you have to wait 'til the marriage has had time to be considered a 'success', but many marriages fail at any age, after any length of being happy. So at what point can you call your marriage a total success? If it's good for the first 45 years, it can still end in misery.

@kevdernman 9 ай бұрын

Lucky you. My wife turned out to be a thief. But we made it 22 years. Whoopdido

@tamsolo1584 8 ай бұрын

She made fat comments about Pierce Brosnan's wife!! The man has been vocal about how in love he is STILL with his wife, and how he ADMIRES her and her body for carrying and giving birth to their children and just overall gushes love and praise over his wife. We need more men like THAT.

@wallihaley5194 8 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@ckckck12 7 ай бұрын

Being in love helps you not really care about things like that.

@Heidi123 7 ай бұрын

Pearl is racked with envy and so undermines married people (she can't get a man herself despite the desperate pick-me tactics). The divorce lawyer has a vested insterest in encouraging the acceptability and promotion of divorce.

@JohnJohn-sw7nh 7 ай бұрын

Pearl understands that conservative women talk a good game, but in the end they end up cheating on their husbands just like feminist.

@AlextheENTP 7 ай бұрын

What makes the criticism even dumber is that Pierce doesn't look like he did when he was 30 either. They BOTH aged, and they've done so gracefully in my opinion, but only his wife's aging is evidence of a miserable marriage. She must have turned 60 just to spite her husband and men in general, lol. Only stop being 20 at some point 😂😂 Pearl, I see your cry for help. You're worth way more than this.

@bgqueens6635 9 ай бұрын

I don’t consider “red pill” to be true conservatives. They’re their own separate thing.

@shelbyspeaks3287 9 ай бұрын

It's "right-wing" in the sense that it holds values associated with the past civilizations, it's just that "past" isn't 1940's america but bronze age mesopotamia 😆

@ophanimangel3143 9 ай бұрын

@@shelbyspeaks3287Yeah you mean ones who perform child sacrifices and perform sex acts in temples (even rape) as ways to appease idols. There’s a reason that civilisation died off.

@Elisha_the_bald_headed_prophet 8 ай бұрын

That's because your 'conservatives' are not based

@eigna8914 8 ай бұрын

Oh please. Y'all always trying to separate yourselves from something. They vote repub...yall are the same. All repubs arent married. And have been married more than once. Quit trying to act hollier than thou.

@kayleematthews1658 8 ай бұрын

Who decides what a "true" conservative is? The Amish probably wouldn't consider you a true conservative.

@LampWaters 9 ай бұрын

My husband has saved my life. No words for a man who is unwavering. My husband kept me alive when no one knew what was wrong with me and I was sick for a very long time, without him I'd not be here, I'm privileged to care for his home and children.

@susanwjoh0re735 9 ай бұрын

but would you do the same for him?that is the question of the century.

@yeshuaislord6880 9 ай бұрын

@susanwjoh0re735 what is wrong with you?

@susanwjoh0re735 9 ай бұрын

me?what is wrong with you and your silly question lmao.@@yeshuaislord6880

@mysticc6232 9 ай бұрын

@@susanwjoh0re735 Well he did marry her didn't he? Why do u think?

@susanwjoh0re735 9 ай бұрын

yes but will she do the same for him?real question. i know the questions sounds screw up but this is 2023 and western women are not to be trusted. look what happened to steven crowder and steve harvey. after demonizing men for not getting married, just look at them now.@@mysticc6232

@pmanninja3813 9 ай бұрын

I'm glad God saved me from that mindset used to be a hardcore redpill guy, but now God has changed my view on everything about life, praise God

@BenT800 9 ай бұрын

Real

@geneanthony3421 8 ай бұрын

I'll wait until after you get screwed over by the system to see if you still maintain that world view.

@11antun 6 ай бұрын

Thank be to Our Lord! Good for you!

@bsangel93 9 ай бұрын

Im so grateful to be married to a good man for over five years. Can’t believe we found each other in this wicked time. Thank you Lord.

@sitka49 8 ай бұрын

Lol. when you've been married for 40 get back to me.

@mtsemcomfort2255 8 ай бұрын

@@sitka49 She'll be fine even in 50 years.

@jameseverett4976 7 ай бұрын

@@mtsemcomfort2255 wow, are you a prophet? You should work for NASA and tell them when the next comet is coming.

@bobbobbington3615 3 ай бұрын

@@mtsemcomfort2255Yup, divorce courts reward women.

@dantheman909 10 ай бұрын

It’s not right vs left. It’s moral versus immoral

@drewwilson6639 9 ай бұрын

It's become good vs evil recently

@Metanoia000 9 ай бұрын

The left just happens to be the immoral party 98.9% of the time.

@epicfarmingandpodcast2673 9 ай бұрын

The left is inherently immoral they push abortion and a bunch of other things also i think using data on marriage when the ppl who arent going into it for a forever commitment marrige is a commitment between u two and god

@taffydavis471 9 ай бұрын

Its now good is evil and evil is good

@JG-fg1ye 9 ай бұрын

Name a single person on the left who is moral and biblical ?

@tylersmith9942 9 ай бұрын

Ive heard sooo many stories from the red pill community about avoiding marriage and why you should never try it. Amd despite all of that, i still want marriage. As a guy, i STILL want to try and get married. This is comming from someone who's never even had a relationship before. So its constantly on my mind.

@roxyroadster6313 9 ай бұрын

Don't let the red pill weirdos beat you down. Most of them are very bitter.

@redpillfreedom6692 9 ай бұрын

@@roxyroadster6313 Bitter doesn't mean wrong, doofus.

@roxyroadster6313 9 ай бұрын

@@redpillfreedom6692 You know who else is very bitter? Feminists. The Red Pill movement is just feminism for men. Same talking points, just with the genders flipped.

@jameseverett9037 9 ай бұрын

@@roxyroadster6313 People like yourself are constantly joining the "bitter" crowd, after their spouse's feelings changed, and /or they became a different person, and decided to end it after 40+ years or more of bliss. Most of the guys that fuel that "bitterness" you talk about, were once happily married guys who thought they were blessed, lucky, in love, etc. But guess what the worst part is? Statistically they are Christians. The highest divorce rate is among Christians. But it'll never happen to you, just other people, who are "bitter". Except they weren't "bitter" until it was their turn.

@oneandonly3139 9 ай бұрын

I pray you find a good wife and all your dreams come through

@TheoHawk316 10 ай бұрын

I'm glad Ruslan called out the personal responsibility aspect. That has always been one of my biggest gripes with these people. They're truly a pain to listen to when you realize how much they want to feel like victims.

@CatotheE 10 ай бұрын

In what way?

@dude9318 10 ай бұрын

@@CatotheEin every way They don't admit they can do something wrong

@TheoHawk316 10 ай бұрын

@@CatotheE It's almost like they think men can do no wrong, and to me, that's a huge red flag. They blame women for everything, and excuse things such as male promiscuity.

@CatotheE 10 ай бұрын

@@dude9318 Most of them say that men can do wrong. They just think that women are primarily responsible for divorces. That makes sense to me.

@redpillfreedom6692 10 ай бұрын

@@dude9318 Except that isn't what they're arguing. However, they are claiming (and rightfully so) that only _women_ are incentivized and rewarded for divorcing, so it ultimately doesn't matter how good of a husband you are.

