Thank you Lord for taking me out of a deceptive marriage who was never committed and had a plan all along. If you have unresolved trust issues, past hurt, resolve them before dragging your baggage into someone else's life. Only God can fix the broken spirit not a mate.

I’m Speechless. 2019 was the year my whole life burned to the ground. Every person in my life including blood, are out of my life. Toxic abuse and 50 years of it are DONE. This sermon has given me answers to the painful ongoing questions of “what’s wrong with me? Why can’t I be loved? Why am I alone?” God has taken out the rotting trash. God forgive them, forgive me and please do a work in me and bring me a new life full of YOUR people who are good inside and won’t seek to hurt me anymore.

I wish I can go to this man church

GOD always sends a confirmation.

I wish I could send this to every female on this earth!!!!!! Praise Jah!

Let go and let God. God will direct your path, he will be a lamp unto your feet, he is a light in darkness. Blessed be the name of the Lord.

I thank you God for separating me from the relationship that I had. I know it was very Painful but God was with me and I now realize it was God who broke my relationship. Thank you Pastor Howard John Wesley, You are anointed by God. I am one of those been changed by your preaching. I will meet you in Heaven. Thank you.

God will always do you justice if you are the peacemaker. Halleluyah!!

I have been praying for this kind of preaching and teaching here where I live. Until God sends him or her, I pray Rev. Howard-John Wesley will continue to post his sermons on you-tube. Thank you God and Rev Wesley

this is an anointed preacher of God, beyond a shadow of a doubt.

It’s the year 2020 and this word is STILL relevant !!!

Had to watch again,I am in this season of life..Praise God

AMEN! EVERYTHING I NEEDED TO HEAR AMENNNNNNNNNNNN

Good message for young adults and older adults. I love the phrase, "avoidance is not deliverance".

This was the story of my life. Thank God I was delivered out of this e emotionally abusive relationship. This entire sermon was word by word what I just went through... praise God for deliverance praise God for this message!

What a powerful message sometimes we allow people to come on to our lives that literally or used by the devil to destroy us or to take us out of God's will

8/27/22 at 77 and after Covid19 this Word is for me...I have got to let it go......Thank You Lord for this revelation and comformation.

I always love hearing your sermons

Thanks so much for great message. It is powerful for me. Bless you pastor Howard, from Serbia

This was a MEATY sermon. Got some great notes. Blessed and convicted. Pastor, thank you for not just preaching, but TEACHING the Word of God.

This word touched my soul. What a mighty man of God. Everything he said was real, right, and reasoning.

Allelouhiaaaa 😁 Glory to God!!!! This word goes perfectly with what I'm going through! God is alive and with us for reallllll! Glory! Glory! 👏👏👏👏👏👏😁

1/28/20 at 12:08 am God is so kind, compassionate, and magnificent he woke me up after crashing from the stress of my job and a season of companionship of many Lots to tell me that it is over. God is hear and he loves and wants the best for us if we will listen and obey.

I thank the Lord for this man of God.

This is speaking to me, love the message!

this was an awesome word with so man golden nuggets! Thank you Pastor. This isn't just for break ups, but family relationships, friendships, even at work...Gotta learn to be a peacemaker.

I needed this tonight... my life right now

I listen ur sermon over and over again Im blessed through u and grown spiritually

Amen All Glory to your Name Jesus🙏🏼

I needed this Message right now! Thank you for sharing.

It has been a blessing Pastor, may the Lord continue to bless and keep you.

Ouch! Such a convicting and powerful word! Touch to chew on indeed because the dissolution of relationships is one of the saddest things, but such an important lesson to grasp!

Thank you God is so good !!!

Its November of 2022 and I still listen to this message. So well done, Pastor.

and I (meaning God) will give you (meaning us) pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding. It's been awhile since I've been this excited about God's word. Thank you for reviving my spirit!!!!

howard I know my brother had to be proud of you I am truly proud to say you are my brother son merciadee ems. Reynolds of louisiana

Pastor Wesley sometimes your enemies show you who really isnot you friends and to get to your destiny you sometimes need that enemy to help you get to that next level. Amen

Pastor is truly called and anointed. Since I was led to him I have been praying. This anointing gets steady warfare. Intercession from California.

