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You shouldn't be telling people how to feel or what to feel. People feel how they feel and you shouldn't be shaming them and excusing bad and disrespectful behavior. You're assuming women are "over-reacting". If Men are allowed to do whatever they want then so are we!!!

Exactly thank you!!!!

Reesaveli 🙏🏽 Thank you! Cause we been digesting this narrative and obviously even by women.

thank you, thank you, thank you !!!!!! Real men exist! !!

Exactly!!!!! Thank you!!!

yesssss Thank you !!!

Agreed. For me it's both. But the disrespect is the worst.

I disagree....I think men have tendencies that we may never understand. Dont think its insecurity but we as women we need to stand tall. If it keeps happening then have a conversation. I assumed in the past and it was a mistake. Nonetheless you should never be disrespected. But dont assume.

Exactly 💯

Yep, my point!! Feelings fade when they look at other women

Sorry to burst ur bubble but men will try and it do it but instinctually they will and at some point you will catch him doing it

So Misty Stover reading your comments I'm going to disagree with the fact that you're okay with your husband looking at women when he's not around you... I think he should respect you both ways. If he's not around you why would he go okay I'm going to disturb all the women I possibly can while I'm not around my wife and then I'm with her I behave like this instead.... I want to behave the same way when I'm without my boyfriend or with him.. I have actually talked to my boyfriend about how about we both talk about who we think is attractive let's do that thing..... We never got around to play in that game I bought it up quite a few times.. I felt brave enough to see how I could handle it because I was playing with major insecurities I was thinking dang I feel like he's not really with me when he's with me.... We all do have our opinions of course however there's another comment someone made... I can't remember..... Oh yeah they said it goes both ways if he wants to stare at girls in front of me it's fair game I'll stare at guys I did it one time when I cruise at some random guy at night time and he was livid..hours later he came back to the room and told me that he had a chance to start with some girls but he didn't.. I'm thinking wow you're making this way worse than it needs to be how immature are you? Maybe I would have done the same thing to make myself feel better.... I don't see why he's insecure he's strong he's in shape enough in my opinion he has a good job so I don't know what his is I don't know why he has to be a jerk.. and I am not marrying him and I broke up with them and he still invites me over sometimes... We share a kid together she's 2 years old and then we have a son he has a son I have a son from different parents and his son is not like me or my son.. yeah that's a different situation too.. I guess we're just not likable people.. I'll have to say that I went from trying to get along with the son to strongly dislike his son.. good job ladies on these comments for sticking together

Jaky Morales Amen Im gonna do that

He lost his shit lmfao then cheated on me... yup... ugh...

ikr

bam!

Im not a creepy perv and fantasize about ppl tho. Like wtf is so damn fascinating about another human, honestly? Coming from a females pov? Im not saying females aren't thirsty. Im just not one of them. I see someone attractive I acknowledge it and im over it in less than a sec. Im not damn following you around the room w/ my eyes, doing 180s, or whatever else. Acting like im gonna burn a hole in you w/ my laser beam eyes, or saying cheesey stuff like the eyes r the gateways to the soul :/. You're gonna hafta give a little more of your soul before I look longingly into your eyes like some mute uncalled for weirdo. Have fun w/ that. I dont even tend to bother w/ ppl that much

Hi Amber. has this happened to you with one guy doing it? To answer your question: men will look at women they find attractive. It really is an automatic response to seeing beauty. That in itself isn't anything wrong because it would be naive to think that he will never look at another woman even if he has the most beautiful and amazing woman with him. You ask why does he need to feel good? And get that from another woman. Well, perhaps he isn't getting that feeling from his girlfriend. That thrill of excitement can come from something new I'm afraid. I understand why you find it disrespectful if you're with your guy and he does it blatantly - in a way that he's obviously ogling another woman in a very sexually explicit way -then that would make you feel uncomfortable. If this is the case, it might suggest that you're with the wrong guy for you. if it's a glance and then it's over, then that's a different story.

Because he's gonna be with u sleeping in ur bed while the other girl ain't

PREACH!

