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Men LIE To Good Women For THESE 7 Reasons

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Stephan Speaks

Stephan Speaks

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Men LIE To Good Women For THESE 7 Reasons...In this dating advice video, I will breakdown why do men lie to women. You may see these on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the entire video.
Not all men lie, but you may experience it with various men. I want you to understand men and how men think. That way. you can decrease the chances of dealing with deceit, and set yourself up for happier and healthier relationships.
I want you to understand men and why men lie to good women so we can bridge the communication gap and promote healthier relationships. The lies men tell can be seen when dating and in relationships, often revealing underlying insecurities, fears, or societal pressures that influence men's behavior. Embrace this relationship advice to know more about the lies in a relationship and understand why men lie to women.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
💯Get your copy of "He's Lying Sis" here 👉www.heslyingsis.com
@UterineBlackmail
@UterineBlackmail 2 ай бұрын
I have bought your book. I have learned a lot from you. Thank you. Can you please make a video on why guys give compliments? I feel compliments from guys are always over the top and insincere and manipulative. Like they tell me I am stunning and I have gorgeous eyes, and then I watch them saying the same thing to 5 other women. Please make a video on men’s compliments 😊
@vernasmith1108
@vernasmith1108 5 ай бұрын
Hurt me with TRUTH! Don't take away my choice
@lala5061
@lala5061 5 ай бұрын
Preach 🙌🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@Taisha12001
@Taisha12001 5 ай бұрын
That part
@marqettajohnson8851
@marqettajohnson8851 4 ай бұрын
Yessssa thank you thats my whole thing at all times
@paulahunt3508
@paulahunt3508 4 ай бұрын
@vernasmith1108 PERFECT REPLY!! HURT me with the TRUTH!!!!!!!! PERFECT!! May I use that??
@aprilwilcox5065
@aprilwilcox5065 5 ай бұрын
Not only does one lie make you question everything that is said from that point forward, but it makes you question everything that was said or done before that point
@lashondalambrecht4566
@lashondalambrecht4566 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏
@lashaywright8921
@lashaywright8921 4 ай бұрын
True
@feliciabrowne3677
@feliciabrowne3677 4 ай бұрын
He feels he has to lie; because if you knew their true character a good person would have absolutely nothing to do with them. Lord Have Mercy!
@brittanyritenour4695
@brittanyritenour4695 2 ай бұрын
Sometimes but not always
@LaToyaSimone
@LaToyaSimone 5 ай бұрын
Lying when I already know the truth is insanity 🤣🤣🤣
@lala5061
@lala5061 5 ай бұрын
Ain't it tho 🙄
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@eleshagunn
@eleshagunn 5 ай бұрын
Took the words right out my mouth.
@scc8728
@scc8728 5 ай бұрын
Yet many do this!
@sexymary
@sexymary 5 ай бұрын
When they lie to you, it has nothing to do with you. Lying is their own problem
@ddmatt1920
@ddmatt1920 5 ай бұрын
Someone said...I'd rather you hit me with the truth than to kiss me with lies.😢
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely!
@Taisha12001
@Taisha12001 5 ай бұрын
Take mixed signals as no. Period
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Well address them first, and then if not corrected proceed to walk away
@mariavargas8312
@mariavargas8312 5 ай бұрын
I don't understand why! Even when you tell him please be honest with me, I'd rather have the truth weather it hurts than have been lied to and feel decieved and hurt. That's where trust starts failing
@JenniferOakes
@JenniferOakes 5 ай бұрын
I don't think they believe women when women say "they'd rather have the truth." It all boils down to selfishness and desire to not have to own any fault. Men don't like to argue either. Men wanna be respected. If the man tells the truth, that woman most likely is gonna argue and tell him why he's wrong. And if he is wrong??? It goes back to he's not mature. Gaslighting, for example, tells you he's not able to be in a relationship and you need to end the relationship. Don't bother arguing. Just end it.
@lashondalambrecht4566
@lashondalambrecht4566 5 ай бұрын
The devil is the father of all lies! So that's who Daddy they serve period, so nothing good comes out of that BS!
