5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship

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@russelllevers9513 3 ай бұрын

I have found my wife... I didn't know that I would have fallen in love with her. Honestly. Because she's slim. I don't really like slim woman. But I went to that church had a connection with her. Pray about it fast about it she did the same... We both got confirmation from God!!!! We just got married two weeks now God is very very awesome. I love love Jesus

@esthertwumwaaasante8663 Жыл бұрын

"If you are good Christian, you'll have a good marriage. why? Because you will be led by the Spirit of God!" Thank you Ma❤️

@footprints9260 2 жыл бұрын

1.foundation 2.counselling 3.mentorship 4 commitment over feelings

@bukenyakathie6719 6 ай бұрын

5.Accountability

@bukenyakathie6719 6 ай бұрын

Enter marriage 1.with jesus 2.with joy... partners are not mandated to bring joy.

@charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429 2 жыл бұрын

Ever since i started listening to your teachings,my whole perspective about relationships love and marriage has changed. Thank you!!

@taytayl3866 Жыл бұрын

Same girl, same. We on a whole new level now. And thank God for that 🙏🏾

@jallusandra7079 Жыл бұрын

I have been set freed from your powerful messages. Good bless you mummy

@asombapromise9671 Жыл бұрын

Same here

@chidimma180 9 ай бұрын

😊

@andreahmwanza9184 8 ай бұрын

Same!! She is so amazing!

@josephineamal9380 2 жыл бұрын

This lady is training me to be a potential wife! Am blessed ma♥️🙏

@johnkiggundu2232 2 жыл бұрын

"Enter with Jesus in one hand and joy in the other." - what a powerful statement that is!

@chidimma180 9 ай бұрын

😊

@eleakoh 2 жыл бұрын

Marriage is a covenant. You don’t do covenants by feelings but by commitments 🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you Pastor M 💗

@ronnelhamiel7921 Жыл бұрын

This woman is EXCEPTIONAL!! I like the way she is so passionate about the Word of God!

@peaced.ekemini1316 2 жыл бұрын

The way PM says “Are you joking?” Your Brain can just reset 🤣 I love you Mama 💕

@hopeifeyinwa9629 2 жыл бұрын

If wisdom was a person! Pastor M, you inspire me so much. More wisdom to you ma

@sikhangelenyathi7888 2 жыл бұрын

3yjk

@sandrataaka6624 2 жыл бұрын

We need women like you in Uganda🇺🇬, may God mightly continue using you, thanks for the msg mom

@Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu, Pastor M! Marriage isn't about feelings; it's about commitment. The same character you should have is what you should normally have as a Christian. True!

@germainekakah4905 2 жыл бұрын

I just got to know about pastor mildred and to be honest i love her sincerity in expressing truth. At times when i speak these things some people tell me i am so hard , and others say i am too strict.However these truth have kept me all these years. I pray as many as listens to you put it in practise.

@germainekakah4905 2 жыл бұрын

If any one puts this truth into practise, your heart and life will be intact but if not , you will leave or live with a broken heart or life.

@charitykawira1367 2 жыл бұрын

Woow I thought I am alone..since I got these teachings pple say am hard to get..but am confident and choose the Godly way into marriage.i believe God will lead and connect me to the purposed man

@damikuteyi 2 жыл бұрын

Big Lessons - Marriage will never be about how I feel. My partner was not created to make me happy. Jesus is my primary motivation in marriage. I come in with my own joy/happiness.

@damikuteyi 2 жыл бұрын

Marriage is commitment, not feelings

@chibuzoihentuge-eric73 2 жыл бұрын

If Jesus is not done, we are not done. Wow. The family part too was also incredible

@fullizettembong4221 2 жыл бұрын

I got here by accident but this teaching was definitely planned for me to get a different view in getting into a relationship. Thank you Jesus. God bless you Ma

@garenanighoro3722 Жыл бұрын

No, you didn’t get here by accident. Your steps were ordered here. Just as mine was.

@KuddizaAmos Жыл бұрын

The Holy Ghost works no coincidence

@eunicemagaji7619 2 жыл бұрын

"Until God gets what he wants we're not not done, we're not going anywhere". Amazing... Thank God for the gift of your marriage in my life ❤️

@janetakwi9321 2 жыл бұрын

true pastor

@Es_Elle 2 жыл бұрын

Every woman should hear this message and heed the imparted wisdom.

