Men Pay Me To 'Control Them' | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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MISTRESS Marley, 30, has an unusual occupation. "I make six figures a year telling men what to do," she told Love Don't Judge. "I started this work six years ago, fresh out of grad school. I took a corporate job but I felt like I wasn't making any money from it, I was having a lot of anxiety." Sparked by her dissatisfaction and want for more, Marley Googled 'how to make money online as a woman', webcamming popped up as an option but it wasn't for her. Eventually, during her search, she stumbled across women on the internet earning their living by telling men to send them money and controlling their bank accounts. Her first cheque came in after she requested her $50 lunch bill to be paid. The money arrived straight away from a client, and her new career took off from there. Now Marley checks her online wallet each morning to see what her clients have sent her. "I had a client who sent me $1,000 to be unblocked, two hours later he sent me $2,500," she said. Marley's work also involves her clients doing her household chores, errands and life admin. During the episode, her regular client Beta comes to clean her home, which he relishes. "She gives me tasks, I enjoy to do it. I feel safe with her, that if anything goes wrong, she's always there for me to protect me." He continued: "Sometimes I feel that this is the purpose of my life. That I need to be of service for women, and especially for Mistress Marley." When asked what Beta gets out of the arrangement, Marley said: "As a reward, he gets to be in my presence." Marley believes her job also has a deeper meaning, due to her culture. "95% of my clients are white men, as a black woman I see my work as reparations." Marley shares some aspects of her work online and others have also filmed her in action. One such post went viral with one of her clients walking on a leash, and she received a harsh backlash, with some people sending her racist comments. She explained: "I had a white s** on a leash, next thing I know it was blowing up, going crazy. There were some people in my inbox calling me the n-word, saying 'you should be on a white man's leash'." Despite these comments, Marley believes in what she is doing. "This lifestyle has enabled me to create a better life for myself, I've been able to give myself that creative freedom to not feel that I'm behind bars or locked in a box. Judge all you want, but the money is hitting my account just the same."
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Пікірлер: 435

@lorenzoredmond6055 2 ай бұрын

These men are not victims. their volunteers

@GoMrTom 2 ай бұрын

Some men ruining their life. It can be addicting like gambling.

@maries50 2 ай бұрын

They volunteered tribute 😂

@pettybettyvlog4559 2 ай бұрын

You're absolutely correct, they know what they doun. They love it!

@saharaloveland 2 ай бұрын

They are paying at that lol

@not-even-german4892 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@that.sleep.dentist 2 ай бұрын

She’s good at this because she’s confident, articulate, can read people well and seems to know how to avoid men who might nave bad intentions. It takes a certain skill set to ge good at this, and she’s got it!!

@tiahnarodriguez3809 2 ай бұрын

The part about avoiding bad men is debatable. You can be good at reading people until you’re not. All she has to do is be safer cuz you never know how someone truly is and even the most trusted client can flip

@YouTubeUzername 2 ай бұрын

Sub/dom relationships have been going on since forever . This is nothing shocking. I’m glad she is getting her money up but there is no way I would have those men in my home.

@Truthist23 2 ай бұрын

She's not a Dom. She's hustling 😂

@cdimplesz324 2 ай бұрын

Right ,dangerous game 😂

@letsbefruitful5457 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 🥴

@Taj-Mahal 2 ай бұрын

Riiight! I was thinking that exact same thing as that guy was walking through her home.

@charlesmorgan7008 6 күн бұрын

@@KZfaqUzername nothing wrong with making money and d/s has been around forever. But people do need to watch out for fake catfish's, as they are also all over the internet

@buck8808 2 ай бұрын

Imagine all his ancestors who survived multiple wars to keep their lineage alive watching this.

@raeronda30 2 ай бұрын

THIS

@not-even-german4892 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@taielyce9424 2 ай бұрын

Imagine hers too

@theladykaybee 2 ай бұрын

It’s weird if their ancestors are watching their kinks lol

@Lexightonportia 2 ай бұрын

And her ancestors would be so proud

@milkyman96 2 ай бұрын

She’s not taking advantage because they literally want to do it lmao.

