Men Don't do this 1 Mistake !! (malayalam)

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Men Don't do this 1 Mistake !! (malayalam)

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Күн бұрын

Men. Don't do this one big mistake.
DON'T consider only growth in job and career as 'growth'.
This is the story of a large segment of men in our country. While women are also struggling in terms of mental health and healing, I see they are taking more initiative towards learning & unlearning.
Older men, once they retire, enter burn out & do not have anything to look forward to.
➡️ Men, do you resonate with this point?
➡️Family members - are you seeing men in your family leading fulfilling lives?
➡️Are they practicing stress relief or mindfulness of any kind?
➡️Are they trying to learn new things, apart from what's needed for their career ?
➡️What do you feel when you see them leading quite a sad life or a dull old age??
Swati Jagdish
Psychologist
Sexuality health educator

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@azad738 Ай бұрын

Everything becomes concepts when you are a middle class or lower middle class men. Life sucks anyway. The whole pressure of being poor and want to gain and enrich with money. Meanhile loose every meaningful purpose.

@kyat_kuttan7697 Ай бұрын

I totally agree with you 💯😢

@mallutripstories Ай бұрын

Exactly

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@azad738 you can come out of the victim mode.. Please believe in yourself. Believe in a different destiny. You can manifest it. You need to become the main character of your life ❤️

@anandu.s6886 Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 most women i have met are in victim mode.... Yapping about period pain, past trauma, being scared, physically weak... Etc Still get great deal of reservation, women friendly laws, ecnomic assistance (window pension, did man have that option) etc still yapping and crying about inequality 😂😂😂

@TheHouseOfEverything Ай бұрын

Dheey Azad sir

@arjunps6776 Ай бұрын

Very true when you say that men should think beyond their professions and jobs. Cultivating two hobbies is necessary, whatever they may be. I see a lot of men in their 40s and beyond who have no interests in life. They don't read, write, travel or do anything else. Some like to get drunk and others watch toxic soap operas on TV. Men need to come out of their rot. Make men great again! 😊

@mantrake528 Ай бұрын

Men and mental health is only mattered by the society when they are lacking content and impression

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@mantrake528 too sad, you have such a perspective.

@BeingHuman341 Ай бұрын

I thought the same😅@@mayasamma-malayalam4666

@naif8188 Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666say that to warren ferrel who was blicked by feminist when he came to speak on mens mental health

@arthurkenfleck-vf5nb Ай бұрын

you do not ask a fish about fishing : A wise man

@guardianangel65-e7v Ай бұрын

Hey woman, You really dropped this 👑

@alwayspete Ай бұрын

So sad to know that IPS officer committed suicide. Seems that he couldn’t survive a day without his soulmate. Hope they don’t have any kids. An all around development of the individual - be it boy or girl - is a concept that must be put into practice beginning with schools. Indian schools are so heavily concentrated on academic syllabus. Testing only for memory capacity, book worm capabilities and sadly nothing more. Pete ;”)

@g_e_o_ Ай бұрын

This is not just for men. Any professionals can relate to this. Good work 👌

@alisterrozario3997 Ай бұрын

I like to add we all are social beings. So it is not good for anyone to be alone, whether you are a child or an old person, we all need someone to share or someone in hard times. And I appreciate you bring this topic, you are right men think they should be more stubborn and that's not really good (situation wise). I like you said grandfather's are stubborn to grandchildren's and that's so true specially in india

@Jeevan-gw1hf Ай бұрын

Thank you for doing this. Literally cried after long time watching this video.

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@Jeevan-gw1hf aw that's so sweet. I'm glad it resonated with you.

@deatman7713 Ай бұрын

Just loved the presentation 👏♥️

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@deatman7713 thanks

@Aazikka Ай бұрын

I committed a lot of past mistakes and I want to overcome traumas related to that

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@Aazikka you can do it. Start with therapy or some form of inner work whenever you feel ready ✌🏼

@_illuminandi Ай бұрын

The past is past, bro. You are not perfect until you make some mistakes, bro, and those mistakes are not your fault either. It's okay. It's okay to start again. To get over the past, get therapy; it will definitely help you. Or if you want to get some temporary relief by yourself, read about internal family systems. It will help you find out why you made those mistakes and how you can overcome them.

