Mom of 3. She was very transparent. She over shared a lot but said it’s her truth. She is ready for a good man
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@LLJTHEMUA9 ай бұрын
She has a deep look of sadness in her eyes. I hope she finds self love & therapy.
@kisha40409 ай бұрын
Most of the folks that come on here are extremely sad.
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
More like "Surrender" in my opinion
@brandonbrown69189 ай бұрын
She seems chill and cute, yet it's not adding up. After a divorce you get knocked up in less than a month by another dude. That means Miss Lady knew that fella when she was married. Yet I dunno, I might be assuming. Since I do know both sides can be the problem. I unfortunately have friends who are good men to men, loyal all that . Whole nine yards, but good lawd when it comes to females😅. Masters of getting what they want. So good girls who just love being in love , can just be dogged out by the worst of us. Just break their spirit because they were doing what they thought was right.
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
Seeking love before self-love can be a cycle of enduring pain, and not embracing happiness.
@starshottai25199 ай бұрын
And a better friend/family group. No way in hell i would allow my sister or friend to be in a situation shes in. Fuck that.
@Matthew7.79 ай бұрын
Ran outta red flag 🚩’s gotta throw some orange cones like we at a construction site and tell everyone turn around go the other way
@fungirl2k9 ай бұрын
Damn
@rayb24109 ай бұрын
Damn NOT ORANGE cones. That had me laughing hard. 😂🤣
@alphonsomyers9 ай бұрын
You are a Genius
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@rubenw79749 ай бұрын
🛑🛑🛑🛑
@mr_nogetback9 ай бұрын
I knew she was going to have a good story. When I seen the black & mild. 😂🤣
@Recoverywithtamye9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@longbeachmaumba70599 ай бұрын
⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
@nat-kingreef39559 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@havefaithhavefaith58479 ай бұрын
😂😂
@yes27689 ай бұрын
lol😂
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
Lmao...she smoking a B&M cooped up in her bathroom...I know she stressed😂😂😂
@tameikahamilton21759 ай бұрын
😂
@masculinitymatters90309 ай бұрын
hiding from the kids
@Shylie_Irie9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@foxyboop41649 ай бұрын
And one is 5 secs from knocking on the door asking for juice or milk and cookies .in 5...4....3....
@masculinitymatters90309 ай бұрын
@@foxyboop4164 They following her around with a whole bunch of tellin, cussin, runnin, jumpin, playin, screamin, hittin. etc
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
Kendra: What would you say to the man concerned about your 3 month old? Her: The man that's concerned is not gonna be concerned because Im not concerned. The Kousins:😳😳😳 The Baby: Who the he** gonna be concerned then!?!?!
@sharyapatterson64239 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Right if she let him back after being divorced 9 yrs ago and now has a baby how you know she won't take his sorry azz back.
@A28CB9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@tanyapugh34779 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Teetoy49 ай бұрын
😂🤣😂 I’m spinning I’m left so confused 😂
@marinohall94169 ай бұрын
LOL that was funny
@LoveAfterPookie9 ай бұрын
Did she just say she did everything in life the RIGHT way???? Girl
@mikeyy4259 ай бұрын
lol Thts what i said.....huh?
@karynthompson43209 ай бұрын
In her mind she did. She's the only one living her life that's why guidance is so important.
@fungirl2k9 ай бұрын
💯
@loveeraven44719 ай бұрын
I turned my head so fast because hell nah baby that’s definitely not the right way. That’s the wrong damn turn if anything . She need to open her eyes. And she is so pretty too. Hope things get better 🤍
@thewinzerfam9 ай бұрын
@@loveeraven4471she’s not pretty average. Idk why u black ppl always say somebody pretty just cause they high yellow or light skinned. 🙄
@BAEGOALS9 ай бұрын
Ma’am please heal first. I say this with love and sincerity ✨✨✨
@LadyK0079 ай бұрын
Seriously
@Aceboogie839 ай бұрын
Ladies and gentlemen. Pookiesha comes in all shades and sizes 😂😂😂🤦🏿
@LadyK0079 ай бұрын
🎯
@femiodeleye9 ай бұрын
Imagine finding out your birthday was due to Chlamydia 😅
@RaquelX3059 ай бұрын
Damn. 😢
@User5454-j2k9 ай бұрын
Lol
@lavettesmith1569 ай бұрын
now imagine how women must feel to be told a man/husband is the goal or you ain't worthy. Meanwhile they cheat, spread diseases, leave their kids & get on social media "poking fun at womans expense".