@erikarobinson3557 2 ай бұрын

Shidddd let me get started😂🤣😂🤣😂

@backyard-things 2 ай бұрын

Girl!!! Cuz I’m tired of!!!!

@lamekajones6228 2 ай бұрын

That part 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Nia62899 2 ай бұрын

@bigdaddy3621 2 ай бұрын

You can whip me first mommie

@letsbefruitful5457 2 ай бұрын

I’m telling you 😂

@mitchelnext1 2 ай бұрын

"as a black woman I see my work as reparations because...it is"

@missc4867 2 ай бұрын

Facts 😅😅😅🎉

@loveheals482 2 ай бұрын

I screamed when she said that😆🤣

@Pulsonar Ай бұрын

@@loveheals482A cringe scream? Or jump for joy scream?

@annat6249 2 ай бұрын

I do not see any problem in her work. She is in a niche where men in private dream of being weak or pay/serve women. No matter how careful she is, it only take one bad man for her to be on KZfaq crime documentary. $100k+ is not a lot of money for that risk in SA, murder, etc…

@crishnaholmes7730 2 ай бұрын

Are you talking about the guys that are in her home

@lilyjane1011 2 ай бұрын

😏

@chaseyj184 2 ай бұрын

to be fair- people are killed every day by their actual partners/people they love and trust. so really, it's not as dangerous as it may look. I am positive this woman takes her safety very seriously, therefore I'm sure she has precautions in place incase something ever happened to go left. :)

@tiahnarodriguez3809 2 ай бұрын

@@chaseyj184 This still doesn’t take away from the fact that inviting people into your home can be very dangerous. Just cuz you have the police on speed dial or a gun under your pillow doesn’t mean you’re going to be protected. It’s always best to be safe than sorry. She makes enough money that she could rent a space to do this.

@KMABTCH 2 ай бұрын

@@tiahnarodriguez3809I saw a comment of her saying that this was an airbnb

@Booolove 2 ай бұрын

I dont see a problem 😊🤭 those men dont have to do it. They're literally volunteering, these men love it. I dont recommend for other's to try tho lol..

@MatJustChillin 2 ай бұрын

You not gonna see the problem until it makes the news Pros.titute found slain, and Brenda's her name. She's got a Baby

@Truthist23 2 ай бұрын

She's a Hustler. Just another drug dealer, her drug is sex/submissive kink.

@christianrowbotham7386 2 ай бұрын

True

@Fantastic_Stranger 2 ай бұрын

⁠⁠⁠@@MatJustChillinThat's why they said they DON'T reccomend others doing it.

@preciousandrare1777 2 ай бұрын

People without morals never see a problem.

@Athina_teamkhonvay 2 ай бұрын

Where do I sign up??? 😂 And I just wanted to point something out that she said,, She said to be careful and not give anyone ur personal information but they have her address to clean her house.😂😂

@Captaiesqueleto 2 ай бұрын

Exactly she should at least have a weapon just in case one of her simps ends up wanting to end her

@duppypixels 2 ай бұрын

Facts, they be all in and out the apartment, they know every room and every window. She’s brave 😂

@shadayviawallace4843 2 ай бұрын

Same!

@nildahernandez9940 2 ай бұрын

Ditto and I promise not to share my personal info, but only in my home 🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️✌️

@sxymiyah21 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing

@KawaiiKandikidPLURR 2 ай бұрын

Not the reparations 😂

@lamekajones6228 2 ай бұрын

That part took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@sjoseph9625 2 ай бұрын

That shit is hilarious

@Pulsonar 2 ай бұрын

Silly mind games, and she’s not really in control, the rich men allow her to humiliate them. But they do have ultimate control and only pretend that they don’t. If both sides are happy with their delusion, let the games continue 😂

@lilyjane1011 2 ай бұрын

😏

@momoe.4075 2 ай бұрын

I mean it's not like she has to do this. Also she has to decide to take them on as a client.