@Aazikka Ай бұрын

@@_illuminandi thank you so much 🫂

@Aazikka Ай бұрын

@@_illuminandi thank you so much 🫂

@MJ-zx9pq Ай бұрын

" Men are brave"

@akshaydev5213 Ай бұрын

ശെരിക്കും എനിക്ക് എന്താ പറയേണ്ടത് എന്ന് അറിയില്ല.ഇഷ്ടമില്ലാത്ത ജോലി, അച്ഛനെയും അമ്മേയും നോക്കണം, ഒരു long time reln breakup aayi. ആകെ ഒന്നുനിലും ഒരു interestum തോന്നുന്നില്ല.ആകെ എൻ്റെ വരുമാനത്തിൽ ആണ് vtl എല്ലാം നടക്കുന്നത്.28 വയസ്സ് ആയി ,കൂടെ ഉള്ളവർ എല്ലാം settle ആയി. എനിക്ക് മാത്രം ഒന്നും ശെരി ആകുന്നില്ല.🥺.എന്താ എൻ്റെ life purpose. ഒരു പിടിയും കിട്ടുന്നില്ല .

@AIINFLUNCER Ай бұрын

Ninne pole kodikkanakkin manushyar und koode njanum 29 vayas

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@akshaydev5213 big hugs.. All I can suggest is two things. There's a recorded content on my app titled Life purpose . Listen to that to get some clarity. Or sit and talk one on one with a professional

@DumpAi111 Ай бұрын

You are not alone bro

@octamagus1095 Ай бұрын

Most males ഇന്നും ഇത് തന്നെ ആണ് അവസ്ഥ.. competition is very high..also old people and മുമ്പ് ഒക്കെ jobs കിട്ടിയവർക്ക് അറിയാത്ത കാര്യം ഉണ്ട്.. മുമ്പ് ഒക്കെ ഉള്ളത് പോലെ അല്ല ഇന്ന് situation മാറി. മുമ്പ് ഒരു 20 years മുന്ന് ഒക്കെ ജോലി കിട്ടിയ പുരുഷന്മാർ ഇന്നത്തെ 1990s, 2000s kids ഇന്നേ ജോലി കിട്ടാത്തതിൻ്റെ പേരിൽ കളിയാക്കുന്നുണ്ട്. അവർക്ക് മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ കഴിയാത്ത കാര്യം. 1. അന്ന് ഒന്നും girls ജോലി cheyyunnavar വളരെ വിരളം ആയിരുന്നു മാത്രം അല്ല ചില തസ്തിക കളിൽ മാത്രം ഒതുങ്ങിയിരുന്നു.. ഇന്ന് പുരുഷന്മാരിൽ നിന്ന് മാത്രം അല്ല സ്ത്രീകളിൽ നിന്നും competition ഉണ്ട്..പിന്നെ (female preferred) aan പല ജോലികളും അതായത് extreme rare ആണ് ഇന്ന് ജോലി കിട്ടുക എന്നത് males ഇന്നേ സംഭധിച്ച്.. 2. ഇപ്പോഴും males only use money for family trend മാറിയിട്ടില്ല.. 3. ഇനി വരുമാനം ഉണ്ടായി കഴിഞ്ഞ് വരുമ്പോഴേക്ക് കുറച്ച് late ആവും.. ഇന്ന് കാസ്സിൽ നിന്ന് തന്നെ പയ്യങ്കാരെ കിട്ടുന്നത് കൊണ്ടും.. majority girls ഇന്നും 3 years gap max ഉള്ള പുരുഷന്മാരെ മതി എന്നായി.. 4. Overall value of males is lesser. പെണ്ണിന് കിട്ടുന്ന വില പുരുഷ്മാർക്ക് ഇനി കിട്ടില്ല.. female domination ആണ് വരുന്നത്.. ഇത് ഒക്കെ ആണ് underlying problems..

