Men STRUGGLE With Finding The Right Women For THESE 5 Reasons
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Күн бұрынMen STRUGGLE With Finding The Right Women For THESE 5 Reasons... In this dating advice video, I will discuss why men struggle with finding the right woman. Societal expectations often pressure men to conform to specific ideas, which may be one of the reasons why men struggle with finding the right woman. Take heed to this relationship advice for men to learn why men struggle with finding the right woman.
The quest for perfection and the fear of settling can lead to indecisiveness and difficulty committing to a long-term relationship, making men struggle to find the right woman. The overwhelming number of choices and distractions in the modern dating landscape can make it harder for men to focus on genuine compatibility, adding to the struggle of men finding the right women. Pay attention to this dating advice to understand women and learn why men struggle with finding women.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you can enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
I pray that you receive the peace and love you deserve ❤ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉 www.loveafterheartbreak.com. This book will lead you to find peace and happiness in your life.
@tammiebennett4632 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephan you ar a good man . I would call all this common sense. Right. Read the Bible it is what we suppose to learn from . Amen.
@tammiebennett4632 9 ай бұрын
Learn how to read people you will see them turn on you in there eyes you see there heart. And people and trying to survive. I see the fear in there soul.
@tammiebennett4632 9 ай бұрын
Just saying . My opinion opinion no body has to agree. There are 3 ways to every thing. 1. My way 2. Your way 3. The right way.
@marisolrivera5255 9 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊 💓
@tracywright1640 10 ай бұрын
A lot of men aren't ready for a good woman
@lukas4016 10 ай бұрын
A lot of women aren't ready for a good men... What was the point of your comment?
@maxallen5510 9 ай бұрын
What makes you think you are a good woman?
@AJ-kb9hf 9 ай бұрын
This is absolutely right. They mess it up when they meet an authentic woman and yet carry on with a toxic one because that is more comfortable for them.
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
@@maxallen5510Where did she say she was a good woman??? 😂😂😂 Geezus!
@VanishLikeaDream 9 ай бұрын
Im a man. You’re right. I’m not going to let it damage my ego or anything. What you said was true. Us men have things to work on, and guess what? That’s perfectly fine. As long as we’re moving forward
@JC-sw6qn 10 ай бұрын
Yes. Don't sell the fantasy to her if she s not the one. Dont let it drag. But before that,more importantly, do not awaken love before it's time
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@tabathadavis2917 9 ай бұрын
Don't awaken love before it's time is biblical can you clarify what it means?
@joelanturk6280 9 ай бұрын
Amen 💜✝️💜
@tamitatangoto5134 4 ай бұрын
@@tabathadavis2917The verse is in the song of Solomon. Do not awaken love before there's time for it. Do not push the person to Fall in Love with you. Let it be natural. And if you genuinely love them do not put sex before a marriage with them.🎉❤🎉❤
@tabathadavis2917 4 ай бұрын
@tamitatangoto5134 thank you for the wonderful explanation.
@nicoleevaherbst7306 9 ай бұрын
One of the few male content creator channels that is emotionally intelligent and has a greater understanding of relationship dynamics and and wisdom to boot! I agree with what you are saying, you actually know what you're talking about! Men & women: listen to his message 🙏🏻
@sunflowersandsand 9 ай бұрын
My ex lost me. He claimed to love me and said he wanted to marry me, but he had a wandering eye online and offline plus I discovered he was overcoming a corn addiction. He would find girls online through random carnival pages and follow them because he thought they were beautiful. Bear in mind these pages are full of half naked women in their carnival costumes. The worst part was that he didn't think there was anything wrong with what he was doing. Some of these men think they're marriage material but they're not because they lack integrity and are literally fighting demons. Plus they have unhealed trauma and don't even realize it half the time.
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
Good thing you freed yourself. I dated a man like that as well. Follows over 7k broads on IG, always watching porn and had a wondering eye. Now ain’t nothing wrong with noticing somebody (I do as well) but it’s another thing to feel like you gotta get a eye full of every woman you see. Lack of self control is a turn off.