@SheritaLee-er4sp
@SheritaLee-er4sp 5 ай бұрын
Right, if a person is honest in the beginning you can just about trust they will be the whole time they are with you.
@keishan.5215
@keishan.5215 5 ай бұрын
This!! I’ve always said this
@scc8728
@scc8728 5 ай бұрын
Just ended a relationship and this was a big reason why.
@jfaustin1742
@jfaustin1742 5 ай бұрын
Dishonesty is the BIGGEST turn off
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Most definitely!
@shameccascott7334
@shameccascott7334 4 ай бұрын
💯 percent Agree
@joyricherson4570
@joyricherson4570 5 ай бұрын
Being a constant liar is a character issue. They should not be in a relationship!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@joyricherson4570
@joyricherson4570 5 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks True but being a liar isn't best for anyone
@scc8728
@scc8728 5 ай бұрын
Agreed, so selfish
@Cheryn77
@Cheryn77 4 ай бұрын
💯 scorpios can't have any lies
@brittanyritenour4695
@brittanyritenour4695 2 ай бұрын
I agree but I get what he’s saying. We are so quick to paint everyone black and white, without really understanding what’s happening. This blocks our perspective as to why people do what they do. I always see everyone just paint people as all good or all bad, everything happens for a reason. I’ve met people who lie because they are generally afraid. It’s a problem for sure but sometimes trauma can teach a person from an early age that your feelings don’t matter and aren’t valid or okay. The person I know who does that, does that for that reason. It’s really sad . Especially when some people don’t realize that someone wants to love them but they are to afraid to let people any further
@grannycox9172
@grannycox9172 5 ай бұрын
I was married to a man for 48 years and found out after he passed away that he had lied to me the whole time. I think I knew, but never could face the truth. He was 15 years older than me and had a horrible childhood. He's been gone 3 years and I'm still trying to face what happened. I alternate between anger, sadness and self loathing. Feel like I wasted those years in a fantasy. I know it will get easier, but it's been so painful.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@scc8728
@scc8728 5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this. It must be so confusing to be grieving yet feeling betrayed by lies too.
@bosjones1577
@bosjones1577 5 ай бұрын
Oh my that’ll terrible.
@namename5061
@namename5061 5 ай бұрын
I pray for your healing.
@annnee6818
@annnee6818 5 ай бұрын
Oh no, I'm so sorry😢😢😢
@open2417
@open2417 5 ай бұрын
My ex-husband was (per his therapist) a pathological liar. That man would lie about absolutely anything and didn't seem to understand why he did it. The hardest part was he always believed his lies after they came out of his mouth. I would show him proof that he was lying and then he would be mad/furious at me because I could prove him wrong. He lied to absolutely everyone. It was sad and scary. I've been divorced for 14 years and seem to constantly run into men with the same issues with dishonesty. I'm settled on being single and enjoying a peaceful and honest life.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@nyasmith-assis5168
@nyasmith-assis5168 5 ай бұрын
😔
@kafihaynes1813
@kafihaynes1813 5 ай бұрын
This is so true, it makes you question everything after that.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
It sure does
@maryjorobinson8412
@maryjorobinson8412 5 ай бұрын
What I really admire about you, is how you always make sure to say, "Now, I am not saying this is OK, I'm just telling you what it is." Or, "Now I am not trying to offend anyone." It is very obvious, you are not out to HURT anyone, just to INFORM everyone! You show great respect. Thank you for that!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
I appreciate that 🙏
@maryjorobinson8412
@maryjorobinson8412 5 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks My pleasure, Stephan! You are an amazing speaker, you have encouraged me to think about God again in my life, and I appreciate very much, the time you take for those of us, who are unable to meet with you in person.
@scc8728
@scc8728 5 ай бұрын
The issue is even trying to understand why he might lie doesnt change the fact that he did lie.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@a.4536
@a.4536 5 ай бұрын
One of the biggest liars are people pleasers, it’s their second nature
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Yes this is definitely true
@AvalonMisty
@AvalonMisty 5 ай бұрын
Oh what a tangled web we weave when we first practice to deceive.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Very true
@user-fh1tr9zp3l
@user-fh1tr9zp3l 5 ай бұрын
It is so much better to be HURT after hearing the TRUTH than To be COMFORTED by LIES But again men realize to most women switching up tactics truly works
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@sonjadf47
@sonjadf47 4 ай бұрын
Some of the men I have met in recent years, have lied and when they feel they know I know they’re lying, they disappear.
