Brianna C I'm so sorry you went through that ridicule during such a difficult situation.

Brianna, thanks for sticking up for women with compassion. I hope you are no longer abused. People don't understand what goes on in the brains of abusers and those who are abused. You can rewire your brain with methods of neuroplasticity through NLP and other therapies. Sometimes, you can learn how to do so yourself. lilacsinoctober.wordpress.com/2015/09/29/neuroplasticity-changing-my-brain/ talks about her success with it. cryingoutforjustice.com/2013/08/02/neuroplasticity-learning-disabilities-and-domestic-abuse/ gets more specific. It can help explain what happened in your brain and get you started (if you still need to) on creating healthy relationships

Brianna C at least he's alive now

Brianna C I am not condemning you. Thank you for the joy you gave adoptive parent(s).

Brianna C I can support you for giving your child a future, that's all we expect from people is giving children the right to blossom & showing their worth in life with smiles.

THEY JUST WANT TO F... BUT NOT TAKE ON A RESPONSIBILITY.

You do realise it's down to both parties involved to make the decision. If you get pregnant because you are too lazy to use contraception then you have no one to blame but yourself in my opinion.

@Bri Zack correct!!

@@nialldecourcey2470 Here's the thing: ➡ I don't give a damn *HOW* and/or *WHY* and/or by whom a girl/woman is knocked up/pregnant. ➡ If said pregnant girl/woman wants an abortion, *NO MATTER WHAT the reason(s),* she should have access to a reasonably priced or financed procedure (but preferably, at least partially covered by health insurance). Whether a woman had sex with her long-time boyfriend or her husband...whether a woman had sex with *1* man or *101* men...whether a woman was on birth control, used condoms or sometimes used either/or, or never used either, or if there was somehow a mixup...or if a woman was raped (by a stranger in a violent assault, or a "date rape," in which she clearly indicated she did NOT want to have intercourse & she relented, closing her eyes-holding back the tears-praying it would just *be over soon.* *NO MATTER WHAT THE REASONS - NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES - NO MATTER WHAT, HOW, WHY, WHATEVER: A WOMAN SHOULD ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYSSSSS HAVE ACCESS TO LEGAL ABORTIONS IN A SAFE, COMFORTABLE, COMPASSIONATE ENVIRONMENT!!!* No one "likes* abortion. But it is a medical necessity. I am so damn sick, tired & pissed all the way off at this misogynistic, anti-woman, woman-hating bullshit puritanical rhetoric meant to shame women & control women! Women are entitled to enjoy their bodies, embrace their sexuality & engage in *ANY KIND* of sex that brings them fulfillment, pleasure, joy & more! Men do it EVERY FUCKING DAY. Women deserve the same rights...Speaking of rights, if men could get pregnant, you can bet your sweet ass that this would not even be an issue! Men would have abortions & they'd fight for their rights. Oh, and another thing, if health insurance covers all of these stupid medications to help with lackluster or altogether GONE erections (aka: meds designed to stroke the already fragile male ego), then what in the hell are so many idiots up in arms about having a woman's birth control meds covered??! Or my bio-identical compounded hormone cream, which my insurance does NOT cover, costs me nearly $50 a month. It helps my overall health & it also improves my libido, making for greater desire, better sensation & more satisfying sex with my man. 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

"It's down to both parties involved to make the decision" Ring any bells? Nothing I said was misogynistic. If you accidentally get pregnant because of not bothering to use birth control then why should people be patting you on the back and calling you brave? It make zero sense. Same the man involved, knowing there's a chance that a woman can get pregnant but still going through with it is just naive from both the man and the woman. I believe woman who have medical conditions or rape victims should have a right to an abortion but not woman who can not be bothered to use birth control. Please change my mind by telling me why a woman and man who are having unprotected sex should have the right to abort their child because it was a "mistake". Also as just a side note why turn to abortion when you can put the child up for adoption? At least it can have a chance at life that way.

You are so right everyone says i would never do it untill your in that situation yourself you can not judge as times in your life can be difficult feel for her know exactly what shes going through it sent me wacko for years it took me years to get over it x

hayley Wood yes but most people actually don’t do it when they do they won’t ever do it I get she felt like she had no other choice some are like that but people who truly don’t believe in that ACTUALLY will not do it

Exactly, they just need to shut the hell up.

hayley Wood that’s true. i never in my life thought i would get one but i did. Because it was the best for option for me, and i was using protection and everything. Things happen y’all.

@@aaliyahallen-sellers3547 the reason you had an abortion was it because you thought people would judge you or the fact that you just didn't want to deal with a child birth? "Because you know adoption is an option"

S Sykes That’s what I was thinking too. She deserves someone way better.

Joe Noyes She didn’t do it to be evil. She aborted because she was terrified and felt as if it were her only option. Also, her boyfriend wasn’t supportive and, in a way, coerced her into getting an abortion. So please don’t judge or hate, only wish her the best because it’s obvious she’s sad.

Most high school boys go from girl to girl ever two or so weeks..... Oh fuck I'm starting to sound like an in cell or a god danm white kight

@@joenoyes9199 You have a lot of hate and judgment in you. I will pray for you.

Joe Noyes what you are pointing out is not facts but your opinion. You can disagree with someone without being disrespectful.

***** A world with safe, accessible abortions is a better place than a world without them. Women (in countries with legal abortion) are no longer getting botched abortions, no longer being suspected of 'murder' when they have a miscarriage, no longer being forced to carry and give birth to a severely deformed child with zero chance of living more than a couple of days. Less children are sleeping on the streets or in group homes, less children are abused, less women are tied to their rapist for 18 years, and less women are being forced to risk pregnancy and birth related death. Bodily autonomy is a beautiful thing.

***** It doesn't seem silly when women have to rent out their entire body for 40 weeks. Would you support forced blood, plasma, bone marrow, or organ donation to save a child's life? No. Men are never faced with a situation where they are told their bodily rights have to be put on hold.

***** At least you're upfront about your sexism.

***** We are equal. There is never a point in your life where you have to face the mental and physical health effects of pregnancy. You will never have your entire body stressed for 40 weeks. You always have the right to make decisions for your body. Women having those same rights, which includes abortion, is not unfair or unequal. You're missing the point that there will never be a time where you're forced to do something with your body, so there should never be a time where a woman is either.

***** And that's motherfucking bull shit. But, at that same time, abortion was illegal, so both men and women lost control over their bodies. I support abortion, no draft/drafting both genders. Bodily autonomy for all or none!

Chula Baby love that 🖤

great decision and best wishes for you and the baby.

Chula Baby - That is wonderful. I watched this video about a year ago and it had a profound affect on me as well. So many people are not told how traumatic going through an abortion is. Abortion is not a reset button. It is one of several very difficult options for someone in a difficult position. I appreciate the honesty in the video.

Jason Wade thank you

Mom .... very. True it was running through my mind like crazy, its a decision that has to be made quickly witch is also so unfair , but i just kept thinking to myself. I just cant this lil human is gonna be apart of me no matter what .