@shelbymcdonnell131 10 ай бұрын

I've been married for 38 years Having 2 against the world 🌎 is much easier and alot more fun than doing alone

@broco6608 10 ай бұрын

I agree. But, doing it "alone" with Jesus is sometimes necessary and also fulfilling.

@beccf.s.8012 9 ай бұрын

Single is not alone. Many married people are way lonelier than what many single people will ever be. The amount of women carrying their husbands financially while they just occupy space, don’t take leadership and just do what they’re told because they lack motivation, ideas, direction is overwhelming. Married is not being accompanied or helped in many situations.

@shelbymcdonnell131 9 ай бұрын

@@beccf.s.8012 sounds like you don't like or trust men 🤔

@triggered577 9 ай бұрын

^ Ok, but point out what in the statement was factually incorrect

@carolynngockel3670 8 ай бұрын

@@beccf.s.8012 I'm a woman. I know husbands who are carrying the majority of the weight of childcare, earnings, and housework. It goes both ways. That said, if you believe most men are the way you described, that is the type of man you will attract, and you probably shouldn't get married or even date.

@AliceinJapanaland 10 ай бұрын

About Piers Brosnan's 60 year old wife: yeah, pregnancy can make it very hard to bounce back. But it's harder for women to lose weight and easier for us to put it on because of our hormones throughout our adult lives! She, being 60, has likely gone through menopause and that will make it very easy to gain weight and hard to lose it. Younger women, even who havent had kids, still have a monthly fluctation of hormones to contend with that make it harder for them than the men their own age to lose weight. And I'm saying this as someone who did have a baby and did manage to bounce back to her prebaby size so I am not just making excuses. You'd think the red pill group would be aware of all this and be able to accept that men and women are not biologically the same and yet somehow, they are oblivious.

@blahblahblah4544 9 ай бұрын

It's because they are being selfish. Both feminists and redpill people are being selfish, not understanding and not empathetic. Their idea of love is "What makes ME feel good" not "What can I do to make my spouse feel good." So their battle will rage forever because it's greedy and won't end until they become loving and selfless.

@dr.d3011 9 ай бұрын

The issue with her getting fat is with Pierce Bronsons millions she’s had house cleaners, chefs, babysitters/nanny’s etc. if she decided to go see a personal trainer she could afford the absolute best with a meal plan etc. even at her current age she could likely turn everything around in 6 months. So the question is not why most women her age is fat, it’s why in particular given all her resources is she still fat.

@ophanimangel3143 9 ай бұрын

@@dr.d3011 My mother is overweight. She works, but she also cleans the house. She is a career woman but also a mother to her four children (now grown). Her weight issues has not much to do of her not putting enough work and how it is over all not relevant to a fruitful marriage and family life. And as for Pierce Brosnan’s wife, you can clearly see a man who is loving and respectful to his spouse when her faded looks do not faze him. Realistically, me working with young children, it is natural to find mothers who have put on weight.

@dr.d3011 9 ай бұрын

@@ophanimangel3143 what does this have to do with Pierce Bronsons wife? If you and your mom have to work 40 hours a week. And pierce Bronsons wife had to work out 2 hours a day, she would still have 26 hours more per week than you or your mom. That’s just from the job. Keep in mind she does not need to cook or clean, they can afford help with that. So who knows how many extra hours that would be. So what is his wife’s excuse. As for your mom, really fitness is a lifestyle, your mom easily could have lost the weight, if she managed her food and prioritized some exercise. She would have been healthier, and happier too. Evidence for this is that she is still overweight, cause she never adopted a fitness lifestyle. She is likely 1 year away from her goal weight if she started her fitness journey today.

@carolynngockel3670 8 ай бұрын

@@dr.d3011 maybe he likes her the way she is? Also, there are some health conditions that will make losing weight almost impossible. Finally, if you think even a healthy woman over 60 can turn her weight around in 6 months, you are showing your ignorance. Not without surgery (which has its own dangers.) Women her age should lose weight extremely slowly with no more than a 200 calorie deficit a day. It is very easy for women her age to ruin her metabolism and spike cortisol. Also, muscle mass loss is extremely detrimental to women and also, at 60 in females, a constant danger.

@W34KN35S 10 ай бұрын

Every time I see people promoting a single lifestyle I say to myself “I hope they are also practicing abstinence”. If you want to be single go right ahead , but make sure you leave the opposite sex alone as well. Keep the same energy

@broco6608 10 ай бұрын

Yes, being single as a Christian should automatically mean being celibate or abstinent.

@ModerateMic 10 ай бұрын

@@fisherman9435 Amen. Many people have distorted the biblical doctrine of our security with this idea of somehow living your lives however you want, and still being “saved.”

@traditionalwoman5648 9 ай бұрын

Amen, they tell men that they should stay single and sleep around but then loath single mothers. They don’t want to get married and just use women as sexual play things.

@potentatewags 9 ай бұрын

But also remember being married is no indicator of loyalty within the marriage. There is a lot of cheating by both sexes, but even moreso by women today.

@jameseverett9037 9 ай бұрын

@@potentatewags And being Christian unfortunately doesn't reduce the chances.

@terristrange 9 ай бұрын

People really need to be wary of the online communities and spaces that encourage individuals to feel like victims about things they haven’t even experienced. The enemy wants you isolated, miserable, mistrustful and chaotic.

@kumarabhishek1064 8 ай бұрын

You don't need to experience how you would feel in fire, you know it's dangerous.

@terristrange 8 ай бұрын

@@kumarabhishek1064 love and a family are a risk worth taking.

@kumarabhishek1064 8 ай бұрын

@@terristrange Love is a myth in this materialistic world. Earlier women were dependent so they stick with the men, now they are independent, men are just disposable for them and also men lose hard earned fortune and mental peace in process. This risk is certainly not for men. People don't need to experience everything on their own, they do learn something from others experiences. Good that more men are waking up and these youtubers with their vested interest won't be able to stop. Sooner or later government and society will understand value of men.

@malikhunt9367 8 ай бұрын

@@terristrangedefinitely not worth the risk and if one do. They need to protect themselves

@Thoopboopbip 8 ай бұрын

@@kumarabhishek1064 how is love a risk when most people experience it daily. Love is a human trait, is it not?

@judycaldwell2582 10 ай бұрын

Amen Amen. You nailed it in your closing statement about not having your kids in your household. It's hard being a divorced mom and sharing custody, but sharing holidays are the absolute worst! Thankfully, after a short time my ex and I reconciled and became friends again, we were able to do holidays together, but not all are so blessed. Please please choose wisely, friends. Keep God and His design first always🙌

@bretashby7068 9 ай бұрын

You should remarry you husband and heal you family.

@jameseverett9037 9 ай бұрын

@@bretashby7068 he's not good enough for her.

@ela1126 9 ай бұрын

Good for you both! Glad you reconciled and are friends again. My husband’s parents got divorced when he was 2. They had a really toxic relationship, and logistics for visits were the worst. His mom and dad were both good parents on their own, and him and his brother luckily ended up with really great step-parents. His parents are fine with each other now, but because they were so terrible for so long my husband still will fall into logistical exasperation if they’re visiting at the same time, where he’s like “I know they’re fine now, but I just don’t want to deal with it.” And my husband is now 40. I do believe it’s the reason why my husband waited 8 years to propose. I stuck with him because I knew that was one of the reasons and knew he was worth it. It’s just really sad how much it impacted him and it still does 😢. So props to you both for putting your kids first!!!

