MARRIAGE SO FAR...AND OUR REALITY!

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6 жыл бұрын

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@revwayne6168 6 жыл бұрын

You have a healthy relationship. Discovery is a normal process and in that process self-ness and independence change toward one another. Arguing is normal; you acknowledge the need, scripturally and spiritually, to resolve your differences--your marriage grows by leaps and bounds.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the encouragement - we appreciate it more than you know :)! God bless you always

@tiongekavina3397 6 жыл бұрын

Yes I’m early 💪🏽... wishing u guys a successful marriage life

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks lovely! :D x

@royalpriesthood1297 6 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your marriage.... you're a beautiful couple 😁🤗

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you! :)

@ajemroberts3903 6 жыл бұрын

Lol! Y'all too cute and honest. My first time watching. Yes when you are married and living together, the things you notice lol. Hubby and I have been married 11yrs, trust me you will gradually learn to love and or respect each other's differences. The fact that you are individually realizing your short comings this early is excellent. Enjoy each other, give each other time to grow. You seem like a really sweet, 'real' couple. Looking out for the next vid! I wish you guys all the best! God bless!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for passing on your wisdom and experience, we really appreciate it and you :)! We are so blessed to have people like you in our lives and following us on this journey, such an encouragement :). We will definitely give each other time to grow, thank you - patience is a virtue :). Wishing you all the best and hope you've had a fantastic start to 2018. God bless you always :).

@misstramaine1981 6 жыл бұрын

Y'all preaching to me!! I'm single and you guys' testimony has made me reevaluate myself. I, too am a little selfish and hot-tempered---but I'm working on it. Lot's of praying. Great vlog by the way 😊

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks sweety. Its a journey isnt it. :) xx

@margaretgomez7962 6 жыл бұрын

Mel God bless you for being honest about what you struggle with, both of you complement each other perfectly and God will continue to help you both grow on this beautiful journey. Love your videos!💕😊

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Amen, thank you so much for those beautiful words :)! God is so good and may He always guide your steps and forever bless you :)

@valsmiles8529 6 жыл бұрын

LOL! Your intro to this vlog just made me subscribe yayyy!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

LOL!!! Thank you so much. God bless you :)!

@claudettejonasbrooklynn.y.7939 6 жыл бұрын

I thank you guys sooo much for sharing...often times people paint a picture like marriage is a fairytale...smh😞. Thanks for your honesty. Wish all the best if health, wealth and a lifetime of happiness...blessings. Letisha from Jamaica

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! We really appreciate those beautiful words and you...so many blessings to you too :)! Hope you are having a wonderful start to 2018 and may the Lord bless you and keep you :).

@LaDiiNaya90 6 жыл бұрын

Hey, Mike & Mel!! I loved the video! It was so funny!! ♡

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! We are so happy you enjoyed it. God bless you always :)

@cheg217 6 жыл бұрын

Lovely couple to watch and the fact that you are both born again Christians is just amaizing.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! We really appreciate the encouragement. God bless you always.

@cheg217 6 жыл бұрын

Mike & Mel Lister God bless you to.

@childressgiles7626 6 жыл бұрын

Arguing is healthy "LOL".. Ok, that's a new one.. To each his own but I've been married 12 yrs (BW/WM) and we've disagreed but it's not constant or a regular occurrence :-). Hopefully you all aren't letting petty things ruin the loving bond between you two :-) Wishing you all the best. God bless!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much - to be fair its more disagreements, we misspoke in the video :)! We won't let any disagreement ruin the loving bond between us :)! Thank you so much for the encouragement. God bless you always.

