This is a short conversation with my mother with Alzheimers.
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@gothicgrandma45594 жыл бұрын
She's forgotten so much but her lovely personality shines through.
@demonwithangelwings23104 жыл бұрын
oh yes
@nbush91694 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much. She is so much like my own mom who had dementia and was the same age. I miss my mom immensely
@gothicgrandma45594 жыл бұрын
@@nbush9169 You obviously loved your mum very much. Try to hold on to that fact and also hold on to all the beautiful memories you have of her.
@WarIsOver254 жыл бұрын
That’s really weird I guess it shows how the brain works
@kathymravintz92184 жыл бұрын
Gothic Grandma ... she is lovely.
@deadmanprodinc5 жыл бұрын
She says "well thank you" each time he tells her the answer. What a doll!
@deborahuntermeyer11585 жыл бұрын
Young at heart⚘
@deborahuntermeyer11585 жыл бұрын
Thank u💕 a mam
@cs58894 жыл бұрын
I work in geriatrics and a good amount of people who suffer from Alzheimer's do this because it goes back to the basics that their minds have function of
@norinefitzgerald52594 жыл бұрын
Joe Battiloro you know my mom’s very last words were , thank you. It would have been her birthday yesterday and this bring all the love I feel full frontal for me. Take care.
@OscarsMama4 жыл бұрын
You can tell she's a very sweet lady
@wuandondo48324 жыл бұрын
She’s so sweet and polite saying things like “Pardon me, dear?” and “Well, thank you!”. It’s sad how these amazing people get taken from this disease.
@coco15964 жыл бұрын
No Dad and get called boomers, I would say 36/40/55 years old have a boomer personality
@The1ByTheSea4 жыл бұрын
its sad
@The1ByTheSea4 жыл бұрын
you revert to the best years in your life . If I could be stuck in my early 20s.
@The1ByTheSea4 жыл бұрын
She’s so sweet and polite saying things like “Pardon me, dear?” and “Well, thank you!”. It’s sad how these amazing people get taken from this disease .Yes, cause some can become aggressive .People who had aggressive personalities ,or do not know what is going on. I also knew of a guy who was a war vet,so he thought he was in the war.
@KahurangiSteez2 жыл бұрын
Alzheimers is terrifying because the people are never really taken away like other forms of dementia. They're still themselves the whole time and are aware of their decline.
@christiecrawford16534 жыл бұрын
Almost everyone with Alzheimers will revert back to either their 20s or child years. As a Nurse, the most common "pattern" that I've noticed is this: The closer they were to dying, the more they would call out and/or ask for their mother. (90 years old calling out for "Mom!" ) It was heartbreaking. I would just sit with them holding their hands as long as time would allow. The only good part of the job that I felt true purpose in was simply being a comfort to them. Making them smile and laugh.
@awt19894 жыл бұрын
you are an angel honey; thats a hard job i dont think i could do.. ill stick to working outside all summer :D
@luraparsons46704 жыл бұрын
🤗Bless her heart ♥️! Wish I could give her a gentle hug. 😊. Christie Crawford ~ , You are a gift from God to your patients/residents! Ty! I've been visiting a relative[rip] who was Elderly and he would call out for his Mother too. :( . Nurses ARE the one's that keep our medical center's afloat! 😇🙏♥️✝️
@luraparsons46704 жыл бұрын
😊 Ty! ♥️
@Dmo-pops4 жыл бұрын
God bless you🙏❤️🤙🏾
@bethanyj41424 жыл бұрын
Yes I’m a nurse too and my heart is with the elderly. All you can do is love and be there for them and make them smile.
@wildcard22194 жыл бұрын
Bro that’s crazy she thinks she’s 23 I didn’t know alzheimers was that severe
@oofig4 жыл бұрын
alternators
@izinstituta12864 жыл бұрын
Attenuators
@waltz92304 жыл бұрын
attivmetortos
@chrisbruggers80764 жыл бұрын
Old timers disease
@awooga1774 жыл бұрын
M.Z. Reynolds mate go take that topic somewhere else.
@holdendmb4 жыл бұрын
She’s the sweetest, most polite little lady.
@irishtrucker12384 жыл бұрын
holdendmb shes beautiful
@user-bt2tk2pm1g3 жыл бұрын
TBG this isnt about politics..please shut the fuck up, jesus christ trump supporters are so annoying
@tribedeath5813 жыл бұрын
@@user-bt2tk2pm1g Ok pal. No one went that far
@isaiahromero98613 жыл бұрын
@TBG thank you for further proving what everyone with half a brain cell already knows about trump supporters
@Kolchak_Enjoyer2 жыл бұрын
@TBG a fucking trump bootlicker....
