Please let's match the views. Like and watch. Why do we choose to watch through the window 😂😂😂😂😂 Let's do better guys.Great interview and learning
@Katniss7963 ай бұрын
N not skipping them ads plssss
@mphohappiness17364 ай бұрын
As women we need to refrain from dating married men. The fact that she moved in the same house ya ex wife. Let's not be the deciding factor of a marriage ending. She lacks empathy for what the ex wife had to go through
@menniekumalo32764 ай бұрын
She thinks she is an exception, the same fate will befall her
@noxolosakang65474 ай бұрын
Kuzomthola naye one day.
@thembisilemsiza9424 ай бұрын
The comment I was waiting for ✋
@nomsachironda96244 ай бұрын
Karma is a bitch...🚮
@auntyb41304 ай бұрын
Some girls dem watching😅
@lesam9654 ай бұрын
Nna I want us to touch on finances and investments in blended families from policies, sharing of pension fund should you die, the Will, the most suitable and realistic marriage contract to benefit all kids in the blended family. Do we blend our finances and investments as well to benefit the entire children/family? Do we plan for the future and uncertainties of the future as a blended family. When we say your kids are my kids, do we mean it in ALL aspects? I am not referring to things like I buy my kid a pair of tekkies and I buy yours as well. E.g Should I die, is it fair for my 1 kid to share assets with 3 of your kids where as she will not be benefiting anything from their biological mother. I feel like we romantisize alot and willy dilly around lots of things and never really get to the hard issues complex issues.
@RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын
Now these are real issues actually worth talking about.
@KamoMamabolo4 ай бұрын
I've never thought of the dynamics of a blended family to this extent.This is such an important topic that needs to be discussed.
@lesam9654 ай бұрын
@@KamoMamabolo I honestly always do. Most people seem to be doing okay with blending families in terms of LIVING expenses (it's easy to share groceries, rent, entertainment, school fees to an extent) but is there a sit down to say okay e.g I will include my own children in policies/investments/Will and you cover your own kids and if we have biological kids together then I will include them. What about the house we live in? I wonder how this is addressed in blended families. Most of the time such things cause a divide when parents are no more.
@MLM4244 ай бұрын
So glad someone brought it up. It's so difficult speaking on blended families as a step mom because we are so vulnerable to being labeled unfair but honestly where do we draw the line between being practical vs making decisions based on emotions. The exact example you make of a step child basically having and benefiting from 3 parents as opposed to the children within the marriage which only have and will benefit from 2 parents is so key and always overlooked! Even with living expenses it's a slipper slope nje because the minute you point it out now you are deemed as only looking out for your biological kids. Go boima
@nondo2.0454 ай бұрын
If you start a podcast discussing these issues, I'll definitely subscribe.
@letushilaalina4 ай бұрын
Right at the start of this interview I love Mma Letsoalo already, but the calling of the ex wife “baby momma” isn’t sitting too nice with me. This is a woman that kept herself and only has children with her husband, let’s accord her that respect maybe refer to her as ex wife, baby momma is a bit tarnished these days..I am not a wife or mom though so I might be wrong… this is just my 2 cents🤷♀️
@sparrow622104 ай бұрын
I concur.According to me, the term is used in society in manner and intention to belittle someone Therefore,I find it disturbing and disgusting.As a result, it then means all women that have kids should be referred to as baby mama,regardless of a marital status as we are all highly favoured and amazing human beings ❤
@unlockwiththandomaumela3 ай бұрын
@@sparrow62210definitely agree with you.
@thepriestess59692 ай бұрын
You're absolutely correct, she was married and had a covenant regardless of the ending. She's rightfully deserving of such respect after all.
@azukentapaneingazi18084 ай бұрын
Promise you just interviewed the type of woman who can destroy your family and have no remorse. She was a catalyst.
@matanato0128 күн бұрын
I am glad she did, we get to see all perspectives. Even if Promise had not interviewed her, it wouldn't change that this happened.
@sebolelomapoti30934 ай бұрын
Aowa in sepedi children that are born out of wedlock should still keep their mother's maiden surname and not the husband's( ka sepedi ke bana ba bo malome) such maturity I'm in awe, may God bless and protect your union.
