Yes, and if you move to keep yourself safe they HAVE to give the accused individual your address so "they don't violate the order". Really messed up system.

My cat is a beast when it comes to the home security game. He don’t play. Dude takes his job really seriously.

My husband works with insurance claims, once he got a claim where the people went away on vacation and their cat turned on the kitchen water- I guess there must’ve been a stopper in the sink and the entire lower level turned into a swimming pool! All thanks to a 🐱 😸 thank goodness for insurance and it’s way happier then murder!

Yep.... been there done that. i almost lost my life over that “piece of paper.”. smh

​@@jogirl836 Glad you're OK ❤

Psychopaths just look at people in their lives as objects and possessions. He didn't care, just wanted to win his own twisted game. Nasty MFer. I hope they pay him back in jail, when they find out he was trying to set up a black man for the murder. If these were a lesser bunch of cops they might have pinned the murder on someone else. Although he was the obvious prime suspect. Luckily these cops on this case seem to be really good at their jobs. Take care.

Exactly! Controlling, obsessed freak!

If he's in a primarily white area he probably knew that a "black man" would leave the case unsolved as less able to identify. Just as it was stated no one gave identity markers. It was clever of him or whoever he employed to do the harm to her. Sad

It was also stupid of him because "fake black" would stand out like a sore thumb!

This was not about the daughter. This is about control and the power.

Gobsmacked! Exactly! They believed Alyssa! Thanks for watching. Respectfully, Luis

Right???

@@AnaGNews Yes.😊

I find that both good and bad. Kind of scary too.....

There is a few cops out there with such intelligence and passion for true Justice

Thankfully you had the strength and courage to leave. 💗 I wish you all the best on your healing journey and I hope that your life is now filled with love, health, and happiness.

Good for you leasing in time. I was with a psychologically abusive men for 10 years and another abuser for 4 years. I Finally got out but it was a struggle ❤

Daniel 2:44

You are so right about the 70’s. My sister had custody of her children and her ex, who had visitation rights, kidnapped them and she didn’t see them again for nearly 20 years. The police did nothing to help her.

@@cyndit9208 the police was not created to protect the people. It was created to protect the elite. The ordinary people, do not matter to the police in United States.

It's the truth, if they really want to hurt you a piece of paper does nothing. I always see it as putting it on record that if you're murdered this is the person who did it.

@@xtina6569 a recent case, I forgot the name had a woman killed and she told EVERYONE ,family, friends n even the police/court staff that if anything happens to her they should be looking at the ex who had a history of dv. So sad that she herself knew n cud do nowt about it.

I believe that’s obvious, considering that it has never stopped the partner or ex or the person that stalks to commit murder.

How did you find yourself here then? 😅 Just kidding. Have a great weekend

Anyone that has ever needed or considered a restraining order is aware it’s just a piece of paper and a stern warning to behave.

We needed a little sunshine 🙏🏼

She was adopted by affluent parents… just some more info.

Yea but now she’s dead..right?

@@EatYourCookies_ No.. she isn't tied to these crime cases in any way..

@@LauraVierre_LV Nurture over nature

And England isn’t even the worst country for coddling murderers.

I love how y’all are fixated on a moronic peerage title and not the fact that she killed him 😂

@@Tsumami__ not fixated on her title at all. But being British & having a royal family i just believe it should be taken away for MURDERING someone. I also went on to show how shockingly little murderers get here in the UK & Europe compared to other countries such as america, Australia, china etc.

She killed him she did her time I think she should keep it...

Once killer always killer

Exactly but they're often treated like a damn car would be in a f*cking divorce.

My Yorkie told the man who was fixing my thermostat a few things. But he fixed it fine.

Dogs love my ex gf but shes a complete pos. Dogs aren’t a very good indicator.

Yes Luis is back!!!

Omg I hope your boys can get their justice from that monster, and that horrible judge too!!

@@maryamtara2934 Like I told my boys, time will take care of him.

@@spiritsbeyondthestars3493 i hope they are able to heal..🙏🏻

what year did this happen?

@@lionedheart 1986

True! They care more about the abusers rights then protecting the victim or the children involved. There are cases where the abuser gets soul custody of the children and they end up taking the child's life.

It doesn't help that most people have bought the life that politicians and government workers and officials are public servants.

