How to Sound Feminine || Feminine Voice + Speech || A Feminine Impression Femininity Series

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Hi loves, welcome to another video from my series “A Feminine Impression” where I give tips and advice on how to incorporate femininity into your life. In today’s video I discuss what a feminine voice sounds like and how to speak like a feminine lady.
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@drmichelledaf 9 ай бұрын

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@fynlilmama 4 жыл бұрын

This was needed. The tone of my voice isn't very feminine. Plus I was very tomboy-ish growing up and transitioned into an absolute plain Jane. I just turned 25 and decided to go on an "Esther" season (biblical) to reform myself and reveal a new feminine side of me. Thanks for the video.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

That's wonderful that you decided to do that sis! I hope these videos continue to be helpful.

@monique1515 4 жыл бұрын

God bless you on your new journey

@MumbaCee 4 жыл бұрын

Sis I would love to hear more about this Esther season and the other things you're doing on your journey ❤ I'd appreciate the help.

@chrysterfung5983 4 жыл бұрын

Wishing you all the best

@sashapollard92 4 жыл бұрын

Omg same! I am turning 26 in July. I am having the exact same "resurrection." I love it sis! congrats!

@ijeBeauty 3 жыл бұрын

"Everyone does not need to know everything that's going on with you" soooooo true

@prettynatural1973 4 жыл бұрын

Speech is important. My mom used to say I saw a lot of beautiful women but when they open that mouth hood rich

@naimaabdullahi2154 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 Mama knows better..🤣

@immahana6854 3 жыл бұрын

Hooooh!! i dont know if all the men i have dated commented anything about my speech!

@VioletRaya 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 3 жыл бұрын

@Pretty Natural it’s like the gold plated rotten banana post! Glitty on the outside but hood rich in the inside! 🤦🏽‍♀️😩🤣 Entire IG especially the thousand likes women LOL Super pretty mouth needs soap and bleach 🤷🏾‍♀️😞🙏🏿

@bringpeacetoall5505 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣💀💀

@TheMusingsofMeira 4 жыл бұрын

I naturally have a “baby voice” & have always hated it. But since starting my feminine journey I’ve used it as a tool & realized it’s very useful because of the allure. Men love it. Thank you for this. 😉💖

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Yes sis, that's great that you've realized that. No better gift than God's gift :)

@carolesteinberg7463 4 жыл бұрын

Same here. I’m working On lowering the tone a bit to give my speech more authority

@MichelleMurphy 4 жыл бұрын

I do too. 😩

@sbusisiwelinshaba7841 4 жыл бұрын

me too. i have a baby voice.

@ieshasaunders1855 4 жыл бұрын

same! haha

@phugh3878 4 жыл бұрын

I am 22 year old woman Feminine women: -don't curse -don't talk fast -don't talk loud -don't have a rough tone

@phugh3878 3 жыл бұрын

Nichelle Anderson but thats how i am naturally. I am feminine and these are the qualities of that.

@uwu-ps3qb 3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo I curse, talk fast and loud rip

@jeinnyg3973 3 жыл бұрын

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@jillianpacker2819 3 жыл бұрын

I don’t get this why does my voice and way I talk change how feminine I am

@Lynn-ip9sh 3 жыл бұрын

@@jillianpacker2819 The way you carry your voice can give you feminine aura, if that's what you're aiming for. You don't have too want a feminine essence though. Its all up too you darling.❤️

@theloveandlipstick 4 жыл бұрын

Your top is pretty too

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetheart!

@DianaMillan 4 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf I know I'm a month late, but I just came across your channel today and I LOVE it! Would you mind telling me where you got your top?

@makedafindlay9398 4 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf where did you get the top from x.

@fowsiiyaa 4 жыл бұрын

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@fowsiiyaa 4 жыл бұрын

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@kemikunle9360 4 жыл бұрын

I interrupt people so terribly smh, trying to work on it for years

@MsChantae 3 жыл бұрын

sometimes we focus so much on what we have to say that we end up trying to remember that instead of actually listening. I say politely butt in...but also try to pay attention more :)

@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 3 жыл бұрын

@Kemi Kunle I use to be like that too because my mother does it horribly! She is a born again Christian as well as me and unfortunately we think our opinions are facts! It took me 2 years being INTENTIONAL to get delivered from that flaw! Now I listen with a smile #Growth bless you on your journey to being a better listener it’s so important to sharing people you care and value their conversations Bless you 🙏🏿❤️

@prettykush7924 3 жыл бұрын

Same but its because I have anxiety and adhd

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 3 жыл бұрын

Relatable 😔😥 but actively working on it 🙂.