@favour6644 ай бұрын
Yoh bathong ke go mora malome
@selinabatlhaodi6124 ай бұрын
But again ka sepedi ngwana ke wa kgomo,hance the say"o e gapa le namane".which mostly is included in the lobola negotiation.
@noxiek4 ай бұрын
She knew exactly he was married, but still dated him . Now she is lying to save her dignity
@marthazakes18234 ай бұрын
Yes evn bragging tht he choose her
@ThatoMatsetse4 ай бұрын
Wow mma Letsoalo❤❤ Mrs Law, there's absolutely no problem when you share your side of the story. We learn a lot from you too❤❤❤
@connymontsho4 ай бұрын
Thato,Mrs Law just shared something that i related.Cos i was feeling like a bad mom.
@MbaliNgwenya-xj2bu4 ай бұрын
Promise you need to allow people to speak in their own language cause they express themselves better. I feel it's unfair to ask people to speak only English, what if someone desperately wants to share their story but can't speak English?.. I suggest you get someone to assist you with subtitles.
@tlotlolegodi17594 ай бұрын
So true....
@sinenhlanhlabuthelezi68343 ай бұрын
sooo true
@lesegobeverlymoeti28282 ай бұрын
And they bring people who are not fluent in English most of the time, they should write subtitles and allow people speak their mother tongue.
@lovelyheart8004 ай бұрын
i agree with her don’t marry or stay in a horrible relationship for the kids i watched my mother do that and the truth is i was waiting to get older so that i can ask her why she stayed in a horrible marriage for us . we were better of being raised by them separated then them together today we are all trying to heal from our childhood traumas and some where some how it affects the kind of people we become when we are older
@mapasekamoeketsi60904 ай бұрын
I'm so impressed by ur mom. I'm a single parents raising my 2 boys and I'm a hustler. I'm selling anything I'm so happy to hear ur story
@user-qe2od6nz6u4 ай бұрын
I grew up at L4 . You just explained my upbringing . I loved that womens hostel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@SiphesihleNameng14 ай бұрын
Aaaaai this woman dated a married man nje. They lived together and were still married. She shouldn’t be surprised if the man goes and lies to another woman that they are divorced
@amukelanimaswanganyi48384 ай бұрын
True🎉
@ntebomoela84434 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@user-vh9ix4km4p4 ай бұрын
Her story doesn't add up. She dated this man while married.
@sontofakude77244 ай бұрын
Straat maid klaar
@sinenhlanhlabuthelezi68343 ай бұрын
karma
@Prism4464 ай бұрын
I think its easier as a woman to accept step kids when you also have kids
@MentalHealthMatters114 ай бұрын
This woman is remarkable
@hlengiweyourstruly4 ай бұрын
Promise thank you for adding your personal experience in some of the things she mentioned. It doesn't take away from the interview but it adds on to what is discussed
@hildadavids2174 ай бұрын
There nothing better than present parents. Money is not everything. We all grew up poor during apartheid. Nothing beats present parents.
@vuyooglebethunana4 ай бұрын
I know it is nice to be chosen, but the sentiment that men are always worthy of acceptance and that as women we are being done a favour by being chosen irks me. We evaluate women and put value on them based on their probability of being chosen but we are not evaluating these cheating men with kids as not worthy of acceptance. There can be no friendship between the x-wife and current wife when the entry and exit dates are blurred, OBVIOUSLY....
@kedibonephasiwe93334 ай бұрын
Omg this is deep…the presence of a parent is everything.
@Ownnarrativepodcast4 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching live❤
@dikesekwane35554 ай бұрын
I have to share my story also here
@Ownnarrativepodcast4 ай бұрын
@@dikesekwane3555 WhatsApp us 0837799601
@mahlohonololebuso7414 ай бұрын
The pressure that is put on women to have kids in marriage is a topic we're not ready for shem. There's a lot about that topic that needs to be discussed.