@Florida_gyrl
@Florida_gyrl 5 ай бұрын
I wish I could like this video a million times! Thank you Stephan! My first bf was a huge liar! I’m not putting up with this ever again. Unfortunately I seem to attract a lot of liars…..
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏 ❤️
@Sone2395
@Sone2395 5 ай бұрын
I will not accept and be with a man who lies . I want my partner to be open and honest. And if I find the truth to not be compatible with me then we ain’t going further. That just mean we are not for each other. Open and honest Communication is the key for me. Also I don’t believe a man can change for you . He has to be in the right place mentally and spiritually when we meet . Cuz I’m not his mother or babysitter 😌
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@TanyaOden
@TanyaOden 5 ай бұрын
Being truthful and honest is top-tier for me when building a relationship. If there's no trust, the relationship is DONE. Doubting and second guessing is stressful. If there's fear of judgment in expressing true feelings, something is wrong and that needs to be addressed and corrected asap. Scripture states that "Perfect love casts out fear." I want "perfect love" where my partner and I are free to be ourselves, free to express ourselves. No assuming. No projecting. Just asking, learning each other and growing more in love with each other daily.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@TanyaOden
@TanyaOden 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@sarahgracetruth
@sarahgracetruth 5 ай бұрын
They don’t want personal accountability, immature, selfish….. Soooo many reasons!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@ginahouston9352
@ginahouston9352 5 ай бұрын
in my "wild time" i was perfectly okay with a man saying he only wanted sex... i stayed away from some who expressed the desire for a 'relationship' b/c i didn't want the drama... the key is honest communication
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Communication is definitely key!
@KedyHunnnyyy
@KedyHunnnyyy 5 ай бұрын
I feel if u lie about small stuff u def gonna lie about big shiiii. Liars, deceivers, and thieves are the same ppl
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@KedyHunnnyyy
@KedyHunnnyyy 5 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks nooo, thank u for ur insight and knowledge ❤️
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 4 ай бұрын
@@KedyHunnnyyy and cheaters!
@AnnDonley
@AnnDonley 5 ай бұрын
I try not lie because I don’t want to be lied to
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@user-vu5br7sm6h
@user-vu5br7sm6h 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this information. I remember reading a quote you posted and what I can remember is a lie could bring you together in a relationship but the truth can break you apart. That's something I would always remember. I try to make a positive space and time for the man to tell me the truth without judgement but, if he still feels the need to lie its honesty his problem, or like you said in this video he's really not into me like that. But you pretty much summed up everything I was thinking. So again thank you. ❤
@anitragilmore3239
@anitragilmore3239 5 ай бұрын
Lying and testing should be discussed Stephan
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
💯 absolutely
@df6265
@df6265 4 ай бұрын
Hurt me with the truth but don't comfort me with a lie
@deidrewoods9670
@deidrewoods9670 5 ай бұрын
They don't want you to know What they really be doin
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely!
@dylehill5127
@dylehill5127 5 ай бұрын
An immature male ( not man) lies bc he does not respect the person.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@dgrant4095
@dgrant4095 5 ай бұрын
Yes, this is true however I am so tired of being the therapist for someone who is not in his truth. It's too much these types of ppl continue to manipulate or gas light because of their insecurities or issues and these issues become the partners issues and creates issues in the relationship. Too much !
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@a.d.b535
@a.d.b535 5 ай бұрын
He calls me his gf, but certain actions bring to question if his behavior is keeping me there for convenience. Looking for the exit.
