yup

Assalamu Alaikum, My 1 question, Brother r u a Pakistani or from the same region?

Ameen

yep I'm a Muslim living in Denmark and man let tell you its not easy. wherever you look you find beautiful girls but thank god i have awareness of this Fitnah so i always try to look away

As a woman I will never understand the mind of men. I live in western country and have no temptations of any sort. Anyway ,sure ,ALLAH SWT made us different. May ALLAH protect you and guide you for the best. Ameen.

@@HelpQasimFirst I didn't know that and actually it is a bit scary . And might be very tiring for a man ,too. I think. Cos of overstimulation. Like this is hard to go to school ,to go to university ,to go to work or even to supermarket or walking on the street ! If it is like you say....that any woman can cause this...life must be hard. And ..at this point ...even being faithful in marriage must be hard. .unless yes ..you live in Saudi Arabia where women all are in black abaya...

Indeed. Pray 5 times a day to keep the Fitnah away.

That’s what me and my mum do

Yeah, that's what I do as well

Wow. I did that the other day while cycling and walking around the shops. Will continue. I’m still learning what’s appropriate to do.

@Muhammad Biba That's good Islamic stuff to keep in mind. But also have humanity. Think about how uncomfortable females feel, when they're being stared down. Imagine a random guy, (even elderly guys), staring at you for hours. Regardless of what you're wearing. This is what all females, from all faiths, cultural backgrounds and ages deal with. Many women have told me that they started getting unwanted attention by men, by the tender the age of 7...While walking alongside their parents. Wallahi. 😑

@@MelaninMagdalene Keep it up, when you make it a habit it brings you closer to Allah and Allah makes it easy for you to stay away from sin. May Allah guide us all.

Thank you

Ameen!

Ameen rabil alameen

Ameen

آمين

Its okay man. You can do it. Just try to watch one video about not praying.

I too struggle like u. I often cry to Allah to help me with this laziness. May Allah help us and grant us mercy.

Watch a video about hellfire and grave. You'll never feel lazy again.

I was like this. All you have to do is try because some people say that it’s bad to pray sometimes and stop but I think it’s good. I started out with praying once a week or once a month. I would forget to pray but I suddenly started to pray. I would miss prayers and that made me stop but I never missed Isha or prayed Isha before I slept. If it was 3 Am or I slept at 4 Am I would pray tahajjud and ask Allah to forgive me for not praying. I would always pray Isha because I didn’t want to end up not waking up in the morning and going to Allah while I didn’t pray. I was scared of that so I always prayed Isha due to guilt and fear of meeting Allah in that state. Just start out with praying Isha and fajr. Don’t give up because Allah will always see that your trying and reward you for that

@@chaeun-woon8405 mashallah thank you for this 🙏🏽

One of the oldest Masjids in the world is in China. How is it that China has a long history of decent relationships with Muslims up until the west has a issue with China?

Yeah right, it should be talked about more and more. :(

Aameen YAA REHMAAN

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When I confronted my husband about it he said it’s not any of my business and he can have more than one wife!! 😂 idc anymore!! Even I told his mom and dad but they made me the bad one !! Astaghfirulloh!! Trying to get out of this marriage there is no Islam or justice in this marriage. Pray for my!! Try to stay as strong as I can every time he comes home and talked about the women he met and flirted with.

@ابو أسلم البربري looking for shelters to go but are having hard time to find a good place that can help me to get independent and I have 2 small kids!! If I had somewhere to go I would have left long time ago! He makes fun of me and does all horrible stuff because he knows I have no one to come for me.😞 if anyone can help I wouldn’t say no!! Live in California

@Melancholic Smiles thank you sister❤️ Sometimes acting crazy and ignore his words is easier for me !! So I just talked along with him and ask questions like was she pretty, what did she say then and bla bla. I have cried too much over this man! Have lost myself inside me.