@dikesekwane35554 ай бұрын
I agree I’m also a mother and wife to blended family …before my husband and I marriage was weak and the fight between i and my step child and my daughter with my husband was too much . Now that we have a strong bond in our marriage we are happy and all of our 6 kids get along smoothly ❤
@khetimthembu84654 ай бұрын
In a blended family do you discuss what will happen should 1 partner pass away? Because in most cases, step kids are left out
@EsseyLekalakala4 ай бұрын
You make my day ❤️ you are strong woman MMA Letsoalo
@debramontymmatau51364 ай бұрын
This was fully packed. Enjoyed it
@giftubisi1822 ай бұрын
Mma Letswalo you are that girl with a mother’s heart. I love how you think,from how you were brought up,being a step child to other mothers growing up,all the context of your step mothering. I love how realistic you are💯🤞🏽🤍
@nonzwakaziprecious95074 ай бұрын
Followed this lady last month and I just loved her I didn't know that she has this big heart ❤ thanks for this cc
@DieketsengSempe4 ай бұрын
Powerful Lessons MaLetsoalo❤❤
@Leratolekola4 ай бұрын
What an insightful Conversation❤️ You were raised by a Mbokodo wena Mma Ledwaba and nawe self you're so strong and confident...love that about you🥺
@TheMindfulfoodie6334 ай бұрын
This was such a nice interview, i didn't want it to end ❤
@thokimagoro77644 ай бұрын
U had a twisted mind the man is raising ur kids and ur man's kids must not stay with him. Basadi this is evil. Big ups for Letsoalo
@hloshichuene24203 ай бұрын
She's such a wife, mistakes and all...your story is so inspiring. Happy union to the Letsoalos!
@RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын
Basadi y'all are so brazen hey. Coming on podcasts & so casually speaking about how when you met your now husband he was still married and living with his wife. Of course you and the now ex wife are not gonna be friends, you saying you & the wife don't have to be friends as if it's a choice? Lol it was not by choice. Men move crazy but as women we move equally crazy. She fought with the husband for 2 years because she didn't want his kids to live with them👀 but yena she came with her 2? Her 2 kids were supposed enjoy that man as a present father in the home everyday while his biological kids were only supposed to experience him during visits when they had been living with their father before she came into the picture according to her logic? Yah no basadi😂
@gimbles73584 ай бұрын
Isibindi
@tsakanimugari95834 ай бұрын
It's scary
@nette21444 ай бұрын
Bare how you get him is how you are going to lose him. A lot of the things men do and get away with, ba kgona go di etsa bcos there are equally many women out there who make it possible for them.
@andisani2574 ай бұрын
Yoh, I thought I was the only one whose like HAAAAAAA!!!
@marciamohale67204 ай бұрын
The comment I was looking for LOL
@Elle_Tee_MrsM4 ай бұрын
Wonderful episode very much needed as a step mom who brought her own child into the marriage and planning on having kids in the marriage. Very informative thank you Mma Letsoalo le Mrs M.
@LivingCourageously4 ай бұрын
Love her honesty and how she clarifies everything
@lindi81194 ай бұрын
Mma Letsoalo's story is remarkable. If there's a lesson I take from this episode is not to generalise, every story is unique. She is brave, calm and full of wisdom. On which social media can one follow her conversations?
@Zihleizibele_Lusani4 ай бұрын
This lady is exceptionally wise❤. Thanks Promise for this content❤
@runganotavengwa32864 ай бұрын
The other woman afraid of being bewitched by the 1st wife through her children is something is else😮 and she is now the baby mama and you the wife Smh!!
@ReshoketsweMthombeni4 ай бұрын
Very insightful conversation ladies! I learnt a lot from both of you.
@khetimthembu84654 ай бұрын
S/O to Letswalo for fighting for his kids! We need more men like him in society!! Being a deadbeat is a choice!!🤍
@siphokazimagaya91134 ай бұрын
How does future financial provision work in blended families? Husband’s ex wife is not baby momma.