@antivaxxnugs78594 жыл бұрын
She might have forgotten her age and her name but she hasn't forgotten her manners, she's so sweet!
@runningdogstudio2 жыл бұрын
Hi Everyone. Thank you for the many kind comments about my mother. Of course there were a few snarky ones too. My mother loved these conversations, she found this a pleasant way to engage. Some people may find this frustrating - and eventually, impossible. The donuts were always a plus. For those that have wondered, she passed away. Like many older people, she had a fall and that just took her down fairly quickly. For those of you going through this now, please know your experience is unique to you and extremely challenging. Do your best to show your love and have little or no expectations. You are not alone.
@DiseasedMoss2 жыл бұрын
She would have been proud to know that you are helping others who must face this awful experience. Peace and love.
@maxchur2 жыл бұрын
rest in peace
@marciabrusberg49392 жыл бұрын
Your mom is/was lovely and I applaud your gentleness with her.
@Brenda0312F2 жыл бұрын
@@marciabrusberg4939 well said.
@judylloyd79012 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that she is gone. She seemed really sweet! 😊
@aembusiness5 жыл бұрын
“My last name?.. well now that’s a good one!” Hahah I love this woman
@deborahuntermeyer11585 жыл бұрын
A man💕⚘
@jimgag24 жыл бұрын
aembusiness It’s nothing to laugh at.
@spodergibbs50884 жыл бұрын
jimgag2 shut up idiot. Laugh or cry, take your pick. That’s all you can do.
@jimgag24 жыл бұрын
Spoder Gibbs Don’t tell me to shut up and call me an idiot you loser.You don’t have the intelligence to know how devistating the disease is and how it impacts family members. I wouldn’t wish it even on you.
@lexorcist67074 жыл бұрын
jimgag2 it’s okay to be lighthearted about the situation. You guys seriously need to chill. Of course this disease is serious, this comment didn’t make it as if it wasn’t. I myself smiled when she said “that’s a good one” because I think even SHE was being at least somewhat lighthearted about it. You just want to attack people and make yourself feel like a better person lol
@lisakay82534 жыл бұрын
Someone might lose their memory but they never lose their soul
@nayamun43784 жыл бұрын
Lisa Kay that is beautifully said😊 and i think you might be right
@AJ___USA4 жыл бұрын
That hit home for me so hard, thanks 🙏
@reign6of6e6terror4 жыл бұрын
Memory can came back with the right medication
@gregjones36604 жыл бұрын
Lisa Kay- what a nice statement. What else might you like to comment about?
@kubic714 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, cruel reality doesn't care about your wishful thinking. Body without brain and the ability to process information is just soul-less pile of meat. The intricate neural connections in our prefrontal cortex is what makes us human, with those connections gone, soul vanishes as well...
@nannygoatj4 жыл бұрын
She is so gentle and polite, "Honey," and "Dear," and "Golly." And what a heartbreak to lose your mom that way.
@margaret3mg4 жыл бұрын
*Sharlene Palmer* the way she says thank you after every correction is priceless...God bless her soul
@ShayMarieDiary4 жыл бұрын
When she said she was 22.... I would have said, YES.... Absolutely. You’re 22! She SO cute ❤️
@searobean4 жыл бұрын
exactly, join her journey. and I was cringing a little when he kept asking her questions with food in her mouth, people with dementia are at greater risk for choking. but his love for his mother is evident and he'll be glad he has this video to cherish
@christufuhh3 жыл бұрын
3O3 Brine Dude, calm down. He obviously still loves his mother very much. Just needs to learn how talk to someone with the disease
@meansy77533 жыл бұрын
@@searobean You're so right. When she said she was 22, asking questions of what she experienced when she was 22 seemed the obvious choice to me. But I bow before this mans dedication to his mother. I'd be interested to know if she had any children at 22?
@MrDarren6902 жыл бұрын
@@searobean I agree. You want to decipher the mental context that they are in, so the conversation is less Q&A and more like an actual conversation.
@vordt4139 Жыл бұрын
@@MrDarren690 Okay internet Psych
@joda77024 жыл бұрын
This woma seems like such a pleasant woman. So sad that Alzheimer’s took away her memories.
@dimitriosfromgreece42274 жыл бұрын
Yes ☹❤
@Iddy2674 жыл бұрын
soon her life too :/ sad but true, this desease is the worst in terms of brain sickness :,(
@frankpaya6904 жыл бұрын
She knows she's" losing" "it", that's why she responded with; that's a good one, when asked what her last name was.
