How you can actually choose not to get angry or bothered by people

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Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center

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@divinegrackle Ай бұрын

I've found so much wisdom in practicing stoicism. As long as I know I did the right thing, I'm not going to be bothered by other people's own words and actions. I don't allow myself to retaliate or even think about it. I can respond and stand up for myself, but I have to decide if it's really worth the effort: "Am I not doing this out of spite or am I sincerely trying to help others be better?"

@lesleyM84 Ай бұрын

@@divinegrackle i so love this dg❣️.. stoicism is such an amazing vein of knowledge to mine.. life changing truly

@DerHammerSpricht Ай бұрын

@@lesleyM84 I find stoicism disgusting

@DerHammerSpricht Ай бұрын

The anger is healthy because people's behavior is usually terrible. I choose to get angry and stay angry because I am not a fragile idealist who doesn't know what to do with a negative emotion. Anger can be quite productive and protective. Calming, even.

@lesleyM84 Ай бұрын

the time of putting up with rude, stupid, entitled and unkind individuals is over.. i agree DerHammer.. the problem is see with anger arising from interactions with these types of de-evolved people is that it will allllways disintegrate into chaos.. they have no ability to ration, reason and no upbringing with manners or sense enough to be mannerly… i just stay on the periphery now with humanity and make no eye contact🥳🥳.. my inner peace is worth waaaay more than to engage..

@paulhusbands Ай бұрын

I have seen anger destroy more often than not

@marianavisan3005 Ай бұрын

Please tell more I work as a dentist and always need to deal with angry patients (nhs ) How do you manage it

@itana5542 Ай бұрын

@@marianavisan3005Why are they angry???

@lesleyM84 Ай бұрын

@@marianavisan3005 dentistry is one of the most stressful professions DrVisan….. people are so nutty and fearfilled about dental procedures despite your wisdom and skills being amongst the most nurturing and greatest good health ensuring of all medical treatments us humans require .. So here goes, so, i would highly recommend bi-weekly full body massages; monthly Reiki sessions; an at home shiatsu high quality foot massager you can use every evening; a monthly house cleaner for all the deep cleaning needs so you do NOT have that worry and definitely a monthly visit to a therapist who specializes in doctor specific, high stress management who will nurture and validate you, that you can vibe with and feel safe with… headphones with Binaural Beat music videos in the evening (there are a bunch on KZfaq) and finally, a yearly at least 14 day VACATION to an all inclusive resort with lots of good food and spa level pampering❣️🥳❣️🥳.. that’s what i would recommend ❣️❣️❣️🙌🙌🕊️thank you so much for all you do to give us great oral health!!!!! Mad respect and much appreciation for you!!!

@niestrategicznydt7601 Ай бұрын

Rabbi J has always something valuable to say.I like to listen to He's videos

@alanyesilipek7959 Ай бұрын

Unbelivable wise man. We are so blessed to be able to listen to someone like sır Rabbî Jacobson in our lifetime specialy where God and spiritualism is almost completly wiped out and ridiculed by paid space and sicience and education lies.

@akai.christo Ай бұрын

Thank you Rabbi Jacobson!!💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶

@sheilaterranovabeasley1966 Ай бұрын

As a Catholic I’d like to thank you for your lovely videos. I think of Catholics as “Jewish Light” and appreciate learning even more about applying Judeo Christian values to the humdrum challenges of daily life.

@filthism1659 Ай бұрын

I left Catholic church and ended up finding my self and real happiness in Judaism such amazing truth

@sheilaterranovabeasley1966 Ай бұрын

@@filthism1659 I can understand that.

@abdo-yj2ox Ай бұрын

I Can’t Tell You How Much I Felt My Self Row - Mind Child Again Since I Have Surranderd Myself To Jesus Listening To You Gently Rebuked Revived My Commitment To Hold Whoever May Hurt Me On My Heart ❤️ Thank You For Remarkable Lesson That Refreshed My Faith And Conviction Of Discipline And Self Control To Empty Myself Again As First Step Of Cabbala For Adonai And His Christ Sake As I Enjoy His Fellowship With All Creatures I Remember Ezra Responsibly Considering His And Others Sins Before The Lord As He Emptied Himself Learning And Committing To The Words Before Teaching On The Second Temple Building May The Lord Bless You And Keep You For Further Blessings BeShem HaMashiha Yashua Amen 💖🇮🇱🕊️Shalom✌️

@vandyred8354 Ай бұрын

I've been messing things up lately. Thanks rabbi

@dannyjohnstone777 Ай бұрын

This is very timely for me Thank you Rabbi

@lauraanders5318 Ай бұрын

Thank you, Rabbi. ❤ I have had some realizations during this chat. I do tend to hide emotions even though I have grown to where some things don't bother me the way they might bother other people. I would love to work on experiencing my emotions rather than suppressing them, and then continuing to grow to where I don't experience such anxiety and irritation so often.

