In the mom’s pursuit of protecting her daughter from body shaming from the outside world, she became the number one source of body shaming in her daughters life. The growth in this segment was so heartwarming and educational for me to see

She’s not a bad mom she’s just needs to let them be them now .

This mom truly loves her daughters. I’m just as protective of both my adult daughters ages 28 and 22. We as mothers just can’t help loving our adult children so much ❤

my mom is like this and it’s why i moved across the country and we barely speak. she hid her own insecurities about the world under the guise of “protecting” or “looking out for” us. eventually it grew into fear mongering, emotional manipulation, and control tactics. i love my mom but i had to dip.

Sometimes even when our children become adults it's hard to stop being overprotective, especially when you have experienced the hard knocks of life.

It’s always nice to see strong women discuss and grow! No one disrespected anyone. Bring back family meetings and watch the village heal!

Their mother loves them. They didn’t need to be on a show to prove that.

She's definitely not a bad mother. She just love and want to protect her young adult daughters. Plenty of parents go through this, she just have to learn to be a mother of adult children. Her daughters need to be patient during this time. She expressed multiple times her genuine concern about her daughter's weight. There's no need to mention it again. She have to allow her daughter manage her weight and health on her own. I hope the mother start focusing on things that make her happy. She did a great job raising them.

The momma is really not that bad, she needs to let go cause they’re going to mess up regardless…all she can do is continue to be there when they come crying!

I think the mom has very good intentions but she is not expressing herself in a way that they can receive. I think what she is really expressing is her fear of her daughters facing certain situations and getting hurt or setbacks. The daughter with the weight problem can be as body positive as she wants but she is morbidly obese and she is cutting her life short. The first step to a successful weight loss is loving yourself but loving yourself enough to be at the best weight to live a long and healthy life not just accepting being huge as your fate. If her daughter gets larger or God forbid gets an illness due to her weight the first thing people are going to say is why didn't you talk to her about her weight. Also if she can not care for herself who do you think is going to be there to care for her??? Her Mom. Her mom shouldn't nag or make fun but she should be encouraging a healthy diet and exercise. With the other daughter just keep out of the relationship and just listen when she tells you something is going wrong. Let her bump her own head and figure it out. If she likes it you love it unless it is life threatening.

They are tryna set boundaries but mama not hearing it. And its not gonna end well if she keeps pushing

This is like my mom. That’s why I keep our conversations very superficial. “Wow it is so hot today.” “I went to the grocery store and then took a shower.” Stuff like that

I think mom is projecting her past experiences onto her daughters, and she wants to protect them from the hurt that she may have experienced when she was growing up.

I am not going to lie their mom looks good, and young !!!! Parents do not have to approve of your lifestyle but they do need to respect you. The mom isn’t a bad mom ❤

I wish my mom could be all in my business with advice. My mom has been gone since August 2017. I miss her like crazy. 4-1-1951

She is a super over protective mother not a bad mama. She loves her girls

They are sensitive, and the mother is kept it real with love. The mother doesn't look angry mad or have an attitude. They also need to allow the mother to speak. To see her character. Them two girls are right they need to make their own decision and feel comfortable.

This mom isn't too bad, sure there are things she could do better, as most of us could, but sometimes us parents do need to be reminded that our kids are grown up, and don't need the constant parenting, as well as the criticism, but also grown-up children don't realize that we never stop wanting the best for our kids, and will continue to be concerned with all things important in our kids life. It's just important to continue being understanding, patient, and kind to one another.❤

Everyone in my life knows Don't come to me ranting or venting because that's my invitation to kick the door down.

Mama is beautiful. She loves those girls...there just needs to be boundaries put in place, that's all. All love there.

She isn’t jealous she just need to learn boundaries

So the mom thinks people are going to fat shame and talk about her in public but for some odd reason she thinks people aren't saying the same thing about her at some point?🤔🥴

That's a Good Mother❤❤

I dont think the mom is doing anything wrong. If your mother cant respectfully tell you the truth then who can? These women need to be accountable for their own emotions and insecurities. No child wants to be told they can do better by their parents but its very necessary. You may not understand right now but you will one day.

