I personally really appreciate your honesty that you don't have a solution right now to feeling directionless but are figuring it out, I think it's really important and true to share the pieces you're figuring out because social media often convinces us that everyone else has it figured out and we are the anomaly

So happy to see you back on KZfaq Xanthe! You’re one of my favourites xx I love all your content from sharing moments from your events, every day life, what you’ve been cooking up at home, your wellness routines etc. Whatever you do just know there’s so many people who support whatever it is you do, as they just love you as a person! 🫶

I love that you are doing a bakery internship! You could 100% still earn from social media as a 'side hustle' without having the pressure of it being your entire income

A step backwards after making a wrong turn is a step in the right direction (Kurt Vonnegut)

So lovely to see you on KZfaq again! Your transparency is so refreshing to see, especially in the social media world. You truly are one of my fav creators. In terms of having ones shit together, I’m 32 and still feel like I’m figuring out what life looks like for me some days. 🤪 The ebbs and flows can be so difficult to tread through. But, your bakery internship sounds like such a fun opportunity! Sending love xx

Really refreshing to hear you speak honestly! I'm feeling the same way at the moment so thank you for sharing. It is so easy to compare and think you're living your best life and that I am not, but everyone has something going on behind the scenes, so thank you for the reminder. LOVED your Christmas supper club and you are such a lovely, genuine person! xx

I love your channel, and I love this video. Also in my 20s and worry about not knowing the direction that my life will take but similarly taking pleasure in cooking, being outside, health and wellness and spending time with my family and being grateful for what I have. Definitely relate to everything that you share. Thank you for this video xx

I feel you Xanthe!!!!

Being truthful is the best thing. We are all human and have struggles. Keep the videos coming I really enjoy them.

thank you for being so honest and vulnerable! i think you're feelings are totally valid and i hope you can find a way that works for you because that's the most important thing :)

hey Xanthe, it is so so great of you to be transparent and honest, even when people claim they are being honest, you can sense there is more to it but with you I felt like listening to a very good friend and I wanted to give you a big hug! such is life, isn't it, just trying to figure it out! a lot of people, me included, are having second thoughts on career paths, on their relationship, about were they wanna be.. some have it easier and some have to put more effort and energy in! thank you for your recommendations of the supplements you take, I looked up some of them for myself, since anxiety is also a topic for me since 2 years :(

Xanthe's back! A few things i think. You *might* be too sensitive to be an influencer. I do think that's a job for a certain type of person. But also dont underestimate your audience. We know that you have to make money. And im sure you arent judgemental about other (quality) influencer accounts. So, that's back to the self-compassion issue people mention a lot these days. As for getting your life together. I dont think that's a thing. If you got your life together aged 29 it would be time for the pipe and slippers! Short term if you go back to influencing do less and charge more? 🤷