At one point in the video they said if men could heal then they could truly treat women like goddesses. Ignoring the narcissistic motivations let's get to the point here. How do women actually react when you treat them like a goddess? I think we all know what the answer is to that one fellas.

Post wallers trying to survive their own gynocentrism. Moving on gone fishing.

I should have shut this off after seeing the first section of her film. I would have thought better of the world and continued on. Unfortunately I stayed to listen to the womyn's reasons for participating in the film - Narcissistic psycho-babble, cursory self examination that never strays too far from 'I am a goddess', 'love is everything' or 'I own my shit'. The boilerplate apologies, for stereotypical transgressions, come across as broadcasting virtue instead of contributing experience."If I ever did you wrong in any way"... - that's so non committal its almost 3rd person. Too easy, empty gesture. One woman, who's veiled compliment to her own greatness, comes through as "sorry for the mixed messages" 'I make you want it and then I get mad when that's all you want.". Yeah, poor us, LOL! Pure projection, pure delusion. Everything marinating in stereotypes too - men can't feel, can't express themselves, are desperately needy for womyn and are steeped in toxic masculinity. Its delusion, you can't have personal growth interacting with the world through a lens of negative stereotypes and false assumptions, obviously. So the apologies end up seeming disingenuous, (pompous, condescending, trite, petulant) whether its meant to be or not. Just another yoga pose. Will womyn ever get tired of patting themselves on the back?

As a man I was never led to believe that "sorry" is enough. If I created a mess of any kind, I knew it was my burden to clean it up. I dare not profess that all men are like this, but irresponsible men usually dont have a father in their life. That said, I have never in my 43 years dated an accountable women. It's almost like they cannot see the long-term chain reaction.

Why it sounds shallow and manipulative is because the message is addressed to men, not women. The shadow stuff is just more narcissism, which is part of the problem to start with. In any case, it has gone way past this type of self-help thing, it is now political and laws need to be changed, quite simply. Anything else is too little. That is the only discussion worth having. Talking about the feelings and grandstanding of abusers is simply sick. So great, take responsibility and fight for justice now. That is what a true apology means, otherwise it is simply more of the same. The action needs to stop, and it is obvious in the video that those are very shallow apologies to boot, with no real personal involvement. That is how psychopaths operate, they will apologize and get upset if those are not believed, which is what we saw here. Those are shallow emotions and not meant in any way, unless real change happens. It will happen whether they like it or not, but it is nice to know they like it. Makes no difference.

I don't believe anything that comes out of a women mouth and the actions are what I look at.

I was emotionally and mentally abused by my ex. I then started seeing the whole movement of women hating men start to rise and then led me to pursue a more masculine approach to life. I then realized that I had to address how my problems which led up to this point and to take ownership of my own sin. From this point on, Love and Forgiveness is the only way. Thank you for sharing this.

funny how it is really only women allowed to talk about relationship dynamics, funny how the claim is women bring and discuss both sides, female and male prospective, except of course only one side is allowed to talk..

The wounds cannot heal, until the blade is withdrawn Anyway, the fish have spent 52 years teaching this bicycle that he is unwanted The bicycle no longer wants the fish, and the environment fish have created, is toxic to bicycles

The damage is done. Men not mad or hate women they just walking away from women and going there on way. Its the safest thing to do for men

The hardest thing to do in any relationship is to get back trust once it is lost. Men dont trust women anymore. And just saying I am sorry wont fix it. It is going to take a long time for men to trust you again if ever.

Words are nice. Actual actions would be better. Men need to look beyond what women say and look at what they actually do.

When men get involves with women, he is more likely end up in jail or prison. More likely to lose his kids, wage and his belongings. All could be lost over nothing. Only the bravest and ignorance of men dare embarking on the path of marriage or ltr.

Have you seen the southpark episode with a BP spokesman saying we're sorry. That got stuck in my head watching this.

19:15 the reason we no longer respect or value women. Listen to the arrogance.

"...between the 'genders'"? You mean between the sexes? There are two.

these women are still full of it ,something in my mind says not to believe them all staged unfortunately .

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Where can a man say he loves being a man and that masculinity isn't toxic? How could these women not of heard of MRM or MGTOW and yet were aware of these issues between the sexes? Doesn't make much sense.. what research did they do if they only became aware of these movements and lifestyles from the comments section? Meh, most of this stuff is fairly irrelevant to me as i'm a somewhat fugly gimp. So for the most part the only females i interact with are standing behind a cash. Watching from the sidelines as western civilization sets itself on fire is both amusing and sad.

