My Breakup Story - Travel Confessions and a Barbershop Shave in Paris

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Jay Swanson

Jay Swanson

Күн бұрын

Gotta get a solid shave before the wedding! And then tell you why this trip for the wedding is a little bittersweet. Thankfully it's mostly sweet 🥂 Help me make better videos at / jayswanson and then find me on the internet in all of the usual spots:
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My name is Jay Swanson - I'm an American writer living in Paris on an artist visa and hoping to make the city of light my home base - at least for the foreseeable future. I write science-fiction and fantasy, vlogged daily for 3+ years, and love pizza a little too much.
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FAQ:
How long have you lived in France? On and off for over two years.
What do you miss most about ho- NACHOS
You're always talking about living on some ship. WHAT SHIP? - I made a "Draw My Life" video that explains a lot here: • Draw My Life
Where are you from originally? - Pullman, Washington - a small university/agricultural town near Idaho (and yes, the potatoes are amazing).
What do you film with? - I've made a lot of changes recently, but I try to keep my gear list up to date if you want to see what I use and buy some for yourself: bit.ly/JaysGearList
What do you edit with? - Adobe Premiere - it's pretty much all I've ever used since high school.
Aren't you ever freaked out by leaving your camera behind to film yourself? - Yep. But not too badly - I tend to be careful when I do.
Why are you living in #Paris? - Because I've always wanted to; I feel at home here: • Why I Want to Live in ...
Do you speak French? - Oui. • Un Jour en Francais (E...
Do you make money off KZfaq? - Ha, sorta. I wish. It took me over 500 videos to make my first total $100 off adsense. I think it will slowly change, but VERY slowly.
I really enjoy your videos, how can I support you? - The easiest and best way to support me is through Patreon, where you can pitch in as little as $1/mo to help me make better videos: / jayswanson
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Thanks for watching!

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@ReticulatingSplines_
@ReticulatingSplines_ 4 жыл бұрын
As a girl myself, I definitely appreciate how respectful you are about keeping personal things with people you date off the vlog. It's a good call. You'll find the right one for you. She's out there, probably feeling a lot like you are now.
@silvied6123
@silvied6123 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being a human blogger and sharing your life behind the scenes. I see some other video bloggers with the same frozen smiles and it doesn't seem realistic. Nobody can be "on" all the time.
@doringheorghe9267
@doringheorghe9267 4 жыл бұрын
Come on Jay, cheer up! You're smart, incredibly talented and live in, probably, the best city in the world for creative people like you. It's a perfect match! Someday, all the loose ends will make knots! Cheers! 🍷
@shelaghjackson9577
@shelaghjackson9577 4 жыл бұрын
Have fun with your family. There’s a saying: “What’s for you won’t go past you.”!
@yvonnerahmes9618
@yvonnerahmes9618 4 жыл бұрын
I love the mustache, don't mind the beard when you want one :) Enjoyed this video, especially seeing the French barber! I've been married 42+yrs to my dh, and as much as I love "it"- life can be hard as you know, in or out of a relationship. Don't live by anyone else's expectations, and feel free to be yourself in all of life, unabashedly. I believe you have a lot of people here and in your life that wish you well in all things, accept you happily as you are en total. The struggle IS REAL, even for ones who "seem" to have it all. Bottom line, you have my prayers! And I send them also to your family and grandmother :) One of your best videos Jay, thank you.
@deledition6335
@deledition6335 4 жыл бұрын
Winters come, Spring follows, and life renews itself. Each blade of grass and colorful flower that come with spring reflect how beautiful life can be.
@JCF072344
@JCF072344 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jay from a bald old guy here in Washington State--the haircut and shave (which I've never had professionally done) look great on you. The hot towel on the bald pate feels wonderful and it never lasts long enough. Wear your new look with pride. I liked seeing the Parisian barbershop experience. Thanks for sharing.
@cindyhartigan432
@cindyhartigan432 4 жыл бұрын
In the middle of the chaos is a quiet place. I often say I feel solace in the pressure of the quicksand. It causes you to be still and utterly aware. Take your time, reflect and refocus, there's no hurry.
@Rangerphillips
@Rangerphillips 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jay been watching you since planning a trip to Paris with my daughter and haven’t stopped watching since. You bring a lot of joy to people! Please realize all the good you do by sharing your life and experiences with others, we all appreciate you!
