Most of the girls I have dated (I've dated about 10) have told me their stories about how some guy sexually assaulted them. They make things worse for everyone. Not just the ones they hurt. But everyone in the person they hurt lives. These victims have so much trouble experiencing basic things like love and affection that we all need. There's no need for any of this to happen. It's so sick

I am a 58 year old father of 3 girls who are now 33, twins almost 30 and i am so sorry that you had to go thru what you went thru!!! You are a brave young lady and i look forward to that next video!!! Life is just to short so whatever time you need to move on and live just take!!!! God will watch over you. Thanks Dave

You are a VERY brave young woman. People like this creep should be exposed in public.

I'm sorry that everyone failed you, It makes me very angry to hear how a grown man could do this to anyone but a young girl, truly evil. You are very strong, and thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad your sister finally helped, and the family took it seriously. Much love and respect for your continued healing, and for helping others who may be experiencing this too.

As a Papa… this hurts my soul to hear… i thank God for your brave survival story🙏🏽… I pray for you and your family as well as my family

Just. Wow.. i am so sorry this happened to you and i have so much admiration for your bravery to be so vulnerable. Sending you love from the Netherlands

When the people that are suppose to keep you safe and protect you hurt you deeply , it affects your entire foundation. As a young boy, I was not strong enough to protect my family or myself. You’ve done an admirable job keeping it together and maintaining a good heart. Thank you for sharing a relatable experience.

I’m so sorry this happened to you, stay strong and keep fighting!

I’m so so so sorry you had to go through that violence!!! It’s amazing nobody stopped him!!!! Why would people around you accept this horrible behavior!? I’m so sorry!!!! Your strength and amazing spirit and soul can never be taken away!!! Sending 100,000 angels to surround you and protect you always

I really think she's so strong for sharing her story and that stepfather was a real sicko😮 you are strong girl and you keep fighting if telling a story helps other victims then I applaud 👏👏you so much for helping others who don't have the courage to talk❤❤

I am so sorry for your pain and loss. I certainly hope that you will victorious in your life and a great recovery and future.

Please take care of yourself, I am so sorry this happened to you! My wife went through the same thing and she was 12 when it started, it was her best friend’s older brother. I was with my wife for 20 years, married for 7 of those before she told me about it. I was the first to know! We are still together, 50 years now but it’s crazy just how much she was and still is messed up by this. Rightfully so! I wish she would have sought help year’s sooner. God bless you for telling your story!

words can never DO nothing what you went through. take it one day at a time. you are so beyond strong and you seem to have an amazing heart. i hope you are surrounded with people who love and care for you.

Thank you for sharing your story. All mothers need to hear this. Heart breaking.

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so happy I’m not alone! 🥰

Powerful moving story, thank you. Your anger is not misplaced, a parent''s self centered attitude is toxic to any family. On our journeys to peace and wellness we cast off or censor people who never really mattered.

You’re so strong & brave for telling your story. Thank you. ❤️‍🩹

I am so sorry for what you went through, this video should have so many more likes. Thank you for being so honest and open. Sending hugs or whatever is appropriate x

Truly a heart wrenching story that should never happen to any child. I am a father of two daughters. 23 and 25. If someone ever did that to one of my girls they would never make it to court. I can promise you that. And some people just shouldn't be parents.

"it literally gets to the point where you just stop fighting.." Those words resonate with me. That's how i feel with my abusers when i was a child. My mom sees the abuse, does a little bit but doesn't do enough to protect me from them. If i told others, they probably wouldn't have believed me or done enough to stop the abuse. Eventually, i just gave up in a way because trying to fight only made things worse. It made me look bad and more helpless.

What a strong lady, thank you for sharing. This is all her mom's fault, she was a hood rat that never put her kids first. I hope this dysfunctional cycle doesn't continue, the role of a good parent is to provide, protect & mentor.

As a father I tried real hard to hold back tears. I pray for strength and healing my sister.

You're such a wonderful, brave & strong woman. I'm so sorry for the bad things you have been through. Wish you all the best for the rest of your life. ❤

This is just astounding that this happened and went on for three years. You are a very strong woman, and I wish for you a time when you can let go and let God heal your soul. You are beautiful inside and out!!! Plz allow yourself to breathe and don’t let this overwhelm the many good people that are out here for you!

This is a very sad life experience you endure, my heart goes out to you.Some men are worst than animal, 12 years of sentenced is never enough for his crimes.you a beautiful lady, keep living life to best, hope you have the courage and faith to move on. I have daughters and can't imagine someone doing bad things to them,I bet they will pay their lives for it.