Yep 💯 u think if you get away from your abusive spouse u will be free ..but if u have kids with them the exchanges are horrific and nobody cares .5 years later I still have to deal with him the mental abusive never stops. And no-one will help ...the abuse never stops and this part is always swept under the carpet no one acknowledges it. You never get away I left him 5 years ago but the abuse hasn't stopped and won't until one of us is dead.

My ex was given a no contact order due to DV and to him it was just a piece of paper and when he got let out of jail he came straight to home he didn't care 1 bit about it. When are judges going to realise that men like that are extremely dangerous and when they get let out they are infuriated with you because in their eyes its all your fault and you are at risk of being killed by them. It makes me so mad that this happens time and time again when it's so avoidable.

@@Ruth78620 I know! My mom almost died a few times due to this. The police man taught me at 6/7 how to barricade the door so he couldn’t get in. How to save my mom in multiple ways. I ended up having to testify against him in court. It was terrible. I wish that everyone would realize that if someone is in an abusive relationship a piece of paper isn’t going to help. Unless they are going to enforce that paper.

​@@jamiedemski7750 ❤

I’m glad you posted this. I usually try to post firearm info for people, but I’m just too tired rn. Lol

@@aprilwycherley No worries. It is totally a thing. I saw a video a few days ago about two officers being shot in the face with a shotgun and they both lived. If someone knew nothing about guns beyond what they see in the media, I imagine they'd be very confused by that.

As someone living in the UK where we cannot own firearms (unless under extremely strict regulations) I appreciate any information about guns, revolvers etc... I wish I could learn more about this topic!

@@BarbaraT. I am glad you want to know more! If you'd like you can ask me all you want! I do shoot pistol in American competition. But there are so many good youtube videos that explain various aspects of firearm mechanics and history.

Right? If you can kill the childs other parent...you dont really give a shit about your kid. Why on EARTH would you ever want your child to go through the pain of losing thier mother?? If u can inflict that pain on them with no conscience then you dont give two fucks about your kid. And you dont LOVE them either. If you love someone u want them to be happy...and if they arent happy with you and alls your worried about is how YOU feel - something wrong.

Only to not get custody!! Sad he deserve the death penalty

Agreed!! And if you truly love and care for your kids...youd WANT their mother in their life! Duuuuhhh!!

Not just custody, but not paying child support to her was an issue.

Yes it does..... Colorado

Excellent point Daily Grind Redefined. I think the gentlemen is confused AND frustrated with what happens and what does NOT happen in OUR justice system at times........VERY few times in my career have I seen officers immediately return the child/children to the parent who should CLEARLY have custody on that day/time (per a CLEARLY written court order). If the court order is gray/foggy as to who should have custody....Fuhgeddaboudit! I have RARELY seen a judge discipline a parent for not following/ignoring the court order. It's usually followed by a string of excuses and "next times". ZERO consistency. Yes its frustrating...and confusing! Thanks for watching! Respectfully, Luis

Australia takes 4-6 weeks for a recovery order , its disgusting

That is shocking to me, too. What good is a court order if it isn't enforced? I can't imagine the anguish that both Alyssa & her little baby wen through when he wouldn't give her back to her mother.

That is so sad and wrong. What is the point of going through so much for the court order but it's not going to be enforced? 😒

I know, really different volyme there 😅

He’s not speaking as loudly as Ana but the volumes sound the same and I have no issues hearing him.

I could hear him just fine

Ikr? I wonder if there’s any safe space left in OUR WORLD!! 😒

It's like people don't have empathy anymore.. are there more and more people born without empathy?

​@@kathrynbillinghurst188 Only if you have a private island without other people..

@@einienj3281 …how can we get one? 🤭✌️🌴

@@kathrynbillinghurst188 me too

Yes!!!! My Ex ran off with my Daughter and took her to Indiana where he was from( I live in Oklahoma) that's exactly what the Police told me to do. I literally had to drive to Indiana and get my Daughter back alone with just my Mother, and mind you he was a violent person....they should make changes to that. What good is a court order if it cannot be enforced?

@@LisaWhitehorn I could be wrong but in your case, if the violence was documented, the police would have to honor the court order. The violence has to be documented in the court order and Family Violence on the cover page.

Facts

I was thinking the same thing... he wouldn't have wanted the responsibility or the work of child rearing... the custody battle was just to punish her for not wanting to stay under his control

Or use your car as a weapon or blast your horn to get attention.