@roxy5344 9 ай бұрын
Sounds like a West Indian man. Went through something similar. Doesnt matter whether you give them sex or not, they still do it. Dont make no sense putting yourself through physical hurt and pain because you get no loyalty from them when you do it. Let me tell you this my dear that no one else will tell you because they dont seek to find the truth. The Lord God says that if a man has a wife and even LOOKS at another woman in lust, it is a grave sin that he must repent from. So dont let no other man come and fool you or tell you different. When married this is a sin and if a man wants to marry you, he has no interest to even fix his eyes elsewhere. God bless you and I hope you find love because its a nasty dating pool out here.
@brownshugakale2410 9 ай бұрын
@@roxy5344and when you have this mindset which is that of Christ, he will try to say "I'm not perfect or holier than thou".... To justify and validate their behavior. Healing, counseling, therapy, and coaching is necessary, continuously in marriage
@roxy5344 9 ай бұрын
@@brownshugakale2410 yes yes and yes. Christ said, that He is the model for all husbands to follow..and He said that if they are not a good husband to their wife, they have no place in the kingdom of God. My dear there is a book named, The Sealed Portion; The Final Testament of Jesus Christ. This book was translated by the Urim and Thummin; not by men. And this book says that if it werent for the matter of creation, God would rid of all the men and keep every woman. He said it is an abomination for a man to have more than one wife. Sister, please read this book, so you can know the truth about how God upholds women. God even praises Eternal Mothers in Heaven. Dont ever let these men with their podcast equipment tell you or any other woman different. When you follow Yeshua, have the Holy Spirit and pray for wisdom....I promise He cancels out every lie from every mouth to lead you to the grueling truth that society isnt ready for.
@wgnwBash 5 ай бұрын
Facts. I pick a crazy jawn and now I’m dealin wit the punishment. Be patient fellas and ask questions and make sure shit fit what u got goin on. Heal heal heal. God Therapy and Discipline.
@josesaldana7807 10 ай бұрын
You can only gain perspective from the internet if you seek truth and come across genuine souls like yourself. May god continue to empower you to speak the truth so men like us can make the appropriate adjustments in how we seek connections in life. Thanks for your message my brotha 💪🏼
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that!
@audreybuchman1972 10 ай бұрын
IF, a "MAN" is truly interested IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP (he) WILL TAKE TIME to really know himself & WHAT he needs IN LIFE. HIS FAITH, DESIRES, GOALS, income level, ETC.....BEFORE he tries to get involved WITH a woman.
@Florida_gyrl 9 ай бұрын
AMEN! I have always seen things this way! I frequently run into men that say “I struggle to pay my bills” or “I need to get my life together.” It’s an immediate and huge turn off. Why doesn’t he get his life together prior to looking for a woman to date? Doesn’t make any sense! Their priorities are out of order.
@darksideofthebright4284 4 ай бұрын
And he will acknowledge, change and transform what was wrong with him in, heal traumas and become himself what women he want to attract.
@susanakaan810 9 ай бұрын
Yes when you are not in tune with your spirit you can choose the wrong person (applies to both men and women)
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@frankaaknight3699 10 ай бұрын
I loved every pointer but the last one. When we fall in love with God and acknowledge him in all our ways he guides all of us, men and women. Yesss the distractions but I pray that Jesus helps us all to choose according to his will. You would meet someone and you're thinking, "oh he's on point," but the Holy Spirit be like 'no' and not only that the Spirit of God allows us to see the red flags. If most of us could just see 15yrs down the road we'd run and that's the thing God sees way down the road....why not let him be a major part of who we choose and how we choose.
@brownshugakale2410 9 ай бұрын
Amen
@scrambleeggs713 9 ай бұрын
Bro thank you for this , I really needed some advice like this. I’ve been dating a girl for two 4 months and in the beginning it was all good but now I haven’t been feeling myself lately and I’ve noticed I have more stress when meeting with her. This video helped me understand that she is not the one for me and I need to have a conversation with her that we’re not meant to be. Hopefully we can just be good friends.
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
Do the right thing, bro. ✊🏽
@sophias9396 9 ай бұрын
LOL, right, good friends...such ignorant perspective is what put you in this situation in the first place.