Honestly? The daughters do look unhealthy and I agree that the mother should've told them these things. However, the mother and daughters should continue to grow into self-love and care

First of all these Beautiful women are GROWN and Very CONFIDENT and are very HAPPY with their lives. Mom please let them live there lives. They’re OK. 🙏🏽💙

I think daughters need checking too

you kids are lucky you have a mother who worry about your health and you are here complaining.i wish my mother gave me just the least attention i won't have been like this. Who wants to see her child suffer?no mother wants to see the child in pain.

The truth hurts, but its still the truth. Trust I know. I'm heavyset myself.

I don't see anything wrong when someone tells you to stay healthy,

The mother knows no boundaries……she feels like she knows everything like girl Shet up and listen to your children if they say they got it they got it step back…..:

“If I don't have the invitation I'm not going” lit. saved me from conversations of unnecessary baggage.

Your mother is always going to be your mother even if you are 80yrs old. I hope these ladies don't find out too late that their mother loves them and means well. Instead of thinking your mother is body shaming you, look at it like she is trying to prevent you from getting on my 600lbs life TV show

I dont like the heavy set girls attitude and if mom wasn't being proud or acting as a, mother bear, then Lil LuLu, would still have a problem. Parents can't get no satisfaction

She a good mama and she’s beautiful 💗

All I see is a loving mother who’s trying to protect her children. There’s nothing wrong with her wanting the best for her children especially health wise. As a mother, I would let them live their life and leave them be until they need her.

I am a mother of 5 and I clearly understand what she will always worry.But also know you have to let them go to let them grow.Our job as a parent is to be there to catch them when they fall.She loves her daughters.

13:50 Its GREAT that they believe in thier mom!!!!!!!! Good JOB AGAIN UNCLE KAROMO!!!!

"Hey Family" I love this man so much just why I can't stop binging 😂❤

The mother can't get a word in

I need Karamo to upload an hour series on here.

I can't relate. As a parentless child (both died before I turned 35), I can only see the blessing in the mother's behavior, unfortunately. They'll miss it when she's gone....

The daughter is big call a spade a spade. The mom looks great and means well.

Best family I’ve ever seen on tv😂hashing it out😂i really enjoyed this healthy shit❤

The mom ain’t to skinny her self….🤣

Guess I’m weird because I would love her as a mom. My mom would never defend me or let me speak how I feel to her. Especially on national tv she is not having it.

Great episode!!! Beautiful ladies just finding new grounds to grow.

To be honest, she's a good mum. l won't hesitate to tell my child to be healthy if she/he looks unhealthy. This is out of love and not body shaming coz i don't want to lose them if they continue going down that path,,,call a spade a spade and not a big spoon! Girls your mum loves you,,,i would rather have a mum who tells me the truth about me than a mum who says nothing!❤,,Girls don't take me wrong, i don't mean you're unhealthy,, you're all beautiful but mum is just trying to help❤

They look like they are their mother's mother. The mom is so beautiful and everything shr is doing is out of love

My parents grew up really really poor and disadvantaged and managed to get all of their 5 kids through university. They worked so so hard and gave us kids the best. The absolute best. When I tell you the best...they gave it. However, their parenting was always from a place of fear and they would discipline extra hard and give overly negative feedback, out of fear that one of us would make a mistake and get back to poverty. And I understand it, but boy was it hard being their kid. I'm relating to these girls so much. So much.

I would be worried about her weight vas well because she just wants her to live long.

I agree with the advice for mom but I felt it was necessary to tell the girls to stop dumping on their mother. You don’t have to run and tell her everything if you want to be an independent adult. They need to also respect her boundaries as she cannot handle all their dumb decisions and if they want to be free to make their decisions then she shouldn’t be a trash can either. They need therapists and friends to tell everything too and not mom carrying all their sorrows. It goes both ways…

Her daughters are great and she did a good job, she needs to trust in that she raised them right and mistakes gone happen!!

I’ll be honest, with the “pink sauce” episode, I wasn’t gonna watch you anymore. But I’m glad I gave you another chance for real. 🖤🖤🖤 We all learn and grow! Even talk show hosts! 🖤

A lot of times it’s your delivery..

The mom didn’t fat shame. She commended her daughter for losing weight and she defended her when someone was talking about her. With the other daughter, she doesn’t want her to end up alone like she did so she thought she was helping but she wasn’t. Mistakes. That’s all

She so lucky her mama ain’t Caribbean cus those insults is Mid to me 😂

I know this mother wants to cry... Good mother's catches 22 all the time from their kids. There are children who wish to have a mother that supports them and giving them advice. My mother was teaching me to the time she died, and I appreciate it. Good mother paved the way so our children so they don't have to experience bad things and health. Because she is young and she feels she likes her weight, she could have something deadly going on in her body. Kids don't understand wisdom and are put on a mother's heart to help and save our children.