These are some very wise women, pity the mainstream won't pick up anytime soon. Not that it matters really, it's too late.

all the wamans in this movie seem to have hit the wall and are now asking " where are all the good men gone ,come back we need you". and as for us men we have give up on you and we are not coming back.

I moved from the west and went to live in Asia where women are still traditional I am finished with western wamans who just complain about nothing, I have will never have anything to do with western women again

I am MAN, here is my apology to ALL WOMEN out there: I am deeply sorry to have cared for you and kids my whole life since kindergarden to high school and most years of hard work. Now, when the feminism (forcefully) liberated me from this care (no custody of my two kids), I can finally channel my resources to help other men, who were not as lucky as me. I can finally ACT on my dreams to prevent boys and men killing themselves, because this society does not see enough value in them and refuses to give them a hope by simply acknowledging they have problems but they are worthy to live. I can never be thankful enough for this channel to finally show the true female nature: when they feel a bit of guilt, they make an apology film. A simple act of this project by helping just one man, like giving a lunch for a homeless, or maybe giving him a pair of socks to fight the cold in the street or maybe preventing feminists to close down the last shelter for men and boys... This could make me shed a tear and give a prayer for their souls. As a MAN, I apologise to the rest of the world, as it is MY FAULT those useful idiots came to power and the western civilization is on decline, because all those “wellfare state” illusions voted by entitled people have a price, which you (the world) will have to pay. During this demise of society, I promise to educate every boy I meet about MGTOW, which is the only way for them to stay alive and mentally strong to prepare for the next Cycle, which will need strong MEN.

Thanks for that conversation. When #metoo was rampant I found little sympathy with men and women among my friends when I talked about the missing piece: the responsibility of us women for our behaviour towards men and for the possible consequences of what we are doing. It is so much easier to blame others for our suffering, playing the victims even then when we have heavily contributed to the outcome. It is not "political correct" to look for a complete picture instead of reversing guilt and shame on only one side of the participants.

thank you Rebel Wisdom for posting this, I’ll have to look for this movie.

I scare to shake woman hand in workplace after #metoo

I appreciate your apology but the damages has been done. I don't know if these wounds will ever heal, if can ever trust you again. The risk of trusting you is way too great, trusting you I risk my job, my lively hood, my good name , my honour, my freedom, my life. All that can be lost with one word from women, one lie, one misunderstanding, one accusation. I'm sorry to say, once the trust is broken, it is very different to return back to what it was. Take it or leave it. Recovery from breach of trust as difficult as recovery from betrayal from your best friend. Those wounds will have scar tissue at best, but in most cases it is an amputation. In closing of this post, I sincerely wish you have a nice life. May God have mercy on all of our souls, for we have mortally sinned.

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Sorry ladies that you've experienced a "too little too late" or "not good enough" response but understand that this too is a reflection of feminism and of identity politics in general. No concession made to feminism or to ethnic grievance farmers has ever been or will ever be good enough. It's fantastic that you're beginning the process of rebuilding trust but it is a process.

None of these people strike me to be in any way timid or to have the dreaded 'internalised misogyny'. Well done for being brave enough to speak your opinion in the current climate - I hope it helps move the conversation on in a more positive way.

Most of us are NOT hurting each other. So let's recognize that we are generally respectful of each other, hence cooperation, and copulation, for eons.

The behavior of men toward women isn't "toxic". Most men care for women and sacrifice for women. The fact that you would use this word tells me that you're stuck in the model that only men can be "toxic". Women also do bad shit. They use relational aggression, and men suffer in loneliness and isolation. You can't comprehend the universality of shaming and exclusion as men's experience.