@svetlight1817 Ай бұрын

Thank you for yr emotional intelligence and the uplifting stories you bring in every talk. I feel so much love and compassion for the humanity and for the struggles it needs to face and resolve w empathy and humility. I study now the book of 60 days to prepare my soul to heal and grow free from the chains of memory and home habits of the Holocaust. I thank u for being a wise and kind parent. I m 82 and still need a lot of parenting while parenting my family and grandchildren. Tatiana

@elimahanhupa9596 Ай бұрын

Iam always blessed. Thanks Hashem for you Rabbi Jacobson. ❤

@zion367 Ай бұрын

Choosing not to be angry leads to mental supression of an emitional energy. It gets denied, supressed and didowned and will open you up to unconcious passive agressive behaviour. Righteous anger is a healthy emotion, BUT..... while feeling anger, acknowledge the emotion, find out what its message is, let the emotion pass and do not sin.

@judithyork6401 Ай бұрын

Rabbi awesome as always. It is so hard to find that happy blend of both mind and feelings, mixed with the soul. This is a constant work that needs to be nurtured....Thank you for your knowledge...Shalom

@gracegardien2891 Ай бұрын

Such a powerful teaching - and on time - having had several personal relationships mirror where I need to fine-tune and mature my emotions. It's a process when factoring in trauma as you've touched on. Thank you Rabbi. Saving this one.

@cs6113 Ай бұрын

Thank you Rabbi Simon Jacobson...2 X watch.

@SA-so7jah Ай бұрын

Людина може вивільняти свої емоції, різними шляхами, це може бути творчість, може бути спорт, мені подобалося бігати, на кінцевому відтинку дистанції, коли вже втомилений і хочеться зупинитися, на око це приблизно 150 метрів, я прискорювався біг, як наче тільки почав пробіжку, це допомгало мені в житті в багатьох сенсах. Дякую, дуже цікаво вас слухати.❤ Чим складніше і різнобічно розвинена людина тим простіше себе опановувати в будь-якій ситуації, це моє думка. А хід вашої, мені дуже подобається.

@mimicanada1957 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the blessing and the great advice Rabbi! I love your work 🙏

@Keenryied Ай бұрын

Thank you Rabbi, I've found your videos and book, and website, and wisdom to be a great help over the last 2 years. I've also enjoyed your audio about the Kabbalah.

@zuleigaagulhas9740 Ай бұрын

Sometimes you may not do or say anything wrong but then the person on the other end may get the wrong impression and suddenly become rough thoughtless and inconsiderate. He is only interested in what he wants and what he likes and naturally turns a blind eye to the needs and wants of others. Thank you Rabbi once again for this meaningful talk💞💞🀄

@commoveo1 Ай бұрын

Very Grateful for the Wisdom shared✨💖✨. Thank You.

@royalnavarre1673 Ай бұрын

Excellent teaching! Thank you! I will surely put this into practice!

@paulhusbands Ай бұрын

Good topic,,I believe all wisdom is from GOD,, Shalom

@conniedean3787 Ай бұрын

When my ex-husband committed Adultery and abandoned the family I was angry, he hurt my children

@joebrennan.4389 Ай бұрын

Are you sure you didn't give him a reason to commit adultery.....?

@conniedean3787 Ай бұрын

@joebrennan.4389 no he was verbally and physically abusive , he was a Vietnam veteran and had Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, his father also committed Adultery, he abused our children too, God brought them together to save my life, and my children's, my son died from Kidney failure. I donated a kidney. It lasted 8 years, my daughter died of a drug overdose after he abandoned the family, my other son is very supportive of me, and does not respect his father, he never even came to their funeral

@joebrennan.4389 Ай бұрын

@@conniedean3787 You have my deepest sympathy mam, l only hope life will improve for you and your family and that you will start to feel better as time goes on....🌹

@sugarsnap1000 Ай бұрын

@@joebrennan.4389adultery is the adulters choice and to abandon your family is one of the worst acts of selfishness. I hope that lady is ok and healing.