@Melancholic Smiles we didn’t know there family until they found us so we saw them only 2 times before marriage. So I literally got married to a stranger

Aamiin ya rabbal alamin

May there be more chaste men like you brother aameen aameen ya RabbulAlameen

As Muslims, we believe in the punishment of the grave. There are many narrations which verify its authenticity. One such narration is: The Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Seek Allaah's protection from the Punishment of the Grave, since the Punishment of the Grave is a fact/true." (Saheeh: At-Tabraanee in 'al-Kabeer' from Umm Khaalid bint Khaalid ibn Sa'eed ibn al-'Aas.) Our righteous predecessors have mentioned many stories in this regard, some of which are as follows: Ibn Abi'd Dunya (rahimahullah) mentioned that one of his companions said, “My brother died and I saw him in a dream. I said, "How was it when you were placed in your grave?" He replied, "Someone brought me a fiery flame and if it had not been that someone else made supplication for me, I think he would have hit me with it.” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) Bashar b. Ghalib (rahimahullah) said, “I saw Rabia, on whose behalf I make frequent supplication, in a dream. She said to me, "Bashar b. Ghalib! Your gifts have been brought to me on plates of light, covered in silken cloths." I asked, "How can that be?" She replied, "That is what the supplication of living believers is like. When they make supplication for a dead person, that supplication is answered for them on plates of light, veiled in silken cloths. Then they are brought to the dead person for whom the supplication was said and they are told, 'This is the gift of so-and-so to you.'” ” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) Amr bin Dinar (rahimahullah) said “The sister of one of the men of Medina died and he buried her. When he came back from the burial, he remembered that he had left something in the grave. He asked one of his companions to help him. His companion related that they had dug up the grave and found what they were looking for. Then the man said, "Let us dig further and find out what has happened to my sister." He lifted up one of the stones covering the burial cavity and found the grave filled with fire. He replaced it and filled in the grave again. Then he returned to his mother and asked, "What was my sister really like?" She replied, "Why do you ask about her when she is dead?" He said, "Tell me." She said, "She used to delay the prayer and she also used to go to our neighbours' doors, put her ear to them, and then tell other people what they said." ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) One of the early Muslims said, "We passed by a watering-place on the way to Basra. We heard the braying of a donkey and asked the people there what the braying was. They replied that it was one of the men who used to be with them whose mother had asked him for something and he had told her to bray like a donkey. Since his death, this braying had been heard every night from his grave.” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) The torment in the grave will vary according to the sins committed by the person in this world, whether he was a disbeliever or a disobedient Muslim. There are authentic narrations which describe this torment for the people who commit these sins. For example: 1 - Being struck with an iron hammer. It was narrated from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:  “When a person is placed in his grave and his companions leave him, and he can no longer hear the sound of their sandals (footsteps), two angels come to him and make him sit up, and they ask him, ‘What did you say about this man Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)?’ He says, ‘I bear witness that he is the slave of Allaah and His Messenger.’ It is said, ‘Look at your place in Hell which Allaah has replaced for you with a place in Paradise.’” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “And he sees them both. But as for the kaafir or hypocrite, he says, ‘I do not know, I used to say what the people said.’ It is said, ‘You did not know and you did not follow those who knew.’ Then he is struck a blow with an iron hammer between his ears and he screams a scream which everything around him can hear apart from the two races (of mankind and the jinn).” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1222.) 2 -7: Furnishings from Hell are prepared for him; he is clothed with fire; a door to Hell is opened for him; his grave is made narrow for him; he is struck with a great hammer which, if a mountain were to be struck with it, it would turn to dust; and he is given the tidings of torment in the Hereafter. Hence he will wish that the hour would never come. Ahmad (17803) and Abu Dawood (4753) narrated that al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib said: "We went out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) for the funeral of a man from among the Ansaar. We came to the grave and when (the deceased) was placed in the lahd, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sat down and we sat around him, as if there were birds on our heads (i.e. quiet and still). In his hand he had a stick with which he was scratching the ground. Then he raised his head and said, “Seek refuge with Allaah from the torment of the grave,” two or three times. Then he mentioned the soul of the believer and how he is blessed in his grave. Then he said: “But when the disbelieving slave is about to depart this world and enter the Hereafter, there come down to him from heaven angels with black faces, bringing sackcloth, and they sit around him as far as the eye can see. Then the Angel of Death comes and sits by his head, and he says, ‘O evil soul, come forth to the wrath of Allaah and His anger.’ Then his soul disperses inside his body, then comes out cutting the veins and nerves, like a skewer passing through wet wool. When he seizes it, they do not leave it in his hand for an instant before they take it and put it in that sackcloth, and there comes from it a stench like the foulest stench of a dead body on the face of the earth. Then they ascend and they do not pass by any group of angels but they say, ‘Who is this evil soul?’ and they say, ‘It is so and so, the son of so and so, calling him by the worst names by which he was known in this world, until they reach the lowest heaven. They ask for it to be opened to them and it is not opened.” Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) recited (interpretation of the meaning): “For them the gates of heaven will not be opened, and they will not enter Paradise until the camel goes through the eye of the needle.” [al-A’raaf, 7:40] He said: “Then Allaah says, ‘Record the book of My slave in Sijjeen in the lowest earth, and return him to the earth, for from it I created them, to it I will return them and from it I will bring them forth once again.’ So his soul is cast down.” Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) recited the verse (interpretation of the meaning): “And whoever assigns partners to Allaah, it is as if he had fallen from the sky, and the birds had snatched him, or the wind had thrown him to a far off place.” [al-Hajj, 22:31] He said: “Then his soul is returned to his body, and there come to him two angels who make him sit up and they say to him, ‘Who is your Lord?’ He says, ‘Oh, oh, I don’t know.’ They say, ‘What is your religion?’ He says, ‘Oh, oh, I don’t know.’ Then a voice calls out from heaven, ‘Prepare for him a bed from Hell and clothe him from Hell, and open for him a gate to Hell.’ Then there comes to him some of its heat and hot winds, and his grave is constricted and compresses him until his ribs interlock. Then there comes to him a man with an ugly face and ugly clothes, and a foul stench, who says, ‘Receive the bad news, this is the day that you were promised.’ He says, ‘Who are you? Your face is a face which forebodes evil.’ He says, ‘I am your evil deeds.’ He says, ‘O Lord, do not let the Hour come, do not let the Hour come.’” (This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Ahkaam al-Janaa’iz, p. 156) 8 - Being swallowed up by the earth. It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whilst a man was dragging his lower garment out of pride, the earth swallowed him up and he will continue sinking into the earth until the Day of Resurrection.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5345; Muslim, 3894) 9- The edge of the mouth being torn to the back of the head. 10- The head being smashed with a rock. 11- Being burnt in a tannoor oven 12- Swimming in a river of blood whilst being pelted with stones.