I get a feeling that everyone noticed something wrong! But fear of him kept the denial going. It’s takes me back to when I noticed something wasn’t right between 2 relatives. I pulled the girls mother aside immediately and expressed firmly my concern. I felt like she thought I was just causing problems in the family and being ridiculous. About 6 mos later the 15 girl involved spoke up to her mother. The mother insinuated that the girl had problems separating dreams from reality and of course the pig involved took that alibi. As the Uncle, it destroyed our entire family! I can never forgive! You’re in a lot of good company and certainly not alone! My situation was about 30 years ago, I abandoned everyone that that took his back! Essentially, my entire family. I’m truly sorry for what happened to you! Keep your Faith

They all plead guilty because they will get less time than if they took it to trial. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I have CPTSD from the abuse from a small child. Thank you for being so brave. You're stronger than you realize. Much love and peace to you. ❤

Thank you for sharing. I understand. It’s our time to protect our new generation .

Thank you for telling your story. Made me more vigilant and aware of this terrible stuff that happens to so so many young girls. Sorry. My apologies for the sorry guys around. Makes me wanna redouble my efforts to stop this horror.

You are loved, and you are valued, and I hear you. I'm sorry no one around you advocated for you or could see any of the glaring red flags all around you! I can't believe your mom didn't know something. I'm a mom of now an adult son, but when he was young, I could sense if he had a stomachache at school for crying out loud! Again, you did not deserve what you received. I'm glad and proud of the courage you have of telling your truth. I know you are helping others out there! Thank you! Prayers and blessings to you! :)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you got out of it. God bless you.

I am truly sorry that you had to go through this. I want you to know that you are truly a blessing from Gods. That you are a lovely, brave, and caring young lady. May you continue to heal and have peace in your life. As a cop I have dedicated my life to protecting people, such as yourself and get devils like this off of the street. I promise you and everyone else that I will be an angel of peace. I will do my best so this does not ever happen to anyone else. Thank you for telling all of us your story God bless now and forever, Antoine

You are so brave to do this. I hope you continue to heal.

Stay strong young lady. I think that you will overcome this in the most valuable way one day. You are a very intelligent young lady and I know that the dysfunction of your mother will not be carried on by you. You will make sure of that as you are so aware of it. Good luck and I hope you can have a happy life and use this as a tool I’m your life don’t let it use you. Xxx

I’m lost for words..I’m sorry. This story reminded me of my encounters as a child but I can’t even imagine going through this. I hope you heal and continue..I’m truly lost for words I’m sorry

So sad to hear! I hope your life gets better from now on, stay strong!

So sorry for what happened to you. Pray for your healing. Your mom has some blame but maybe she was afraid of him . Forgiving your mom is part of your healing

Hi! Thank you for your courage and strength to do this and get through, despite the tears and trauma! I’m recovering from family abuse myself, that’s how I found you. It’s so crazy how your step dad could’ve done all those horrible things to you in front of so many people. That’s insane! I can’t imagine how that could’ve happened. Of course everybody knew! As a recovering family scapegoat, I totally feel like your family might’ve treated you like a scapegoat. Have you ever felt that way? Idk if you plan to do a follow up but I’d like to hear how NOBODY saw that in the living room? How? You also said he had tried to put it in while your mom was in bed, but he couldn’t. Like, how on earth was that happening and your mom ‘not notice’? Sorry, it’s just so gruesome to believe. Thank you for the encouragement, that there’s hope in the lord. Your faith shines through you. Blessings, sister.

You are a strong woman and I hope you already find a man who can protect you and take care of you ! ❤you deserve way better ! ❤poor little girl- you !

im sorry that this had to happen to u god bless u for telling ur story hope u can heal from this tragedy

Home should be a safe haven. It should be the place were you learn to trust. Very sorry it wasn't for you.

That is so sad I pray she can get good help so she can lead a normal life, and have normal relationships.May God be with you ❤

I admire you being able to tell your full story, that takes so much courage. You are so strong, and so are so many other survivors. I've never been able to tell my full story to anyone except the police, but here's what most of the people in my life know. I'm a man that was assigned female at birth. I was sexually abused almost five years ago. It was right after I told people that I'm trans. One of the phrases that my abuser loved to say was "if you think you're not a girl, I'm going to show you how much of a girl you actually are." I grew up with my abuser, they're less than a year older than me, and they were my 'best friend' throughout my childhood. Countless men and women have been through these experiences, and we need to band together and fight to get all of the bad seeds plucked.