@AWholeVibe96 2 жыл бұрын

It's a terrible habit but it's fixable. Do some research on effective and active listening they are really helpful

@Christianeeee 3 жыл бұрын

Since I was a teenager, people always told me "I talk white/ I act white." I was always insecure about it because as a African American young lady, I thought I had to be more loud, sound more rough, use a lower grade vocabulary, and use profanity. JUST to be what I thought I should be to fit in. As woman now, I'm so glad I never gave in and succumbed to what people expected me to be because I'm proud to say the way I present myself is not associated with my race. It is associated with my divine femininity. I have never been turned down from a job and I do not find myself in conflicting situations with people.

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

That is beautiful. I can relate. Thank you for sharing love 🤍

@keishanance5960 4 жыл бұрын

The best way to be feminine is to be confident and secure with in yourself.

@juliaseazar 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you and be yourself!!! Having a uterus/or just identifying as a women should be enough to be considered feminine. A woman as the right to shout and have a deep voice, a woman as the right to do whatever the hell she wants

@Spokentruths725 4 жыл бұрын

Deez Nuts exactly and i dont have to “dress” a certain way either. I understand some of the things these channels say but others i dont and never had an issue attracting men.

@nubianprincess8609 4 жыл бұрын

CJSpeaks well this video isn’t for you this video is for women seeking to be Feminine just a basic outline of course you can do whatever you want and dress how ever you want

@cm5394 3 жыл бұрын

@@juliaseazar you’re completely wrong. Women can be a woman and have very masculine qualities. No one is forcing you so of course you can do what you want but don’t say you can do what you want and call it something it’s not

@agathachris9722 3 жыл бұрын

Women can do for what ever they want. Based on your opinions. This channel is for women who believe that there are feminine traits that align better with women.

@unholy_child7967 3 жыл бұрын

Who else here from 2020 trying to change themselves to be more feminine cuz ur a tomboy

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here babe

@bvnny1379 3 жыл бұрын

I'm not a tomboy, I'm actually very girly, I just wanna sound more mature 😔

@kaykayssl267 3 жыл бұрын

Miss Doe exactly I live with too much guys and I use too many slang words

@oikawaishot5604 3 жыл бұрын

I'm using this too get better at voice acting ☺️

@tokozilengwenya8760 3 жыл бұрын

Watching this video made me so sad because literally everything she talked about I do wrong. I am happy that now I can begin to work on myself

@nugget6565 2 жыл бұрын

Summary (Voice & Speech): - You have control over your voice. If you begin to pay attention, people's voices change depending on who they speak with (i.e. baby, customer service, etc.). You can train your voice to sound a certain way. If you want something, you can change your tone. Practice speaking in a tone that's easy for you. - Feminine voices are soft and light (common for feminine voices). The tone of voice that you use is important! - When you are out in public, there is no need to raise your voice. Oftentimes, it attracts negative attention. - How you speak puts you in certain categories in life, it signifies which class you belong into. - Be mindful about what you say out loud. - Speak up so people can hear you, not because you're raising your voice. - The rate at which you speak is also important! People have a problem with those who speak really fast vs. someone who speak slowly. Speak at medium pace (ideal) - The way that they speak, feminine women are expressive. They are engaging when they speak (i.e. use your eyes, body, and smile! to draw people in) - Goal: have a voice that is soothing, calm, and paced - Behaviours within speech: Talking too much, it is really stressful when you're speaking to someone who speaks too much. Don't keep people captive in your conversations especially when they are on their way somewhere. Everyone doesn't need to know everything about you - do no overshare! - Do more listening than talking. Have a little bit of mystery to you - by mindful about how much you talk and who you are talking to - Ensure that when you are talking to someone that you are making eye contact (depending on the culture) - Do not interrupt while people are talking - Give people you're undivided attention, do not be on the phone/internet while they are speaking to you - Profanity: Delete from your vocabulary. Use adjectives and refrain from sounding aggressive. If you disagree with someone, still do not resort to profanity - Surround yourself with people that are like you! do not try to fit in by resorting to profanity. - Have standards for yourself. If you are well dressed and takes care of yourself, others will adapt their tone to you. - Build up your vocabulary by reading books

@tanya.222 Жыл бұрын

My voice goes soft with my man lol 🤣

@sandracorley3944 11 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@Evajjane 4 жыл бұрын

My masculine energy stems from my childhood, my voice was originally soft and I almost couldn’t speak up so people often spoke over me. So I became really stern. Also, I started working at 13 so I had to protect myself so I learned aggression. I learned that feminine behavior is too submissive. I read!!!!!