@danielademide9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@TJ-yv3kp9 ай бұрын
Lord I didn't even see that at first 😢
@eljeepi9 ай бұрын
Sis really needs to be in therapy to deal with her confidence & lack of boundaries. She's looking for validation in all the wrong places. Heal sis, take care yourself & your babies for now.
@copperamerindian0509 ай бұрын
I’m immediately disgusted just from her smoking a Black 🤢🤢, and then 3 baby daddies just nailed it ⚰️
@elizabethclarke49819 ай бұрын
A dusty mess ain't it ?
@MacMillerJohnson9 ай бұрын
Is this the prize we keep being told to win?
@sirennoir2589 ай бұрын
I saw that plastic tip and was like what the Sukihana is this shit here?
@sirennoir2589 ай бұрын
@joshbeck1456 her kids got dirty feet
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
Y'all see the way she blew smoke in our face?!?!...soon as she came on.
@raht28089 ай бұрын
“I’ve never dated out of my race… I’m biracial (black and white)… I’ve only dated Black men. How much y’all wanna bet that the black men she dated thought that they were dating out of theirs? 🫠🙃 I wish these mixed women with “pretty privilege “ would understand that it’s the same black man. Pookie is Pookie no matter what color you are , woman.
@JOmega20079 ай бұрын
The mixed women I've met were black so I wouldn't think I was dating outside my race.
@charlesbrown88799 ай бұрын
What people don't want to admit is that pookies come in all colors. Single mothers exist in all continents.
@TheEzwider889 ай бұрын
I've never considered dating a mixed woman to be 'dating outside my race.' Every mixed (half black) woman I've dated identifies as black. Idk where you're getting this from.
@TheEzwider889 ай бұрын
It's seems like you just came to hate on biracial women and black men. I get it now.. 🤧🙃
@mariethirteen84519 ай бұрын
@@TheEzwider88😅😅😅
@kamieyonce9 ай бұрын
She seems drained i dont think dating should even be a priority rn but life is tough and im sure she wants a man around…
@bradleyborno719 ай бұрын
She is, she needs a man like me.
@kamieyonce9 ай бұрын
She needs therapy and extra childcare IMO
@longbeachmaumba70599 ай бұрын
Only thing drained about her is... Nvm.
@Neeem-ew4qc9 ай бұрын
To help her raise her kids. Meanwhile, she's opening herself up for more cheating and potentially more STD's.
@masculinitymatters90309 ай бұрын
That one rare time where you can see Pookie getting set back in life from trying to deal with her. "No Pookie, don't do it, reconsider...", is what I'd say to ole Pook.
@shigreene139 ай бұрын
She went from the black and mild to CNA, to 27 with 3 kids. Upped 3 baby daddies on us, either lied or forgot her last kids age 👀 then hit us with divorcé confusion and left us with an STD I’ve never seen so much shit unpacked that needed to be air seal vacuumed 🫠
@sharoori1239 ай бұрын
😂
@foxyboop41649 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, this sums it all up! 🔥 💩
@r.r9119 ай бұрын
Lmao 🤣 🤣
@kanamekiyru9 ай бұрын
Lifetime if writing the script as we speak
@sheenaturner19399 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@idag75219 ай бұрын
She doesn’t take BS but will gave birth to the events that created it for a LIFETIME.
@candorsspot27759 ай бұрын
She's done everything right she says.
@Letstalk179 ай бұрын
She trying real hard to make it sound like she not throwing that 🐱 around . The proof is in the pudding ma’am
@mikeyy4259 ай бұрын
Facts, all i heard was "im a whoree"
@t.bby6199 ай бұрын
@@mikeyy425lmao
@t.bby6199 ай бұрын
Right, just say you use new dick to get over old dick because baby some of us can add lol
@mikeandmars23459 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Douglass108 ай бұрын
@@mikeyy425😂😂😂
@vageta92819849 ай бұрын
I swear these women will instantly spew out deal breakers, but ask them what their own flaws are and they go blank!