@Akshay-vm3to Ай бұрын

Aa breakup issue maati vechal we r same bro iam also 28😢

@dinocat6542 Ай бұрын

Really Good Chechii❤️

@sukruth3951 Ай бұрын

live a little 🌟

@user-it4zb7vt6z Ай бұрын

Njn oru 26 years old men ann enikk ente life l orupaad achievements nedanam ennund athinte oru first step hardwork il ann njn.. Ath kanjaalum orupaad velye velye kryghal cheyyanam ennaaghrahikunnr aahl ann njn... But enne kure kaalayitt allattunne oru vishyam mrg ann bcs ente life le ente achievements neduka ente kudumbhathod oppam happy jeevikuka ennathann ente life nte agraham.... Achievements ellam nedi enn enikk thonumbozhe njn mrg ne pati chindikkallo... Athokke nedi varumbizhekkum pinne mrg kazhkko ennum ariyilla bcs enikk aghane oru chaaya kudi bendhathil ninno aghane thiranj pidich mrg cheyyano onnu ottum thalpparymilla.. Ayaale natural aay kand mutatte ennan athum kure naalathe parijayam venam pinne enne kurich ayaalum.. Pinne ayaale kurich njanum nannayianslakkitt lifelong kude indaavum enn urappnindekile mrg cheyallo bcs njn ente bendhaghalil. Valare emotionally connected aavunne aahl ann athond thanne ente ella bendhaghalum enik irreplaceable ann.. Enikk oru vaapayum ummayum illo ennath etra satym ano ath pole thanne ente life il kadann varunne women um oraal mtramme indavallo ath ath girlfriend aay kadann vannaalum sheri wife aay kadan vannaalum sheri physically and mentally otta womene ente life il indavallo athum life long kude indaaavhm ennu urapp indenkile njn ente lifelott aduppikkallo... Ente kude kudi pinned divorce n oru chance um indavilla enurappulla atrem njnumaayi connected aaye aahl ann enn enikk ayaalkkum urapp indenkile oru women ente life il varallo... Unfortunately innathe kaalath aghane oru concept il oraal indaavo enn polum ariyilla.. Athkond thanne njn mrg cheyyathirikkaanann koodthal chance.. Appozhann problem naatukaarum bendhakkarum okke parayum avan entho kuzhappam ind kandille mrg onnum cheyyand nadakunnath nalle doctor ee kaanichude ennokke parayum allenkil parayum avan entho chittikali indenn okke... Ee vaka preshnaghal ellaam oru men aayaal anubhavikendi varum njn churukki paranjathann ithonnumallanithinte appuram anubhavikkrndi varum enikkariyaam... Anyway njn ente life l. Busy aayrikkum ath onnum enne vedhanippikkilla enn thonunnu... Padachone ariyaam..

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@user-it4zb7vt6z may you get whatever you dream about in life. God bless

@901abhayanil4 Ай бұрын

Spiritually and Science 😂👏

@Sree32100 Ай бұрын

Great Video❤

@alithevoyager4396 25 күн бұрын

Good content 💯

@vishnurajmp7617 Ай бұрын

Good content ❤

@irfan_555 Ай бұрын

Great work mam❤

@praveenasokan566 Ай бұрын

Really a good content 💯

@technetmalayalam6359 Ай бұрын

Life is simple …. Don’t complicate it…. we born …we live …we die…. Don’t care about what others think about you… don’t ever commit suicide … If you want to die, eat drink smoke repeat…you will die eventually…

@ShareefkShareef.k-ig3xl 13 күн бұрын

ഈ ലോകം ഇന്ന് കാണുന്ന രീതിയിലാക്കിയത് കുറച്ച് മനുഷ്യരുടെ പ്രയ്തനം മൂലം ആണ് അതിൽ തന്നെ മനുഷ്യർ എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞാൽ പുരുഷൻമാർ മാത്രം ആണ് ജനാഥിപത്യവും മതേതരത്വവും തുടങ്ങിയ ആധുനിക മൂല്യങ്ങളും രാജാവിനെ എതിരെ വിപ്ലവം നടത്തിയതും പുരുഷൻമാർ ആണ് എല്ലാപുരുഷൻമാരും ഇങ്ങനെയാണ് എന്നല്ലാ ഉദ്ദേശിക്കുന്നത് സ്ത്രീകൾ പൊതുവെ ഏത് അവസ്ത്ഥയോടും സമരസപെട്ട് പോവുകയാണ് ചെയ്യുന്നത് ഭൂരിപാഗം പുരുഷൻമാരും അങ്ങനെ തന്നെ യഥാർത്ഥ പുരുഷൻ പോരാടുന്നവനാണ് കരയുന്നവനല്ലാ പെണ്ണുങ്ങളുടെ പണിയാണ് കരച്ചിൽ