@celestineasumah4511 2 жыл бұрын

Yes ooo

@melodygamiros9425 Жыл бұрын

I would say that if marriage doesn't work for me I would just quit. But after hearing this message I get the clearest picture. 1. Marriage is not based on emotions. 2. Covenant is not done based on emotions but commitment. 3.The good foundation of anything we do or decide to commit to is God!

@gizzellemcleish1837 2 жыл бұрын

"If you are single and fornicating you are training yourself for adultery. You are an adultery trainee." Now that's wisdom.

@archillesjn 2 жыл бұрын

true wisdom 🙌

@digitalmarketingwithifeanyi 2 жыл бұрын

@@archillesjn aaaaa

@realtalkwithphil 2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@1love119 2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@joannaava5573 Жыл бұрын

This got me too😅

@carolinekuria8355 2 жыл бұрын

Only a woman walking step by step with can give such a wonderful and great message honestly it has really opened my eyes and before getting in a relationship or marriage I should consider all this. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪

@victoriaosunkwo1095 2 жыл бұрын

It is only KZfaq that knows how much of your videos I have downloaded. I'm not even thinking of going into ministry unless God says so, but when you preach I see myself, cos you preach most of the things I would say normally if I were to be talking to anyone . You have been a blessing to me for over 2yrs now, I'm not married yet, I'm in my mid 20's. Thank you so much PM! God bless you♥️

@kemilolafadeyi5483 2 жыл бұрын

You made it look so easy here to obey and walk in love . You are are wealth of wisdom . The day you said yes to pastor Kingsley , you stayed in the will of God . No doubt God is the foundation of your marriage . Keep fulfilling your divine mandate . More anointing to you madam . I love your ministry and what you stand for . Your authentic and transparency was so catchy . You was speaking under the Holy Spirit and not under flesh . God bless .

@impactmen 2 жыл бұрын

A time to be alive to listen to this where ever you are. I am single and I am learning so much from her and her husband.

@SniderBrilly 7 ай бұрын

I'm from kenya currently working in Saudia Arabia. I'm telling you since I started listening to you hve learned alot thank you so much pastor Mildred God bless you

@SamuellaOfosu 4 ай бұрын

Thank you mama❤

@d-internetaunty 2 жыл бұрын

Patience, forgiveness and kindness........I've been with this "Christian" who gets angry and goes weeks without talking to me after every minor misunderstanding saying that sins have consequences...until I watched this and changed my perspective I kept walking on egg shells around him.

@MaryMackori Жыл бұрын

Run from that one ooo

@samkelisotshuma8485 3 ай бұрын

I hope you ran away from that one

@thebibletalesTV 2 жыл бұрын

I just love Pastor M! God will keep keeping you Ma. The devil will fail in any gimmicks of his to bring you down. May you never lose relevance Ma. Pastor Mildred, you will never ever lose you flavor. In Jesus mighty name🙏

@oghalemercy 2 жыл бұрын

Pst M, it's not easy oo. Someone you have loved and been with. Kai, the will of God honestly, can be painful at times. But I am sold out to his will, I know he will see me through it.

@RACQUEL830 Жыл бұрын

Feelings have got nothing to do with marriage. Your emotions will not always be there! Well Noted. I love you pastor Mildred for statements on point.

@ntokotom147 2 жыл бұрын

Believing God for marriage in 2023 September. Your messages are helping me to prepare❤️

@jules1307 Жыл бұрын

Amen to that!!!

@MaryMackori Жыл бұрын

Me too sis❤

@nicolewashe9005 2 жыл бұрын

When God says no, carry your bag and run

@augustaisidore530 2 жыл бұрын

Mama you are looking so beautiful and your hair style is fine I love it, more Grace to you ma, your teaching always makes a meaningful in my life and it makes me to understand things in relationship which I don't know before.. Thanks ma

@florencekayiti4721 2 жыл бұрын

My Lord i know that you are the one with my true future husband 💍🙏🙏🙏🙏 👑 let me trust in your timing lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@BirunjiFaithWAYESU Ай бұрын

Am really blessed, its my first to watch this as a single person 2024❤thank u so much 🇺🇬

@theladyfaith_ 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you pastor M🥰 if you tell pastor funmi you are going to that boys house to collect textbook,she calls steadily to make sure that’s all you went there for,she is fulfilling her accountability part. Seeing her call will reset your brain

@cynthiadiama5072 Жыл бұрын

I love the REALNESS OF LIVING LIFE, THAT IS WITHIN YOU....TRUTH ...I LOVE THIS !