@thagrandpubah9 ай бұрын
“The ICK” is they all call it now. Disqualifying most men just for breathing!🤷🏽♂️
@RockyMaiviaMiami9 ай бұрын
KG be adding into the foolishness titling it that she’s ready for a good man now… after three bankruptcies do you all of a sudden get a good loan/ interest rate because you are “ready”.
@logicalcritik21449 ай бұрын
Of course she's ready for a good man now; after reckless womb gifting 3 pookies.
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
❤❤To break free from repeating patterns, we must first mend our past wounds and rediscover our worth. ❤❤
@saranwright71139 ай бұрын
Sooo true! Healing our past emotions is a must
@starshottai25199 ай бұрын
Where are her parents, friends, family and mentors ? Where are all the dudes friends, family and mentors? Its crazy how a conversation with the right people could have avoided all her troubles. We need to help each other stay away from bad behavior and ill minded individuals.
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
@@starshottai2519 The power of guidance and support is profound.
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
@@starshottai2519 The power of guidance and support is profound when you are ready.
@Lord_God__9 ай бұрын
That’s only if you’re worth anything
@suporiaa68269 ай бұрын
When she said her dealbreaker is a “mock” I fell out 😂 them men been getting on her nerves 😂😂😂😂
@SISTAGURL9 ай бұрын
She definitely needs to leave Kentucky
@Gofastnow129 ай бұрын
I’m laughing so harddddd
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha16879 ай бұрын
Ladies and gentlemen, don't ever take back an ex. The thing that broke you up is likely still there. You may think you can fix it, but I've never even heard of someone fixing it. Maybe I'm wrong, but just my two cents.
@AllINeedIsMascara9 ай бұрын
@@sammajor2075🤣🤣🤣 I like when ppl use the comparison of material things(food, cars, etc) to real life.
@ladytosha159 ай бұрын
Facts
@prettypinksurvivor9 ай бұрын
I concur 💯
@yoyomabach45189 ай бұрын
Man am I struggling with this. I just got a text about 3 minutes ago and I’m just staring at my phone, this may be a sign.
@lewis200020009 ай бұрын
@@yoyomabach4518 wait it out bro, believe me, the yams ain't worth the DRAMA(peace of mind is a beautiful thing)......been there done that.
@SammieSoSubmissive9 ай бұрын
DAMN girl, let that baby stop breastfeeding before you hop on another horse.🚩🚩🚩🖤🖤🖤
@angelacleveland753 ай бұрын
🤣
@jfelton35839 ай бұрын
Females that smoke black and milds 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 avoid at all coats
@Matthew7.79 ай бұрын
Edit that cost playa
@geronimo15959 ай бұрын
Always bad
@Fabrizio71719 ай бұрын
@@Matthew7.7exactly that’s just some other shit that she’s going to try to make me responsible for once she’s comfortable enough.
@HumptyMcFly9 ай бұрын
Jas wants to be able to judge a man by his past but doesn’t want a man to judge her by her past. Make it make sense.
@MacMillerJohnson9 ай бұрын
Female logic.
@peterhester93069 ай бұрын
Facts
@mrdacusthenavigator49899 ай бұрын
Girl Math
@Priceless57999 ай бұрын
Like most women
@AB-ze2ho8 ай бұрын
She has a 3 month old baby. That's not the past. That's quite current 😂😂
@openminded27569 ай бұрын
I just want to hug her. I was stressed out just listening to her story. I see childhood negligence. She's looking for love in all the wrong places. Jass, just focus on work, take care of your children, and save your money for a house. Don't date right now. Give it 3 years. Men are going to see that you're desperate and USE you. Please get yourself together first before anything. I could've been your story but I put the work in. I've never been in an abusive relationship and I only have one child. Stay focused.
@garyr20179 ай бұрын
27, KY, divorced (twice), smoker, 3 baby daddies including a 3 month old. Won’t date an ugly man. This is the state of the dating pool these days 🤷🏾
@Cocobykeke9 ай бұрын
She said that she WOULD date an ugly man.
@ghariiscool9 ай бұрын
she thinks she can be picky lol
@candorsspot27759 ай бұрын
@@CocobykekeShe said she would NOT date an ugly man.
