Monica, I agree.

There is quite a bit of psychology research on the impact of using someone’s name in conversation. Studies have shown that hearing our own name can trigger a unique and profound emotional response. This is because our brain lights up with neural activity, indicating a sense of self-awareness and personal identity. Using someone’s name in conversation can also increase the likelihood of successful interactions. It grabs the listener’s attention and makes them more receptive to the conversation, fostering a positive environment for effective communication. Additionally, it can help build stronger relationships by demonstrating genuine interest and respect for the individual.

John 11.25-26 Jesus said unto her I AM the resurrection and the life he that believes in me though he were dead yet shall he live and whosoever lives and belives in me shall never die believest thou this Amen

You’ve got to be kidding. Using a person’s name (2 or 3 syllables, if that) demonstrates that you actually know who they are, and care enough to personalize your comment. I say ‘How’s it going?’ to my garbage man, but I say ‘How’s it going, Linda?’ to my friend.