Yeah but some sisters are too insecure also AstagfuAllah if i offended anyone but its America control your eyes but yourwife must have trust in u boundaries in your eyes in convo

@@thompkinsbilal2first learn to lower your gaze. It’s an issue for Men.

That's such a nice message with haqq. My hope increases when I see people like you who think this way. ❣️🥺

@@zaza-0704 ok

It is not Hindi, actually it is Urdu.

Ameen.

@@misbahailia3345 Ameen

He's name is Abdul Majid.

it was urdu sis, not hindi.

@@femme_fatale4125 Urdu and hindi are much similar as Indian Muslim we use mix language hindi and urdu Thanks for correcting 🤗

Aameen YAA RABB

Who is the sheikh bro ???

What?

Aameen YAA RABB

Yh, but keep trying to do it. If you do something for the sake of Allah (SWT) he will always replace it with something better.

Women have their own tests and trials, it is not easy being a woman when there are a lot of people making decisions for her, harrasting and gaising her every time she walks out of her home even in if she is in full hijab, and she is no one in her own home, doing service to all day and night and still she is made to feel useless. There is plenty a woman must be wanting to do but people are always there to oppress her in one way or other and she has to deal with continuous pressures of society.

The reward is higher for it as well , you have no right to say what's fair and what's not my brother .

@@truebeliever1516 True.

