i was drawn to pile #1 and i must say that i actually expected it and also this person is now married to his girlfriend from the air force and i am glad that he has moved on and even i have moved on from him, though i have been single for a very long time, and i am still single..... and also it's been 19 years since we last saw each other..... and that was just after our last final exam in our 9th grade and i had told him just before our final exam started that i would be leaving school and moving to a different school and i told him not to wait for me like he used to because my parents were going to pick me directly from school rather than from his home where i used to normally wait for my mum while he used to go out immediately to play with his friends while i completed my notes at his home while waiting for my mum since he was also my family friend and classmate for three years in that school...... and he was like "okay" ...... but then in our 10th grade, both our mothers broke their friendship over a personal thing and i just wanted to talk to him and tell him the truth in 2005 since i always thought of him as a friend, but well, he told his cousin that he didn't want to even hear or see me even though i just wanted to tell him the truth because it had something to do with my mum talking to his dad when she met him at the bank since my mum worked in the same bank but in a different department than his mum and she had been concerned about his mum so my mum had asked his dad about how my mum's friend was doing and this apparently created his mum to get angry at my mum and say some not so very nice things to my mum and i just wanted to tell my ex family friend and classmate the whole thing but he just told his cousin that he didn't want to talk to me or see me...... so i forgot about it till 2007 when i got to know that this family friend had joined the air force from my mum, and i honestly was very happy for him....... and that same time i got to meet one of our old batch mates in school and i just was not interested in this other batch mate but since he gave me information on how to tell my family friend about the truth because i felt like i wanted to patch things up since i felt guilty for knowing the truth and not sharing it with him..... so i tried one last time in 2013, and this time i really begged him to just reply to me so i knew that he got the explanation and my apology, since neither my mum nor his mum were willing to apologize to the other...... and i know i messaged him many times but since i didn't get a reply from him, i didn't know if he even got the message, and that guilt was just eating me from within..... so, i really had to try one last time even if it made me look like a jurk, i just had to get the truth out and let him know.......and well i didn't just beg him to reply to me this time, i actually promised him that i would never message him nor show him my face ever again if he could just reply to the message just so i knew that he got my message and i also explained why i just had to let him know the truth..... and i thought that i was just trying to be a good friend by doing all that, but he was like "It's forgiven, BUT NOT forgotten" and his reply to the other message was "i have found myself a NEW girlfriend; and i am very happy with her; and i am happy with my new friends and family; btw, i never liked you in school nor did i ever like you... So, i advise you to GET OUT OF YOUR FOOL'S PARADISE" and this second pare of his message really hurt me and i just felt hurt and very misunderstood and yes i just cried even if it was just for five minutes...... and after that i was like "Well, i said what i had to say.... now i can just move on and keep my word to him" and i never messaged him until December 2015 when i saw his facebook profile changed and i actually was immediately drawn to the woman beside him and i immediately felt like my ex family friend was telling me the truth because i really could see how happy they were together, but to be honest i didn't know that that was his wedding pic that he had put up as his profile pic....... and in April 2016, when my elder brother was getting married, my mum actually invites his mum and dad and they attended my brother's wedding and though i didn't see my ex family friend and classmate for three years in school with his mum and dad, i still felt that he was there..... but this time i really didn't want anything to do with him...... but i always seemed to be bumping into a total stranger who just kept reminding me of him, though i never saw the person's face, i still kept avoiding that stranger..... and the next day i asked my mum if he attended my brother's wedding with his parents and my mum was like "I saw what you saw" and i was so puzzled because my mum has never said anything like this before and i told her that i just wanted to know because even though i didn't see my family friend with his parents, i still felt that he was there and was watching me and my every move..... and my mum just smirked at me and said "Why do you expect him to come? you don't even know him and also you are nothing special to him..... so why would he come? plus he doesn't know your brother.... and also he is married to someone from the air force..... so he is living with his wife and not his parents"..... and the minute i heard that my family friend was married, i immediately said "oh! so he has married his girlfriend from the air force.... that is really nice... i really am very happy for him....please Congratulate him and his mum on my behalf when you see her at the bank" and my mum just looked at me with a shocked look and asked me "Wait! how did you know that he had a girlfriend? and why are you happy for him"..... i just told my mum that he told me that when i contacted him in 2013..... and i walked away from my mum with a happy and peaceful smile since i felt i told everything i had to tell him and i actually believed my mum about him not attending my brother's wedding...... but in August 2020, my mum informs me that she actually attended his wedding in 2015 since his mum had invited her and i really didn't know this..... so i was angry that she didn't tell me the whole truth.....but well, i now know that i actually accomplished what i wanted and that was to patch things up between both our mothers even if my own friendship with him broke... so yes, there is no way things will be the same between me and this family friend ever again because i will just keep walking away from him the minute i sense that he is around...... it's just something i can't understand, either, .....

Pile 2 WOW felt like a personal reading as always ♥️, you have a gift with tarot readings 😊.

Pile 2: His family made too much pressure on him (arranged marriage).

True true! And by far one of the mosy honest one 😄

No lies told here.

Correct..!

#truth

Then why are you watching this? Lol

​@@paulagonzalez5286you wont understand cuz u haven't been through it

I feel u man

same ! So happy since I decided to let it go.

Same here... after 5 years now, Still feeling the connection heavily...

He ghosted me basically for our almost 1 yr connection 🤧🤧🤧

IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT I THINK ITS A COINCIDENCE COLD DAY IN HELL NAW THAT YOU HAD THE SAME NICKNAME AS MY EX AND YOU CALL YOURS THE ẞAME

Pixie, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us, especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to explain more to you about my situation with my man. It's a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planning for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the KZfaq channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on a daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Alabama that there is an astrologer that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great woman she told me that if I need her help to I should hit her up on her contact address and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Ella astrology. She was the one that helped to bring my man back. If you are still interested in her service You can hit her up on ellaloveguidance@gm a I l

@@buddy4972 Why do I need to block him? He's done me no wrong at all.

@@buddy4972 That's OK no harm done. My ex and don't talk at all so I didn't get offended.

@@buddy4972 lol I asked him to get on fb a few years ago and he did which was sweet. I won't add him or talk to him cause of his gf so you know how it is.

@@haniibaaz1088 thank you for your story. 😘❤Yes, mine also keeps in contact but totally COLD unless we meet. Then everything is great until I'm gone and he can detach again. Narcissist 👀 I don't have the strength like you to block him. Love bombing Was the happiest time of my life and I cling to it. 🙊 I know we should forget them

I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us, especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to explain more to you about my situation with my man. It's a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planning for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the KZfaq channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on a daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Alabama that there is an astrologer that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great woman she told me that if I need her help to I should hit her up on her contact address and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Ella astrology. She was the one that helped to bring my man back. If you are still interested in her service You can hit her up on ellaloveguidance@gm a I l

honestly same, i’ve moved on but he was a great friend…i still msg him time to time it’s just surface level