No person would ever understand this situation unless you are in their shoes. I watched as my dad married his niam yau because my mom only had me, a daughter and he wanted sons. My mother divorced him after his niam yau had her first three children. My perspective on situation like this, if your husband asks for a second wife because you can’t have any children or any sons, please just let him go before he marries a second wife. If a man truly loves you, he would choose you despite your inability to have children. If he chooses a second wife, you already don’t exist in his life anymore but he just won’t let you go because he knows you can’t let him go if you okayed him marrying a second wife.

I still don't understand any of my Hmong sisters that allowed their husband to have a 2nd wife in the 21st century and here in the USA. I thought y'all know better that this. Sometimes I can't feel sorry for my Hmong sisters. Sorry

Hais rau tus mi txiv tsev nyob sab ntuj los tsua. Koj tsis muaj cais yuav los hais kom niam ntsuab teev tso tseg. Yuav kom zoo tshaj tsis txhob raug teeb meem ces koj thiab koj tus niam tsev neb yuav tau tsum tsis txhob los mloog es thiaj tsis ua rau neb khub niam pluag thiab ua rau neb lub puas tsuaj. Tsis txhob muab yus tej teeb meem pov rau luag sab nraum

They want the house back that's it .

Txhob ok li os kuv nyiam koj cov neej neeg heev li os❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Txhob rov los hlub nws lawm mog tej zaum nws los ưa zoo kom tau txhua yam Ntawm koj xwb

Sister stay with your son never go Back to your ex nothing good as the same I feel sorry 😢😢

😢😢😢pab mob siab hv os

May, muaj ib niam txiv mloog2 koj Xa ua nws nkawv lub tsev teb kub nyhiab tag lawm thiab no ne. Koj puas tau hnov na🤣

Cas yuav hlub koj ua luaj li os viv ncaus aw cas koj Txim Txim hlub os koj siab loj loj siab zoo zoo os

Lawv nug2 koj cov dab neeg lawv tsev teb kub nyiab lawm no

xav kom koj pab hais ib zaj dab rau kuv os

Kv ib tug thiab os nyiam mloog 😅

Sister may aw koj mas 😅ntos npe heev li os keep going 😂😂👍👍😘😘😁

This man is a straight up bxxxx

Kj thaum hvzoj tau xb ma peb nyiam kj hv o

Yog tias peb pojniam ua li rau lawv cov txiv neej no nrhe lawv plawv ntses tuag lawm os.

Tus txiv nej uas yuav tau niam 2 ces niam 1 txhob nyob lawm thiaj tsis lig2 nawd

Yog kawg lawm os sister he wants everything back tsis txhob rov qab lawm os

Cas nej muaj dab tsi ntawm nej lub neej txim nkawm los nej pheej coj tuaj muab 6 niam ntsuab teev ris xwb na tsis yog tim niam ntsuab teev nawb nej tus poj niam nws txaus nws siab tuaj mloog xwb nawb ,yog nej lub neej neb yog nej khub txij nkawm niam txiv li teeb meem xwb nej mam ua zoo sib hais neb xwb koj tsis muaj Cai tuaj hais li ko 6 niam ntsuab teev nawb

Kv los ib yam li mloog kj txhua hnb li g mj nyiaj yv npav li lm thb o

Txhob ntseeg nws yuav tss hlub koj li nws hais tsuas yog yav dhau los nws tss tau tsim koj es nws yuav coj koj mus tsim xwb yog hnub twg koj rov mus txog txawv nws cov lus nws hais os Viv ncaus

Nyuam qhuav haum xwb os cov txiv neej siab phem phem 😂

Ntxub cov txivneej yuav niam yau thiab cov niam yau tshaj llaws li os lawv law. Cas cov neej neeg no myaj ntau ua luaj.

Kuv tsis to taub tias yog tu siab npaum koj cas tsis nrauj nyias yuav ua cas nyias mam mus nrhiav nyias es koj tseem nrog lawv mus nrhiav poj niam rau lawv os ruan los ntse

Npam neb ob leeg lawm nawb. Yuav tau mus keb khub nawb.