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

It is wonderful that you have come to awareness of this issue and you want to make a change. That is all that matters now and you can work towards a healthy balance. It is actually not submissive if you learn how to use your power. My goal is to teach you to do that. Much love to you

@babyangelic 3 жыл бұрын

Me too...I started acting masculine because of being in "survival mode", but I always felt wrong, as if I was playing a role. Now my life is more stable and I feel the urge to go back to my feminine self. It's a journey of practice, but I'll be worth. I truly want to be the self I always wanted to be.

@prettykush7924 3 жыл бұрын

Sameee omg this is literally me

@rachealO12 3 жыл бұрын

This is soo me.. I grew up in an environment where you have to struggle for everything,,and a soft voice is seen as not smart., And you get overriden. I really want to be better. I'm 24 now and I'm having issues with my partner., Bcos they feel bad everytime I raise my voice much too often and I can barely talk calmly. I hope this channel help me get better..

@w3n33dam1racl3 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate. I'm try to be intentional about softening my tone especially when I'm angry or frustrated.

@aajefferson1545 4 жыл бұрын

Can you do a video on how to carry on a conversation with new people/ friends ? I have a hard time conversing. I’m always quiet.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I can incorporate it into the video.

@Rishonable 4 жыл бұрын

That's my issue. I'm mortified by the dead silence as a result of not knowing how to converse effectively.

@llanneg.v.c545 4 жыл бұрын

I recommend the books “The Art of Small talk” and “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” Then practice practice practice. I practiced how to confidently walk in a room and smile, how to greet people, and introduce myself. Now it comes easily and effortlessly. Best!

@angelstarfire 4 жыл бұрын

@@llanneg.v.c545 I read the summaries for each, pretty insightful read! Any advice for improving my social skills when I can't go out to socialise? I was thinking of using Discord to practice

@BiBi302001 4 жыл бұрын

@@llanneg.v.c545 Thank you so much for those book recommendations!

@sajdahsabree9691 4 жыл бұрын

I love this post. Finally a woman who wants to be a woman and not an imitation of a man.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I hope more women will take from it as well.

@soniabrown7151 4 жыл бұрын

Sajdah Sabree I wanna be a black woman I don’t care what people think about my voice are shape of body

@blueprince5873 4 жыл бұрын

@@soniabrown7151 keep it to yourself,no one cares

@sanaa8367 4 жыл бұрын

Sonia Brown How black women differ from any other races of women?

@nuguland_ 4 жыл бұрын

Sanaa i think because some people often say that black women have man features/look manly?

@Honestly_Sisi 4 жыл бұрын

Girl! Reading is so IMPORTANT. A lot of women (and men) don’t have vocabulary to express their thoughts thoroughly. That can have a huge impact on ability to communicate effectively and then impact who you have access to.

@Itsme_1648 4 жыл бұрын

“They may think you’re on some type of substance” 😂 💯

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

lol!

@not-even-german4892 4 жыл бұрын

Or think they went LOW thats why you go HIGH lol

@nadiawong3519 4 жыл бұрын

I laughed as well when that statement was made😀

@ten7192 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@alannac.7392 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@zionskilled4127 3 жыл бұрын

I just recently turned 16. I can honestly say my Mom never taught me the value of women or to be feminine . Thank you so much for these videos, they have and are helping me a lot. I love your channel and I love you.❤️

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

Aww well I love you too and I am happy you are here. I hope you take all that you can from my content.

@trynabee5085 4 жыл бұрын

Michelle❤. I am loving these feminine video series. You're like the big sister I've never had who teaches me these valuable things almost no one talks about (at least not to me). I feel like I'm getting richer with the knowlegde you choose to share with us. I get excited when a new video pops up. Keep them coming, my dear wonderful sis👏👐. Greetings from Holland.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Aww sis, that's so touching thank you. I'm so happy that you are excited and can benefit from these videos. So much more on the way. Much love to you!