@ladyb58434 ай бұрын
"I got her point when she said no one can be taken," but i think there are a lot of things that she filtered... She has influenced the man to divorce somehow.I wish her luck though.May this kind of love and connection not locate me
@sediemasemola49094 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@khetimthembu84654 ай бұрын
Same😭😹
@maeshelafarren1093 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂you were coming so well the end🤣🤣😂😭
@ladyb58433 ай бұрын
@@maeshelafarren109 😂😂😭
@thepriestess59692 ай бұрын
No man can be taken from his marriage, and no man can be convinced to leave the woman he loves. You give side chicks too much undue power. The power remains with the man, he makes the choice. Women must stop redirecting/shift the blame to other women, call out the adulteror in the marriage by his right name. By the way I'm a married woman too.
@kagisothando98804 ай бұрын
Promise i'm learning alots from the your interviews hle❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Finessflick4 ай бұрын
Wow… such a powerful interview. I love listening to positive stories ❤❤❤
@NSIKA14 ай бұрын
Mma Letsoalo you are indeed a courageous remarkable woman .kids witnessing what healthy Love is ,how I hope that message will register with all parents and adults in general. Love and light
@lehlogonolov22174 ай бұрын
Basadi baka ❤❤❤❤❤ le nkwesa bose and baga letsoalo nna ke le gopotse hle le boya neng gaLetsaolo. Mma Letsoalo ke ikgantsha ka wena ngwana geso❤❤❤❤❤
@user-ih4dy2mg9l4 ай бұрын
Mrs letsaolo I'm proud of u n ur mum my dear,😊ur story is empowering us as single parents
@missp72443 ай бұрын
Promise said i am not a 'Mother mother'. Guys i thought i hated my son kanti noo...i just need to gt a nanny. Huuh i love that. I learned something
@pulanemotsetsela54134 ай бұрын
Stop calling the ex-wife "baby" mama please
@Hazelbeing4 ай бұрын
Bathong, I don't understand why she can't extend grace to the ex wife. The husband was trash, cheated on her and couldn't wait to get married to her. On top of that took her children from her. Tjesis!!!
@SibsM934 ай бұрын
I cringed everytime time she called her that!!! 😩
@livingthelifewithlillysoco52974 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only who picked that up
@azukentapaneingazi18084 ай бұрын
Such a horrible woman masked with calmness.
@khetimthembu84654 ай бұрын
@@Hazelbeingdamn😭your so right
@urshieurshie58084 ай бұрын
Filth, but ke who am I to judge. Akere le nna they left me after 15 years of marriage for a quicky. No problem love, enjoy yourself and your "lovely" marriage. That woman is broken beyond the core, but she will heal one day. Wena just dance in there, it's okay. Enjoy her house for now. She gave you the kids because she is grieving and trying to rebuild what she had built that you just came in to acquire. I'm so irritated by this ignorance. But dearest karma is a bitch. Such vile my goodness.
@IamBarati4 ай бұрын
Men do what they do because women allow it. She had kids out of wrdlock and she is rewarded with another woman's husband lawd. The husband is INSANE to force his kids to live with him and woman who didn't want them for 2 years when he could have kept his family together. They deserve each other
@azukentapaneingazi18084 ай бұрын
Exactly. I have experienced this first hand as a child. Those kids will not love her much when they older because they will understand what their mother was going through and she played a huge role.
@mpholekoloane46622 ай бұрын
Men always choose themselves,time and sacrifice mean nothing
@mosedimayo19194 ай бұрын
I learnt a lot today this episode was worth watching..and i saved it for future reference.
@elizabethmphioe73Ай бұрын
Hi Promise, this is the first time I see your show since in the beginning of June and I feel encouraged, since my situation.. On this show ddnt enjoy so much since you talking much more the ur client😮
@reflioekheswa63144 ай бұрын
Blue hills 🔥🔥👌👌
@ledwabakayg73694 ай бұрын
Big ups to my home girl... Well unpacked 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@DuduM274 ай бұрын
" am not a mom,mom,mom"😂😂😂😂u killed me bcs thats me shem.
@noxolosakang65474 ай бұрын
What is the purpose of this interview? other than how proud she is to be loved by a married man to a point of leaving his wife.
