I became a muslimah because I listen to you on KZfaq and I convert and am a proud muslimah. May Allah bless you and thank you.

Respect from a HINDU.. this guy is really nice.👍👍

And many divorce because of the interfering of the in- laws!

May Allah give everyone happy marriages

I am going through a really hard time in my marriage right now, your speech had really hit me 😞 please keep me in your duaa’s 🙏🏽

I can’t hold my tears while watching this,, I hope all men can think just the way Mufti Menk think..

This is Frank Dawa. Everyone should pray for our Mufti Menk. Allah bless you Sheikh for enlightening our lives

MASHALLAH! Great advice as always. You are the only person that is not blaming the women outright... the women NEVER wants to divorce and re-marry it is usually becos of the men's behaviour that divorce happens... but obviously both are responsible for the breakdown of the marriage. May Allah protect us all. Ameen

I'm divorcing after years of trying. And yes, this dark life you talking about is the narcissistic personality disorder.

Sent this to my father and told him I’m doing it because I love him and he shouldn’t hold onto a broken marriage any longer out of fear for the future, told him he doesn’t know what Barakah awaits him after he lets my mom go. They haven’t worked on it for like 15 years now. Just sitting there. Sleeping together and hating one another and avoiding a solution. I just want both of them to have peace and to unlock more blessings from Allahs pleasure.

Narcissistic people don’t watch your video brother. They don’t have awareness. Nor they want to see. They worship their ego not Allah

Marriage is becoming soooooo difficult nowadays!! 😢😢😢 Its so difficult to trust anyone ..nobody is loyal and honest. .how will any relationship work? Good people prefer stayin single bcoz they r tired of givin their everything to get nothing in return! BETTER STAY SINGLE N PEACEFUL

I am so touched with ur talk it made me cry . u made me stronger today may Allah give u good health nd beneficial wealth

Marriage issues are very sad and sensitive. Thank you for touching this area. Masha ALLAH. May Almighty ALLAH bless you more always and forever

what this brother is saying is so very true i am not Muslim, but have a lot of respect for him. i went to one of his teachings in south Africa plus we from the same country brother from home.May Allah bless you and may you continue doing his work insha-allah

My ex is an ABUSIVE man 😭 I'm leaving him forever, I pray n hope that ALLAH send me a BETTER MAN in the future AAMIIN YAA ROBBAL'ALAMIIN 😇

Almighty Allah please rewards this wonderful man.

I'm also in this situation. Pls make dua. May allah make everything easy for all of us

Yes anyone who makes difficulty for someone , man or woman, Allah will create difficulty for you. May Allah guide us all

Jazakallah haira. Very good message. When I saw this title I was feeling very sad because I'm alone. But now after listening Alhamdulilah I'm happy Allah gave me a good divorce without drama or bad things mentioned here. Alhamdulilah for giving my X and myself understanding to deal peacefully with each other and bring up our kids.

Moments ago I was watching you on Instagram with the same message.... Masha Allah...And here I am the first one to watch this on KZfaq.

Sheikh Menk, really today you save me from my emotional pain... from the daily quote I read today to this video of enlightenment. I feel helpless. truth Allah will be the one to ask them to pay of what they did whether we like it or not because Allah is just. Alhamdullillah.

I am in this situation, please pray for me

"Give it like a good boy..." 🤣

My husband does not like me in anyway...we are just putting up with each other for kids

If someone love God, n love himself/herself then he or she will love others. When u hv Imaan then is better than diamonds in th univers. Allah gives us imaan + Ikhlas. Ameen yaa Rabbill Allamiin 🤲🏼

Unfortunately wealth tends to make people with weak minds and character narcissistic if they weren’t already

We don't marry to divorce but sometimes when marriage becomes sooo hard then we don't have otherwise. SubhanaAllah. Allah hv Marcy on us. Ameen!

Am a Filipino married to a Jordanian. I’ve been trying to view videos like this as I needed clearly and advice. I’m non-muslim but I struggle to find way to file for my divorce. I badly needed guidance. Pls include me in your prayers and may this videos of yours guide everyone who is in deep pain like I do.

As a Muslima.of.15 years happily married to an Egyptian who InshaAllah is about to become wealthy from.a.new business it is great advice for us . People have played games as you.mentioned.on agreed prices but my husband has shown his patience and his morals and I am.So.proud of.his generous nature and his faith in Allah through the hard times

May Allah guide us all to the right path in Shaa Allah ya rabb 🤲

Thank you Mufti! Frankly, with the raise in family problems and divorce, many people, specially women, prefer to remain single instead of falling into pain and suffer later on in life with unfaithful spouse.