I loved the video and its so inspiring it was shot almost a year ago but to hear your story was truely inspiring and the events that occured were mind boggling at the same time lots of love Destiny From INDIA❤❤

I know a woman now who went through this with her step father and she wont tell anyone, the only reason I know is because I caught her in a vulnerable place and she trust me enough to tell me the truth. This made it so she will never have a good relationship with any man and now has a son. The boy will be going through a very bad time with his mother and no one is there to stop this cycle... smh!

Hey I'm Rayann I just thought I'd say sorry to hear that what you experienced and been through .. just keep your head high and never give up 💯 you got this girl! Your also very beautiful too 🥰☺️ we can be best friends if you're interested.

beautiful woman, so sorry, stay strong & prayers to you

So sorry for what happened to you, but God can help you overcome and make something good. Come out of it. Love you in the Lord take care can’t wait to see what God does with you.

I went through sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual harassment. I feel your pain and you're very brave for telling your story.

You are a brave girl for telling your story.

You are a beautiful angel who lived with demons ,may God bless you all your life

Mannnn destiny this just broke my whole heart you are very very brave to talk about this and i understand the point but oh my goodness 💔💔💔💔I am so sorry

My heart goes out to you, no one should ever have to go through what you and others who are raped !! Keep GOD in your heart, he will never leave you. That man should have gotten LIFE, anyone who rapes someone should get LIFE no matter the age of the person being raped !!!

I'm so very sorry this happened to you. When your mom asked you if he did anything to you, did she ask any of your other siblings as well or just you? If she asked just you then it is obvious that she figured it out ar at least suspected but eventually did nothing and turned a blind eye. She might have done it out of fear as well because the guy was a felon with guns in the house. Still that was horrible of her. I wish you all the best and hope that you can heal and recover from this and live a great life.

Terrible he destroyd so much in your life I know from my own experiense ,thank you for talking about it.❤

Sorry you went through such a horrendous experience. Maybe your mum moved this sick monster in so quickly because he manipulated the situation. These sick monster's are master manipulators, they say and do anything to a child to get what they want. I can relate to your story, I was 9 years old. Your going to believe what those sick monster's say to you as a child. I don't understand how you ended up in the same bed, but in those days, it seems the norm. I can relate to pleading with your eyes, for someone to notice! Please get counselling if you have not had any, it does help. In those days people didn't want to see or chose to ignore it! my mum and dad knew and apart from throwing my half sibling out, 1 night, that was it. I needed to hear you say you refuse to let him affect your life anymore. That has helped me. Thank you for sharing such a difficult story. Your a beautiful lady and I wish you continued healing❤🙏🏾

sorry this happen to you glad you made it out!!!

I am totally understand your story.. because same happened to my family 🥺👍

When I was 4 I was raped by my dad and my mom did nothing about it my dad ended up getting me pregnant and had the baby at 12. We both have different perspectives but both should had not been parents I am glad that we are both are alive.

Sad 😢 I’m sorry you went through that

I am so hurt by what you have gone through that I feel a knot in my chest, that someone did not notice it all throughout,. Please make a video how to make other young girls in your position should do to bring this out in the open right when first it happens. There exist protectors of the universe that young children need to know that they have to report to. Parents and teachers must strongly teach this that no matter how scared you are there is help available. It is a do or die situation, you have to report it or die.

Wow, its hard to express how bad I feel for this girl. I hope the rest of her life can somehow be great.

You did nothing wrong. You had normal reactions to abnormal events. Always take care of yourself

Im a dad of 3 girls 16 13 and 11 you deserved a lot better and that sucks that you whent through that make sure your careful who comes around your kids .

This happened to me but I never ever told anyone because he told me he was going to kill my sister (his girlfriend) so I didn’t know what to do and to this day I haven’t told anyone . I’m sorry this happened to you

Thanks for your bravery!

I will never understand why a mother can't just have a man away from home. I have dedicated myself to not make the same mistake as my mother I will never bring a man into my home. I don't trust them. I went through almost the same thing, and she never noticed and even after I told her he was sexually harassing me...she still married him. It's like I didn't matter and as an old ass woman I can't let that go and I don't know how to let it go.