@brianbachmeier34 10 ай бұрын
Don't give up men.
@spidermanb1286 9 ай бұрын
Sorry I did lmao dating ain't for me I rather pay for it
@cecilialeung3875 10 ай бұрын
Because men always prioritize looks… often the right women won’t be a 10. Men will settle with a 7 but will always chase a 10
@lukas4016 10 ай бұрын
That isn't entirely true. I guess you don't understand men if you say that. Is the look important! Of course it is, as it is important for women. But that's not the full story. Men prioritize looks only when they view you only as one night stand (not as potential wife). What can you do to show the world that you could be a potential wife? In which way do you demonstrate feminine energy?
@mca217 10 ай бұрын
Your statement doesn't only apply to men today. Society in general doesn't value the content of someone's character anymore. Men and women get too caught up in looks.
@sashacollins1031 9 ай бұрын
@@lukas4016so do you feel as if a lot of attractive women get overlooked as “wife material” because of what you said ? Because I’m sure there’s alot of attractive women who are good women as well
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
Yep! It’s their ego! The better looking woman he has, the better he feels about himself and the image he presents to his friends, family and society.
@livingabundantly362 9 ай бұрын
I’ve seen this often! Most of my college homeboys have married average women, sweet and good natured but bland yet they lurk on all of the IG fitness model pages that I follow. I’m looking for tips…they are looking for tricks😅. Men don’t like average looking women they just settle at some point for them. I said what I said🤷🏾♀️
@racheljensen938 10 ай бұрын
I love that you make these for men also. I wish my boyfriend would listen to you. I pray for him. I hope he prays for the guidance we need as a family unit.
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤ 🙏
@MzBrOdUs18 9 ай бұрын
Stephen is doing Gods work for the men & women of today. We need balance. We need healthy two sided advice.
@tanyaflanders2196 10 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you for saying this Steohan. So many men rarely date They have few dating experiences. Then they consume information on social media and think it's real life. Get a life you guys......
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@Danny328DT 9 ай бұрын
Many women go on social media so it definitely carries over irl. Of course some things are exaggerated, but there is some truth to it. I can't tell you how many times I walk around with young women dress half naked or always on their cellphones. Let's be honest a lot of women are making it difficult to be approached. It doesn't help that a bunch of men get told they're creeps when they even show any bit of interest. Unless she approaches you first, a man is gonna just move past it to further his own life. I'm not saying men should ignore every woman. If you have good chemistry, then shoot your shot. If not, well there's nothing wrong running solo until you find a woman who is mature enough to know what she wants.
@BQ900 9 ай бұрын
When I met my husband, I was turned off by his blunt cards in the table conversation. He had to accept that I was not going to conform to his expectations. Now I see it’s a really good way to communicate in marriage. Now we are trying to fix up our friends and relatives.
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@Florida_gyrl 9 ай бұрын
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and honestly as a society we teach men to suppress their feelings and to act “tough”. A lot of men do not want to talk about emotions just because this is not how they are brought up. I have seen in my practice that boys and adult men struggle with opening up about feelings and do a lot of stuffing as opposed to talking about it. I have met men personally myself that you can tell they have a lot of suppression of emotions or they are just unhealthy people to have in your life as a woman. I also agree with Stephan that sometimes men will focus on a woman’s beauty instead of focusing on who she is inside and how she is treating him. Looks change but most of the time the person inside does not. I would much rather a guy get to know me on a personal level than keep things superficial. I feel like if he isn’t open to getting to know me more and I can’t get to know him more a real long lasting healthy fulfilling relationship cannot happen. Someone who really truly likes you is curious about you and is not shy to ask you as many questions as possible to get to know you on a deeper level.
@Nopenottoday2480 9 ай бұрын
I don't think,it is that much nova days,about men suppressing they emotions,in most cases I believe because men's big ego,they don't want to hurt.
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
The moment a man only talks about my physical appearance I cut em off! This bomb ass funny personality and you talking about how I look! FOH!!! 😂
@Florida_gyrl 9 ай бұрын
@@staceywilliams1863 Agreed! I have met too many men that only like my body but the person inside isn’t important at all. It’s annoying!