@Keke-vs7gm
@Keke-vs7gm 5 ай бұрын
Girl, you better just exit! Now! Don't look for it, take it!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this Stephan!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@lindapanaro3379
@lindapanaro3379 5 ай бұрын
I faced it and is Very True ! Men can't understand want I can't believe and Trust them. 😂
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching
@liawhitney2202
@liawhitney2202 4 ай бұрын
They even have reasons to waste our time
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Ensure you watch the entire video to gain clarity 🙏
@fantasiaroberts5157
@fantasiaroberts5157 5 ай бұрын
What a video!!😯I fully agree with you!👏🏾👏🏾 I ain't gonna lie, Orange looks good on you 😀🙏🏽💚🙌🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you very much 😊
@fantasiaroberts5157
@fantasiaroberts5157 5 ай бұрын
You are very welcome 😊
@elena-jp6ge
@elena-jp6ge 5 ай бұрын
Flower petals on your bed 🤣🤣🤣 I am grateful for you being honest and tell no lies here 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@SheritaLee-er4sp
@SheritaLee-er4sp 5 ай бұрын
What is worse a theif, a killer or a liar? A liar is , cause they will say they never killed anyone or stole anythung.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@pennytorres4802
@pennytorres4802 5 ай бұрын
He did lie to me... It was so hurtful.. after 8 years of being single.. I took the chance and yet he smeared my faith in relationship.. but I will move on in Jesus name..
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@P3ACE305
@P3ACE305 5 ай бұрын
Dope content 🔥🔥🔥
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
🙏 thanks man
@joyfuljourney6953
@joyfuljourney6953 5 ай бұрын
All people lie because they believe they need to manipulate situations to get their needs met…essentially they feel disempowered. It also comes from emotional fragility. Our integrity shouldn’t depend on the reactions of others but unfortunately most people don’t have a very strong sense of self. So the result is we all interact both manipulating and being manipulated so we have to create these artificial reasons to tolerate it in order to keep connections intact. Genuine, open and honest connections are so rare because individuals don’t develop their personal power and sense of self.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 4 ай бұрын
@joyfuljourney not all most, plus according to Stephen, RC Blakes, Tony Gaskins etc. It's mostly males.
@tashamack8701
@tashamack8701 5 ай бұрын
Great advice Stephan. Sit down and talk like adults no need to curse and scream at each other. I always tell people just keep it real be honest. Be yourself. Why lie i don't get some men.That is why i decide to stay single. I am not even thinking about dating right now. I don't have time to playing mind games. Your book he lying sis is really good. I learned a lot from your books. I really appreciate your wisdom!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@Medietos
@Medietos 5 ай бұрын
It can partly also be out of stress-exhaistion. BEcause teelling the truth can be inconvenient if a neg. message,. That takes life.energy, to be calm and strong enough to find tactful words.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Excellent point
@judycraig9949
@judycraig9949 Ай бұрын
Thank you for a great video I have a great amount of respect for you.Your teachings are of great value God Bless you❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 5 ай бұрын
This is so True!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
💯 thank you
@sarahgracetruth
@sarahgracetruth 5 ай бұрын
Found out my ex was lying to me pathologically for A DECADE- created a whole false persona!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏
@Kieshak02
@Kieshak02 5 ай бұрын
I call that “ dry ass lying” that irritates the heck out of me. Be honest and if I want to deal with it but don’t take my voice away from ME. 🙄😤 I usually know the truth anyways
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@karenholtzclaw3135
@karenholtzclaw3135 5 ай бұрын
Honesty is what I need...
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
It really helps when we embrace that.
@user-zq5sz4km8n
@user-zq5sz4km8n 5 ай бұрын
NO RESPONSIBILITY IS TAKEN FOR THOSE LIES ..NO BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE
@ash169
@ash169 5 ай бұрын
Growing up in a home when u had to lie to a parent to survive and get their wrath, sometimes that s the only way you know because confrontation or someone being unpleased with you is scary
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@ChrisW1019
@ChrisW1019 5 ай бұрын
I make a very conscious attempt to never be sarcastic. I want to be honest, sincere and assertive. Sarcasm is passive aggressive and not healthy at all. Not honest by any stretch of the imagination.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 5 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephan,very interesting subject 👍✌️❤️💫🌈
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@shadak2792
@shadak2792 5 ай бұрын
On target everytime!!!!! I wish this video would have been out before I fell for the okie doke🙄👍🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
🙏 ❤️
@alexandria3304
@alexandria3304 5 ай бұрын
I’m dealing with someone who was honest from the beginning and isn’t accepting the fact that this isn’t what I want. Can you do a video on what to tell men for them to accept and understand rejection?
