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My Coming Out Story - Weekly Vlog 33 - Paul Richmond Studio
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My Coming Out Story - Weekly Vlog 33 - Paul Richmond Studio
Hey everyone! Today's video deals with a topic that people are always asking about - my coming out story. I think it's cool to hear how different LGBTQ KZfaqrs made their journeys out of the closet, so I'm adding my own voice to the conversation. I was raised Catholic in a small, conservative part of the Midwest where sexuality was seen in pretty black and white terms. Even though I was confused and questioning from a very early age, I repressed those feelings because I didn't want to be a disappointment to my mom and dad. But I knew I was different, and this is the story of how I grew to accept myself for who I really am. I hope by sharing my story, the experiences I've had and the lessons I've learned will help inspire you to live as authentically as possible. Love you guys!
If you're struggling with how to come out or need support, here are some resources that may help:
The Trevor Project
www.thetrevorpr...
/ trevorprojectmedia
GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance) Network
gsanetwork.org/
/ gsanetwork
GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian, & Straight Education Network)
www.glsen.org/p...
/ glsenvideo
It Gets Better Project
www.itgetsbette...
/ itgetsbetterproject
GLAAD (Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation)
www.glaad.org/
/ glaadmedia
PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)
www.pflag.org/
/ pflagnational
HRC (Human Rights Campaign)
www.hrc.org/
/ hrcmedia
Ad Council
www.adcouncil.org/
/ adcouncil
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Check out the book "The O. Henry Prize Stories 2002" referenced in the video. The story that inspired me to come out is called Scordatura by Mark Ray Lewis.
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Step into the weird and wonderful world of artist Paul Richmond, where anything could go down -- even a pin-up boy's pants! We're all a little high on paint fumes around here, so grab a brush and join the painting party!
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Intro animation: donisalexandru
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@bybewill24 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story.
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
My pleasure! Thanks for watching!
@brianmarley3160 7 жыл бұрын
This made me feel the feels... Had to watch it twice, the second time not so blurry... damn tears!!
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Brian Marley awwww - thank you! 💗
@nicstar000 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your openness in sharing your story. I'm so glad you have such supportive friends and family, and a wonderful fulfilling life.
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
nicstarr_author I know how much it meant to me when I was going through it to hear stories about other people's experiences, so I am happy to share. Thanks so much for watching and for the nice comment! 💗
@cerisell1185 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I hope that one day, sexuality won't be an issue for anyone. Just from observing my teens and their friends, i can see that we're gradually getting there xx
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is awesome to see how open-minded so many young people are. I know that there are still a lot who struggle, but it feels like we are definitely moving in the right direction!
@kalyko713 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, Paul. Thank you for opening up about something so very important. The more that people who are "in"-whatever it is they're in, whether it's being gay or, as in my case, living with depression-realize there are others out there who know how they feel, who understand what they're going through / have gone through, the more power they feel in their own lives. Every story helps, and yours is wonderful.
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I agree with you that feeling alone can be one of the most difficult aspects of any kind of personal struggle.
@PaulinMass 7 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration and so refreshing! I love and admire everything you do because you bring so much joy to it. Oh and Gay.com was the grindr of the day LOL
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! And you're absolutely right about gay.com -- that's where Dennis and I met!
@paulwrightwa 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You always make me smile :)
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
My pleasure! I'm glad you enjoyed it! :)
@jefffreebern9953 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm always intrigued by everyone's coming out and how vastly different they are
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
My pleasure. I always love hearing these kinds of stories from other people too. Appreciate you watching!
@aslfdjalskjflkajs134 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Paul! :)
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Of course! It's my pleasure. Thank you so much for watching!
@Mausi-2000 7 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing your story. here is hoping that it helps many people who are coming to terms with their story, or learning about a friend or family member. 💗
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@johnhermiller9435 7 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you Paul Richmond. I am proud to know you.
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. That really means a lot to me!
@cristinasujoy 7 жыл бұрын
This was such a moving, wonderful video. Love you Pauly, I'm happy you're well and have the love and support of your family and friends. I know your life hasn't always been so good and I'm glad to see you happy and safe. Hugs.
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Cristina! Hugs!
@maymarsh7903 7 жыл бұрын
Sharing this with my 30 something friend who wants to come out but can't. Maybe hearing you speak as a happy man living his life will help him. Love your art and your advocacy Paul
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. And sending all my best wishes to your friend. I know what he is going through must be so difficult, but he is lucky to have a friend like you in his corner.
@rockkowgurl 7 жыл бұрын
I knew you were gay before I even really knew "gay" was a thing, and I hope that doesn't insult you. Being with you in art class and drama club and everything was always so much fun, and you were such an inspiration to me as a high school kid. When I found you on MySpace (I think?!) years ago and discovered that you'd come out and were a serious artist and so involved with the LGBT community, I felt so proud to know you. I think you're probably my most inspirational friend! 💕
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
OMG - that doesn't insult me at all! It took me a while to catch on (I mean I had a mural of Cher in my apartment when I was still "straight!"), but I can only imagine how obvious it must have been to other people around me. I'm so glad we reconnected on MySpace (wow!) and are still friends!
@TimeBunny 7 жыл бұрын
As a bisexual woman in an open relationship (with both a male and a female partners), I can relate to this on many levels. I don't really talk to anyone - besides friends - about my relationship status as I have had so much negativity in regards to it. All the "you obviously don't love your girlfriend" or "she's just using being in an open relationship to sleep around" etc. My parents sort of know some stuff but not everything as it's just not worth having to explain things, if that makes sense. The rest of my family don't have a clue and I'd rather it stay that way. Most of them are closet racists etc so it's not even worth my time telling them. So glad I found this video on the Small KZfaqrs Facebook group. I will definitely subscribe and I'll catch up with some of your videos tonight when I get home from work.
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
I can't understand why so many people feel the need to weigh in on someone else's life. How can anyone possibly presume to know what is going on in another person's head and what would be best for them? It took me long enough to sort things out for myself. Who am I to judge someone else? I think the further we move away from the black and white, clearly defined rules about sexuality and relationships that have been held up as the golden standard for generations, the more uncomfortable it may make some people. But that's the beauty of it -- nobody has to do anything they don't want to do. They just have to live and let live. And I do think there are more people in younger generations who are open minded about sexuality, gender, relationships, etc. and that we are moving in the right direction, but it does feel like such a slow process sometimes. Thanks so much for commenting and sharing your story.
@Tizitoboy. 7 жыл бұрын
Every coming out story has different endings, mine still being so sad, I had to leave my parent´s house because of my father´s homophofia, after 4 years he still thinking it´s a kind of ill. But I must confess that I´m happy now living with my husband
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear what a struggle you went through, but how inspiring that you made it to the other side and found a happy life for yourself. Thanks so much for sharing!
@LisaTAttentionIsArbitrary 7 жыл бұрын
I hope your effervescent spirit and lovely good nature is as inspirational to others as it is to me. Hah, and I'm a happily married straight woman ;) Sharing this with a friend who needs uplifting support during a tough homophobuc situation. I think this will help. Hugs
@PaulRichmondStudio 7 жыл бұрын
Lisa Arbitrary thank you so much! That means a lot to me. And sending hugs to your friend!
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