@misterclean75704 жыл бұрын
Doesn't change the fact that she lived through them, and was happy during that exact moment! Memories may be forgotten, but once she remembered them, and she lived through them. That will never change.
@roberthurley6860Ай бұрын
She may have forgotten many things but her sweet polite soul shines bright.
@annieelzinga5180Ай бұрын
Oh she's such a Dear Lady. My Mom is 87. She lives in Portage, MI. I am blessed that she is extremely healthy, mobile, and very high functioning. We send you our hugs and much respect, Steve.
@influennzapyloric40734 жыл бұрын
It's so sad how she remembers all her kids at first, and then she forgets at the end.
@reign6of6e6terror4 жыл бұрын
Its not sad She will vorget that she is old She vorget the world is dark She vorget she die
@missprincessemily4 жыл бұрын
I despise Alzheimer's disease. That disease killed my grandmother this past weekend. But I do know that making frequent visits with your loved ones with this disease helps out with them remembering you. It may not bring their memory of you back completely but it helps
@ChallieWallie4 жыл бұрын
1 second they know and remember everything, next second they don't. Typically asking multiple things in a row, wears them out and makes their brain go blanc.
@ChallieWallie4 жыл бұрын
@@reign6of6e6terror it is sad, because the largest part of the disease they will be very aware of it. Aware they forget stuff, forget how to do stuff, know they will forget who their partner and children are. It is devastating. The last period, yes, they are barely aware of themselves. But until then, it's heartbreaking.
@virginiaoflaherty29834 жыл бұрын
@@ChallieWallie I was thinking the lady's brain was getting tired.
@degodoubledizzle83554 жыл бұрын
What a kind woman. Such class. I wish those manners were still a thing
@virginiaoflaherty29834 жыл бұрын
They can, it starts with you.
@gamerrodz4 ай бұрын
She may forget but she hasn't forgotten gratitude and humility that's really beautiful
@bunnyluuuvvv4 жыл бұрын
She is such an angel, she reminds me of my grandma who had Alzheimers for as long as i could remember. During my late teens my younger sister and i spent most of our days talking with her and giving her company since my parents had her move in with us so she could be with family. I remember one day in particular she thought she was 20 and thought we were her friends whose house she came over to, she was 90 at the time. She asked us to call her boyfriend, my grandpa, so he could pick her up and take her home. He died about 10 years prior so it was heartbreaking, but we kept telling her he was on his way over and “should be here soon”. She sat down and waited for him, and forgot a couple minutes after. She died a couple years ago but i still think about our days together.
@l.l78463 жыл бұрын
I really love to hear that you looked after her and told her that your grandpa was ‘on his way’, my grandma passed 3 months ago and also suffered from this terrible disease. Similar to yours, whenever we would show her pictures or tell her something she really liked then she would say ‘I can’t wait to tell Henry this he’ll love it as much as I do’. Sadly Henry is my grandad who passed around 2 years ago, I really don’t think anyone should have to suffer from this xD
@kathrynbaker51882 жыл бұрын
That’s such a lovely story-thank you for sharing!
@midoriyasuda5795 Жыл бұрын
What a kind soul you had. You had such a wisdom as a young person. God bless you.
@hebneh4 жыл бұрын
"I don't know the kids' names...I don't think I ever knew them."
@vexon23144 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@smeno_44074 жыл бұрын
vex on this is not funny
@vexon23144 жыл бұрын
@@smeno_4407 Well, too bad.
@rrrrmcg4084 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking
@Exlipsed4 жыл бұрын
vex on ...if you think that is funny that’s really sad
@scarlettgalaxy98394 жыл бұрын
The look of despair in her eyes while shes trying to find answers. It can actually scare a person with Alzheimers. Make her as comfortable as possible 🙏🏻
@superyeah4ever24 жыл бұрын
she didn't look scared to me
@kathrynh6854 жыл бұрын
ShockBass they said despair
@a.l.47204 жыл бұрын
she obviously over with the being scared part and move on the that dream like state
@patricias51222 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! Very few noticed it, bu you did. He certainly meant well, he obviously loved his mom deeply. But it's good to kind of badger someone with Alzheimer's, she doesn't know her last name, that's clear, why shame her over it? Rest in peace, dear lady.
@masamordior3 ай бұрын
When she said she was 22 and changed it to 23 I laughed... You're only as old as you feel.❤❤❤❤❤
@chelsea7894 жыл бұрын
She’s like, “leave me alone and let me eat this deliciousness.” What a sweetheart!