@favourcyril1172 Жыл бұрын

Wow 😳! I just started listening to pastor Mildred but I must confess, I was indeed blessed by this wisdom. More grace ma

@okwaramercy5921 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to you anytime is always a blessing. The fact that you're "raw" and straight with the truth. God bless you richly Ma!

@eneonoda 2 жыл бұрын

This thing called Marriage. We've been told having the right tools going in works magic. We shall continue to sorts for those tools. Thanks Pastor M. For being intentional.

@blessedamooti1371 Жыл бұрын

9th/1/2023. God thank you for everything I feel blessed to here this when am still single 🌟🍃💕

@princessohemaa8168 2 жыл бұрын

You are a blessing to my life and Marriage pastor Mildred.

@MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx 3 ай бұрын

Isaiah 30:15❤❤❤❤

@deraglory6517 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ma for this, The best part of this message for me is the foundation on which I am building whatever I am building which should be the word of God and oh that first scripture with message translation, kaiii, Matthew 7 vs 26- 27

@haniebrown8876 Жыл бұрын

Now you've showed me red flags in what I was getting into

@misslydia45 2 жыл бұрын

God will continue to bless my far away mentor Pastor Mildred ❤️❤️

@ngoziukpa5517 2 жыл бұрын

That part where you wonder why you are talking about God dealing with us Spirit-to-spirit, showing us that He is not a figment of our imagination; that was for me. Literally minutes before I pressed play on this video I wrote down, and I quote: "The biggest stronghold in my mind is that my relationship & interactions with god are just figments of my imagination, they are not actual divine encounters." Thank you.

@jacquelineadadeobour4942 2 жыл бұрын

In fact!... Wisdom is indeed a woman, God bless you Pastor M.

@russelllevers9513 3 ай бұрын

Your advice is very very awesome!!!!!!, to God be the glory... Your marriage is very very blessed and highly favored by God. I wish you all the best

@justmo6896 2 жыл бұрын

May God continue giving me wisdom and knowledge💛love your teachings

@mulengamwelwa3817 2 жыл бұрын

More wisdom Zambia is listening we are blessed

@davidkondo7248 Жыл бұрын

im very blessed by this message today, i cannot thank you enough for this tremendous mind openning as im exactly in the midst of getting married may GOD keeps on using and blessing you. THank you Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, all the way from the Democratic Republic of the CONGO. GOD bless

@Si-cb6il 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you pastor Mildred for this powerful message✨ love you ma💐

@johndorcas9657 2 жыл бұрын

I love u mummy, and you are speaking to me ..God bless me and you Amen.

@lifewithnnedi 2 жыл бұрын

You don't get to do covenant by feelings, you do covenant by committment

@chiomaugwoke114 Жыл бұрын

Wow!! Until God gets what he wants we don't have to walk away!!

@lifewithnnedi 2 жыл бұрын

The God that I serve is not a gossip Love you mama

@gift3165 2 жыл бұрын

Hold Jesus on your master hand and with the other joy💯

@VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc 25 күн бұрын

This message has changed my view of relationship, Thank you so much ma, God bless you

@jejeprofit3595 2 жыл бұрын

Pure unadulterated wisdom 💕 thank you WoG

@alicebanda1076 2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️Our generation is so BLESSED🥺😭....

@EbubeEzenwegbu Ай бұрын

You are a good teacher ma

@temi_ladele2177 2 жыл бұрын

You enter marriage with your joy and Jesus🔥

@tanyinana7013 2 жыл бұрын

My journey just started today 🔥🔥🔥thank you pastor M🙏

@ruthmuyiwa9946 2 жыл бұрын

Hmmmm...Don't just ask for counsel, receive counsel. More wisdom mama ❤

@deboraholaonipekun7344 2 жыл бұрын

Pastor M, that digression was for me. ANOINT HIM....THE ONE (1sam 16 vs 12) i stood up searching for my old joter..

