Monique and Sammy: Mixing Business and Pleasure | Family or Fiance S2 E10 | Full Episode

Monique and Sammy: Mixing Business and Pleasure | Family or Fiance S2 E10 | Full Episode | OWN

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15 күн бұрын

A power couple in the restaurant industry yearns to find more intimacy in their relationship before saying "I do." But while the bride turns to her sister for comfort, the groom fantasizes about keeping her family permanently out of their business. (Original air date: September 25, 2021)
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@rubydawnintl 14 күн бұрын

when a romantic partner wants to isolate you from your family that's a HUGE red flag

@michellewolfe7094 14 күн бұрын

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@nicklebaby 14 күн бұрын

Thank you. That therapist needs replacing

@mathmommy 14 күн бұрын

I have been there and seen others go there. Each time the partner becomes possessive, jealous, and controlling.

@beauteeful2000 13 күн бұрын

It would depend if the family is coming from a healthy place. Some families insert themselves too much into their personal business .

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

Huge. He literally wants to move her away

@taraanthony6326 14 күн бұрын

He needs therapy.

@jaylenefarrell7175 13 күн бұрын

Walk off count 3 lol

@tiBoomer 13 күн бұрын

🥴

@TeniqueSpeaks 13 күн бұрын

Found her Instagram and soooo happy she got out of this unhealthy relationship 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾and is married to another man

@mangoyacho 13 күн бұрын

@TeniqueSpeaks Thanks for the update! I will be honest, I was hoping that they would work through their issues and make the marriage work. Childhood trauma is real and he needs help and Mo seemed willing to stand by him while he learns new ways of relating to others. Anyway we wish them well.

@lorettadotvlogs 13 күн бұрын

What is the name of her instagram?

@belindasims5290 7 күн бұрын

@@mangoyachoThe problem with helping him to deal with his trauma is that it can create trauma for her. That possessiveness, those outbursts, his belief that he is entitled to all of her attention is burdensome. It's draining. It creates too much conflict and drama and gets in the way of her opportunities for personal growth. She'd be too busy trying to fix him to have peace. I'm sooo glad she made the choice to drop that heavy load

@hayaglamazonluxe 5 күн бұрын

So glad to hear she got out of it

@Blueberry_muffin42 4 күн бұрын

Oh wow! Damn I wasn’t expecting that! 😂

@ohhxsoxcynthia 14 күн бұрын

He is jealous of her having a family

@glocan 14 күн бұрын

🎯

@Makavellah001 14 күн бұрын

Right!!! She’s too pretty to be dealing with his bs

@TheIamshelock 13 күн бұрын

@@Makavellah001 Looks has nothing to do with it. It's all about self esteem.

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

It's WEIRD

@melissajohnson817 13 күн бұрын

Exactly!!

@Hotwingzlover84 14 күн бұрын

If you're not good with your Kids, I can't rock with you.That is a huge turn off

@QueenSamiyah. 10 күн бұрын

💯💯💯

@FEMME_CHRONICLES 14 күн бұрын

30 secs in - he’s not the one! She needs a family oriented man that’s not here to belittle her.

@paigejohnson71 14 күн бұрын

She got that now. She looks so happy

@brielax4441 14 күн бұрын

@@paigejohnson71she married someone else?

@deidreb9376 13 күн бұрын

He’s afraid that her family is smart enough to figure him out

@xXurbansweetnessXx 8 күн бұрын

@@paigejohnson71 she married someone else?

@cherishaugust3384 5 күн бұрын

@@brielax4441yes

@nicoleprice354 14 күн бұрын

He doesn't get it. His lack of genuine, nurturing, loving family experiences is not her story. It's his, and he needs to deal with it.

@teresamarie7460 14 күн бұрын

BUT he has two daughters. He should have learned "genuine, nurturing, loving family experience" as a father. At this point, he is using his "traumatic" childhood as an excuse to be stubborn, selfish, and self-righteous.

@sheriecemalone2155 13 күн бұрын

You are soooooo right, he needs to heal, why do people get into relationships without healing first? Now that person has to deal with it, it's sad.

@CR-yc7tt 13 күн бұрын

Agreed. You said it best. She deserves someone who aligns with her values

@nattyl2070 12 күн бұрын

Yes he needs to address his childhood issues but the fact that them two are engaged means his issues is now also her issues because it affects their relationship now and in the future.