@estherqueen 6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 that's intro was very funny !!! Don't worry Mel you are not alone in that's situation when I get upset I really like to left alone and digest all or just have my space for other reasons... but I think recognising our mistakes or weakness is a key to resolve the issue, I also think that many people who were so independent , or just spent longtime alone by doing themselves or other things whatever it's ,they dealing with some selfish behavior... and now u guy's are not alone anymore u got to share everything, but guy's i can tell u have a great chemistry good self-critical mind good communication..and very important u have the father lord among u 💪🙏.... ( Mel most of the men are messy...😕😲) don't worry mike in a few years by observing your beautiful wife and putting some efforts u gonna probably have a B (7/10) 🙌🙌 By the way great video not to long simple and good content.. thanks for sharing wish u a very blessed mariage good long life together be blessed always😘

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the encouragement :)! You are so right it is a huge change but with God everything is possible - He is among us :)! An A might take Mike a while haahaha! Thank you so much for your beautiful words - you are truly amazing and a real blessing. God bless you always.

@estherqueen 6 жыл бұрын

Mike & Mel Lister 😂😉😇 amen amen !!

@OpulenceBestie 6 жыл бұрын

Mel: 'It's hot in here' Mike: 'babe, you are sitting next to me' LOL I watched that 3 times. Anyway, new subbie right here!!!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

LOL!! This literally made me laugh so hard - he is so cheesy LOL. Thank you so much :).

@patriciahasinga9303 6 жыл бұрын

Don't worry honey it's a working progress but communication is key and patience

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Amen, I couldn't agree more!! Thank you so much for your wonderful words of encouragement :)! God bless you always.

@patriciahasinga9303 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks guy's and Amen to that

@nenjahandtherose6530 4 жыл бұрын

Coming to resolutions is the MOST important! Best of luck to you both. :)

@Thelisters85 4 жыл бұрын

You are totally right :)! Thank you so much for sharing and we really appreciate your support. Are there any specific topics or videos you would like to see from us? x

@caryandbabecaryandbabe5118 6 жыл бұрын

You two are great together. Yeah. Going from single to a relationship. Its taught me how selfish I can be. Total respect.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! We really appreciate you - it really is a learning curb but with God anything is possible

@caryandbabecaryandbabe5118 6 жыл бұрын

Not wanting to sound like a weirdo or anything. What is married life like?

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

That is a really important question - it is like living with your best friend everyday...there are disagreements and there is confrontation but that is not what defines your relationship. Its about growing with one another, learning each others ways and just forever growing closer to your best friend and the love of your life. God is central to everything and guides us every single day. It is a truly beautiful and wonderful thing :)! Its not without its challenges but boy are they worth it! For me, Mel is the love of my life, my forever number two and that is what marriage is - God first, wife second in all things. She is my family now. Anyway...sorry for rambling on and thank you so much for asking. God bless you always.

@caryandbabecaryandbabe5118 6 жыл бұрын

She's gorgeous. Hang on to her. Thanks man.

@VLoveTarot 6 жыл бұрын

showing love. Happy V-day to you and yours!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

+V Reacts thank you so much :)! God bless you always.

@fdoctor79 6 жыл бұрын

Mel, reminds me of Robin Givens. In any relationship, you have learn to respectfully disagree. You shouldn't go to bed angry however does that necessarily mean you have come to a consensus, it may take 24 hrs?!? Wow, Mel and Mike love that you are soo transparent with your flaws/struggle this is key to your growth!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you hun, i think its going to be a long life process ha. The becoming one bit is super hard ha.

@fdoctor79 6 жыл бұрын

YES, INDEED WE ARE ALL A WORK IN PROGRESS! GOD SPEED WITH ALL OF YOUR ENDEAVORS!

@tamaranadinecoyle 6 жыл бұрын

I don't usually subscribe to vlogs, but you guys are so lovely made for each other and your commitment to God is inspiring as well. It's cool you being out and about round London as I am a Londoner as well!!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much :)! We really appreciate those beautiful words. How has your week been so far? God bless you always.

@tamaranadinecoyle 6 жыл бұрын

Mike & Mel Lister my week has brightened with such spiritual and kind words from you.Thank you!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

+tamara nadinecoyle thank you :)! Have a blessed week and may the Lord bless you anx keep you :).

@kayrobinson924 6 жыл бұрын

You both are lovely ... you are so cute ... you had me smiling the whole time !!! Congratulations!!!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much :)! We really appreciate those lovely words and you.

