my breakup: what I learned from my 5-year relationship
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Ай бұрынtoday's video is definitely different from my usual content. I talk about my breakup, and what I learned from my 5-year relationship. I hope this can be helpful to anyone who is going through or went through a similar situation. I learned so much from that experience, and I wanted to share that with you all
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@karalee21 Ай бұрын
i love the variety in content ur giving us! it lets us get to know u even better and makes u feel like even more of a best friend ❤️
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@l0lliezoe3x Ай бұрын
Couldn’t agree more! You’re getting more and more relatable x
@viktorialode Ай бұрын
You should do more podcast, loved the vid
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Hehe 🤭
@sabrinarenee8204 18 күн бұрын
“People fall SO in love with potential” wow
@destinyking8218 Ай бұрын
i've been following you since your college days & it's been so so beautiful to see you grow up, esp being similar in age! you've always been like an older sister! ty for sharing
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
omgg 🥹 I love love love you!
@valerysanchez Ай бұрын
thanks for such an open and honest talk, i loved this.
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
🥹♥️
@loup7182 27 күн бұрын
I LOVE this, you are in the exact situation my boyfriend was in, we found each other at the perfect time on our lives and this video helped me to understand him better. Thank you so much for that, and your authenticity
@emmaeck2626 Ай бұрын
Loved this 🫶🏻 thank you Paige for being so open and vulnerable with us ❤️
@jazminjimenez1929 27 күн бұрын
the way i resonated with this video is insane. thank you for your vulnerability & in sharing your experience paige ♥️
@lustinasea9755 Ай бұрын
im loving this new podcast style format, we want moooooore sending you love from morocco❤️
@coatminus6370 Ай бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable with us❤
@cklove3 29 күн бұрын
I’m going through the same situation right now and seeing this video has felt like a big positive affirmation on a lot of things that have been on my mind since the break up with my ex of 4 years. loved this sm ♥️needed 2 hear this
@PrincessJas24 28 күн бұрын
Omg love both of you guys! Such different but amazing energies! And I’m glad you are free 🫶🏽
@41lexx 28 күн бұрын
I liked this style video! Thanks for sharing. I left my 10 year relationship a few months ago and it’s been hard. This was a relatable topic and good perspective
@1031gem Ай бұрын
Omggg yay ! Been waiting for this one , ty for sharing
@sherylneptune 28 күн бұрын
When you spoke about rather being alone, I felt so seen. I'm really okay with being alone and so if I do have a partner, they really need to align with me and make my life better.
@carlisimoneg Ай бұрын
Ahhh! I've been waiting for this! I was in a very similar position around the same time of the life of your relationship and your breakup. Seeing you thrive after the breakup gave me so much strength to move forward with what I wanted for myself.
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Be so proud of yourself!! ♥️
@JulissaAlvarez18 Ай бұрын
I loved this video! I hope you do more like this ❤️
@perriewinkle 22 күн бұрын
Hi Paige, I was just brokenup with literally a few days ago after 5 years and a few months. I relate so much. Thank you for sharing, you seem like a wonderful person! This is also the first video of yours I see. Podcasts definitely suit you!
@abigailargueta6721 Ай бұрын
Love you and Christina together ❤ thank you for being open and vulnerable with us
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@oliviacolone Ай бұрын
we love you Paige, thank you for this video!! 🤍♥️
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@kennedysmith6967 27 күн бұрын
Please do more podcast!! Love this
@chiinyecerezo_ 20 күн бұрын
Wow I really loved this conversation. I went through my first breakup this year and at first I hated myself for not crying or doing anything, my emotions were numb and everything seemed pointless but with time I realized that we were not made for each other. It was my first relationship and I didn’t really know how to express my thoughts and concerns, but I learned so many things from it and it made me mature so much mentally. I haven’t started to date other people yet because I can’t force myself to meet new people and get hurt, but honestly I feel so seen with this convo and the guilt is really going away with time!! Thank u so much guys❤️
@chiinyecerezo_ 20 күн бұрын
Also I’m so sorry for any possible mistakes my first language is not English 😭🙏🏽
@sherylneptune 28 күн бұрын
This conversation was so important
@amiraelara Ай бұрын
just what i neede at this moment in my life, currently going thru it
@lovebugssoup161 23 күн бұрын
Needed this, currently in LDR
@jaisofiaxo Ай бұрын
Proud of you always Queen ❤❤
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
thanks angel 🥹
@jasminesophia5009 Ай бұрын
I absolutely lovvvvveddd this podcast type vibe video! The conversation was soo good and I think a lot of us girlies can resonate with it or just simply take away something important from this. Xoxo
@mhlmah Ай бұрын
lovedd this!
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@catherine1211 Ай бұрын
I’ve literally been subscribed since you did outfit of the days back in high school. I’m now 25 and I have a son. And about to be divorced, I really enjoyed this video and your thoughts. I completely agree.
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
so cute we got to grow together, I wish you the best angel ♥️
@catherine1211 Ай бұрын
@@PaigeSecosky same to you pretty girly 💗
@MabelPerez Ай бұрын
omg!!!!! i love it
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@opinionatednobody5631 Ай бұрын
the zoom ins were kinda distracting and a bit unnessarry imo but great video anyway love you paige will be saving this for the day i get out of a long term relationship. first step: get in one.