@rodolfozepeda4926 9 ай бұрын
You're a bad therapist who doesn't understand men. Stop comparing men to women. Men are naturally not emotional. We don't have as much estrogen as women.
@Luk-ne2wb 18 күн бұрын
@@staceywilliams1863 You are being superficial if make a decision based on 1 specific thing
@journeysthroughtime1632 9 ай бұрын
Great content! Thank you!
@Darltk 9 ай бұрын
Getting in tune with your spirit, holding on to whats not for you, healing. Love it. Good stuff!
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@slg9095 4 ай бұрын
I'm quite willing to accept I haven't healed from something as I'm far to emotional & it's ruining my chances with women! As soon as they show proper interest, I get too attached which leads to months of pain when it's not reciprocated. But the question is, what do I heal from & where do I start? I'm only just finding out there might be a childhood trauma to blame for all this! Another great video BTW!
@StephanSpeaksforMen 4 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@aeiou0123 4 ай бұрын
Think about your triggers. What gets you emotional? Why cant it be controlled in favor of more patience to think through things first before you react? Why do you think you should be emotional about something/words/actions you experience? Did you misunderstand what was done?
@Luk-ne2wb 18 күн бұрын
I felt like this when I was scared of being alone. Now, I'm way more scared of being with a broken women then alone
@joser_1295 16 күн бұрын
@@Luk-ne2wb This just happened to me. She was completely broken and I saved her life from suicide and depression. She pushed me away because she wasn’t used to my love. I used to be afraid of being alone but not so much. The pain I experienced being with two broken women back to back was when I said I’d rather be alone than deal with damaged women. I’m gonna be extra picky with finding my next girl.
@Empress-star 9 ай бұрын
In tune with the spirit v's logic.. You described my encounter with a man that wasn't but needed that element.💚💚💚
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 9 ай бұрын
Great Video Stephan!!😊
@kennethlawen8092 10 ай бұрын
True
@Jesuslover296 9 ай бұрын
Good info here! Thx. Need to share w my daughter.
@davidseera3044 10 ай бұрын
Well said❤I couldn't agree more
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 9 ай бұрын
Great books!! I love your books!!!
@ronaldmahoney1283 10 ай бұрын
Amen brother! Everything you have said not only sounds good but really works! I knew from the beginning our spirits were connected and I could"nt stop listening to you! Thank You so much! God bless you!
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you, and may God bless you as well 🙏
@user-vw9hr9eo4x 9 ай бұрын
Wow this message is really deep. It was food for thought.
@willarmendariz7663 9 ай бұрын
Here are the real 5 reasons. 1. Your standards in life are low. 2. Your standards in life are low. 3. Your standards in life are low. 4. Your standards in life are low. 5. Your standards in life are low. Bonus tip: If you know more about how your car works than how a woman's mind works, it means your standards are low.
@BQ900 9 ай бұрын
Great advice!!❤
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@jowurani 10 ай бұрын
Wowwww what a powerful word Stephan all the 5 points were amazing but point 5 about listening and moving with the direction of the spirit was very good many thanks Stephan
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@thechamp73 3 ай бұрын
You have no idea how much this helps! Thank you
@jakehargett7721 10 ай бұрын
This is your best video yet. It really resonates with what I’ve been working towards.
@fitz2523 9 ай бұрын
Congratulations please keep working 🎊
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
I appreciate that 🙏
@StevenJGMedia 10 ай бұрын
Great content as always
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@gugulethu4155 9 ай бұрын
I love your content..thank you for your wise and consistency in sharing the reality of relationships..
@kenaanthony27 9 ай бұрын
Love this💕
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@nicolemaxey5801 9 ай бұрын
Hey Stephan. This was a really good video.
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@EricMHowardII-yh1rn 9 ай бұрын
True Love goes both ways in an relationship that provides real heartfelt purpose in connection to any two people . Love and Tender affection work well together . ❤
@marisolrivera5255 9 ай бұрын
One has to be aware of selff heal before a man decides if the is the one. Many times they sell dreams open the heart and realize she is not the one . never awaken the love and committment . ❤ love this ❤thanks for sharing great advice
@barbaralee9995 9 ай бұрын
So tactful and encouraging to the men in such a calm manner.