@nkatekomnise8919 4 жыл бұрын

How to creat a sweet voice as a girl

@pjbottoms839 4 жыл бұрын

God bless

@Sulanboujetbeauty 3 жыл бұрын

No one taught me these things. I intend to teach my daughter, bonus daughter and nieces. Thank you Dr. Michelle. We can be Beauties and Bosses and this is how.

@angiecuee 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@aajefferson1545 4 жыл бұрын

Your voice sounds amazing. Very pleasant. My voice sounds stress and frustrated.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! Well you can certainly choose to alter your voice if you please.

@edenbright6282 3 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf Can you provide information on voice training? I am told that I have a baby voice and I'd like to have a more mature sounding voice.

@MissG909 3 жыл бұрын

My husband told me from the beginning of our relationship that my voice was one of the first things that attracted him to me. He says he loved it because its sweet and sexy and that he still finds it very arousing. Just found your channel,love the content and couldn't agree with you more. You're beautiful btw! 💕

@caniciabiscoe 4 жыл бұрын

This is so on time. I'm really embracing my divine feminine energy ✨✨Thank you fellow Virgo

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Yess sis!! That's great sweetie, Godspeed!

@PreciousSullivan 4 жыл бұрын

Us Virgos are the best

@disnooga6926 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you on the cursing part and have often thought about it. Cussing really doesn’t lack of argumentation skills. Also I’d like to see a video on keeping your home clean and organized as a woman.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Will do sis! Thanks for watching love

@TBELLA26_ 4 жыл бұрын

Very informative video sis. I always been told how proper I talk and growing up it made me feel insecure but over time I learned to embrace it! I had that "oh you talk white" "oreo" "why you talk so proper" conversations..smh.. In the work world or just with my personality in general, I was able to get good jobs and people always came to me for advice because they trust me and I carry myself in a good way. I just need to work on getting that feminine touch back now loll.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you honey!! When I was very young I had similar experiences but I love that things have turned around so much that now they are asking you! By the end of this series I have faith that you will have the touch! Much love to you!

@TBELLA26_ 4 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf You're welcome!❤❤

@tayloralliease7603 4 жыл бұрын

I experienced the same thing . I even started to think that me being "proper" ( articulate ) was a bad thing and it eventually resulted in me trying to fit in with other kids . Now as a young adult I still find myself blurting out profanity and behaving insecure but I am working on it . That's why I clicked on this video 💅🏾😊

@TBELLA26_ 4 жыл бұрын

@@tayloralliease7603 It's a process but you will be able to do it!! 😊

@tayloralliease7603 4 жыл бұрын

@@TBELLA26_ Thank you love 💓

@Zelicious11 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve always thought my voice was deep however men have told me it’s real sexy & it isn’t deep! I guess things I was told by people in my younger years are still in my head. You’re gorgeous love!🖤

@Kat3369 4 жыл бұрын

Girl....me too. I hated my voice growing up, but men absolutely love it.

@ashleyrenee3906 4 жыл бұрын

Same! Men find it sultry!

@meekmeeek 4 жыл бұрын

My voice is kinda deep to

@brittneyr.5114 4 жыл бұрын

Same!

@chr4cles 4 жыл бұрын

I thought I kinda had a deep voice myself, but people have told me that I have a girly voice.

@DesiredMelanchony 3 жыл бұрын

I’m dead ass watching videos on KZfaq about femininity and this ad comes out of nowhere talking about some “stop chasing men” 💀

@teresai1877 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you soooo much about the "too much talking" thing. I have literally "talked too much" for my entire life. I totally think about the lunchroom at work especially. I have one co-worker who used to listen to all my stories, but now whenever I sit down at the lunch table, he disappears. I was wondering ... Anyway, lesson learned. :-)

@jasmineestafia 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve fallen in love with you myself as a straight woman lol 😆 your femininity is definitely top tier

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you, it's a spiritual connection. I love you too

@bettymontero2889 2 жыл бұрын

Hardest lesson as an adult - not everyone needs to know everything because not everyone has your best interest at heart… Thank you for the reminder ♥️

@drmichelledaf 2 жыл бұрын

It is hard! It shouldn't have to be that way. You are welcome love

@ktg8840 4 жыл бұрын

, ive been practicing being more feminine in my speech, so this video is greatly appreciated. also been working towards eliminating curse words, it really is low class and unattractive

@truthdelight6320 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful profile Sis! Classy and Feminine.

@jo9882 4 жыл бұрын

U look GORGeous girl Love your top

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much beautiful!!

