Please let's match the views. Like and watch. Why do we choose to watch through the window 😂😂😂😂😂 Let's do better guys.Great interview and learning

As women we need to refrain from dating married men. The fact that she moved in the same house ya ex wife. Let's not be the deciding factor of a marriage ending. She lacks empathy for what the ex wife had to go through

Nna I want us to touch on finances and investments in blended families from policies, sharing of pension fund should you die, the Will, the most suitable and realistic marriage contract to benefit all kids in the blended family. Do we blend our finances and investments as well to benefit the entire children/family? Do we plan for the future and uncertainties of the future as a blended family. When we say your kids are my kids, do we mean it in ALL aspects? I am not referring to things like I buy my kid a pair of tekkies and I buy yours as well. E.g Should I die, is it fair for my 1 kid to share assets with 3 of your kids where as she will not be benefiting anything from their biological mother. I feel like we romantisize alot and willy dilly around lots of things and never really get to the hard issues complex issues.

Right at the start of this interview I love Mma Letsoalo already, but the calling of the ex wife “baby momma” isn’t sitting too nice with me. This is a woman that kept herself and only has children with her husband, let’s accord her that respect maybe refer to her as ex wife, baby momma is a bit tarnished these days..I am not a wife or mom though so I might be wrong… this is just my 2 cents🤷‍♀️

Promise you just interviewed the type of woman who can destroy your family and have no remorse. She was a catalyst.

Aowa in sepedi children that are born out of wedlock should still keep their mother's maiden surname and not the husband's( ka sepedi ke bana ba bo malome) such maturity I'm in awe, may God bless and protect your union.

She knew exactly he was married, but still dated him . Now she is lying to save her dignity

Wow mma Letsoalo❤❤ Mrs Law, there's absolutely no problem when you share your side of the story. We learn a lot from you too❤❤❤

Promise you need to allow people to speak in their own language cause they express themselves better. I feel it's unfair to ask people to speak only English, what if someone desperately wants to share their story but can't speak English?.. I suggest you get someone to assist you with subtitles.

i agree with her don’t marry or stay in a horrible relationship for the kids i watched my mother do that and the truth is i was waiting to get older so that i can ask her why she stayed in a horrible marriage for us . we were better of being raised by them separated then them together today we are all trying to heal from our childhood traumas and some where some how it affects the kind of people we become when we are older

I'm so impressed by ur mom. I'm a single parents raising my 2 boys and I'm a hustler. I'm selling anything I'm so happy to hear ur story

I grew up at L4 . You just explained my upbringing . I loved that womens hostel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Aaaaai this woman dated a married man nje. They lived together and were still married. She shouldn’t be surprised if the man goes and lies to another woman that they are divorced

I think its easier as a woman to accept step kids when you also have kids

This woman is remarkable

Promise thank you for adding your personal experience in some of the things she mentioned. It doesn't take away from the interview but it adds on to what is discussed

There nothing better than present parents. Money is not everything. We all grew up poor during apartheid. Nothing beats present parents.

I know it is nice to be chosen, but the sentiment that men are always worthy of acceptance and that as women we are being done a favour by being chosen irks me. We evaluate women and put value on them based on their probability of being chosen but we are not evaluating these cheating men with kids as not worthy of acceptance. There can be no friendship between the x-wife and current wife when the entry and exit dates are blurred, OBVIOUSLY....

Omg this is deep…the presence of a parent is everything.

Thank you for watching live❤

The pressure that is put on women to have kids in marriage is a topic we're not ready for shem. There's a lot about that topic that needs to be discussed.

I agree I’m also a mother and wife to blended family …before my husband and I marriage was weak and the fight between i and my step child and my daughter with my husband was too much . Now that we have a strong bond in our marriage we are happy and all of our 6 kids get along smoothly ❤

You make my day ❤️ you are strong woman MMA Letsoalo

This was fully packed. Enjoyed it

Mma Letswalo you are that girl with a mother’s heart. I love how you think,from how you were brought up,being a step child to other mothers growing up,all the context of your step mothering. I love how realistic you are💯🤞🏽🤍

Followed this lady last month and I just loved her I didn't know that she has this big heart ❤ thanks for this cc

Powerful Lessons MaLetsoalo❤❤

What an insightful Conversation❤️ You were raised by a Mbokodo wena Mma Ledwaba and nawe self you're so strong and confident...love that about you🥺

This was such a nice interview, i didn't want it to end ❤

U had a twisted mind the man is raising ur kids and ur man's kids must not stay with him. Basadi this is evil. Big ups for Letsoalo

She's such a wife, mistakes and all...your story is so inspiring. Happy union to the Letsoalos!