@judycaldwell2582 8 ай бұрын

Lol James and Bret. Thank you. Although we aren't married our family has healed immensely. God is Good always!🙌🙌

@RambleChristianPodcast 10 ай бұрын

Great video, My moms a family law paralegal, and my uncles and Pappaw are Family law attorney, and I'll while growing up, I always heard "BE CARFUL WHO YOU HAVE KIDS WITH!" There are some straight phychos from both genders that will use their children to get back at the other, and can make your life a living nightmare. Better to wait, do your job of planning, and wait on the Lord for that person who loves and fears God. Being barren I can say, life can be so empty without a family unit you've created. Thankfully I have God and a husband who loves me. if I didn't have God, I would have NOTHING. Go make a family if you can! Things that are great are never easy to accomplish, go be great :)

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

Adopt a child 🧒

@RambleChristianPodcast 9 ай бұрын

@@sallyhemings2295 If God opens the door for that, then absolutely!

@coreycadden2888 10 ай бұрын

Marriage isn't a contract it's a Covenant before God!!! That's different than a marriage!

@muppetonmeds 10 ай бұрын

God divided Eve from Adam making them man and woman so it only makes sense that through marriage God and only God can put them back together again.

@travisjohnson6676 9 ай бұрын

Except when your wife files for divorce, then it definitely becomes a legal contract

@julitakamaki4386 9 ай бұрын

Marriage existed before the idea of the desert god showed up. The concept of the nuclear family is a European pagan creation. The nuclear family provides the most stable foundation for a healthy and prosperous society. You don’t need a middle eastern god to tell you that it’s good. We have the proof heavily documented.

@donovanwilliams5424 9 ай бұрын

It is a contract though. It is a literal contract with the government. Show me how a man and woman can get married in the US without having to sign a marriage license. It's also signing a default prenup with the State. Tell me how I'm wrong.

@aspreedacore 8 ай бұрын

@@donovanwilliams5424 it's just speak for corey since corey clearly can't respond back... I DONT CARE ABOUT THE FACTS I FEEL AND BELIEVE ITS SOLELY A GOD COVENANT!!!! MY FEELINGS OVER FACTS!

@taetaebeatz5578 10 ай бұрын

If you don't have the Holy Spirit, then having a successful marriage will be like trying to win the lotto. Red pill advice seems right to the world because they don't have faith and godly wisdom.

@irritatingtruth9121 10 ай бұрын

Well considering how many marriages end in divorce and most of those woman, I believe 80%, claim God is apart of their life. What you said SPEAKS VOLUMES.

@unamordiezdose5579 9 ай бұрын

Nope I married there most Godly woman I ever met. We met in church, got married in church. She cheated and divorced me. Faith is irreverent it does not force God to impose your will upon another's free will. Just stop. Pearl is trying to save marriages. She's telling men to be careful. Because until the law is changed to stop benefiting women to leave the marriage men will stop marrying. If you truly care about marriage and family change the laws

@blahblahblah4544 9 ай бұрын

I agree. Because in the Bible it says you have to be do-ers of the Word. And with the Holy Spirit you have way better chances at real love than with the world's ways. In fact I'd say the Holy Spirit is THE ONLY way to have a marriage. Not words. Not proclamation of faith. The real Holy Spirit that will heavily Chastise ya if you do your spouse wrong. That Holy Spirit who is the rod and comforter. The real one. Not this empty dogma religion stuff. The living Holy Spirit and doing the Word of God is the only way to marriage. And the Bible says if the unbelieving spouse leaves, let them. Gotta be equally yoked. One person can't carry two crosses.

@unamordiezdose5579 9 ай бұрын

@@allball264 I know that's right!

@socialmoth4974 9 ай бұрын

You think only Christians can have successful marriages???

@tylerhale1696 10 ай бұрын

I’ve had my license since I turned 16, over the last 4 years I haven’t gotten into an accident. You can always improve the odds, Especially when you you have God💯👌

@veeguenz1306 8 ай бұрын

Hey 👋 mom of 3 here and breast fed. “If you’re breastfeeding you’ll drop weight” is not a fact for all women. Most women gain more weight while breastfeeding because you are in fact burning more calories every feeding (the baby) but you’re also a lot more hungry because of the calories burned to make the milk. Just wanted to let other moms or mom to be know it’s not a fact for everyone. ✌🏼 ❤️

@feliciab5019 10 ай бұрын

Satan is truly everywhere these days. We should’ve never taken God out of our society.

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

Satan 😅? Do you believe in the tooth fairy 🧚 too?😂

@KurisuSebastian 9 ай бұрын

@@sallyhemings2295 There is a God. Wake up. Creation is evident of his existence. When the day of his return, no one is without excuse. That includes you.

@Booyared1 7 ай бұрын

@@KurisuSebastianamen

@kevinmorthorst521 7 ай бұрын

@@KurisuSebastian where did he go?

@kimjones1007 10 ай бұрын

Marriage is not a contract, but a covenant.

@redpillfreedom6692 10 ай бұрын

Well unfortunately it IS a contract. And it's a contract that rewards women for breaking it. That's the reality whether you want it to be or not.

@kimjones1007 9 ай бұрын

@redpillfreedom6692 sad you feel that way. I wouldn't get married If you think it is just a contract. So much more to marriage. ain't no freedom in redpill. Freedom is in Jesus Christ.

@peanutnetwork 9 ай бұрын

Isn’t a covenant a contract. Both parties agree to certain terms.

@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg 9 ай бұрын

That's not what the courts think, your "covenant" is only protected by contracts, and even then it holds no meaning unless the indaviduals choose every day to make it have meaning.

@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg 9 ай бұрын

@kimjones1007 Neat well, Mr. Christ ought to talk to the 80% of women that file for divorce. This seems to be a problem with some and for some, but you are right staying away from marriage is the best course of action since Jesus isn't reaching the young women.

@sstewart218 8 ай бұрын

The reason the red pill community has such a bleak fatalistic luck-based view of marriage is all the examples of men who "did everything right and still got screwed in the divorce". But they ignore the fact that innocent good men are a fringe minority of the divorce statistic. The majority of men getting served divorce papers certainly did not "do everything right". But for the red pill community to admit that would mean taking accountability and having nuance (two things in short supply).

@joeyreidelbach5509 7 ай бұрын

To bad you wrong

@sstewart218 7 ай бұрын

@@joeyreidelbach5509 Not only did you misspell "too", but your counter-argument is basically just "nuh uhh" lol🤡

@Seliz463 7 ай бұрын

Yeah, the majority of these guys have put more effort into rationalizing their behavior, evading responsibility, blame shifting, and painting themselves as victims than they ever put into being good husbands.

@joeyreidelbach5509 7 ай бұрын

@venti3137 what you said is false

@James_36 3 ай бұрын

@@Seliz463 even DW agree the laws punish men and here you are

@62harleyboy66 9 ай бұрын

My first marriage only lasted 3 years, but my second marriage is going on 40 years! I love her and would die for her! Or kill for her!😮

@malikhunt9367 8 ай бұрын

Keeping on simping

@DeathsInverse 8 ай бұрын

How much did the first divorce cost you?

@MENACE-km6bd 7 ай бұрын

@@malikhunt9367 Right! Happily simping with a family and friends, and joy in his life. He needs to leave his wife and start getting his money up to attract real women.

@contrarian9999 5 ай бұрын

@@DeathsInverseHe's probably doing infinitely better than someone asking a question like that in a comment section. Not everyone is broke enough to want to die single because of the risk.