@DeanJohnson-jh8sk 9 ай бұрын
How are you doing today? You have one of the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen and an interesting profile. I went through your Facebook pictures and it really caught my heart, I hope my message doesn’t appear as any form of privacy invasion. You seem like a simple, nice and kind woman, and I would like to have you as a friend. I tried sending you a request but it never went through. I’d love to talk to you and probably get to know more about you . I’d appreciate if you could try sending me a request if you don’t mind. I Will be looking forward to getting a feedback. Thanks!
@thehitmaster102 10 ай бұрын
Very important information here i know your Amazing in all the ways😂😂
@user-fh1tr9zp3l 8 ай бұрын
Free advice here MEN First understand your real self and inner being Then you will be able to identify a good woman Engage with the LORD definately a WIN WIN
@StephanSpeaksforMen 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@vitkomusic6624 3 ай бұрын
My man. Subscribed you instantly. You should go full on. Nowerdays its echo chambers everywhere.
@hiphopmusic2470 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this advice your helping men all across the world people have to realize before god bless you with something you really want he needs to see if your really ready to receive that blessing . That’s just how the universe works
@Synygy_ Ай бұрын
Compromising theses simple red flags can really cause a storm ⛈️!! DEAR LORD. I PRAY WHO READS THIS COMMENT APPRECIATE THE SIMPLEST THINGS IN LIFE INCLUDING MYSELF .
@StephanSpeaksforMen Ай бұрын
🙏 ❤️
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 9 ай бұрын
Fear is blinding, abandonment issues, lust, fantasy, etc.
@alchemicalsoul 9 ай бұрын
💯
@mca217 10 ай бұрын
You need to go into more depth about how to find what that one thing is and how to tap into that one thing because Lord knows young men aren't learning it from their elders. A big reason why so many men are having trouble meeting and marrying the woman God has for them is because a lot of boys grow up either receiving awful advice from the men in their family or literally no advice at all.
@turbo1997hsm Ай бұрын
I've seen so many men get cheated on, it's hard for me to believe there are a lot of decent women out there.
@michellemmarquez5519 9 ай бұрын
Hello! I hope you are well. Can you have a discussion about Haitian men and their reputation can you talk about why a lot of them lie, cheat, mistreat women as a whole? I'm not saying all but they do have a bad reputation of doing so. Should a woman considered dating a Haitian men at all and the signs of whether he is a good one or a bad one.?
@fantasiaroberts5157 3 ай бұрын
Amen Amen Amen! 🙏🏽💚💚🙌🏾
@Abrahams88 10 ай бұрын
If there's one person who knows its stephen. I been putting the work in physically, mentally, and emotionally & I notice the bare minimum dudes still get the girls
@vanda3393 9 ай бұрын
I want a man that can take care of him self and also take care of me he dont have to me rich
@larrywood9014 3 ай бұрын
I just got lucky I guess. My wife is soooo wonderful!!! I do think the fact I married a Jamaican woman makes a huge difference. I love her attitude. She’s not entitled like a lot of American women.
@Mjones4949 9 ай бұрын
Yeah usually money.
@devonnabooker5206 9 ай бұрын
Visa Versa
@adj5767 9 ай бұрын
Good perspectives O physician. When will you heal thyself and find a wife??
@nkaujhmoobthoj2943 10 ай бұрын
Hi, I just start to watch you video and know you Channel. I am a relationship and I am so stress out. I need your opinion. I met this guy and his wife left him with a 6 month old baby. I knew him from a friend. I been help him babysit, so he can go work. After 3 months he ask me out. We start to date and than his ex is back. We meet at his place and his ex was mad at me. I decided to let him go. We haven't talk for two years and now his back and asking me to move in with him. ? Please every I need your guys opinions.