Cas es tsuas pom txiv neej pheej tias niam ntsuab teev xwb nè. Mloog qhov zoo ces kawm qhov phem ces tso pov tseg xwb os cov me niam tsev aw

Here we go again…go back to Nplogteb for pojniam, kavliam os tus vivncaus nws tabtom nrhiav kev tsimtxom nws lub siab…2,3 mexyoo tomntev no nws tabtom yuav mob tshaj koj…, it’s okay sister I know we are not in your place but we feel your pains

Tus mi niam tsev txhob rov los nkag nws nub pob tawv lawm os tug neeg siab phem nws yeej phem tag nws simneej

cas tsis pom ib tug niam yau es yuav zoo li ne pom cov los rhuav yus lub neej

Niam tshuab teev a kv tu txiv hai raukv tias kom kv hu rau koj es xa ib qho nyiaj lo rau kv siv no o vim kv nyiam nploog koj hv dhau

Cov niag maum dev twb nrauj tag lo nim cia niag qub txiv tuaj ta li ua kom niam yau muaj teeb meem. Mloog nkim sij hawm

Your ex-husband just wanted to torture you, sis. I think he never loved you from beginning when you can't have kids. He must regret giving you everything. He got tortures from his niam mos ab.

I don't feel sorry for you because when u marry someone it's for the good or the bad. If you can't have kids, there are many other options. I also struggle like you and I will and have not allowed this. Niam yau will not and has not been an option.

Koj tsis yog ib tug poj niam tseem.ceeb thiab os. Cov poj niam uas thaum twb sib nrauj tag lawm tseem pheej nrog niag qub yxiv sib tham tas li koj ko ces twb tsis tseem ceeb os. Cov txiv neej ruam thiaj yuav koj ua poj niam xwb os. Hom txiv neej ntse yog tus poj niam twg pheej tseem nrog niag qub txiv tham li koj ko ces lawm tsis yuav koj ua poj niam li os.

RUAM!

Yus tsis muaj me nyuam. ces lawm thiaj tsis xav hlub yus

You made good choices for yourself. Don’t allow your ex ruined you.

Didn’t we hear this story already??

Koj tus txiv #2 siab ntev tshaj li. Nrauj tag lawm ma txhob tham tham tus txiv #1 ma. Cas yuav zoo li os. Tus menyuam tsis yog nw tus na.

Kuv niag txiv cem kuv kawg thiab tab si kv mloog koj kuv khwv tau nyiaj xwb vim mloog koj thiaj g tsaug2 zog na 😂😂😂

Stop talking to your Ex already. 🙄🙄🙄

Ua cas xav luag dhau lm os niam ntsuab teev aw kj puas hnov tu niam tsev nyob thaib teb lub tsev teb kub nyhiab lo vim nws tu txiv mlog 2 kj cov neej neeg thiab nyiam 2 kj ho tu txic nyob nplog teb no g muaj peeb nuas ntsev noj lo yog vim kj no mas kv xav 2 luag kawg li os niam ntsuab teev aw hhhhhhh😅

Cov txiv uas thov yuav lawv tus poj niam zaum ob es hlub mus ib txhis tsis muaj coob. Koj tus qub txiv tsis yog tus ntawv.

Pom xeeb yuav txiv es tseem mus yuav niag txiv laus2 xwb ces,pauv tsis tau niag qub txiv li os.

I swear this couple sound like the couple who when to laos and stay with lor thoj them. Anyone know if that lady ever came to US??

Niag hmoob nplog cas koj tsis paub txiaj muag es tseem sau ntawv tuaj qhia rau teb chaws paub thiab na koj puas paub tias qhov no yog nws txoj hauj lwm na

Hmong mekas ruam tshaj 😂😂 tos muaj niam hlob niam yau 😅

Yog kawg mas tej niag kas laig ntawm ces thaum yau yus hlub lu hlub los loj tuaj tseem coj yus mus nkag nkuaj los, paub tias phem ua luaj ntxov muab hlob rau ntsaum noj

Cia rau nws khuv2 xim koj mus txog hnub tuag kiag xwb Los ma

These woman have no self respect. How can you share the same room, same bed with your husband and another woman he also calls his wife. Have some self respect

Ntuj aw kuv yeej tsis ua li koj li os viv ncaus vim tsis xav mob siab thiab mob stroke li yog ua lub maib koj ces ntshe kawg mob siab lo stroke xwb mas viv ncaus

Cas koj tsis hais Kom nws muab niam yau xa kiag rov qab na

The money you spent for your trip and heartbreak, you could’ve gotten a surrogate.

A Hmong Lao girl once told me, if I want a vir gin, I need to raise her from a baby. Very few Hmong Lao girls are still vir gin if over 12 years old. I bet his vir gin wife is only 13 or 14. Of course, this Hmong American couple will say she's over 18, which is ludicrous. If you don't know, Laos allows their citizens to change their birthdate legally. So when someone under 18 marries a Hmong American, they will change her birthdate to make her 18+.