Basadi y'all are so brazen hey. Coming on podcasts & so casually speaking about how when you met your now husband he was still married and living with his wife. Of course you and the now ex wife are not gonna be friends, you saying you & the wife don't have to be friends as if it's a choice? Lol it was not by choice. Men move crazy but as women we move equally crazy. She fought with the husband for 2 years because she didn't want his kids to live with them👀 but yena she came with her 2? Her 2 kids were supposed enjoy that man as a present father in the home everyday while his biological kids were only supposed to experience him during visits when they had been living with their father before she came into the picture according to her logic? Yah no basadi😂

Wonderful episode very much needed as a step mom who brought her own child into the marriage and planning on having kids in the marriage. Very informative thank you Mma Letsoalo le Mrs M.

Love her honesty and how she clarifies everything

Mma Letsoalo's story is remarkable. If there's a lesson I take from this episode is not to generalise, every story is unique. She is brave, calm and full of wisdom. On which social media can one follow her conversations?

This lady is exceptionally wise❤. Thanks Promise for this content❤

The other woman afraid of being bewitched by the 1st wife through her children is something is else😮 and she is now the baby mama and you the wife Smh!!

Very insightful conversation ladies! I learnt a lot from both of you.

S/O to Letswalo for fighting for his kids! We need more men like him in society!! Being a deadbeat is a choice!!🤍

How does future financial provision work in blended families? Husband’s ex wife is not baby momma.

"I got her point when she said no one can be taken," but i think there are a lot of things that she filtered... She has influenced the man to divorce somehow.I wish her luck though.May this kind of love and connection not locate me

Promise i'm learning alots from the your interviews hle❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Wow… such a powerful interview. I love listening to positive stories ❤❤❤

Mma Letsoalo you are indeed a courageous remarkable woman .kids witnessing what healthy Love is ,how I hope that message will register with all parents and adults in general. Love and light

Basadi baka ❤❤❤❤❤ le nkwesa bose and baga letsoalo nna ke le gopotse hle le boya neng gaLetsaolo. Mma Letsoalo ke ikgantsha ka wena ngwana geso❤❤❤❤❤

Mrs letsaolo I'm proud of u n ur mum my dear,😊ur story is empowering us as single parents

Promise said i am not a 'Mother mother'. Guys i thought i hated my son kanti noo...i just need to gt a nanny. Huuh i love that. I learned something

Stop calling the ex-wife "baby" mama please

Filth, but ke who am I to judge. Akere le nna they left me after 15 years of marriage for a quicky. No problem love, enjoy yourself and your "lovely" marriage. That woman is broken beyond the core, but she will heal one day. Wena just dance in there, it's okay. Enjoy her house for now. She gave you the kids because she is grieving and trying to rebuild what she had built that you just came in to acquire. I'm so irritated by this ignorance. But dearest karma is a bitch. Such vile my goodness.

I learnt a lot today this episode was worth watching..and i saved it for future reference.

Hi Promise, this is the first time I see your show since in the beginning of June and I feel encouraged, since my situation.. On this show ddnt enjoy so much since you talking much more the ur client😮

Blue hills 🔥🔥👌👌

Big ups to my home girl... Well unpacked 🤗🤗🤗🤗

" am not a mom,mom,mom"😂😂😂😂u killed me bcs thats me shem.

What is the purpose of this interview? other than how proud she is to be loved by a married man to a point of leaving his wife.

They always know these men. I also met my husband, and he said "you're my wife" 6 months later we got married. It's been 10 years now in marriage ❤

We are not saying become best friends with ubaby mama kodwa have a healthy relationship with her for the kids' sake. I am speaking from experience, I made sure ukuthi I have a relationship with her because I feel ukuthi it easier that way.