@tiahnarodriguez3809 2 ай бұрын

@@momoe.4075 Yes, but her clients control how she dominates them, and they can decide if they want to continue services with her or not. Like op said, they pay her to pretend to have power over them, but they are the Owen who control it. She’s just the service provider.

@asandiswaphoko5594 2 ай бұрын

😂😂

@CaraJohnson01 Ай бұрын

So a construction company owner is not dominant because he has clients?

@Booolove 2 ай бұрын

Ands shes actually nice, polite, classy and sweet with this!

@warningxdesignedchaosx6256 2 ай бұрын

Mental health is a real issue in todays world

@CraftLulz 2 ай бұрын

Make that money gurl, ain't no body mad but the haters and the broke dusties.

@lilyjane1011 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 👍🏻

@angelaperry5462 2 ай бұрын

She’s not hurting anyone who doesn’t want to be hurt.

@tiffanywilliams5568 2 ай бұрын

Well she is making thoses dudes happy while she is enjoying doing that to them. Why some people get mad for this. They want this so im happy for them.

@noirnoble1181 2 ай бұрын

@tiffanywilliams5568. So gullible, stay in your lil bubble.

@lasfinest3714 2 ай бұрын

They’re just mad because they can’t do it themselves😊

@kakramary 2 ай бұрын

I live in Germany, and unfortunately, I've had countless white men wanting me to control their minds and money. It's sad because they see something dominant and powerful in me that i don't see in myself. I've had a man give his card and pin to spend ot anyhow i wantd and he would beg me to treat him like a trash. I posted his card back to him. I couldn't ever see myself mistreating someone. I guess I'm like that because of growing up in the church, and also my ex-husband was very abusive and treated me badly. It's hard dating because I'm always meeting such guys wanting to pay me to mistreat them. Women who are able to do that have big confidence to manipulate such men and people who havent met such men should understand that this woman is satisfying their sexual fantasies by treating them like that and is getting paid for ot. So its a give and take affair.

@I.am.Ambriel 2 ай бұрын

White men are not the only ones! Google the white woman walking a black man on a leash and asking to be called the N word and to be treated and beaten as a slave!

@EnnVee959 2 ай бұрын

I grew up in abuse and cannot stand the thought of it. Those who find pleasure in these dominant submissive scenarios were never actually abused.

@jparker19822009 2 ай бұрын

She needs to be careful because it s fetish just like some white men like to sleep with black women they don’t see them as women and just want to sleep with them because of their skin color a man’s fetish can change in a heartbeat

@tiahnarodriguez3809 2 ай бұрын

@@EnnVee959 It’s a kink for those people. They get high off of being dominated, shamed, and, embarrassed, so they don’t feel the way people like us do about this type of stuff.

@eriniltongomessoares8790 2 ай бұрын

Treat me like your slave, please!

@Woohchaiell 2 ай бұрын

If people think there isn’t some kind of sex involved, they’re mistaken.

@unknownprofiler5792 2 ай бұрын

But she not the bottom

@i_luv_hecklefish 2 ай бұрын

@@unknownprofiler5792 This! 😂

@venusa4871 2 ай бұрын

You clearly don’t know what FINDOM is..

@kittykat36s 2 ай бұрын

Actually there isn't. Pay pigs. 🐖

@momoe.4075 2 ай бұрын

@@unknownprofiler5792 omggg

@ms.rivera7898 2 ай бұрын

I love Mistress Marley. I have been following her on social media for years.

@user-ng2sc7wi5z 2 ай бұрын

What’s her ig

@ms.rivera7898 2 ай бұрын

@@user-ng2sc7wi5z I actually don’t know. I followed her on Facebook.