@user-ft4bl8yb3t 2 ай бұрын

@@malikhunt9367 if it was other way round suppose the was a wife who would love her husband and could die for him. She would have been a good wife according to you but if the husband love his wife then that is simping

@ladyofnoxus6733 10 ай бұрын

I love matt calling these people out. God bless you, i know more people in successful marriage than failed ones.

@OliveCandy38 10 ай бұрын

Same here!!!

@redpillfreedom6692 9 ай бұрын

If by "calling out" you mean "straw manned the hell out of their arguments and regurgitated the same tired debunked tradcons talking points", then yes he most certainly "called them out."

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

I know the opposite. I don’t know anyone in a happy marriage. Both things can be true.

@ladyofnoxus6733 9 ай бұрын

@sallyhemings2295 that's what I'd funny. I said I know MORE in a happy marriage than those that aren't. I'm not saying there aren't any that aren't happy. I just don't hang with them. Because I rather be surrounded by those that value marriage then those that just did it for the party and recognition. I also don't associate with single friends as much because they tend to be bitter and want to create drama for their happily/content in marriage friends.

@GaryHighFruit 4 ай бұрын

Matt got hammered by his own viewers in the comments.

@georgesontag2192 9 ай бұрын

All i know is i had a big house, land, savings, retirement. Then i got married. 8 years after marriage the court decided it was all hers and i became homeless. I owed her $200,000 in alimony and child support. She left for no good reason. Get married at your own risk.

@StewartWild 8 ай бұрын

yep, and the percentages for this happening inside Christian circles is almost the same as outside. I've grown up going to church, we've moved a lot so I've lived in a lot of different places and seen a lot of different people. I've seen so much horrendous devastation from divorces, and I've seen "godly women" turn into ruthless beasts as they exact an emotionally-fuelled campaign of revenge and wreckage. Sure there have been some really bitchy and nasty men, it's not all one-sided but I'd say roughly 70% of the time the women go full HAM and they nuke the hell out of everything, and take no accountability at the end of it. On average, I don't see the same degree of self-reflection in women as I do in men. And this is the same inside Christianity as well.

@wallihaley5194 8 ай бұрын

That’s very unfortunate. It hard to fathom how a court felt the need to award her alimony and child support such as it has bankrupted you.

@Crushonius 7 ай бұрын

@@wallihaley5194 its not unfortunate its a full on robbery unfortunate would be if you buy an ice cream and you drop it this right here is robbing someone of everything they built up with the help of the government , this is plain torture no one deserves that

@sophiaad7486 5 ай бұрын

@@wallihaley5194Alimony for losing income potential in raising their children alone. Even in a marriage a woman loses income because she shoulders most of the childcare. I don’t know why men think they are entitled years of free labor from their wife. Child support is a given, why should the woman pay for all of the child’s expenses on her own on top of all the time she spends caring for the child. Men are not victims in divorce.

@TimeMachine7773 10 ай бұрын

Most of the divorces are from repeat offenders. I have an aunt who has been married 5 times. I think 3 of them were married prior to marrying her.

@orthotuber 10 ай бұрын

Oy ve! I'm sorry but anyone who fails twice is just never going to get it right and no one should marry them.

@TimeMachine7773 10 ай бұрын

@@orthotuber I wouldn't really recommend her as a wife to anyone.

@TeeAhhhna 9 ай бұрын

@@TimeMachine7773😂that’s your aunt

@TimeMachine7773 9 ай бұрын

@@TeeAhhhna I'm just being honest. She needs some help.

@kimstewart5191 9 ай бұрын

On our honeymoon a man who was on his third marriage shared a marriage advice - keep your finances seperate... Yeah Ill pass...

@geralhammonds9272 10 ай бұрын

"Red pill" has about a dozen different meanings, since its cultural popularity started around 2014-15. It's becoming like the word racism, just basically apply it to everything.

@TheoHawk316 10 ай бұрын

That's my main problem with it. By some definitions, I'm red pill.

@WillNelson73 10 ай бұрын

@@TheoHawk316that’s what they call themselves

@imamjimjamlawrence 10 ай бұрын

I was literally just thinking about this. I have no idea what, "red pill" means.

@platinumboy89 10 ай бұрын

The words misogyny, misandry, and misguided would probably be better terms to use for a lot of these people, simply because terms get so watered down when people want to apply them to everything that’s reminiscent of something else

@cadehoppe0117 10 ай бұрын

he’s talking ab people who identify themselves specifically as the “Redpill Movement”

@labitcoineragt3596 9 ай бұрын

I’ve been married 17 years, we’ve had some turbulent times for sure, mostly personal ideas and ego conflicting with the other persons views. As we have grown together we’ve learn to have a single focus TOGETHER. Wanting our children and ourselves to have a peaceful happy life where we can work things out like intelligent people is what we both want. We have seen people get divorced around us but not all. I am blessed to be one in this team we call family. And 100% agree that having one faith is instrumental in a good working marriage

@James_36 3 ай бұрын

I am happy for you, but we are surrounded by total chaos out there, so unless something societal changes, things are not looking good

@j96569 9 ай бұрын

We had our 17th wedding anniversary two days ago. We've been through some things (mostly mine lol), but it wasn't difficult by any stretch of the imagination. I'm not saying it's easy for everyone, but it's easy for some. I also practiced law and did divorces, and my take away isn't that marriage is bad, it's that people divorce for stupid reasons. This just shows that conservative doesn't necessarily equate Christian.

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

They marry for stupid reasons too!

@mbfrommb3699 8 ай бұрын

So you don't agree that the laws in divorce favor women with custody rights and alimony? Pearl isn't against Marriage, she's against the laws in America that wipe out men financially and emotionally. Where as I understand it a woman could get into another relationship and still collect a cheque from her previous marriage. I think Matt's an idiot in this video because first he equates the institution of Marriage with the horrible marriage laws in America. I've watched Pearl's videos on this which is sad that Ruslan didn't show the other side. I think Pearl is 1000% correct as a Christian guy who's wife was a Christian and cheated and then filed for divorce and tried to get $500,000 from me. I might have ended up owing her a lot if we had kids or if I made more than here which we made about the same at the time.

@lindsaypeek63 9 ай бұрын

Knowing there are men such as Matt Walsch speaking up makes this world feel so much better

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

🤡

@carter_1 8 ай бұрын

I remember first hearing him & thought he was cranky & harsh... and now I enjoy his cynical takes. I enjoy his perturbed attitude towards topics. It makes me smile when he vents. I don't know what that says about me but...

@nlawson2004 7 ай бұрын

I'm glad you FEEL better. Now ask your girl if you can check her phone? Tell her you don't want her to go out drinking with her girls without you. Then come back here and let's see what you say then.

@lindsaypeek63 7 ай бұрын

@@nlawson2004 cannot compute comment. I am woman who is married and don’t go out “drinking with the girls “ and my husband could check my phone but he has no reason to as I’m his

@nlawson2004 7 ай бұрын

@@lindsaypeek63 Your husband should still take another look and sort things out. Just reading the dribble you wrote makes you look holier than thou. Women touting this and that are massively suspicious. Won't be surprised if you had him raise kids that aren't his and you're like the cat that swallowed the canary now. You think you got away with it scot free.

@jkumadapharaoh8514 9 ай бұрын

I’m pretty cynical of marriage but this was actually refreshing and reminds you of how statistics actually work. It would be great to see Matt on the Fresh n Fit show or pearly things show or something. Make it a public spectacle and teach people in mass at the same time.