@tianasparkles56484 жыл бұрын
When she said 22 my heart just exploded...i personally feel we all think we are 16...its our bodies that just don't know
@aleeoid34103 жыл бұрын
Same dude, I feel like nothings changed in the 2 years since I have been 16.
@RockyRacoon53 жыл бұрын
@@aleeoid3410 Same and I'm 19.
@ElDuderinoh3 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 and definitely feel this way.
@sofiabravo19942 жыл бұрын
Forever 17 and I’m 27….our souls stay young…
@byronius7012 Жыл бұрын
Yep I'm about to turn 21 and mentally I've felt the same for the past 5 years
@JamesRendek4 жыл бұрын
What a horrid disease. At least she doesn't appear to be in pain.
@JamesRendek4 жыл бұрын
@Klaa2 I do and I'm not enjoying it.
@user-rr1ef3ne2s4 жыл бұрын
she's not in pain, those that around her are. (not in a bad)
@JamesRendek4 жыл бұрын
@@user-rr1ef3ne2s most hurtful to lose slowly
@user-rr1ef3ne2s4 жыл бұрын
@Jeff Keeth thanks, unfortunately my grandfather has it.
@coyotegamer17494 жыл бұрын
That’s is the worse disease. These people are suffering there entire lives with this disease but no pain until the final stage
@whatnowwomandamn80553 жыл бұрын
She’s such a sweetheart, I can imagine her before this horrible disease took her.
@richiedarth3 ай бұрын
I’m seeing this 6 years after it was posted. This woman is so pleasant and polite. “Thank you.” “Very nice.” I just love her.
@Kjw455 жыл бұрын
The way she thanks him after each time she gets or he tells her an answer in so sweet. I cants stop crying... My heart
@JC-vz9hz5 жыл бұрын
I agree. She never forgot to say thank you!
@SuperSecretSquad5 жыл бұрын
I wish people didnt forget to say you’re welcome
@julesvibe4 жыл бұрын
She’s a sweetheart. And that’s a horrendous disease.
@paulohlsson27 Жыл бұрын
Hi Julie, how's your day going with you?
@ghanshyamghyani58544 жыл бұрын
When she says "what honey?, what dear?" It makes me cry. Sweet lady. God bless her 🙌
@shirleybennett2874 жыл бұрын
God Bless her Such A sweet lady
@lostandlooking5 ай бұрын
During one of the most important times of my life, in regards to establishing a career, I took care of my Grandmother with Alzheimer's. No other family members offered to help, and they sure were happy that the grandson was taking care of it so they wouldn't have to. Upon her death, I was told to begin thinking about finding another home as they wanted to sell the house. It's 5 years later and the house still sits, showily degrading. I eventually got my Bachelor's degree to teach Spanish and lived/traveled throughout Latin America for several years. It's been hard getting back on track as I have nothing on my resume for those 5 years. I felt like I was in prison (because leaving her would mean the family would send her off to some nursing home), but I love my Grandma. It's been several years since and what I can say is this: I am happy that I was there for her and was the only face she recognized. When she was afraid, she would calm down by seeing me and knowing I was there. Although it was very difficult, I'll truly cherish those memories we shared together. I love you and miss you, Grandma. Although she became progressively worse, she never forgot how to play the piano and she remembered lyrics quite well!
@iMelanin5 жыл бұрын
“How old are you?” “22..” She’s such a gem! I would’ve played along like, “Well darling, you are only as old as you feel.” Lol! Seriously though, what a terrible illness. May God continue to bless, and guide you both along the journey. 💕
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
"God's plan" right?
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
@Dr T what?
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
@@Crazohz getting angry over a fairytale?
@reign6of6e6terror4 жыл бұрын
A horrible illness is cancer when you months crie in pain and you waite only of your end
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
@@reign6of6e6terror your opinion would be more credible if you could spell. And also there's a chance to cure cancer. Alzhiemers has no cure.
@northstarastrology39544 жыл бұрын
When she asked, "How old am I right here??" Pointing to her heart. She seems to have been saying, ' I am young-at-heart! Bless her heart. My Mother has Alhzheimers, now. 💔😭
@northstarastrology39544 жыл бұрын
"That's almost more than I am right here.". 😥
@northstarastrology39544 жыл бұрын
Oh, thank you. I could hear her well enough. 😢
@jasontuck-smith38964 жыл бұрын
This made me tear up - she's such a sweet old lady (saying things like 'what hunny'?). If she thinks she is 22 or 23 tho she can't be feeling too bad!