@jessicabrand8758 2 ай бұрын

She is working for them, the men are paying her for a service

@jazzg.6771 2 ай бұрын

Exactly.

@orianeasmore8941 2 ай бұрын

What do you mean she is working for them?? Isn't it the other way around?

@letsbefruitful5457 2 ай бұрын

Exactly, but hey 😭

@letsbefruitful5457 2 ай бұрын

@@orianeasmore8941because they are paying for the treatment

@venusa4871 2 ай бұрын

So doms work for subs? Don’t even attempt to change the rules. That’s not how it works.

@kittycats2827 2 ай бұрын

You go girl! Love it. The men who do this really need it and enjoy it. It's kind of deep that they have to pay to just put down the heavy mantle of power and control for just a little while to relax

@tiahnarodriguez3809 2 ай бұрын

How? This is nothing more than a kink, and is not deep at all. There are subs that are in dom-sub relationships, and there are people who think paying is part of the process for their kink.

@beeniebird6632 2 ай бұрын

Girl tell me how I can get started😂

@CloneJC 2 ай бұрын

If it was a man in her position would this be cruel/shameful?

@moutussiacharyya7510 2 ай бұрын

Some are givers in this world and some are takers. Somehow they always manage to drift towards each other. To each his own. This is a weird and wacky world. These men will not act this way with their wives, but are willing to be humiliated by a stranger.

@auntkera 2 ай бұрын

This is called FinDom. And it’s not an easy 1..2..3. It takes a lot of work like anything else to become successful in. They are all willing participants so cheers to them.🥂

@crishnaholmes7730 2 ай бұрын

Did you ever want to try it

@auntkera 2 ай бұрын

@@crishnaholmes7730 Yes, but I always struggled w/ morale. Go figure. I’m a mom and there’s some things I just rather not do. For safety purposes more than anything. When you have a child, nothing is worth risking the possibility of leaving them in my opinion.

@jazzg.6771 2 ай бұрын

Exactly👍

@traceysimmons4913 2 ай бұрын

@@jazzg.6771 Yes but safety is so important with or with out children regardless

@crishnaholmes7730 Ай бұрын

@@auntkera ok

@candaceevans2212 2 ай бұрын

I sure hope she's developed some sort of skill or invested in something in the long run because beauty does fade and life accidents do happen.

@heathab...._-_ 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking this

@OfficialMistressMarley 2 ай бұрын

I have two degrees - bachelors and masters. I’m good. 🎉

@estherphillip Ай бұрын

This is demonic...😢. What you reap you shall sow

@lindseyjohanneson6950 2 ай бұрын

I mean I don't see the issue as long as she is being safe, and these are consensual relationships. Do u girl!❤

@user-cd1eo2rw1s 2 ай бұрын

What website is this I need to join

@crishnaholmes7730 2 ай бұрын

Wondering the same

@jensweetbaby 2 ай бұрын

😂😂And me what the hell!

@jensweetbaby 2 ай бұрын

…. I’m afraid I’m not joking

@Flirtini 2 ай бұрын

Escorting websites duh

@tiffanyjohnson103 2 ай бұрын

She said web caming

@shirleyM8899 2 ай бұрын

This is her way of Hustling, as long as she can make her way! Some men are happy to pay her to be told what to do, maybe these men are higher at their positions at their work and always telling others what to do. This could be a way that helps them balance mentally! 😢

@blackbeauty4001 2 ай бұрын

I'm definitely good at this! Who wants to be controlled by me!?

@HgSilva-mg3ou 2 ай бұрын

I could send you some sarin gas!....

@Phenom_0 Ай бұрын

Hi Queen

@TrishTrends 2 ай бұрын

I love this! I had a man ask me to do this and I didn’t believe him 🤣🤣🤣

@ladytee3814 2 ай бұрын

I absolutely LOVE this! Keep control &get that money girl!

@kimistry9533 2 ай бұрын

Seems exciting😜!! Have fun and please be safe!🎊🎉

@Momo46051 2 ай бұрын

I freaking looooovvveee this! You go girl!!

