Me: *reads the title* Also (19yo) me: 'Damn, why wasn't that me..."

I bet that dude is blushing so hard right now. The way you described him was so cute

“We did a little cuddling” and then that face 😂😂I cant right now

As a 19 year old I’m so confused about how he didn’t know what that’s so raven is😂

Being 19 and watching this is very interesting to see the older persons perspective of dating.

You're practically a daddy Andrew!

I'm 18 and I've never been attracted to any guy older than me by like 5 years but I've watched 30 seconds of this and I already want a family with this man

I am 50, growing up we never had all that is available to the gay people today. You are so lucky to be young and to live in more accepting times.

Andrew’s innocent little face after he said “we did a little cuddling” has me 😍😍😍

no way ur almost 30 i thought u were early 20s wtf

This sounds like the cutest date ever. I’m 18 and I’ve never been on a date before, hopefully soon lol. People can be really small minded about this kinda stuff and it’s nice to hear that you got along with someone a lot younger than you. Loving your vids Andrew, keep it up :)

Is it weird that I find Andrew's voice and attitude soothing.

Age doesn't always represent ones life experience or maturity.

He didn’t know what That’s So Raven was??? Chile i’m getting old

Let’s be honest, this video should have been titled just “Frosted Brownie”

friends: what's your definition of "daddy" me: Andrew Neighbors. periodt.

“Because we all have needs”😅😳😂😂😂😂

Alternative title: My 19-year-old friend with benefits

Super cool. The age thing is a wake up for sure. As a gen Xer I’ve dated way younger and way older. Much of my gen was decimated in the AIDs crisis. It’s all about respect and chemistry. I’ve learned so much from all generations...

I’m in my 30’s and could not bring myself to date anyone younger than 25 - I guess that’s my filter haha. Good for you being open minded. Being younger doesn’t mean you haven’t been exposed to many different things is a great takeaway for me from this video. Glad you guys had fun!

He was 19 and didn’t know that’s so raven?? I’m 18 and That’s so raven was my entire existence as a child 😫

Hey Andrew I know this is off topic but I’m a 17 year old and I just came out recently and I wanna say ur one of the reasons why I came out and like I feel like I’m like I cause I’m a nerd and I’m Athletic and I’m like the first openly gay male athlete at my school and like I just wanna say thank you for being so inspiring.

When you said he was born in 2000, I just realized I'm 19 now.

So Andrew went out and had dessert with this guy... then went back home and had some more dessert 🎂😉😂

I'm currently 19 and I met a guy 2 months ago and he's 27, he's my first relationship and I'm so lucky that I found him, he makes me feel special and loved. He's the most beautiful human being in this world, I still remeber our first date meeting each other in person and we went to the beach to see the sunset, It was very romantic and I'll keep that memory inside of my hear forever.

Met my husband when I was 19, he was 29. It’s now 21 years later! Time flys. I think he had the same thoughts about getting serious with someone so young. Have fun. Stay safe.

I'm older.. and i had to really work on my brain to get that younger guys might legitimately want to be with me. I've discovered that age isn't just a number.. It's a mental barrier. Don't let it keep you from getting to know someone who may just be a better match than a guy in your age "bracket"

I genuinely appreciate your honesty and sincerity. It feels like you’re being completely authentic in your videos. It’s one of the most attractive things about you.

I’m 18, and I’ve been on a date with a 28,25, and 30 year old and they were all shocked at how I could hold a convo snd and my interests and especially my music knowledge I’m very cultured in music and movies, and that I didn’t just wanna hookup like most young guys I want something real, and being raised where I was always around older people helped a lot too.

Andrew you look way younger than 29 haha I would have never guessed!

Bro, I'm 17 and I've watched that's so Raven...😂

Having watched your videos for quite awhile, I'm always amazed at the great common sense commentary and advice you give! It makes your channel a very worthwhile one to watch.

"I watched that's so raven, he didn't know what that was" hold up what??? I'm younger than the dude and I remember watching it on disney channel (and also on youtube lmao) I recently had an underclassman tell me he didn't know kim possible. Stuff like that makes me hella disappointed

i’m 22 & i went on a date with a 32 yr old recently, it was honestly awesome!!! i think both of us learned a lot more than we thought we would!