Feem coob Hmoob Meskas mloog niam Ntsuab Teev Yaj thiab tsis mloog los tsuas them lawv nqe xov tooj li ntawv. Muaj qee tus kuj them li lwm teb chaws tias yog mloog Niam Tsuab Teev ntau ces mag them ntau zog los yog ntau heev. Yog tsis mloog li no ces tsis mag them thiab.

Cov nkauj hmoob nplog tuaj yuav luag tej txiv mam pheej xav tias yuav luag tus txiv ces yuav yuav luag lub neej thiab ...Hais rau cov nkauj hmoob nplog tias yus twb pom xeeb tuaj yuav luag tus txiv ces yus thiab yus tus txiv mam li khwv los pob cas pheej yuav ntshaw tus niam loj lub neej ua luag🤦

All I have to say is, neb ob leeg tsis puv 100. Why didn’t you adopt the kid before letting him marry a niam yau? You did that AFTER he married her, which makes no sense. Even if you both have kids, you both would divorce anyways because you guys don’t seem to know what you both want. Zaj no ua kuv mov hlwb xwb.

Poj niam hmoob mas cas yuav ruam tshaj plaws li lau, tus txiv ko muab tso tau lawm os....koj mam mus nrhiav koj 1 tug uas lawv yeej muaj lawv 1 pab me nyuam lawm es lawv tsis yuav me nyuam ntxiv lawm, poj niam hmoob mas siab dev tiag2 luag mus yuav tus tshiab lawm ces luag yeej tsis hlub yus lawm na, txhob ruam2 thiab lau.

CAs yuav tus mos mos ab twb tsis tau mag dua ua cas ho txawj txeeb txiv ua luaj thiab.

Tus me niam tsev aw Tus neeg zoo li no hais zoo nws tsis yuav ces muab nws block tawm los yog muab txoj cai los nrog nws tham xwb mas tsis txhob ruam txog qhov nws rov qab los ntxias tau yus nws lub hom phiaj ces yog lub tsev thiab koj cov nyiaj xwb os.

Tu kwv tij hmoob nplog koj tsis muaj txoj cais hais kom niam ntsuab teev tsum tab si yog koj tsis txaus siab vim koj tu poj niam nkim nyiaj mloog niam ntsuab teev es neb thiaj li pluag tsis tau ntsev noj no ce koj muab neb lub xov tooj tsoo hlawv tsau dej kub ta ce neb lub neej muaj nyiaj lawm ma ca ruam luaj li tseem tuaj cem hais luag tab si koj ho nkaum koj tu poj niam qab tiab txaj muag dhau nyob lo hnyav av tuag zoo dua

Cas twb sib nrauj twb mus ua ib tom neej lawm es tseem pheej “me koj txiv” nas niam ntsuab teev?

Tus me viv ncaus aw nwss rov los txias koj kom nws rov tau txua yam uas nws muab tso rau koj xwb txawm koj tus txiv duam sim lawm los nyob twj ywm es tsis txhob rov qab mus rau tus neeg uas twb tsis hlub koj kom kawg os mog

Lady, why are still in communication with your ex? Regarding the child you adopted, is your ex’s name on the adoption papers? If not, then why do you allowed the child to be in contact with him, since you said he doesn’t love and want the child? He’s only using the child to get to you. You must still want him to keep in communications. Block his number if really don’t want him.

Sister, love yourself and let everything go, including your husband. He no longer love you and marrying a niam yau from Laos is just an excuse. Tsis ntev xwb koj tus txiv yuav mob stroke. Your ex-husband left you for a niam yau but when you are with another man, he wants you back. He can’t stand seeing you happy with another man. Don’t go back to him after your husband is gone. He doesn’t deserve you. You deserve better. Move forward. Rov qab los tsis zoo lawm mog.

Tis viv ncaus, txhua2 yam teeb meem thiab qhov es koj tus qub txiv tseem pheej tuaj ntshib thiab sau ntawv rau koj los yog vim koj ib leeg xwb. Yog loj nrauj nws tiag2 ua cas koj pheej tseem nrog nws tham ua tus dabtsi. Koj lucky kawg tias koj tus txiv tsis muab koj nrauj nawb. Niam txiv sib nrauj li tej laus hais hmhab tu hlua pluam...koj tsis need nrog nws tham txog dabtsi li lawm na. Koj ua li ko es koj niag qub txiv thiaj xav2 rov los thab koj ntag mas

Niam ntsuab teev Twb hais dab Neeg Twb tsis txaus peb mloog li es ua li Cas koj ho hais tias koj tus poj Niam mloog2 Niam ntsuab teev tsis muaj nyiaj yuav peeb nuas noj no Cas koj yuav hais lus dag ua luaj li os Tus mi txiv tsev Tim nplog aw, ua Neeg nyob hais lus kom yog txiv neej yawg thiab mas😂😮

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Sis the contract was unnecessary....day 1 when he had the affair was already the day the love died. Respect yourself and your selfworth. You only live once.