@silmig2173 Жыл бұрын
Qué bueno que se sienta feliz "en su mundo". Que no los veamos sufrir es lo más importante.
@wonderwalls35655 ай бұрын
There is a reason she is talking so politely, She is 22 years old and talking like how people talked 60 years ago.
@quango1quango5 жыл бұрын
What a gem she is, so very well mannered.
@stevens55414 жыл бұрын
She's a bitch
@sienakk4 жыл бұрын
“How old am I here?” Very interesting way of phrasing for her. I’m intrigued on where else she goes when she’s not here. Hell knows I’d be reliving my 20’s if I was in her position
@debbieharrison47924 жыл бұрын
Bless her. She’s so kind and polite. I’m thankful Alzheimer’s hasn’t taken her sweet disposition away.
@TheMillicentgray5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful lady, inside and out. So kind and sweet!
@linanicolia19945 жыл бұрын
funny too. I bet she had a fabulous sense of humor before he memory got scrambled.
@deborahuntermeyer11585 жыл бұрын
She is so sweet lady. We love u take care⚘
@LedByTheLamb5 жыл бұрын
You can tell she has always been a sweet soul
@juliamclaughlin17934 жыл бұрын
She's lovely. Her kind soul is shining.
@katelynnlunsford85952 ай бұрын
She’s so cuuuuute! Good job being patient with her. It’s heartwarming ☺️
@sharonx94 жыл бұрын
Alzheimer's is horrible! She seems like such a sweet person!
@vtrmcs3 жыл бұрын
It's horrible for the observer, but a good percentage of sufferers are not unhappy at all. They just need to be very well cared for and every day is a happy day, much like being a child again. It's really a second childhood in some cases. We have to cling to the positives.
@guitarsandbanjos4 жыл бұрын
She still has the most lovely manners.
@Gerardus1970 Жыл бұрын
The last time I visited my MIL with advanced Alzheimers she asked me if I would like a chocolate and it was just as lucid as she would have asked when she was well. It will stay with me forever. She had no idea who I was but still, she offered to share her chocolates... bless her heart. I think the lucid moments are the most difficult but also very special - just a small reminder of who they once were and how that person is ever present but in ever diminishing moments.
@leepeffers93314 жыл бұрын
The most devastating thing I've ever experienced was the day I asked my mom "do you remember my name?" and she just stared at me. It's heartbreaking to see someone go through this, she seems very strong for how gentle she comes across, I wish you strength for whatever your future holds.
@patriciac84885 жыл бұрын
It's a cruel disease ..bless her She is 21..22 and in her mind Bringing up family erased
@daydreamer15604 жыл бұрын
Bless her heart She's 22.
@internetexplorer73034 жыл бұрын
Damnit Bobby she wouldn't be 87 if she was born in 1923
@Cavscout1014 жыл бұрын
A rough 22.
@NathanRW4 жыл бұрын
I wish my grandma was like this. She always gets annoyed when anyone implies she doesn't remember something and is really prideful about it. So it's hard to be around her because she's constantly complaining and getting irritated. But she's also really stressed out because she doens't know where she is. I feel really sorry for her and it's heartbreaking to visit. :(
@skolkor4 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't correct people with dementia. Whatever answer she gives just roll with it
@kerrywoods53144 жыл бұрын
NathanRW Keep strong and keep visiting her because as frustrating as it is for you, imagine what it feels like for her.
@likeakittie2 жыл бұрын
Trust me dementia hits everyone differently and at different times. Your grandma's behaviors were caused by her illness and I am sure if she knew she was behaving like that, she wouldn't want to behave in that way to you. It's very hard, for both the person with dementia and the people around them. But know that even if she acts completely different than how she used to be, she's still your grandma on the inside. The one who you used to know when you were young.