123abc it wouldn’t have swayed my decision. I always wanted a life of travel and also a career. I was on birth control to prevent this whole situation. Thankfully I live in a place where I had options. I have now travelled quite a bit and have started a career in EMS. I do want kids one day but only when I am ready to do so.

@@alexusdumont951 wow! Thanks for responding :)

@@alexusdumont951 Glad you know how to be responsible and think about your future

1) I don't think it would have gone any different because society has give women God like power. They choose who dies or not. 2) Its not about men, and not even her ex boyfriend. She didn't love that kid and was just waiting for a push in that direction. She had a choice, she chose to kill. Don't blame men on everything thats wrong with women. She aborted because she wanted to go to Europe 3) I am happy for that other girl who is planning out her life, but she should know it doesn't always go her way.

@@alexusdumont951 , I'm very surprised to hear you say that, there were several things you said in the video that mildly or strongly suggest otherwise. You state at one point you have no regrets, but in 4 or5 others you talk about crying a lot, that it's been very hard, that you wished your boyfriend would have responded to the news differently, that looking at the ultrasound of the baby was really difficult, I think a few other things too. A lie that is perpetuated today is that a baby growing in the womb is just a clump of cells, no! If that is true then we are all clumps of cells also, but of course we are so much more. It is natural, the bond between mother and child, natural and instinctive to want to protect and care for that child, and this is what every woman that has an abortion struggles with to one degree or another, consciously or subconsciously. It's what I heard you squirming and trying to deal with just in the video alone, and I do appreciate your honesty in that. But I have no doubt that it's been far more difficult for you than what we saw here. With all my heart, I really hope that the same mistake is not made, that you will come to understand that a precious human life is priceless compared to travel or a job. We all make mistakes, the key is always to learn from them and avoid the same thing.I do wish you a great life.

Right....

Kenya Gonzalez same here

No, that knowledge that she killed her own baby, her own flesh and blood.... NEVER goes away.

Kylie Charboneau and what happens if a woman is raped? Quite frankly your opinion is fucking disgusting. I don’t like how they get rid of the baby in abortions but who are YOU to judge the woman??? You sick fuck

@@itswaytoomucheffort5424 if you support this, your absolutely a freak and a disgusting human being.

chez066 - something to think about, if she went through with the pregnancy he'd have to pay child support, so don't say that men aren't held accountable

Jack Rags Because men never skip out on their families?

we have school giving sex education and at home parents and we also have lots of contraception available to us Hence why she got into such situation and fuc*ing up her body

I hope you don't confuse presage and sharing advice as being hate speech! On the contrary, advising others to break away from destructive behavior that causes torment is an act of love.

I blame her, society, her friend, her boyfriend, and the abortion clinic. Mainly the abortion clinic and society.

Wow! I made a comment about being supportive and trying to avoid endless pro abortion/choice debates and low and behold, a debate about abortion breaks out... ironic

Random Person best response I've seen.

"It's already done" isn't a valid argument. We need to chastise awful shit like this to make it socially unacceptable. When you say "oh well it's already happened no point in trying" you are only making things worse.

she may need "support" but does she rlly deserve it? I mean it seems to me that she had pretty much fun getting laid, so why couldn't she had fun confronting the situation she knew she could had gotten into? there's no excuse. if she was young n financially unstable she should had kept her pretty legs shut.

wolfy Lyall Howls you must be the same person that don't mind getting laid when legs are open huh? so don't tell someone else what they should do.

I pray you repent. You and the creator of this video. It’s not too late to repent, killing a baby is never the right thing for you. I pray you find peace, Alejandra, peace in Jesus. Please don’t do it again. I will literally adopt your child, they are loved. I’m here if you need ANYTHING, please don’t think this is an option.

I’m going through this right now and it is the hardest... all of these feelings make me feel so alone and evil and sad... and grief... I felt so rushed into getting my abortion and it was the most painful experience I’ve ever felt

@@Mariah-lm7ok I am sorry. I pray you find peace in Jesus there is forgiveness. Turn to Him in your time of grief, He will forgive you, comfort you, and reassure you that your child is with Him and in repentance when the time is come you can join them both. It is not too late. God bless you and help you through this.

@@firstchoicebidding8160 Do you really care about "babies"? I don't believe it. There are many reasons for abortion and as the girl said in the video, that "child" was not wanted, so why bring him into the world if he is going to suffer all his life knowing that he was a mistake. As a Latin American I have heard my colleagues say it and it's really painful. Here nobody has a little empathy for those who abort, nobody says "We have to improve the adoption centers", "We have to improve sex education" or "We have to present all the options and their consequences" but they say things that invalidate that decision. Have empathy, don't just be logical or speak from your privilege, open your mind.

@@rumaleovi3244 *warning, long response- srry* I think the premise for your argument has a fundamental difference to a pro-lifers. That would be the value of the human soul. While you might think the onus is on our society to increase education, I think this is an issue of the heart. Most people know the consequences of sex. However, people will still refuse hormonal birth control because of the toll on the body, and many people refuse to use condoms simply because they damper the experience. People know they have abortion to succumb to in the event they get pregnant. I dont want to assume this is the line of logic, but we live in a society that argues so heavily on women choices and undermines the personhood of a small fetus calling it a “clump of cells”, “unconscious”, “unviable”. I think this minimizes the idea of abortion to much of our society. In essence, I believe this removes the weight of an abortion for many who go into that decision. A “pro-lifer” emphasizes that at the time of conception a human life is brought into the world. A human with a soul, with the same potential as every other “viable” human whose mothers let them live. A human soul is different from just a human. There isn’t a perception that we live in nothing more than a finite biological world thats guided only by evolution, cultural relativism, and moralism. Its believed that a human soul is hand crafted by a loving God who sees that living soul as a unique identity and made in his image, having its own set of DNA, own dreams, personality, etc. While sex might be the means to conception, the belief is that God gives life through sex, as he sees suite. Sex without a creator would just be sex and would not create life. So when you say the child is “unwanted”, perhaps by its mother, but not by God. Its an issue of the heart. A mother not willing to give up her whole life for her child. Radical, right? There are a proportional amount of unplanned pregnancies that mothers pursue in hardship who pick up multiple jobs, sacrifice their whole life. Many of those women reap a harvest of joy from their children. So if you want to talk about education… We can talk about what our society doesn’t teach. Our “progressive society” emphasizes self over others. Its actually hardens people’s hearts. The entire life of Christ is to give it up for others. To lay our lives down in love and service. Those sacrifices actually lead to inward thriving, harvesting love, and joy, and peace. Our society doesn’t teach that? I am someone speaking from experience. I got pregnant, unplanned, at 21 y/o. I can say that you give up your whole life for your baby. But there is not another experience in my life that has ever filled my heart the way having a child has. The innocent, precious way a baby looks into your eyes, and giggles, and coos. It lights up your heart. Having a baby.. its not a punishment. Its gods way of teaching us the beauty of life. I wish our society taught more on the sacredness of life and the transforming power of a baby and becoming a parent, and equipped mothers for motherhood in the event they get pregnant. Thats what I wish our society taught.

also for me,! I was looking for how to have a baby in my later years. Then this. As I'm seeking, I see people so easily discarding them.

