I'm really considering flipping the wedding day, and having an intimate restaurant dinner before the ceremony, so we could have a "golden hour" ceremony outdoors. Then have cupcakes and toasts, a few pictures, and a send-off.

I like the idea of excluding dancing for a small

I'd have never thought of splitting the party across different days and it seems like a great idea to suggest to my partner - we're considering renting an Airbnb for a microwedding and multiple nights for set-up and cleaning is a must anyway. Why not add a few more! His parents are divorced and not on speaking terms, so the idea of bringing them together was generating a lot of stress. A day for his dad's side of family and his mum's side seems like a good idea! My family lives in a different country, so there'd probably be 3 people who could join on both days since after flying over they'd probably make it into a holiday anyway. And when we're on it, why not add a day to celebrate with friends and a day closer to my culture (where weddings always last at least two days anyway)! That'd be so cool

So grateful I found this video. You just gave me so much clarity and ideas on how to have an amazing wedding even with just a few people. Thank you so much!

I'm in the Caribbean we renting a house and we are getting married on the beach...and it's only 50 of us

I love your enthusiasm 😮😊