@toomylight23112 жыл бұрын
That’s perfectly normal for your grandmother , they know somewhere in there that their not themselves and it’s very frustrating for them when they can’t remember. You really shouldn’t be asking them to remember, you have to enter their world now. ❤️
@claireakahayes-fogarty8452 Жыл бұрын
Nathan, I won't be able to keep visiting my Mum when she gets to that point. I'm very easily hurt and traumatized. When she gets to the point that she no longer recognizes me, I will say goodbye and then go no contact. What doesn't kill me traumatizes me and scars me for life. I've had enough hell in my life without having to see Mum not recognizing me. And when she gets to the point that she hallucinates I DEFINITELY don't want any more contact with her. (She's not there yet but I'm preparing myself to say goodbye to her soon and go no contact.) There's enough rubbish in the world without Mum going insane in front of me! I don't even have siblings to lean on. I wish Dad had had dementia instead, because he was a religious fanatic and I didn't like him much. He wasn't abusive, but he annoyed me. (God this, God that.) No, I didn't want to hear that, and I don't miss Dad. Good riddance, I prefer Mum and always did. I'm Mum's girl, not Daddy's girl. I'm sooooooooooo sorry Mum is not of sound mind. This ORDEAL (not "journey", doggone it) with my Mum is absolutely torturing me!!! I don't believe in being strong/positive/resilient. I believe in crying and having a pity party!!!😢😭💔
@salauerman70824 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how she says “thank-you” so sweetly after a bit of help remembering names and such! I can only hope to be like her if I follow the statistics of probability that I will develop a dying brain eventually. Is dementia, a dying brain, really worse than some other ways to end our time on earth, if we are surrounded by people who share their love with us? We have time to say goodbye while those who were estranged have a second chance, an opportunity to return like a prodigal child...
@bluedogsurvive65014 жыл бұрын
My Dad got this and past away, it’s a horrible thing to go through
@MelEveritt4 жыл бұрын
Big hugs for you xoxo
@deborahuntermeyer11584 жыл бұрын
All we can do is be thear for theam and love theam💕
@highspeed18654 жыл бұрын
My dad is about where this woman is. Very sad thing to go thru. Sorry about your Dad. My Dad came back for two minutes during a conversation. It was like he never had Alzheimer's, he asked if there was a pill that would let him just go to sleep and not wake up. At that moment he knew, but minutes later he had all forgotten.
@nikkib57534 жыл бұрын
To ANYONE affected by this, please try to remind yourself, LOVE is not a "thought" in one's mind but a "feeling" in one's heart! Alzheimer's may steal their memory BUT they will ALWAYS love you in their heart. That's a bond that NO ONE and NOTHING can steal. ❤
@nolife74734 жыл бұрын
Nikki B except for death, sadly :(
@mirandarae87224 жыл бұрын
My daughter's name is Charlene, she just turned 8. I hope she's as strong as this lady 🖤
@tomsullivan444822 күн бұрын
this woman's name is shirley not charlene.
@joshweaver73344 жыл бұрын
My grandfather just passed. We were very tight he raised me and was like my father. I’m 25, he was 88. He passed on Christmas Day. He was just like this. So polite and kind and such a pleasure to talk to. Thank you for the video. It really brightened my day. God bless you and Ms. Charlene.
@bella37754 жыл бұрын
Her loving and nurturing energy is very much still there, I feel it intensely. I’ve worked with patients who share her diagnosis, and without a doubt, angry and narcissistic people deteriorated a lot faster and were miserable, whereas loving and caring people were happy till the end.
@jenniferwhalen96125 жыл бұрын
As long as she doesn’t get distressed with questions. You really shouldn’t quiz a person if they have dementia.
@Robert_L225 жыл бұрын
I tend to agree about the questioning, based on experience as a full-time caregiver to my mom. Each patient is different, so there is no "one size fits all" approach, but mom HATES being questioned, to the point of being nasty and then withdrawing. There's a lot of detective work that goes into reading and communicating with dementia patients, especially as the disease progresses. Mom will tolerate a maximum of three questions and then the excrement hits the fan. But again, every patient is different.
@missjojo1845 жыл бұрын
insideout they’re called people . People with dementia. Sincerely an RN..
@Stonktradomus4 жыл бұрын
@@missjojo184, news flash! Patients are people. What type of species do you think the word "patient " refers to? Never thought about that one, huh?
@amemelia4 жыл бұрын
@@missjojo184 in a healthcare setting we're all patients
@jonsixxx65694 жыл бұрын
@Klaa2 Dementia is a syndrome, not a disease. ... Dementia is a group of symptoms that affects mental cognitive tasks such as memory and reasoning. Dementia is an umbrella term that Alzheimer's disease can fall under. It can occur due to a variety of conditions, the most common of which is Alzheimer's disease
@taruluver293034 жыл бұрын
I have never seen someone so upbeat that has Alzheimer’s.
@vtrmcs3 жыл бұрын
It affects everyone differently. My grandmother had alzheimers for a long long time. It was very slow progression. She was happy for all of it, dancing, singing. It was only the last two weeks which were sad as her body began to fail, but she was almost 100 years old, so I don't even think she would have moaned about that.