@melissacheeks90 14 күн бұрын

he just wants her all to himself

@dirtydan5399 14 күн бұрын

It’s like he’s mad that his family wasn’t connected like the brides family. But instead of going “my childhood was bad and I need help” he makes it seem like everyone else in the wrong for not struggling/living like he did.

@hevel4383 14 күн бұрын

Such a good point.

@naturallymoi8171 13 күн бұрын

This ‼️

@TapiTTwala 14 күн бұрын

Somebody who is that quick to anger and lash out. No!

@KPetersMrs 14 күн бұрын

This lady deserves an award she so patient and nurturing. She deserves so much more because shes gonna spend her life having to nuture him and feed his needs.

@DomDom0990 14 күн бұрын

She’s a complete DOLL and she deserves the same kind of love that she gives! ❤

@_cocosunny 14 күн бұрын

He's extremely self centered and seems jealous of her relationship with her family. Just because he has a fragmented relationship with his family, he wants her to be the same. THAT'S unhealthy and dysfunctional. Seems like he needs anger management also

@mathmommy 14 күн бұрын

It’s not just about her family. It’s about everyone. He does not want her to be accessible to anyone else. Seems driven by insecurity.

@CR-yc7tt 13 күн бұрын

This! Well said! He seems as though he isn’t good with any relationships . Family friends, even his own daughters. I wonder what type of boss is he

@princessdenise8659 14 күн бұрын

Hurt people hurt people. I hope he’s doing better.

@thelonetravelr 14 күн бұрын

He doesn’t understand what he never had. I really hope he sought therapy and found healing from his childhood trauma.

@shaegowdie7893 5 күн бұрын

Yes we can’t expect him to give was he doesn’t have.

@shelterlovely 14 күн бұрын

Me and my sisters cant spend a day without talking to eachother,we lean on eachother for love and support. I rather die before any man break that bond between us. This man is sick

@lafunn6756 14 күн бұрын

I wouldn't break that family bond either

@bossladiee 12 күн бұрын

I’m the oldest of my siblings and extremely close w/my sister’s - However, I’ve learned to set healthy boundaries that work for us all.

@jaylacy9912 4 күн бұрын

Yesssss!!!! No man should be jealous as long as she respect your relationship that’s all that matters! Women have to isolating yourself from your loving family!

@Candicewallace444 14 күн бұрын

I'm so proud of Connie's reaction - she could've been so selfish and pulled the "I'm your sister, I've been here before him" card. Such a beautiful thing to see. Love these gorgeous ladies!

@Candicewallace444 14 күн бұрын

Oops never mind 😂😂😂😂

@deniset6367 11 күн бұрын

@@Candicewallace444😂😂😂

@smouzon1 14 күн бұрын

He's cringey af. 🙄

@abc123gcb 14 күн бұрын

I was annoyed for the beginning.

@YaaKesha 14 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 And is!

@kgbrown5563 14 күн бұрын

Ruuuuuuuuun. Its only a matter of time before he isolates whomever he is with

@xemcode777 13 күн бұрын

NARC IN THE HOUSE!!!!!!

@ZakiYah24 14 күн бұрын

Hes not realizing that's he's doing the samething his family did to him. They weren't there but he needed them, his children need him but he only provides for them.

@taraanthony6326 14 күн бұрын

Looking at his nails and how he bite them down, he suffering internally. I hope he gets help.

@silatikalaluka8346 14 күн бұрын

He loves her, he’s trying. Childhood trauma is hard to work through, but you’ve got to. Preferably before saying “I do”.

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

He keeps walking off...

@shaegowdie7893 5 күн бұрын

That’s probably what he knows to run or in his childhood people kept running out on him. He needs major trauma therapy

@kishapurplediva7427 13 күн бұрын

He can’t keep walking out. He need to stay and communicate.

@gailsmith836 13 күн бұрын

He comes back in to continue the conversation though.

@Americassweetheart3 14 күн бұрын

He needs therapy.. men and women like this will make your life hell because you’ll always be on edge not knowing what’s going to trigger them.

@SunShine-ti4xp 13 күн бұрын

You ain't told no lies 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@melissajohnson817 13 күн бұрын

Exactly!!

@shareeftucker3193 14 күн бұрын

That man has serious issues, how is he getting mad because his fiancé is helping out her sister?? That should make him happy that if his daughters ever needed similar help they could find support in his soon to be wife…

@RickVicktv 14 күн бұрын

He seems jealous of that shid instead of embracing it.. didn’t have that family structure coming up then… u might get it now if you ALLOW IT.