Hello Destiny, I am so happy you told your story. Im sorry that happened to you. But it opened my eyes of my 1stGirlfriends and later my wifes feelings and how we went through this together. Because I walked in on her and her Dad, and I was threatened and eventually was made to participate and later it was a daily thing that was becoming as normal thing. I even felt sometimes that my girlfriend began to be more flirty. And noticed that the father would like to do stuff in front of me. And my GF would be naughty in front of my Mom and Dad. And I was worried to say something cuz I didnt want to hurt her, but I started noticing that she was starting to enjoy it. And would tell me do you like watching me. And I felt so bad that yes I started to enjoy watching her. Our sexlife was very good and she would talk about the rape like it turned her on talking about it. And sometimes I would get jealous. Then I would feel bad for feeling that way. There are alot of things I cant say cuz im too embarrassed and the privacy of my family. The threat was real her Dad and my Dad were Mafia members and I'll continue another time. But thanks for being brave, and with all the respect in the world your beautiful and very sexy and like my GF a early developer and it worked against you both. Im here if you need anything I feel like your my family Lol.❤❤❤ God bless

I completely agree with you. This is not your fault. It’s your mother’s. I truly believe your mother knew. She would have never asked you any questions if she didn’t. It’s probably better for you not to have any relationship with your mother. Save yourself, sometimes it not good to have relationships with your mother. Good luck with your life and try to find happiness.

Iam so sorry 😢thank you ❤

It is heartbreaking!

He got 12yrs? Well that's a start for your healing because people hear you now. I think all here have had suffered some abuse and carry hate and anger that we'll deal with. All the best.

I am 30 years old today and my whole family isn’t speaking to me because I told the police that my step dad tried to go down on me at the age of 15 first I hated myself for saying something because my twin sister said I should of kept it in the family 😢 now am getting married and I just gave birth to my daughter on Christmas Eve and I have no one to walk me down the isle only my fiancé’s family that will attend to our wedding just because everyone hates me for speaking up but am not gonna let it bother cause listening to your story I know it happens to almost everyone and I am not alone in this and at least I was strong enough to speak up and not a coward and been silent about it I also feel like it’s not fair smh but it’s okay all these bad ppl will attend to god when it’s judgement day

I was around 13 when it happened the first time. It wasn’t a family member, thankfully. My abusers were a group of older peers who went to the same private school. My parents worked a lot and I was an only child. They would drive alongside of me when I was walking home from school. I knew them and got a ride from them the first few times. Then they would have a more harassing tone so I started ignoring them. I had formerly had a crush on one of them. But the things he would say made me find all of them disgusting. I finally stopped just passively ignoring them, and started yelling, and then one day, I threw a rock, hit the mirror of the driver’s SUV, and they stopped the car and got out. I tried to run, and something hit me in the back of the head. I woke up in an empty lot near my house, put my clothes back on, except for my missing underwear, and walked home. It was in a rural area and nobody saw a bloody tween girl walking in a daze. I got home, threw up, and called my parents. I they were out of town for something my dad was doing for work. I lied and said I wasn’t feeling well, and never told anyone until I was almost 30. By that point I had noticed a pattern. I could not spot dangerous people on my own life, and I had a fear of men. I had to address this thing that had happened so long ago. I never talked about it before that. Never really admitted to myself what likely happened because I was unconscious. I was afraid at first that they would show up at my house and kill me, at first. I was often alone, and they knew where I lived. Then I didn’t talk about it because I didn’t want to think about it. I thought I’d be in trouble for ‘instigating’ and for damaging their car. I thought nobody would believe me as the months and years went by. So many reasons. But it got to a point where I couldn’t keep it in anymore. I wish id talked sooner because my abusers were not that much older than me. Maybe they would have been young enough still to change with intense consequences and therapy. I can only imagine how sick they are as adults if that’s what they did at 16-17. I have never looked them up because I don’t want to know. I’m not ready. I don’t know if it scares me more to find out any one of them went on to do something worse, or to find out they grew up and never harmed another soul. Either scenario would probably raise so many questions and unhealthy old thoughts I’ve mostly gotten under control since admitting what happened. I had to do a lot of self work and therapy to undue the damage done by them, and later damage from others. I had to learn how to see red flags when they impacted me. I could always spot them with others, but I would run to them like a bull. I’m married now. My husband was the first person I told… and he is the first and only healthy relationship I’ve had. Healing is rough but I’ve healed more than I thought possible, though I feel like it’s a lifelong journey. Best of luck to you with your healing. You deserved none of this. You are right to forgive or not forgive, as we can’t really control that. Just saying the words doesn’t do shit. It’s something that may or may not be a part of your path. For me it feels more natural to just mentally grieve the people who hurt you, cut them out if/when applicable, and think of them less and less, but everyone is different. May you heal in a way that is best for you.

My honest advice to you is make sure you're in thearphy and addressing these issues head on, if your in a relationship with someone make sure they are supportive, understanding and caring. If your single stay single till you have fully addressed and dealt with this for yourself first and foremost as you need to fully heal. Take all the time you need so when you decide to eventually deal with someone again your going into that situation on healthy strong grounds with the right mindset and mental state of mind. If you got a guy you still may have deep routed issues that needs to address so your partner will have to be willing to stand by you and be there for you. Other than that I got nothing but best wishes going forward

I'm so sorry that you went through all that! Jesus loves you! I thank God that he delivered you out of that situation.