@agnesgorska55454 жыл бұрын
My mother has an Alzheimer and is 87 as well. Conversation with her looks just the same, and my mom is nice, warm, thankful and beautiful just like yours. She can’t name or remember anything, but I know that our presence feels good and special to her, just like when she was healthy, as I see it in her eyes and happy responses. She can’t find the words to say who I am but she feels who I am. . Thank you for sharing your conversation with your mother.
@philipmulville8218 Жыл бұрын
Bless this beautiful woman.
@PaulGarthAviation4 жыл бұрын
Q: What City do you live in? A: It's a nice one. That's for sure. We get along well. Note: The correct answer is irrelevant.
@ekelamcgee6714 жыл бұрын
Don't we all wished we lived in a nice city where everyone got along.
@victoriak684 жыл бұрын
@@willoughby1888 and then there's Detroit...
@patricias51222 ай бұрын
Yes! The correct answer is not relevant. It' snot necessary to badger her. (Though I'm sure he didn't mean to.)
@lynnohrel13185 жыл бұрын
She’s so sweet and polite. She’s a gem. God bless her!
@SJM67914 жыл бұрын
My grandmother had Alzheimer’s disease. It was very difficult watching her slowly lose all of her memories. God bless this woman and her family.
@dawnofthedead6203Ай бұрын
You have such a lovely, gentle mum.
@TheRiocap4 жыл бұрын
What a lovely woman, this disease is so terrible i wish her and every other person Who shares this disease the best, what an absolute gem she is
@jandelisle53575 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful lady! So sweet and polite- God Bless your MOTHER and family knowing God is with you on this journey
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
"God's plan" right?
@user-vz3ms7fj1v4 жыл бұрын
So god blessed her with dementia..?
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
@@user-vz3ms7fj1v obviously. This shows how stupid these god fearing retards are.
@stecco33724 жыл бұрын
@@locsrob again, evolution is bull shit fuck face.
@prithvisihag23534 жыл бұрын
Jan Delisle did God "bless" her with Alzheimer's? Should be named Godzheimer's then shouldn't it?
@halfbakedchannel60657 ай бұрын
The way she always has to ask for clarification after everything is too relatable :(
@Beverly20204 жыл бұрын
This reminds me so much of the last few years of my mother’s life. Pleasantly confused, but remained gentle and polite. So happy to see that she does not seem to be grieved at all by memory loss. My mom forgot that she couldn’t remember, which made her life so much calmer.
@dansnyder24944 жыл бұрын
There is nothing more beautiful than the motherly smile.
@rosemaryraplar84 жыл бұрын
She is a sweet, gentle soul. "They may not remember what you did, but they remember how you made them feel."
@melissaschlund53203 жыл бұрын
Her face lit up when she asked „Do you know my kids names“ and you answered with „yes“🥰
@rosies90175 жыл бұрын
Dementia runs in my family and I really hope I can be this polite if I lose my memory! What a lovely woman
@chevonne84925 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful sweet soul is your lovely Mom. God bless both of you guys.
@deborahuntermeyer11585 жыл бұрын
She is a veary sweet lady in my eye.💕 god blass her💕💕💕💕💕
@prithvisihag23534 жыл бұрын
@@deborahuntermeyer1158 bless her with what? Alzheimer's?
@deborahuntermeyer11584 жыл бұрын
@@prithvisihag2353 thank u. She is a sweet angel Aman💕
@whitsixkiller4 жыл бұрын
Kid I went to school with. His grandfather had alzheimers. He woke up one morning and had forgot he ever learned English. He spoke German only for the rest of his life. Eventually it erases your entire life.
@Brenda0312F2 жыл бұрын
What a wonderfully sweet woman! The smile in her eyes as she says “thank you” after he tells her stuff she has forgotten. I bet she is a sweet woman.
@jailb8lyf4 жыл бұрын
She is so cute. God bless her and the family. Alzheimer's is such a terrible disease. Treasure your momma. She is a gift.
@mrsdancy48455 жыл бұрын
What a sweetheart ❤ so kind in her responses and gratitude for his help with remembering.
@lindahumes88824 жыл бұрын
I want to hug this beautiful lady. My heart broke watching this...❤️❤️
@06eyM310 ай бұрын
Its good she is not terribly distressed and distraught that she cannot remember. She seems calm and contented ❤
@DrBujucucack Жыл бұрын
My grandmas last name was palmer. She died from dementia. Im in texas visiting my dad and stepmother. She is 74 and has dementia. Shes a little bit worse off than this lady. Its so sad and scary.. Cherish every minute with your family
@Simmy27Star4 жыл бұрын
Bless her heart. She seems like she’s such a sweet woman and wonderful mother
@lindauribe68725 жыл бұрын
What a sweet heart... My husband suffered from this but did remember who I was until he died.