@rsrch412
@rsrch412 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing the more personal side in this vlog. I'm here for the views of Paris, the business of creative life, and the character of the artists (and Gustave). I appreciate how you place a value on self-care, and honesty, as we could all use a reminder! 🤗🇨🇦
@natehadad4344
@natehadad4344 4 жыл бұрын
Jay, what a great video!!!!!! I love the balance you put on what you do, keeping you personal private must be super difficult but you do it well. Thanks for being a gentleman!!!!
@erinintechnicolourII
@erinintechnicolourII 4 жыл бұрын
I understand the feeling of "this ___ was meant to be with them". It's something that's taken me a long time to be able to get past. There's no advice I can offer, you just have to let your feelings happen and then keep going
@ninash9385
@ninash9385 4 жыл бұрын
These are the times of personal growth ❤ hugs for you!
@pjh7423
@pjh7423 4 жыл бұрын
Just my thoughts but you can’t hide something like a GF or Wife without the emotions feeding over into other aspects of your life. Vlogging is such an important aspect of your life and it affords you the freedom to express your creativity in so many different/amazing ways and anyone you’re dating has to be ok with that. I get the privacy part as I’m a somewhat private person but to bottle up those emotions (both good and bad) is not healthy for anybody and can spiral anyone into a roller coaster of emotions (think 500 Days of Summer). At the end of the day it’s your decision but in my experience trying to hide a GF from my friends and/or family has never ever worked for me.
@anaa9456
@anaa9456 4 жыл бұрын
Just watched your video. First, thank you for sharing. I hope you find healing as you move forward on a different path. Kudos to you and your maturity, respect, and kindness to yourself and to others in your world. Kudos to therapy. Kudos to looking at the positive and remembering that those moments counted and meant a lot. Many blessings to you! 🙌🏽
@GraceReport
@GraceReport 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry about your breakup, Jay! Hope you still enjoy your trip back home :)
@kimm3473
@kimm3473 4 жыл бұрын
This was such a beautiful, honest video. Glad you are putting some of the daily vlog energy into your wellness, Jay! P.S. Love the intro!
@ReticulatingSplines_
@ReticulatingSplines_ 4 жыл бұрын
You look good dude. Sorry you've been going through stuff. Hopefully the change of scenery will be a mood booster for you.
@kathrynyates4446
@kathrynyates4446 4 жыл бұрын
Love the mustache!!! And appreciate all you share, personally and of Paris.
@missioncreekstyle3814
@missioncreekstyle3814 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful little episode, Jay. Thanks for sharing. Think you found the way to speak about your personal life in this video. Not too much, but enough to say we know you better now. Keep up the excellent work.
@bookswithb2684
@bookswithb2684 4 жыл бұрын
Damn man, you’ve got a lot going on...heavy stuff. I’m sad to hear about the things that didn’t work out. It’s a new year, and I hope it’s good to us both. I could use a positive upswing myself. Thank you for sharing with us. Sending you good vibes. ✨ Have fun at the wedding and I hope spending time with your family will be awesome. Love the stache, miss the beard, take care of yourself Sidenote, woot!! To seeing a therapist!! It’s one one my health goals this year. 👍🏾
@edroso5989
@edroso5989 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jay, the last period wasn't great for you. But there will come a time when everything will fall into place. It can only get better. Have a good time with your family and enjoy your time in the States.
@martyschwebel6407
@martyschwebel6407 4 жыл бұрын
I'm watching your blog and listening. Thanks for the therapist shout out! And I envy the moustache.
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in your state!🕺🥂🕺
@kelerenmillham6451
@kelerenmillham6451 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your balance of respect of self, others and transparency. Thank you for your creative gifts, poet's soul, and integrity. Thank you for sporting -if briefly- a killer villain stache. Thank you for you.
@LindaStitches
@LindaStitches 4 жыл бұрын
Jay, Your honesty with yourself and us out here is wonderful. Yay for therapy! Happy for you. Rock on!
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@Book0fRevelations
@Book0fRevelations 4 жыл бұрын
That near miss with the barbers fingers 😂😂😂😂😂 Hilarious
@julie_fitzgerald
@julie_fitzgerald 4 жыл бұрын
So nice of your friend to leave his coffee place to join and wait, thought he was getting something done too
@SloeJynFizz
@SloeJynFizz 4 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video, and thank you for sharing what's going on. I feel ya with the career/friends/family situation changes. It can be heavy. But although I am normally #teambeard the mustache is awesome and made me smile. 😀 Can't wait to see the wedding video!
