Sublime Grace That jerk it's the love of her life, and at last, it worked for her.

I Agree, i loved that scene, and i miss Aiden

That would have required her to have self esteem...

not marry! get screwed up!!!

Carrie was never supposed to be with Big in the book. The writers decided that the audience wanted to see them together and changed the ending.

And the delivery was so good!

Hahahahaa i thought no one was schocked by it too. His sexist narcissism is just too agresive, too hurtful and too obvious as well. Sadly, stories have an impact, a very strong one… And in those days, toxic and horrible relationships were normal to watch, forgiving infidelities, justifying unacceptable behavior, being the therapist of a messed up man who didn’t want to deal with his emotions because he is very manly and too cool for school, until he meets that girl that makes him laugh again, that understands him, support his dreams, making him feel safe… and then he did a fucked up thing and she pushed her away and at the end he goes to the airport to prevent her from going on to the next chapter by saying that he got scared, that too much love was a very strange feeling to grasp and that he LOVES her. And just because a person was able to identify and name their feelings; everything was forgiven and celebrated. I work in that area and i see a lot of Millenials struggling because everything changed but they are programmed to be repeating the same patterns, to boicot their own happiness, that they cannot find a true connection because the other millenials are married, centennials are not very demonstrative and the other single millennials are just as fucked up.

Romulus The Maine Coon Yes! And he was in a relationship with Carrie at the time! As opposed to when Carrie was leaving, she wasn’t in a relationship with Big and had no obligation to tell him anything.

Agreed

@jasonROXcarlySUX Will Better late than never!!

He came back from Paris with a fuckin fiance

that why she didn't tell him until he showed up, she tried not to tell him but he kept asking to see her

Unless they never loved you.

She wasn’t happy with Alexander.

@@kathconserv Him hitting her was SO out of character and they made it so they could engineer this fake reconcilation.

She shouldnt have gotten in the car with him

Agreed. He is a toxic toxic man. Extremely selfish

True, without even saying that he can drive around here...

Exactly

You're a glass half empty kinda gal

I do not think that he is any more nervous than he would be in any other altercation, which is precisely the point. He takes her for granted, with standard "treat her mean, to keep her keen" strategy.

That's when you realise that an actor is a good actor. I felt it very real

*can't

IT wasn't.. sad part they got married... and he actually stood her up the day if the wedding..

Felt the same way but she kept going back to him.

Well, she is crazy about the guy...so maybe it ended the way it should.

lisa bradford 11 years 😨

That is so sad. I'm sorry. Even though you put your foot down it must have been hard for you when he died. Again I'm sorry.

lisa bradford I am so sorry for your loss , I am glad you left him but I am sure it was not easy hearing about him passing away. I did the same after 12 years, it took place a year ago, he never wanted to have any type of commitments and I kept compromising and bending and reforming myself to meet his growing demands hoping that this would change his mind until I felt That If I bend any more I would break, we had a fight and he said that he is ( suffocated) and that he needs to move on, I was sobbing when he said that but I felt a huge burden being lifted of my chest and I said: well know that I have loved you to no end and I gave you my all and I have nothing left to give, to which he replied: I have to hang up I need to work. I hang up and ran to my mom and hugged her crying and laid in her lab until I was calm but that was it, I never called and I never texted him again ( which was some thing I used to always do whenever he broke up with me before), it was very painful but it is as if you have a gangrene in your leg, sure your leg is very important but if it stays attached to your body any longer it would kill you, and this is how I felt breaking up with him, I felt I am giving up a limb. He tried to reach out 6 month after we broke up but I ignored his messages and then he disappeared from my life, I am still recovering and I am still learning to rebuild a life that was constructed around him but I am very proud of myself. It takes a lot of courage to make the decision to walk a way from someone you really love

Good and dead

Just another esoteric confirmation that Y0U made right decision. 👏

It would have been such a powerful end! I know it’s a very unpopular opinion but I was very happy when Big died… Finally she will stop being humiliated again and again by this man.

I know its sad lol.