@maryw4609 Ай бұрын

Thank you rabbi Jacobson ❤anger is a terrible beast

@Arie_Br Ай бұрын

Thank you Rabbi

@erickg9011 Ай бұрын

thank you for everything

@Adeleef Ай бұрын

We appreciate you 🇳🇱

@paulhusbands Ай бұрын

Thank you Rabbi!

@susanaqueiroz9366 Ай бұрын

Thank you Rabi the world needs to hear your words full of wisdom 🙏🇮🇱❤️🇵🇹✨✨✨🕊️🕊️🕊️

@conniedean3787 Ай бұрын

In 2013 I got mad at Ellis Hospital , I yelled and got angry they made a mistake, did not check my sons blood sugar, he was not a diabetic, after dialysis his blood sugar dropped to 11, he was put on a ventilator in the ICU and died 8 days later, he was 28.

@greeniejeannie Ай бұрын

Blessed are YOU LORD, May his memory be a blessing. I hope they were made to pay for what they did to your beautiful son. I don't know how you would move past being angry at the hospital. The hospital and all the persons involved in letting your son down. I'm so sorry. I hope you have found some peace.

@conniedean3787 Ай бұрын

@greeniejeannie I notified the health department, most of the time they are on the hospitals side, and some lawyers did not want to take the case, my only peace is he was on dialysis for 7 years, 3 times a week for 3 hours, I sat with him every time., he never felt better before, during or after, many complications in and out of the hospital 100s of times, they could not do a 2nd transplant because he lost the kidney I donated from a brain infection. , they had to do brain surgery and put a shunt in his brain, my only peace is he hated dialysis and is not suffering anymore😢

@greeniejeannie Ай бұрын

@@conniedean3787 Oh my dear woman. You are the definition of love. I weep, I'm so touched by your son's story, and yours. He was surely blessed to have such a mother as you. You and your son were so brave. I know you both were brave to endure what you did for so long. After all our souls belong to Hashem. Peace, precious peace.

@conniedean3787 Ай бұрын

@greeniejeannie Thank you so much , it makes me feel better knowing our souls have eternal life ❤️

@gabriellegilbert5239 Ай бұрын

@@conniedean3787 😤😢😧🙇‍♀️🙏🏼✨💫 Tears. 💦💦. .Sending Some 💖💕💞 &☮️ 💫✨✨ ~*For INDEED We DO Continue ,Gratefully; AS Our Best, FOR THE BEST🙌🏼🙏🏼🌞. Prayers For You To Be BLESSED With PROOFS 🖖🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙋‍♀️🤙🏼🤙🏼🤙🏼😄. ~🐞

@peterholt8724 Ай бұрын

very good.

@familiemeal1436 Ай бұрын

Hallo Rabbi, one word came to my mind listening this teaching "to know". Interesting so a person that is discapacitated in his mind is (can be) a know person but a person that is discapacitated in mind and emotion is a person that know and compose . Thats very important to read and practice the Torah ( and Bible ). Let's know G-d and apply his commandments !

@SA-so7jah Ай бұрын

Про Хохму можна деталніше у наступних випусках, щось мені здається, що це запозичене слово у нас воно теж використовується, означає жарт, сарказм або самоіронія, щось на кшталт запобіжника для млина марнославства на котрий воду краще лити дозовано. Ще раз дякую, дуже цікаво❤

@elishaminor2900 Ай бұрын

Learning process of a newborn it's something to observe it's every moments is something new. It's almost as fastening as reading Said word of El Shaddi Each word somehow revel a new narative for one to meditate.Reflect on his passage just as thing happen in our world in thy present Moment

@ValentinBrutusBura Ай бұрын

The Leviticus says, "such and such person isn't clean." Of course, such and such person has the right to repent as long as they are alive, yet that's another issue.

@Zackadamchaussette5228 Ай бұрын

Im short temper ..its fine mostly im too expressive cannot hide when someone its unfair evil etc but im torn to pièces and guilt when its me the unfair at my kids..i must reach patience toward my boys... thanks rabbi shalom

@SuddenEden Ай бұрын

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@gigilagous8020 Ай бұрын

Not able to apply that to really bad neighbors that live side by side literally no space in between the homes No safe space

@paulhusbands Ай бұрын

Don't drive angry 😊

@vandyred8354 Ай бұрын

How can you get through that? And get back on the right path

@chriscon818 Ай бұрын

As great as these videos are there is a disconnect issue that you don’t get from a conversation. Is he available for ‘counseling’?