@Cocobykeke9 ай бұрын
@@candorsspot2775oh. I hear it now. She said she has dated ugly men, as long as they have s good heart but then she says she's done with that. Lol
@candorsspot27759 ай бұрын
@@Cocobykeke Her double talk is crazy lol. I don't blame you for mishearing because she's so confusing.
@fungirl2k9 ай бұрын
This young woman needs healing. God bless her and her children. 🙏
@logicalcritik21449 ай бұрын
This young woman needs birth control!
@hammertyme83929 ай бұрын
She's a lost cause
@freudianslip21929 ай бұрын
They are always ready for a “good man” after three babies. They never have that energy before they pop out kids. It's insanity.
@peterhester93069 ай бұрын
Ikr
@urbanflight8209 ай бұрын
Please. Girls like this wouldn't know "good" if it slapped them in the mouth. She's speaking about height and physicality. Not character.
@MrCnote19829 ай бұрын
ALWAYS!!!😂😂😂
@meloran25719 ай бұрын
women will date one short guy and say they will never do it again because it didn't work out. tall dudes will ruin their lives over and over, but they'll still be saying yes he must be tall 😂
@E.R2259 ай бұрын
Alot of women don't use logic when it comes to major decision making in relationships smh My sister left her bd, who was a decent loyal dude all because he worked too much..........I mean the ngga was only working so much to take care of her and the baby but she really didn't appreciate it smh now she's with a pookie who keep cheating on her and can't keep a job but that's none of my business lol
@N_MACHIAVELLI9 ай бұрын
Most women wouldn't date themselves!
@the_creative709 ай бұрын
LMAO 🤣 this part!
@LawGreen2139 ай бұрын
Never heard it like that before, great point (I'm using it, lol)
@prettygirlfrmla75259 ай бұрын
You must be short
@TaylorAhava_9 ай бұрын
This is just flat-out sad. 😩🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@kc87479 ай бұрын
People do things backwards and wonder why things don’t work.
@myseville19769 ай бұрын
Marry before Carry!! LOL
@kimcoop10009 ай бұрын
She need to be single for a while and raise them kids
@slimbarbie19 ай бұрын
The way I would’ve spent that $500.
@suporiaa68269 ай бұрын
Listen! Cause some stuff just ain’t gotta happen.
@Pharmasuitical9 ай бұрын
Your hair looks good
@slimbarbie19 ай бұрын
@@Pharmasuitical thank you ♥️
@Fortheloveofkaii9 ай бұрын
Ain’t no way in the world if I ever experience this would I share it with a bunch of strangers…😢
@teekhudson42629 ай бұрын
😮😮😮 hold on sis, don't tell all yo business! We're not worthy!
@davidsejjombwe23139 ай бұрын
It's always the new man that gets a bad deal😂😂😂. Pookie always get it fresh
@SuperDoristar9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Sabrina_the_2ueen9 ай бұрын
She seems very manipulative. You did everything right? She’s talking in circles. She’s giving a lot of details but is also diminishing her role in the equation. She seems very immature as well.
@saggle10009 ай бұрын
Even with the "CLAP", standards were still high!
@lavettesmith1569 ай бұрын
& rightfully so! It's cured
@littlepurplebutterflies9 ай бұрын
The red flags I see, are that she has babies from different men, and only one she married, and the other is that she has no shame of putting out the fact she contracted a disease from her ex-husband. She made the right choice of divorcing her cheating husband, but she needs to get herself together first and not get into a relationship, especially right after she gave birth.
@jackpoopoo9 ай бұрын
i think she contracted the disease from her ex fiance. 4:28
@logicalcritik21449 ай бұрын
This woman is not perfect; she has issues too, she's just stating her side of the story. The men are not here to tell their side.
@hammertyme83929 ай бұрын
You only see two red flags? Shiiiit
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
💜Her journey may be marked with challenges, but it's never too late to transform her life, make better choices, and find the happiness she deserves.💜
@Lord_God__9 ай бұрын
@@SHES5543she still gone have them 3 bastards tho
@dalatchkeys7629 ай бұрын
She's the one who probably had the clap and was giving it out!
@mrmoe1109 ай бұрын
Yup. She's the one that we can definitely say was sleeping with multiple people. For all we know the dudes she was with were only sleeping with her.