@gr8fulted49
@gr8fulted49 4 жыл бұрын
Good vlog today. Thanks for sharing. FYI, it's suppose to be rain/snow mix here on the east side of the Cascades this weekend. Loved that you're using the Osmo Pocket (Freewell's got an excellent wide angle lens for it where the edges are clear and not bent). I've got one and enjoy it. Hoping you don't drown in your grief and come through it well. There is an impermanence to all things. Be well! PS: Glad you made it to Provins. I've been there a couple of times and it's a terrific day trip despite that weird track change at the end of the regular line.
@aaronhillmusic
@aaronhillmusic 4 жыл бұрын
Jay, I see you're once again following my sister's advice: Shave your head, change your luck! You're on the right track. Have a safe trip to the Evergreen State! Time with family has a way of putting one back on the straight and narrow. Thanks for another beautiful and honest video. I'm rooting for you!
@AnitasDreams
@AnitasDreams 4 жыл бұрын
Glad that you are getting to see your family soon. i'm glad that you chose to see a professional. It's great to get a perspective from someone that is not invested in your daily life. Can give you some good clarity. There will be many loves & losses in your life but each brings lessons for us & prepares us for new relationships. Have a great trip!!!!
@JD987abc
@JD987abc 4 жыл бұрын
Jay. Breakups are horrible. I’ve been through a 28 yr marriage, death of my girl friend, and break up with a woman I took to Paris twice even to my nephews wedding. It gets better. You are much younger than I. Therapy is a big help so stick with it. I call it a special gift I give to myself.
@joyal77
@joyal77 4 жыл бұрын
Part of life🙏hard at times! That's tough but it's when we grow the most. Have a great trip and time with your family!!!
@_ohbuh_9472
@_ohbuh_9472 4 жыл бұрын
That was a good share even though it might have been difficult. Keep trucking and what makes you happy. Best- TGT
@clairemccallumgibney
@clairemccallumgibney 4 жыл бұрын
Much love to you and your family Jay
@TxKLR650Adv
@TxKLR650Adv 4 жыл бұрын
Chin up Jay! Pulling for you on you adventure though life!
@erinmh
@erinmh 4 жыл бұрын
I half-expected the barber to wap wap wap wap your shiny head with his towel, kind of like a newly waxed car. Also, this video is not sad, it’s real life! Changes and evolving can’t help but bring their share of grief and sadness. Glad you found some support with therapy, too. Have fun in my hometown of San Diego! Git you some nachos boy. You’ll feel right as rain. 🌴☀️🌊
@brittanyr1210
@brittanyr1210 4 жыл бұрын
Sending you hugs Jay! I went through a similar breakup experience this summer but having a change of scenery + being around friends and family will help! Also focusing on those things that you enjoy doing, old hobbies/interests you’ve put on pause etc. It’s taken me a few months to feel like myself again but I’m just giving myself time and space to do the things that make me happy 😊 therapy is life changing! My life did a whole 180 in all areas (personal, career, relationships) when I started going. Anyway, sending good vibes!
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
That's a resounding recommendation if I've ever heard one! Glad things have gone so much better for you 😊🍻
@lauriecalery8801
@lauriecalery8801 4 жыл бұрын
Villainous almost biting fingers of the barber, so funny! An A+ for creating wrapping 101. Thanks for sharing the personal stuff, it certainly bridges some gaps. Self care good. #keepmovingforward. Cheers! 😎 I miss the dailies. Wishing you the best.
@gypsyrubbertramps3487
@gypsyrubbertramps3487 3 жыл бұрын
Puddle pictures have always been a favorite of mine! Good job once again on your video....you have been an inspiration in my creativity 👍👍👍👍👍👍
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I love those photos too
@DFTBAndy
@DFTBAndy 4 жыл бұрын
Good to hear from you again! Yesterday in the evening I randomly wondered what has become of Jay.. I still like your style! Take care :)
@paulhorton5612
@paulhorton5612 4 жыл бұрын
Pendant ces périodes douloureuses il faut se souvenir des choses qui ont le pouvoir t'inspirer le plus. Tu nous inspires aussi. Solidarité avec toi.
@gillwhiteman7248
@gillwhiteman7248 4 жыл бұрын
Take care, Jay. I appreciate your openness and your creativity.
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, you too!
@andreahayes8133
@andreahayes8133 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Sending you positive thoughts..
@momcation9786
@momcation9786 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jay, it's sad to know that your relationship didn't work out. Things happen for a reason. I'm sure you'll meet someone special again! Change is good and life goes on. Count your blessings!