@platinumbranch2056 6 жыл бұрын

Subscribed because you said you did it "the Christian way." 😚

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

+Platinum Branch thank you :)! We really appreciatr your support. God bless you.

@brighteyesldy 6 жыл бұрын

Platinum Branch same here

@deborahcaleb 6 жыл бұрын

I love the start. Such fun.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Debbs 😊😊!! Love making and being innovative with the starts...it really is so much fun. We love you guys soo much 😊😊. God bless you always.

@1coco5 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful!!! Love vortex

@Thelisters85 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :).

@tatepasi9519 4 жыл бұрын

I love you two....such fun watching you...

@Thelisters85 4 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much we love you too soo much :). So sorry for the slightly delayed response we have just finished our big move to Canada :). Sending you so much love.

@patriciahasinga9303 6 жыл бұрын

I totally understand you Mel,im also like when I get upset l just want to be left alone and become very silent

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Patriciah - God is really with me on it :). Thank you so much and God bless

@Sheba_316 6 жыл бұрын

Don't be easily offended, above all lighten up and have fun...

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)

@newone123100 6 жыл бұрын

That was my first thought love is not easily offended also I would say even though you're opening up your lives to others don't worship at the altar of their opinions it is your life it is what it is . you guys just be yourself because not one of us is perfect show love to each other and support each other Even in disagreements and never be accusatory but don't be offended when someone points out a flaw it doesn't mean they're criticizing just getting observation

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the encouragement and words of advice we really appreciate it :)! You are so right and its something we try really hard not to do. God bless you :)

@teach9999 4 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate you waiting until you married before moving in together, bless your beautiful heart ❤️, keep loving each other and praying all the time together, I love you channel 😍❤️🌸🌹🌷🌺

@Thelisters85 4 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you so much Janice, we appreciate your love and support more than we could ever say! How are you? How has your week been? Is there anything we can pray for? God bless you always.

@kimhoodless1 6 жыл бұрын

Congratulations guys! My husband is super untidy we are now 30 years in (I'm talking apple core on the floor) I'm OCD we've blanced each other out. He's a gentleman an amazing father. You fell in love always remember that. Marriage is about coexisting being raised very differently doesn't mean you can't gel. My husband is white middle class, I'm black British of caribbean decent. Remember if he's tidy up better than he did before recognise the improvement and remember that Rome wasn't built in a day. Hubby remember we all deal with our emotions differently some people need space to calm down (to prevent saying something that will regret) it might be worth talking about a what is and what isn't reasonable. All the best guys. And remember to talk respectfully the Bible talks about a gentle answer being sweeter than honey. It also talks about a harsh tongue an where it leads. I really wish and pray for you both to enjoy a blessed marriage.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Your words truly touched my heart thank you for reminding me of those verses. They are so important and thanks for blessing us with you experience we can learn from you guys! Stay blessed xx

@kimhoodless1 6 жыл бұрын

Mike & Mel Lister Thank you. The bible also says that older wins should teach their girls how you be woman and fathers teach your sons therefore it is our duty to pass on in our experiences for the uplifting and supporting of others. Since we are all one in Christ we would do well to remember to love and support eachother. I'm afraid I don't know how to private message my reply. See I need to learn a few things to 😁. God's love and blessings upon you both in Jesus name.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! We really appreciate your words! You are very kind.

@june2cute 6 жыл бұрын

Beautiful couple, and that lipstick is lovely on you.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much :). Awesome...its MAC liquid matte lipstick - Dance With Me :)! xx

@paulapeeler3157 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Hey. I just found you two... Your "How we met" video snagged my heart. I love the Lord and I will wait until God introduce me to my Mr Welcome. Mel I so feel the same way on that video.💕 You two are my favorite couple on KZfaq. Have stupendous weekend. Chow😎

@Thelisters85 3 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you so much sweetie, we really appreciate all your support and encouragement :). How has your weekend been lovely? God bless you always xx

@prophetessbabb2203 5 жыл бұрын

Hey, you guys are a “breath of fresh air.” If you don’t judge self, you can’t deal when others seee... I love it... 1 Corinthians 11... Blessings, many children 👶 blessings, BishopB

@Thelisters85 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, we really appreciate you and your support! Receive those kind words in Jesus name, may the Lord bless you and keep you always :).