@Tha_HeauxHealer9 ай бұрын
She used this show as a therapy session. She needed to get a lot off her chest. Focus on them babies and your own mental well being maam.
@dondattaford55939 ай бұрын
By telling the world how sorry she is
@dondattaford55939 ай бұрын
She another sorry Sally at 28 three kids from here on she is a hot and run
@vegannn71789 ай бұрын
Are these people confusing Kendra for a trial therapy session
@bluelion73429 ай бұрын
Honest question ladies, if you had a single son with no kids would you want him to get together with a woman that has multiple kids by multiple men?
@njpme9 ай бұрын
😂😂
@arijones64429 ай бұрын
Nope and I also wouldn't want my daughter with a man with children either. Childless people should be with childless people.
@Goaldeelocs9 ай бұрын
I have a single son who is 28 with no kids. I would absolutely not want him to date a woman with multiple kids by multiple fathers! That’s actually a HARD NO. I tell him all the time when he’s ready to settle down and start his family to try with a young lady who has no kids like himself so they can experience it together.
@bluelion73429 ай бұрын
@@arijones6442 💯 agree
@zai55629 ай бұрын
No, but I would look deeper into her background. If she was an ex-wife instead of a BM, I’d consider it but it would also depend heavily on her character and certain personality traits.
@bhenderson21379 ай бұрын
This poor confused girl said she looks at every red flag... All she has to do is stare in the mirror and she can see them all.
@mannygomez52139 ай бұрын
she definitely said almost 3 year old. smh
@madison_mommy34569 ай бұрын
She needs to take this time to work on herself! And focus on her children.
@Tono.W.Herrera9 ай бұрын
The black and mild told you everything you needed to know...
@Officially_tiamonet9 ай бұрын
I’m 28. Just turned 28 a few days ago & I’ve been thinking like damn I’m still single; no kids; never been married… but than I go on KZfaq and I realize there’s 27 year olds with 3 kids, 2 baby daddies & 1 ex husband… whom she was only married for 6 months 😩
@saranwright71139 ай бұрын
I know right smh crazy
@VolleyballAddict5219 ай бұрын
29 and same… like what life are people living?? 🫠🥴
@Officially_tiamonet9 ай бұрын
@@VolleyballAddict521 Good to know I’m not alone 😩
@myseville19769 ай бұрын
BUIT!! Are you trying to get married? That's real question! She is done!!
@Officially_tiamonet9 ай бұрын
@@myseville1976 I’m trying but I think my time has come and passed lol. I would rather be single for the rest of my life than to become anything like the ladies on this show. I can barely walk my damn dog in the morning. Imagine having to tend to 3 kids alone 😩
@user-lj1ed6nd3r9 ай бұрын
She doesn’t want to have more children. 3 kids from 3 different men. Been ran through more times than a high school highway. What does this young lady have to offer a man of value. Like I cannot think of one thing that she brings to the table, besides trauma.
@Teetoy49 ай бұрын
She don’t have her tubes tied she said she’ll have more for the right man if she’s married
@hammertyme83929 ай бұрын
This lady has absolutely nothing to offer a good man. But can offer Chad a good time
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
💗Amidst her past, she brings lessons, resilience, and the potential for growth, which can be invaluable to the right person willing to see beyond the surface.💗
@ShaneusSnake9 ай бұрын
@@SHES5543some SUCKER who wants to bring ruin to himself
@mutakamuganda40749 ай бұрын
@shes5543 And that person has to be a mental health professional for sure, because no ordinary man can manage that crap.😢
@FindYourFree9 ай бұрын
a whole 3 month old and worried about finding a d$%^ man..just absolutely off
@dbizzle859 ай бұрын
You'd have to be a fool to jump in this dumpster fire with her
@KFSaks9 ай бұрын
Prime example of arrested development. Man or woman, children have no business dating adults. You will be manipulated and stagnated. Your mind will stay in a child-place for much longer than it should. If you have children as a child it's even worse and much harder to rebound in life. I bet her dude was cheating with other kids.