@1234567marks14 күн бұрын
Great to see her really pleasant personality shining through.
@stephenpalmer660412 күн бұрын
Hi. Thanks for the kind reply. She got somewhat easier to be with as she progressed in her disease. Sorry to say!
@Jana-vj3vf Жыл бұрын
I had a man 73 with dementia and acted as if he was 17. He was healthy. People was always angry at him but he was good to me. His son treated me well. That is one memory I will keep for a long time. He even stood up for me when he thought I was wronged. He was a good man.
@gingerbee67195 жыл бұрын
How precious. She is so soft spoken & cordial.... wish I would have had a sweet mom like her. 💜
@tamaradekold58405 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful..enjoy every day with her! Mother's are such a blessing..I miss mine so much..what I wouldn't give for another day here with her! Best part is ..I'll see her when I meet up with her in heaven. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR MOM!
@JasonFerguson12833 жыл бұрын
Your mom is a sweetheart. She is so positive and loving and gentle. Peace, Stephen. Thank you for this!!
@Aitch_1545 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful lady, she's got a wonderful grace about her. God bless 😘
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
This is part of "gods plan" right?
@frankpaya6904 жыл бұрын
@@locsrob it's because of things like this that I have become an agnostic.
@corywiedenbeck15624 жыл бұрын
@@locsrob this is a result of sin in the world until Jesus returns, it is all in the Bible, p.s we have an enemy too
@locsrob4 жыл бұрын
@@corywiedenbeck1562 lmfao biblehumper please dont respond.
@punisher63874 жыл бұрын
@@corywiedenbeck1562 lmao Bible is a fictional book with 0 proof go sleep now
@AM-xe4iq6 жыл бұрын
She's so sweet.
@jogordon15304 жыл бұрын
My mother is 89 and even though mom has moments where she is in the wrong time (thinking her parents are alive or our cat is still alive when it isn't), she can remember everything from her past no matter how many times you ask her. Yet ask her what she did 2 hours ago, she can't remember. My father died at 97 and was still fixing lamps up until his death - sharp as a tack!
@ahjort1002 жыл бұрын
She’s so sweet and polite. What a horrible affliction. 🥺
@mauimago28384 жыл бұрын
My grandmother is 93 now, she doesn't remember me, she asked me who I am every day but I love her so much... bless all of them elders.
@lilyjohnson29714 жыл бұрын
“What’s your last name?” “Oh that’s a good one” SENT ME 😂😂😂😂
@imbehindyou-48324 жыл бұрын
It's nothing to joke about, you don't have a simple idea of how this serious is until you lose someone from it just like me.
@imbehindyou-48324 жыл бұрын
@The Senate thank you, at least you understand a lot of poeple in comments say that "it was just a joke"
@gnosticwarrior2124 жыл бұрын
@@imbehindyou-4832 You can find it funny and still know that alzheimers is a serious condition, the two are not mutually exclusive.
@imbehindyou-48324 жыл бұрын
@@gnosticwarrior212 you don't find something funny if it's serious
@docholiday18064 жыл бұрын
Lily Johnson jerk
@mdnafan15084 жыл бұрын
She’s seems so sweet, I can imagine what kind of person she was before this devastating illness
@lunaaj3034 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, I love her so much, her personality is SO lovely 🥺🤍
@parmara734 жыл бұрын
I miss working in senior care! You’re mother is the ones that always made my job amazing and proud of what I was doing for them
@YummyFood4544 жыл бұрын
Awe she’s such a positive person and seems like a lovely women. God bless.
@clairestephens49163 жыл бұрын
My Daddy had Alzheimer's and couldn't tell me what he had for breakfast but he could tell me about a day back in 1949 like it was yesterday. I stayed with him during the last 2 years of his life and I learned so much about family history, dates, uncles who were killed in WWII, jobs my Papa had, it was amazing what all I learned. As their caretaker and child, you just have to go back in time with them and have a conversation about the past and forget about current names and people and ages.
@kayf5162 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful lady she is. So polite & gorgeous. My father has dementia & is angry & often nasty.
@mandei19895 жыл бұрын
She’s so precious, omg I just wanna give her a hug 🤗🙏🏼💗 God bless her!
@dandylionriver4 жыл бұрын
Awwe..This lady is precious.. I just looked her up and it said she passed away on August 25, 2018.. Bless her sweet heart..