Hi, Folks. I don’t know how many women spoke in this video and it is not important. What is important are TWO things: 1. That these women said what they said, whether they ‘ackshully’ meant it or not, ‘cos it IS food for thought and you can not have a thought without that thought changing you to at least some small degree. Whether positively or negatively is YOUR choice, governed by how you think. 2. Whether they meant what they said or not, let us assume for a moment that they did sincerely mean it. They are not even one thousandth of one per cent of all the women in all of the Western world who have been behaving in the ways for which they are apologizing. When the percentage of women who ARE saying these things SINCERELY, they may be STARTING to make a dent in the issues that are currently separating them form the men to whom they are apologizing. Feminism regardless, women have been their own worst enemies for MILLENIA by the ways in which they have been dishonest with the men they claim to love. How so, you ask? 1. By EXPECTING men to ‘just know’ what they as women want, especially when it comes to sex, 2. ALL women habitually tell lies. OHHHH???? You think I am being a bit harsh and over-generalizing here? Then think about these things: a. Are they truly being honestly and authentically themselves when they put on high heels to make themselves appear taller and/or walk more ‘seductively’? b. Are they truly being honestly and authentically themselves when they put on make-up to change their appearance? c. Are they truly being honestly and authentically themselves when they put on a bra to ‘enhance their bustline? d. Are they truly being honestly and authentically themselves when they put on a foundation garment to change their body shape? e. Are they truly being honestly and authentically themselves when they put on false fingernails or eyelashes of pluck their eyebrows or shave their legs or armpits or colour their hair? f. g. h. Do I need to go on? 2A. When a man can see that something is troubling a woman and asks what it is and they reply, “Narrrthinnnnggggg”. And yet they DEMAND complete honesty from men, even while they are not prepared to offer the same in return. 3. They think that they alone have the right to reject an advance from a member of the opposite sex and that it is O.K. to do so but they can not handle it when a man rejects them. Sauce for the goose?????????? 4. They - some of them - will tell the most outrageous lies to destroy a man’s character and reputation by way of revenge for some tiny, minor, even IMAGINED slight. 5. They expect, nay, DEMAND forgiveness from men and yet they will carry grudges for years or even decades about even the slightest of things. O.K., enough of that. To the IMAGINED hurts. (OH??? You don’t like that word, “imagined”??? Then consider this.) Another human being - of either gender - can take a piece of timber or some other weapon and cause you immense PHYSICAL damage and hurt. BUTTTT, they CAN NOT hurt your mind with that same timber or other weapon ‘cos they can’t SEE it to target it, let alone ‘ackshully’ HIT it. ANY hurt that any of us may feel in our mind - or in our emotions, which is the same thing - is ENTIRELY OUR OWN CHOICE. Why do the physical injuries and signs of violence or rape heal and disappear WAY before the mental/emotional ‘mental/emotional’ injuries and signs. Because the body will heal itself naturally while we choose to NOT LET our minds or emotions heal. And this applies to BOTH genders. Yes, M’dear, there ARE ONLY two genders. ANYTHING else is an expression - or a denial - of one or the other. I have believed for about 4 ½ decades now that men and women were ‘designed’ by a far greater intelligence than mine - or yours - to be COMPLEMENTARY, NOT competitive. Each gender has sets of gifts which, if used co-operatively, can create within a pair a whole that is greater than the sum of its parts. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we each and collectively told ourselves - AND our egos - to get out of the fucking way and become the loving, caring, compassionate, understanding beings that we are ALL capable of being - IF we would just allow it to be? Just my 0.02. You all have a wonderful 2019. Best wishes. Deas Plant.

I am a woman - no way this is too early, this message is very much needed at this exact time...no point is too early to tell the truth, to face the truth. This shows the two sides of the same coin. It is wonderful and worthy of celebration!

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Bring equality into the family courts and maybe we can talk about moving forward, until then this is widow dressing and truly meaningless rhetoric.

Metoo has backfired and women realise it hurt them?Well, this is what they wanted.To be like men and to men stop talking to you."Ha,got ya"

It will still be all about themselves, you women will have to work very hard to earn my trust and I wish you luck since you have no patience for men. Apologies? We've been through this many times already!

"I want to apologize for all the mixed messages you get from us women..." Aint that the truth? Thank you for saying this.

For the women and creators of this film, what this film really showed was just how little women understand men, most were what are called 'back handed' apologies laced with shame, there was no real understanding of the male experience of what being in relationships with women is like. Many men and particularly MGTOW men don't need your apology as they have come to terms already with your behaviour, we understand and accept you for who you truly are (have always been) and have decided to live without romantic relationships with you. This decision has nothing to do with being angry, hurt, or upset, it is a push to be healthier happier and more free as men. If you listen there is currently a celebration among small groups of men and a longing to share it with others. Traditional men are literally dying from their romance with women while those who reject that path thrive, the comments weren't hate but survivors guilt... fake apologies are not what men need, they need women to accept an active role in changing themselves to something that is emotionally and psychologically healthier. I will admit this change in men is pretty shocking for women as they just didn't see what was going wrong in their relationships. Men were speaking for years but never listened to while feminism was busy looking for more control of society regardless of the impact on their relationships with men. With pain came clarity, men are realizing that the old relationships won't work so are choosing not to have them. Women will just have to accept those men who can tough it out or choose to offer healthier relationships to men who still want them. For the second option to paraphrase feminist doctrine, women will have to learn more about their 'toxic femininity' or from your title their female shadow: This is a massive task for women as relationship strategies such as hypoagency will be so hard to acknowledge and even harder to resist. The men complaining about this apology know what darkness lurks in the hearts of women, ask and some may tell you... Women should begin to ask men some questions before moving on to their next mission to change the world. Notice how the women making it felt so challenged by it, this is nothing compared to the apologies men are forced to make on a daily basis. Can you imagine if on top of this the women were shamed for it, this is something of what the male experience is in society right now. Dr Hanna Milling, the concept was a good one, but whose interest did you really have in mind when making it? It was interesting to see, but for me it only made me more certain "that women are not worthy of relationships with men" (Diana Davison). Most men will still have relationships anyway, hopefully the women who claim to love them will treat them well.