Every woman has the choice ! But think about it this way if you have unprotected sex not wanting to get pregnant USE PROTECTION! It isn't that hard ! You have to take the consequences of laying down. If you aren't financially stable to have a kid DONT OPEN YOUR LEGS SIMPLE AS THAT. ( not directing this towards you just in general)

+alexis rojas of course! if you don't want to get pregnant, use some form of birth control but birth control doesn't always reliable. so I think, women should have that option.

+LAADI KAY Just because you have freedom of choice DOES NOT mean what you choose to do will be moral or ethical. We ALL have choices in life. You have to make choices every single day. Some people make choices to be complete dirtbags does that make it right? No. Just because something is legal to do does not necessarily make it the right thing to do. Unless of course you are a dirtbag with no morals.

+don smith you don't have to agree with anyone's choices because they made the choice for themselves, not for anyone else.

+LAADI KAY Oh I see, so rape or murder is not agreeable OR disagreeable because the offender made that choice for themselves. That's brilliant. Your comment is a morally bankrupt statement.

B U B U L Y N N A she put herself out there. She knew exactly what to expect. No safe room In the real world.

@@brandiurban5519 The point is to be respectful, because when you shame the other person, they will obviously not be interested in a conversation... And if the people in the comments want to save lives, they have to talk respectfully.

@@brandiurban5519 lol you are what is wrong with this world. Your toxic attitude is unwanted here. Take it elsewhere.

Why not both? State your opinion in a respectful way about how you think she feels.

the psychopath commit infanticide and then gets on KZfaq to brag about it. She don't want to take any blame for her actions by crying that her boyfriend wasn't supportive but please note it would have affected her life it would have affected her vacation. Pathetic worthless woman she is a psychopath I hope that the spirit of the child and wish she had murdered visits her nightmares. Hopefully the doctor did a good service and removed her reproductive organs so she cannot have a child in the future.

Because you can only deny so much. See? People who say "clump of cells" have to train themselves to say that when literally, the first thing you think of once you get pregnant is "I'm having a baby," not "There is an organism growing inside me." It's dehumanization, plain and simple.

@@laobok “I’m HAVING a baby” not “I HAVE a baby” simply it’s going to BE a baby but not yet

​@@teehee5700 And yet here you are, about to prove my point. But whatever, I'm gonna let you win this one. Fine, whatever you say.

@@laobok proving your point of what? Lmao

+TheVildee Calgary is in Canada.

Danielle Holbrook Oh sorry, didn't notice! I thought Canada was more liberal though...

+TheVildee They are... but America is worse :( *this is coming from an American

xxxTH3summerS3Txxx :( I think it's scary how such a developed country as America is so far behind in these questions

+TheVildee They are in the hospital and they also exist as regular clinics too.

skinny legend how tf can you get pregnant if you never had your period

skinny legend girl listen, don’t agree if you don’t want to, but you killed the baby because the father is bad, why is that okay?

halo light you can get pregnant without having your period in certain cases it’s a common mistake girls make where they think they can have sex without protection before they get their period and not get pregnant

Model Maker because not only does my age goes into it at the time, but also the fact that raising a child that’s half of the monster who raped you isn’t something i personally could do. i don’t feel regret or remorse for not letting clumps of cell grow into a baby who i wouldn’t want

skinny legend oh well I guess my supporters are evil because I have a rape baby and it was when I was 17 so idk maybe I’m superwoman and you guys Aren’t, no. Stop killing babies they did nothing wrong, you are denying science

E S E your comment is spot on. thank you for being a voice for the voiceless❤️

E S E blood and organs are not a human being. yes humans have organs and blood but it’s not the same as a baby.

@@ashleyk683 But the human beings those blood and organs could potentially save are equivalent to what you refer to as a baby. THAT's the point I'm making

Ashley K Someone receiving an organ donation is using another persons body and organs fo sustain their self. A fetus is using the woman’s body and organs to sustain itself. It is the same.

*to sustain

the couple didn't fuck up, their birth control just failed. that's nobodies fault.

+cazzawee They still fucked up. Birth control is not always guaranteed but the reproductive system is, either be ready to take responsibility for your own actions or dont act at all. Way much better decision than to end up killing an innocent life. Then it is the "rights" advocates who go around pointing their fingers at rapists, murderers, and other horrible human beings who make the horrible moral CHOICE of forcing themselves, their violence, and selfish motives on innocent humans. Same shit. You Hypocrites.

Joyzyii abortion is taking responsibility. not bringing a child into this world when you're not ready and unable to take care of it properly is responsible as fuck. don't worry your little socks, the thing growing is not a life yet when abortion takes place, so no life is lost.

+cazzawee No, it is not taking responsibility at all. Quite the opposite. Abortion is the action a woman or in some cases a decision a couple makes after they fuck and find out that suprisingly!(because shit what are the odds) they got pregant. They end up wanting to run away from taking responsibility of their actions. Every action has a consequence and theres no way one can justify the stupidity of not knowing the simple fact that putting sperm and eggs together via the action called SEX will result in the creation of a human life (basic ass biology - reproductive system). Aborting that human being's life is called ending a human being's life and ending a human being's life is called killing a human being and those who kill human beings are called killers. So women who abort are killers, like it or not thats a fact and facts regardless of the argument or excuse are immutable. Bye.

+cazzawee FYI go take a bio 101 course at your local college. Life begins at conception in every living thing including Human beings. At the time a woman finds out that she is pregnant that "cluster of cells" is A life. Fun fact, We are ALL. a cluster of cells in all our stages of development. You are a bunch of cells does that mean you are not alive? Idiot. Living cells are alive. The offspring of a human being is a human being. You dont look like an infant today because you developed into whatever you are now, adult /teen? You lack bones that you had when you were an infant. Technically infants are not the same as adults or elders. Our bodies change. Blastocysts already have a mouth that connects to the anal. A BLASTOCYST. Lets not even talk about how fast a blastocyst turns into a fetus. Those are simply names to classify a stage of human development. So yes when she aborted her offspring was alive since the day she conceived.

***** Have you ever heard "diseases can not exist in a Alkaline environment"? If so. That answers your statement about the "cure" to cancer.

***** nope. Never have

Three people post comments and two have been deleted. Anyone else want to try me?

***** It makes me a person who delete comments on my own post.

***** same to you

My husband is the same. I'm pregnant at 6 weeks and he immediately told me to get an abortion because we don't have the finical standards

Also I do think she regrets it but her saying she doesnt because she went. Europe to me that's not a valid reason to get one in pro choice but I also understanf she wasnt ready for a child but I do think she regrets it in my opinion

An honest boyfriend is loads better than an absent father.

The guy wouldn't have been a good father anyway. He at least admits it.

I couldn't agree with you more. I would raise a child myself if it meant preventing an abortion.

No, men absolutely live with the guilt too.

Maggie Dingman my boyfriend lives in guilt everyday of his life, I don’t wish this pain on anyone.. but it’s the right thing to do when for me personally I didn’t have anything to my name. I didn’t have a job at the time. But I’m against abortion, although I went through it. It’s sometimes what needs to be done.. an it sucks but we stand tall.