Man size up women for Sex. And size up other men for battle. Doesn't mean he WANTS to do either. It just means his Balls works.💯

Amber Peltier So true !!!It’s important to realise that most men aren’t in love with their partner . Most men are lustful to women who reach the conventional standards . If he does that , then he ain’t in love . Yes it’s not okay . Always excuses for men “ boys will be boys “ , “ men are like animals and science/biology and tribes etc “ . But what do they say about women ? “ bitch ain’t loyal “ “ golf digger “ “ hoe” “ slut “ “ Thot “ And the list goes on .

Preach

My thoughts exactly. Why I would want to keep a creep like this? If I saw him looking she also saw him and she is pitying me as I would if the roles were reversed. Loose the creep and brag to all your friends you did.

Yes!! Well said.

💯 Ignore this advice ladies, if you’ve any self-respect!

Like men don't go crazy when they see cars, etc

I agree!!! The video is a disgusting explanation

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Sean Buckwald thank you for your opinion 😊

Yes,it seems that women have been conditioned tp accept it as nothing to be bothered about or it's just a bit of fun. I remember growing as a teenager and discovering page 3 in The Sun and The Star newspapers.I was horrified and thought it was wrong and didn't have any place in a daily newspaper as it clearly is designed to cause some degree of sexual provocationl for all those women's husband's/partner's etc who see it..How is that right?Why is it acceptable to have that kind of image in a daily paper?.Even today although they are wearimg bra's and pants it still is designed to have the same effect. Why to this day are we women still excepting it without even giving it the slightest thought..We"re letting men get away with it again.The women who are in the photo's must be getting such ego boosts by all other women's men out there having a great time looking at them.

Amen. This video is extremely flawed. Men get a free pass for it because theyre "evolutionarily designed" to do it. While we are made to be insecure as a result or overreacting. When she absolutely objectified w her analogy and in addition minimalized us by calling it insecurity.

Freaking true

@@AndreaCrumpLoveCoach I don't like your analogies in the video. Having a guy pay attention to me or send me nice texts makes me feel so good but I'm not allowed to do that right?? And the way I see her is *completely* different than the way he is.

I can't believe that this woman is telling women that they are insecure and jealous. Not to mention that she compares women to shoes and bags. Like it's the exact same thing. I don't think your shoes have feelings when you want another pair of shoes... Men need to change and not to allow themselves to lust. They tell each other and women that it's nothing. But it's everything.

Sister..i dont think that men staring at another woman is just as simple as what is mentioned in the video..the one who truly loves you will not give a chance to make you insecure

@@salmabeevi1987 Nobody is insecure here. Stop telling women that this is about them being insecure. Women feel insecure in the relationship and that's a different story.

@@timmytee734 Well itz not that "she"felt insecure..she was made to feel insecure.. right??

@@salmabeevi1987 Nope. No woman feels insecure about herself when a man behaves like that. She feels insecure in the relationship. And yes, he made her feel that way.

It’s a reason why maybe he see his girl not as attractive maybe she over weight or it’s something the reason why men do that maybe he see value in other women this why women and men got to pick there relationships wisely don’t be in a rush for a relationship

@@alfredbaxter1061 whatever reason he has is not a good reason. It's ignorant, rude, disrespectful, and disloyal.

@@Me-tb8rs that’s the reason why don’t be together in the first place if he like other women

@@alfredbaxter1061 agreed.

i understand

Exactly!

Damn right

SSG Loves Fashion sorry to hear that.

Same. Your not alone..

Yeah me too, I don't like having a guy enjoy other cake like it's so great then he casually wants a slice of that old cake that he's stuck with cause he can't have the one he really likes. I'm not an old shoe.

You made the right choice! ❤️

Damn right!!!

U did the right thing❤️

I would have walked out

It is natural for men to look at other women. Every man does it, your father, brother, son, bf, husband etc will do it. The difference is that most are smart enough to be discreet about it. It’s biology and testosterone, we are visual creatures. However if he does it blatantly in front of you, that would be disrespectful

Disrespectful spot on

​@@dnd7751pick me no it's not natural or okay most men cheat also not okay

Thank you 😊

Saranoh it doesn’t have be “a great explanation”. It simply needs to be the truth.