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@christianaonyeocha1923
@christianaonyeocha1923 5 ай бұрын
Men are very comfortable with telling lies to their wives not considering that this can broke a relationship between them!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@carineokeh3543
@carineokeh3543 4 ай бұрын
5:17 This video came at the right time when I needed it most. Thanks Stephan.🙏
@gillianwelch5874
@gillianwelch5874 5 ай бұрын
I think judgement can come from both sides. A person can be seriously passionate about God and because of that he or she is seriously judged thinking that they don’t have a sensual side. Which is not necessarily true. Spiritual people tend to be more sensual ironically. 🤷‍♀️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@user-jl6iw2jg3s
@user-jl6iw2jg3s 4 ай бұрын
EXACTLY...Very well stated! Most spiritual people don't announce their sensual, sexual side. That's personal , private and on a need- to -know basis but it's there! Trust and believe it's there! No assuming and passing judgment. Get to know them for yourself.
@ladydj5380
@ladydj5380 5 ай бұрын
Lying to get sex is so weird to me... Why would you want to have sex with someone who doesn't really want what you want...if I knew a man wanted more than me from a situation, I couldn't go through with it...that doesn't sound fulfilling or satisfying.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@princessj830
@princessj830 5 ай бұрын
I appreciate your honesty Monsieur Labossiere!😂
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@Sunlightsam24
@Sunlightsam24 5 ай бұрын
I think a part of this lying is societal. How many people get on TV and blatantly lie to the public, often they are supposed to be in positions of authority.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@Emily-ed6ed
@Emily-ed6ed 4 ай бұрын
great message❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@namename5061
@namename5061 5 ай бұрын
I luv ❤ you Stephan. You are such a blessing to so many people. May GOD to cover you and keep you. 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@cathycrocker5956
@cathycrocker5956 5 ай бұрын
I don't have a reason to lie about anything. I have lots of integrity for myself!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@tenniebramlett8827
@tenniebramlett8827 4 ай бұрын
Very deep insights 💯💯💯 Much appreciated Stephan!!💗💗💖💗
@tammydiienno2751
@tammydiienno2751 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved the way u werent even capable of shutting down ur natural response of CTFU when u addressed how som ppl have ben “institutionalized” into a belief system that demonizes oral sex n they hv fully integrated that thinking throughtout their whol mind n bodily systems. I agree its one of our most natural spaces of foreplay to add into a healthy sex life.
@RoseMoke
@RoseMoke 5 ай бұрын
What's goes around .comes back again
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Most definitely!
@likexchloe
@likexchloe 3 ай бұрын
All this time i was walking into this relationship with trust because i dont want to be doubting someone all the time, his lies never matched up, he would change stories everytime and i found out he was hiding A LOT. In the end found he was cheating on me and on another girl lol, turned out he was a narcissist. Really disgusting
@peterpisspotty3052
@peterpisspotty3052 4 ай бұрын
Brilliant advice
@fosterjanine5112
@fosterjanine5112 4 ай бұрын
Don't let any man play you!
@sacampbr1
@sacampbr1 5 ай бұрын
Interesting video!🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@Nagy_D_
@Nagy_D_ 5 ай бұрын
Stephan, thank you very much!!! I watch you from Russia!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
@ClaudiasInnanet
@ClaudiasInnanet 4 ай бұрын
I definitely just told a liar all this. Than I get KZfaq and this video is at the top
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
🙏 ❤️
@theresakarngbaye8601
@theresakarngbaye8601 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for another excellent video.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@TiaHerring4200
@TiaHerring4200 5 ай бұрын
What kills me is that most of these types of men are fathers and I feel like this questions should be asked... would they want their daughter or any of the female loves ones to be subjected to what they are doing to someone else daughter? That why I not a huge fan of broken men bc they go on to having children and they have ones so... honestly some men do it be they really don give care.... and that the nice side of saying that.
