I actually find him really handsome and attractive

I think you missed a couple of things that made you come to that conclusion. He liked her from the beginning and wanted to bring honour to his family. She used to scold him when she was fat that is the original soul. He worked hard and brought all his money to her. She started flirting with other men and got a reputation of being a whore. It was his paycheck that she used to give the man. Remember the 20 yen? Remember the black and white flashbacks or memories? He bore all the shame and kept humble. He asked her to apologize to stop the street fight and also she did not give him any reason then to believe her. When she reincarnated to the fat girl, he took up for her when he came home and saw her in that position on the couch with the man. He left her his whole paycheck and was living on stale bread and picled vegerables. He never received any love from the original soul but was shamed and bullied, still he remained faithful to her. Also realise that he bore all the work pressure and her and his family giving trouble (mother and her daughter). She was still fat then. He got upset the day with the food because he thought she cooked for another man. The old fat person never took care of the home nor even cook a meal. Hence he was shocked when she explained that the noodles were for him and she had not eaten all day because that was all the food in the house. Remember the 20 yen that the old fat girl gave the other man? He gave her the last 10 he had in his pocket. Took the demotion the jealous guy gave him at a far away and dangerous job. He did not tell her about the disgrace he faced at that factory nor did he scold her when the neighbours were saying she was a prostitute. The way he looked at her even whenshe was the old soul, was hurt and almost pleading for some acceptance. The reincarnated fat girl finally paid him some attention. You could see the shock on his face when she daid the noodles were for him. When she was fat and scolded him, shamed him before his workers, family and neighbours he tried to work hard so people wouldn't say they were a bad family. When she she was still fat and paid him a little attention, showed some ambition then she became his inspiration. Please note that 1980s China was very very conservative so if you are looking for emothions then you have to look at the eyes, not the body nor the words. Did you see that she covered her face when they started to show any form of emotion or intimacy? I might have missed a few points like their wedding photo. He could have divorced her at any time and citing lack of care, not fulfiling her duties as a wife and housewife or infidelity with all the cheating with witnesses, but he did not. He referred to her as family, not just his mother and sister. I hope I gave you some insight. It was about the relationship. He did not start loving her when she was slim, but when she was the fat bully, too.

@@joellelenniger Hello! Sir I am really very grateful to you I really appreciate your kindness Thank you so much for explaining me Thank you so much for putting your hard effort and taking out time your precious time to write so much and correcting me . I understood now the story of this movie You truly are a such a good person I don't know who you are but looking at your hard effort I do understand that you really are a genuine person in even a small matter . Nice to meet you May God bless you with a happy and successful long life

Love the songs too. Bring back memories.

可能是他最近演了很多渣男的角色😂 他以前配姜十七的角色都蠻正氣的！

長得有點戇直

他還真演過壞人，一樣配姜十七，失明者的老公，褓姆是小三，連孩子都被調換

那么大的个头 让那男的跑进来把东西吃完了 都赶不走人家 难怪大家都觉得她装的

女主是滕澤文喔！ 可以去搜尋她拍了好幾部，都蠻好看的❤❤