I love how he just threw the “friend with benefits” in there thinking no one would catch it 🤣

The best 2 gay relationships I’ve seen were with an older man & a much younger guy. And in both cases, the younger guy was the more mature & introverted of the two, while the older guy was extremely extroverted, free-spirited, & open to new experiences. It’s just anecdotal, but their beautiful relationships have always stuck with me because they complemented each other so well. You didn’t think of one, without thinking of the other.

Thank you! I'm 31, last relationship was with a 21 year old and everyone thought it was so weird. It can be totally cool being with someone significantly older/younger

I'm so glad you had this experience and decided to share it with us. Thank you. I'll be 38 this year and I'm always feeling like I'm never going to find someone that'll be a good fit for me and be on my level. We all have walls, standards, limits that we put up on others and ourselves based on what society says is right and wrong. I guess I just have to take down my walls and as Olaf would say, "Some people are worth melting for!", allow my broken heart to melt and become vulnerable enough to receive love.

Thanks Andrew for your story. I'm currently in the same situation and was on the fence of dating a mature younger guy, but after hearing that 1 shouldn't exclude a particular group/person just based on age, I have decided to role the dice and ask this wonderful 19 year old young man out on a date. Thank you for teaching me some thing new today.

Thank you Andrew, I needed this video we are so full of stereotypes that we forget about the simple things that are amazing about life

Lol my mom overhearing this “what’s a frosted brownie Nvmd don’t tell me”

"....we all have needs...." most realistic thing everyone need to understand 😇

Great video Andrew. People should expand their horizons. My partner was 17 years younger than I and we got along great. Unfortunately he died in 1999 and here I am, still kicking.

It’s crazy the conversation you guys had about no expectations and you just enjoy being around each other is very similar to a friend i met at the beginning of the year. Him and I just enjoy each other’s company but we’re just at the point in our lives that a relationship isn’t an option. I hope y’all continue this friendship because I’ll be 100% they are rare. Too many guys are looking for either sex a long term deal that to have a friend like that is something to cherish.

I just turned 20, tiktok isn't for me either was hard enough to start using snapchat.

imagine going a date and the date does a whole video about you

Good for you!! A mind never stops learning how to open more. I am much older than you are now, but long ago, when I was 30, I met this "kid" who was 20, and to make a long story short, we ended up being together for 10 years. Nine and a half of them were glorious, and when the bitterness and hard feelings of the breakup dissipated in a year or so, we then became friends, which we are still to this day. Even now, younger people never cease to amaze me, which in turn I suppose prevents me from fossilizing too quickly...

“I’ve barely been single my whole life” Weird flex but okay.

i never imagined you’d date so young, but hi i’m 19 and i look like both of those boys let’s go on a date 😂.

How cute. Go you! It’s crazy where a little bit of open mindedness can take you, and how you view life. Love your story time vids👍🏼 and your just adorably cute.

You were so open, and I loved it in this upload.

Wow, Andrew, you are getting old !! :) Young guys can be a real inspiration, I´ve been dating younger guys as well. But not all of them are mature, it really depends. Thank you for sharing your experience!

I can’t believe how stressed everyone is about ‘That’s so Raven’ 😂

You are so genuine during these life updates & I love your facial expressions (and subtitles) Play safe Mr Neighbors 😏

always glad to hear that you are making and having new and wonderful experiences

As an 18 year old, Andrew is one of the reasons why I like older guys 😂 like 30 you say? 👀👀

Oh Andrew enough with this teasing, just marry me already 😙

Happy for you Andrew! Happy times ahead I hope 😊

I love the way you ended this story, gave me a good laugh lol

I do hope you're going to close the Ryan chapter with us, don't leave us hanging please and thank you. :)

You know, I am 19 and look younger, and I wouldn't mind dating you 😂 But the one thing that is not clear is : what's the issue if you were pleasantly surprised ? 10 years of difference is not that big of a deal...is it ?

You are such a beautiful human being, inside and out. You make me smile and laugh at your dad jokes.

Great video, Andrew 💕💕

5:56 "frosted brownie" mhm..

I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a date with someone, or even in a relationship, idk it feels kinda weird to me cuz I’m seeing people hanging out together and having a great time, maybe it’s just a question of time, who knows... Anyway, this video was lovely, hugs Andrew ❤️

Such a nice story, honestly you be surprised with whoever you date either they be young or older. Always try and if it doesn't feel like there's a connection then you leave it be.