@sparrow622104 ай бұрын
My sister,exactly what I thought 😂
@azukentapaneingazi18084 ай бұрын
So disturbing
@zamambhele2424 ай бұрын
Ay let’s watch and learn guys but disturbing indeed
@tshiamosehunoe35404 ай бұрын
" That guy loved me"😂😂😂
@user-vb6rt5le9j3 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one seeing this. Trust me marriages like these mhhhh
@Rele.S4 ай бұрын
They always know these men. I also met my husband, and he said "you're my wife" 6 months later we got married. It's been 10 years now in marriage ❤
@SiphesihleNkambule-vy2oj3 ай бұрын
We are not saying become best friends with ubaby mama kodwa have a healthy relationship with her for the kids' sake. I am speaking from experience, I made sure ukuthi I have a relationship with her because I feel ukuthi it easier that way.
@AkiM3574 ай бұрын
I have learnt alot from this interview about blended families.
@ObaNkuna4 ай бұрын
You can’t call the ex wife a baby mama. You are disrespectful. Secondly you bringing your own children to your marriage and your husband must welcome them but you can’t accept his? Do you even truly love his kids or you just tolerating because of the husband?
@esthermphanda48364 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this episode ❤️.
@RoseKotana4 ай бұрын
True we will grow older and left with our partner while kids marry and married❤❤❤❤
@sibongisenisakhele31143 ай бұрын
Great interview mommy!
@bongythwala98404 ай бұрын
Asoze ngashada nendoda or ngathandana nendoda eshadile ,baya divorcer 🙄wena u happy ukuthi uzongena ,Kazi Yini oncono Ngayo Kuna X Wife ,yin le expecial ngawe cc, mybe even to his fist wife ,makaqala ukushela wathi wena uzoba umfaz wam,as he did to you don't think you are special than the first wife .he cheated on his wife ,he will do the sam to you.
@amukelanimaswanganyi48384 ай бұрын
😂😂She must be ready
@sparrow622104 ай бұрын
She will learn the hard way this one😂
@user-vb6rt5le9j3 ай бұрын
Am scared for her
@tshiamoangel67184 ай бұрын
You just gained a follower ❤
@user-vq8lb5id9m4 ай бұрын
Proud of you sis❤❤
@TheReal_GuguG4 ай бұрын
Can we please have subtitles for future episodes for the part/s where you communicate in vanac, there are points of the conversation we miss out.. Love your podcast ❤
@elizabethmphioe73Ай бұрын
Mma Letsoalo she is an Amazing Woman
@sindiswanyandana14234 ай бұрын
Very insightful & educational interview
@Elle_Tee_MrsM4 ай бұрын
I'm also here to say I was subscribed but only realized today after Promise mentioned the disfunction that I'm not anymore. I'm just here to say please go check if you are still subscribed maybe we think we aren't but actually not. Let's keep this channel going
@degraciangubane4804 ай бұрын
I love Promise honesty as a mom 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Ottilia_Gama4 ай бұрын
Wow, I really love this. I've learn a lot
@lekolanetheministry87893 ай бұрын
Wene Promise ke gorata bjang...just got to know ur channel...lov you...o hlalifile...