@cinemamalayalamdialogue Ай бұрын

There is a different aspect from Patriarchal Society ; it's not Patriarchal : It's all about basic human nature of women that imposes their ideology unknowingly on a Man. Man at certain young age has specific look at everything with honest and later regret it . And after certain age you have to take responsibility, they become responsible for everything which also becomes a matter in relationship and jobs { still women's always tend not to care for responsibilities which will cause = Two way crushing society}

@rahulramanan371 Ай бұрын

Patriarchy കാരണം??? Brev wt are you even talking about? Life messed up when ppl focused on the western society. A man is a man and should be.

@aswinaravind566 Ай бұрын

Peace have caused our strength , victory has defeated us 😢

@vimaldawn Ай бұрын

I thought something big is coming.. it's just personal development and that is something not particular for any gender..

@Kaisen671 Ай бұрын

Another mistake: dear men plz don't put assets on your own name.

@CINEMA-TALK..... Ай бұрын

Must reading books ethaoke enna paryamo

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@CINEMA-TALK..... Attached, Surrounded by idiots, Becoming super natural, autobiography of a yogi, many lives many masters, there are more. I'll do a video on my fav self help books.

@the100radsstalker93 Ай бұрын

Patriarchy oru double edged sword aanu.

@harikrishnan680 Ай бұрын

Thanku mayas Amma ❤

@AfrozSayyed-nj2pk 15 күн бұрын

Mam Please Make A Video On Male Masterbation Or Right Age To Masterbation & Semen Retaintion In (Hindi)

@sreeragr3355 Ай бұрын

Parvathy Thiruvothinu youtube channel okke undaruno..❤

@vishaloc8092 Ай бұрын

After long time 🤝 Swathi

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@vishaloc8092 yes.. Been a long time

@bb_xnavy Ай бұрын

Very interesting

@Sanjay72071 Ай бұрын

Men are brave🗿

@arthurmarston102 Ай бұрын

SUBSCRIBED loved it mam

@muhammedrashid1244 Ай бұрын

thanks. thats a sub...

@JoshuaVJoseph Ай бұрын

Can you share fatherhood video?

@roshan4903 Ай бұрын

Long distance relationshipne kurchu oru video cheyyumo

@rijuraghav1705 Ай бұрын

life after 40 is hell

@halo6356 Ай бұрын

You doing to much voice clutter. Insted of uhm and ahh u can use a poses its help

@jishnuvijayan2349 Ай бұрын

Dating advice നെ കുറിച്ച് videos ചെയ്യാമോ

@anandu.s6886 Ай бұрын

Simple if you are a chad(great looks, above average earner) you attract most women.. If you are a normie with high earning you either get gold diggers or sell-outs... If you area sub 5 with no money just rope max your genatic material is not needed to pass down😂😂😂

@ajn6091 Ай бұрын

@@anandu.s6886 bro rope max nu vecha ntha ?

@_illuminandi Ай бұрын

ഇപ്പോളത്തെ പെൺപിള്ളേർ ഇഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നത് gentlemen നെ ആണ് with high character strengths and virtues. പിന്നെ ഇതിൻ്റെ ഒക്കെ ഒരു byproduct ആണ് money. If you have high values there's a high chance that you are succeeding in life.

