Avoid These Relationship Mistakes & Escape The Traps Of Modern Dating

Avoid These Relationship Mistakes & Escape The Traps Of Modern Dating | Matthew Hussey

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Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, podcaster, confidence coach, and relationship columnist. His new book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What), is out now.
00:00 Relationship Pitfalls to Avoid
06:46 Being Insecurely Attached
08:39 Is it Bad to Feel Extreme Highs?
17:29 Matthew’s Background
26:07 Cultivating Braveness
29:05 The Masculinity Crisis
39:00 How to Find Love in 2024
48:24 Heartbreak Whilst Writing the Book
56:56 Your Inner Voice During Difficult Times
1:06:47 Is Vulnerability Always Positive?
1:15:42 How Matthew Met His Partner
1:29:28 The Ideal Date
1:34:19 Where to Find Matthew
1:36:31 Living a Genius Life
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@maxlugavere 3 ай бұрын

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@anneliesewright662 2 ай бұрын

Men are physically stronger than women, so they don't need to prove their masculinity to us. What makes men manly is when they're gentle with us. My son instinctively knew this when he was a toddler. He wrestled with other boys, but when I put a girl in the mix, he was gentle & offered several of his toys to her. He was a gentleman who protected & provided at only 2 yrs old. 🤗 He's grown & has been a good husband & father for almost 20 years. Never have I seen him try to prove his masculinity because he is secure in it.

@jcszot 21 күн бұрын

That is wonderful! Good for you and good for him and now he is emotionally and mentally secure and capable and able to develop his own family. That is awesome! 👏🏻

@shehanhuq1268 4 күн бұрын

You did a good job with your son, Mom. More moms of sons should be normal like you.

@Coolman1985 3 ай бұрын

Man Matthew really is great communicator, he hit a home run in the first five minutes

@FlyingRedTailHawk 3 ай бұрын

Matthew Hussey's comment on therapy is great because therapy tends to be shown like a bad thing where it is good. He is totally correct by saying that therapy is a place where you feel something and you can get help. He is correct by saying that you need a good therapist because the benefits of therapy don't work if you have a bad therapist.

@drock430 3 ай бұрын

Therapy generally doesn’t work for men. Men work through things by doing, not talking about feelings

@Valerie-mw6ih 3 ай бұрын

@@drock430and this is exactly the problem that was brought up in the video. Men have feeling and need to work through them, and it’s problem that those feelings are being suppressed by “doing”, instead of sharing with close circle or therapist.

@AmandaMicallef 3 ай бұрын

PT here. 😊 Love your content Matthew… Food when retrained, there needs to be a period of seeing food as utility for purpose, and not reward. It is about negotiating with yourself 3 things 1. If I eat this how will I feel later 2. if I dont eat this what will happen? 3. Have I eaten junk today or yesterday and if I have, then Ill choose a whole food option. If you eat with more thought behind it, much like making better choices in love, the utility and result is identical. Eventually junk food puts you off 😅❤

@JIMKATSANIDIS 3 ай бұрын

Helpful video! Building healthy relationships is a journey, and it's normal to make mistakes along the way. For me, by being mindful, learning from my experiences, and staying true to myself, I can increase my chances of avoiding common relationship difficulties and finding a fulfilling partnership. Improving my communication skills in relationships is essential for resolving conflicts, and building a strong emotional connection. Many thanks for sharing this great information with us, Max and Matthew! 🙌❤

@annaalm18 28 күн бұрын

Great conversation! Thank you❤

@Benzeee 3 ай бұрын

I love that, endlessly curious is definitely the way to live.😎👍🏻

@FlyingRedTailHawk 3 ай бұрын

Max Lugavere, Matthew Hussey is great. He should be a regular on the podcast.

@joycritchell885 3 ай бұрын

Such a good chat! I enjoyed how vulnerable Matt is now. I see so much growth! Your questions were so good Max, brought all of that out of Matt in such a calm easy way.