I really like that you’re sharing this experience with us. As a society, the first thing we do is to jump into conclusions without knowing all the facts. We have to remember certain things. As a 19 year old myself, I can testify that age does not equal to maturity nor experience. A 20 yr old can have experienced a lot more than a 30 yr old and can also be more mature than people who are older. It’s not okay to generalize and define a group of people as immature individuals who can not decide what they want and can not control their emotions because everyone is unique. We just have to be open minded and life will surprise us the same way it surprised you. Wish you the best and thank you for sharing this!

He probably watching this video 🤭🤭🤭

I read the title and was like: *im also 19....why wasn't that me*

Andrew, I think this is such an important insight that you express here. I am much older than you [probably the age of your father], but have had excellent relationships with 30 year olds. If a person is open and loving, age truly is just a number. Thank you, bro, for this video.........excellent..........Ray

The comments he edited in are so great!!!!

19 means he was born in 2000. He's someone who grew up around social media and has had his life more documented online which also likely means he grew up exposed at an earlier age to more people of different backgrounds and experiences than anyone who was born a decade before him like Andrew. That explains the openness.

Aww I also wanna have open friendships/dates like that with someone 10 years older than me like u since I'm also 19 XD

Man that was a cute story. I always think your voice and your face is just SO Gorgeous! This is like my first comment after subscribing months ago LOL you're awesome and keep it up man! ♡♡

This is awesome, Andrew

Wait he's 29 he looks way younger.

I’m almost 19, and I’m always really worried about starting to date other men. Especially in the city I’m in, which is famous for its gay male community. I’m also trans, and we get excluded a lot. But I tend to be more attracted towards people older than me, since I kinda consider myself to be an old soul, and I like the idea of dating someone that I could learn from, and share our experiences with each other. I’m always just worried about being seen as this naive little kid who doesn’t know anything.

This date sounds so cute i am glad you had a good time!! Great video

lol just hearing you say, and knowing someone like you actually has insecurities is refreshing. Not that I could understand it, but hearing you say that def made me think. Thanks for sharing!

As a 19 year old who does this I’m looking forward to your perspective.

YOU'RE 29!!!😱 Didn't expect that!😂 Oooh love watching your video's!😍 You're a huge inspiration!💙💙💙

Thanks for sharing with us!!!

That's so cool. It's awesome that you had this good experience.. you are actually never stoping to learn :)

Imagine not knowing what “That’s so Raven” is

Young guys are fun, sexually they’re eager and outside of bed they’re adventurous and exciting. It’s keeps you busy.

I'm 21 and I just started dating a 27 yr old and it's going really well!

Hey Andrew, So true this story. I also met somebody who is 12 years younger. You are the same age in the video as he is now. But we connect soooo well. Due to corona and me looking for a house, I moved in with him and we just don't want to be apart anymore. It's all about the right connection and how people are raised. Love to listen to your stories and see how similar some adventures are. Keep doing what you are doing. ;)

Also 29, threading the needle between "being open to a cute younger guy" and "okay but will he get my Spongebob jokes"

I’m 20 and am definitely no where near that guy 😂 never even had a boyfriend lmao

Dude just the “friends... 😉 with benefits” like I died

Your video is very refreshing right now 🌈

Friends with benefits NEVER works. Might work for a while but it never works out in the end lmao.

We all know what "cuddling" leads to :P

love your openness. thx for sharing

Being 20, now, I have had a lot of experiences getting to know older guys (late 20's and early 30's) and they have describe the same sort of situation that you did in this video. I feel like due to SOME places being more progressive, many younger gay/bi men are getting those experiences that in past generations weren't possible due to less acceptance. It's a very interesting phenomenon that I've been experiencing since I was 16.

UPDATE, PLEASE. WE WANT TO LEARN WHAT HAPPENED IN THE MONTHS FOLLOWING.

When I was 18, I dated a guy 12 yrs older than me. He was an amazing guy. But he had a kid. We went out on a couple of dates but him having a child really killed it for me. He wanted me to meet his son and I had to tell him this was not gonna work out. Also what's your ranking in league? Can I get your username? Would like to play. Start a gay youtubers team lol

Excellent video content 👍

Age is just a number. Life experience is what makes all the difference and where a person’s head is at. ❤️ the video Andrew 👍🏻

I love this story. Dude. I love how you communicate and your facial expressions. Way cute. Love it. ❤