@reneeconnelly20269 ай бұрын
This is a whole mess and here I am running straight to the comments! Jesus take the wheel 🥴
@carlton23619 ай бұрын
She's attractive enough to find something
@ShonYoung9 ай бұрын
This poor baby got me concerned… she is all over the place!!! You never know who a person is until they open their mouths
@thelessons37689 ай бұрын
Welcome to the world of men
@brandonbrown69189 ай бұрын
Crazy not even a full month after divorce she getting knocked up by another dude. Which means.... she knew him prior because that would not even make sense. She a wild girl for sho
@freethinkingMILF9 ай бұрын
She is going to get a man, solely based on her being biracial and pretty. Men are really that simple.
@stormship16479 ай бұрын
Nah …she ain’t cute
@mrmoe1109 ай бұрын
We really are. If she's a CNA I can see all the black dudes that come into her job trying to holler without knowing her backstory
@RahYisrael999 ай бұрын
@@mrmoe110and when they learn the back story they'll fall in love.
@Fudge_Fantasy9 ай бұрын
What else y'all got?
@Fudge_Fantasy9 ай бұрын
@@RahYisrael99lies. Lol
@candacewilliams32859 ай бұрын
Dang the baby 3 months. She knew how he was when she had the baby with him. Why turn around and have a baby by him, now blowing smoking looking for another man. She not even aware that she's setting herself up for the same thing. Everything just sounded so messy, that's way to much going on right there. Kendra said she's going to stop right there. Thank you for stopping her, she would've went on and on with that mess lol.
@SexyChoclateThunder9 ай бұрын
She needs therapy a baby sitter and a reality check!🤦🏽♀️🙄💁🏽♀️
@kapasedo9 ай бұрын
😂
@kisht74699 ай бұрын
She seems like a really sweet young lady. Seems like she’s been misguided through out her life. Her parents probably didn’t teach her valuable life lessons or equip her with knowledge on how to choose a good partner and make better life choices. Some people really are victims of their upbringing.
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
🤍YES! Empathy and guidance can help her rewrite her life's story and become the best version of herself, despite past challenges.🤍
@fungirl2k9 ай бұрын
💯
@marcusjones52879 ай бұрын
Don't blame her bad life choices on her parents.
@dondattaford55939 ай бұрын
She said she needs a man for her and someone else's kids how it doesn't sound stupid to them is beyond belief
@stephym46449 ай бұрын
🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ why?? I don't understand oversharing information, soooo EMBARRASSING I understand we all have a story BUT BABYYYYYY‼️ NOOOO👀👀🙏🏾😫😫😫😫😂🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
@mrrdw779 ай бұрын
She should share this info.
@njpme9 ай бұрын
😂😂
@mikhalaa7469 ай бұрын
3 MONTHS? gurl if you dont go mix up some formula for that baby and have SEVERAL seats. 😒
@augustbaby82549 ай бұрын
Kendra Cam definitely showed the clear side of her family
@rrtlife21679 ай бұрын
All the white women in my family have 🍑
@stormship16479 ай бұрын
Lol…I noticed that …The African genes were recessive in that area
@mikeyy4259 ай бұрын
-3 kids -3 babydaddys -smokes blacks -CNA -sleeps around -STD probable Have fun gentleman
@roshikay4139 ай бұрын
BM preference have at it
@luanarciajamesmair96699 ай бұрын
This girl’ is damaged
@Rosey5809 ай бұрын
A cna is a red flag?
@mikeyy4259 ай бұрын
@@Rosey580 absolutely, where u been? Lol
@Rosey5809 ай бұрын
@@mikeyy425 how is having a job as a caregiver a red flag
@dannired32019 ай бұрын
Your situation has to be pretty crazy for Kendra to actually have to take notes… smh
@MsRSW9 ай бұрын
She’s dumb but transparent and honest! If you are willing to guide her correctly I believe she’s a good candidate. She’s just been following idiots
@candorsspot27759 ай бұрын
She needs to consider lesbianism.
@MarvelousJP9 ай бұрын
Y’all turn y’all nose up anytime men mention guiding a woman but after 3 kids by 3 different men just 3 years shy of 30 you want a man to guide this woman get real
@ud5589 ай бұрын
@@candorsspot2775😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mutakamuganda40749 ай бұрын
That means she’s an idiot too 😅
@blok369 ай бұрын
She is a 🚩
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
Your past wounds shape your present choices, but healing should be your private journey until you're whole enough to share.