@maxwellwellmax878
@maxwellwellmax878 4 жыл бұрын
sorry about the break up, i see ache on your expression when you talked about her. I hope with time you will feel better. Thanks for showing me the parts of Paris I never knew.
@karentozer1871
@karentozer1871 4 жыл бұрын
I just love all your vlogs Jay, hoping your trip back to family gives you a boost. I think you look great with moustache, beard and clean shaven, you should go with the look that makes YOU feel good. Nice having the ‘talk in the car’ vlog for a change, as the saying goes ‘variety is the spice of life’ so keep doing what you are doing x
@acivilright
@acivilright 4 жыл бұрын
Been there recently myself. Break ups are hard. When my partner of 3 years left to return to France in early fall, I felt horrible for three months. I still can be triggered to tears by the most random reminders. Therapy definitely has helped. Be well.
@denisebonner889
@denisebonner889 4 жыл бұрын
Iam giving you a hug right now!
@peterad1529
@peterad1529 4 жыл бұрын
I love it Jay,. I dig the mustache!
@janeth4982
@janeth4982 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jay! So glad I came across your channel recently. Love your creativity and honesty (and stache :-)). I lived in Paris for 5 years (2000-2005) so it’s been fun to see what has changed as well as learn about your own more modern experience (which often resonates). The idea of changing identity I can relate to. You mentioned in another video that there are periodic meetups...I’m visiting 2nd week of March with my daughter...thought it would be fun to chat with expats as a former one. How would one find out if there are any? Have fun at the wedding!
@andreaschiltz1915
@andreaschiltz1915 4 жыл бұрын
Jay, so sorry to hear about your relationship. Glad you are getting to spend some time back "home" though it may not be as planned. Enjoy your time. Sounds like it is coming at a good time for you. As for the moustache. It is growing on me, BUT I really like the beard much better. ;) Safe travels.
@paulgreenlee7123
@paulgreenlee7123 4 жыл бұрын
Joann loves the hotel Deville, I also think it’s a fine Building. Thank you for that great time lapse
@MMP1116
@MMP1116 4 жыл бұрын
I’m #teammustache for sure! I dig the “villain” look. Sending good thoughts to you as you process all these many transitions. I’m glad to hear your Mom and Dad are doing ok - that’s what I thought this video might be about initially. Have fun at the wedding! I am heading out of state for a family wedding this weekend as well - but I’m photographing it. :)
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
I'm reeeeeally tempted to replace my broken drone this week just so I can fly it at the wedding...... sooooooooooo tempting! And thanks Michelle - I appreciate it (and will put your vote in for #teammustache 😉)
@MMP1116
@MMP1116 4 жыл бұрын
Oooh, do it!! Drone shots are the best. My wedding is in Washington DC, so no drone shots allowed in that airspace, I’m quite sure.
@peggyrambo10
@peggyrambo10 4 жыл бұрын
Love mustache! It’s been a last few months for several people I know. Including myself. Praying for you and your lovely family. Big hug 🤗
@csjames69
@csjames69 2 жыл бұрын
I just watched another video of a travel blogger like yourself, an American but based in London who went through a divorce. Relationship break ups suck but look at these situations in a positive way. Hopefully you meet someone great! Always love your videos!
@rcole1958
@rcole1958 4 жыл бұрын
Let the sadness and vulnerability out, my brother!
@andreamoboe
@andreamoboe 4 жыл бұрын
Love the new look Jay! 😀 👨🏻‍🦰👍🏻 Safe travels ✈️ Greetings from Australia ☀️☀️
@michellem9619
@michellem9619 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your breakup! Sending you hugs from Texas! Ps-#TeamBeard ☺️
@300books
@300books 4 жыл бұрын
Jay, your new look reminds me of a Victorian-era explorer. All that's missing is a hot air balloon and gold pocket watch, and maybe Jules Verne for company.
@binflynn1
@binflynn1 4 жыл бұрын
Being so smooth highlights the moustache very nice, enjoy being home make the most of it
@zerofuks416
@zerofuks416 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to come back for a 3rd time. So many other places to explore though. My ex is in Paris so it would be hard to go back. So many memories. Even watching you vlog is sometimes hard. *sigh* Cheers to you, Jay. Still appreciate your content and will stay subbed no matter what 😊
@judyt.5702
@judyt.5702 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you are going to see your family. Tell Grandma Jane hi. Love to you and family. Glad you are talking things out w therapist. You are healing. I am with you . Hugs
@teresasmith6076
@teresasmith6076 4 жыл бұрын
Looking good!