I think guys can live with guilt too. Not to the same degree, of course, but I don't think anyone involved in the process of abortion comes out unscathed.

She said that they had previously talked about what they'd do if they got pregnant and that they BOTH agreed on termination.

Stay strong girl, in the end all you have is yourself. I hope everything turns out okay, I'm going through a similar situation

+Kari Grimaldo If you are pregnant, you should go to a Pregnancy Resource Center. They can help. Your friends and family could help. Your unborn son or daughter is not an 'it'. He or she is a human being. Look up fetal development information and read up on it.

the why the bitch had sex

+myintx she wasn't ready to have a kid, it's the mothers choice. If a woman is getting an abortion they are probably already pretty upset about it, they don't need people like you telling them that they are wrong and that its the worst possible option

+Bekah Nuxoll It shouldn't be anyone's choice to kill an unborn child. The girl in this video didn't sound upset. Her mother was willing to help. She wanted to go to Europe. What we need is laws protecting unborn children from being killed.

@Gabriel I watched a silent scream abortion video it was horrible.

@Sam Noel no. no she didn't. she wasn't ready to become a mother, meaning that if she did bring a child into this world they would not live the same fulfilling life as one born into a family where the parents are prepared. this clearly caused her a lot of pain because she feels immensely bad for the foetus and what she did. she didn't do it out of selfishness. keep your horrible comments to yourself.

@@malibu1285 I call that selfishness, I dont know your ethics and morals but it is. If you think killing a baby because you want to go to Europe isn't selfishness, I fear for the people around you. Don't get me wrong, I was sympathetic with her till she called a baby a cluster of cells as if she isn't one

@@malibu1285 So you're saying that unless a baby is born into a financially stable middle class familyz then it should be aborted. You're saying that the life of a baby born to young working class parents who wasn't planned is worth less than a baby born to richer parents? Whether she was ready or not, her offsprings life was intentionally terminated. I do wish her all the best in her future, but killing a human life (regardless of it's stage of development) is never the choice somebody should make. She made the wrong choice

@Sam Herbst she didn't choose to have a baby.

A selfish and coward killer.

+Rose LIFE Real courage is taking responsibility for your actions. REAL courage would be accepting the fact that your actions have led to the creation of a new life and stepping up to the plate and raising that child, no matter how "inconvenient" it might be, to the absolute best of your ability. THAT is courage.

+don smith In medical ethics, we learnt: "Two people can't have the same rights inside one body, without one of them having their rights stripped away". And guess who's the one who SHOULD have those rights.... it's WOMEN. I know, crazy right? How could women ever dare to ask for the right to have autonomy over their own body, and NOT enslave themselves to the misogynistic belief that an incomplete organism has more rights than a full human being?? We're talking for literally a parasitic organism who wouldn't even be able to live without the woman's body. Also, you're treating pregnancy as a punishment for women who dare to have sex for their pleasure.

+Msl LogYt Then explain to me who gets rights and who does not in a case of Siamese twins? Secondly, believing that it's wrong to murder an unborn child is in no way a "misogynistic" belief. Simply because you think it's misogynistic does not make it so unfortunately. Thirdly, I am in no way treating pregnancy as punishment and never said that it was, those are your words and obviously your beliefs not mine. If a woman chooses to have sex merely for pleasure, more power to her but if that pleasure seeking turns into a pregnancy then the woman should show personal responsibility for her actions by not killing her unborn child. You obviously see abortion as a way to escape that personal responsibility.

+don smith Soooo what you're saying is if I get in a car and drive and someone crashes into me it's my fault because I chose to drive that day? That I should then not be allowed to fix my car? And then because of that have my body messed up for the rest of my life? That's reasonable. I'm not saying everyone should have an abortion, I'm just saying that no one period should get to choose what others do with their own body.

+don smith 1) your siamise twin comparison (or analogy??) is way, way out there, vague and sloppy (age/pathology/viability... what kinda med situation are we even talking about here??) I can guess at the kind of argument you might be trying to make, but... man, what a mess. 2) "Simply because you think it' misogynistic does not make it so unfortunately" - this also works on the inverse bub. 3) reproductive coercion and forced pregnancy is traumatic to the mother and this trauma has an incredible impact on the fetus - see the long-term effects of cortisol and other stress-hormones - i dont think its a terrible jump to consider enforced pregnancy/labor as punitive. Also, these unwanted pregnancies are not always the result of "pleasurable" sex. again, the whole over simplification thing (if only this world was so easy, eh?)

Agree

+babe well You are a moron, people have sex, it's fun and is an integral part of bonding and finding out if you can connect on a physical level as well. She was on birth control, but she had bad luck. Having children should be a choice, neither was she ready for that responsibility nor was she in a good position (not enough money, apparently boyfriend who isn't husband material).

+Holligan878 i think that maybe you shouldn't have sex in the first place when you know there can be consequences and if you're wanting to have sex then obviously use protection on both women and men? simple. you shouldn't punish the child for your mistakes, its not their fault its yours. its really not that hard not to have sex

its her body her life her choice now lets say she did decide to keep the baby would you send her money every week for diapers and milk ? i don't think so .. so until you are helping her pay bills you dont have a say so in what she does with her life

+Kasey Renee Shaw Sex is meant to be a part of reproduction, not "fun".

Absolutely true, but the other part of that is "Go and sin no more." We have to resolve as a society to do better. Women deserve better than abortion. Our society can find a way to love both mothers and babies and not pit them against each other. Not judging does not mean "just accepting" either; we have to do better. This girl is suffering and her baby was killed violently. This is heartbreaking.

@@sumtuus1229 that is why fasting and turning to God is so important

Fred C. Wilson III And we are all clusters of cells also

Fred C. Wilson III some sinners are worse than others though...

The thing is we can't decide which is sin and which is not

This is such a beautiful comment. I’m pro-choice, though I can see the pain it causes this girl in particular and I’m glad that some people in the comments, even if they disagree with her choice, are still sending her love and well-wishes because it can’t be undone now. She needs the support.

I wish all pro life people were like this.

You are not pro life

A pro life persom think about all babies... Not only their own. So if you think its her choice. You are not pro life.

Alice The Frozen Frog I never said that I agree with the choice she’s made. I am extremely prolife.

Joe noyes I’m sorry but I have to question is your a stable individual because you sound a bit unwell maybe you should seek some help.

Joe Noyes - Nobody, absolutely NOBODY but God the Father decides who is going to Heaven and who is going to Hell. By you saying that anyone is going to hell is 100% unBiblical. For someone who claims to be a believer, you sure are missing the mark, big time!

Krissy MacInnis AMEN

@@jen137 What does the bible say about premarital sex? murder?

I feel like you messed up your spelling at the beginning?

agreed

people are indeed adopting those children.

that's not the point. he/she is saying its not always a happy end. I've been in a foster home after being wrongfully taken away fro my mum cause my dad wanted to be back at her. the foster home I was in, the care giver was a drugy, I was ment to be on medication for ADHD she was taking them for herself. she had a boyfriend who was also a drugy, I was starved, abused and the boyfriend use to watch me when I was taking a shower or a bath.