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
thanks for the feedback, love you ♥️
@christiancoleman4396 Ай бұрын
"will be saving this for the day i get out of a long term relationship" That's so weird to say. The fact that you're planning for the end of a long term relationship. Just don't get in a relationship lol
@v1ct0r1aas Ай бұрын
We love you!❤
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Love you!! ♥️
@anisafarooq1426 24 күн бұрын
This was amazing
@PaigeSecosky 24 күн бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@arathypanicker6052 Ай бұрын
Love you girl
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Love you ♥️
@JJ-lf4vq 27 күн бұрын
Very interesting, thanks for sharing. From someone that’s been in a relationship for 10 years & high school sweethearts, I don’t know if a long distance relationship is comparable to someone that spent the same amount of time with someone and it wasn’t long distance. Also when she said high school sweetheart relationships do the same thing years later. I wouldn’t say that’s always true if you’re not long distance. I think that plays a huge role in how a break up can affect someone/how a relationship grows. Just an opinion to share.
@PaigeSecosky 27 күн бұрын
Yes, I’m definitely speaking from a personal experience! Everyone’s relationship is different and some people can stay with their high school sweetheart forever but this was just my experience (:
@ligiamarquesz Ай бұрын
i want moreeee podcast!!
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Coming soon hehe
@sherylneptune 28 күн бұрын
I haven't been in long relationships because I always wanted to focus on my future. It was really hard to come to terms with this because I had met someone I really got on well with but truthfully I had no intentions on sacrificing some of my time so I had to give up on that. It's hard to be selfish at times because there's this feeling of what if I never get to experience this again. I would still encourage people to be selfish nonetheless.
@sherylneptune 28 күн бұрын
Can you do a segment with an anonymous advice thing. Like we send in scenarios about our live and you give us advice? Or we just send in things we want to hear other people's perspectives
@sherylneptune 28 күн бұрын
Please link Christina's podcast below😢
@leledawg83 16 күн бұрын
You can hear the wine kick in towards the end 😂
@parad.i 22 күн бұрын
We need a podcast!
@PaigeSecosky 22 күн бұрын
COMING SOON ILY
@kyrasimatos5600 Ай бұрын
Paige sundays🩷
@shelby1335 Ай бұрын
u have a blog???? omg what world am i living? i didnt know this
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
I’m working on one
@PrincessJas24 28 күн бұрын
Also! Can you tag Christina’s podcast?
@PaigeSecosky 28 күн бұрын
yes!! here: kzfaq.info/love/ixA_L-Y76JrIUnkKyxXILA
@elizaeli Ай бұрын
Hiiii❤❤❤ from 🇷🇴
@racheleleanor101 29 күн бұрын
collectively single era 🎀
@happywings15 Ай бұрын
What’s her friends page?
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Beautychickee!
@ruebennomura9143 Ай бұрын
That was amazing story of your relationship and you have to break up with your boyfriend
@lujain444 Ай бұрын
lmaooo
@ithomizy Ай бұрын
Love u 🫶🏽
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
Love you sm!!
@msactionpacked 23 күн бұрын
Hmm why is Paige calling her ex they/them?
@backthen4449 Ай бұрын
5:47
@l0lliezoe3x Ай бұрын
Why does she keep calling billy “they/them”
@bluerain1719 Ай бұрын
It might just be how she speaks, they both referred to him as, "him" later.
@KadriRoos Ай бұрын
qq
@nfvy8111 27 күн бұрын
“When you’re younger, be selfish” that is actually terrible advice. This main character syndrome is the reason young people now are as unhappier as ever, despite overconsumption and increased mobility.
@wee2424 Ай бұрын
its girls high standards that cause most relationships to end
@happywings15 Ай бұрын
I think if we were to really get to the bottom of it though, it’s miscommunication. Cause almost anything between people can be resolved or rephrased or get a second life and repurposed . But most of the time people want to give up quickly, or not properly and mutually communicate the issues the have .
@happywings15 Ай бұрын
Also is it really a high standard to want to be around the person you want to be in a relationship with when y’all get to control your situation? It’s not to say the guy was bad just to ask the question maybe this situation is revealing they’re not for me when the solution is for them to live in the same city and they’re unable to. If they were married it would be a different story because they made a convenient to be together no matter what but in this case you’re in a relationship to be partners as you pursue your purpose and if it’s in two different cities for 5 years idk how effective you are for eachother
@alexandracano5738 Ай бұрын
This helped me so much I really needed to hear this for my long term relationship and how we are also going on different paths ! Thank you for this 🩷
@PaigeSecosky Ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@sophiecampos4860 26 күн бұрын
Been watching you since your ootw vids by the staircase so i feel like i watched you grow and im so proud of how far you’ve got 🫶
@PaigeSecosky 25 күн бұрын
Love u sm 🥹
@angievanessacarigutierrez6741 22 күн бұрын
amé 🤍
@harriettbarton7372 28 күн бұрын
Honestly going through such a bad and confusing time with my partner and this has helped so much, you made me realise my life isn’t over and being alone and happy is better than being in a comfortable situation where your unhappy. Thank you so much for being so open and honest, exactly what I needed to hear today🤍🤍
@Lisaaaa_____ Ай бұрын
thank you for this, don't really want to elaborate but just : thank you
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