@JD987abc
@JD987abc 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent stash. I wore a handle bar stash back in my college days. A good stash wax is essential.
@zoenewman8563
@zoenewman8563 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder what and who is waiting for you? ...I’m excited about your future ! Safe trip and enjoy the love of your family 🥰
@EOdonn4138
@EOdonn4138 4 жыл бұрын
Take the time you need to find that special friend. Keep the Faith, and just be yourself.
@michaelbrennan5433
@michaelbrennan5433 4 жыл бұрын
Keep the mustache, it works with the twist. Knew there had to be someone, now it explains the jump into exercising. Hang in there, it gets better. Too many beautiful ladies in Paris
@sherrieshatzen3801
@sherrieshatzen3801 4 жыл бұрын
The mustache is really cool. And you are equally handsome without it. Feel free to change it up at will;-) Thanks for the update.Obviously your life is big than your videos--even when it was daily. I appreciate your willingness to share and respect your desire to protect others in your life when that is appropriate. You are always thoughtful and you always try to be aware of your impact. I value your humanity as much as anything-everything -else that comes from your vlogs.
@mhsvz6735
@mhsvz6735 4 жыл бұрын
Dude, you could make a great caricature with your new look. Love the mustache!
@rc9272
@rc9272 4 жыл бұрын
Liking the new look. Good to hear you're going to therapy, it's very helpful to learn new useful tools and perspectives to handle life's challenges. There is a more noticeable increasingly mature and centered change to you and that must be one of the reasons why.
@Christopher-oj1nf
@Christopher-oj1nf 4 жыл бұрын
7:33 Jay, the camera (osmo?) does a really neat, slow pan that I don't think you were controlling with your muscles .. the cam just does it. Very nice effect. 8:35 Anyhoo sign .. where is this place /Picard guess: 'the garage' (looks studio-ish considering the Anyhoo sign placement) 20:32 context-interrupting shot: urban scenery (nice technique there)
@mawoodsies1
@mawoodsies1 4 жыл бұрын
Heartfelt....
@chrissycollett3679
@chrissycollett3679 4 жыл бұрын
Watching now
@thedavidguy01
@thedavidguy01 4 жыл бұрын
I'm just a stranger on the internet but I hope things get better for you emotionally. Hang in there! I'm rooting for you. Also, I hate the mustache.
@franziagirl
@franziagirl 4 жыл бұрын
well.. change is weird sometimes a new door to open! You live in Paris! You have more friends than i do!! You are a cool guy!! When me and my husband are in Paris we will look for you! Put yourself out there just like you are! Ask the universe for what you want!! Its all there! you are a bright light:)
@locNguyen-jb1vt
@locNguyen-jb1vt 4 жыл бұрын
good luck jay
@AnneMB955
@AnneMB955 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, made it to the end, although not a chore at all. Not usually a fan of mos (moustache in Auslingo) but yours looks suave. 😁
@stephaniemedina1848
@stephaniemedina1848 4 жыл бұрын
You are wise and sincere thank you for including us in your life God bless🌹🌷🐱😊🌈🌉🌃🌌
@nancyferrier8609
@nancyferrier8609 4 жыл бұрын
Clean shaven with the mustache suits you. With a little wax for special occasions. Breakups are horrible. I'm so glad you got professional counseling. It cuts through the crap and gives you tools to carry on. This wedding couldn't come at a better time. You can reconnect with your family, make use of that champagne sword and just get a change of scenery to refresh your perspective. Appreciate your honesty. For anyone looking to create an unconventional life it's wonderful to see the successes, the failures, the random events and always your love of the beautiful city of Paris and the people you encounter. I know it's difficult at times, but so many of us don't have your courage and energy, and live vicariously through you. Stay bold. Don't lose your sense of adventure. When opportunity knocks jump right in fearlessly. We are about to experience a whole new economic world. People like you may be the smartest ones. Write.
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nancy!
@weebie00
@weebie00 4 жыл бұрын
Even though the relationship didn't end the way you wanted, I'm just glad that you had one. Mystery solved!
@stephenward7856
@stephenward7856 4 жыл бұрын
If it helps Jay - you ask who you are? - you're someone who brings a lot of pleasure to people with the videos you make, showing them cool places with a great guide. Tnx!