God that's so stupid. First, the idea that people who are opposed to abortion don't care about the welfare of children after they're born is just a ridiculous attempt to slander people you disagree with. What is it based on? As far as I can tell it's just based on the fact that the political party opposed to abortion is also the party that's for less government spending. That's it. Never mind that the people opposed to abortion also give more money to charity. All that matter is the tenuous political connection. Then you've got this idea, well If you save someone from being killed then you personally must ensure they live a happy life. What is that, some damn ancient proverb? If you save someone's life that doesn't mean that you owe them anything. Last year there were firefighters called to the apartment building I lived because of a fire. If they saved someone's life that night, did that make them responsible for the person they saved? It's a ridiculous idea. And then there's the idea that someone is better off dead rather than in a foster home! Well, I guess he's for emptying all the foster homes by executing the children. I mean if there better of dead, then it'd be a mercy killing, right? Also, the children in foster homes are NOT children who were given up for adoption when they were born. Advocates of abortion never seem to understand this. Kids end up in the foster system precisely because they were NOT available for adoption when they were a baby. There's actually far more demand than there is supply when it comes to adopting babies. That's why so many people are travelling to Korea and India just to find a baby to adopt. Jeez, what a bunch of nonsense.

Life is more precious than no life. The number 1 is greater than zero. A shit life is still life. And life is worth living.

You stilled killed someone no healing will bring that baby back

Sorry to say this but GOD dont forgives this situations is on the bible he give you like he should be the one that tell you when to go back

The bible says, though your sins be as red as crimson, God will make them whiter than snow. So y'all judging her, u know nothing of the bible. It also says there is no sin God cannot forgive. God's ways are not our ways. So don't come here trying to say what God can and cannot forgive

priestlie starr I never brought religion into this I brought logic no amount of praying will ever change the fact that she killed a baby and that will forever be with her

I am a Christian and I want to say, for those who had abortions or considering. I get that life it is hard. I feel your pain. I am not condemning you. I do not agree with abortion but I do wrong things all the time and Jesus still chooses to forgive me. Jesus looked at the woman who was caught in adultery (which was a death penalty by public stoning at the time) and said, "He without sin cast the first stone."Not one was free from sin and no one is perfect today. He looked at her and said"where are your accusers?, and she replied there is none. and He said , "nor do I accuse you. Go and sin no more." Jesus loves you and is so do I. There is hope, redemption, forgiveness and healing through Jesus. John 3:16-17. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.

It's great that things worked out for you in the end, but consider that it wouldn't necessarily be the same for everyone faced with your situation.

Same here girl ❤️ now I have a beautiful baby girl and I don’t know what I would do with out her in my life.

ramywiles when you become a momma you make it work. There are circumstances that abortion is necessary... but wanting to travel isn’t one of them.

Janie Heming so true!

Janie Heming That's for you to decide for yourself and yourself alone.

If you're getting biblical you should know baby aren't baptized before 12 the baby is going to hell

Vegan 22 you are so good woman.

Thanks for sharing your story. I love your personality. Despite all problems you will manage your life and get so much back from your baby girl. We have 2 sons and can't imagine our life's without the cute little monsters.😎

I was just like you... even the same age.. and everything.. I'm now 2 days away from my due date I'm so glad I felt that love you felt as well because I'm so happy with my choice and I can't wait to meet my daughter in a few days 💕 thanks for sharing made me smile that there are other young girls in the same situation and they are happy with their choice like I am.

you go lady 👏🏼👏🏼

life begins at conception, it's not a clump of cells. It's a living being with a heart beat, brain, bones, ect. Good luck new momma

it was weird for her because it wasn't good news for her.

That was so rude, you obviously don't understand what she meant by that. You should think through what you say before saying such hateful things.

+Katie Fleming hi love your vids JK XD lol LMAO

+Shiki Nozomu It's weird in the sense that she was 19 years old and unmarried. Never ideal by any stretch of the imagination. Most doctors would not give the news that way.

+XxMagicSlayerxX 1 what?

THIS, . . . YOUR STORY, is the one we should be hearing about on a You Tube video, instead of this vile, selfish video posted by a girl who insisted on the easy way out of a situation she created (with the help of a similarly irresponsible male). I loved hearing your story, and I congratulate you on your decision - the only one God would condone. The Lord knows what you did, and I am sure you will be blessed for it. Thank you for setting an example worthy of praise and respect. God Bless You!

@@Sealust50 Thank you, the courage came from the Lord and he has never let me down.

@@christinevaldez4029 I knew from the feeling I got while reading your story that your decision was guided by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are SO blessed to have God in our lives to help us through our journey through this brief life here on earth. Non-believers and those who do not know Him have such a terrible road of life to walk. PRAISE THE LORD he is ALWAYS there for us: "For lo, I am with you always, even until the end of the earth."

Christine valdez I'm so scared reading your story is giving me sanity.... I'm on birthcontrol but I don't have a job no support from the bf and family, I'm in my late 20s, lived most my years sick, I live with my father and I'm petrified..... lord knows I'm not ready.

@@arideneros9015 I am sorry for the lack of support but thankful you have your dad.

if you were truly prolife, you would know that it is not her body that was killed in the abortion. It's not judging to tell someone they cannot kill a child - born or unborn - it is PROTECTING a vulnerable human being. If you are pro-life you'll vote for Trump for President. He will appoint SC justices that will eventually overturn Roe V Wade.

what words did I "twist"?

Thank you.

+Stacy Gaskins, I am pro-life as well but that is the most retarded comment I've seen in a very long time, it's not her body, it's the babies!

so you are ok with someone tearing a babys little body to pieces and killing it. That my dear is not prolife! That is what your mother should have done to YOU!

Martina Russo I wish you and your growing family all the happiness in the world! This video wasn’t to sway anyone into having an abortion. It was to give an honest account of what it’s like. Pro choice is NOT pro abortion. It means I am supportive of whatever decision my fellow woman decides. I am so happy you have made your choice. Health and happiness to you my love ♥️

Alexus Dumont I know, dear. My comment was in support of your video and to let you know we are just humans and we’re all different. Before getting pregnant I was strictly convinced that abortion was the solution to an unwanted pregnancy, but honestly I regretted my thought as soon as I found myself in the actual situation, that’s why I’m saying that we’re all humans and we’re all different. Thank you so much for your kindness and for sharing your story, I think you’ve been really brave. You will be a mother in future if you will chose to, and I’m pretty much sure you’ll be a great mother❤️

I'm so happy you're keeping your baby my dear! You'll be a great mom and you're so very brave!!!

That’s what I’m talking about ! You’re a great influence not to run but fight the fears. Best of wishes girl, I know that you’re a terrific mom.

@@alexusdumont951 That's why pro-life and pro-choice are really misleading terms. The terms really should be that you are for the legalization of abortion are you are against the legalization of abortion. I'm against the legalization of abortion - I think it's a crime against human rights, specifically the most basic right to live. However, I'm not against any person's right to choose what they do with their lives or bodies, although I recognize that choices necessarily have consequences, sometimes legal ones. That said, I also don't think that people who are for the legalization of abortion are fundamentally against life. I think their focus is more on the right of a woman to choose what she will do with her body. The only problem I have with their argument is that a woman's choice involves not simply her ORGANS but another human ORGANISM. As an analogy, I would say that I have the right to do whatever I want with my hands. I can use them to cook food, perform surgery, fix a car or anything else. But at the moment that what I choose to do with my hands harms someone else (like, perhaps using my hand to slap someone), the right to choose becomes problematic. As a note, I am a woman, so I do understand what a hard thing this is.