@MonaMarMag 3 ай бұрын

From what I understand both definitions : definition of love and definition of happiness are understood differently by each person . Hence the saying : " As many people , as many truths ". That is right I am sticking to my version ( what it means to me ) and what I value the most , because my life belong to me and only I decide what is good for me . Everyone himself is the architect of his own life . That what freedom is all about . PS Besides , at different stages of our lives , both our priorities and we change . This is called the process of growing . Only when we are honest to ourself at the same time we are honest to other people . Then we can make the right choice and we give the choice to others of whether they want to interact with us .

@FlyingRedTailHawk 3 ай бұрын

"happy enough" is a great phrase/moto to keep.

@angelacarolinacasallas2741 3 ай бұрын

Two of my favorite people!!! 🎉

@a.4536 3 ай бұрын

Love this ❤

@angiecheng8712 3 ай бұрын

Good interview opening 👍

@FlyingRedTailHawk 3 ай бұрын

A very fascinating and fantastic interview.

@FlyingRedTailHawk 3 ай бұрын

Nice interview. It is a very helpful interview for any single person. People need these now because there are so many issues in dating/marriage now. Men and women will get many benefits from it.

@thiamae5914 3 ай бұрын

@maxlugavere HAMMER time!!! Those ARMS! 🔥🔥🔥

@thiamae5914 3 ай бұрын

And! I love you BOTH dearly! Thank you for your work, your light, your transparency ✨

@anneliesewright662 2 ай бұрын

There's a similarity to eating whole foods vs. snacks in a couple's sex life. For instance, taking a long time looking into each others eyes while making love vs. a quickie with the focus only on sex. If all we had were quickies, both people would end up feeling bad, similar to eating nothing but junk food. The relationship would become unhealthy & unfulfilling.

@mits619 Ай бұрын

Very true. I always find the questions surrounding sex odd. My favorite position and how I like it depends on the mood, the type of sex, time constraints, etc. you’ve got to mix it up, otherwise it would be boring and/or make you feel bad, as you said.

@FlyingRedTailHawk 3 ай бұрын

Matthew Hussey has a book for men a women.

@annaa6259 3 ай бұрын

First example. Hm not so sure- great playground for a guy to run gaslight on her. Besides if someone triggers you they are not safe, otherwise you would not be taken back by brain to trigger which is warning. There is thin line here.

@patriciacarnevallidemirand6727 3 ай бұрын

M&M 🤩

@noevargas4161 3 ай бұрын

As he was talking about masculine energy he said “I can’t explain it but I didn’t feel good in my masculine in high school.” That is exactly what the question was referring to. I wonder if he made that connection.

@Valerie-mw6ih 3 ай бұрын

But then he said that this masculinity was a source of both good and bad feelings for him.

@noevargas4161 3 ай бұрын

@@Valerie-mw6ihhe can’t differentiate between the two. On one hand, he felt powerful. In that same energy, he felt inadequate. That resonates with me because I didn’t know how to differentiate either. There lies the epidemic that was brought up. What the interview didn’t mention is that not having that masculine essence is part of the divorce epidemic that we’re seeing. The lines are blurred here. Masculinity is not toxic or aggressive. It’s healthy, assertive and loving. It’s the ability to say “no, in our home we do not treat each other that way.” It’s healthy competitiveness and being a good sport when you lose.

@Valerie-mw6ih 3 ай бұрын

@@noevargas4161 Masculinity is healthy, you are right. And the doesn’t negate the fact that there is a toxic version of it as well: putting extremely high standards on men and women on how we should behave, what are we allowed to do be. That’s not healthy. Perceiving women as an object to be owned. Also an issue. But I agree, there are many forms of heathy masculinity and we need more of it in our wold. Another issue is that it’s men who have to save themselves, and become the positive force in society and for their families. This true masculinity can only come from within.