@tenacioustrees.8737 7 ай бұрын

Those podcasters would never allow Matt Walsh on their show because they want all of their arguments to be one-sided and in their favor

@nlawson2004 7 ай бұрын

Bro do you date or are you married? Who are you guys? Ask your girl if you can look at her phone, then come back here and let's see what's up after that. SMH. Clueless.

@floater9873 7 ай бұрын

@@nlawson2004 Not all women are cheaters. In fact, most aren't. Not to mention, from what I could find, husbands are more likely to cheat on their wives than wives are to cheat on their husbands. It is a leading cause of divorces initiated my women. If I remember correctly, it was the third most common reason

@bunny_0288 7 ай бұрын

@@nlawson2004 I've been married for 13 years, and my husband and I use each other's phones all the time. We don't think twice about it because neither of us have anything to hide.

@James_36 3 ай бұрын

@@floater9873 most arent? you have any data to back that up? most women are as bad these days as men if not worse. In fact with current tech, where women have total power over dating, I would say with ease women cheat more than most men

@TheJoshProject 10 ай бұрын

I remember having a debate with my friend who was saying what's the point of getting married a couple years ago, that's when I knew things were going downhill

@VirginiaSunrise11 10 ай бұрын

Married to my husband for 12 years. It has not been without up and downs but it is so worth it. Being married to him is a joy.

@jaesall3519 10 ай бұрын

Pearl is like if I can't get married, no one will get married that's why she'll keep give bad advice until she gets married

@broco6608 10 ай бұрын

I think she's giving bad advice more for the money.

@andrewraney7544 10 ай бұрын

Actually she says don't take advice from women including her. It's a red pill rule...

@petrichor5294 9 ай бұрын

Pearl said her channel is for entertainment purposes only, that’s she’s not giving life advice.

@Dan261178 7 ай бұрын

@@petrichor5294Have you seen the videos on her channel?

@James_36 3 ай бұрын

@@broco6608 bad advice lol.. are you telling me most modern women out there today are great? loyal? not going to leave? yea right .. tell me specifically where these are? I'm lucky ones for now who knows but I am no fool I see what is around me

@DJ_BROBOT 10 ай бұрын

Russ, you actually got it wrong...not all of the Red Pill are conservative leaning. Trust and believe if you hang out in those streets, there are many who are on both sides of the line in there.

@lucianaromulus1408 9 ай бұрын

Exactly. MOST of the Manosphere is Culturally Marxist

@angelmartin7310 9 ай бұрын

Of course, because the entire thing is leftist at its core. The tearing down of tradition and Christian values. The ones who claim conservative are only conservative to the extent they can spite women.

@devnotes00 9 ай бұрын

Left or right. Two sides of the same coin sprouting the same talking points

@lyonclanproductions7537 10 ай бұрын

I've been married for 16 years now. The thing is the reason why marriage fails is not because a statistic its based on the relationship. If you are marrying someone outside of the fact that you love them your marrying for the wrong reasons. When you truly love someone you will take the time to work and over come things as a couple. In order for a marriage to be long term (forever) you have to make good decisions on the partner you are marrying.

@aspreedacore 8 ай бұрын

doesn't change the fact that women initiate divorce more then men even in homosexual couples

@James_36 3 ай бұрын

preach that to women, they are the ones divorcing

@KiearraDScruggs 10 ай бұрын

I think what's crazy most these people who says this have no problem having children together and playing house. Staying with a man or woman they don't want to get married because "They don't need a piece paper to proof their love." Yet most of the same men who feel this way would lose their mind if they don't give the child their last name. Will both fight to have their name on their apartment or house but lose their mind over being married. They don't really believe these things about marriage what they fear is true commitment. No different than the men and women who wants to sleep with someone but not be fully committed to them because they don't need a title to define them. People lack accountability and being committed so they fight against the things that are right to make themselves and others believe it's unnecessary or evil.

@orthotuber 10 ай бұрын

They refuse to commit because then they lose all possibilities to "trade up", Jordan Peterson explained this very well in one of his lectures. Dennis Prager (who is not without his faults) pointed out to David Packman that couples who do this are actually dishonouring their children. Yeah we may have removed the stigma of being a "bastard" but it's still so much more embarrassing to refer to your parents as "boyfriend and girlfriend" instead of "husband and wife". If my parents were an unmarried couple I would be very ashamed of them.

@KiearraDScruggs 10 ай бұрын

@@orthotuber Absolutely! 👏🏼👏🏼

@user-ui4cu6fy4i 10 ай бұрын

I’m reading the comments here and a lot of you are conceding to the redpills talking points but I don’t think most of you realize it

@aspreedacore 8 ай бұрын

name one non religious thing a couple can get in a marriage?

@KiearraDScruggs 8 ай бұрын

@@aspreedacore Rather I tell you or not you gonna make an excuse if that’s the only that can float into your mind after reading what I said. Have a wonderful life and good night or morning depending where you from. 😊

@traditionalwoman5648 9 ай бұрын

Going to a divorce lawyer is like going to a rehab center and thinking everyone is an addict.

@socialmoth4974 9 ай бұрын

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and are still going strong. I love him more and more each day.

@erikjohnloza 9 ай бұрын

My wife and I got married over 26 years ago. As with any relationship there are ups and downs, but by God's grace we are still together, still learning, still loving each other. We also are blessed to know Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who helps us in difficult times.

@chloelageaux769 10 ай бұрын

This was a really good video! I'm so TIRED of ppl using these ridiculous statistics to dictate their lives! I understand being cautious but we aren't some tumbleweeds just going wherever the wind blows! We have a lot of control over ourselves and our choices!

@user-ui4cu6fy4i 10 ай бұрын

You all are missing the points

@redpillfreedom6692 10 ай бұрын

Using that logic, we should start encouraging children to be raised by single moms despite the statistics on negative behavior from them. After all, not everyone raised by single moms becomes a murderer, rapist, etc. So I guess that means it's a good idea.

@ctmckin 9 ай бұрын

@@user-ui4cu6fy4i What’s the point that we’re all missing? Bc just saying we’re missing it but not saying what it is..that’s silly.

@user-ui4cu6fy4i 9 ай бұрын

@@ctmckin this entire video was just pure stupidity, Matt Walsh and ruslan are simply unaware of how stats work in this situation. It’s absolutely terrible advice to push marriage on the population. most people (including people watching this video) do not know how to pick good partners or simply WONT pick good partners for various reasons no matter what anyone says. To understand this, you have to think about how human beings mate. I can elaborate more on this

@dr.d3011 9 ай бұрын

@@user-ui4cu6fy4i it’s also the triple PHD level of psychology that you would need to be able to make things work with another person. In the past we had standards of behavior and strict gender roles. Those things saved most people in their marriage.

@MJ31579 9 ай бұрын

As a woman, a working mom and wife, mother of boys who sees my relationship as a partnership I feel very triggered by her " logic" and "facts". I invest in and support my husband's dreams and career aspirations in many ways including financially, because I want him to be happy and believe in him. He is there for me in many ways. He is my partner in life. Her very transactional, black and white, negative way of portraying relationships to younger men is very toxic. I truly believe she is more interested getting money through clicks so create triggering content. She doesn't really care about the toxicity she spreads.