How is telling a person that has a double neck to "be healthier" damaging 🤔 Sound like they're spoiled. Mama isn't that bad at all.

My mom passed when I was around their age. I wish she had been around to protect and advise me.

I see exactly what the daughters are saying. As soon as mom dont like where the conversation is going, shes in defense mode. The nerve of her for talking about health and relationship when she doesn't have control of her own😪😪 I also understand mom but she gotta chill❤

She seems to be a decent Mom, and the big one is weird for being mad at her mom for complementing her weight loss success. Girl hush things could be a lot worse.

Mom says her girls are grown, but she's still trying to raise them. She doesn't hear herself.

We As Mothers Will Always Give Advice, Good Or Bad, As Grown Women, They Need To Move On, And Still Make Their Own Decisions!

Mom is so pretty. And even if Mom is a little heavy as people have pointed out, that doesn't mean she wants her daughter to be. She knows the health ramifications and the dangers of being overweight (and it seems the daughter does not FULLY know.)and is trying to help her daughter w/ it. The daughter should practice more humility and just listen to moms weight concerns and change for her own good. That is NOthing to debate w/ mom over. It IS unhealthy. Period!!! I think she is embarrassed truly and maybe overwhelmed by it, yet continues to act unbothered. Moms weight concerns ARE justified.. It is common knowledge what obesity often leads to EVENTUALLY. There is nothing wrong w/ a bit of overprotective parenting. A loving, overprotective and overly concerned mom is better imo than one who isn't protective or concerned at all. Does there need to be a middle ground mom should adapt to? The daughters believe so. IF its that troubling than mom should TRY ( it's difficult) for their sakes. As for the other daughter who is a mom. That is another scary situation for mom I am sure. When ur daughters become sexual- that's overwhelming enough. That's one thing. However, when they become mothers BEFORE they OBVIOUSLY should be, that's just tooo much to handle in ALL aspects. You will worry. U will worry about the future choices she will make for her self as a (still) young lady, for her child and of course w/ future relationships. Mom has EVERY right to be concerned for these two with their current states of being. It's obvious mom cares and the daughters need to stop fighting her imo. They should consider themselves to be very blessed they have a present mom who cares about them/ their lives. Its becoming rare these days. She may be pushy and may not always understand that, but she is a MOM and that happens when you both love your children and fear for them, especially in todays ( crime-ridden) climate. As a mom w/ a very similar parenting style to a 36 year old daughter/ only child, I am 100% team mom here. Blessings to them all.

The mother is right about the overweight daughter needing to loose weight. In the event that her health fails because she is unhealthy, her mother will be the one that steps up & takes care of her. Hospital bills & trips are not worth it. Any good mother will tell their child to take care of their health. You only have one body & if it fails, you don't have a spare one. Mother understands this

I just learned so much from this.(I need to zip it) Thank you Karamo

Why do ladies think that it's okay to walk around with an attitude problem wouldn't it this become the norm that people have to accept you having an attitude problem😢

I absolutely love this show BUT I was disappointed that time how Karamo allowed the daughters to say everything they wanted to say but when mom came out she didn’t get that same respect. That was bias and unfair 👀👀

Let them be. When they come crying, show that tough love.

I understand mom she love them but mom let them fly love them from a distance I have 2 daughters 22 and 15 I just became a grandmother and I put my daughter out but today we have the best relationship

Keep doing you & stay positive always ❤❤❤❤

How can you be body positive when your thighs are constantly rubbing together, sweating, knees hurting and can't fit comfortably in a normal chair. Be positive all you want but it's uncomfortable being big.

The losing weight thing. I go through the same thing. Yes ofc I am watching and managing my health but not all bigger is unhealthy.