@tennilleedmond1344 10 ай бұрын
No ma'am
@cxassi 10 ай бұрын
I’m no expert but his situation sounds messy. I’d protect your peace and tell him to respectfully leave you alone. You did two years without him, doesn’t sound worth taking on his drama
@tennilleedmond1344 10 ай бұрын
@@cxassi thank you for taking the time to spell this out. I just didn't even have the strength at that time
@lukas4016 10 ай бұрын
Have you asked your intuition what should you do?
@mildredwasike2802 9 ай бұрын
How do you feel about the whole situation ?
@newtonsoledji411 9 ай бұрын
How do you heal.because i want to.i believe i am holding on to alot and i dont know how to heal from them
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
I pray that you receive the peace and love you deserve ❤️ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉 www.loveafterheartbreak.com. This book will lead you to find peace and happiness in your life.
@jamesroberts7115 9 ай бұрын
I not in dating market anymore because I haven’t heal my trauma with women yet
@theresavalour 9 ай бұрын
❤
@sophias9396 9 ай бұрын
Men’s self-importance and egotism are staggering. Instead of looking for the faults with other look for ways to improve yourself. There is a reason only 10% of men 25-30 yo are in a relationship...while 90% of women same age are. Think about it.
@joyricherson4570 9 ай бұрын
Plug n play 😂
@joyricherson4570 9 ай бұрын
Sometimes ahe isn't into in the beginning but does get into jim when her guard goes down
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 9 ай бұрын
Yes, men and women need to heal. So true. Major!!! Get therapy.😊
@Kano-ln3yb 10 ай бұрын
Best choice is chose yourself and serve your maker let women take your seed and spend you paychecks
@darksideofthebright4284 4 ай бұрын
No offence to anyone, but Gents - don't chase from neediness, attract and don't settle for less. Have them standards and have them clearly articulate. Women respect men with strong values, even though she might not be the one or not reciprocate your interest. Just this itself position you in higher rank.
@God-Love-Freedom 9 ай бұрын
What is the lifestyle of this guy? Does his life align with his advice and words?
@tiffanyyisrael7989 10 ай бұрын
Liiiiies!! It's not hard for men to find good women at all! They mess over the good women, that's the real issue. Come on Stephan, keep it real! 🥴
@sassykat2000 10 ай бұрын
Perhaps you've overlooked there's bad women out there messing over good men too.
@lukas4016 10 ай бұрын
It's really hard because most women don't know what they want in their lives. Besides, there are tons of men who are so lonely that they are actually paying someone just to talk to them on how was the day going. They have noone and noone cares about them. They drink or play video games to fullfill the emptiness of their lives. Have you talked to someone like that? If yes, ask them how easy for them is to meet a good woman. If no... you know what to do 😊
@bkkersey93 9 ай бұрын
No babbling fool, you get real. It's hard to find good women, not the other way around.
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
@@lukas4016Paying women to ask them how there day was??? Where are they??? 😂😂😂
@Christian900 9 ай бұрын
Internet brain washes your view of women Especially pornography
@elaineweaver12 9 ай бұрын
You have a great gift of teaching and reaching people, have you ever considered being a pastor and serving Jesus Christ? 🤔☺️
@arleighsky7549 10 ай бұрын
As a lady I would most likely not enter a relationship with a "six figure man." I'd rather us have the time to create intimacy than the means to provide lavish gifts.
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@nixbagoo 9 ай бұрын
Hmmmm📌 Fit VS Connection: “Connection” CONFIRMS God’s will & “Understanding” CONVICTS or discerns God’s spirit🪬💎🗣️ One cannot understand withOUT 2-way convo (to clarify) vs opinions (self + others) & assumptions📌 … 🎙️Sometimes ppl doh even know what dey haven’t heal from (common sense is ONLY common to those who NOA) and thus, can project their own fears onto another as their own shadow called their ‘rationale’ as to said: non-fit… without even knowing their self sabotaging! F👀D4💭
@sandyM968 9 ай бұрын
I'm sure some mature man would love to marry me the problem is i never go out except for necessities so there's no way he'll know i exist
@RadicalChristian777 9 ай бұрын
And you probably overlooking guys that aren’t necessarily in your field of view that like you & are potentially good for you.