@sharainlewis8736 14 күн бұрын

I dated a guy like this and I had to walk away. It was draining because he would become jealous of me being with my family

@chimereplatt909 14 күн бұрын

This dude is a narcissist that controls her with their business relationship

@netnet6705 14 күн бұрын

He's selfish but he's open to making the correct changes.

@kgbrown5563 14 күн бұрын

No. He isnt

@teresamarie7460 14 күн бұрын

@@kgbrown5563Yes. You people are selfish.

@CR-yc7tt 13 күн бұрын

What did he say or do that made you feel like he’s open 😂😂😂 he little said verbally he wants her to himself

@JessTalkingBooks 14 күн бұрын

I don't understand the comment about the sister being the primary source. Seems like he twisted it where regular interactions are too much because he doesn't understand vulnerability. Or healthy bonds. Look how he treated

@Mzkc1 14 күн бұрын

The fact that he is jealous of her own sister is bizarre she deserves better!!!

@ladyrae870 14 күн бұрын

He’s trying to isolate her 💔 Then he will fully control her 💔 He is not emotionally equipped enough for a marriage

@gailsmith836 13 күн бұрын

I think he’s getting there though.

@SabrinaBurton-ym6xd 14 күн бұрын

His upbringing messed him up bad bad

@kenyadaposey3907 14 күн бұрын

He needs therapy

@user-qy1fn7xt2k 14 күн бұрын

The Daughter and Father hug was so Amazing!!! ❤❤❤

@MAMMASALI86 14 күн бұрын

His childhood traumatized him deeply but he's a grown man with responsibility so he needs to do lots of hard work to heal himself before putting others.. Monique is a great person with great personality and she should look for someone else who has the same value in life..

@queenclarke1 14 күн бұрын

I agree with the first part of what you said but if he ends up doing the work acknowledging what his true issues are and seriously working to try to fix them

@MAMMASALI86 13 күн бұрын

@@queenclarke1 Well, it doesn't rule out the possibility that they will build a happy family together and they both have the right to be happy in life but character is still character so it doesn't rule out the possibility that the same issue will happen again.. Wish them both the happiest ending..

@marcelynsaxton6211 14 күн бұрын

Adverse Childhood Events (ACEs) take a lot to work through. Reflection, honesty, and therapy are extremely crucial.

@JennyClevers-en9ow 14 күн бұрын

He is a narcissist with a very controlling demeanor. He will separate her from everyone & slowly drain her. He is a broken demon that needs to face his own issues

@jaydogg1913 14 күн бұрын

If a man wants to be with his woman his crazy

@FEMME_CHRONICLES 14 күн бұрын

He is, I dated and married someone like this. It was never enough. Isolated friends and family, while devaluing me. Smh

@kimberlybooker8159 14 күн бұрын

I totally agree, I started to pin the same message.

@VeVe1321 4 күн бұрын

Narcissists don't acknowledge their wrongs or try to make corrections. He has trauma...and serious attachment/abandonment issues but he's not a narcissist. Needs a lot of therapy!

@gatomonsenpai 12 күн бұрын

Nope. He needs to let her go. She is LOVED by her family and he HATES that and blames HER for HIS jealousy towards her family cuz he wasn't shown that kinda love growing up and would rather take it from her than face his problems 🙄 RUN.

@chreazuremeyelove 14 күн бұрын

He's suffocating

@Ginaaaa87 14 күн бұрын

6 yrs with this controlling weirdo 😂 she got patience. I'll be scare to have kids with him. Why she cant help her sister?

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

Right

@gailsmith836 13 күн бұрын

No. Not helping her sister, taking so much time. She admits that the one letter she had to write for her took quite a bit of time. She was writing it and rewriting it. And I know that their jobs aren’t just 40 hour jobs. So any extra time she had was away from the relationship.

@andrealogan2456 14 күн бұрын

We have to give people grace and time to heal. We all have wounds that we covered up and treated. They are going to be ok.

@anissagr523 14 күн бұрын

People can & will have as much time as they need if they stopped hopping in relationships, knowing they need to heal

@sandraisom134 14 күн бұрын

Do not judge a book by the cover. Proud of you Sammy❤

@TheMwendaa 6 күн бұрын

He is trying all his trauma considered

@Blueberry_muffin42 4 күн бұрын

That’s what I see, he made progress in just that little amount of time.

@mizz_trying_to_heal9134 12 күн бұрын

Can we talk about how respectful and understanding her son is? Great job mama hes going places

@cherelleFO1710 14 күн бұрын

This episode was great, I think he communicated his fears on the couch really well.