@user-vb6rt5le9j3 ай бұрын
I think she is doing this interview to spite the exwife
@user-cx8nz4xd6y4 ай бұрын
Big up to MaLetsoalo❤❤❤
@unlockwiththandomaumela3 ай бұрын
Basadi ba hudisa basadi-sadi 😍
@zamambhele2424 ай бұрын
Now that I have listened to to her I can’t judge her harshly but saying she broke an already broken home, she said the man lied right, and when she found out ukuth Kanti they are separated and in a process of a divorce and I would think by that time she was already in too deep , no excuses for her though she could have told the man divorce first than we carry on, but not all of us think the same or have the same moral campus, this is her side of the story , though I wish to hear the ex wife’s as well Anyways my take away is the parenting I think she’s really doing well there
@mathapelomphahlele66294 ай бұрын
You've gained m subscription 😍😍😍
@nthatisidimema90844 ай бұрын
Promises' exclamation 51:42 😂. That Iyohhhhh!!! N side lean took me out. Reminded me of Musa Khawula for a sec 😂😂😂😂😂
@highandmightyqueen794 ай бұрын
Promise please diversify guests every time its a pedi women or someone from Limpopo other tribes watch as well dear
@neegee37554 ай бұрын
It’s advisable to have kids before you get married? Where though? Yoh Promise can be a lot at times 🤪
@lindatafeni94024 ай бұрын
Enjoyed this 👌
@mahlatsemakorowa59554 ай бұрын
Wow❤
@gingertwala84744 ай бұрын
I can't quite put my finger on it but this lady exudes a very weird energy/aura 🤔
@cynthiamabena18094 ай бұрын
I am still confused on why she is being interviewed, what's her truth? Being a side chick and encouraging woman to believe lies from married man with the hope of being married and creating a blended family. Her truth sounds like a scam
@gingertwala84744 ай бұрын
@@cynthiamabena1809Well said😉👌
@VeliswaMa4 ай бұрын
I watch Promise's podcasts, but more often than not, there's something that's not make sure with the content.
@gingertwala84744 ай бұрын
@@VeliswaMa my sentiments exactly.
@mercyjefutala50642 ай бұрын
Promise no woman wud accept tht she broke some1 marriage, we alwys defend ourselfs
@mokubungntswaki48174 ай бұрын
Mmaletswalo🙌🙌🙌🙌
@proxlee4 ай бұрын
I think for this woman if her husband can raise another mans kids she too can raise another womans kids. This is different. Situations are not gonna be the same
@RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@mathipeplaatjie60694 ай бұрын
Promise please elaborate who advised that one needs to have kids before you get married I do not agree with your statement
@marthazakes18234 ай бұрын
It’s like she is bragging abt dating a married men evn calling ex wife baby mama
@mahlohonololebuso7414 ай бұрын
This lady Tsholofelp restored my faith in humanity
@menniekumalo32764 ай бұрын
So essentially she was a side piece,over in to another woman’s house. Got promoted to being the main😂 shows no remorse or sympathy for the ex wife, even refers to her as a “baby momma”, interesting
@ntebalengpoonyane19394 ай бұрын
It sound like she is doing this interview to spite the ex wife jooo basadi hleng😢
@menniekumalo32764 ай бұрын
@@ntebalengpoonyane1939 yessss.
@user-vb6rt5le9j3 ай бұрын
You love your husband before your kids? Wow
@kellyjoseph74484 ай бұрын
In Botswana, nowadays children dont change surnames to their mothers if they get married. I agree with that coz they end up losing natural identity. But then they keep the mother's maiden surname.
@khetimthembu84654 ай бұрын
As much as it didn’t start off well it seems to be going well!🤍 i like how she’s so self aware & seems to be having a good relationship with her step children. All the best to her & her family!!!
@user-vb6rt5le9j3 ай бұрын
She is not a baby mama she is an exwife
@pheladitau676225 күн бұрын
I thought it's a same thing ngoba she's divorced
@Lungelo9114 ай бұрын
Lets sell Avon bandla, inemali mos.
@Leratolekola4 ай бұрын
Sana🤣 I want to try Avon now coz wow kubi.
@zamambhele2424 ай бұрын
Ay guys this is unbelievable am not saying she’s lying but iyo! To even buy a house with Avon wow! She must give us tips how she did that
@elinah90144 ай бұрын
I have a different view regarding the woman being required to pay for maintenance. My soon to be ex husband insisted I pay maintenance and he even approached the courts for more money. This is while I am fighting to get primary custody of my kids.
@PortiaLethoba-lx4gh4 ай бұрын
His ,hers and ours relationship
@Roseofnomansland2014 ай бұрын
My favourite episode thus far. The lessons are applicable to my life in so many ways. Thank you
@nomienoamabandlakaisa4 ай бұрын
Promise I’m a mother of two 14&10and I’m like you I’m not super mom wanting to spend all her time with the kids and its ok
@rotondwamulaudzi53194 ай бұрын
If your children are staying with their father and you dont contribute financially to their maintenance, you are a deadbeat mother!