Yeaa, right? Alsoo, imagine how many birthday and or Christmas gift he’ll receives hahha

midnight thoughts LMAOOOOO his room will be filled with toys and books

and cousins 😂 if every sibling has 2 kids at least haha that makes 24 😂

anelad malia i- OMG 😂

@@midnightthoughts5572 yeah first grandbaby with lots of aunts and uncles lol

And dadda😊

Thats so sweet of u to say

Yes he is

I know right 😭❤️

Yes he is

To do full anesthesia is really rare and extreme, isn't it? I've only heard of people needing it when somethings seriously bad happens. Even most pregnancy complications can be done with normal, conscious c-section.

Hi I'm Dad Yeah this was very rare, last time I remember hearing about someone being completely knocked out was because of blood pressure problems

Hi I'm Dad The only time they do general anesthesia is when there is a life threatening situation that could affect the mother, baby, or both. Her experience was an extreme situation and they had to act fast. The hormone situation is different for her because she wasn’t already in active labor about to give birth. My birth story is vastly different because I was in labor for 14.5 hours and actively pushing for 2.5 hours before I had to switch to having a C-section. I had pre-eclampsia and am diabetic so I was scheduled to be induced at 38 weeks. I had been on modified bed rest since 30 weeks and was dilated to a 3.5 cm at that point. The day I went in I was 4.5 cm and having regular contractions every 3-5 minutes. They broke my water and the contractions immediately amped up to every 2 minutes and were a minute long. They setup the pitocin at the lowest dose, but they didn’t activate it. I got my epidural a few hours later because I were pretty intense. Even though I was pushing right she wouldn’t descend and then her heart rate started dropping and taking a long time to recover. My doctor said I could keep pushing,but he was getting concerned because of her heart rate dropping. She was my 7th pregnancy and the only one who came home so he didn’t want to risk her health or mine which was why we opted for a C-section. I was awake, very nauseous and had my eyes closed for most of it. The reason she didn’t descend was because she was in the wrong position and had gotten stuck on my pelvic bone. Because I hadn’t slept the night before I crashed in recovery and my husband got to bond with our daughter. After we got to our room and she was checked out in the nursery she was in the room with us and we got to bond and count fingers and toes and just stare at our beautiful baby who was extremely alert from the second she came out. We swaddled her and put her in the bassinet to sleep,but she wouldn’t go to sleep. (I have years of experience caring for babies /children from birth through teenage years as aunt,a babysitter, a live in nanny as well as a day time nanny for different families for over 20 years.) after a good 20 minutes of her staring at me and making little I’m not happy sounds ,but not crying I asked my husband to hand her to me since I wasn’t allowed to get up yet after surgery. I put her on my chest and she immediately went to sleep. I didn’t have any issues with bonding and I didn’t have any strange hormone problems that she mentioned. However I did have complications due to the pre-eclampsia and retaining fluid. When you are hooked up to IVs you get pumped full of extra fluid which helps flush out toxins. They tend not to mention that you will get more swollen and uncomfortable before the fluid starts rapidly going away. My doctor really didn’t want me to go home on that Friday or Saturday following her birth on Monday and if he had mentioned the risk of my incision opening I would have stayed in the hospital. He was releasing us with my staples still in and I had an appointment with him on Monday. The nurse doing the discharge insisted that she had to remove the staples because that was his standard order and she wasn’t going to leave them in. Thankfully she missed one staple. I felt great and I had energy and yes I could suddenly start crying for no reason which is normal after having a baby. Because I felt so awesome I stupidly decided that we would go to church. It would have been fine except for the fact that when I went to sit down next to my husband I felt a pop and a gush of warm fluid go down my legs and into the carpet. The outer layers of my incision had split open a good 4-5 inches and was constantly leaking fluid. Talk about being freaked out and scared. The rumors started flying around that I had hemorrhaged and had to be rushed to the hospital. This was before cellphones by just a year, so we drove home and called my doctor who basically said that it wasn’t unusual and that he had planned to drain it on Monday at my appointment. He wasn’t happy to hear that the nurse had removed the staples and was extremely happy that she missed one. We had to clean and cover the incision twice a day until it closed from the inside out. We also had to drive an hour each direction so that he could check it twice a week until my last appointment at 8 weeks when it had healed. I took Demmoral in the hospital for pain and had a prescription for it to take at home for a few weeks, but I only took it if I really needed it because I hate taking medications and I happen to be highly allergic to most pain medications and especially anything with codeine in it. It makes it difficult to find something that I can tolerate whenever I have an injury or surgery. Thankfully I am blessed with an extremely high pain tolerance.