Thank you Pastor Wesley for that on time sermon. I needed to hear this inspiring message. God bless you!

YES YES YOU ARE TALKING TO ME IM SO CLOSE TO LET GO OF THIS MESS I LET'S MYSELF AND TO LONG IM SO TRYING TO LET GO SURRENDER ALL THINGS NOT IN GOD WILL TEACH ME HOW TO LET'S GO SURRENDER AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN

Still a relevant Word and a TIMELY reminder!

What an awesome Pastor. This word is for me!!

Very view preachers have messages that are life changing. This message is very life changing

Listen to him every day

get the right people around you. Else you get it thru struggle

I couldn’t even finish watching this sermon. My God the anointing

Thank you. I needed to hear this message today.

This word was just for me. Going through and this was right on time. Thank you Pastor. God Bless you and yours. I had to listen to this twice.

Praise the Lord for this powerful and practical message that's something that I always avoid when trouble comes now I know how to deal with it....

JEHOVAH GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR THIS MESSAGE!! THIS IS THE WORD THAT I NEED TO CONTINUALLY HEAR DAILY! I have learned why you need GOD'S WORD daily. I'm ready to jump for JOY. Thank you HEAVENLY FATHER! I LOVE GOD FOR SETTING ME FREE FROM THE BONDAGE OF SIN!

Thank you Father God for this powerful message.

Thank you

Right on time. I'm fighting back tears.

amen that release is another step to trust In HIM committing our way to GOD . walk by faith not sight

This man is awesome! Been listening to his sermons all day. Such a blessing!! Where is this church?

This was recommended to me by God bye way of KZfaq & I’m thankful.

MY GOD stumbled on this today and it's right on time! There's more for me on the other side.

Preach on pastor!!!!!

I surly wish I had heard this Sermon many many years ago. I shall share it with every young person I know. God Bless you Pastor

I need this today!!!! God bless my soul.

Let it Go!! and Separate in Peace.

I would like to attend this Church Weekly🙏Great Spiritual Food📖May God Restore unto him Double for what he gave out and Great Blessings for him and his Family🙏💥💃🌝

Thank you for this!!!!

Hallelujah, what a word my God (true word )

I'm thankful for this message that speaks to my current situation. You know it's got to be God when a message from 2012 is relevant to me in 2018!! Thanking God for you Pastor Wesley 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💯💯💯💯💯

When it comes to Domestic Violence, you can't always use those peaceful tactics because abusers will use violence to control you. If you're in an abusive relationship get you instructions from God He will tell you what to do. I was in an abusive relationship, married to a pastor, so I know God will direct you. And I have been divorced for over 15 years , live alone for 10, until my youngest son left home and it is so freeing not to have to answer to no one but God. Amen

Power word from God. Thanks ps John. I enjoy and transform. Bless you, greetings from Serbia

Wow!!!! Companionship vs Partnership 🙌🏾🙌🏾

2022 I'm still waiting on God.

Thank you this so good a great blessing.

What an on time word.

Powerful Word!!❤

I love how all of your messages seem like they are just for me!! This is a true brother in Christ!! Thank you so much for posting this service online and I will be praying for you and your ministry!!

Ministering and relevant to me today. ASE'

Preach black man!!!

You are a blessing Pastor Howard!!!

Blessed are the peacemakers! Make peace❤️

Thank you for this message

Lord this is so true!

Okay!!! He preaching this!! Yassssssss

WOW, this is powerful. YES!

This word .... Wow so on time.... My enemy is busy scratching where there's no itch... I'm about to punch them in The Name of Jesus...

Thank you God for separation! We may not like it, but sometimes it's necessary.

Making room for better..❤

Glory to God

Sir, you know how to teach the word!!!

Absolutely on point

Great message!!!

Awesome awesome Word!

Brother God bless you

I luv this Man

Amen the peace of the The Lord.

Great sermon!

What a powerful message

thank you!!!

Praise God Pastor you are speaking to my situation thank you..

2019 and this is me. Seems I was the topic of content on this sermon!

Peace that passes understanding... to get understanding u need ✌️

PREACCCCCCH PASTOR !!! MAN PLAN AND GOD UNPLAN !!! .

God bless you, sir