@_illuminandi Ай бұрын

@@ajn6091ഞാൻ ഉദ്ദേശിച്ചത് പെണ്ണിനെ നോക്കി നടക്കാണ്ട് സ്വന്തം character strengths and virtues ഏതൊക്കെ ആണെന്ന് വച്ചാൽ അതിനെ ഡെവലപ്പ് ചെയ്യാൻ ആണ്. അങ്ങനെ ചെയ്യുവാണെങ്കിൽ ഒരു 25 ആവുമ്പോൾ നല്ലൊരു ജോലി ഒക്കെ ആയി ഇഷ്ടം ഉള്ള പെണ്ണിനേയും കെട്ടി ലൈഫ് സ്റ്റാർട്ട് ചെയ്യാം എന്നാണ്.

@ash249-f8o Ай бұрын

Parvathy thiruvoth pole undello🤗

@albinvarghese2065 Ай бұрын

Parvathy thiruvothu nte arengilum aano🙃

@harikrishnan680 Ай бұрын

Kettnokatte stuck aaya oru avastha aanu ipol

@vimaldawn Ай бұрын

11:36 where actual video starts 😂

@hideandseek7606 Ай бұрын

All round development..njan ready aan...but eviden ,,egane thudagum ennn enikkarillla..

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@hideandseek7606 get on Maya's Amma App. Plenty of resources.. On my website www.mayasamma.com under affiliates and counselors section plenty of professionals who have classes / coaching etc. Watch my previous videos plenty of books are listed too.

@Bonelesschickhen Ай бұрын

❤

@NASEEFMOHAMMED Ай бұрын

താങ്കൾ പറഞ്ഞ ഗുരുജി വീഡിയോ ഞാൻ കണ്ട്. അയാള് പറഞ്ഞ കാര്യങ്ങൽ scientific ആണോ, wifi, 5G , artificial light. ഇതിൽ നിന്ന് എങ്ങനെ നമുക്ക് അസുഖം ഉണ്ടാകും. ഇയാള് പറഞ്ഞ കാര്യങ്ങൾക്ക് എന്തെങ്കിലും scientific backing ഉണ്ടോ. It seems like a sponsored content . Anyway, If you are bringing such people to your platform means you agree with his views. Such a pathetic

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@NASEEFMOHAMMED Just because you don't understand doesn't mean something is unscientific. Plenty of data on every thing he spoke. All I can do is talk about things in my sessions, on my channel etc. Ultimately without shunning anything it's up to the individual to do their own research

@alen3520 Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 such things are pakka unscientific, so when you promote such people and their content you should also be responsible. There is no scientific backing or evidences to such things.

@tonyjoy615 Ай бұрын

100 👍🏻

@abhiar4791 Ай бұрын

❤❤

@ARUNSARUN-rn9rw Ай бұрын

Nigale contact cheyyan valla vazhi undo

@AjmalHameed Ай бұрын

Why blame patriarchy for everything?😂😂 @3:40 a woman will leave a man the moment he starts opening up about his problems.

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@AjmalHameed the word patriarchy itself is not in the video. And regarding women, it depends on finding the right one. Do not generalise. There are no absolutes in the world..

@AjmalHameed Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 you do blame "patriarchy" @3:32.

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@AjmalHameed I know patriarchy is mentioned because I made the video. What I meant was - video is not about patriarchy or patriarchy's impact on women being victims. When men's emotions are discussed it is important to mention that patriarchal mindset might have been a reason for men to be so closed emotionally. Ithil evideya blaming Patriarchy for EVERYTHING ?? When one specific behaviour trait in most men can be because of patriarchal ideologies, athu mention cheyyunnathu is just calling a spade a spade.

@alen3520 Ай бұрын

@@AjmalHameed patriarchy il vishvasikunath men matram alla womenum und, athanu angane leave chyunath so we can blame it on patriarchy

@abhiram2614 Ай бұрын

👍👍👍👍👍

@gokulr2394 Ай бұрын

Thailandileke oru trip poyal mathi yellam sheri avum

@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Ай бұрын

@@gokulr2394 pathetic mindset

@gokulr2394 Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 what weed is legal there 😒

@gokulr2394 Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 but I like the way you think :P

@anandu.s6886 Ай бұрын

@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 what pathetic. His life his choice..

@alen3520 Ай бұрын

@@gokulr2394 pala levelil ulla issues ollavr ond mahn chilark just oru entertainment ondel sheriyakum chilark ath pora professional help thanne venam. So trip pokumbo ellam ready akanm enn illa