@ThePeacefulbutterfly9 ай бұрын
"The man that's concerned is not gonna be concerned bc I'm not concerned"......say that 10x fast lmao
@Pinballplayer659 ай бұрын
Most men are not checking for a lady with multiple kids/baby daddies. They definitely are not trying to be involved KNOWING you had an STD. A relationship should not be a priority at this time.
@braybraylove12479 ай бұрын
She did say 3 yr old !!!!!
@DebtFreeDad9 ай бұрын
😂🤣 the right way 👀🧢
@DanielleTRushin9 ай бұрын
I really pray she gets some professional counseling so she can understand why she chooses the same type of man. I understand she wants a loving man, every one deserves one. The children need a loving father as well. Praying for them. 😢
@hammertyme83929 ай бұрын
You can't save everybody.
@Lord_God__9 ай бұрын
Why does she deserve a loving man?
@krystle6279 ай бұрын
She hit the black and let it all ride 😂
@theblack97009 ай бұрын
Single mother of 3 (Weed Smoker) go back to your baby daddies 🚫
@candorsspot27759 ай бұрын
Healed and ready for a nice guy. Lol.
@dalatchkeys7629 ай бұрын
Wait..what?! You planned a baby before you were married?
@moniquecastelo9 ай бұрын
3:54 how promiscuous do you have to be to not even know who impregnated you 😮💨that was God giving you a wake up call and you slept right through it 🤣
@trentdavis7339 ай бұрын
Mother of 3 at 27 years old, and they're all from different fathers and she's choosing to break up her own home from the last father? For the brothas that are currently in the dating marketplace, this is what awaits you. Good luck and God bless
@sharyapatterson64239 ай бұрын
He cheated. He broke up the home.
@81easton9 ай бұрын
@@sharyapatterson6423lmaooo. Thats the least of this woman’s concern. Therapy is a coming sooooon
@sharyapatterson64239 ай бұрын
@@81easton I wasn't speaking about her worries. I was speaking on the question Kendra always ask should the any man be concerned about the child's father when the child is young. My perspective is she not over the guy so it is a concern. Are there other concerns sure.
@trentdavis7339 ай бұрын
@sharyapatterson6423 OK, let's completely overlook the obvious of her producing three children with three different men at the age of 27, which makes her extremely low value and pretty much damaged goods. Women don't like to address that part
@Neeem-ew4qc9 ай бұрын
@@sharyapatterson6423Then why not focus on raising your child. She has two additional kids after the breakup. Seems to me, she's co dependent on men. Some people just can't be alone. And, she's such a pretty girl to be so insecure. And, she's still looking. I don't know how women who already have two baby daddies continue looking for more men. 🤔🤮
@scroogemcduckrich97059 ай бұрын
she doesn’t need to be looking for a man she just need to be by herself for a while
@tonochiehardy94659 ай бұрын
A black mild instantly turn off
@dalatchkeys7629 ай бұрын
The dust on this one.
@tefnut939 ай бұрын
Sometime I feel bad for these ladies, having to retell the story must be hard cause they are hearing themselves and how stupid their decision making was in the past
@Haz22889 ай бұрын
I don't think she feels any embarrassment
@hammertyme83929 ай бұрын
Her bad decision making ain't over yet.
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
Truth can be a mirror or a crutch; some heal, while others prefer the comfort of victimhood.
@beauteafulnia67229 ай бұрын
4 the streets....
@jamesthompkins89359 ай бұрын
Once an individual learns to embrace self-love, every decision will revolve around prioritizing their well-being. Without genuine self-love, there is a higher likelihood of investing in individuals who ultimately aim to harm them.
@amaragrace949 ай бұрын
Amen self love and self respect which both stem from understanding who God created us to be. If you believe, then the word states that we were created in the image of God and that our bodies are a temples/dwellings for the Holy Spirit. That's how much He loves us. And that is how we should love ourselves, not in pride/arrogance but in a humble confidence. We're not supposed to just lay with any ole body, and you don't have to stay with an adulterer/cheater. That's all God's word, not mine. But with free will, we control what we accept/tolerate. 🙏
@SHES55439 ай бұрын
💔We break the cycle by addressing the invisible wounds behind the visible behavior.💔
@purplerain18489 ай бұрын
I’m rooting for her but I’m really concerned for her as well…
@thelessons37689 ай бұрын
Interesting. 👍 Would you like to share what you are rooting for and why?