@moemoney9402 2 ай бұрын

What do you love?

@ShaeDaily 2 ай бұрын

I remember when she went viral! She’s done so much since then! Reparations it is then!

@ninjakittycat6888 Ай бұрын

Girl boss! Get it, girl!

@backyard-things 2 ай бұрын

You’re an inspiration!

@sierrabomer1941 2 ай бұрын

I would love to learn something like this. It would feel so empowered after being so abused and diminished working in prodimitently male work environments

@jazzg.6771 2 ай бұрын

Exactly. I am a dominant female in the german bdsm scene :) i really love to do it and everybody is happy at the end. Of course consent should be always the most important

@Captaiesqueleto 2 ай бұрын

@@jazzg.6771So you would take advantage of a drug addict sounds like how pimps take advantage of weak women who have daddy issues or they don’t have a place to stay or are addicted to crack

@sierrabomer1941 2 ай бұрын

@jazzg.6771 No way! I'm German to. Sprichst du wirklich Deutsch?

@lilyjane1011 2 ай бұрын

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️

@tiahnarodriguez3809 2 ай бұрын

This isn’t something you do to feel empowerment. It’s a kink based job for money. What you’re speaking on is working on your confidence and taking back your power. You’d be better off getting a therapist and working on yourself before you attempt to do something like this cuz seeing others in a sub position could trigger you.

@TysHelpinghands 2 ай бұрын

Listen how do I get started

@crishnaholmes7730 2 ай бұрын

Wondering the same

@debbieanglin715 2 ай бұрын

😂right

@rarepaw9355 2 ай бұрын

Love it. This was my first business and I learned so much about myself and kinks.

@astridediva 2 ай бұрын

I love this . Get the bag gurl ❤❤❤

@Dimechanel 2 ай бұрын

Hey Marley I’ve been following her on KZfaq for a while💕💕💕💕

@YK-mn2nd 2 ай бұрын

I love this

@ADRIENNE-mb6ff 2 ай бұрын

SPRINKLE SPRINKLE ✨✨

@ShizukaRose 2 ай бұрын

Good for her.

@ImJuSTaStatistic 2 ай бұрын

Reparations 😂 😂😂 Thanks. I needed that

@purplemonstereater7553 2 ай бұрын

Good for her❤❤❤

@modernviewer 2 ай бұрын

Matthew 16:26 - What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?

@user-hz4rj4mf6s 2 ай бұрын

You go gurl!

@Peachpocket415 2 ай бұрын

Doesn't seem safe bringing them into her home. I hope she knows how to protect herself❤

@Rachelreese91 2 ай бұрын

Get that money sis❤️

@yawfraser 2 ай бұрын

Crazy world 🤣🤣

@eyebyte Сағат бұрын

Just because someone is older doesn’t mean they don’t get FREAKY!!!

@iChocolateberry 2 ай бұрын

What a dream 😍 ❣️ You go, Marley!

@Netta6038 2 ай бұрын

It’s dangerous these days letting them no wee u live is a no no but do ya thing 😂

@lavibratariana1539 Ай бұрын

This is awesome 🎉

@Mxllz_01 2 ай бұрын

I'm making a reaction vid outta this ASAP..😭

@ALLISMIND 2 ай бұрын

my best student yet lol

@HadizaAtta 2 ай бұрын

Girrrrrl! You go girl! Get that monteyyyyyyyyy

@TheosYeshua 2 ай бұрын

Sista is opening up a door wide enough for Satan 👹 to walk right through. This is a very dangerous game you playing with him. You may not realize it today, however, tomorrow 😢.