@Meaningfullifecenter Ай бұрын

The rabbi does offer personal life coaching. You can see more info here: www.meaningfullife.com/life-coaching/

@marianavisan3005 Ай бұрын

All sorts of life issues

@Merlijnvv Ай бұрын

Emotional itelligence imust run parallel to the dos and don'ts of the society you live in. Political correctness is big in our current society. It is marked by trends and psychology and E.I. conform accordingly. What was normal 30 years ago is not normal in our curremt age. This is because our society seems to change ever more quickly while old cultures, as far as those are not impeded by modernity, see much less change. Emotional Intelligence, by definition, must take current sensitivities into consideration. More than ever there are ideological tensions within society. E.I. is not quantifiable and it has the quality of adaptation, it is not fixed and an individual cannot be measured according to an E.I. standard. It shows the level of conformity in a person, a kind of agreeableness to the ever changing norms within society. Some people clearly have had enough of this and instead cling to fixed standards, possibly conservative ones. In contrast to cognitive intelligence there is no stability to be found in the concept of emotional intelligence. Maybe because it is based on too many changeable issues.Also the idea of how to be 'a nice person' is linked to a supposed high E.I. But it demands identification with the dominant culture to such an extent, that people will express what is considered the norm, not seldom the corporate norm. And that should be called somebody's innate 'intelligence'? Or is it just a matter of wanted or unwanted attitude?

@user-xi1cm6py3m Ай бұрын

😊❤got blocked again!! Listening to you as I am washing my dishes and trying to cook a little dinner. I feel bothered an uneasy doing kitchen work. It may appear sometimes that I dont care about my housework; or perhaps unable to keep it spick and span .Doesn't the Bible say: 'Thou shalt novel, Thou shalt not steal, and Thou shalt not murder?" Keep me in your prayers. ❤ Grace V.❤

@user-xi1cm6py3m Ай бұрын

😂 Dont say PROBE either!! Haha

@ValentinBrutusBura Ай бұрын

*It is the chakras that bear importance, sir*. The hemispheres work, sort of, together, and are placed at the level of the vision chakra.

@itzikz4003 Ай бұрын

Why did the rabbi have to prove he was right? Isn't it enough to know you are right? Isn't that an egotistical action if you know you are right? In my opinion a person with emotional intelligence should not prove to others he is right. Where is the בטל?...

@KR_11117 Ай бұрын

Personal question, what do you do when someone disrespects you?

@itzikz4003 Ай бұрын

@@KR_11117well, it depends. If its my daughters (soon 5 and 6), whether done by mistake or not, i explain that this behavior is insulting and not accepted in our family. If done by a friend i reflect on how i could have forseen it, for future events, and better selection. If done by a stranger, based on the disrespect level, i smile or simply consider it as noise. If you give disrespectful people any attention you are losing twice. Once when you listening to them and second because it stays with you for the rest of the day. Keep yourself in grateful state, and enjoy God's blessing.

@KR_11117 Ай бұрын

@@itzikz4003 thank you so much for taking the time to reply! Lots of wisdom in your words! 🙏🏻

@itzikz4003 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the kind words, I'm honored.

@lesleyM84 Ай бұрын

where are all my reply comments disappearing off too? multiple comments i have made on different videos on different occasions are being deleted… i am unsubscribing..

@lilithsrainb23lionsrloose19 Ай бұрын

What you mean , Easter Friday calm dont dont kill ya brother Jesus Calm down my arsenal

@filthism1659 Ай бұрын

We don't believe in Jesus dude we don't even think about him till we have to tell one of you guys that we don't believe. Ill go back to my happy Jesus free life now

@paulawallace8784 Ай бұрын

It was BARBARIC HEATHEN GENTILES who Crucified the Jews, just as it was BARBARIC HEATHEN GENTILES who in the name of their carnal idol of flesh Jesus BURNED JEWS ALIVE over and over again, they are who have INFLICTED 1700+ years of PERSECUTION, OPPRESSION and SLAUGHTER upon Gd's Firstborn Son Israel the Jews, becoming their longest enduring and most DEADLIEST of all their Oppressors, who alone to a T, fits the description of the morphing LAST BEAST, Enemy of Gd and His Chosen!