@JamiliaRBanks 4 жыл бұрын

I needed this! I tend to raise my voice a lot, especially when I'm upset. Thanks Love 😊

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Happy to help babe. Thanks for watching!

@AFFTFOMSICHTS 4 жыл бұрын

I work at a hospital as an operator and you’re so right, ive been told many times how “sexy” my customer service voice is.

@gracefulhumble7248 4 жыл бұрын

Love this, Yes I hate being interrupted it happens to me quite a lot I think because I come across as sweet people just seem to do it to me often, I know people just want to talk but listening is so important. Oh and I am so guilty of using words that make no sense when I get nervous lol

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you love, yes it's a terrible feeling and I'm sorry it happens to you.

@LMI101 4 жыл бұрын

@Luna Pink yes! If I get interrupted I keep speaking. Lately though with those who interrupt me I don't speak unless spoken to.

@hebaolimat8305 4 жыл бұрын

I really need to keep my own business to myself, I share too much and it always backfires on me.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Start now by making a decision to stop sharing babe.

@hebaolimat8305 4 жыл бұрын

Dr. Michelle I will for sure! Thank you

@oliviawutam 3 жыл бұрын

Heba, I also share too much, I have too few contacts, that's when it happens, I will share less.

@aliyaahzalia2719 4 жыл бұрын

Just learning the importance of using your feminine voice... Your voice is so relaxing.. I feel so relaxed whenever I watch your videos... Am learning to use my feminine voice Coz I can be so loud 😢and honestly it's so unnecessary

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you so much. Yes love. I'm happy you are learning and walking down this path. Look forward and continue to make the changes. Much love to you!

@saanthiiii 4 жыл бұрын

i realized my nervousness made my tone defensive and demeaning as well as masculine. it makes it difficult to communicate how i feel

@tanishaholmes5733 3 жыл бұрын

I needed this video. I’ve been dealing with social anxiety and I no longer want it to control my life. I’ve been on my feminine journey for 2 months now and I’ve been able to notice lately that when I speak fast my breathing gets out of control and I feel the anxiety creeping in. Thank you for this video. I’ve always had a sweet soft spoken voice but because of these ratchet trends I thought I needed to be loud. I’m just trying to step back into me. Thank you for this video. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m working on my reading also 😊

@cr.6752 4 жыл бұрын

I worked in customer service and I used a soft sensual voice. I had customers of all races trying to get with me. They would call back and ask for me. One man wanted to fly me to Florida. LOL. I thought it was so funny because they didn't even know how I looked. I had to change my facebook name because they were searching for my name.

@minikaur4993 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my! Can you give me some tips? Like how do you do that?

@thepynkbeautybar246 Жыл бұрын

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@LisaaaAnnn 3 жыл бұрын

Guys tell me I have a “sexy/ relaxing” voice. When employers would call me they would ask I had just woke up😂 so now I have to purposely raise my tone and try to sound higher pitch

@krrythmpsn 4 жыл бұрын

Some great helpful tips! Would love to see a video of you talking about femininity with your beautiful natural hair. Black women are beautiful and do not need to look more European in order to be more feminine.

@Tanniab09 4 жыл бұрын

Kerry Thompson I agree. I like the information she is putting out for women who need it, however a lot of the times weave wearing is encouraged, whether one does or doesn’t there needs to be more options.

@Malita419 4 жыл бұрын

So true i am a 4c woman and I would love to see natural 4c like me teaching my femininity, frizz and all.

@khaliagraham4669 4 жыл бұрын

I really need to fix my speech and work on my anger 😪

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

You can do it girl!

@kayelle9708 4 жыл бұрын

Khalia Graham same

@elizabethGJC 4 жыл бұрын

It’s a process, practice practice practice... I’m happy I didn’t give up because Im being transformed for the better and a lot of great opportunities have been opening up and in the process I have also been helping/ encouraging other

@rachealO12 3 жыл бұрын

@Liz Yessenia,, what approachbhelped you get better please?

@blu6207 2 жыл бұрын

I needed this because I a lot of people say I sound like a 13 year old boy when I’m 16 and I always wished I had that 16 year old mature voice 🧍🏻‍♀️

@nerium.. Жыл бұрын

sameee... im turning 17 and its just embarassing

@nokuthuladhlamini664 3 жыл бұрын

"You can mimic people you see on KZfaq".....and here I was already mimicking you before you even mentioned, from binge watching all your videos because I absolutely love your videos, how you speak and general aura.