@Frau_Zett 7 ай бұрын

I 100% agree with you, that transactional view is just awful. In a marriage you are in it together. I have seen a couple instances in my family alone where the transactional component of the relationship was completely erased, e.g. my uncle becoming physically disabled and having to give up his company, so my aunt had to pick up a second job and raise 4 kids mostly by herself because he was wheelchair bound. Of course that is not the outcome you wish for when you get married, but realistic people know that things can happen that may limit your partner's contribution to the relationship. It's your job as a couple to find a way to work through this, and if you both can't and decide the marriage is not salvagable, then so be it. And the worst thing about Pearl is that money can't even be her motivation coming from a filthy rich family, I think she just likes to rage bait for the attention she gets for it.

@dcoderjr 8 ай бұрын

I think she highlights how the system contributes to encouraging divorce. Having been married 15 years, my wife and I own our problems and we have watched a lot of seemingly perfect couples get divorced. I think the red pill point is you don't know if you are in the doomed marriage category and the system is set up to disadvantage men in the significantly high likelihood of divorce. Even 35% is an alarmingly high rate of divorce and for our circle I'd say more than half the marriages end in divorce. Developing charcter helps you better judge character and being willing to figure out what works for you as problem solvers rather than sticking to tradition or modern expectations in addition to prayer is all we say has helped us get this far.

@bunny_0288 7 ай бұрын

You can read up on the statistics to see where your relationship falls. Looking at my husband and I, for example, we have an extremely low statistical chance for divorce because we score low on all risk factors. We didn't live together before marriage, both sets of our parents were married until death, we have the same religious beliefs/values, etc. Not every relationship has equal odds of divorce because there are so many factors and variables.

@brat7776 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for playing the whole thing. Pearl played whatever clip she could manage to argue a point as a rebuttal to this. Matt makes some very valid points.

@mrdestro7283 8 ай бұрын

no he dont

@nikkireichler9138 10 ай бұрын

“Everyone here is older then you…Pearl.” 🙏🤣

@athomewiththemrs9410 10 ай бұрын

Is it horrible that I was shocked when I found out she was 27? I thought she was in her late 30s😬

@missmiss40258 9 ай бұрын

My parents are married 44 years. It's a beautiful sight. Their friendship is amazing ❤

@dreamsandshadows582 7 ай бұрын

The number of choices I have made in 17 years to stay married is many. You choose to stay married, you choose to respect your spouse. My parents went for 10 years barely communicating. The last 12 years they were married before my Dad died were the best years they ever had. They brought it back from infidelity, indifference, and financial hardships.

@robertwhitaker3839 8 ай бұрын

Pearl is not against marriage, she is very pro marriage. She points out the dangers to men of what marriage has become due to feminism and progressive, anti-male divorce laws. So while she is not "anti-marriage" she is against the financial and emotional death trap for men marriage in this country has become

@faithbasedliving9391 8 ай бұрын

I’ve only been married 4 and a half years but I thank God every single day for him. All the odds were against me, I was a single mom. The only thing going was that I was young and attractive. But my husband honestly didn’t really care about that. He cared about my character. When we first met, we didn’t have didn’t have God in our lives, but we do now. He saved our relationship has blessed our marriage, and has blessed us with beautiful children. He and I are both so grateful to have each other. My only advice is to put God first, he gave us both the OK to continue our relationship and to get married. I never knew how blessed we could be.

@webjev430 9 ай бұрын

It’s actually one of the first things we learned In our stats class, how one or two drastic number differences screws up the stats for the others

@just-a-generic-username 8 ай бұрын

My marriage is truly one of the best things that has ever happened to me. I can only hope that the people who are frustrated, lonely, and hopeless about the prospect of finding a spouse avoid falling for the horrible redpill and feminist takes that just tell them they should be feeling that way. Marriage may not be for everyone, but I think it's an incredibly important, undervalued way to build connections and community. Family is always worth fighting for.

@JeffTheGent 9 ай бұрын

👏🏽 Mannnn, Walsh was dropping knowledge! 12:06 - “I’m not saying that you should be cocky or reckless or that you should see yourself as invincible. I am saying that you shouldn’t, on the other extreme, see yourself as passive debris floating helplessly on the tide of statistical likelihoods because you are an individual. Your marriage is an individual thing, and its chances of failure are not set by society at large.” Amen!

@redpillfreedom6692 9 ай бұрын

So by that logic, he should start advocating for children to be raised by single moms since not every child raised in that circumstance turns out bad. Therefore anyone advocating two-parent households is a coward by his standard and logic. In the end it does matter since all women are incentivized by the state to fuck you over at a moments notice. That's too much power to give to one person over your life.

@caffeineman72 10 ай бұрын

People who get divorced are more likely to get divorced, most divorced people I know personally have been married multiple times. And, people who value marriage are much more likely to stay married and work to be mutually encouraging. I've been married for 26 years, and to assume your spouse is going to be the exact same for 30-50 years is naive at best. My wife has been at least 4 different women over 26 years, and I am probably on my 5th self. As humans, we learn, change our minds, grow, suffer, deal with hurt in unhelpful ways, and then learn how to move beyond that hurt.

@orthotuber 10 ай бұрын

Exactly. Marriage is supposed to change us, so is parenthood.

@MistyEry 9 ай бұрын

It’s as if people dismiss the personal responsibility aspect as being a contributing factor in a marriage’s health and success. Marriage is a risk for everyone involved because it’s choosing to love and sacrifice, however it doesn’t have to fail.

@LucyHowell-wb6nu 10 ай бұрын

I suppose "Pearly Things" would also posit that when a woman ages, the marriage is failing as well.

@alexiakolarski 10 ай бұрын

She has.

@Blacknight6577 10 ай бұрын

It’s such a shame how our society has come to this where people want others to fail at marriage or don’t want them to even think about getting married. Yes there are all these numbers and statistics, but just like what Mat said is that we make these choices as we are in charge of our own lives and how we live it. When it comes to marriage on itself, it’s not easy but both husband and wife must work together and go through all the trials and errors and still love each other. I’m married myself for 5 and a half years and things are still great. Sure we can get on each other’s nerves, but it’s never to come to where we want a divorce or actually want to leave each other. I heard from elders who are married for decades say that if ur not arguing from time to time then there’s something wrong and I agree. Not saying we don’t love each other, but we’re always going to have different opinions and that’s perfectly ok cus we’ll always come to a decision together or she’ll trust me as her husband to make the right call. One other thing people don’t bring up that helps with marriage or rather what’s needed in marriage is God himself. Of course us Christians say that and believe that, but those who aren’t or those who aren’t into the faith much wouldn’t say or believe that.

@dude9318 10 ай бұрын

Anti marriage is not a new thing i think Nothing is new under the sun Same with people thinking they are the opposite gender The difference is these things are more popular in certain parts of the world because of social media But i completely agree with you God needs to be in the marriage With Gods help the marriage will be good

@charissa6648 10 ай бұрын

There is also nuance and conditions where marriages should be abandoned when the spouse is physically abusive and repetitively committing adultery without repentance. God hates divorce, but He also hates abuse, adultery, idolatry etc. People are selective on what they view God loves/hates. He also divorced Israel when they refused to come back to Him and be faithful. That's the truth. Some people will attempt to take advantage of God's love, but God knows and they will personally be held responsible for their actions.