I have learnt alot from this interview about blended families.

You can’t call the ex wife a baby mama. You are disrespectful. Secondly you bringing your own children to your marriage and your husband must welcome them but you can’t accept his? Do you even truly love his kids or you just tolerating because of the husband?

I enjoyed this episode ❤️.

True we will grow older and left with our partner while kids marry and married❤❤❤❤

Great interview mommy!

Asoze ngashada nendoda or ngathandana nendoda eshadile ,baya divorcer 🙄wena u happy ukuthi uzongena ,Kazi Yini oncono Ngayo Kuna X Wife ,yin le expecial ngawe cc, mybe even to his fist wife ,makaqala ukushela wathi wena uzoba umfaz wam,as he did to you don't think you are special than the first wife .he cheated on his wife ,he will do the sam to you.

You just gained a follower ❤

Proud of you sis❤❤

Can we please have subtitles for future episodes for the part/s where you communicate in vanac, there are points of the conversation we miss out.. Love your podcast ❤

Mma Letsoalo she is an Amazing Woman

Very insightful & educational interview

I'm also here to say I was subscribed but only realized today after Promise mentioned the disfunction that I'm not anymore. I'm just here to say please go check if you are still subscribed maybe we think we aren't but actually not. Let's keep this channel going

I love Promise honesty as a mom 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wow, I really love this. I've learn a lot

Wene Promise ke gorata bjang...just got to know ur channel...lov you...o hlalifile...

I think she is doing this interview to spite the exwife

Big up to MaLetsoalo❤❤❤

Basadi ba hudisa basadi-sadi 😍

Now that I have listened to to her I can’t judge her harshly but saying she broke an already broken home, she said the man lied right, and when she found out ukuth Kanti they are separated and in a process of a divorce and I would think by that time she was already in too deep , no excuses for her though she could have told the man divorce first than we carry on, but not all of us think the same or have the same moral campus, this is her side of the story , though I wish to hear the ex wife’s as well Anyways my take away is the parenting I think she’s really doing well there

You've gained m subscription 😍😍😍

Promises' exclamation 51:42 😂. That Iyohhhhh!!! N side lean took me out. Reminded me of Musa Khawula for a sec 😂😂😂😂😂

Promise please diversify guests every time its a pedi women or someone from Limpopo other tribes watch as well dear

It’s advisable to have kids before you get married? Where though? Yoh Promise can be a lot at times 🤪

Enjoyed this 👌

Wow❤

I can't quite put my finger on it but this lady exudes a very weird energy/aura 🤔

Promise no woman wud accept tht she broke some1 marriage, we alwys defend ourselfs

Mmaletswalo🙌🙌🙌🙌

I think for this woman if her husband can raise another mans kids she too can raise another womans kids. This is different. Situations are not gonna be the same

Promise please elaborate who advised that one needs to have kids before you get married I do not agree with your statement

It’s like she is bragging abt dating a married men evn calling ex wife baby mama

This lady Tsholofelp restored my faith in humanity

So essentially she was a side piece,over in to another woman’s house. Got promoted to being the main😂 shows no remorse or sympathy for the ex wife, even refers to her as a “baby momma”, interesting

In Botswana, nowadays children dont change surnames to their mothers if they get married. I agree with that coz they end up losing natural identity. But then they keep the mother's maiden surname.

As much as it didn’t start off well it seems to be going well!🤍 i like how she’s so self aware & seems to be having a good relationship with her step children. All the best to her & her family!!!

She is not a baby mama she is an exwife

Lets sell Avon bandla, inemali mos.

I have a different view regarding the woman being required to pay for maintenance. My soon to be ex husband insisted I pay maintenance and he even approached the courts for more money. This is while I am fighting to get primary custody of my kids.

His ,hers and ours relationship

My favourite episode thus far. The lessons are applicable to my life in so many ways. Thank you

Promise I’m a mother of two 14&10and I’m like you I’m not super mom wanting to spend all her time with the kids and its ok

If your children are staying with their father and you dont contribute financially to their maintenance, you are a deadbeat mother!

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