@LindaTinahTV 6 жыл бұрын

I understand what you mean by 'argue' more after you start living together. We barely fought while we were dating but then we started having more disagreements when we started staying together. OMG you are so much like me Mel. When we have a fight, I want to be left alone and given time to be mad,lol My hubby hates it. He will make you mad and then wants to kiss you the next second and i'm like no hahaha First time watching you guys and I will e subbing.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

LOL!! Its nice to know there are people out there who can relate :)! Mike hates the silent treatment and he does exactly the same thing and I am like 'no' hahaha! Love him soo much though. We really appreciate you and your support. God bless you always. Question: what are your goals for 2018?

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

P.s. subbed back as well :)

@LindaTinahTV 6 жыл бұрын

Bless. I have a quite a few goals for the new year both KZfaq and not KZfaq related. I am actually shooting a video relating to that this week,maybe you will checkout when you have some free time. Just to mention a few, healthier living and better quality content, X

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

+Linda Tinah TV sounds like 2018 is going to be a great year! Of course we will checkout the vlogs 😊😊. God bless you always. X

@mamoah7188 6 жыл бұрын

#flabbergasted,whoop whoop BTW I love you guys

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! It really is a fantastic word! God bless you always

@liiilliees 6 жыл бұрын

Congratulatuons.. you guys your too cute together.. God bless ur union ❤❤❤

@Thelisters85 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much lovely.

@lolahouston7995 6 жыл бұрын

As a married woman, you will find a lot about yourself living with your other half. Since you were bold to mention you are praying about being selfish might I suggest you find superficial ways to improve self. Like allowing your partner to speak more in conversations. That was something I practiced consciously at the jump of my marriage.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks lovely! Thats a really good idea! I def will xx

@MsYentl1 6 жыл бұрын

'THE MIDDLE OF THE BED'!!!!!! That was H I L A R I O U S ! ! ! ! ! Too cute!!

@Thelisters85 5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha...thank you so much :)! God bless you always.

@nicholasmarkin2385 5 жыл бұрын

Congrats and GodBless as well , Please!

@Thelisters85 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)

@jessicaflowers6795 6 жыл бұрын

omg, sooo cutee

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)

@ohyeah2269 5 жыл бұрын

That intro 😂😂😂❤

@Thelisters85 5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha!! Thank you so much, it was so much fun to film :)!! How are you? God bless you always :).

@chi2om 6 жыл бұрын

Great video. Hilarious

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)!! We really appreciate the encouragement :).

@SuperBikeRacer7 6 жыл бұрын

One king size bed with 2 duvets!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha...thats definitely an option!! She'd probably take the other one as well lol!!

@estherqueen 6 жыл бұрын

SuperBike Racer 🤔 wait a minute...Hun hun hun!!!☝ commitment is about to share everything and serving one another or each other Grown-up together that's mariage and they are now !!! God bless 😁

@DJ-iv2xo 6 жыл бұрын

Happy wife, happy life.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Truer words have never been said - God bless you always :).

@alluringbliss4165 6 жыл бұрын

wishing you well

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! Hope you are well also :) - God bless you always.

@TashaShaMus 6 жыл бұрын

Mel what lipstick are you wearing?

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

It was MAC Liquid Lipstick 'Dance with me'; it looks great on every skin tone :)! x

@youyou6981 6 жыл бұрын

YOU SHOULD DO A SLOW VERSION ON HOW YOU ARRVIE ON THE SOFA AND YOUR EXPRESSION HONEY. EPIC ! bomb laugh !

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Hahah! That would be so funny! thanks for the tip hun xx

@theclassicstare5713 6 жыл бұрын

Wait, are you from Toronto???