Some women are like that too, such as female friends of guys who suddenly want to know him when he’s happy in a relationship 🙄

Glad you left that jerk alone

You did the right thing girl. If he s worth it you know it all along. He is Amazing since day one.

Me, too @meghan3835, was with my guy like Big for 16 years ... broke it off 7 years ago, and he still contacts me randomly to invite me back to a life with him. He is the EXACT SAME and doesn't realize how different I am ... happy and at peace. Even if I wasn't, I couldn't go back to him because I could never be with him again and look at myself in the mirror. Somewhere along the line, it was like a light switch and I couldn't take anymore. Best decision ever.

@@natalielodean5948 cheers to you sis ❤️. Sending you love. I'm proud of you

He will never change. He's only telling you that because he doesn't have you. If he ever gets you again, he will mistreat you again.

+The Glamour BOX I agree, even here in México I know some women (including me) that have a Big.

+Jessica González I still have one lol

+The Glamour BOX If you still have one...please leave him. I had one for very long time... Most people that have "Big" will never end up like Carrie. Yes he is super rich and charming, always come to you when you are in relationship with someone but he actually never love a "Carrie" woman. He needed her... but never love her. You deserve someone better- It takes a huge courage to say, enough is enough - it takes years for me to let him go and i had suffer a lot. Things you need to do is, be an independent woman, when you finally don't put your happiness under someone's shadow then it's time to share your life with the one that will find you somehow. I don't know how old are you... but trust me, in real life... my life is very close to Carrie journey - i'm also a writer for almost a decade. I know how it feels.. - Be independent, make your self happy... do trip with your own money, order the best cocktail in the world, buy a cheap hat somewhere out of your continent -- just stay happy :).

+Siti Faizah I'm actually in a relationship with a guy that's a little younger than me and that loves me and that I love. Yes I still have a BIG.... But I don't want him & I let him know that every chance he goes out of his way to contact me. This is a tv show & I live in reality. Your comment is accurate... I definitely know better now after 4 years of his BS.

+Siti Faizah I am a celebrity hairstylist and makeup artist. I have my own brand. I was raised to be independent and have always been. So before you give advice please ask. In fact don't take the web too seriously... I live in NYC .... All women here are for the most part is independent. We don't have a choice

Lmao yes!

I would do THAT T00😆

Great idea...might do that 😂😂

Yesss!!! Pick somewhere super exclusive where even tap water is $10 a glass or whatever so that it’s even more of a snub 😂

@@ChanelCoco-pk7mp oh, yes! a place where lots of high class people could see Big getting stood up, constantly looking at his watch

No, she didn't look happy at all. Carrie was obviously shocked to see him. She never smiled the whole time before she got in the car and then she was polite (with a fake half-smile) but aloof in the car. then she gets annoyed when he becomes nosy because she is only giving minimal information as he tries to pull her back into their relationship. Since Carrie is over him (finally!) she gets the hell out of the car because she knows his game inside and out and just wants to get on with her life. She's annoyed when he gets out of the car and makes a firmer attempt to suck her back in followed by a joke about the Russian showing again how he can go from supposedly loving to flaky in an instant (like he did endlessly in their previous relationship). then when he says "when were you going to tell me?" about her moving to Paris - displaying epic / gigantic hypocrisy - she REALLY goes off on him. this is Carrie finally looking out for her own best interests.

@@deirdrekiely6187And then she calls Miranda from Paris and tells her she’s been wishing she’d gone there with Big instead.

She didn’t look happy. This is the look of shock and anguish. She knows how much she loves him and she knows how much he never wanted her as more of a casual thing. She’s afraid to fall in his charm and get hurt again. That’s why she gets sooo mad. She’s fighting herself. Unfortunately she lost. That’s sad because that’s what happened. She believed him only to end up hurt, humiliated and alone at the altar because after 10 years, the man still needed reassurance and encouragement to marry her 😢 Not to mention he did NOTHING to get her back after that ( no flowers, no coming to her door, no letter of explanation or asking to meet her , nothing). And yet, she forgave him…again. If we look at the facts ( not the 5 mn of happiness in the movies) it’s a pretty scary story,

Emmy worthy and no.