@CR-yc7tt 13 күн бұрын

This episode was a train wreck. They came on the wrong show! He needs therapy. He should’ve went on Iyanna fix my life.

@Dreamy_m 14 күн бұрын

He’s stuck in his ways and should try to get the help he needs.

@AlainaMoore-sc7xw 14 күн бұрын

Her family could be the family that he’s never had. Nor has his daughters had… If he doesn’t want it at least try for the kids, the girls want a family.

@ckdots5698 14 күн бұрын

He comes across mean and controlling.

@rosewanda2 13 күн бұрын

Very

@sandraisom134 14 күн бұрын

When someone says maybe they can take our brain out and put a new one, even they know they're mental

@Teenie-mg8xn 14 күн бұрын

She compromised her relationship with her sister for this hurt insecure man and his relationship with his daughter got better?? Shame on Monique.

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

Isolation

@bryanbryan5214 14 күн бұрын

I hope they don’t get married! Allow him to marry someone who’s broken without love.

@paigejohnson71 14 күн бұрын

She is with the right one now. She looks so happy

@carolynwilliams6607 14 күн бұрын

@@paigejohnson71what’s her IG? I’m nosey lol

@rolondabrown1233 14 күн бұрын

He always walking off

@maraloeboutique4533 9 күн бұрын

I really don’t respect the fact that he expects people to endure what he had to . He called his daughter weak …. What in the world . And people wonder why black women are so STRONG

@amandatiragalo9344 7 күн бұрын

RIGHTTTT RIGHHTTTT THIS

@tamikabennett6222 14 күн бұрын

They are no together anymore!!! Didn't see that coming...it was a joke

@paigejohnson71 14 күн бұрын

How do you know. Where did you see it. I wanna see. Lol

@paigejohnson71 14 күн бұрын

Ohhhh nvm. I see her instagram

@FEMME_CHRONICLES 14 күн бұрын

@@paigejohnson71what’s her instagram im happy for her, she will find better

@donaldneil2020 14 күн бұрын

@@paigejohnson71what’s her Instagram ?

@Ginaaaa87 14 күн бұрын

@@paigejohnson71 lmaoooo it's the first video for me 😂❤ I am glad she got away and he look better

@NaturalBeauty-qe7mk 9 күн бұрын

Monique"s family is exactly what Sammy family needs. I wish them well 🙏

@positivelypinky 14 күн бұрын

Oh they own milk and honey. That’s a hard spot to get into here in Atlanta also they were the 1s behind the viral Kieth Lee experience he had here in Atlanta, they messy and petty 😂😂

@mrspaceforever 14 күн бұрын

not true, Milk and Honey is her cosmetics brand 😂😂😂

@mathmommy 13 күн бұрын

@@mrspaceforevershe owns a restaurant called Milk and Honey. I researched.

@mrspaceforever 13 күн бұрын

@@mathmommy she sold it in 2020. She lives in MD and owns a restaurant there.

@desidefense1463 14 күн бұрын

He has issues always walking away

@desiree.s 9 күн бұрын

He’s so jealous of the love she gives and receives in her family. Helping your family is not abnormal hun.

@jesusknowsallaboutit409 14 күн бұрын

This show was moreso for him and his daughter and for him to see his past.....

@Dontarguewithme. 14 күн бұрын

They're both right and wrong! There does need to be boundaries and it's okay if you have a close relationship with your family. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship. Marriage is not the end goal, it's the starting line!

@LifeWithPrincess 14 күн бұрын

Whew, what an Episode 😅😫 I’m so happy Monique left him alone and married someone else much more family oriented 🤞🏾♥️ that man needs healing 🤦🏾

@amandatiragalo9344 7 күн бұрын

❤❤❤wheew chile

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

Get th away from this man! Talking bout he wants something that belongs to him..she's not a possession, she's a person! Did he not know she had family or other people she cared about and vice versa? He wants to isolate her.

@Kage100 14 күн бұрын

What a STIFLING man!

@ashleymagby2225 14 күн бұрын

I don’t she needs to do any work ,I feel like he is the one that is not ready .

@hevel4383 14 күн бұрын

He needs deep therapy.

@chellelechelle 13 күн бұрын

He's so weird ain't no way I would put up with him.

@biggdrew4088 14 күн бұрын

Please do an update show

@godsdaughter6519 12 күн бұрын

She's moved on. 😊

@DeidraAnn 14 күн бұрын

Speaking from experience if the potential spouses can't get along with the others families genuinely and the families don't get along...it is probably won't work and will cause consistent strain on the relationship.