@maryibeji6678 2 жыл бұрын

Fighting over men who are not worth fighting for

@ndidintekpere3613 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing and down to earth message. Love every minute of it 💝

@everydaylifebyrozy6174 2 жыл бұрын

Amen. Watched live and from Nairobi , Kenya and can't get enough of it .I'm watching again.

@inge-ingenisiakatjiuongua8832 2 жыл бұрын

Kingdom marriage. Kingdom marriage is never about you or your spouse, it is about Jesus. Amen.

@d_kings_princess 2 жыл бұрын

This pastor and wisdom...Chai 🙌🙌🙌

@roslynkelley-world8692 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jesus and thank my beautiful sister for this changing word today on marriage and relationships it really helped me to look at relationships with a clear view now. 🙏

@ify1027 2 жыл бұрын

Yes mama! You’ve broken the table 😂😂😂 It’s uncensored really 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼. I am blessed

@chisomadiele7804 2 жыл бұрын

You came just at the right time in my life 😭😭

@kyerewaahdapaah3531 2 жыл бұрын

I always get to draw from your wise counselling. Thank you Maa

@Comfort.In.Christ.AloneC.I.C.A 2 ай бұрын

Am watching from Uganda but greatly inspired 🙏🙏 God bless you

@iyanu_de_real_estate_buddy 2 жыл бұрын

You are a blessing to this generation ma. God bless you the more in Jesus name ma.

@gloryyussuf4335 Ай бұрын

I love you pastor M Ds teaching has changed my life 🔥🔥🔥🔥

@glorychristina1738 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor Mildred for this. God should continue blessing you to speak his truth, I love your teachings so much

@catherinemaseko2471 2 жыл бұрын

This is my message ooooh God change me to be a better person

@ijeomachristian617 9 күн бұрын

I love you honestly I just got to listen to your preaching and I am in awe thank you so much

@MondesThreads Жыл бұрын

So so so good. I really wish I had know all of this before I got married. Never too late to learn

@lydiahwomenrep9919 Жыл бұрын

Wisdom 💯 Representing Kenya 🇰🇪

@wayimiranda2180 2 жыл бұрын

This uncommon wisdom Many things we fail to take heed to I’ve learned so much 🙌🏻

@susanengwachemiguel4298 2 жыл бұрын

Pastor God bless u my prayer is that I should one-day see you face to face to thank u for changing my thoughts about marriage and relationship. I pray God continue to strengthen you till we meet in this life. I love u Soo much Mama. From Cameroon

@sophiaewuramamensah505 2 жыл бұрын

I am really blessed with your teachings woman of God, my perspectives have changed totally. God bless you

@AwotuOkwa Жыл бұрын

Wow! So so blessed . Indeed marriage is not about feelings but about Jesus. U go with ur joy ur partner cannot make u happy

@bataemmanuel2350 2 жыл бұрын

This woman is loaded....🥰

@doreenmapulanga4224 10 ай бұрын

Madam, you're an excellent mentor among the women mentors I've watched may God richly bless you my dear.

@blessingedomwonyi7337 2 ай бұрын

The teachers are powerful, I ❤ you ma

@elly8588 2 жыл бұрын

This so stood out to me. There is a difference between fruit and gift kaiiish

@ingbarmoses1673 2 жыл бұрын

Omo na to recommend and reffer my babe to this people ooo The woman is as good as the husband.... I'm blessed

@mabel.e.kgalley9710 Жыл бұрын

The information in the message is so powerful and practical I couldn't wait for it to finish before sharing. Woman of God, keep letting out the truth, God bless you for speaking it. Thanks a lot.

@landrybalbin560 2 жыл бұрын

Wow 😭, this has blessed me exponentially. Thank you for this 🙌🏾.

@jonathanquartey6705 2 жыл бұрын

God Bless you woman of God, You are a gift from God

@njokisilvia9508 2 жыл бұрын

And God gave Us a pastor to teach Us in knowledge and Understanding

@maryariyo6681 Ай бұрын

"IF GOD TELLS YOU NO CARRY YOUR BAG AND RUN". To obey is better than sacrifice. I was in a relationship in my undergraduate days, God told me several ways, both in his word, teachings and Sunday School. I didn't hear the consequence was bad. It is better to listen to God, prayerfully take action with immediate effects to save yourself from the consequences of disobedience.