@user-ui4cu6fy4i 10 ай бұрын

The redpill guys don’t want marriage to fail and they’re not against marriage. They’re against the idea being perpetuated by Christian conservatives that marriage should be promoted to the general population. Most people who are getting married should not be. Because people get married out of infatuation with the idea of a committed relationship, a feeling of “duty”, or they get married out of love which is often just a fleeting feeling. Most people are not going to pick their lifelong soulmate, it is not likely. It’s not “doom and gloom” to say that, it’s just reality that we can see by observing human nature alone. And if most humans aren’t good at long term committed relationships, why would we advise people to bind themselves into a contract predicated on the longevity of committed relationships? It doesn’t make sense to me. It seems that only certain people should get married, a small percent. The rest should not

@harlanparkerjr1809 10 ай бұрын

Good for you and your family. Now what about the rest of the world tho?…and go

@Blacknight6577 10 ай бұрын

@@harlanparkerjr1809 we all make decisions and those decisions can have consequences. We should all know what is right and what is wrong. If we’re Christian then we know God’s word and will is the way and this includes how marriage is too. So when it comes to the “rest of the world” then it’s all on them on how they live their lives, what kind of partner they want, and what kind of relationship they want have. Sadly a lot of people don’t want to take accountability and make excuses on why they act bad and make bad decisions

@Hi-jw7oq 8 ай бұрын

I have really struggled with my weight after having kids.its not that i dont care but theres a lot of things im sacrificing. I am so grateful my husband being so understanding and still calling me beautiful

@calebvalesko36 8 ай бұрын

I’m part of that group that says it’s cheaper to keep her…have been married for 24 years…it stopped being a marriage 10 years 6 months ago…we are roommates who have kids together now…no affection, respect, intimacy or sex on her part…February 3, 2013 she told me she could care less about how I feel or what I want. June 20,2031 will be the last day I am married.

@timbryan57 10 ай бұрын

I feel she’s just providing an equal opposite to the modern feminist. Pretty extreme, but I also think she might just be super sarcastic and would never implement these ideas. Pretty sad that society has convinced so many people to turn away from such deep relationships. A real relationship provides you with a battle partner, not another enemy. This requires both sides to move fluidly to fill in the gaps when one or the other partner moves out of place.

@redpillfreedom6692 9 ай бұрын

Feminists don't marry because they think marriage in itself is restrictive and oppressive. Red Pillers don't marry because the system is broken and needs fixing. They are not the same thing

@nicoledoubleyou0621 9 ай бұрын

It started out I think with her noticing what gets her the most attention and gradually she's become a bigger and bigger troll..she obviously says outlandish things for views and more attention.

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

@@nicoledoubleyou0621and MONEY 💰 don’t forget MONEY! She wouldn’t do this for free😅

@nicoledoubleyou0621 9 ай бұрын

100% that also!

@melissac1716 10 ай бұрын

I’m glad he called her out. So tired of Pearl.

@cephas5053 10 ай бұрын

Yeah Ruslan and Matt were wrong.

@nathonfrancis 10 ай бұрын

How can people not see it's a division tactic

@christinemcdougall6476 9 ай бұрын

We've been married 31 yrs. Has it always been easy and "ooshy gooshy, oh baby cakes!" ? Absolutely not! What we have is a commitment to each other. Thus we make a CHOICE to work it out and keep going. I love my husband and we both work on our marriage. That's the choice.

@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven 10 ай бұрын

This made me so happy.... I'm glad she's finally being called out.

@littleboots9800 10 ай бұрын

Beautiful verse btw, in your profile. Thankyou for reminding me. I went and looked it up. All things are God ordained and either willed or allowed to be for a reason. Face adversity with courage and rejoice when times are good for there is a season for both! I'm glad I saw that today.

@redpillfreedom6692 9 ай бұрын

She isn't going anywhere. And neither is Red Pill. Not as long as tradcons continue ignoring or trivializing the issues that drive men to Red Pill in the first place.

@ophanimangel3143 9 ай бұрын

@@redpillfreedom6692The redpill has been called out a lot lately. Even found many “downfall” videos related to it. Even your homeboy Sneako is abandoning this grift ship. I have dismissed the red pill club from many years ago after Roosh V (one of the OG of the old MGTOW group, not Tate) abandoned it for a more fruitful spiritual path. No one more emotionally and spiritually mature stays in this social space for long. And since then it’s gotten worse.

@CatotheE 10 ай бұрын

7:34 I'm not sure what he means here. Women are the one's with options. They're also the one's that are primarily ending marriages. Men take what they can get.

@learningtogrowinChrist 7 ай бұрын

1 Timothy 4 "Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, 2 speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron, 3 forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from foods which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth. 4 For every creature of God is good, and nothing is to be refused if it is received with thanksgiving; 5 for it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer."

@josiahbender4651 9 ай бұрын

“Who benefits from divorce and prenups” that’s a bar for sure

@ebullock1000 9 ай бұрын

Married for 12 years- go married at 22. Best decision ever ❤

@ynor2087 9 ай бұрын

You have fantastic insights on subjects like this, you and Matt definitely opened my eyes to a lot of things in this video, thank you🙏🏻

@JrocTheApostle 7 ай бұрын

I truly believe marriage is a beautiful thing when it works. My parents were married for 30+ years before my dad passed away, and my mom chose to remain single until the day she passed. I also envisioned and wanted the same type of forever thing, but my ex-wife had other plans. It ruined me mentally and financially. So, for me, when it comes to the idea of marriage, I feel like I've been there, done that, never again.

@angelicagalabuzi1131 9 ай бұрын

I love seeing PearlyThings points get shredded😂😂😂 man idk if she thinks before speaking

@jedh116 10 ай бұрын

Statistics report what happened, they don’t dictate what happens

@redpillfreedom6692 10 ай бұрын

So I guess you'd be on board with children being raised by single moms, then. Because not every child raised by a single mom becomes a criminal, dropout, etc.

@timewithruby 8 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you guys are shredding Pearl! I am a woman and her statement of saying "just because they've been together for 20 years doesn't mean they're happy, his wife packed on weight, so he's probably miserable." This infuriates me because by saying that statement she's claiming that all men are superficial and shallow. Yes, even though men are visual creatures, there are millions of men who marry their wives for more than their youth and beauty, men choose their wives because they love who they are, they're I love with their personalities, they are compatible, they love their wives based on her morals and character. I've met a married couple who's been married for over 44 years and they're still going strong. The husband loved his wife when she was thin, he loved her still when she gained over 60lbs, she still loves her till this day even after she lost 80% of her weight due to menopause. There are plenty of other men who loves their wives greatly. But for Pearl to assume a husband will lose his love for his wife just because she gained weight is very insulting to the male gender. I'm relieved I've met happily married couples who prove Pearl otherwise. ♥️

@SiFuJasper 6 ай бұрын

A lot of divorces that fuel those statistics are people who were previously divorced. The chronic-divorced crowd should not be included in statistics that are used to share with never-before married people.

@seeksolitude9048 6 ай бұрын

I've been married for 28 years. But while marriage has been "the bedrock of our society" for centuries, our society has changed dramatically in recent decades. Even more so in the last 5-10 years.

@ladyofnoxus6733 10 ай бұрын

And my hubby and I have been married 4years. Been tough but we are still loving and working together. ❤❤ and we are still a young marriage

@Claudebar 10 ай бұрын

I'm happy that people are disassociating the red pill community with conservativism😀.

@orthotuber 10 ай бұрын

It should've never been associated with conservatism in the first place.

@RachelNichols-writer 10 ай бұрын

Most "red pillers" are about as conservative, trad values and pro family as Hugh Heffner the founder of the Playboy Empire.

@andrewraney7544 10 ай бұрын

Me too because conservatives are just as feminist as the left.