Hello I know what you want to because my wife also went through very similar thing the least she was able to put her life back together properly I did lose her February 16th of this year but you on girl we all do just remember be strong

Hi Destiny, how are you? I am very sorry this happened to you. Nobody should have to got through that. You were only 12 years old when this happened, that's much worse. The sexual assault happened for three years (3), holy s**t! The guy who raped you will get what's coming to him; that's messed up. At 27:00, I want to reach inside the computer screen and give you a big hug and tell you it's going to be okay. Thank you for being so brave to tell your story, we really appreciate it. I love you, God Bless you and have a nice day. (blows you a kiss)😘

Oh my. This girl is trapped. Hope she finds healing

I'm a75 year male, I love young people, men that do that crime to daughter, step daughters, or any female should be castrated. I'm so sorry as a father that you had to go through this, I'm so very sorry you had to go through this, stay strong Beautiful and God Bless You and the rest of your family.

Sorry this happened to you I can relate ❤

..Horrific. Thank you for sharing, what a nightmare. Thank God he went to jail. I don’t know why God allows these things, but Jesus and God the father is our only hope for Heaven. Thank you for being brave. May God Bless you through the Lord Jesus Christ. Many Blessings to you. You are so beautiful inside and out trying to protect your sister and all.

I have 2 daughters! Smh! This heartbreaking to me! I protect my daughters by always asking them questions. They are teenagers. I often take them to the doctor to see if they are still Virgins. My oldest is 15! Her sister is 13! I talk to them about what someone shouldn’t do or touch their body. I can’t imagine how any person can have this kind of evil in them. This happen to one of my friend’s daughters. His girlfriend always isolated his daughter from him while she was with any and every man. Once he asked his daughter what was wrong she couldn’t explain it . He seen her energy changed any something was wrong. After I looked at her I immediately said. Let’s go find the dude she with. Soon as we pulled up at her house the guy had fear on his face. If he wasn’t guilty of anything that energy wouldn’t have shown itself. Let’s just say . He won’t be doing anything else to anyone else kid.. I have a deep hatred for this type of Evil. After that I really surrounded my girls. I will protect any kid I see. Your such a beautiful woman. You are strong ! Watching this video and hearing you are hurt brings the wrath of out me to protect you. As a father of girls. I hope you are healing and finding a way to see the beauty that was taken away from you! May God protect you the rest of your days ! ❤️❤️❤️

Take away here is to not have broken families and to speak up, dont stay quiet. People need to talk about this out loud and not have this be a big secret. There are truly sick people among us and the victims need to know that we will not be quiet

That predator picked the perfect victim if not for your sister he would still abuse you to this day you never would have spoke up…unfortunately this has happened to many times and most didn’t have a sister to save them. Your mom is at fault 100% and I understand your fear as a child. Hope your healing daily

i am so sorry.

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I'm sorry you didn't do anything wrong he did I am a guy and I pray to God you can have a great rest of your life.

Brave woman !

This was not your fault he was what we call a predator and you are beautiful and you are worth a lot more hope this will give you peace of mind 🇬🇧❤❤❤❤❤take care my friend 🙏🙏

What a brave woman you are. My best wishes to you and I hope this bad part of your life can be put behind

Keep your head up

Damn😢

Im 48 years old and i cant ever look at my mom the same. My story is on my channel

I love you with my soul and heart ❤️ 💙 I will pray for you today

I am so sorry , I hope that one day you can delete that part of your life, stay strong and positive!

It must've been terrifying being in that situation! I feel your step-father would've probably killed your family based on his history if you reported him. How did you feel when he was imprisoned?

I'm really sorry that happened to you. I have daughters that are 30 years old and younger. I guarantee if I knew about this with them, the man would be dead.

wish you much strength .....

I listen to what happened to you I'm so sorry about what your mother allowed to go on in your life for three years and not notice what's happening to you I'm so sorry about that just like you said no mother in the world should not allow any man to come around their daughter's not knowing who they are and then these girls get hurt nobody know nothing going on with these girls and they begin to threaten the daughters of someone else's kids threaten to kill their family because he want his way well I'm glad he's locked up and it should be more than twelve years locked up for what he did to you I am so sorry this happened to you within three years of your life and have robbed you of your teenager years you have permanently scarred you for life and now you in relationships did you cannot even trust because of what happened to you it's going to take time to heal of the situation and one of these days you'll meet somebody that will understand your situation and it will help you to have a better relationship with the next person you get involved with