Andrea Crump if I can look at a “societal rated hottie” with the whole package and not even think or look twice or feel a thing , why would I ever settle for a man who didn’t mirror that back? And why are you telling fellow goddesses that it’s okay if your man drools over other women? You have some good points, but over all a bad message.

@@AndreaCrumpLoveCoach I agree

@@saranoh1088 Amen. This whole entire story is just a way of putting women back in the box and knowing our place. We shouldnt have to feel like we are constantly in competition w eachother, thats a mans world. But let me say, she doesnt say the truth. Maybe its her truth. But it aint a vast majority of ours.

@@AndreaCrumpLoveCoach But it isnt the truth. Its your interpretation of the truth. Thereby making it whatever you want. But pls dont proclaim its our truth. Cuz its not

So Is it okay to look at men when youre having boyfriend then? Just asking.

@@aboy4678 obviously not

You really don’t understand how male minds work ms Cummings. It usually doesn’t mean anything. It’s written in our code so unless your ignorant, and think men can be trained, your dearly wrong. End of the day if he comes back to you that’s all that matters and you got to remember it’s just males reacting to stimulus.

@@thilolg ok I understand but I’m far from ignorant! I just want that same energy when I’m breaking my neck to look at another man🤷🏽‍♀️😏

@@roinessacummings4095 I don’t think each and every rule needs to be reversible to make things even. Unfortunately that’s people’s argument “these days”

Like you never understood what she meant..come on bro..🙄

@@maateverywhere there's a difference.

@@maateverywhere how do you know she didn't say exactly what she meant?

@@apocalypsgoddess1 whatever man..u get it or you don't 😎

@@maateverywhere okay

Don't listen to it its utter garbage. The comment section is great though!

Agree with youu💯💯Are you a man?? Then i feel double the respect for you 😁❤️

Yesss

Nikki BonBon so sorry to hear this. Finding pictures of other women on his phone seems a little more extreme beyond the casual glance that’ my video is about. Are these pictures of regular women or of film stars or pop stars or the like? There’s one thing to have a crush on a celebrity but there’s another thing to have intimate photos of women he might know. In short. I understand why you feel the way you do. Yours is a tricky situation and uncomfortable 😣 for sure because he’s looking over and over again which for me is pushing the boundaries beyond a casual glance. As an antidote to this: you actually NOT giving him attention in this regard and focusing more on your feelings of being beautiful and feminine is more likely to pull him back in. This might sound counterintuitive, but if you have spoken to him about this and nothing has changed, then that’s what I would suggest that you do. Start to take care of yourself so that you start to feel attractive in your own skin. Go out with girlfriends 👯, dressed up, and have a good time. With that said, are you having a good sex life with your husband?

Grace T sorry to hear that.

Nikki BonBon I’ve been in the position of both women. The one that’s been looked at while a guy is with his significant other, and my guy looks at other women. The only reason I do not like it is because of a thing called respect. I don’t feel comfortable if the guy looks at me and I see his girls facial expression- I understand how she may feel. And since I’m still working on my insecurities, I don’t feel my best self when I catch my bf looking at another female. But once again that’s my insecurity.. idk if I should not care or if I should.

I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I recently found out that for the entirety of us being together he has been looking at other women online and downloading their sexy pictures...I know how horrible it feels. I hope you've found a solution ❤️ I'm trying to do the whole "build myself first" thing and it's hard

Woooooooow that's wha happened to me mines was a monster never satisfied currently going through it but is over now I feel free but it still hurts 5 year invested

💯💯💯

Omg just fucking leave him.. he didn’t have the tact to respect u

Nope, he shouldn’t be giving any other girl attention or compliments specially in front of you.

We're on the same boat😊I felt this too when my bf complimented on a celebrity..its baad ...really bad..and a true love would never do that🥺

So sorry your going through that hun. He definitely needs to stop what he's doing, it he really cares about your feelings and the relationship he should be willing to stop. No your not coming off as controlling, your simply asking for respect which we all deserve

omg no you are not wrong. He is. Im so sorry this has happened to you. My husband tried to justify himself too. There is no justification to this.