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Yep I am originally from Toronto :)! x

@ashelyrock 6 жыл бұрын

Is she from toronto?

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Yes she is! what an amazing guess lol. Are you from there?

@ashelyrock 6 жыл бұрын

Yay! a fellow Canadian and no I don't, but I live in Edmonton, ab.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Oh awesome, I love meeting other Canadians lol!! There's just not enough of us worldwide lol

@thestarinhereyes2 6 жыл бұрын

Canadian/British squad lol

@laurachingarie4839 6 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha honey is Home 😂

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

That's how I greet him all the time bahah

@estherqueen 6 жыл бұрын

Laura Chingarie Oh yeah !!! They got a great sense of humour, and she got a great personality I love them ;-)

@CM-gj1ue 6 жыл бұрын

You should do vlogsmas

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha...of course - vlogmas coming up :)! God bless you

@SweetTeaDarling 6 жыл бұрын

Great Vlog! Thanks for sharing your journey! I don't know that you all would be interested but please check out "Our Marriage Table" KZfaq channel. It's really good!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)!! We really appreciate you and will definitely check that channel out :). God bless you always

@VaninaElise 6 жыл бұрын

Lol " unbelievable" he says it just like my sunshine! And he's just like him a little messy but thank God I don't need to talk for that cause he's really trying

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha...men are similar in so many ways, hopefully they get better with time LOL! Wouldn't have him any other way :).

@kimbobeads230 6 жыл бұрын

EGO is a terrible thing... that’s why there are arguments. Check that and see how things change. Best of luck to you both.

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :)! We really appreciate your thoughts. God bless you always.

@Janedoe-gn5pi 4 жыл бұрын

One month and all this? Where is Jesus when you guys are acting like this. Just love each other!

@Thelisters85 4 жыл бұрын

Amen to that thank you so much Deborah. How are you? Hope you are having a good week. May the Lord bless you and keep you always.

@breannanouveaux5132 6 жыл бұрын

Ever notice how so many of these videos are NON AMERICAN white men. I'm just saying...sisters. PASSPORT!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

Im not American Im Canadian and my husband is English. I'm pretty sure he doesn't need a Canadian passport and a British passport is pretty high up there on the list. lol

@alanbuckner5848 5 жыл бұрын

Breanna Nouveaux Amazing how true your statement is. As an American white man I used my passport to marry a beautiful African lady from Ghana West Africa. Best decision I ever made. Sometimes in interracial love and marriage you have to follow where the love is. I hope you find your love with your passport as I did.

@nessparadis6948 4 жыл бұрын

Mike & Melly Lister , she’s saying this to say that non-American white men pursue black women and that black women should get their passports to countries where they can find love and more options.

@shirleyortiz5003 6 жыл бұрын

I can tell Mel has bad temper, and no patience to her husband, in just this video. It's normal to fight in a ralitionship! Wish the best!

@Thelisters85 6 жыл бұрын

+ORoxy 5575 I am sorry you see her in that light. This is Mike by the way. In all our videos we look to be ourselves and without hesitation I can say that my beautiful wife is the most caring kind and patient woman I have ever and will ever meet. Each and everyone of us is unique and she is patient with me. It is normal to disagree in a relationship but from every disagreement we look to grow and learn. Disagreement is natural and we always look to go to bed at peace with one another. God bless you and wish you all the best.

@shirleyortiz5003 6 жыл бұрын

I think this is Mel writing, about yourself!!!!

@taylo652 6 жыл бұрын

ORoxy 5575 just stop

@estherqueen 6 жыл бұрын

ORoxy 5575 am so curious you are the only one who notice that she added a bad temper 😲 can you just learn from others ??? Can you just stop being mean???, can you just stop this negative judgement, and atitude??? Let's me tell ya , we are all unique ok !? If I can give you some pls do not come on here when you know that's you have some jealous views and negative atitude !! This couple is a match made from heaven ok !? And she is the greatest beautiful all in all... I want you to stop right now, in the name of jesus am already sending you some peace and love on your mind coz I really think you need some..oups... god bless you