Assalamualaikum Yes it is true I too was oppressed by my husband and he paid the price for it we must have patience and Allah will do the justce

I love this man, may Allah bless him and his family! Ameen!

Ur timing is always absolutely perfect

JazakAllah khair. I really needed this Subhan Allah you never fail conveying a beautiful message. May Allah swt reward you abundantly

Masha Allah Very nice speech . Everything you said is absolutely true .I know of some people who did those things .Hope others learn a lot from your speech and correct them selves inshallah .May Allah protect us .

Sheikh honestly speaking, you reminded me ,when you make someone suffer ,you will pay a price in tenfold. I advice all to be careful for nothing is beyond the sight of our maker.

Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌻🌻Bismillah 1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah 3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

😭😭😭😭😭 i just cried to what you have discussed here.. i can totally relate to all the things you said💔💔💔💔💔

May Allah protect you mufti menki this was good advice to us thank you.

This is sooo true n bcz of this.. m just sooo afraid to get married 😰😰😰😰 May Allah ( subhaan wa ta’ala) bless all of us with good spouse 💞💚💞

Thank you for these short videos... we are learning a lot. May Allah bless you

JazakAllah for this video! I've learnt alot! May Allah swt give us all hidayat in sha Allah. Ameen

Allhumduillah for this message and yes Allah wanted me to listen this as you said sir. May Allah give us Sabr and khair InshaAllah

AsSalaamuAlaikum, I became muslim almost 30 years ago. My husband was born muslim but when he came to America he stopped practicing ….every thing you said in the video happened to me! I tried and tried, In order to save our marriage I agreed to move to his country of birth while he stayed in America…3 years of being separated…our children and I loved living in the Middle East..And saw that I was strong enough to live with my children in another country , as if we were divorced, I decided to go ahead and divorce him…Remember everything Sheik Mufti said , happened to me…after we divorced he was worse to me in hidden ways than when we were married…even keeping our children from me and I became the targeted parent…he used parental alienation as his favorite tool to punish me…my children are now grown and have very little to do with me…But I will say he is a good father to our children when it come to providing for them, but continues to punish me…I wont say everything he did, its not my place, even his own family is very angry with him with all of this…15 years of marriage, he committed everything Mufti said but made me the bad person….its okay, alhumdulilah I learned so much about myself and the better my relationship is with Allah. Allah knows my pain, my truth, my heart, everything. Thank you for this video, its hard to keep my tongue tied, I want to scream to the world I AM NOT THE BAD PERSON HERE!!! But this is my test! I try to handle it with grace, love and forgiveness…I keep the doors of communication open for my children…even if they wont walk through it, they may never accept me..JazakAllahKkeir Sheik Mufti…Someone finally knows my pain!

As a child from an ugly divorce please Dont do this children are not weapons... I carried this thru my life. I definitely don't wish it on anyone. Healing can begin anywhere. Thank you for doing this and your time and energy....

You completely answered my prayers and described what I am going through now!!!! Thank u

Awesome speech u have guided my life to live with my spouse. May Allah fill ur family with happiness both in this world and akhirah.

My husband made me so alone that ii have no relation with my own family. It’s unbearable to be that alone. May I divorce him on that basis?

This is what I am suffering at the moment, suban Allah every word you have said is so true.

Ohh marriage sometimes I get scared may Allah protect us Amiin.

A much needed address.. May Allah reward you immensely ameen. I pray we become better to please Allah ameen.

Masha allah. Sir whenever I listen to you I become speechless.

Assalamu Aleikum my respected brother, May Allah Bless you and your family. Jazaki Allahu Khair

its so important to learn deen just as u learn about the worldly things

i stay in the marriage because i dont see any good men. just lots of single sisters. i live like a flatmate with my husband.

Jazak Allah Khair mufti for this very beneficial talk. May Allah continue to bless you.

Ya Sheik you feel me in good form 💪💪. Mashaa Allah may Allah bless all of Us inshaa Allah ☝☝

Mashallah such noor and knowledge!!

How nice to make such a great post - I’m really thankful you gave the perspective of the rights of a wife / woman. Please bare in mind there are many men who do whatever they can to respect their in laws and wife - but even doing whatever he can - she still asks for a divorce and many Imaams openly grant it to her even allowing her to own half the family assets. We should not share the injustices faced by women or men in divorce - but a reminder on the right way of doing it for both men and women.