You are always good enough just the way you are♡

❤️

That's how young she is. Shouldn't be having sex.

Some people don't want to see it themselves

Never laugh at another person's misfortune. We're all in a bad place. We should be empathetic toward each other, but cautious of the wicked ones who just want to bait more people and cause them harm.

Sway B. But the thing is she didn’t give birth... she aborted the baby that baby is dead

None of us have a time machine. The point we need to make to her is that she needs to stop and never do this again.

+Arianna Lizeth So what? If you had 10 kids you wouldn't regret having them because nature makes you fall in love with a child when it's born but it's just an illusion. Your life you'd be better without a child that came at the wrong time.

+Ju Hill i see how much of a negative person you are... society doesn't need people like you.

i had the same experience. i am glad i took the decision to my baby i am already 36 weeks :)

+Ju Hill it's just an "illusion" ?? um no .its blood its a child that literally grew inside you, that's literally a little you , its another human sou and its fucking beautiful.and not anywhere near a fucking illusion it is so fucking real maybe the realest thing out there. there is no wrong time btw. and i bet arianna has an amazing ass life just like me and my son. fuck off . don't put your dumb ass opinion in if you've never even fucking experienced having a child.

+Ju Hill oh well I'm not planning on having more babies I learn of my mistakes in already 26 and when I had him I was 24 and no there's no ilusion I've never felt so in love with any guy the way I'm in love with my son it's like I was never in love Before him even though I thought I was so everyone has their own opinion I have mine you have yours and that's it I don't regret the decision I took

Hello there.

Madalyn Lambert I know my rights!!!!!😡 BACK OFF!!!!!! I can have an opinion and state it, it’s called freedom of speech!

Kristina Pate I’ve found that people who yell about their rights to freedom of speech are the people who probably should shut up. Just because you can say whatever you want doesn’t mean you should. Saying shitty things still makes you an asshole.

Kristina Pate Rough day?

Madalyn Lambert period

good for you Lara.

I have had the same situation. I'm the same age. Now However, I am planning to terminate my second pregnancy. It is a very hard decision...

Harley Quinn just trying to understand why you, someone who is already a mother with a child.... why are you terminating your second pregnancy? Out of convenience? Did birth control fail? Did you have a one night stand or something? Ending ones life is something you can never undo... Why would that be a better choice than the alternative, letting the person live? You're already a mother. You know a fetus is a person. You're not ignorant. Why would you choose to kill an innocent person?

Harley Quinn You could put it up for adoption. If you live in the U.S. it won’t live on the foster care system, it will be adopted immediately because there are more people who want to adopt infants then infants in the system.

Nat C I mean... adding a second child to the mix isn't something you should do lightly. It's not a question of convenience; it's a question of whether or not you can afford (physically, mentally, financially) to support not just one, but two tiny people who are dependent on you for literally everything. Or, if it's not that, it's a question of whether or not you can afford (physically, mentally, financially) to carry a second pregnancy to term while also going through everything involved in giving it up. Sometimes abortion is what's necessary and responsible to all parties involved, and that's fine. Also, if you're genuinely "just trying to understand"... using loaded language like "why would you choose to kill an innocent person" is a phrase that inherently casts judgment on someone's choice; you're no longer trying to understand them, you're just going after them. I'd suggest being careful with that kind of language.

You have this all wrong... the Bible does not say to reproduce at all costs. The Bible says that abortion is wrong in any stage. You have no idea what you are talking about, sir

Riley Steward i'm fifty years old sweet heart I got every idea what I happen to be talking about; have you started your periods yet?

***** You're so funny. Have you even picked up a Bible? I love how you have to personally attack me to get your point across. You're so mature for someone your age!

+Riley Steward psalms 139:13-16 Jeremiah 1:4-5 Luke 1:39-41 Jeremiah 20:14-17 Ecclesiastes 6:3-5 Job 3:16-19 Psalms 58:3-8 Exodus 21:22-25 Hosea 9:11-14 Numbers 5 Exodus 11:4-5 Exodus 12:29 Numbers 31:17-18 I Samuel 15:3 Deuteronomy 2:34, 3:6 Joshua 10:28-40, 11:10-12, 14, 15, 20, 21 Judges 21:10-12 Psalms 137:8 Genesis 2:7 Ezekiel 37:5 Ecclesiastes 11:5 Numbers 3:40 Leviticus 27:6 Corinthians 11:7 All bible verses that either support terminating a pregnancy (some even command it) or give a very different definition of what is considered a valued life

+Riley Steward there is nothing in the bible that specifically says abortion is wrong. In fact most discussion of it, including the verses I provided, condone or mandate it. They also say that life as a person does not start until one takes their first breath (Genesis 2:7). Ecclesiastes 11:5 says we humans do not and cannot know exactly when 'life' begins.

You are sorry for having cried ?

This is EXACTLY it, because no matter how effectively we work to reduce abortion, all we can ever do is reduce it. We can't eliminate it. People who don't want to be pregnant will seek out the means to end their pregnancies, and they deserve to be able to do so safely and legally. If we remove that resource, we put more women at risk of dying, and that's not something I'm ok with. (I'm pro choice to begin with, but this particular point is at the core of my own arguments.)

Imagine what it would be like if women actually chose to not murder their babies. Then we wouldn't need abortion clinics. But by all means, keep those "safe" death camps running.

You're not pro-life at all. I couldn't care less about the health and security of the executioner. So you have no problem with babies being torn apart and thrown into the garbage, so long as it is done properly and nicely. Where is your compassion towards the REAL victim of abortion? Oh yeah, you don't have any. Because you're cold-hearted but dress it up as "compassion." I see right through your bullshit.

kwpp7, too bad life is complicated and not every woman makes the exact same decisions.

chris the term "women" isn't a dirty word. you dont have to be afraid to say it "woman" see? easy

Happy story

Bless you.

Sariah Hash that’s wonderful although I’m pretty sure this video led to more abortions happening than it stopped from happening. May that baby have a long wonderful life and may god help your friend aswell

@@jonathondanials7182 No no one in their right mind will wanna end up like this women.

Big Mac without cheese but there are plenty of people here who aren’t in their right mind

Theresa Webb She said it’s what she wanted several times. Just because the boyfriend wrongly assumed that she’d make this decision doesn’t mean he forced her at all. Please don’t be so quick to remove all responsibility from the woman and place it on the man. In this type of situation, no one “wants” any of the options they have to be honest.

@@NinaZuccaro0824 ....I literally said nothing about the boyfriend. I said it doesn't seem like SHE really wanted to do it.

Just because someone wants it doesnt mean they feel good about it. It's a very difficult decision.

Theresa Webb I didn’t want to experience any of it to begin with. That is why I was so sad. I used birth control to prevent this situation.