@lilyjane1011 2 ай бұрын

Tomorrow she might have multiple properties and a collège education

@venusa4871 2 ай бұрын

Shut up 🙄

@poppypoppyvayvay 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing it! I'm an active model on bongacams and few more camsites, and I will definitely try some if your tips. Most likely it will work 😁

@ridealongdrill 2 ай бұрын

I'm just waiting on the special report of the authorities finding her in a suitcase💼 🎬

@marywatkins9438 11 күн бұрын

Girl, go get your bag! Let these haters keep hating. 💰💵💸

@nicholashayes8373 2 ай бұрын

Nice Video ❤️❤️💕❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@maxineperez3141 2 ай бұрын

Whatttt thats awesome 😮

@MainCapo 2 ай бұрын

I want to learn omg

@Taj-Mahal 2 ай бұрын

Wow!! There's somebody/something for everyone!

@HeauxlisticLux 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful, articulate and classy 👌

@mizzhllywd 2 ай бұрын

This is dangerous. What happens when somebody tries to harm her?

@alexlevingston 2 ай бұрын

And that's why I noticed she said WM, not BM because she would have got more than just harmed.

@TotallyEmmy123 2 ай бұрын

I don’t love this but I respect the hustle

@Marvostips 2 ай бұрын

Very interesting

@tarrica6373 2 ай бұрын

You Go Girl!! Lol 😂🤑

@geraniaceae4470 2 ай бұрын

I obviously chose the wrong profession years ago.

@aceblanks7658 2 ай бұрын

The only thing I don’t like is that she’s so mean about it lol Be nice to these men giving you money 😂😂😂 But I guess they like being talked to spicy like that 😂😂😂

@aquarianrain9082 2 ай бұрын

That's what they want! Lol! She will not get paid if she is nice! 😂

@Anikakayla22 2 ай бұрын

That's what they want I once called one baby by mistake and he unsubscribed and blocked me lol

@aceblanks7658 2 ай бұрын

@@Anikakayla22 lol Not he was mad because you didn’t call him bitch or muthafucka 😂😂😂

@corennakhieu5483 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing, but they like that spice lol 😂😂😂😂🌶🌶🌶

@aceblanks7658 2 ай бұрын

@@Anikakayla22 Whaaaaaat that’s so crazy!!!! It’s some wild as men out there but if you like it I love it lol

@delavago5379 2 ай бұрын

Lmaoooooooo i cant right now

@2590az1 2 ай бұрын

Right 🤝👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾✌🏾💕💕🙌🏾🥰🤞🏾🤞🏾

@marian8772 Ай бұрын

Lmao “I own your wallet as you know” 💀😭

@aprilcalderon2150 2 ай бұрын

🎉Epic

@Ariesgvd 2 ай бұрын

Reparations lmao

@lovelylady5313 2 ай бұрын

I can see the psychological aspect of why men would want to submit to a woman. Men are expected to be strong, protectors, providers, and leaders. Not only do they get to experience the opposite, they also get to provide that coin all in one. Makes sense to me 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

@hygytyhu9729 Ай бұрын

Low testosterone lvls

@miekaxiii 2 ай бұрын

This is the thing, I have onlyfans and this is SOOO COMMON! this is why I say don’t let the internet fool you. A lot of men like things they do not speak about on KZfaq 😂

@Cozy_Night_ 2 ай бұрын

SLAYYYYY❤❤❤❤❤MY QUEEN

@SweetSpicyStehanie 2 ай бұрын

God, my new found hobby, i really want to be a dom

@amberholland5561 2 ай бұрын

Heck yes!!!!!!!!

@theladykaybee 2 ай бұрын

I want this. Very nice, get your money!

@cirej25 2 ай бұрын

Fascinating. 😈

@Safiya_99. 2 ай бұрын

Well, where do I sign up for this job😂 it's so good to be true 😏

@sweets20062107 13 күн бұрын

I need more details 👀👀👀🤣🤣

@Shoe707 2 ай бұрын

as a finDomme myself this is definitely better than other "Dommes" I saw online, but I'd never involve people from the outside in my relationships with my sub. Doing all that in a consensual relationship is all good, just think of other people who might be affected from your actions.