So sad how desperate these women are to do ANYTHING to make their cheating husbands happy even as far was traveling to Laos to buy them a new young wife. Omg love yourself!

Peb cov txiv hai ib yam xwb tb sis kv tos raus kj xwb o

We Hmong women always degrade ourselves for what we thought love but in reality it’s not love. We must stop this practice bc Hmong women deserve better!

Tsis txhob tsum li nawb niam ntsuab teev yog kj tsum g tham lawm ce peb cov ua mloog kj no yeej g paub ua neeg nyob li lawm ntag ho vim peb ho g nyiam mloog cov lawv tham dab thiab tham dev na😂😂

Xav tau koj lu tsev xwb

Your ex husband only want your assets like your house and money!! LISTEN TO YOUR LATE HUSBAND AND DON'T GO BACK TO THE EX

May don’t feel bad keep it up what you been doing 👏👏

That not his kid why let him visit .. he used the kid to see you

Hahahahaha Niam ntsuab teev you’re so powerful I like that.

Dont ever go back to spit that’s on dog shit! Don’t be too trusting of your ex he’s just trying to take the house from you!!! He’s lying to you now and only wants everything for his niam yau meb cab xwb os.

May u say right at end... nobody can't keep put blame on u of what happen to their marriage life drama...os...u just do ur storyteller only

If my husband is getting a 2nd wife, Im getting me a 2nd husband. If not, then DIVORCE his ass.

Cas zoo li tsiaj xwb nej hais stories of cov nkauj hmoob nplog nas or nej cov txiv yog huav tais na!😅😅😅 Sound like nej mus yuav animals at the farm. Ohh I want that one, no maybe that one.😅😅😅😅 Or chickens, ohh that one already lay eggs I don’t want that one, this one is young I take this one. 😅😅😅😅.

Ob niag niamtxiv ruam

Koj Tus qub ex lam hais cov lus dag ntxias koj xwb...nws yeej g hlub koj lawn...why nws thiab mus yuav Tus tshiab los mam..hauv koj lub neeg...no turn back seriously...niam laus ...there nothing go change...u going just be his slave n for him to continue to mistreat u xwb... seriously...just keep move on with ur new husband xwb..even if ur husband pass away ..u should stay single xwb..u have more peace n happy than go back to ur ex to suffer mob siab xwb...

This sister is annoying. Once you divorce STOP talking to him. Get a restraining order. It because you still want him but he doesn’t want you so you are still involved with this man. I have no sympathy for you.

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Let go don’t be stress Hmong men like bring stress

Coj neeg no es cas yom ruam luaj.. lwv tias yog KZfaq na.. nej puas paub KZfaq na. May Vang tsis hais lo lwm tu yeej yuav hais na. Tsis mloog ces mus rau lwm tsoom xwb o. Meka tsi youtube no lo tso rau txua tu mloog na.. leej twg tsis xa mloog ces mus rau lwm tsooj xwb

Story like this it’s 🤦🏻‍♂️

WTH! Why you complaining lady! Koj twb coj nws mus yuav but now you complaining!. You need some medical attention woman.

Koj tus txiv ko liam dhau lawm os poj hmoob aw

Hate these stories...

What a dumb story! Just wasted my time. This is all your fault for allowing him to do this to you.

uv tsi tau li

Tus phoojywg aw, koj tsis yog kuv xeem no, yog koj txoj hmoo mus tsis kawg nrog koj tus txijnkawm tamsim no no koj txhob poob siab tseem muaj coob2 tus koj xaiv tau koj nyiam koj los tseem tos koj mog.

Stories like this are pathetic. These women just do not love themselves.

Oh txiav tsis tau nawb twb yog muaj tej dab neeg no los txhawb siab rau peb es zaum no peb cov niam tsev thiaj tsis tshua muaj tus tua tus kheej tuag los yog niaj hnub quaj hauv tej fb rau txiv neej lawm.

Neb cov lus thiab daim ntawv cog lus tsis khov txaus. Niamyau yuav tsum nrog cog lus tias nws tsuas yog Niamyau yug menyuam xwb. Yog nws tsis yeem ces txhob tos los yog xa rov qab.

Nws yuav tsov los txeeb koj lub tsev xwb mas viv ncaus tsi txhob nrog nws mus tsam nws coj koj mus dov toj nawb lawv yeej tsi hlub koj lawm vim yuav rov los txeeb vaj tsev xwb os.