@joyricherson4570 9 ай бұрын
That's why I don't believe in casual or multiple dating.... concentrate on me!
@gabrielnadia1085 10 ай бұрын
Please men, all we women want is honestly love, effort, time investment from you. Do what you say, be dependable and disciplined. Be ready to communicate with details. Don't fool yourself fooling a good woman. We take you with great joy.😊 Peace to you all in your relationships.
@mca217 10 ай бұрын
The problem is that women want that from the man who checks all of their boxes. No one is perfect, but imperfect people are seeking perfect people. Introverts who are willing to do those things you mentioned are constantly overlooked. Society uses the reasoning that "men are the hunters," so introverts are deemed inadequate. Society doesn't value the character of a person anymore. Genuine people are passed over every day by both genders.
@lukas4016 10 ай бұрын
No, not all the women want love. Not even the majority. Strong majority of women want things like: complements, validation, constant confirmation of her beauty (as if I was her therapist), money, gifts, easy life without any effort from her side. Obviously there are multiple great women as well as there are multiple great men. But it's becoming more and more difficult to find each other
@gabrielnadia1085 9 ай бұрын
@@lukas4016 I really think that "women" you are refering to are only girls in reality... I repeat: we, women... want you, men! No childsplay kindergarten behaviors from both parts allowed here. Focus on the voice of GOD, you will find your wife very soon, if not yet.
@nunya5270 9 ай бұрын
💯❤❤❤
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
Stop wasting your time! They’re insufferable! 😂😂😂
@jaybrown7811 9 ай бұрын
Bruh
@vitkomusic6624 3 ай бұрын
Actually i dipped out. My headache feom manosphere that taught me a lot how to choose wisely 😁 there's are a lot of cream goblers out there. I would say that right woman is about 4% of population. So 96 out of 100 are wrong women. Its gonna be a tough journey kings 😁
@MZANN365 10 ай бұрын
Where are these evolved men at? That’s having a hard time finding an evolved Woman? I wanna know 😂 I need to meet them to help them out… Cause we out here ✋🏾✋🏾✋🏾 Not sure exactly where these men are looking but we’re here ✋🏾 Hello 👋🏾 😂
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
They are out there. I would suggest going to new areas and trying new things to see if that helps 🙏
@DeanJohnson-jh8sk 9 ай бұрын
How are you doing today? You have one of the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen and an interesting profile. I went through your Facebook pictures and it really caught my heart, I hope my message doesn’t appear as any form of privacy invasion. You seem like a simple, nice and kind woman, and I would like to have you as a friend. I tried sending you a request but it never went through. I’d love to talk to you and probably get to know more about you . I’d appreciate if you could try sending me a request if you don’t mind. I Will be looking forward to getting a feedback. Thanks!
@BlackCatholicGirl 9 ай бұрын
Iam a amazing woman no kids 32 waiting for a kingdom man ..
@whiteprisms3123 9 ай бұрын
Amen, best of luck! 🙏☺️
@BlackCatholicGirl 9 ай бұрын
@@whiteprisms3123 thanks
@aferg76 9 ай бұрын
He ain’t coming sis. Not in 2023
@BlackCatholicGirl 9 ай бұрын
@@aferg76 lol why
@1Maddd2mackxxx 9 ай бұрын
A LOT OF TIMES HOW YOU WANT YOUR STATUS TO BE PERCEIVED IN SOCIAL CIRCLES AND TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH THE JONESES WILL GET YOU IN A LOT OF TROUBLE IN THE LONG RUN I realized that a long time ago and stopped trying to find a woman and just did me and said forget it. In other words, I went about my purpose. All men wasn't created to get in a relationship or have kids and get married. So I'm fine with that and to this day I never had alimony. Never had child support and I watched all my friends go through that hell and I'm glad I didn't make that leap across the threshold Lmmfaoooo 😆😆😆😆😆
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
Correct! I personally don’t want to get married. I prefer a life long companion. Nothing is wrong with being a single childless man. 🤷🏽♀️
@1Maddd2mackxxx 9 ай бұрын
@@staceywilliams1863 Facts What counts is how comfortable you are with living your life the way you want to live it not the way others. see you living it Because you are the person that has to live with yourself Lmmfaoooo 😆😆😆😆😆😆
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
@@1Maddd2mackxxx Right! You are the only person who has to live YOUR life! Do what suits you!