@DominiqueFrancon 4 жыл бұрын

Your voice is beautifully modulated. This is very good advice. I enjoyed the entire video and especially appreciated the part when you encouraged women to improve their vocabulary. This is excellent advice. We are judged by the words we use. A beautiful, pleasant voice that is backed up with a refined mind is a powerful combination. You are lovely, my dear. Thank you.

@mkliyan 3 жыл бұрын

Sharing just the right amount of private things! This is something I need to work on more! I'm careful on sharing my personal goals/private matters, but I tend to overshare when I am nervous.

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

It's good that you know where you need to begin. That is what's important. Now when you are nervous you know to stay as silent as possible so you don't slip

@GodskidUr1 4 жыл бұрын

I've been working on my voice I was raised in the hood mostly so I sound streetish. But I'm working on my accent to sound less that way 🙏

@MatchaMama3 4 жыл бұрын

Any advice for maintaining feminine tones when interacting with masculine female family members?

@Sulanboujetbeauty 3 жыл бұрын

I am literally binge watching these videos. Literally that CSR analogy is me, been a Telephone csr over 9 years but I got sick a year ago and ever since it been husky and harsh ish unless I meet people, smile and talking to customers. My fiance say i sound rough now, so I def needed this. Thank you!

@elodiei.5087 4 жыл бұрын

I love it! I used to work in catering and we were taught how important it was to smile and watch our posture. Now that I work in customer service, I've really learned to master my way of speaking. About 55% of communication is non-verbal, which gets lost in my job because I'm on the phone and people can't see me. They train us to ask the right question, listen carefully and watch our language. I've noticed that people react very differently when I bring them bad news. They tend to be more understanding of the situation and it saved me when a customer filed a complaint against me, because I didn't allow my emotions to come through. This has helped me so much in my personal life as well.

@thefragrancedfarmhouse8635 3 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree that it’s important to surround yourself with like minded people. I’ve not had any success locating such people. I think that’s why so many of us classic feminine, traditional housewife types who are constantly attempting to improve their elegance and class are often talking about feeling like they don’t fit into society.

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

Ahh yes, this is so true my love! It's not easy to find but when you do it's so much fun!

@spunkycat6144 3 жыл бұрын

This should be mandatory for every woman to watch, heck, men could use this.

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

Very true!

@YessiWaters 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos are absolutely incredible and you give amazing advice

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much honey. I appreciate your kind words and for watching!

@shaylahealinglight 3 жыл бұрын

This is not good advice. People should just be free to just be who they are naturally.

@harpo627 2 жыл бұрын

@@shaylahealinglight yes people are free to be who they are, but some of us want to grow and improve ourselves. We are free to do that, too.

@shaylahealinglight 2 жыл бұрын

@@harpo627 Growing and improving yourself means to embraced your authentic self. You don't need to watch a video to tell you how to talk or how to act. All you have to do is go within. Also realize that we all have masculine and feminine energy and that are energy doesn't always match our gender and that is okay.. Alot of times we are trying to be someone we are not just because someone put that expectation on us. I know from experience. I used to try so hard to be someone I wasn't or someone the world expected me to be. And I ended up suffering in the end. Connect with yourself. Mediate, spend some time alone, and fill yourself up with self love 💘. And you will find that you don't have to try so hard, you can just be. And when you live from authenticity, you will find love, freedom, peace, and joy.

@nawal8155 2 жыл бұрын

@@shaylahealinglight beautifully written

@kimmyhotstuff 4 жыл бұрын

Love this video I really hate to be interrupted while speaking it gets on my nerves thanks for sharing

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you babe, yes it's unappreciated. We have to all be mindful. Thanks for watching sis!

@makennah524 3 жыл бұрын

me being a thirteen year old female, sounding like a 40 year old man from atlanta. i can’t even change it smh

@obehianita4938 2 жыл бұрын

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@disneyprincesstaylor8520 2 жыл бұрын

I cannot tell you how much this video and your podcast has helped me become more feminine. Many family members and my boyfriend have noticed and have enjoyed it much more than how I use to be.

@55phe 3 жыл бұрын

I grew up in a very country household, so in my middle school years, I actively made sure I spoke proper English. Also, I was a very loud person till I realized when you are more soft-spoken people tend to respond to you better. I know for me, listening to your videos I do a lot of what you are teaching! There is so much truth in these. Love it! 🧡

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

I am so happy to hear that. Yes, small tweaks here and there make a big difference. Much love to you!