@Asad She'd Ali Men and women have the same challenges, when it comes to the nafs. That's why Allah says "Say to the believing men, and the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty". Quran Males THINK it's more challenging for them because society allows males to stare down any female and no one will shame them for it. They usually get praised for doing this, by their fellow males. Both of these benefits is a test from Allah. Because if you really loved Allah, you'd control your nafs despite society letting you get away with your nafs. People very easily shame women, for showing a bit of her neck in her Hijab. People are looking for any excuse to call females "loose". To prevent this headache, females control their Nafs to prevent drama. That's why it just "looks" like being on the Deen, is easy for females. Does that make make sense?

You said the truth

Protect yourself brother from the HUTMA (one of hell)

Na it still exists in both men and women.

Inshallah

Bangla

But then if you don’t, there is a high chance of committing Zina.

Cuz its just posted...

May be in Europe but in Asia, it is still a in thing .

British Pakistani.... It's Abdul Majid

@@muskansiddikee2171 oh thank you, actually some words he had said is similar to bangla, so I thought.. 😅

@@sumaiyasharmin7879 in England the Muslim communities are so close, we all use each other’s languages.

@@alia2ali oh, I didn't know, 😯,Mash'Allah, that's a good bond between the Muslims 😊

you should instead say i don't want to get married to a man *like* that

Exactly! That's why I still decided not to marry, and it will stay so for the rest of my life. Especially if they watch p*rn. No need to have intercourse either

@@-saheehinternationalorisah4959 no she doesn't.

@@moroccanflower9119 come on what is wrong with you marriage is a beautiful thing which prevents both man and women from commiting sin. And dont enforce your own toxic opinions unto others, you're saying never marry while our prophet peace be upon him saw marriage as a solution and a necissity in both men and women. I hope you delete your comments because people should obviously follow our prophets ways peace be upon him and not yours.

@@muhammadamiin1969 Not all marriages are beautiful like the prophets. Some men aren’t even close to his level. I wouldn’t mind marrying if you guys were like the prophet but because of what I see, I’m hesitating and I’m not even 18.

One-sided. Agreed

noo ... I wouldn't say that's tru for all women, not for me in my case. But the scholar isn't a man so he can't completely talk accurately about what a women goes through all the time. That doesn't mean just cuz a scholar's a man they can't talk about what women go through though. Also in islam, many of the advice given by Allah(SWT) can apply to both men and women, so if a scholar doesn't address the women who do the same sins as men, ig it doesn't completely mean that he's regarding women as pious and completely pure like angels lol.

Not all. But a lot of women yes. Same with men. Not all, but a lot yes.

Nobody is biased. This lesson was for men, take the lesson. Don’t question good advice based on Quran. Kinda missing the point bro

Lol just like some scholars only put women in hell 😂😂😂

I hope you recovered well from this evil man. And may Allah almighty bless you with a better, loving and everlasting marriage 🙏

😢😢your experience makes me so sad. I am so sorry that all of this happened to you. I pray that Allah shows you the light after all the darkness.

I have suffered the same sis. Nobody can answer my questions, everybody abandoned me and my children and supported him. The injustice is unbearable but Alhamdulillah it’s over. The troubles are not over when kids are involved but at last he is not in my home anymore, Alhamdulillah for talaq. May you find peace in your situation, Ameen. Sis I feel for you for your situation.

Every cloud has a silver lining. You had to endure that but it will effect you positively. Allah will reward you for patience. Think of every problem in life as a test. You must overcome it so that you can pass and go on a better rank. You deserve better and I sincerely hope you enjoy the rest of your life.

Believe me where I live wearing niqab would make man to look more and not only to look they would try to talk to you...

@@nataliacsilla879 Dear sister, don’t listen to this Huda something person. He or she doesn’t understand anything about Islam but only understand their own twisted desires and behaviors. Yes women should cover themselves, but no where in Quran does it say women are prescribed to wear Niqab. It isn’t mandatory and trust me, people like Huda will always find a way to look at women, regardless of what they are wearing (niqab or no niqab). May Allah s.w.t. guide them. Learn to lower the gaze, that’s the only solution. May Allah s.w.t. guide twisted men and make them take responsibility for their own actions and desires.

Niquab is not prescribed the hijab is only . . Niquab is a choice not enforced. Plus in the quran Allah has said that men should lower their gazes first and then the hijab is prescribed.

@@DinsFlame-br4pr all TALK and NO EVIDENCE