Alexus Dumont I watched your video about a year after you posted it, afraid that I was going to have to make this choice. But at the same time I was so relieved and grateful that I found someone that had experienced it and I could kind of understand what I was going to possibly go threw. I ended up not being pregnant but I did feel more confident leading up to that point since watching this. And I know that's what you intended this video to be for. So thank you so much for being so brave!! Thank you for sharing your story 💜 I hope you're doing good and I hope good things have happened to you since this. I can tell you're a very genuine, caring, good person and you deserve it

Call it by what it is. It isn’t terminating a pregnancy, it’s ending the life of an unborn child.

rachel scott most abortions take place early in gestation, when the fetus is far from being developed. you must believe that life begins at conception, and that’s fine. i’m simply stating my own opinion on this matter.

Eve Martin most abortions take place early in gestation, before fetal development really begins to progress. i don’t find abortion to be the same thing as murder.

Just Me i didn’t make any excuses, and i don’t believe it’s wrong.

Erin at what point do you determine life? This “gestation period” that you so call would be considered the embryo (before 8 weeks), which, at that point the babies heart, lungs, and brain waves are developed. I’m sorry but something with a beating heart has life- that is murder

I feel the statement about pro lifers screaming at you and yelling you're a sinner and going to hell is a thought you had because someone told thou that. Not because you actually saw it or experienced it? Usually pro lifers are not aggressive that like. I home you heal and see the truth one day of what really happened that day you went to get an abortion. It is sad how having a baby can be such a burden on people. I too hope you are not still with your then very unsupportive boyfriend.

@@gypsienova8256 i didn’t get an abortion lol.. i think u misunderstood my comment. i was saying: as a pro lifer, i don’t agree with the aggressive side of the pro life community. and no i haven’t experienced it but i have seen videos of aggressive pro lifers standing outside abortion facilities & yelling at the women going inside

In Gods Eyes She is a Murder! There is no way to say in a soft way. I hope she finds Jesus. Thats the only way to forgive her.

@@MrSteveRain god and Jesus don’t exist looney

@@MrSteveRain yes I agree. The problem is that we water down what murder actually is. There is 0 excuse for abortion. There is only hope in Jesus and without Jesus we think this is an option because our hearts are naturally wicked. I hope she finds God and she repents for killing an innocent baby. God can forgive if it’s repentance from the heart.

Midlife Credo i dont know you. But i am greatful you are alive rather than dead! Have a good day

KpopStanCaratReveluv That’s amazing! Nice to know some people still think about the child.

You are still unwanted

jax1492 And you are a cyber bully. They are wanted.

You were always wanted, either by your biological mother or your adoptive parents you always had a place in somebody’s heart. I’m glad you are doing good!

Robert Dennis Jesus

Thank you for contributing

Robert Dennis I do not believe this is just a woman issue. I have two sons. My oldest son I became pregnant with at 17 years old. I did not want an abortion and very much wanted my child. Six months after having my son his father left me high and dry for another woman. It was hard. But I remarried and gave birth to my second son. I always talked honestly with my boys about safe sex and that I didn't want a teen pregnancy to happen in their lives because I knew how hard it is. They also know that I am pro life. My oldest son's girlfriend becomes pregnant at 17. He was so afraid to tell me that he ended up telling me through text while she was in her second trimester. I just texted him back an "ok" and then cried for them all night. That Sunday my husband and I told our pastor at church. He responded with, "I think it's great! You guys are going to be Grandparents!" At that point I decided not to feel sad for them but to focus on the baby and be excited for them. He is now 4 years old and has a little brother that is two and yes it's still hard for them and they do struggle financially but I am so very glad that she didn't abort and I help them as much as I possibly can. I also enjoy spoiling those babies every chance I get. I can't imagine life without them.

sorry robert, as a woman I'm pro life and I think the choice ended when you decided to have sex unprotected (both parties not just women on birth control, bc isn't effective anyways). No one deserves to take a life away

@@leslieblanco3536 That's a weird take ... "You had sex, so therefore you MUST be a guardian to a human, whether you are a healthy person to do so, or not" . LOL LIKE WHAT?!

It's not that simple. And that statement definitely does not push the feelings away

u literally must not have a brain since you can’t spell ‘common’ or ‘sense’

@@mckinnonbrown8009 great counter points you made there..

@@karenflores4987 im not arguing im just saying people have these opinions but arent educated enough to spell.......seems their points are probably not educated either.

@@mckinnonbrown8009 you had spelling mistakes there too. I still understood your reply. When you are typing from a cell phone at least for me it's annoying to go back and fix every single typo. I disabled autocorrect because sometimes it changes the words and it's not helpful. Anyway, what I am trying to say is that you can have a more productive conversation by focusing on your counter points rather than pointing out spelling errors or typos. That gets nowhere. This is platform for exchange of ideas, opinions, etc. Everyone here is trying to share their comment or point of view. That is the purpose. There is a lot of educated people here. Just because they don't have the same views as you means they are ignorant or uneducated.

​@@karenflores4987 I didn't have any spelling mistakes- I just used 'chat speak'. I will spell out the word 'you' instead of using 'u' since it is apparently difficult for you to understand. I am a lot higher educated than most people commenting on this post and being educated has helped me understand the implications of women's rights opposed to 'i'm christian, so this is murder'. I don't have any qualms against religion- I find that a lot of people blindly follow it as a moral guideline despite the fact it was written thousands of years ago. Anyways, I will not ever have an abortion because I am a responsible adult and I'm tired of arguing with people on this page who don't even have the slightest idea of how women's bodies work. People are so ignorant on here. anyways. have a good day.

Stephanie's Musings are you pregnant now or did you already have the baby?

So qutrille : I just had my baby ten days ago! :D

17sunnyhour : My husband and I waited till AFTER we got married to start having sex, and my IUD was already in place on our wedding night... Am I supposed to have a sexless marriage, then? I accept the fact that having sex creates the chance of having a child, even if protection is used. But pregnancy and a child should not be punishment for having sex.

Stephanie's Musings congratulations! 😍. Being a mother has its ups and downs, but it is extremely empowering and rewarding. Make sure you form a support group around you. I don't have a lot of family so I had to look for that. Don't forget to still be you!

Shut the fuck up 17Sunny.

@@tommy5332 Yeah all these feminist do is lie and strawmam.

well she sorta killed a human being​

@@millihylands9529 Not sorta she straight up murdered.

But she had holiday plans

leoni rads you’re logic is hilarious. Let’s just kill them now so they don’t have the chance to go through hardships later. I’m sure they are very thankful.

That's true... And now her baby would be entering preschool, bringing home finger paintings, etc. She missed out on a lifetime of love and the child never got a chance... for a summer in Europe. This is so profoundly sad. Bad advice from mom and boyfriend.