@nursekillm
@nursekillm 5 ай бұрын
Truth! I can think of 1 in particular right now who projects the appearance of a good, honest, loving father but he has historically treated women like 💩. Can’t be honest to save his life. I genuinely hope his daughter never meets a snake like him - for her sake! 🐍
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@renee5138
@renee5138 5 ай бұрын
Love it how u keep it real
@renee5138
@renee5138 5 ай бұрын
What songs are you listening to these days..give us your top 5 please
@renee5138
@renee5138 5 ай бұрын
Appreciate you brother ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@DS-wv7lf
@DS-wv7lf 5 ай бұрын
These type of people may need way more help than what Stephan can give to them. IJS.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@saluma1447
@saluma1447 4 ай бұрын
Thank u for your program sir, I have been listening to you, love your honesty and ur collaboration in interviews with other great speakers like Lisa Bilyeu
@agataloca
@agataloca 4 ай бұрын
Another great one -- in my case it was hypocrisy on his part though, and him when being confronted by it simply shutting down and cutting me off.
@jaytasiamgotchgotch4796
@jaytasiamgotchgotch4796 5 ай бұрын
I don't understand why he keeps lying when im letting you know that you are lying to me and I know the truth but u continue to give me a story like just be honest im basically telling you hey I already know the truth.....
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@jaytasiamgotchgotch4796
@jaytasiamgotchgotch4796 4 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks your welcome 🙏 im remove myself from that person
@Ziggimomspal68
@Ziggimomspal68 5 ай бұрын
I’m in a LDR and my red flag radar is going off constantly. It’s almost a year…and I don’t trust this guy, even though he’s asked nothing from me, has been nothing but kind & affectionate (appropriately) but I’m just not buying what he’s selling. I’ve done all the due diligence I can on my end, I can’t find him anywhere. I deal with people as part of my job, have for over 4 decades so I have a pretty well developed BS meter. But I just don’t know what to do.
@joyricherson4570
@joyricherson4570 5 ай бұрын
What kinds of things make you feel he's lying? And why be in a year,?
@joyricherson4570
@joyricherson4570 5 ай бұрын
LDR like hours away, different country?
@missmc3145
@missmc3145 5 ай бұрын
DIG THIS I THOUGHT I WAS IN A LDR FOR SEVERAL MONTHS, HE WAS LYING THE ENTIRE TIME, HE HAD ME BELIEVING THAT HE LIVED IN TEXAS AND THE WHOLE TIME HE WAS STILL IN CALIFORNIA CALIFORNIA THE SAME STATE I LIVE IN,HE WAS LIVING IN A DIFFERENT TOWN IN CALIFORNIA
@kimberly329
@kimberly329 5 ай бұрын
Why stay in the relationship? Even if he is being honest you don’t believe it.
@nursekillm
@nursekillm 5 ай бұрын
Always trust your gut! I’ve always regretted it when I ignored my instincts…I’ve never been wrong! 🙏🏼
@sarahgracetruth
@sarahgracetruth 5 ай бұрын
Self sabotage!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
🙏 ❤️
@lashondalambrecht4566
@lashondalambrecht4566 5 ай бұрын
The devil is father of all lies, so whos your daddy???
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@brendacook5103
@brendacook5103 4 ай бұрын
Bro. Stephan: In most cases, the mother is responsible for raising the sons in the family, whether the father is present or not. In the future will you produce a video that trains mothers how to raise sons to become mature, truthful, responsible, ambitious, intelligent and caring husbands and fathers? There are too many mamma boys in the Black community. What can their fathers do to achieve the same results?