@sarc8514 9 ай бұрын

And these comments are exactly how we know what comes from hell and what not. I really like how you bring in the idea of personal accountability and good decisions, because that’s exactly what it comes down to.

@starlen3345 6 ай бұрын

“All because some fail or live a certain lifestyle doesn’t mean you have too”….thank ya needed that, life have been turning around good thanking Jesus and have listened to Red Pill for awhile (usually for entertainment) but need to walk away because yea it is really sad. Have struggled with the internal war of marry or not to marry because these days its kinda scary, am just gonna keep on going forward growing spiritually.

@frankoconnor806 9 ай бұрын

It’s not worth defending until you’ve been through the divorce courts and are working in the space rebuilding families post dating apps. Happy for you that the marriage is working for you that’s a great achievement but not necessarily reflecting what’s happening away from social media channels. I’ve been through a 25 year relationship through good times and not so great and as the sole parent it’s important to support keeping families reconnecting and rebuilding post dating apps.

@marinusswanepoel1825 9 ай бұрын

5:15 I gained a sympathetic 10 kilograms during my wife's pregnancy. Never lost it....

@shawnbrooks5293 8 ай бұрын

The point that Matt Walsh and others are missing is that you can't force a marriage to stay together. I didn't want to get divorced, but my wife filed, and that was that. You can't stop it. When 1 party can end something willy nilly, it can't be so black and white.

@Car-editzz-sq1qk 10 ай бұрын

As if ppl on the internet these two men I respect allot

@Iam_Celene 10 ай бұрын

Pearl is WAYYYY too DESPERATE

@nazreenhassan3469 8 ай бұрын

Yep, the ultimate 'pick me' girl.

@ElleBee1315 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! Where is accountability? Also I hate this “happy” bs happy marriage happy life. Happiness is a feeling it’s a fleeting feeling. You are not ever happy long term in anything. Contentment is what the aim should be. A balance of highs and lows and being okay with both.

@socialmoth4974 9 ай бұрын

So true. Too many people chase “H”appiness. It’s the classic carrot and stick. The focus should be what you can do each day to improve yourself and your relationships. Happiness is a side effect of living a productive, virtuous life.

@michaeloedy1568 4 ай бұрын

My best friend was married for 22 years and the day after their youngest left for college, she told him she was moving out. Both of them are very involved in their church and community. It boiled down to “how the money was spent” and how their free time was spent. Both seem like fixable problems to me. When you stop living your life for your spouse and God regardless of circumstance, you put yourself on a path of instability. There are times where one will need to carry the water more than the other and the load bearer should rejoice at the opportunity to do so.

@sauceysinister7924 8 ай бұрын

Being happily married requires two people to do their own self work to grow and who can also put each other first. Self centered people are in trouble.

@jwaddell318 8 ай бұрын

Yes!

@ReigningFlame 10 ай бұрын

As someone who has watched a lot of red pill content and is Christian, it's definitely not all the same in regards to its message. The best level-headed channels are Psychacks, It's Complicated, or Medium Man (technically not red pill). It's not that red pill hates marriage, but their argument is that the legal institution doesn't favor men and somewhat encourages divorce by women. Honestly, a lot of this can be solved if both people follow Christ, but in a world without Him, everyone's just tryna figure it out. I think it would be good to really talk about the grievances men have in these spaces, compare them to scripture, and honestly ask if there's something to it rather than dismiss it as male feminism Just pearly has been proven to be a grifter so most level-headed red pillers don't even watch her show.

@RachelNichols-writer 10 ай бұрын

I agree about abolishing no fault divorce.

@ophanimangel3143 9 ай бұрын

This seems to only affect in U.S. Scandinavia seems different and more fair in terms of this.

@AdamBCane 10 ай бұрын

Pearly just making money, that’s it

@forrealthoughbruh 9 ай бұрын

I think the issue is the overwhelming evidence of how women have the upper hand in divorce proceedings, abuse it AND the entire court system tends to always assume she’s the victim and the man is guilty. And how men are nearly always required to foot the bill for both lawyers, loose all their assets and loose custody. THAT is the issue I see. So when one party walks away enriched and one broke and broken it is obviously not balanced or fair. And the system fails men and kids and families in that regard.

@julioenriquej 9 ай бұрын

The enemy of our souls loves when we react to an error with an opposite error.

@supersilverhazeroker 10 ай бұрын

like everything bad these divorce rates are the result of Godlessness, not of something inherent to marriage or whatever.

@maleanewborn9073 10 ай бұрын

I wasn’t aware that “red pill” conservatives were now against marriage as well. And pearl? Yea her opinion will completely change when a young man sweeps her off her feet and she’s convinced she has found the ONE true love of her life and that they’re meant to be yada yada yada. We all experience that sooner or later. IF we’re blessed. I found mine at 15 years old. We were married when I was 25 and he was killed when I was 35. He was 37. He was my one true love and the only regret I have is not getting married right out of high school! Younger! We were blessed with 20 years together. This woman can not say that 75% of marriages fail when all the studies seem to say it’s close to 50/50. Where is she getting her numbers? Also look at the rate of divorce 20, 40, 60 years ago, our modern beliefs are the reason for so many divorces. Not being unfaithful, or abuse. But because we are taught we should be all about our own happiness! If you live for self and your spouse lives for self why is anyone surprised that these marriages do not make it? You have to love them more than yourself. Their needs must come first and THEY put yours first! That’s how a marriage lasts.

@littleboots9800 10 ай бұрын

I don't believe it is 50%. That was a projection that never materialised. I believe its 39/40%. Besides, there are many thinks you can do to raise your chances of your marriage making it.

@thomasarnoldcoe6527 9 ай бұрын

Respect to Ruslan and Wife for 16 years

@LampWaters 9 ай бұрын

Marriage is more about being holy than happy and guess what if your holy you get more than happy but joy.

@dalewyatt230 10 ай бұрын

Where can people get the true statistics on marital success?

@jayrusso8807 9 ай бұрын

Well, this is coming from somebody who has been married for 15 years with four kids all with my wife! Pearl definitely is young and very inexperienced in the relationship realm, but in her defense, she also was raised by good parents, and had a very good model to show her how marriage should work and brings up tons of very valid points to the fact that divorce does not work, fairly in most countries and states women definitely get the better hand on this when marriage first started, you weren’t allowed just to go to the court system and file for divorce you had to plead your case to a judge and they will decide the outcome on whether to work it out or not! The reason divorce rate is so high is because people do not understand what marriage is anymore, and I’ve now made it easy to terminate the same exact reason why we have such a high rate of abortion, because the access is far too easy! Nothing easy about marriage I can tell you countless older men and women I have met over my lifespan who have said their biggest regret ever was getting divorced. Some of these people that I’m talking about who feel this way, or actually even remarried with new families. This blended family situation that we keep pushing is not good it’s only going to create less and less nuclear families

@carlitosbrigante6889 9 ай бұрын

Well said brother, here most only see things from their point without acknowledging the other side

@sallyhemings2295 9 ай бұрын

So you advocate for people to stay married to people they don’t want to stay married too? Sounds abusive and controlling. No thank you 🤡🙄

@Musiqbox087 9 ай бұрын

I love videos like this!!! ❤❤❤

@charlotterobson6860 7 ай бұрын

There are many reasons why marriages fail which people can talk about but marriage is great when you find the RIGHT person (lots of people are marrying people they shouldn't), you actually work on it and put your all into it and both people act right to each other.