@annette1007 14 күн бұрын

I feel like he was kinda right about the sister she does seem to want to have more access then she should to her sister now that she’s getting married

@asiyanyasiri4219 8 күн бұрын

He is too negative with the what ifs.. it's getting exhausting for the lady to keep convincing him otherwise.

@tawnyt26 13 күн бұрын

All I can say is why does she want somebody like Him... He is BROKEN....

@tyrasworld5675 13 күн бұрын

She's broken, that's why she's ok with it

@TheMwendaa 9 күн бұрын

To try fix him

@princessgalactic2763 14 күн бұрын

S/o to Sammy 🎉 I saw major growth here

@JessicaTorres-ht2zb 14 күн бұрын

He needs further counseling.

@dwelanesepelle6842 12 күн бұрын

When a partner pushes you away from your family no matter what it’s unhealthy.

@naturalbeauty0311 4 күн бұрын

Perfect example of one raised on love and the other raised on survival smh she needs to RUNNNNN

@TheRealCueenFoodie 13 күн бұрын

I’m so slow, it took me YEARS to realize the host/therapist is AA 😂😂

@latonyamiller5196 12 күн бұрын

DON’T FEEL BAD,I JUST REALIZED THAT ABOUT A MONTH AGO 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

@yemedemure414 11 күн бұрын

I can’t tell 😅😅

@TheMwendaa 9 күн бұрын

Don't be hard on yourself. Looking at her, one really cannot tell

@uthimnamahlangu 3 күн бұрын

This guy is not terrible. I relate to his story a lot. He just needs to continue doing the work he has started.

@batteleyyachtlife9957 14 күн бұрын

Nobody is perfect. At first I saw his struggles. Then I saw he was bending when he looked into himself and cried. They will be a perfect, once her family accepts that he is trying.

@tenmusicpage 2 күн бұрын

Lord I’m just confused on why this woman would want to marry this broken man 😢This is sad to watch.

@introvertedqueen9759 13 күн бұрын

Sammy, you don’t even realize how strong you are, KING!!! Let those tears flow because the end result is CLARITY AND HEALING!!!!!

@tanishabaskin4443 9 күн бұрын

I looked her up. She is married to someone else and looks REALLY happy

@Katgtyourtongue 9 күн бұрын

This was such a beautiful and mature episode. I cried practically the entire episode. I've never seen such growth in one episode. Cheers to the happy couple and I pray for their continue growth. 💟

@gab19guerin72 9 күн бұрын

She needs to run! This man is not nice, loving or willing. He gonna make her life a living hell. He needs to seek help, separate from the fiancé. Monique should sever ties- he wants to isolate her.

@bonitaapplebum215 11 күн бұрын

I am so sorry to see all of the things that he is battling with.

@g-lolita3458 14 күн бұрын

My family gotta be on this show🤣

@thejourney7850 13 күн бұрын

I think they'll be fine because even though he seems messed up...he's self aware and expressive. If he keeps that up they should be good

@nicolenichols8109 12 күн бұрын

It’s so not that she was leaning on her sister too much! He didn’t want her having any relationship with family because he didn’t have family duh. He wants to isolate her. “I want something that’s mine. I don’t want to share.” Dude that’s her sister not a lover.

@wyclifeodhiambo9433 6 күн бұрын

No one is in any position to judge but i pray that they work past all this coz the love is there and no one is perfect.

@nattyl2070 12 күн бұрын

They have my blessings because the therapist helped them to see some underlying issues they need to address and the fact that they are willing to address it means, They definitely have my blessings!!!

@sarrahanthony3988 11 күн бұрын

I feel bad for his other daughter, he obviously isolates her, “you have issues… you’re the problem” who talks to their kid like that. She’s hurting so bad

@deeshe931 14 күн бұрын

This is the best that I’ve ever watched.

@desiree.s 9 күн бұрын

Lexi is a firecracker. I wouldn’t want that behavior in my family.

@mar-ei7pz 13 күн бұрын

He is a freaking child!! If he don't care about his family that's on him..but leave her out of your family mess.

@kaykaye8967 14 күн бұрын

Alcohol and drama and past drama don’t match they lucky they all didn’t get arrested

@kitchentalkwithtina2062 11 күн бұрын

Mighty funny how now her sister and her relationship is strained but he's good with his folks! Guess he's happy that he has separated her from her family!