@@sumtuus1229 People with children are statistically speaking less happy. So her life might be even better than what you're describing.

sumtuus1229 are you completely unable to empathize at all? this young girl was so brave to share her story, one that so many women go through and never get to speak about out of fear that people like you will completely disregard their feelings and make them feel ashamed on top of the whirlwind of emotions they’re experiencing just living through the aftermath of abortion. also, if you think it was simply for “a summer in europe” you must be stupid.

sumtuus1229 okay and? Who’s to say she won’t have kids in the future. Let women do what they want with their fetus #prochoice

She gave up her virginity. Then she killed her child. What does the Bible say about that?

She should really be ashamed she killed a child why didn't you just put the baby up for adoption I mean I'd rather be late than kill a child

@@dbagdaryl When she had an abortion the fetus is wasn't even the size of her pinkie. It is also not a child it's a fetus big difference.

@@animationdramanation5730 are you also aware that she had seven more abortions after this ಠ_ಠ

Thankyou. I really do appreciate it

+Becki C but she didn't have to do it!

+Penguin Pencil! What, are you going to take care of the child? How are you 100% certain that the child will go to a good home and not just stay in foster care???

+Penguin Pencil! but she did. I fail to see your point.

+SimplyMercyds My mother could have aborted me, but I was adopted at birth by two amazing parents. I am so grateful to be alive because it could have saved my biological mother so much distress. Foster care and adoption are completely different. There are SO many families looking to adopt babies from birth, it is usually arranged WAY before birth.. during the mother's pregnancy.

" And I was also not willing to grow my baby inside of me for 9 months and then give them up." Why not? How could killing the baby ever have been better than giving them up for adoption? If you had to change residences where you can have no pets, would you euthanize your pet or at the very least attempt to place it in a shelter? Most people would take the pet to a shelter and let it live , how much more should one do that with a human being. I am sorry to be so blunt but frankly you are still in denial and rationalizing what you did. "Only you know what's best for yourselves." No, I'm sorry God created humans and He understands what is best for us. That is why there is a prohibition against murder in the 10 commandments. I wish you no harm but you will never find peace until you realize what you have done and cry tears of repentance and call to God for forgiveness. I have a female relative that had an abortion in part because of the conniving of her husband and the gynecologist. She never acknowledged her part in what she did and has developed a fairly serious mental illness. I have another friend who had an abortion, after some years of having no peace she repented and spends her Saturdays in front of Planned Parenthood begging women not to go through with their scheduled abortions. She has peace and forgiveness and she wants to prevent women from going through the hell she went through. Now she has the satisfaction that dozens of beloved children are alive and loved by their parents either biological or adoptive because of her counsel. Unfortunately that one child died but God has prevented the lives of dozens from being lost through her.

4Veritas I don’t believe in God and I don’t let religion rule my life. I am sorry for what I did, but I’m also rational and know I had no other choice. I’m not judging you for believing in God and following his/her rules, but please stop thinking that that is the only way to live and be accepting of other people’s ways of living, just like God teaches.

4Veritas Abortion was practiced in the Bible if a woman was found to be guilty of cheating on her husband. Read your Bible instead of pulling nonsense out of your ass.

Francesca Villani Thank you for sharing your story. 💛

Hornnnnn!

Princess Yazz wow I'm 16 to getting my abortion tomorrow

Lots of love to you ❤ Hope it goes well and puts you on the path toward healing from what happened to you.

ThickMaNi how did it go , did everything go well? I’m planning on going tomorrow as well

Please tell me you haven’t done it yet my god

julissa villa everything went great !! Just lots of bleeding like a period how did URS go love

+Marina Munuera-Esteller when you become pregnant is shouldn't become a choice.

+Marina Munuera-Esteller the choice should come before the pregnancy

+Marina Munuera-Esteller I'll stop spreading hate when women getting abortions stop spreading their legs.

+Marina Munuera-Esteller Stfu you stupid ass femifuck with shit for brains. This is not about knowing how it feels and I can give a fuck less how it feels because I dont need to know and I wont have to.

+Marina Munuera-Esteller No I dont have to know youre right because im not a woman. How about you stop calling others ignorant when you are the one shaming men because they dont know what its like to have babies.

Amilah if they really wanted a child they wouldn't be so picky and just adopt one A girl getting an abortion has nothing to do with their problems and calling them whores for taking their right is so wrong

Hunter Clasen - True. They probably told her that at the clinic but I'm just assuming as it is different from one state to the next, one clinic to the next. Perhaps if someone has anxiety of doing a full 9 months, adoption might not sound so great either. Also, I bet some have a fear if they decide to carry out the term for adoption, they might even change their mind and feel obligated to keep the baby for themselves, which is a lot of anxiety if one is very young, unprepared emotionally, socially and economically for such a life changing event.

Amilah lost people are not sexually educated and it should be mostly the guy to be educated about it instead of having sex with random girls knowing there's a chance he can get her pregnant and if she does she can abort and since she's some random girl it's not his business.

TheComment YouScrolledPassed are you a dumbass? Abortion will never be banned Abortion justifies for the girl it's what she wanted and it's her right and choice DEAL WITH IT and instead of worrying about someone else's business worry about starving children on the street, kids getting abused, and those kids that will never be adopted To excite that person has to be here and not in a whom it's not yet a person yet and it's life has not started.

TheComment YouScrolledPassed I'm not gonna bother reading you don't want to get it's not your body or choice nor business It's an option like adoption and raise it deal with it and worry about yourself or kids on the street starving and being abused not a girl taking her right and dealing with her business

She is dumb she murdererd a baby she should be in jail for the rest of her life

+Ema Atwell I'm sorry you feel this way.

Thankyou for your kind words

+nick williams don't talk like that. it was wrong but don't you think she's hurt too? have you never done anything wrong before?

+Giovanni Valtimo apparently she's not hurt if she said she has no regret of doing it

Chelsea Hansell i am in the same situation right now. I have a son turning one on the 9th this month. and I am pregnant again. I have no idea what to do and I have to decide tomorrow.

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@@laurenelizabethfox1440 did you keep your baby

Catherine Rothe yes I did!!! He turns 7 months next month. And I’m so glad I did!

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That’s not something to be proud of.

inuyashakarin mind your business. It’s HER life. Not yours.. the fuck

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Lola Hart mind your own then 😂. You should never be proud that you’re pregnant at 14. You just ruined your life, and that parasites life as well. You’re going to struggle the rest of your miserable life trying to raise a parasite.

inuyashakarin how did she ruin her life if she seems pretty stable and happy but go off I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m 18 about to be 19 and pregnant did I ruin my life too ? Because I’m stable and happy as fuck lol weirdo

Ava Goodwin you’re not pro choice, god says abortion is a sin

Model Maker i am pro choice because I say I am i know what god said. And I won't get an abortion but if you do want abortion I'll be fine with someones choice 😀

So I guess think someone can also be a married bachelor too.

alichrsha1 if they want to 🙄 im just saying choose to believe what you want to do. Even if I think it's wrong because I am not God so that means you nor anyone can judge someone else

Do you judge child molesters?

pmsl.... BEST comment ever! :)

It wasn’t planned parenthood. It was an abortion clinic in Calgary.

If you would listen she went to a abortion clinic that only does abortions you don’t get pap smears at a abortion clinic . Smh get your facts straight before you go acting like a smartass

TECEZ 23 But the money making part is abortion. oh and selling body parts, that too.