Thank you so much for enlightening us, this was very much needed.

Alihamudulilla, ever since I came across this channel, Iam changed religiously and mentally !!!May ALLAH grant you jannah

Jazakallah khair for this video. This is not an easy issue for many women out there living under such circumstances. Thanks for your wise words and the words to make it clear how to deal with such a situation from an Islamic point of view. This video and topic needs to be spread and coveyed in order to reach women in such a situation. May Allah rewards you for your effort and conveying the true islamic principles. BarakAllah Feekum.

Subhanallah.. im in the stage of my life that im suffering in my marriage.. thanks that I listen to u

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu. Shukran of these vedeo. Alhamdulillah Tabarakaa'Allah lot of blessings. May Allah swt bless you sheikh Ismael menk and your family.

Love this video. Jazakhallahu khair sheikh.. may Allah bless you and protect you always. Ameenn. Keep it up.

Ya Allah may you guide and bless all of us, Ameen. xxx May Allah grant all of us a loving, equally righteous spouse Ameen.

You are such a wise person ..... Thank you for your excellent preach. ....

Following from France Mufti Menk. God bless you

Mashallah brother mufti. May Allah rest my dad Solé in peace. Him being mean in his life time mention all the things you just mention in this video. I love to listen to all your lectures. Your voice and Khartoum is so touching and moving and a lot of time I reflect on my dad and grandpa sayings. Subhanallah. May Allah set forever continue to bless you with wisdom and ilm. Shukran, shukran kathir.

If my husband slap me on the wedding party, there is no way I am going with him after party.

My ex-husband did everything Mufti mentioned! I still pray for Allah to forgive him!

Thank you for this so so much. May Allah reward you with jannah. Ameen. In the time of personal crisis, this has helped me so much

Thank you. Everything is happening to me and happened to me... Tears are falling fast.... jazakallahkheir

U are amazing. U are a gift to mankind.💜👌💙

Good speech. Truth you speak. You can't take money and material things with you when you die.

May Allah bless you mufti menk, listening to you gives me strength

سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم. جزاك الله خير الجزاء. TabaarakALLAH. Thank you so much. Billahi

I like the way he speaks. I understand word by word

Wow you described my marriage in a nutshell ,I pray everyday Lord give me strength to get through these times 😓😪

Oh my God. I swear I really love this muhaadara. Masha ALLAH. TabaarakALLAH

May Allah Bless you Sir, Even you are speaking in english language but i feel as like you are speaking in my own language...So nice of you...Stay Blessed Sir....!!!

I am going through the same situation it's reched a point when ever I see my children I just can't hold my tears they don't deserve this I don't deserve this may Allah SWT show me the way have mercy on me

💖💖💖 May Allah bless u and us all Aameen x

Subhaanallah ! Excellent guidance , may Allah make it a ease for us and reward you with immense blessings mufti sahab.

Thank you so much brother may Allah bless you

Maashallah👌 (I've seen that bride got slap on her wedding. if I was her divorce straight away ).very good advice

Mashallah tabarakallah May Allah forgive us all ameen🤲🤲my dear brother mufti May Allah bless you ameen

Mashallah Golden words from beloved mufti menk

Masha Allah may Allah reward you and protect you and your family for enlightening us Àmeen

Divorce? I was suffering.. Missing my dad.. Everyday.. Alhamdulillah..my dad was a good dad.. Never forget his duty to me... Missed my dad. May ALLAH SWT grant hin Jannatul Firdaus. Aaamiiin..

I dont like my husbands character.life became an adjustment

May Allah gives u health and bless u always. U r amazing person Sir. I salute you.

SubhanAllah when you said towards the end it was meant from Allah for you to watch this video, it was like you were talk to me personally .Allah reward you brother Mufti Menk with highest ranks in Jannah for sharing your knowledge.

There is no patient(sabr) and gratitudes in marriages nowadays 🤨

My husband has left me hanging an we are in different countries 😭 I also have a 2 yr old girl from him he doesn’t care about us at all, I tried a lot to fix everything in our marriage for the sake of Allah and my child but he is running away with full of ego and ignorance

Jazak Allah Khair

Jazakhallahu khaira Mufti Menk u have done a great work for us Allah reward u more Ameen

I became muslimah and every time I listen to your preachings I am feeling better... and I believe strongly one day Allah will reunite me with my husband inshallah because Allah is almighty. One day