In her book Heterophobia: Sexual Harassment and the Future of Feminism, Daphne Patai describes what she calls the "Sexual Harassment Industry." That book was published in 2000, 18 years ago. Women found their voice a long time ago; men have yet to find there's. There's nothing new about #MeToo except for the intensity of the rage. The film "From Women to Men" came along none too soon.

sorry - does matter- while the minefield is left in place and continues to grow. Sorry does not help- when the word "women" can't be associated with a negative - and "men" is endlessly. Can't have a discussion - where only one word is allowed to be tied to negative - the other must be attached to positive.

Ladies. Get together and change laws. Don't stop until all laws and sentencing are gender equal. Only women can do this. Then, be prepared to be very very patient.

also something to think about is that violence is rarely physical woman understand that

I LOVE these women. Let me be clear - for PEOPLE, male or female, to think "I don't have to apologize, or be held accountable" is an incredibly unhealthy mindset. We teach men that they should look at themselves and apologize - but these women even SAYING women should do the same is incredibly threatening to the feminist mindset. Feminist women - when they do wrong - typically try to "out victim" their victim. "I only did this because he /she 'hurt' me" - and it's often complete and utter crap.

For too long younger women only relate to men with antagonism, hostility and a sense of victimhood. This does not help men and women to get along. Notwithstanding, it is positive to see women understand feminism and feminists have been too anti-male and attacking men who do so much of the hard dirty work that holds the physical infrastructure of society together; how much more important is the relationships between the genders?

Feminism speaks for women all the time, why not let these women express their truth? I think some are missing the profound wisdom and step forward that their symbolic gesture represents.

This is wonderful. The film made me cry and so did this interview. I love women and always have. I accept what men have done wrong and always have. But I will not accept the hatred against men that exists in feminism!

It's a first step in the right direction, so that needs to be acknowledged. But when it's all said and done, men don't need women's apology, we need the bad behavior to change, specifically the sense of entitlement and the lack of accountability.

The age and intelligence awareness seems quite high for these ladies.

Smashing work, great film, pleased to have an insight into Dr Hanna Milling's mind and heart

.. never knew such a video even existed

Too little, too late. Women need to move along and figure their own way out of the mess they - and they alone - have made.

I don't want to hear these women's "apologies". Also, don't forget to change the marriage and family court laws ladies. Either way it's too late. Feminism has exposed you and I'm not going back. #MGTOW4LIFE

Real men, are NEVER EVER coming back, and we will NEVER EVER forget!!!

Wow Gratitude 💖, you all healed big time what was hurt inside of me. It's so empowering to know that taking responsibility heals yourself as have the possibility of healing if desired by who else feels the message personally.

All of these women made a commercial for Mgtow men because #Mgtow has been around much longer then the #metoo movement as well it was already being felt by women before #metoo and now they’re aware of Mgtow which is like a treasure trove of single men with $$$ they’re going to try and find a way into someone’s retirement 🤣🤣🤣

I can't express to you enough how much I love this channel and appreciate you for expanding my mind so often.

This is just excellent.

So gripping. And I must now say "I am a woman who has hurt men and now it's time we all heal our wounds and once again be trusted.

"No fucking way. I learned my stuff." - you really nailed it with your answer to David's question about letting women down. As a woman I agreed with every word you said following his question. This was so powerful and moving!

It’s way too late for ladies at this point. The best they can do is to help the next generations and not raise little entitled assholes

Owning your shadow and healing the wounds go hand in hand , one doesn't happen without the other,for both men and women

Wounds, scars, pain, suffering...................ahh, the human condition. And the path to depth of the psyche.

You're gonna make me cry.. That's so realistic and soothing..!!

I fear it's perceived as a joke. And it fails to acknowledge all the one-sided hate expressed by women. And the video backtracks in what it seems to at first convey, and therefore conveys a lack of sincerity.