@bonriver9420
@bonriver9420 4 жыл бұрын
The mustache looks very French. So sorry about the breakup. I am sure it is very painful for you to talk about. You are a great guy and there is some wonderful girl out there who will find you when you least expect it. Glad you are going to get to spend time with your family. Have fun at the wedding.
@NowYouSimi
@NowYouSimi 4 жыл бұрын
Transitions are so so difficult :( it’s a bit nihilistic, but what helps me is thinking about how nothing is forever. This funk? Not for forever. When things are good, it’s not for forever either, but more initiative to live presently and enjoy what we have in the moment! Also, winter. Winter is another confounding factor. Enjoy the California sun, and I think spring is coming earlier to Paris (could be speaking too soon here), so maybe we’ll get more sun in Paris once you’re back too.
@pattiblackwood8546
@pattiblackwood8546 4 жыл бұрын
Look forward to seeing Grandma (she's a hoot) and the rest of your family. Have a wonderful time and remember, time heals all wounds. Really. Yeah.... I'm a total cliché ;-) But it's true.
@nolanstamm7281
@nolanstamm7281 4 жыл бұрын
I love love love the mustache
@gailalbers1430
@gailalbers1430 4 жыл бұрын
swanson: i wish you All the best in your therapy journey! Are you using Betterhelp?
@lavinder11
@lavinder11 4 жыл бұрын
1. You look like Tom Hardy mixed with a Peaky Blinders character with the shave 2. Don't use gel to maintain the moustache, look for a stiff pomade. 3. Sorry to hear about the breakup, but I hope you don't feel like you need to share your private info.
@michellepetrin8651
@michellepetrin8651 4 жыл бұрын
Most importantly, the mustache is great. Glad you have the time to grieve and breathe now! :)
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks on both counts =)
@marianne3777
@marianne3777 4 жыл бұрын
Much Love from Copenhagen ❤️🥰🥰🥰👍
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
🥂
@martijnseverin
@martijnseverin 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you, probably a very hard step to make visiting a therapist. You can be proud of yourself what you achieved, are achieving and will achieve. Just keep it under control. 👍👍👍
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks =)
@2yoyodog
@2yoyodog 4 жыл бұрын
......a therapist who understands and can deal with the pitfalls of being a KZfaqr.
@Seascape17
@Seascape17 4 жыл бұрын
You look really cool with a waxed mustache you should always do that. Just this man’s humble opinion.
@KatianaAbdulahad
@KatianaAbdulahad 4 жыл бұрын
Going home is the best thing to do this period.... I've been there.. hold on, it will pass
@lorijohnston4311
@lorijohnston4311 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about the end of your relationship, Jay. It sounds like you're in a good place and moving forward through it. Sending you hugs and positive vibes. I'll second therapy - - it was great for me when I went through a marital break-up. BTW, love the 'stache and I'm a big fan of the beard/scruff! Safe travels and have a WONDERFUL time with your family!
@dixierosestudios
@dixierosestudios 4 жыл бұрын
🧡💜Sending you Lots of love, Jay. 💜🧡I just want to give you the biggest cyber-hug possible🙆🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️. Also, the head shave looks super smooth! Paul has great taste in barbers! But I'm #teambeard all the way. Mustache looks nice, but you can have a villain stache with a beard😉 gives you a better balance.
@pathallam986
@pathallam986 4 жыл бұрын
Ah, I had a feeling something was going on but couldn't put a finger on it. I wish there was a way to make it better but really, it is a question of time. I'm not one of those people who always say 'you'll find someone in the end' because that doesn't always happen, especially these days. Sorry! On the upside, I'm glad your mum is stable, I have wondered occasionally tho' I don't expect you to mention it. Hope you enjoy the wedding and, for the record, I'm #teambeard
@DoiPinoyAdventures
@DoiPinoyAdventures 4 жыл бұрын
hello watching from Dubai ....
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Heyo!
@rouanlin51
@rouanlin51 4 жыл бұрын
Hello from Taiwan 😍😍😍
@JaySwanson
@JaySwanson 4 жыл бұрын
Hey to Taiwan!
@AussieHeyJude
@AussieHeyJude 4 жыл бұрын
Well my thoughts Jay..... you be bald as a badger after that wonderful experience and as always busy as a beaver taking care of business. You amuse me no end and I take delight in your photography skills.... bonne chance with every little thing in 2020 👍
@lucysansom9739
@lucysansom9739 4 жыл бұрын
Sending you happy travel wishes ... and a #momhug.
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