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 9 ай бұрын
Let God help you choose, then He will confirm. Fellas be alone until God introduces you to your wife.
@demarcomendes 9 ай бұрын
Women out here are delusional!!!
@Touchedmymouthministriesint 9 ай бұрын
Cumulative
@viclyons2355 Ай бұрын
It appears that our Black Ladies have chosen to follow the white (European) model of success and family, now they rather have female-0n-female relationships. Whatever happen to building family or companionships, why have the ladies not elected to learn how to be a Woman, not some eye candy, so fake hair, nails, eye lashes, butts, breast; or the opposite they want some one to take care of them, as they think the sex is their gift of god and gift to a Man. It appears that two people work best if each give 100% of their best, not 50-50%. I once heard a Pastor say his Marriage works, because no matter what!!! This healing thing that the fellows are talking about is a sissy way out. Fellows learn how to be a Man. Stop blaming daddy, or that Mom can't raise a Man. Our Father, who is our creator, male and female, know thyself and who creates you. That one will show you how to be your best. Thanks Stephan for reaching out to the mass. Ok, she broke your heart, shake it off and move on, there sea has so many fish, understand who you are and what you need.
@Vlad-kl7lj 2 ай бұрын
This is awesome, except for the fact he talks about his bitches in the clubs. We don't do that
@dianedorney5147 9 ай бұрын
There's a special app for women to find sugar daddy's on line....they should try it...oh but make sure you comb your hair and have your teeth fixed and lose 100 lbs....
@PS-xb9hc 9 ай бұрын
Men can be dummies when it comes to dating. I got cut off based on....interactions socially....not even going on a real date. Come on!!!!💩💀 he deserves the past breakup!😂unrealistic behavior.
@tctback 9 ай бұрын
6feet 6figures 6 pack
@adilkabani4492 10 ай бұрын
Everyone will be issued a philipina wife moving forward. Can i get an Amen.
@LovelyVibrations 9 ай бұрын
As if that will be the cure for your toxicity smh. Go for it and I will pray for her sanity dude!
@Wonderwoman79G 9 ай бұрын
Please find her and let the other men have a free choice.Maybe these men want to meet their wife or partner in the US.
@kayjeffs3741 9 ай бұрын
With no introspection...they'll get tired of your mess too. Women are women everywhere.
@amiewoodson5854 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@paulinewilliams9445 9 ай бұрын
A lot of these men young middle age, and old do not want a good woman because they are oars, they cheat, they lie, and they also scam you omg then they have the guts to tell you when they get caught that you are crazy this man is a narracissti he needs to get healing before he goes into another relationship but he is going to because he thinks it's always about him sick bastard he is a scared man child home boy 😅😅😅😅😅😅
@StephanSpeaksforMen 9 ай бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@staceywilliams1863 9 ай бұрын
They want good women w/o being good men. That’s where the problem will always lie.
@perryjjma 7 ай бұрын
Quit with the psychology bullshit you can spend your whole life trying to find the right woman find a woman that you can get along with and go for it. If it doesn’t work out, dump her ass and move on it’s a simple as that.
@mejhon6592 9 ай бұрын
Men want pretty girls that are submissive.
@youngeast5309 9 ай бұрын
Says the man without a wedding ring...🤷♂️ too easy
@user-fh1tr9zp3l 8 ай бұрын
A weeding ring does not qualify you as a married man it's just a material possession You may be stunned to realize that most men who profess to be married are not really worth it Food for thought
@youngeast5309 8 ай бұрын
@@mischaraine1645 a therapist that had depression before is in a WAY better postion to help a depressed person. Same with the doc....This GUY dont even practice his own methods..and yall just gullible as hell..
@tctback 9 ай бұрын
666 sounds and is the devil
@Emptytopfloor 4 ай бұрын
This is easy. It’s because they ain’t the right men 😂
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