@saranox7319 4 жыл бұрын

I grew up without a mother and living with a father who does a lot of these points you mentioned to avoid, I feel very seperated from my femininity and need to get back into it. Thank you. 💚

@tamikapadgett8989 4 жыл бұрын

I am obsessed with this series. Thank you!

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for watching love!

@scarletrayne5126 3 жыл бұрын

You’ve helped me heal and put away so many of my masculine energies I didn’t even know I had I am so grateful for you❤️

@fitwithbrittany2706 3 жыл бұрын

I am speaking much softer since watching your channel 🙃 it’s amazing how both men and women respond and are helpful and kind

@BrittanyKellyTV 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with everything that was said. So, I subscribed 😊. I have always been more feminine and when I was growing up many people criticized me. It is nice to see other women who look like me embracing their true feminine nature.

@indiashante1560 3 жыл бұрын

I can't hear out of my left ear so I'm naturally louder than I'd like to be. I honestly can't stand it so I really have to really concentrate on speaking softer.

@CarmensCornerOfWisdom 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Dr. Michelle!!!! I have learned and applied so much of what you've taught us on your channel. Bless you always

@HelloDecember525 4 жыл бұрын

Love your content especially on femininity!!!!! 💯 % ❤️❤️❤️ I don’t really see anyone on KZfaq share on this topic (or share it well) bless you, so many of us ladies need a good example on this! ❤️ I am grateful. ❤️ Much love and blessings from OC, California! 🌅🌅

@KimM1116 3 жыл бұрын

I really truly appreciate your videos. Please keep on making them. Living in a house with all males I struggle with my feminine side🤦🏽‍♀️. I try and try but somehow resort to being too aggressive. I prayed and God sent you, to learn and to “mimic”. Thank you so much!

@pink221 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I stumbled across this video. I found this because I have quite a strong authoritative voice but sometimes it's taken the wrong way. I remember once being told that my voice doesn't match my face! I definitely agree with what you said about profanity in conversation and I have noticed that curse words are becoming common place in professional settings - which has always made me uncomfortable! The part about oversharing is also true, as not everyone has our best interests at heart. 💓

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

I am so glad that God brought you to this video. It can be a tough balance between soft and strong and sometimes it's unconscious. It's great to know that you are mindful. Much love to you and thank you for watching

@xprettynpinkx911 3 жыл бұрын

This woman is seriously gold. Sharing this knowledge 🙌 thank you!! Beautiful not only on the outside but on the inside 😍

@Cristina.Antoniuc 2 жыл бұрын

I just have no words to describe how much I admire this girl...❤❤❤

@ShanyShannon 4 жыл бұрын

I had an ominous feeling just now when you spoke on sharing information with people. I did quite a big, "NO!" At my current workplace disclosing information to a front desk girl what I went through at my old workplace. Unfortunate but what's done IS done. A mistake on my part that I hope does not take a nosedive for me. ☹😣

@lolahenry8658 4 жыл бұрын

Thank You Michelle for being bold enough to address this top!!

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome sis. Thanks for watching!!

@yvettesspiritualjourneys4546 4 жыл бұрын

Her videos are the BEST...you can see her beautiful energy. I like the face you are a psychologist so you have studies behind what you’re speaking. You got a few follower. Thank you queen

@Vesayah 4 жыл бұрын

You are the only one that I've watched that reffers to when you want to be more feminine but you have a job where it is required to dress in Jean's and work boots, but now I know I can use my voice. Thank you.

@diamondunicorn2421 4 жыл бұрын

I work in a male dominated industry and have done so for the past 20 years. This video hopefully should help me become more feminine in voice! Thanks for the video.👏🏽

@venusrose1382 2 жыл бұрын

This video is absolutely amazing! I have an awfully bad habit of talking too much, too fast and oversharing 🙄 I am well spoken as a result of reading, but I really need to unlearn my bad habits inorder to really maximize my femininity. I love how pleasant and soothing Kim Kardashians voice is 😍 I need to allocate time to listen to a few of her interviews in an attempt to emulate her way of speaking.