Me too!

It should have been Aidan, although she didn't deserve him either

It wasn't logic it was love 🤦

She shouldve ended up single, with no man. And love without logic is dangerous. That's the entire point of Romeo and Juliet dude

Big didn’t look hurt at all he was just stunned that he couldn’t immediately walk all over her again like he always did from before

@jrmetmoi Do u know smyth8ng about heart disease or a h eart attack ?

@@deborahklinlger8565 that was before this scene

If he really loved her, he would never had jilted her at their wedding. What kind of 50 y.o. Man does that? After knowing her for 10 years!! He still needed reassurance. He still wanted everything done HIS way ( no page 6, no big wedding, no compromise). If he really loved her, he would let her have the biggest most ridiculous wedding just to make her happy because made her suffer horribly for years. That’s the least he could do 😢

What a series you watched, for God's sake. How stupid is your comment. The Russian may have been a bad choice, but Big screwed Carrie over again by standing her up at the altar. You are definitely one of those people who doesn't learn lessons.

And Samantha and smith!!! Big would NEVER have shaved his hair for Carrie 😮

@@cannellecinnamon5504 omg true. He loved himself too much for that.

Exactly. That's how the script was originally written, but those damn producers messed with the story just so they could shoot those two crappy movies.

I don't usually respond to comments, plz don't hate on me lol. But even though Carrie did put him in his place and make him realise just what he would be losing, that didn't change him because he still ended up playing with her heart on the wedding day. It feels like even after this confrontation, their relationship remained the same where he has to get what he wants exactly how he wants it and he has no regard for Carrie's feelings or for how he mistreats her.

This!!

Those powerful move can only change a man for a moment. When those kind of man realize they have you back they become who they really are: a man who didn’t truly love Carrie nor did he ever wanted to marry her ( hence why he jilted her at the altar Ayer knowing her for 10 years!). And I agree with the other poster, he probably have cheated on her during the Marriage because he never expressed shame when cheating on his 2 ex wife’s. But I agree with you that if she had been that assertive with him since the beginning, he would have respected her more.

Jajajaja que odioso eres

the actual mr big has a brothel with little girls in the philippines ☠️

Big is a jerk bcos he kept going after her when it suited him knowing her vulnerability. She shd hv just said.. Get lost!

I think he was very into her but he she was too needy for him and she wasn't classy enough, and he for sure wanted a classy lady like Natasha and wasnt happy that he liked Carrie so much. I think everytime they were apart he realized he missed her. Carrie should've given up on him long ago still, though she could've just worked on her extreme neediness which isn't an attractive quality in general. Just look at how easily she fell for Petrovskis cheesy behaviours and uprooted her entire life to be with him in Paris... Needy.

@@josefinebliss2801 you are so right! And I would add that she acts desperate and needy only when the guy is rich and powerful. She wasn’t needy at all with Aiden, Berger and all of the other men. She wanted so much to be part of that world ( big’s) she would loose herself trying to fit in.

Hmmm it’s not obvious at all that he loves her. Very attracted to her, yes. But never to be confused with love. He showed times and again that she wasn’t precious to him. I know it’s a movie and they made their come back a fairytale but if a man treats you that way in real life, he won’t change. After all, he jilted her at the altar 😢 Because he still wasn’t sure ( after 10 years knowing her) And he still couldn’t compromise and give her the big wedding that she wanted. Just one day in his life, let her have the ridiculous wedding ( small price to pay if she’s the love of his life).

Bro did you watch the whole season? Big was a jerk to her throughout. He had it coming honestly.

There was nothing to listen here. His actions for the past 6 years spoke for themselves: he didn’t value Carrie. No amount of “I love you “ would change that. She should have not even sit in his car.

Never say never, it hits you when you least expect it😊

Vos y yo, nada! No somos nada.. (jaja dialecto argentino)

Tóxic relationship...

Siii

Lol