@@meiraloraduncan8953 Wow, you are incredible. Thank you for taking the time to not only educate me but also to share your incredible birth story. You're an amazing mother and I hope you and your family are filled with love and good health in these hard times. Now I'm gonna go chop some onions and pretend I didn't just cry at your beautiful story. 💛

The reason why they rushed her into surgery was because she was GUSHING blood even with a thick maxi pad inside a pair of Depends, which signalled something was very wrong (An abruption can become fatal to both mother and baby VERY quickly). My mom also had a placental infection and abruption with my brother, but hers was gradual with a slow fluid leak when her water broke at 29 1/2 weeks (yes 29) and the doctors were able to stall her labour while they gave her an IV of surfactant to help his lungs. After 32 hours they decided to perform a non-emergency C-section because his arm was up and in the way, and she couldn’t push him out like that. She was able to be awake with my dad right next to her, and he came out weighing a robust 3 pounds 9 ounces for his gestational age.

Yes she is a strong woman.

Are you in the UK?

Prerna Thakkar no this is on america, everything medical costs so much

In Germany, everybody would have called the ambulance and it would came within a few minutes with an emergency doctor due to the bleeding. Things are very unfair in America!

I really doubt she was deterred by cost. It sounded like she didn’t realize how serious things were until well on the way. The ambulance here can speed but doesn’t have a doctor on board so once in route, she may as well just get to the hospital.

Another thing you might not realize is rural towns don't have the same resources. I don't know for sure where she is, but the EMTs in my town have to get to the station in 4 minutes. Then it might take them however long to get to the house. Then from the house to the hospital. And they have limited training and resources. Sometimes it's just faster to go yourself if able.

Same!

My baby was in the NICU for a month...she had been born two months early....I can totally relate to this. Like....I didn't feel some sort of instant attachment or anything. I wanted to see and hold her, but it was more like mind as opposed to heart. Fast forward to a couple weeks later, and I would literally cry just looking at her because I'd be like "you're so adorable and so precious and I love you and want to give you all the love and all the hugs and all the kisses" 😭🤗😚

I felt like this with my second son, I didn’t do skin to skin right away I just wanted to see my husband hold him. I was exhausted 😩 but he is the most attached to me out of my three boys!

I didnt feel the bond either when I gave birth to my twins. They were like little strangers to me that I knew I had to take care of but it didn't feel real that I was their mom and they were my babies. It came naturally little by little :) I didn't cry when I saw them the first time or hold them, but I do cry like a baby when I watch other women give birth on tv. That's weird lol.

Me too screaming at my phone waaaaves Christina waaves lmao

Those were the exact two words I said too😂

Wavesssssssss

Haha I was saying the exact same thing(s)...& only reason I knew the words is bc of all my friends having babies lol

@@jenniferkelly1343 i was screaming PERIODICCC😂😂😂😂😂

This 👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽 And it could happen as far as 8-10 months after the baby is born, it happened to me because I suppressed it for so long I almost took my life because I felt so alone.

Carly Reneau I’m so happy you’re still here. 🤍 please don’t leave. It always gets better even if you think it won’t. Praying for you.

Alexandra Morgan I have 4 reasons to live, my 3 sons and hubby I’m not leaving at all!!

@Matthew Aleksander expensive? Calling 911 emergency is expensive? I'm sorry I'm not from the USA so maybe I'm not aware😅

yeah i thought the same thing, here where I live (Brasil) it’s free to call an ambulance!

An ambulance costs a lot of money

@@eduardabeck179 same I live in Italy

It seems like she didn’t understand how serious it was until nick was already taking her to the hospital

The funniest comment 😂

You are so strong. Have an amazing day. Sending luv all the way from India 💗

I was born 9 days later too. but I'm a July baby.

@@adelinasecuiu9758 was your birth a vacuum assisted one?

Aww glad to hear

Aww I’m glad your both great♥️

@@taydemecho8413 thanks I'm still trying to get over the birth xx

I'm a rainbow baby

Wow thank you!!

She sounds like dani too lmaoo

@@princessconsuelabananahamm6191 exactly lol. And facial expressions are so similar also

That's what I was thinking 😂

Yeah, especially when she sniffles!

Yes.