@purplerain18489 ай бұрын
@@thelessons3768 want to see her win but I’m not sure about the presenting circumstances!
@thelessons37689 ай бұрын
@@purplerain1848 Men watch how she presents herself and then drops a bomb that she didn't know who the father of her child because she was sleeping with 2 men at same time a think this can't be real. Hard pass. Then they see women say "I'm rooting for her!" "I wish her the best" it's like the ladies uphold the sister code at all cost. Just observation
@lavettesmith1569 ай бұрын
@@thelessons3768 1st it's called redemption/women understanding why women are "broken". Religion/Male teachings misguided/used us. She learning from her mistakes. She stopped screwing, got an honorable job, a good mom, etc? Her past mistakes- can't overshadow her present qualities. 2nd - "guy code" is taking down women's channels/work opportunities/peace-etc., cause we are talking about males true behavior. The males- impose in women spaces all the time -everywhere and get mad when he isn't welcomed. Tech allows the males to say/do foul things about/to females. Yet "we on girl code" for showing mercy to our own? & if you missed the message: The male dna was left inside her and it messed up some things. It's science look it up.
@purplerain18489 ай бұрын
@@thelessons3768 ok
@BlackMayne9 ай бұрын
Black girl lost. Of course she takes no accountability for the role the she played in all of her disfuncional relationships. At this point she needs to focus 100% on herself and her children. Forget about the men at this point. She requires a lot of healing before anything.
@fungirl2k9 ай бұрын
💯
@blakefamily13489 ай бұрын
She’s not black.
@serious71799 ай бұрын
Mixed girl lost...I feel bad for her.
@Cholmes-lf5kd6 ай бұрын
Actually this is a mixed girl who’s lost.
@jotastic089 ай бұрын
She is too damaged. She doesn't have it on her to give the next good man her all.
@teekhudson42629 ай бұрын
Praying for sis 🙏🏾
@whitmilltransportationllc9 ай бұрын
These men never took her serious and I can see why. If she took accountability she wouldn't have had any kids with those men.
@mikeyy4259 ай бұрын
she really sat up there and said shes done everything the right way and shes accountable lol
@yournamemustbejealousy20629 ай бұрын
What did she do to signal a man not to take her seriously? She has multiple kids but perhaps a man with kids will be a good match for her.
@tpoppy93039 ай бұрын
Alot of dudes dont take women seriously. This is primarily a man problem and not a woman problem.
@mikeyy4259 ай бұрын
@@tpoppy9303 really? Any person who isnt taken serious in the workforce, does the world have a problem, or the job seeker?
@tpoppy93039 ай бұрын
@@mikeyy425 Some workplaces arent the best places to be so then you have to find another job. Some workplaces dont have good enough benefits so once again, you can either deal with it or get another job.
@hammertyme83929 ай бұрын
What a waste. This girl is beautiful and she completely ruined her life. If she had any sense at all, she'd be a wife. Whatever she's thinking she can forgetaboutit.
@Teetoy49 ай бұрын
Did this young lady just say she is the total package ??Did I just hear that?????
@Omezzy279 ай бұрын
She did say 3 year old lol
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
She did...she stressed...mind all over the place...sitting in the bathroom smoking and blew smoke straight in our face.
@Wormanatti9 ай бұрын
Wait 3 baby daddies ninja please. You lost all priviledges to be picky.
@jetskipapi61939 ай бұрын
She just wants a man that wont "Mock" her...Is that too much to ask? lol
@DaishaView9 ай бұрын
I think it would be better for her to be single for a while. She just got cheated on and given an STD 3 months ago and is still in the post partum time period. That’s a lot to handle. Hope she finds a good match though!
@Haz22889 ай бұрын
Smoking a black when the camera turns on 💀😭
@King_Nez29 ай бұрын
Such a absolute turn off dude like.....🤢🤢
@CDot3009 ай бұрын
She needs Therapy
@shawnhill9129 ай бұрын
Therapy and a Life Coach!!!
@M.ShahPeace9 ай бұрын
I swear some people don't realize that when you want change, you have to REINVENT YOURSELF 🙄, GET THERAPY AND CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
@michellegriffin65519 ай бұрын
How she say she watch all the red flags...Mrs ma'am you are the red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