Where are the most common places that they place them?

She needs to get a gun and change her mindset to its either him or me that's gonna survive AND it's gonna be me! They thrive on seeing ur fear..

She needs a gun and training. It could save her life.

I hope you don't think I'm pushy, but I bet the ex-bf has a history. I'd do some digging. Write down every encounter, even if it's just suspected. Judges love that. Their hands are often tied without it. There are inexpensive $15-$20 indoor/cameras on Amazon and often on sale or buy used for even less on Amazon. I recently learned that if a boyfriend or ex strangles during conflicts, he will likely progress and eventually lead to death. He sounds scary and dangerous. The victims are usually kind and generous and see the best in people. I was in such denial while friends and family begged me to have him arrested. (Before social media) I eventually had to move away. Your daughter will likely not see how bad it is and may hide the abuse. Take this seriously. I wish you and your daughter the best.

There’s actual women who stalk too! I was 18yrs old and only barely met a psycho friend of a friend while being a DD for my friends that night but a week later I’m at home babysitting my 2yr old sister when I hear hard knocking on my apt door, I literally was scared seeing the very angry drunk lady at my door but the more I wouldn’t answer the harder she pounded and screamed at me! My poor Sister was terrified too! Anyway…she smashed my bay window with pounding with large wrenches until it shattered! By then I snuck out my bedroom window and got my Sister to a neighbors house and called the police. My friend came to try and calm that lady because I truly didn’t know her and was beyond pissed my friend gave her my address! The lady was locked inside my bathroom as I hear my friend screaming, “she’s going to kill herself!”! I did go back to my apartment and saw the bathroom door shut but blood was everywhere, on my couches, my walls, my kitchen counters and especially the bathroom door! Police arrived so I called to my friend Jenny out loud the police and ambulance were there but to my surprise the lady charged out of the bathroom and clearly she had split her wrists and both ankles but sooo drunk and angry she was able to charge at us then chased me across the apt complex! Omg 😱 I thank God I was able to outrun her but by time I got to the squad cars she collapsed near by. I don’t understand why she thought we were dating or going to? No idea but “if I can’t have you, no one will, you’re going to die today!” Several responders heard her as well as residents but she didn’t go to jail!? I got evicted for the damaged apt even with a police report and several neighbors who witnessed I wasn’t there when this woman started breaking everything looking for me inside. She survived her suicidal attempt and walks with the assistance of a cane but served absolutely no jail time, just a ticket, fines and asked to get psychological help from a hospital while she recovered from her wounds. It’s scary out there. Being so young, this situation did scare me into a quiet, shy shell!

It's the bro code. The police need to be re-trained on domestic abuse issues. Here in Canada, it's now mandatory for new judges to take courses relating to this problem. Unfortunately, the older judges will be left with their antiquated notions that women somehow bring abuse on themselves and boys will be boys.

Natasha You Hit A Grandslam. With Your Comment. Richard.

It’s 5:20pm in Australia 🇦🇺 🤗 We’re having Roasted Chicken, Baked Vegetables, Steamed Vegetables and Gravy for our evening meal (dinner) … or would you say ‘supper’ in Canada…? ✌️🇦🇺😊

@@richardybanez9052 Look up 👀 …Dr. Mandel…’insomnia’… he has some great suggestions for fast sleep (remedies! 😜✌️

3:58 AM in Kentucky. At work watching :)

@@foundvhs Hi Kentucky … 👋🏽 What work keeps you up this late… you’re definitely 💯 dedicated, huh?? 💖

Almost everyone knows someone that’s living in or has lived through DV. It’s our societal structure that allows the culture behind fatal IPV to persist. And the fact is too many are ignorant of the intersectional causes at the root of these IPV cases

Totally agree. Just tells us once again we dont matter. Its MADDENING!

It’s a huge problem- and sadly, family court isn’t a place( to parent a child ) but it’s what we have in the end sometimes - and guess who wins legally ??? The one with power- who has power ? The one with money - money , buys the lawyers, often the weaker lawyers can be edged out financially , one way or another- I am for fathers rights - I am for parents rights I am for damn sure for children’s rights , but what’s been going down behind the scenes for decades despite common knowledge is that money has pushed the agenda- and who has larger financial power??? Not only directly but in lending to political campaigning and interest - it’s all money in the end- this is a grey area unlike criminal law, where the constitution and letter , spirit of the law holds some integrity

I agree and Jussie Smollett should of gotten jail time for doing it too!