For those that have truly ( actually ) suffered then yes the me too movement is an important event in our society . But realistically this is a fraction of those who identify with it , it's a very modern ' first world ' phenomena from people who don't have much genuine cause for grievance. Any reasonable person wants a more respectful and considerate society but only the first world can afford this sort of self indulgent narcissistic dialogue . It's all pretty adolescent and takes away the focus from serious issues .

Nice Snow Job but I don't buy one word of it .

Love the video thank u

I want to hear TFM's reaction to this film.

God bless courage...............that rarest of human attributes...........in men and women.

It's kinda a long shot, but thanks Ilan Stephani. I really appreciated your answers in this, I thought they were very insightful.

Wow. I never thought I'd see a video where women apologise to men,. For anything. Ever.

This is very important work and highly topical at the moment. Owning the shadow or dark feminine is the feminine equivalent of the hero's journey, and fundamental in reclaiming the feminine power which lies in this often banished aspect of a woman's psyche, and which otherwise acts subconsciously or covertly. Many myths are based on this journey into the underworld, Inanna, Persephone, etc. and the theme of the dark sister or fierce aspect of the feminine is also a recurring one.

Too little, too late...

Nice to see women getting a clue about PoundMeToo...AFTER the wall beat them with the ugly stick. 😒

This is brilliant. I love the intent, the vulnerability and the strength of standing in this truth. It has been said that the proof of absolute truth is the existence of an equal and opposite truth. What I really love about this is the invitation.

Absolutely fascinating watch, really enjoyable.

Hold the line the shield wall is up

I understand the criticism by men and yet considering the cultural saturation of Feminism this is a huge admission. It will be buried of course.

Yes, Cassie Jayes fantastic documentary, The Red Pill, is an excellent and moving complement to what these great women have produced in their wonderfully provocative film. We really need more listening with each other, and less talking at and talking against each other. I so appreciate true and honest communication. Listening is key to our really hearing and valuing each other.

Betrayal of trust goes both ways. And it tends to be the ruling factor (honestly!) when it is the byproduct of a lived experience. That last answer says it all.Otherwise we stay broken - knowingly, or unknowingly. Trust is a necessary thing for humans. Without it, it's like life in a video game disenchanted and disconnected from real life. A false guarantee that is, in the end, anti-human, really. Our biological destiny is perfectly married to our psychological state of development. (Notice I didn't say happiness - that is only a byproduct.) So perhaps it just comes down to this: When you betray trust, does it matter? And if so, why? And is forgiveness the most important part of the healing?

Excellent!! Very imoprtant that this is out for a true healing to take place, because true healing is a balance and not revenge.

I have been raped but i'm a guy so nobody cared and people laugh when I tell them I was raped by a woman who was handicap but I laugh also so life sucks laugh and carry on stopping and crying helps nobody

The best you can give is to say 'Sorry' (19.36) The best.

Vacuous and self obsessed .. while ignoring the real endemic discrimination against men .. this video will do more damage than good.

so which one is saying that we should get rid of the Duluth model or default 50 50 custody get real not your wallet

I can't help being suspicious, when they talk about self love. Lady in the blue dress just wants to move on now she feels better!

Gentlemen, just go your own way.

Empty grandstanding.....much words.. no actions.

The genie is out the bottle. The toothpaste is out the tube. Pandora has opened another box. You can't go around ruining mens lives, and then say "oops I'm sorry". Women are entirely too dangerous to deal with now. Glad I sewed my oats before this insanity.

Treat others as you would want to be treated. There is only "right or wrong"..choose what side you want to be on in life and then live with the consequences of your choice. We all have to be better for the sake of our children.

Wow What an important video I want to watch the film now.

That is exactly what I have been saying that unless both side men and women behaviour is looked at then any solution is useless,!

not good enough

Identify politics is identity politics. Until we can learn that things will only get worse . Until we learn that we are all invisible.

I love this. Me too has become a witch hunt and has caused a lot of damage. Accusations are not proof. Rape and sexual assault are terrible, those that lie or are very confused should not be allowed to hide behind their gender and not damage the trust between genders. There must be proof, for both. The reaction from some shows how damaged people are and how much this was needed for healing. Thank you. The reaction from others shows the shadow that is in Me too and believe her campaign.

Did the sky just fall? What the hell did I just witness

“Beauty is truth, truth beauty, -that is all / Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know”.

Yes, this collectivism is inappropriate, but if it serves the purpose of self-reflection in a constructive way, great.