@Heatherrenee424 3 жыл бұрын

Holy moly! You are STUNNING! totally captivating. 💜✨

@dizzymoon 2 жыл бұрын

love your videos! i’m not a native english speaker, i’m still learning this language and sometimes i can’t understand what people say in other english videos but this time is different with you because the way you speak is very clear, an excellent pronunciation that makes it easy for me to understand what you’re talking about

@aloneagain6495 3 жыл бұрын

You’re such a helping hand to many girls who haven’t had feminine role models in their life. Glad at 16 I found your channel

@smellydonut5088 3 жыл бұрын

You’re the older sister I never had!✨❤️ tysm luv

@lawrenciaulzen1969 3 жыл бұрын

I just chanced on your video today and I can’t stop watching all of them. I really appreciate you a lot ❤️❤️❤️

@AcademicLifeDrCrystal 3 жыл бұрын

This was such a great topic. I tend to speak too loud and to interrupt which I will promptly begin working on. I also appreciated the tip you gave about reading to improve your vocabulary. As an educator, I think reading also helps young people develop a sense of sentence structure. Poor grammar is another way that we signal we were raised without certain exposure. Appreciate your content so much!

@cartermade8634 4 жыл бұрын

I naturally have a very calm and relaxing voice people tell me that all of the time

@callher_toya 4 жыл бұрын

Michelle, your channel is putting my whole entire life together! I absolutely feel blessed to have come across your channel‼️

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Aww that warms my heart so much! I'm so happy to hear that. Thank you for sharing that. Godspeed on your journey!

@leaelijah8504 4 жыл бұрын

This is the first video I've ever watched from your channel and I already love you ❤

@Rich8889 Жыл бұрын

Omgggg your look in this video is EVERYTHING ! the colors tones your lip mesh pearls hair everything love it all. Gorgeous (:

@sandirichard5461 4 жыл бұрын

I study you Dr. Michelle! You're my favorite feminine teacher on KZfaq. My trouble is consistency. I love you! Big kisses😘😘😉

@MissFeminine 4 жыл бұрын

This is an EXCELLENT video! Loved the tip about tone of voice and watching what you share ... Hopefully a lot of us can put thin in to practice.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much love! Yes, I hope so!

@c.f.6005 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. I really need to work on the tone of my voice and the speed of which I speak.

@prettyblaqgirl 3 жыл бұрын

So happy this was on my recommendation list!

@ThePriam3 4 жыл бұрын

Love your tips, your look and energy and positivity.

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you babe!!!

@esgee2464 3 жыл бұрын

I love Jill Scotts voice and how she carries herself. Very feminine and gorgeous.

@audrey2879 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for helping me. I appreciate the care and time you put into your videos.

@MademoiselleGisela 2 жыл бұрын

I am a psychologist and my femenine voice helps a lot when I have to do an intervention with a patient

@alexarenee29 4 жыл бұрын

I needed this! I’m from New Orleans and I have a thick accent and a deep voice. I tend to be loud, especially when I’m passionate and I have a potty mouth... I actually have an extensive vocabulary but always spent my life trying to be “down”. all things I’m changing in 2020😊 this video is a good starting point.

@BAYOUFAMILY 4 жыл бұрын

Hey I'm from and live in Nola now I'm 28 and just starting my FEMININE journey hopefully we can meet after quarantine (kimdarensbourg@gmail.com)

@SunniSide1 3 жыл бұрын

Just started my femininity journey. I love your page ❤️

@drmichelledaf 3 жыл бұрын

That's wonderful love! I'm happy to hear that. Thank you for your support!

@sheila5368 2 жыл бұрын

You-are-amazing!!🥰 you’re such a delight to listen to. God bless you

@mzslone162 4 жыл бұрын

Love u sis every time I click on KZfaq you pop up with some More information I needed

@FIREBALLER100 3 жыл бұрын

I've always thought my voice was waaaaay too deep, so I really hope this helps me get the feminine voice that I've secretly (although I guess it's not a secret anymore.😂) always wanted. Thx SO much babe 🌈🌈❤❤ Kisses 💋💋

@Alicia_W413 4 жыл бұрын

Woah. Love this, I'm going to check out the other videos of this series ♥️♥️ you look beautiful btw

@drmichelledaf 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much darling, yes check them out!

@harpo627 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m new to your channel, and I’ve been “catching up” on a variety of your videos and Instagram posts, I love them! One way of learning more about speech (in a fun way!) is watching the movie “My Fair Lady”. It made me think like never before about the importance and power of speech, not to mention Audrey Hepburn is such a lovely example of a very feminine woman with a beautiful voice and articulate speech.