He is not the first it happened many many times

It's the worst when an ex convinces the people you love it's your fault and nothing you say can change their minds. My ex is a true con man. He stole all I cherish. 😭😭

​@@looking4things669god, I'm so sorry both your stories, I've been through. The violence, stalking, and last was a conartist..nearly took everything from my house and my identity....he was a monster. Watch a station Narc Con, its a great station. 💜 these ppl are monsters

​@@looking4things669press charges on him..

🎵🎶 Happy birthday Pamela. Be happy. With good health, n 💕 From a gramma in Cape Town.

Thank you Pamela 🙏🏼- how lovely that others have also wished you well 🎂

@caxyzen - thank you so much! This makes me feel so special. I appreciate your well wishes. ❤️ I hope you have a fantastic weekend!

@@brendagamba7826 - thank you so much! I appreciate the love from a Grandmother. ❤️ Have a fantastic weekend!

@@AnaGNews - thank you for all that you do! You are incredible. I adore your animal rescue efforts. My Husband and I love our fur children. You are the best, Ana!

Thank you for watching and the kind words Monique C! Respectfully, Luis

Louis is fabulous 🙏🏼

@ you’re most welcome and thank you so much for your insight! (Sorry I mis-spelled your name)😬 Will definitely be following you, and Ana is one lady who I adore. (Not in a weird way lol) She’s so brilliant at what she does (Cleary) and her laugh and opinions always make my day. Have a wonderful weekend and blessings from Australia!😁❤️💫

​@Monique C I know, I love Anna's laugh 😂

@@melistasy me too!! She truly brightens my day. 😁❤️🥰

🇬🇧 here. I love this podcast as well ❤

😂😂

Sir Luda Cris 😂😂

When you make kids remember - ITS ABOUT THE KIDS NOW. NOT YOU.

@@brendacroteau you wrong, it's about the family, looks like you have a serious problem,you need to get some help 😂😂😂😂

@@brendacroteau besides who said something about me ,I was talking about parents right, smart ass lol 😂😂😂

❤ Mental hug. How horrid

I am so sorry to hear that your husband did that to you and took your daughter away from you as well. I am sending strength, prayers, and positive vibes your way. 💞 I wish you all the best on your healing journey.

Agree

Hey 👋, how are you doing today; how's everything going hope it was a bless and fun day for you!!😊😊

Hello there👋🏽… I’m in Australia 🇦🇺 and wondering what your work is? I always love 💕 to know how people in other countries are surviving Our World today! 🌸🤗✌️

@@kathrynbillinghurst188 i work for an audit firm so much of the work i can do remotely. What do you get up to?

@@TrueDawn1 …living in the bush, unemployed! Raised two wonderful kids and I’m happily married! My health was dire for over ten years and recently I’ve discovered Dr. Mandell… his holistic healing knowledge and advice on medicinal spices are helping me far more than the expensive prescriptions I’ve been on for over 6 years! I’m healthy and happy but can only live without any future security for so long… before I’m more than just a BURDEN on Society!! Sorry for the ‘sob’ story, but it’s true and there are so many people struggling more than me! I’ve heard successful families have lost everything and living in their car, tent or hostels! It’s unbelievable!! God Bless you and yours, keep you safe and fed, have a joyful and peaceful weekend… 💞

First time I ever comment on this platform 😊

And even if she had ended up in jail for the drug charges, it would not have been enough for him. The stabbing was up close and personal. How did he escape the death penalty?

Should of lost it when they divorced Great example is Princess Diana lost her title when she divorced Charles it was us the British public who continued to call her the people's Princess

@@danchinoloves7804 they never divorced. she would have lost it if they were divorced. they were still married when she killed him even though he was dating someone else

Every single day - just now coming into awareness

It’s considered a civil legal matter unless they can prove the child is in danger or being abused.

Wow that sunshine news was fabulous that young lass all the best Adelaide south australia

Me too

Hello Mia and Gilberto… 🤗 s’meeee! I’m here too! Have a great weekend!!✌️🇦🇺💃🏻🪩🕺✨

I was thinking the same thing!!