Awww Karamo seems like such ah sweet person ✨

This is a family that wants to love and understand each other. They have turned a way to over talk over another while listening to the other person. They know the love is toxic and they're on the path to positive love; and that's how villages are built and generational curses are broken ❤

At the end of the day ... She is still their mum ... They just need their independency to push ❤ thoughts

Great family for real love that they were not disrespectful to each other’s wish them all the best

Before my dad passed away he always told me be like other people you don't have to look like other people but to my mom she wants me too look like other people who are skinny not be like other people

Her daughters really think they know how the world really is especially the one that needs to take care of her health

Young ladies have very confident prospective.

Mama, where are you small at? Set an example instead of speaking out of fear. She's young so, she has probably been plus-size all of her life. Why didn't she put her in sports or dance when she was a child? Or family and individual therapy or eating disorder doctor. They're all beautiful regardless but none of them are small on that stage, so, to me the weight concerns started from the mom.

The mother is correct. The daughter in pink just doesn’t want to hear that she is morbidly obese. There’s no way she’s healthy at that weight. Her deliver might have been wrong but the message is correct. Maybe she thought she was giving her tough love and it’s STILL going in one ear and out the other. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I love you 😢Karamo keep up the good work 😊

It’s difficult for moms to stop protecting our babies. I am in the same boat. I try & not give opinions. It’s a struggle

I get the mom I love to complain and get all sad about shit talk to her about it then I go do the same shit then my mom gets overwhelmed and then I still have the nerve to wonder why she’s mad😊

Dagg, I needed to hear that cause I'm guilty of injecting my 2 cent opinion/advice in my son's stuff! It is out of love tho, but imma stop 🥴

Hey Mom I get you. Your old school and you're protective. We know you love them!! But you got to let them girls go and cut the strings loose. Let them be grown and fall down all by themselves. Let them live and learn. Put focus into yourself and do things that you like now. For your own life and your own happiness. ❤

I think it's so important to understand that what you see on the show most likely isn't what happens at home. It's one thing to be fearful etc but to criticise and demean and shame someone is a whole other thing. That's coming from a place of wanting to control and that itself comes from fears. But not my fears, yours. I have the same situation with my own family and I find that everyone seems to have to offer me advice, opinions and ideas I did not ask for and this really gets on my nerves. I have no problem accepting advice but if I didn't ask don't give it otherwise its just going to annoy me. I don't offer anybody anything until asked for. I don't tell people how to and when they should love their lives. I think especially in our culture it's deemed okay to speak to our younger people like little kids but we all know when we had to do those adult tasks we weren't little then but apparently now we're growing up we're just little and they see us as little. For me it's to control. The mother seems lovely and concerned but she does need to tone it down otherwise it'll just cause a rift. Other than that they seem to be a lovely family.

I am big boned and being overweight is not healthy. It’s a hard truth but still true.

I thought the woman in pink was momma

They really are a great family

On what planet is telling someone they need to be healthy, hurtful? People are too intuned with feelings rather that reality. News flash... People that love themselves take care of themselves. Including their health.

It's such a toxic trend to try to correct this mother's concerns about this girls weight by saying she needs to eat healthier because socially trends say be proud and happy being fat she's not health its not like the mom is calling her a fat slob. And the daughter that keeps coming to the mom after a heartbreak what respond would you expect from the mom who sees you going down the same path even a friend would have the same responds cause she wasn't invited in. Now if the mom declines an invite the daughter's would be back on the show talking about how their mom doesn't care about them and never wants to help or hear them out smh.

LET THEY ASS FALL MAMA 😢 YOU ARE WONDERFUL YOUR ARE MAGICAL YOU ARE THE ALL-POWERFUL MATRIARCH 🙌🏾🥲 YOUR GIRLS HAVE THEIR JOURNEYS LET THEM JOURNEYYYY 🙌🏾 don’t worry mama ancestors got you ❤ it’s ok to release them😌 , with your permission , if you accept it I’m Sending you Light 🥰🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾😌🦋🦋🦋💫✨

Just focus on being a supportive parent....they are grown..and nice smart young ladies...yes as moms we may not agree or understand everything our children do ..so try to understand them...do t condemn them...love them...remain a safe space for them..tell them you love them and be a good person to have in their lives.

She's a good mom.

My grandmother do that fat shaming shit all the time and when I say I'm so sick of it I'm f sick of it

There's a saying in my part of the world " What an elder See's sitting a younger person won't see standing" no mother want their children on the wrong part.

every mom does this, they just have a hard time (or don’t know) how to express themselves in a way that won’t be hurtful. they need to find a happy medium 😊