My bf did the same thing, we had an argument and resulted in him saying he’s going Monk Mood on these bitches. Like why would you ever think that your woman would be okay with that in the first place? It’s not about you being controlling it’s about him controlling himself. Men know just like we know it’s wrong and want to justify it because they’re men. Gtfoh

Yeah nah he’s lying

Trinitel קרח כּובע yes. Just because you’re married, doesn’t mean that you’re blind. Nicely put. Thank you.

If he is looking, it is because he is interested. If he was not interested, he would not be looking. Point, blank, period . That is disrespect. He might be even thinking of them when having sex with you.

Leave him instead not your cousin

He has no self control plz gather your self and dump his ass

Dump the loser!

If a man ever calls his girl insecure, you better belive he does not love her. When a person loves someone they respect them and when you respect someone it is because you love them. 😊

😂💯yeah lik wtf

cam12 cam12 colour and sparkles ✨ and of the like yes will always attract ones eye.

@@AndreaCrumpLoveCoach I agree

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Celeste Moreno-Garcia if I were in your situation I would work on two things: 1) building your self esteem 2) as well as making sure you and your guy are happy together.

Thank you, much appreciated 🙌🏽

Celeste Moreno-Garcia you sound so desperate ! Advise is know your worth and leave him ! n uneducated . He is not in love with you , if he wants to sleep with other women . Can’t believe you tried to confine yourself of this . Desperate much . hun he doesn’t love you . Why are you still with him ? So true !!!It’s important to realise that most men aren’t in love with their partner . Most men are lustful to women who reach the conventional standards . If he does that , then he ain’t in love . Yes it’s not okay . Always excuses for men “ boys will be boys “ , “ men are like animals and science/biology and tribes etc “ . But what do they say about women ? “ bitch ain’t loyal “ “ golf digger “ “ hoe” “ slut “ “ Thot “ And the list goes on .

Leave... It's always the ugly insecure men that do this shit. Because of their insecurities

Love this!

Courtney Murphy when you say he purposely does that. Does he do that whilst telling your how hot they look and how turned on he is by them or something?

You're the Beneficiary of Every Sexy woman he sees when he gets home. Bless ur men, don't stress your man.

@@ciphbudd7102 That's not always the case.

@@courtneymurphy1023 Really is.

Courtney Murphy why are you calling some women beautiful and making it sound like other women that don’t look a certain way or don’t reach conventional Standards or don’t attract some men - means they are ugly ? Idiot ! It’s your heart that’s ugly ! A human isn’t beautiful or ugly - based on their face structure , colour , shape etc . Before you tell me BS like people are visual . When you truly love someone for their charisma , character personality wtf - then you are attracted to them PHYSICALLY. It’s totally okay to have a certain type in physical features but to brand some humans as “ beautiful “ and some humans as “ ugly “ is so gross , evil and abusive . Because you the attracted to someone and they don’t reach the damn standards - then they aren’t beautiful ? Then they are ugly ? Is ugly supposed to be used towards an innocent who didn’t commit an ugly act ? Beautiful is supposed to be used towards someone who can attract the polite sex sexually ? That’s the beauty in life ? All the horror in the world and an innocent who didn’t commit any ugly act is ugly ? We say the garbage bin is ugly - based on its smell and the act behind it ... and we think we can use that same shameful term towards a human being who did nothing ugly ? A human being who was born to look different to another person ? No wonder why so many people are lonely , confused and depressed . We view humans and treat them in a despicable manner for having their uniqueness . Never ever have I looked at a human thought because of their colour , shake , structure etc - they were ugly . You don’t have to be attracted to them , but they aren’t ugly at all . It’s your heart that’s ugly.

Leave him, he creaky doesn’t seem to understand nor care about your feelings. You’d deserve some respect

Leave these kinda losers!

That if ppl r hoes, they're just gonna be hoes?! Doesnt matter what they look like?! Helps, but still is not everything?! Bc some of the ppl my bf disses me for is so humiliating and insulting. You're not gonna get better than me, bae . Promise u that 🤗. Gonna laugh at him too later on... bc karma they said. Is karma even a godly word 🤔🤷‍♀️:/?

Sorry but a human being is not an object