@TheBulletzgottishow20
@TheBulletzgottishow20 5 ай бұрын
Gems
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
🙏 thank you
@renee5138
@renee5138 5 ай бұрын
I understand ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@PinkYellowGreen2023
@PinkYellowGreen2023 4 ай бұрын
You dont have to lie to kick it! People- not just men, lie when they are immature and have problems they don't know how to solve- a simple summary of this video. Im happy to see a BLACK MEN TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT IT. BLACK MEN LOVE LYING JUST BASED ON MY EXPERIENCE.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@milliemill3782
@milliemill3782 5 ай бұрын
😂 Is it the best thing since sliced bread Stephan? God says the marriage bed is undefiled.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
lol 😂 it’s definitely up there
@beths4249
@beths4249 5 ай бұрын
My biggest problem is a baby momma..an she apparently rules the roust. He tells me he wants to be with me.. yet shields me from his problems. So I kinda understand this lying crap.. yet I can’t have his phone number!? And he ‘Loves Me!?!?!!’ Nope. So shady. Yet tried for 8 months. Done done done. Sadly took so long for me to except the truth. Sucks. For I really loved him too.. I thought. Now I just don’t answer his Blocked calls, an gonna move on. 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@beths4249
@beths4249 4 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks appreciate your response. That really helps.. thank you. I got this! 😊
@t.g.4311
@t.g.4311 5 ай бұрын
Your right Stephan but if he really was keeping it Real with himself he would see the problem of having a woman on the side is the REAL problem & not blaming us saying we can't handle the truth so I'm just gone lie to them!!! If anything he's the one who can't handle the truth let lone tell it! But it's our fault?!?? Lol....that's some immature narcissist behavior....wow! Team too much! Have some REAL self esteem, etc ladies....
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@eliesciabloomfield876
@eliesciabloomfield876 5 ай бұрын
I agree with above comment, But I feel like I can handle the truth. And the thing about men not being honest bc they think they won't get sex from you. Men are crazy! @ meetStephenSpeaks I agree with the advice for men just be honest to women so that they can make their own informed decision from there. Like I just don't understand why men aren't more honest.
@user-fh1tr9zp3l
@user-fh1tr9zp3l 5 ай бұрын
All that's in the dark must come to light No ifs ,buts, or maybe This is from the GOOD book the BIBLE Thank you Stephan I pray that God continue to bless you
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
@JackieS812
@JackieS812 4 ай бұрын
There’s alot of different reasons men lie. Some lie just because. There’s no danger. No desperation. Just feel a need to contribute to the conversation . I also think that lying is rooted in fear which is usually generational. If you’ve noticed alot of my comments talk about being whole. Being alone. Not to make excuses for bad behavior but there’s a root that has to be pulled up and confronted!
@renee5138
@renee5138 5 ай бұрын
Yes, they need help , therapy. Going back to the fact that....ummm....I think u got a text message in your video. I love it😂
@spicyirwin5835
@spicyirwin5835 5 ай бұрын
I know a few women who lied about giving oral until they got married as if it was no big deal. I dont assoc with them anymore but kinda curious how their lies worked out for them. Life is too short to waste it lying.🙄💔✌️💔
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@kamilareeder1493
@kamilareeder1493 4 ай бұрын
Its such a massive burden to place on women to figure out which men lie and which don't. Why are we still responsible for this bad behavior ?
@estherguadalupe9491
@estherguadalupe9491 5 ай бұрын
Ultimate one LIE turns into that nuisance Ivy weed. It grows and grows crawling and choking the life out of that beautiful Oak tree until it DIES. Then when the leaves of the tree have fallen and it is bear that’s when they take action and want to save the tree. DEEP
@LA-gf5re
@LA-gf5re 5 ай бұрын
I RESPECT A MAN WHO LET YOU KNOW UP FRONT..BUT I KNOW WHEN IT'S BS EITHER WAY.. MY SPIRIT FEELS THE ENERGY🙏🏽MY MAN WILL HAVE TO BE VERY ROMANTIC ALSO💜
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@kadinethompson9442
@kadinethompson9442 Ай бұрын
Women can’t handle the truth Well I cannot handle it.
@drkat1359
@drkat1359 5 ай бұрын
One of my friend's were talking about this: But what is your intake on this: a man meets a woman, claim to have an interest, but only wants to text when he can, won't tell you where he actually lives, except the city: then creates a story of the woman not making time for him, pouts, sends out ridiculous texts, and only wants to text after 9pm to see what you're doing: not working a job, staying with family so HE says, but ASSUMES without having a mature conversation: He feels that he is not playing games, but the woman is living her life and recouping from a previous bad marriage: instead he responds when he feels the need: To me this guy is a game player, and is highly immature: What is YOUR take on this:
@i.r7831
@i.r7831 4 ай бұрын
Leave him
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